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(Jezebel)   Study reveals teen girls feel immense pressure to text nude photos. "I sent my boyfriend a naked pic after he insisted and was going to break up with me. Now he is threatening to send it to everyone if I don't have sex with him, I'm only 15"   ( jezebel.com) divider line
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2018-01-02 05:30:41 PM  
Well, no, I didn't read the farking article.

It's about slut shaming. It's about tormenting children for making stupid farking mistakes. And if the law gets involved, they will make being a victim into the same as being a criminal, too.

in other words, if she turns 18, and send naked pics to a 17 year old, then the pigs will pay more attention to her than to someone who would rape a five year old.

they are both 'criminals' in the eyes of the law, you see.

So the girl once she shows her naked self..is the one in the wrong. no matter what.

but those who abuse her..the entire farking culture that abuses her..well, she better just get used to it, right?

the world sucks. the world is evil.

no one cares, i know.
 
2018-01-02 05:32:37 PM  
yeah, I was read. slut shaming. from the article:

studies have found that boys are nearly four times more likely to pressure girls into sending sexts or nude photos. But putting an end to nude photos being sent at all, which can legally constitute as child porn depending on your state, is a pressure placed too often on the girls rather than nagging boys. Thomas tells the paper that just telling teen girls to not send the photos "ignores the complicated tensions they are negotiating on a regular basis."
"Young women's attempts to negotiate coercive situations on their own suggest that young women feel it is their burden to manage situations. This is a logical extension of policy makers, educators, and parents routinely holding young women as more responsible for sexual decision-making (particularly in the form of upholding abstinence)," Thomas writes in the study. "This study indicates that these messages have been internalized such that young men are not being held responsible for gaining consent or respecting the boundaries of their partners."
 
2018-01-02 05:32:55 PM  
1. Text him the naked pics
2. Report him to the police for possession of kiddie porn
3. ???
4. Profit
 
2018-01-02 05:53:44 PM  

Eddie Adams from Torrance: 1. Text him the naked pics
2. Report him to the police for possession of kiddie porn
3. ???
4. Profit


Get arrested for sending kiddie porn.
 
2018-01-02 05:56:42 PM  

BizarreMan: Eddie Adams from Torrance: 1. Text him the naked pics
2. Report him to the police for possession of kiddie porn
3. ???
4. Profit

Get arrested for sending kiddie porn.


Not just sending, but creating.
 
2018-01-02 06:04:05 PM  
15" is an incredibly tiny person.
 
2018-01-02 06:20:14 PM  

sinko swimo: 15" is an incredibly tiny person.


Oh you've met little Gubbo I see.

/sorry couldn't help it
 
2018-01-02 06:53:06 PM  
I remember the shy farm boys from grade school, before internet, before mobile phones, when even cable television was an emerging luxury. They were so sweet, could barely talk to a girl, blushed easily.

Fear of bringing shame to your family apparently stopped being a thing since then.
To steal a joke... this is God's way, of making it easier for me to die.
 
2018-01-02 08:06:02 PM  

sinko swimo: 15" is an incredibly tiny person.


Sorry, the genie was a bit hard of hearing, but she's a really talented pianist
 
2018-01-02 08:14:36 PM  
EIP.
 
2018-01-02 08:15:18 PM  
Teenagers are horny, news at 11.  It used to be finding a place to park where the cops or other people wouldn't find you, or a friends house who had parents who worked late or were out of town, now it's all social media and sexting.

I don't know if that's a positive development, it's probably at least in part responsible for the drop in teen pregnancies, but it leaves a digital record that can haunt the participants later.
 
2018-01-02 08:15:28 PM  
Ya, know. If you're legal, that is.
 
2018-01-02 08:48:34 PM  
Well the same happens to 30 yo folks
 
2018-01-02 08:50:45 PM  

Feral Cat With Scissors: I remember the shy farm boys from grade school, before internet, before mobile phones, when even cable television was an emerging luxury. They were so sweet, could barely talk to a girl, blushed easily.

Fear of bringing shame to your family apparently stopped being a thing since then.
To steal a joke... this is God's way, of making it easier for me to die.


So shy around girls they all wound up pregnant and married by the end of high school, often with the bride's father and his shotgun standing in as Best Man.

Things are done differently in the countryside, but they're still done, and often.
 
2018-01-02 08:50:59 PM  
I'm old but my cousin told me girls at his school sold nudes for money. No I'm not trying to slut shame and detract from this story but it just made me sit back and realize for a moment how farking weird the whole concept is.
 
2018-01-02 08:52:39 PM  
Exchanged pics with my HS g/f...this was when digital cameras were new.  Of course before then, there were polaroids.  So this has been around for awhile.  Never threatened revenge porn - fark those guys.  As embarrassing as it might be, need to get someone involved and intervene.  And if they're an adult, prosecute.
 
2018-01-02 08:54:08 PM  

sinko swimo: 15" is an incredibly tiny person.


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2018-01-02 08:55:36 PM  
I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.
 
2018-01-02 08:56:11 PM  
If i had a daughter, i would tell them that if their boyfriend wanted nudes, to break up with them.

I would also report the texts asking for nudes to the school and the police, maybe even the boys parents.
 
2018-01-02 08:56:52 PM  

sinko swimo: 15" is an incredibly tiny person.


Size queen like typing detected.
 
2018-01-02 08:57:06 PM  

Xetal: I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.


The new stigma will be nothaving nudes.
 
2018-01-02 08:57:09 PM  
I don't like victim blaming...but it's your own damn fault you got naked on camera.

That's why I pee in the backyard and not the front when I'm outside and too lazy to go indoors.  Peeing in the front yard makes me a sex offender.  Peeing in the backyard makes me weird.

I never noticed this, but why is 'backyard' written as one word and 'front yard' written as two?  Seems unnecessarily complicated.
 
2018-01-02 08:58:44 PM  
Im ok with this..
 
2018-01-02 08:59:01 PM  
Yeah. Raise better sons, you stupid, breeding assholes.

Every kid you heard about like this didn't have parents.
He had a sperm donor and a babby booth squirt him out.
But no one parented him.

Teach your children well.
 
2018-01-02 08:59:13 PM  
Why send pix of yourself.  A Google search of just "boobs" would come in handy.
Then when he threatened to tell others you can just point to the watermark.
 
2018-01-02 09:01:53 PM  
She should go on tour.

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2018-01-02 09:02:03 PM  
She has sent child porn he has requested and received it. He has also blackmailed her. so a couple of felonies to tell the cops.
 
2018-01-02 09:02:29 PM  

TheDirtyNacho: Exchanged pics with my HS g/f...this was when digital cameras were new.  Of course before then, there were polaroids.  So this has been around for awhile.  Never threatened revenge porn - fark those guys.  As embarrassing as it might be, need to get someone involved and intervene.  And if they're an adult, prosecute.


FTFY
 
2018-01-02 09:03:31 PM  
Since it's Jezebel, I'm gonna assume that the girls have no agency and can't choose to date boys who don't ask for shiatty stuff in return.

[reads article and its comments]

welp that was predictable
 
2018-01-02 09:05:24 PM  
based on the lack of nude teen girls in the article Im going to say this is fake news
 
2018-01-02 09:06:58 PM  

doglover: Xetal: I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.

The new stigma will be not having nudes.


img.fark.netView Full Size


Welcome to the new world order.
 
2018-01-02 09:07:47 PM  

scalpod: doglover: Xetal: I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.

The new stigma will be not having nudes.

[img.fark.net image 425x425]

Welcome to the new world order.


Excuse me, but blue and yellow should make green.
 
2018-01-02 09:08:19 PM  
Still waiting for BIE.....
 
2018-01-02 09:09:48 PM  

scalpod: doglover: Xetal: I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.

The new stigma will be not having nudes.

[img.fark.net image 425x425]

Welcome to the new world order.


Oh please, like anyone can pee enough to cut through the chlorine.

I'd almost rather swim in straight urine. Urea is in a lot of skin care products.  Chlorine, OTOH, is in a lot of obituaries.
 
2018-01-02 09:10:26 PM  
Roy Moore will volunteer to hold these photos in escrow for the young women.
 
2018-01-02 09:12:52 PM  

kelrick: She has sent child porn he has requested and received it. He has also blackmailed her. so a couple of felonies to tell the cops.


Except... she produced it.

The laws around underage selfies are weird. Laws didn't contemplate this.
 
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2018-01-02 09:12:57 PM  
But when I send naked pics to teen girls I also get in trouble? Double standard much?
 
2018-01-02 09:16:30 PM  
No. The only "immense pressure" any kid of mine - daughter or son - should be concerned with is the pressure of my foot in their ass.
We explored our sexuality when we were teenagers too, but not to the point of stupid. Sending naked pictures to other people is beyond that point.
 
2018-01-02 09:18:24 PM  

doglover: scalpod: doglover: Xetal: I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.

The new stigma will be not having nudes.

[img.fark.net image 425x425]

Welcome to the new world order.

Oh please, like anyone can pee enough to cut through the chlorine.

I'd almost rather swim in straight urine. Urea is in a lot of skin care products.  Chlorine, OTOH, is in a lot of obituaries.


Have you ever swum through gay urine? It's RAINBOW colored.

Also

/Tiwwop
 
2018-01-02 09:18:24 PM  

gameshowhost: Since it's Jezebel, I'm gonna assume that the girls have no agency and can't choose to date boys who don't ask for shiatty stuff in return.

[reads article and its comments]

welp that was predictable


OK, Roy Moore. You go with that.
 
2018-01-02 09:19:07 PM  

kelrick: She has sent child porn he has requested and received it. He has also blackmailed her. so a couple of felonies to tell the cops.


Girl: "Okay, okay. My parents are going out tomorrow evening, come over at 7, bring the phone -- I want to see you delete the image first."

("boy" "friend" comes over, house is dark)

(door opens)

Girl: "Quick, before anyone sees you. You have the phone?"

Boy: (comes in, holds up phone)

Father: (grabs boy's arms from behind)

Mother: (turns on lights, comes and gets phone, dials police)

...or something like that...
 
2018-01-02 09:20:55 PM  
Tell me how chicks are as strong as dudes?

Either they can say "fark off, weirdo", or they are weak and fulfill stereotypes.
 
2018-01-02 09:23:23 PM  
And one more thing- "This study indicates that these messages have been internalized such that young men are not being held responsible for gaining consent or respecting the boundaries of their partners."

Uh, this is your body. It's not up to your partner to give or withhold consent. That's your job. The other person's job is to respect and abide by your decision, whatever that might be. "Young men" don't need to be "responsible" for your decision, they just need their asses kicked when they decide otherwise.
 
2018-01-02 09:23:33 PM  

WienerButt: I'm old but my cousin told me girls at his school sold nudes for money.


Your cousin was bullshiatting you.
 
2018-01-02 09:25:27 PM  

TuteTibiImperes: Teenagers are horny, news at 11.  It used to be finding a place to park where the cops or other people wouldn't find you, or a friends house who had parents who worked late or were out of town, now it's all social media and sexting.

I don't know if that's a positive development, it's probably at least in part responsible for the drop in teen pregnancies, but it leaves a digital record that can haunt the participants later.


Raise your hand if you've had sex in every vehicle you have ever owned.

That Ford EXP was a logistical nightmare.
 
2018-01-02 09:26:46 PM  

doglover: scalpod: doglover: Xetal: I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.

The new stigma will be not having nudes.

[img.fark.net image 425x425]

Welcome to the new world order.

Oh please, like anyone can pee enough to cut through the chlorine.

I'd almost rather swim in straight urine. Urea is in a lot of skin care products.  Chlorine, OTOH, is in a lot of obituaries.


Well, mostly I'm just glad you guys all got the point...

Phew!
 
2018-01-02 09:26:47 PM  
Back in my day, we used etch a sketchs
 
2018-01-02 09:26:53 PM  
Tell him to go ahead and send them. Let him know if he does he'll be branded a sex predator his whole life and add blackmail, he's done.
 
2018-01-02 09:26:57 PM  

rewind2846: No. The only "immense pressure" any kid of mine - daughter or son - should be concerned with is the pressure of my foot in their ass.
We explored our sexuality when we were teenagers too, but not to the point of stupid. Sending naked pictures to other people is beyond that point.


It's a different world now.  When I was in HS cell phones were just starting to become mainstream, a lot of people had them, but you were't a pariah if you didn't, and most didn't have cameras.   Social Media wasn't really a thing, I mean, there was AIM and Yahoo Messenger, and if you really wanted to you could make an Angelfire or Geocities page, but most didn't.   There were digital cameras, but nothing nearly as user-friendly as modern cellphones, and you had to take the photos, download them to your PC, then attach them to e-mail, etc, to send them, leaving plenty of time to rethink your actions.

Technology today has made it very easy to make stupid decisions that can't be erased, and for the evidence to be spread throughout your peer group nearly instantly.
 
2018-01-02 09:29:24 PM  

doglover: scalpod: doglover: Xetal: I wonder if in 20 more years there will be less stigma attached to having naked pics of you put there, based solely on the fact that so many people have pics of them naked out there.

The new stigma will be not having nudes.

[img.fark.net image 425x425]

Welcome to the new world order.

Oh please, like anyone can pee enough to cut through the chlorine.

I'd almost rather swim in straight urine. Urea is in a lot of skin care products.  Chlorine, OTOH, is in a lot of obituaries.


Well, Diesel Exhaust Fluid is only about 1/3 urea and 2/3 distilled water, so I'm guessing you'd have no problem bathing in the stuff. No one would speak to you afterward, but I'm sure you'd be perfectly safe.
 
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