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(SeattlePI)   UC sex column writer panned - "She's not a journalist, she's an exhibitionist"   ( seattlepi.com) divider line
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2012-12-20 06:44:27 PM  
4 votes:
If a guy wrote a column in the Daily Cal about wanking in the stacks, I doubt he would get the approval of many of the you go grrl types.
If a guy wrote a column in the Daily Cal about taking girls into the stacks to screw, I doubt he would get the approval of many of the you go grrl types.

If a guy wrote a column in the Daily Cal about heterosexual sex advice, I doubt he would get the approval of many of the you go grrl types, and probably not even get a column in the Daily Cal.
But if you're a young attractive woman, well then you go grrl. It's all about empowerment and sticking it to the patriarchy, and not about our own voyeurism, and anything you do or write about is feminitastic.
2012-12-20 06:40:11 PM  
4 votes:
It became a big thing, I think, because of her takedown by a UC Librarian basically telling her how rude and shallow and not unique it is to fark in the library.
The other comments, many left by UC students at Berkeley to her, make the case her column is mostly about herself.
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2012-12-20 05:08:37 PM  
4 votes:
True of most sex columnists - especially ones in school newspapers.
2012-12-20 05:41:16 PM  
3 votes:

ringersol: So what you're telling me is the DailyCal has an audience of AARP members?

Because no-one under 60 is thinking these things. shiat, no-one under 60 can likely *remember* journalism before it embraced the self-aggrandizing subjective viewpoint. From which Cho's exhibitionism is all but expected. And that last complaint is just some crusty old fuddy-duddy who'd rather pretend no-one has any genitals and they certainly don't go about madly mashing them together everywhere and all the goddamned time.

I applaud the sexually adventurous. I loathe attention whores.

And call me crazy, but a sex columnist should probably educate about sex rather than just putting her sexual history on display. There is plenty of time to do that at the bar.
ZAZ [TotalFark]
2012-12-20 05:11:46 PM  
3 votes:
She's not a journalist

Did she act like she thought she was a journalist? I figured she knew she was basically blogger / columnist / attention whore.
2012-12-20 11:22:02 PM  
2 votes:
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2012-12-20 05:47:14 PM  
2 votes:
In other news she is not returning any of your emails containing (what else) pictures of your genitals.
2012-12-20 05:34:14 PM  
2 votes:
She's good looking so she isn't a sex offender for doing this, right?
2012-12-20 05:24:44 PM  
2 votes:
I'll give her this, She's definitely easier on the eyes than these 'sexperts'
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2012-12-20 05:15:18 PM  
2 votes:
...vapid, sure.
2012-12-20 06:58:00 PM  
1 vote:

ZAZ: She's not a journalist

Did she act like she thought she was a journalist? I figured she knew she was basically blogger / columnist / attention whore.

Over in 3. Capitalizing on late 20th century mainstream feminism and early 21st century sinophilia.and claiming to be "of color" = AW.
2012-12-20 06:11:15 PM  
1 vote:

JorgiX: Not to be all studman69 or anything, but I talk to her on a kind of frequent basis and she is most definitely not hot. Not bad looking, but not hot. She is just a normal hipster chick who happens to be open about her sexuality and is open to trying new things. I'm pretty sure she is not the only person that has done naughty things on the stacks, yet she is the one that talks about it and gets all the shiat. Breaking news: girls like sex too.

Also, it's pretty sad to see that 99% of the backlash from her column (which has been surprisingly overwhelming) has been from girls/women labeling her with the usual bs names. It's sad to see how women themselves are the ones enforcing certain social norms that they complain about all the time. Guys obviously wouldn't complain but they could respond negatively by harassing her or shiat like that, which luckily hasn't really happened.

/pardon the generalization with the use of term "women", it's just for the sake of argument.

People find it frustrating and stressful to hear about her exploits. I mean those words in both ways, like how stress can bring you to better yourself or participate in something new, or make you uncomfortable and illogically driven to categorize, control, or dismiss.

I think the difference between exhibitionism and erotica is judgement. By exhibiting sex, you're saying "I'm doing this, I'm judging those who aren't because you should." With erotica, you create something that you might not have done fully or at all and presenting it objectively, for people to read what they want into it.
I believe that journalism should be driven by curiosity, not judgement. She's not a journalist.
2012-12-20 06:10:31 PM  
1 vote:
she's an exhibitionist
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2012-12-20 05:36:48 PM  
1 vote:
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2012-12-20 05:36:36 PM  
1 vote:
FTFA: She sought to have loud sex in a variety of haunts, from the library's European Union section to the classrooms of Moffitt and Wurster - which "gives you an idea of how fantastic it would be if your hot (graduate student instructor) pounded you on the front desk every time you forgot to turn in a homework assignment."

How many weeks does she have for this project? I'm old, so sex once a week or so does me just fine.
2012-12-20 05:35:40 PM  
1 vote:

hdhale: ArtosRC: I would so disappoint her.

It's not whether or not you were her rock star, it's the fact that you even got to perform in the concert that is most important.

2012-12-20 05:28:42 PM  
1 vote:
Nadia's had a major makeover since her first 5 minutes of fame. Her file photos were serious double bagger material.
2012-12-20 05:22:14 PM  
1 vote:
There seems to be a period of 5 years or so where everyone thinks they are the edgiest people in history.
2012-12-20 05:14:44 PM  
1 vote:
Hmm...in the stacks is pretty bold, I generally stuck to the study rooms and supply closets. Day before Thanksgiving however I can confirm would be a perfect time to go for it in the stacks a large academic library (honestly you'd probably get a golf clap from the staff when you finished if you were caught...ok, I would have golf clapped, I worked in academic libraries for a number of years).

/yes, I would hit that
//actually, she reminds me of a gal I had a few trysts with...but not in the library, well once ok?
2012-12-20 05:12:22 PM  
1 vote:
Is it wrong to think about dipping your quill in the ole ink jar ?
2012-12-20 05:11:49 PM  
1 vote:
I'd scour her card catalog any day of the week.
2012-12-20 05:10:22 PM  
1 vote:
Really? They are making a big deal about sex in the library?
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