Kurtist: My boss's husband banned her from communicating with me outside of business hours because he saw my myspace status that humorously stated "swinger." He implemented a rule that we couldn't go to lunch without a chaperon, and even made her call me to state the ground rules, with him listening on speakerphone... twice.

/insecure much?

Oh_Enough_Already: From the comments section on the Daily Male Page:

"I don't condone his actions by any means, but when things like this happen, people do crazy things. They don't think about what they're doing or the repercussions that follow, they just do it. She was wrong to change her status on Facebook only 4 days after the separation, especially knowing her husband would view it. She didn't deserve death for it, by any means, but perhaps she should have thought twice about the consequences of her actions."

Besides being true and a necessary caution the fact that it comes from a woman as well ups it's awesomeness tenfold.

HMS_Blinkin: StoneyBologna: I lived with a couple that were dating. There was a promise ring exchanged, but no engagement. However the girl changed the facebook status to engaged at some point, and the guy had to accept.

But one day he changed it back to in a relationship.

My god, did this girl freak out. Tears, tantrum, the whole bit. She kept calling it a slap in the face. It was really awkward trying to find a way to get out of there.

And she is a GW grad with a master's degree.

I agree, a lot of people take this shiat seriously. The only thing I picked up from TFA was that the couple had "separated" 4 days before the killing, which, if I understand marriage, would make them estranged but still legally married. For the woman to advertise herself as "single" under that circumstance is pretty shiatty, in all fairness. Deserving of murder? Of course not. But she probably should have waited until AFTER the divorce papers went through to change her status to single.