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(Mirror.co.uk)   Dear Coleen: I'm married and have great sex life with husband - but I can't stop sleeping with other men   ( mirror.co.uk) divider line
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2018-02-05 01:52:11 PM  
EIP
 
2018-02-05 02:06:19 PM  
Dear Slut,
You're a slut.
Yours in sluthood, Colleen.
 
2018-02-05 02:11:15 PM  
Pics.
 
2018-02-05 02:11:48 PM  
I'd be happy to help you with this problem, when can you come over?
 
2018-02-05 02:13:58 PM  
Somehow going to a meeting for sexaholics doesn't sound like a good idea...a group of people addicted to sex in a room full of people that put out easily.  Sounds like a recipe for disaster.
 
2018-02-05 02:14:13 PM  
"We've been together for three years and have been married for eight months."

"I have lots of opportunities because he's often away with work for several days at a time."

"It'll only be a matter of time before he finds out."


If he reads METRO, then he's already found out.
 
2018-02-05 02:15:12 PM  

captainstudd: Somehow going to a meeting for sexaholics doesn't sound like a good idea...a group of people addicted to sex in a room full of people that put out easily.  Sounds like an ideal recipe for disaster.


/FTFY
//Just take your antibiotics afterwards
///or use protection
////both?
 
2018-02-05 02:16:16 PM  
Look, I have no problem with people, men, women, whatever, having lots of sex with lots of different people.

But be true to the person you are with.  If you do not wish to be monogamous, then don't pretend to be in a monogamous relationship.  And don't keep stringing your husband along.

On the other hand, if he's fine with this, there is no problem at all.  Maybe you should ask your husband rather than the internet.
 
2018-02-05 02:18:46 PM  

captainstudd: Somehow going to a meeting for sexaholics doesn't sound like a good idea...a group of people addicted to sex in a room full of people that put out easily.  Sounds like a recipe for disaster.


I've seen that video.
 
2018-02-05 02:19:17 PM  
Did they accidentally the whole thing as well?
 
2018-02-05 02:19:26 PM  
Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.
 
2018-02-05 02:24:28 PM  
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2018-02-05 02:29:13 PM  

snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.


It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.
 
2018-02-05 02:37:46 PM  
How YOU doin'....
 
2018-02-05 02:48:02 PM  

realmolo: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.


I dated a guy for many years. Open relationship. I definitely scored more than he did, but it was all good.
 
2018-02-05 03:01:34 PM  

Grumpy Cat: realmolo: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.

I dated a guy for many years. Open relationship. I definitely scored more than he did, but it was all good.



Maybe it's because I work in a machine shop with 20 other guys, and we have little or no contact with women in this business. But still, my other buddies who work in offices don't have these stories about women seeking out affairs with their co-workers. It's definitely not happening with us.
 
2018-02-05 03:05:14 PM  

snowybunting: Grumpy Cat: realmolo: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.

I dated a guy for many years. Open relationship. I definitely scored more than he did, but it was all good.


Maybe it's because I work in a machine shop with 20 other guys, and we have little or no contact with women in this business. But still, my other buddies who work in offices don't have these stories about women seeking out affairs with their co-workers. It's definitely not happening with us.


Nobody said anything about co-workers.

Do not sleep with co-workers. Ever. Even when it seems like it will be fine. Don't do it. Unless you are married to them.

/nobody listens to this advice, ever
 
2018-02-05 03:06:11 PM  
Switch over to women.  Bring them home.
 
2018-02-05 03:09:39 PM  
My sex life with wife would be great too, if she let me sleep around.
 
2018-02-05 03:48:41 PM  

realmolo: snowybunting: Grumpy Cat: realmolo: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.

I dated a guy for many years. Open relationship. I definitely scored more than he did, but it was all good.


Maybe it's because I work in a machine shop with 20 other guys, and we have little or no contact with women in this business. But still, my other buddies who work in offices don't have these stories about women seeking out affairs with their co-workers. It's definitely not happening with us.

Nobody said anything about co-workers.

Do not sleep with co-workers. Ever. Even when it seems like it will be fine. Don't do it. Unless you are married to them.

/nobody listens to this advice, ever


Yes, I've heard that a million times as well. I meant that since there's only us guys at the shop, we don't get to hear stories about people having affairs too much, and that women who want to have an affair (or who like to have sex) are like unicorns to us.
 
2018-02-05 04:25:36 PM  
TO WHORES!!!

WHORES!!!
 
2018-02-05 04:49:49 PM  
Your body, your choice. Just be a decent human being and communicate your situation with your husband. If he's cool with it, fine. If not, then end the relationship like an adult.

/an advice columnist on the internet is not handling things like an adult
 
2018-02-05 04:53:07 PM  
I've met those women, they're fun.
 
2018-02-05 05:12:51 PM  

snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.


They are real.
 
2018-02-05 05:14:08 PM  
Sleep all you want. Just don't have sex with them, whore.
 
2018-02-05 05:17:07 PM  
Pleased to meet you, I'm Bucky Goldstein.
 
2018-02-05 06:02:24 PM  

snowybunting: Yes, I've heard that a million times as well. I meant that since there's only us guys at the shop, we don't get to hear stories about people having affairs too much, and that women who want to have an affair (or who like to have sex) are like unicorns to us.


Ya know, statistically you prob. have enough dudes there for affairs amongst co-workers to be theoretically possible, at least as far as sexual orientation goes.

/doesn't mean there is
//but it does mean it's certainly not entirely unlikely
///enjoy that thought the next time you go into work
 
2018-02-05 06:10:30 PM  

H31N0US: TO WHORES!!!

WHORES!!!


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2018-02-05 06:21:46 PM  

snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.


My best friend's wife, her three friends... all married and were having affairs.  One told me the old line 'the marriage is basically over anyway...' line and I asked, 'Does your husband know that?'
 
2018-02-05 06:22:58 PM  

Fano: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

They are real.


I'm guessing it's one of those things that if you are in the sort of social circles where women who want affairs are commonplace, you think it's happening everywhere. In certain industries, for example I think of film, stage, music, showbiz in general, no one seems to be able to keep their bits in their pants ever. Alternatively, if you move in different social circles, people might be a little less needy and attention seeking and you might never encounter one, so they do become mythical. *shrugs* They obviously exist, but they may also be not as common as some people might think either.
 
2018-02-05 07:17:10 PM  

Nidiot: Fano: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

They are real.

I'm guessing it's one of those things that if you are in the sort of social circles where women who want affairs are commonplace, you think it's happening everywhere. In certain industries, for example I think of film, stage, music, showbiz in general, no one seems to be able to keep their bits in their pants ever. Alternatively, if you move in different social circles, people might be a little less needy and attention seeking and you might never encounter one, so they do become mythical. *shrugs* They obviously exist, but they may also be not as common as some people might think either.


You mean like a catered thing?
 
2018-02-05 10:18:28 PM  

weddingsinger: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

My best friend's wife, her three friends... all married and were having affairs.  One told me the old line 'the marriage is basically over anyway...' line and I asked, 'Does your husband know that?'


One of my wife's coworkers (this was a few years back) decided she wanted to have an affair because she had several friends who were having them. It sounded fun and exotic. So she started banging some guy.

Oh, did I mention her husband was going through a serious bout with cancer at the time? Yeah, this woman was as self-absorbed as they came.

Even her own family was outright pissed at her. I imagine her kids will have nothing but contempt for her once they are old enough to understand what she did (they may well be, now). Eventually she was shocked, SHOCKED when her boy toy (who was probably 12-15 years younger than her) finally tired of her. She couldn't grasp that she was just a piece of tail to him... and not even that high end a piece. Just an easy one.
 
2018-02-05 10:29:27 PM  
Some people like the security of marriage. They know husband is where they put him, and when they go back in a few hours life continues as it did before.

Affairs are like a dietary supplement. You need something, you go and find it. Men are more likely to use porn, whereas woman need dick to feel good. They need that boost intercourse gives them.
 
2018-02-06 12:01:55 AM  

snowybunting: Grumpy Cat: realmolo: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.

I dated a guy for many years. Open relationship. I definitely scored more than he did, but it was all good.


Maybe it's because I work in a machine shop with 20 other guys, and we have little or no contact with women in this business. But still, my other buddies who work in offices don't have these stories about women seeking out affairs with their co-workers. It's definitely not happening with us.


Lol nobody with half a brain wants to fark a co-worker. Think about it.
 
2018-02-06 12:03:19 AM  

realmolo: snowybunting: Grumpy Cat: realmolo: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.

I dated a guy for many years. Open relationship. I definitely scored more than he did, but it was all good.


Maybe it's because I work in a machine shop with 20 other guys, and we have little or no contact with women in this business. But still, my other buddies who work in offices don't have these stories about women seeking out affairs with their co-workers. It's definitely not happening with us.

Nobody said anything about co-workers.

Do not sleep with co-workers. Ever. Even when it seems like it will be fine. Don't do it. Unless you are married to them.

/nobody listens to this advice, ever


See? This is how smart people handle relationships with co-workers. Never ever EVER.
NOT EVEN ONCE.
 
2018-02-06 12:06:26 AM  

H31N0US: TO WHORES!!!

WHORES!!!


You are confused.
A whore is a woman who respects her pussy enough to make men pay for it.
Sluts give it away.
 
2018-02-06 12:08:36 AM  

John Buck 41: Sleep all you want. Just don't have sex with them, whore.


Where in the story did it imply tjat this woman values her sexuality enough to make men pay to fark her?
Nowhere.
 
2018-02-06 12:16:11 AM  

mrparks: Some people like the security of marriage. They know husband is where they put him, and when they go back in a few hours life continues as it did before.

Affairs are like a dietary supplement. You need something, you go and find it. Men are more likely to use porn, whereas woman need dick to feel good. They need that boost intercourse gives them.


If that were true, women would be paying for sex in equal or greater numbers than men. Yet the overwhelming majority of people paying for sex are men.

Do the math, genius.
 
2018-02-06 05:11:48 AM  

rustyfark: mrparks: Some people like the security of marriage. They know husband is where they put him, and when they go back in a few hours life continues as it did before.

Affairs are like a dietary supplement. You need something, you go and find it. Men are more likely to use porn, whereas woman need dick to feel good. They need that boost intercourse gives them.

If that were true, women would be paying for sex in equal or greater numbers than men. Yet the overwhelming majority of people paying for sex are men.

Do the math, genius.


There most definitely are more men desiring no strings sex than there are women looking for the same thing.

If the fact that sex workers tend to service men so much more than women isn't enough proof, just remember the whole Ashley Maddison scandal. Turned out that site contained a whole lot of men, and practically the only women there were in fact actual prostitutes.
 
2018-02-06 08:44:53 AM  

rustyfark: John Buck 41: Sleep all you want. Just don't have sex with them, whore.

Where in the story did it imply tjat this woman values her sexuality enough to make men pay to fark her?
Nowhere.


Ok, Mr. Pedant. Substitute 'slut' for 'whore'. All better now?

//context, man. Understand it.
 
2018-02-06 10:42:59 AM  

snowybunting: Grumpy Cat: realmolo: snowybunting: Women who want to have affairs only exist in fantasy stories on the internet. That's been my experience anyway.

It has?

My experience is the opposite. All the people I know that have had affairs have been women.

An attractive woman can get laid basically *at will*. They have TONS of opportunities. A good friend of mine was in an open marriage, and she was picking up new partners every week, initially. And had a few "boyfriends" that were longer-term partners.

Her husband did okay, but nowhere near those numbers. He didn't mind, though.

I dated a guy for many years. Open relationship. I definitely scored more than he did, but it was all good.


Maybe it's because I work in a machine shop with 20 other guys, and we have little or no contact with women in this business. But still, my other buddies who work in offices don't have these stories about women seeking out affairs with their co-workers. It's definitely not happening with us.


offices are hotbeds for affairs, you dont hear about it because it isnt happening to you but it happens a ton, the managers often have to handle situations where ex-affairs turn sour
 
2018-02-06 04:20:34 PM  

rustyfark: mrparks: Some people like the security of marriage. They know husband is where they put him, and when they go back in a few hours life continues as it did before.

Affairs are like a dietary supplement. You need something, you go and find it. Men are more likely to use porn, whereas woman need dick to feel good. They need that boost intercourse gives them.

If that were true, women would be paying for sex in equal or greater numbers than men. Yet the overwhelming majority of people paying for sex are men.

Do the math, genius.


They don't need to pay for it, they just need to talk to a man or two and they'll find one willing.
 
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