phrenicmonkey: Way to tough it out, you two. Couldn't figure this shiat out before you hooked up?
spammuncher: Hey dude, she doesn't want to have kids with you. Looks like you are the seat warmer of her early twenties. You had a run of five years with her and now she has a convenient excuse to dump your ass. I'm sick of guys crying because their wives/girlfriends don't want to have kids. It's simple, find a normal girl that wants the experience of having a family, not the hipster chick that you met at the performance space. There are plenty of women who still want to have a family. They may not share your taste in music/food/clothing, but will be a great wife and mother./It's also a good idea to have a career.//Chances are her next boyfriend may have a bit more going on and she'll happily commit to having a family.
Ral: It's easy for men to want kids. I understand why some women would not. The woman is the one who has to carry them for 9 months, give birth to them, feed them, raise them, discipline them -- basically all the hard work. Dad just comes home and hugs and plays with them. He gets to enjoy them but doesn't have to deal with them when they're hungry, screaming, breaking things, tormenting the pets, lying, fighting, or anything else. When that starts, he just hands them to mom.Can you blame women for not wanting to have them?
phrenicmonkey: CapeFearCadaver: phrenicmonkey: Way to tough it out, you two. Couldn't figure this shiat out before you hooked up?They were together for 5 years... I dated a guy for five years when we were both in our mid-twenties. I always knew I wanted kids eventually but I also knew I certainly wasn't ready for that yet. He, on the other hand, really had no interest in having kids but had stated he hoped he changed his mind. After the 5 years he decided he definitely wanted kids and I decided I definitely didn't want kids with him. He's a good guy but completely irresponsible; it took a while to learn that one about him. Anyways, we broke up over 2 years ago and are really close friends. Just not looking for the same things... grew in different ways. That's all.I'm under the impression (mistakenly?) that this couple's getting a divorce. Also, I'm old. Five years doesn't seem like much to me. Also, I don't like them.
basemetal: She'll be knocked up and happily anticipating her new spawn, with her new lover, within two years.
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