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2023-02-09 3:53:36 AM  
Hold on, they haven't proven whose vomit he choked on.
 
2023-02-09 4:28:54 AM  

bingethinker: Hold on, they haven't proven whose vomit he choked on.


Well they can't prove whose vomit it was...they don't have the ability...there's no way of...
 
2023-02-09 5:34:28 AM  
I choked on a paywall.
 
2023-02-09 5:40:03 AM  
I thought 'heart attack' was a polite way of saying 'drug overdose'
 
2023-02-09 5:41:38 AM  
His birth name was Dax, it's amazing he survived to 37. It's like a de-longevity gypsy curse given on day 1. And working for the charnel tunnel at ABC was probably a factor as well
 
2023-02-09 5:45:19 AM  
He died like a rock star, kind of....
 
2023-02-09 5:49:04 AM  
I'm not dead.
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2023-02-09 5:54:33 AM  
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2023-02-09 5:54:59 AM  

berylman: His birth name was Dax, it's amazing he survived to 37. It's like a de-longevity gypsy curse given on day 1. And working for the charnel tunnel at ABC was probably a factor as well


Hey, Dax Shepard is almost 50.  And not only is he still alive he's married to a hot and talented woman.
 
2023-02-09 5:55:08 AM  
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Go away, aspirating!
 
2023-02-09 5:57:04 AM  
Wife is hot, single, likely rich, and you know she she has questionable decision making abilities.  I say its a go.
 
2023-02-09 6:09:07 AM  

Bootleg: bingethinker: Hold on, they haven't proven whose vomit he choked on.

Well they can't prove whose vomit it was...they don't have the ability...there's no way of...


Just one more question.If I could Mam?
Now the waiter said your husband had the tuna, is that right? And you had the steak, Mam? Is that correct?
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2023-02-09 6:11:08 AM  
Sooooo she's single?
 
2023-02-09 6:16:22 AM  
They left a 5-month old and a 2 year old alone in the hotel while they went out to dinner. Maybe the kids can be raised by relatives who won't treat them like an inconvenience.
 
2023-02-09 6:17:35 AM  

johnryan51: I'm not dead.
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I have some bad news for you.  
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2023-02-09 6:18:19 AM  

johnryan51: I'm not dead.
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Choking on vomit would have been a more dignified exit than the one Berman gave her.
 
2023-02-09 6:23:30 AM  
Leaving a two year old and a 5 month old unattended in a hotel room while you go to a restaurant two city blocks away to choke to death on your own puke is no way to go through life, son
 
2023-02-09 6:25:05 AM  
An unnamed employee told the New York Post that while at the steakhouse, Dax appeared so ill that servers were prompted to check on him.

Ah. So he's alive and well. Or he was run down by an errant subway that mounted the curb on Park Ave. pretty much any scenario except for what the Post reported.
 
2023-02-09 6:29:09 AM  

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2023-02-09 6:31:08 AM  
That article created more questions than answers.

He choked to death on vomit outside of the restaurant? That's ... improbable although not impossible. I'm not sure but knowing how to perform CPR or the Heimlich is a common skill at a restaurant, and people tend to indicate when they are choking. A restaurant worker followed him outside and saw him collapse and didn't perform CPR? The police were called when relatives came to watch the children? Why? Why didn't the hotel call the people responsible for the room? Why did they leave very, very young children alone to get drunk?

This tragic story seems to contain a bunch of lies.
 
2023-02-09 6:40:42 AM  

Wine Sipping Elitist: That article created more questions than answers.

He choked to death on vomit outside of the restaurant? That's ... improbable although not impossible. I'm not sure but knowing how to perform CPR or the Heimlich is a common skill at a restaurant, and people tend to indicate when they are choking. A restaurant worker followed him outside and saw him collapse and didn't perform CPR? The police were called when relatives came to watch the children? Why? Why didn't the hotel call the people responsible for the room? Why did they leave very, very young children alone to get drunk?

This tragic story seems to contain a bunch of lies.


When someone starts to choke, it's almost instinctive to rise and try to get away from a group of onlookers.  It's why restaurant workers are trained to scan the room, like lifeguards scan pools.

True choking, like drowning, is very quiet.  And being inebriated would interfere with decision making.  So instead of standing up and attracting attention in a dining room, he was looking for a secluded area to go.
 
2023-02-09 6:47:42 AM  

cherryl taggart: When someone starts to choke, it's almost instinctive to rise and try to get away from a group of onlookers.  It's why restaurant workers are trained to scan the room, like lifeguards scan pools.

True choking, like drowning, is very quiet.  And being inebriated would interfere with decision making.  So instead of standing up and attracting attention in a dining room, he was looking for a secluded area to go.


I think the better question is why they served him enough alcohol to choke to death on his own vomit while sitting down.  I mean if he went to bed laying on his back after closing down a dive bar I would get it.

Good steak houses usually cut people off well before then because half of what their customers are paying for is a pleasant dining experience.  If somebody is completely shiatcanned it can easily ruin it for everybody else.

Maybe his less drunk wife was buying the drinks and sliding them to him after a while.
 
2023-02-09 6:51:51 AM  
The manner of death, the office said, was an accident.

Gods I'd farking hope so.
 
2023-02-09 6:54:12 AM  
It doesn't actually say he choked on his vomit, does it? (Can't read it now due to paywall kicking in).

He potentially choked on food, which is not to say that he didn't also vomit.

Leaving young kids alone in the hotel...... clearly these guys had never heard of Britain's most infamous missing child case, Madeline McCann.
 
2023-02-09 6:59:47 AM  

squidloe: They left a 5-month old and a 2 year old alone in the hotel while they went out to dinner. Maybe the kids can be raised by relatives who won't treat them like an inconvenience.


To be fair, children are a huge inconvenience.  That's why I never had any.  I'd make a terrible parent.  I take good care of my houseplants however.
 
2023-02-09 7:02:28 AM  

berylman: His birth name was Dax, it's amazing he survived to 37. It's like a de-longevity gypsy curse given on day 1. And working for the charnel tunnel at ABC was probably a factor as well


The symbiote should carry his memories over to the next host. Except for the drunken blackouts. Those are gone forever.
 
2023-02-09 7:02:39 AM  

Pert: It doesn't actually say he choked on his vomit, does it? (Can't read it now due to paywall kicking in).

He potentially choked on food, which is not to say that he didn't also vomit.

Leaving young kids alone in the hotel...... clearly these guys had never heard of Britain's most infamous missing child case, Madeline McCann.


Just reread TFA, you are correct.
 
2023-02-09 7:06:11 AM  

Bootleg: bingethinker: Hold on, they haven't proven whose vomit he choked on.

Well they can't prove whose vomit it was...they don't have the ability...there's no way of...


You can't dust for vomit
 
2023-02-09 7:09:14 AM  

vonzales: Bootleg: bingethinker: Hold on, they haven't proven whose vomit he choked on.

Well they can't prove whose vomit it was...they don't have the ability...there's no way of...

You can't dust for vomit


Damnit. Didn't see the jpeg up there
 
2023-02-09 7:12:34 AM  

cherryl taggart: Wine Sipping Elitist: That article created more questions than answers.

He choked to death on vomit outside of the restaurant? That's ... improbable although not impossible. I'm not sure but knowing how to perform CPR or the Heimlich is a common skill at a restaurant, and people tend to indicate when they are choking. A restaurant worker followed him outside and saw him collapse and didn't perform CPR? The police were called when relatives came to watch the children? Why? Why didn't the hotel call the people responsible for the room? Why did they leave very, very young children alone to get drunk?

This tragic story seems to contain a bunch of lies.

When someone starts to choke, it's almost instinctive to rise and try to get away from a group of onlookers.  It's why restaurant workers are trained to scan the room, like lifeguards scan pools.

True choking, like drowning, is very quiet.  And being inebriated would interfere with decision making.  So instead of standing up and attracting attention in a dining room, he was looking for a secluded area to go.


Fark is like a graduate studies program when it comes to alcohol-related things. The cops should start a tag in here for "DRUNK DEATHS" so we can offer better theories than they could ever come up with.

I think he was probably drunk before he went to the restaurant. Most of the drinks at NY steakhouses are generally pretty high, and obviously you don't get drunk quickly while eating steak. He does look like kind of a small guy though, so that would contribute to having a higher BAL than what we might expect.

I think he got pretty plastered on the way there, and THEN started eating steak but wasn't able to chew and swallow efficiently. Maybe he would have thrown up anyway, or maybe the steak got stuck on his uvula.

Then he ran out and tried to throw up, but since he was choking on the steak (it must have been pretty firmly lodged in there) it prevented the explosive vomit that normally occurs.  Rather than retching the contents of his stomach out into the wide world, it retched directly into the sides of his esophagus, causing him to choke to death.

Remember that feeling of how your stomach and diaphragm just start involuntarily contracting seemingly by themselves and blow everything about 3-4 feet out, hopefully into some helpless bushes?  Well imagine if that happened, but it didn't exit.  OUCH.  That would be a problem.

Some of it probably did exit, but at low velocity, which is worse because then it just sat in his mouth and nose, causing him to asphyxiate.

Normally, a person who is either standing or on their hands and knees, or even half inverted in a V shape should be able to vomit very efficiently. If you're lying on your back, you can still vomit if you just turn your head to one side although it's not quite as easy to get everything out.  Still, no choking.

This is the only way I can think of for someone to choke to death on their own vomit while awake and running around outside of a steakhouse in New York City.  Maybe someone else has another theory.
 
2023-02-09 7:15:47 AM  
Why is this not a headline from Stars and Stripes????
 
2023-02-09 7:19:25 AM  
LOL if you think a server is going hands on with a passed out drunk to provide first aid.
 
2023-02-09 7:20:09 AM  
"Drunken Night Out With Wife"

Almost wholesome...
 
2023-02-09 7:22:05 AM  
Soundsike she is single and has very questionable decision making skills win/win
 
2023-02-09 7:45:45 AM  

Wine Sipping Elitist: That article created more questions than answers.

He choked to death on vomit outside of the restaurant? That's ... improbable although not impossible. I'm not sure but knowing how to perform CPR or the Heimlich is a common skill at a restaurant, and people tend to indicate when they are choking. A restaurant worker followed him outside and saw him collapse and didn't perform CPR? The police were called when relatives came to watch the children? Why? Why didn't the hotel call the people responsible for the room? Why did they leave very, very young children alone to get drunk?

This tragic story seems to contain a bunch of lies.


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The server, who is probably working only for tips, was instructed to leave her paying tables and follow the guy. He left the restaurant and collapsed outside. He wasn't going to be leaving a tip and the server knew they had to get back to their paying tables.
 
2023-02-09 7:46:17 AM  

Oneiros: I thought 'heart attack' was a polite way of saying 'drug overdose'


Funny, I remember when "choked on his own puke" was the polite way of saying "drug overdose"
 
2023-02-09 7:49:17 AM  
And everybody's getting fat 'cept Mama Cass.
 
2023-02-09 7:56:50 AM  

kbronsito: berylman: His birth name was Dax, it's amazing he survived to 37. It's like a de-longevity gypsy curse given on day 1. And working for the charnel tunnel at ABC was probably a factor as well

The symbiote should carry his memories over to the next host. Except for the drunken blackouts. Those are gone forever.


I love this so much
 
2023-02-09 8:03:24 AM  

khatores: cherryl taggart: Wine Sipping Elitist: That article created more questions than answers.

He choked to death on vomit outside of the restaurant? That's ... improbable although not impossible. I'm not sure but knowing how to perform CPR or the Heimlich is a common skill at a restaurant, and people tend to indicate when they are choking. A restaurant worker followed him outside and saw him collapse and didn't perform CPR? The police were called when relatives came to watch the children? Why? Why didn't the hotel call the people responsible for the room? Why did they leave very, very young children alone to get drunk?

This tragic story seems to contain a bunch of lies.

When someone starts to choke, it's almost instinctive to rise and try to get away from a group of onlookers.  It's why restaurant workers are trained to scan the room, like lifeguards scan pools.

True choking, like drowning, is very quiet.  And being inebriated would interfere with decision making.  So instead of standing up and attracting attention in a dining room, he was looking for a secluded area to go.

Fark is like a graduate studies program when it comes to alcohol-related things. The cops should start a tag in here for "DRUNK DEATHS" so we can offer better theories than they could ever come up with.

I think he was probably drunk before he went to the restaurant. Most of the drinks at NY steakhouses are generally pretty high, and obviously you don't get drunk quickly while eating steak. He does look like kind of a small guy though, so that would contribute to having a higher BAL than what we might expect.

I think he got pretty plastered on the way there, and THEN started eating steak but wasn't able to chew and swallow efficiently. Maybe he would have thrown up anyway, or maybe the steak got stuck on his uvula.

Then he ran out and tried to throw up, but since he was choking on the steak (it must have been pretty firmly lodged in there) it prevented the explosive vomit that normally occurs.  Rather than retching the contents of his stomach out into the wide world, it retched directly into the sides of his esophagus, causing him to choke to death.

Remember that feeling of how your stomach and diaphragm just start involuntarily contracting seemingly by themselves and blow everything about 3-4 feet out, hopefully into some helpless bushes?  Well imagine if that happened, but it didn't exit.  OUCH.  That would be a problem.

Some of it probably did exit, but at low velocity, which is worse because then it just sat in his mouth and nose, causing him to asphyxiate.

Normally, a person who is either standing or on their hands and knees, or even half inverted in a V shape should be able to vomit very efficiently. If you're lying on your back, you can still vomit if you just turn your head to one side although it's not quite as easy to get everything out.  Still, no choking.

This is the only way I can think of for someone to choke to death on their own vomit while awake and running around outside of a steakhouse in New York City.  Maybe someone else has another theory.


He tried to stop the vomit or it went up too quickly and he aspirated a nice blob of acid laden matter. His body's reaction was to cough it out. Unfortunately, since his last breath in aspirated vomit, he got little air in so he aspirated more vomit while what was already in his lungs went furter down. The cascading effect made a relatively trivial situation deadly.
(I work with old people in a care center)
 
2023-02-09 8:05:15 AM  
It was previously reported that Dax Tejera died of a heart attack while out with his wife, who has since been charged with child endangerment in the case.

Come on, the guy was 37 years old
 
2023-02-09 8:06:08 AM  
When does this series begin on Netflix?
 
2023-02-09 8:14:25 AM  

electricjebus: cherryl taggart: When someone starts to choke, it's almost instinctive to rise and try to get away from a group of onlookers.  It's why restaurant workers are trained to scan the room, like lifeguards scan pools.

True choking, like drowning, is very quiet.  And being inebriated would interfere with decision making.  So instead of standing up and attracting attention in a dining room, he was looking for a secluded area to go.

I think the better question is why they served him enough alcohol to choke to death on his own vomit while sitting down.  I mean if he went to bed laying on his back after closing down a dive bar I would get it.

Good steak houses usually cut people off well before then because half of what their customers are paying for is a pleasant dining experience.  If somebody is completely shiatcanned it can easily ruin it for everybody else.

Maybe his less drunk wife was buying the drinks and sliding them to him after a while.


I hope we get to see the tox screen. Might be more than alcohol in play.
 
2023-02-09 8:19:01 AM  
Does this mean that the caddy scholarship is available again?
 
2023-02-09 8:20:24 AM  
Now that's a good way to go. I hope I go out like that.
 
2023-02-09 8:23:44 AM  
The family and employer of a substance abuser... lied about the cause of death?!  I can't believe it, that would never happen!  /s

It's maybe happening less these days, but it's part of why we don't have a great deal of mental health assistance, not a lot of public resources for substance abusers, why we don't take these problems seriously as a society.  There's such a sense of family/professional shame that no one close to the victim/abuser want's the societal stink of what they perceive to be a moral failing to attach to themselves.

Crappy people tell themselves it's a moral failing, not a medical issue, not a poverty issue, not a can't cope with the society we've created issue.
 
2023-02-09 8:27:14 AM  

frankb00th: He tried to stop the vomit or it went up too quickly and he aspirated a nice blob of acid laden matter. His body's reaction was to cough it out. Unfortunately, since his last breath in aspirated vomit, he got little air in so he aspirated more vomit while what was already in his lungs went furter down. The cascading effect made a relatively trivial situation deadly.
(I work with old people in a care center)


Interesting. Is there any advice you can give as far as how to prevent this?  I've never had a problem, but after reading this...shiat, I don't want to choke to death in a similar situation.


DuneClimber: Now that's a good way to go. I hope I go out like that.


Yeah I think I'm going to try for a few more decades first, at least.
 
2023-02-09 8:35:53 AM  
I'm guessing her "Wife and Mother of the Year" application will be unsuccessful?

When you watch your mate gorge themselves to death in public, and that's NOT the thing you need to issue an apology for that evening, you're having a heck of a Daniel Powter-level bad day.
 
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2023-02-09 8:38:06 AM  

electricjebus: cherryl taggart: When someone starts to choke, it's almost instinctive to rise and try to get away from a group of onlookers.  It's why restaurant workers are trained to scan the room, like lifeguards scan pools.

True choking, like drowning, is very quiet.  And being inebriated would interfere with decision making.  So instead of standing up and attracting attention in a dining room, he was looking for a secluded area to go.

I think the better question is why they served him enough alcohol to choke to death on his own vomit while sitting down.  I mean if he went to bed laying on his back after closing down a dive bar I would get it.

Good steak houses usually cut people off well before then because half of what their customers are paying for is a pleasant dining experience.  If somebody is completely shiatcanned it can easily ruin it for everybody else.

Maybe his less drunk wife was buying the drinks and sliding them to him after a while.


Wait staff won't cut someone off until it's obvious that the particular customer's drunkenness is going to be a problem.  If he wasn't making a spectacle of himself or doing typical things like slurring his words then it might not have been obvious.  He also might have pregamed before arriving, so drinking what would have been a reasonable amount in the restaurant proved far too much.

As for the assertion that restaurant staff are trained to look for signs like lifeguards, no way.  They're barely trained to know the menu, do the side-work, that sort.  Wait staff that have experienced customers having acute medical problems in the past may be more attuned in the future, but there's no training.

Wait staff probably at some point noticed his drunkenness and started talking away from the table about cutting him off or otherwise dealing with what might become a scene, then when he got up he was followed in case he was going to leave without paying.  Which technically he did even if it wasn't for underhanded reasons.  Then he puked enough to choke on it and died.
 
2023-02-09 8:40:17 AM  

hughesrep: Wife is hot, single, likely rich, and you know she she has questionable decision making abilities.  I say its a go.


Checks all the boxes for me. Can't tell the difference between a heart attack an a choking death, could be problematic.

I wonder if she put a bag of frozen peas on his ankle when he fell down? She may have thought he sprained his ankle and that's why he had birthday cake all over the front of himself and was turning blue.
 
2023-02-09 8:42:10 AM  

khatores: frankb00th: He tried to stop the vomit or it went up too quickly and he aspirated a nice blob of acid laden matter. His body's reaction was to cough it out. Unfortunately, since his last breath in aspirated vomit, he got little air in so he aspirated more vomit while what was already in his lungs went furter down. The cascading effect made a relatively trivial situation deadly.
(I work with old people in a care center)

Interesting. Is there any advice you can give as far as how to prevent this?  I've never had a problem, but after reading this...shiat, I don't want to choke to death in a similar situation.


DuneClimber: Now that's a good way to go. I hope I go out like that.

Yeah I think I'm going to try for a few more decades first, at least.


Not really as far as I know. I think its just an extremely unfortunate chain of events. It there were other substances involved such as pills, they may also have contributed to this fatality. Since we dont have all the details, my post is speculation based on my personal experience gathered from people with diphalgia brought on by strokes , old age and dementia.
 
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