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(The Sun)   "My girlfriend continually rejects the notion of having sex with me, but she just had sex with a total stranger. What gives?" (possible nsfw content on page)   (thesun.co.uk) divider line
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474 clicks; posted to Discussion » on 06 Oct 2022 at 9:05 AM (7 weeks ago)   |   Favorite    |   share:  Share on Twitter share via Email Share on Facebook



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2022-10-06 7:36:25 AM  
Roger Stone?
 
2022-10-06 7:45:39 AM  
Well, you're probably a repulsive needle dicked bug farker, but have a HUGH bank account.
 
2022-10-06 8:03:42 AM  
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2022-10-06 8:08:35 AM  
Just a stab in the dark here: you doing reasonably well in financial terms?
 
2022-10-06 8:19:33 AM  
You do not have a girlfriend. You have a roommate. This will not improve (with this woman or any other) until you figure out why you are so terrified of being single that you would not merely put up this, but call it love.
 
2022-10-06 8:29:16 AM  
Everyone who has ever cheated on me that I forgave went on to cheat again. This isnt a one off. This is just the first in what will become a long line of broken hearted episodes. Leave her. You aren't suited. Find someone who also has a high sex drive.

That said, in my experience, when women cheat it's because they don't feel loved or appreciated at home. That can also drive their sex drive down if they don't associate their partner as emotionally available. So on that front, that's more than likely your "why". But if you are giving all you can give and she doesn't feel loved then frankly that's also another sign you just aren't suited and should leave. So either way, leave. And whatever you do, do NOT marry her.
 
2022-10-06 8:40:26 AM  

ace in your face: Everyone who has ever cheated on me that I forgave went on to cheat again. This isnt a one off. This is just the first in what will become a long line of broken hearted episodes. Leave her. You aren't suited. Find someone who also has a high sex drive.

That said, in my experience, when women cheat it's because they don't feel loved or appreciated at home. That can also drive their sex drive down if they don't associate their partner as emotionally available. So on that front, that's more than likely your "why". But if you are giving all you can give and she doesn't feel loved then frankly that's also another sign you just aren't suited and should leave. So either way, leave. And whatever you do, do NOT marry her.


Reasonable advice, weird.
You know this is Fark, eh?
At least throw in something butt stuff related.
 
2022-10-06 9:06:44 AM  
There are no strangers here, only friends you haven't yet boned.

- Socrates
 
2022-10-06 9:10:28 AM  
F*Ck hEr DAD!!?11OMGWTFBBQ
 
2022-10-06 9:13:43 AM  

grokca: ace in your face: Everyone who has ever cheated on me that I forgave went on to cheat again. This isnt a one off. This is just the first in what will become a long line of broken hearted episodes. Leave her. You aren't suited. Find someone who also has a high sex drive.

That said, in my experience, when women cheat it's because they don't feel loved or appreciated at home. That can also drive their sex drive down if they don't associate their partner as emotionally available. So on that front, that's more than likely your "why". But if you are giving all you can give and she doesn't feel loved then frankly that's also another sign you just aren't suited and should leave. So either way, leave. And whatever you do, do NOT marry her.

Reasonable advice, weird.
You know this is Fark, eh?
At least throw in something butt stuff related.


Fair enough, maybe the dude has a high sex drive for boring 2 pump missionary sex and she's just not turned on by it. Maybe she needed someone to throw her around and do some "butt stuff" 😂
 
2022-10-06 9:14:14 AM  
I swear that I didn't write in to "Deidre" ._.
 
2022-10-06 9:19:05 AM  
Dude, fark her. I mean, figuratively. Since literally is apparently out of the question.
 
2022-10-06 9:22:34 AM  
Does she think you're her boyfriend?

Get on with your life.  There is no way this ends well for you if you don't.
 
2022-10-06 9:24:04 AM  
One nice thing about being Alone is that I never get cheated on.
 
2022-10-06 9:33:28 AM  

ace in your face: So either way, leave. And whatever you do, do NOT marry her.



what if instead....and hear me out....they had a baby?
 
2022-10-06 9:41:09 AM  

Pants full of macaroni!!: One nice thing about being Alone is that I never get cheated on.


LIE...LIE LIE. TALK TO THE RIGHT HAND.

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2022-10-06 10:18:11 AM  

HugeMistake: You do not have a girlfriend. You have a roommate. This will not improve (with this woman or any other) until you figure out why you are so terrified of being single that you would not merely put up this, but call it love.


Very much so!

1) She ain't yo girlfriend.
2) You ain't ho boyfriend.
3) You are the purse she drains.
 
2022-10-06 10:41:26 AM  
The phrase beta cuck gets thrown around too much these days. But this guy is a beta cuck.
 
2022-10-06 11:37:41 AM  
Well you're obviously not paying the going rate.
 
2022-10-06 11:47:01 AM  

Pants full of macaroni!!: One nice thing about being Alone is that I never get cheated on.


Every time I see you post I yell out PANTS FULL OF MACARONI!! like an idiot.

Favorite user name ever.
 
2022-10-06 11:59:57 AM  
She's just not into you?
 
2022-10-06 1:19:24 PM  
Depends. Does the whole concept turn you on?

The Offspring - "Self Esteem"
Youtube Abrn8aVQ76Q
 
2022-10-06 2:28:26 PM  

mcmnky: The phrase beta cuck gets thrown around too much these days. But this guy is a beta cuck.


It's still wrong, even in his case, because the alpha/beta concept is rooted in a theory of wolfpack behavior that has been thoroughly discredited.
 
2022-10-06 2:36:07 PM  
Hey Manti, she's not your girlfriend
 
2022-10-06 2:52:26 PM  
dude.
1.
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2. any friend that hasn't been screaming at you to do the same is a bad friend.  dump them too.
3. get better friends.
 
2022-10-06 4:18:35 PM  
1) Do you pay the bills?
2) Do you take care of the housework?
3) Does she refuse to have sex with you except on rare occasions?
4) Does she have sex with other people instead of you?

Congratulations!

You're what known as a mark.

She's using you for financial stability while actively seeking an even MORE financially stable mark.

She only has sex with you to keep you on the hook.

Dump her, seek out counseling for your self-esteem issues, and don't date again until you have improved your opinion of your self worth.

\ Know this from experience.
\\ Was gaslit for two years before discovering who she really was.
\\\ Much better off after therapy and meeting my now wife.
 
2022-10-06 7:12:18 PM  
This isn't the first time she's cheated, and it won't be the last.
 
2022-10-06 8:30:13 PM  

Lvl 19 bureaucrat: ace in your face: So either way, leave. And whatever you do, do NOT marry her.


what if instead....and hear me out....they had a baby?


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2022-10-07 11:18:28 AM  
Fark her Dad!!!
 
2022-10-07 12:53:44 PM  
You could jam your keys into the sides of her pretty little souped-up 4 wheel drive
And carve your name into her leather seats.
Take a Louisville Slugger to both headlights
Slash a hole in all four tires...
 
2022-10-07 1:14:52 PM  

SirMadness: You could jam your keys into the sides of her pretty little souped-up 4 wheel drive
And carve your name into her leather seats.
Take a Louisville Slugger to both headlights
Slash a hole in all four tires...


only chicks are allowed to do that.  it's because they are so much more emotionally mature than dudes.
 
2022-10-07 5:28:46 PM  
Stop "dating" hookers.
 
2022-10-07 7:41:40 PM  

tom baker's scarf: SirMadness: You could jam your keys into the sides of her pretty little souped-up 4 wheel drive
And carve your name into her leather seats.
Take a Louisville Slugger to both headlights
Slash a hole in all four tires...

only chicks are allowed to do that.  it's because they are so much more emotionally mature than dudes.


You can't call them "chicks!" Broads hate that! I got chewed out by this dame when I once called a bird a 'chickadee'
 
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