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(Slate)   "I learned my husband was having an affair with an older coworker and angrily confronted them about it; she's nice, and he's a better lover and husband now. Should I let them continue as it's also benefiting me?"   (slate.com) divider line
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2021-04-13 7:16:00 AM  
Raise your hand if you haven't seen this movie.
 
2021-04-13 7:53:03 AM  
So... make it a threesome?
 
2021-04-13 8:57:16 AM  
That's up to you three.  Maybe you should give it a thruple go.  It'll probably blow up in your face, but whatever you can just say he cheated on you and you wouldn't be lying.
 
2021-04-13 9:08:23 AM  
He's gonna end up on the bottom, isn't he?

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/Where's the giggity tag?
 
2021-04-13 9:09:23 AM  
Where does the butt stuff come in?
 
2021-04-13 9:10:46 AM  
asking her about anything else going on in her life, what books/shows/movies/music she's been enjoying, but she says she only watches PJ Masks and listens to "Baby Shark" these days and diverts the conversation back to her kid.

I remember being a parent of a three year old. There really wasn't much else going on in our personal lives back then.
 
2021-04-13 9:12:04 AM  

Fursecution: He's gonna end up on the bottom, isn't he?

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/Where's the giggity tag?


It took me a bit to find the casters before I was certain that was modern and not some legitimate Victorian way to store your children while you were sleeping.
 
2021-04-13 9:12:18 AM  

Laobaojun: Where does the butt stuff come in?


Uhhhh....the butt?
 
2021-04-13 9:26:07 AM  

moos: Raise your hand if you haven't seen this movie.


I think I have seen this movie. I tcould be one of several movies.
 
2021-04-13 9:36:08 AM  
A married couple was enjoying a dinner out when a statuesque blonde walked over to their table, exchanged warm greetings with the husband, and walked off.

"Who was that?" the wife demanded.

"If you must know," the husband replied, "that was my mistress."

"Your mistress? That's it! I want a divorce!" the wife fumed.

The husband looked her straight in the eye and said, "Are you sure you want to give up our big house in the suburbs, your Mercedes, your furs, your jewelry, and our vacation home in Mexico?"

For a long time they continued dining in silence. Finally, the woman nudged her husband and said, "Isn't that Steve over there? Who's he with?"

"That's HIS mistress," her husband replied.

"Oh," she said, taking a bite of dessert. "Ours is much cuter."
 
2021-04-13 9:41:25 AM  
I think this was an episode of Friends that centered around Joey and his parents.
 
2021-04-13 10:33:02 AM  

JasonOfOrillia: I think this was an episode of Friends that centered around Joey and his parents.


Also Will&Grace and Will's father. The mistresses were similar too in being idiots but seemingly nice enough.
 
2021-04-13 11:14:52 AM  
I do wish my wife could find a girlfriend.  Then I could have one, too.
 
2021-04-13 11:47:51 AM  
I don't want to hear about this shiat unless and until the two women run away together and leave the guy sitting at home wondering what happened.
 
2021-04-13 12:19:05 PM  
This is women's two most prominent characteristics in a colossal head-to-head.   Jealousy vs Selfishness.  It's a veritable Titan against a Titan!  The Kraken and Medusa unavailable for comment.
 
2021-04-13 1:36:19 PM  
1) And It's Oh So Understandable, This Ladykiller Move: Some people practice what Dan Savage called monogamish relationships and it works for them. It may work for you.  As long as everyone is a consenting adult and it's working, feel free.  Nobody else needs to know.

2) I Don't Wanna...I Don't Wanna Hear It: What do we do when people talk about things we do not wish to discuss?  We tell them to STFU.

3) We're A Happy Family: So I'm reading that you are upset his kids seem to be a higher priority in his life than you. But that's how it goes. Maintaining a healthy co-parenting arrangement is difficult and they have something that works. Either GTHOI or DTMFA.

4) Pod People: Tell them to STFU.

5) And To My Cat Mittens...: I do enough second guessing on proper care for my pet and don't need outside help.  Should have told sister to STFU and FRO.

6) M-M-M-M-MASK! Is The Mighty Power That Can Save The Day: It's one thing if masks were still hard to come by because some coverage is better than none with some exceedingly specific exceptions.  Basically, I'd send the recommendations on how to make good masks and then STFU.  At that point, there's nothing more to be done.

7)  But She Grew Up Tall And She Grew Up Right: You work FOR them and not just with them?  Why?  Get a better job.  Believe me, I'd love to see them get a first hand perspective as to what actually being poor is like.  But HR is there to protect the company and if it's their company your choice is obvious. GTFO.
 
2021-04-13 2:19:58 PM  

wet drum sandwich: I don't want to hear about this shiat unless and until the two women run away together and leave the guy sitting at home wondering what happened.


I once worked with a guy who lived in the back of the shop. He'd gone home from work early one day and caught his wife in bed with another woman. The wife ended up taking him for everything and moving the GF into the house to live with her and raise the kids. Messed the poor guy up pretty bad.
 
2021-04-13 3:09:40 PM  

Chevello: wet drum sandwich: I don't want to hear about this shiat unless and until the two women run away together and leave the guy sitting at home wondering what happened.

I once worked with a guy who lived in the back of the shop. He'd gone home from work early one day and caught his wife in bed with another woman. The wife ended up taking him for everything and moving the GF into the house to live with her and raise the kids. Messed the poor guy up pretty bad.


That sucks.

But don't get me wrong. I don't want guy-in-letter to get taken for everything. All I'm saying is, if the wife leaves him, well, he was the one in that marriage who was cheating.
 
2021-04-14 3:25:07 PM  

wet drum sandwich: Chevello: wet drum sandwich: I don't want to hear about this shiat unless and until the two women run away together and leave the guy sitting at home wondering what happened.

I once worked with a guy who lived in the back of the shop. He'd gone home from work early one day and caught his wife in bed with another woman. The wife ended up taking him for everything and moving the GF into the house to live with her and raise the kids. Messed the poor guy up pretty bad.

That sucks.

But don't get me wrong. I don't want guy-in-letter to get taken for everything. All I'm saying is, if the wife leaves him, well, he was the one in that marriage who was cheating.



Wait...wut?
 
2021-04-14 3:56:59 PM  

Frothy Panties: wet drum sandwich: Chevello: wet drum sandwich: I don't want to hear about this shiat unless and until the two women run away together and leave the guy sitting at home wondering what happened.

I once worked with a guy who lived in the back of the shop. He'd gone home from work early one day and caught his wife in bed with another woman. The wife ended up taking him for everything and moving the GF into the house to live with her and raise the kids. Messed the poor guy up pretty bad.

That sucks.

But don't get me wrong. I don't want guy-in-letter to get taken for everything. All I'm saying is, if the wife leaves him, well, he was the one in that marriage who was cheating.


Wait...wut?


Well, I mean, letter writer doesn't actually seem inclined to leave him, if you're taking the letter at face value. But in my little imaginary scenario that would make it more interesting (to me), she's leaving him, and he has no basis for thinking it's unfair. If you cheat, that's the risk you run.
 
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