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(Slate)   "Dear Stoya: I have no problem giving men oral sex--I like it very much--but why don't they ask and just assume I'm willing to go full deep throat? Some notice and consent would be nice" (possibly not safe for work)   (slate.com) divider line
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2019-03-15 04:18:34 AM  
That's a weird fetish. I don't think I've ever asked someone to become an informant to Woodward and Bernstein during oral sex. At least not without asking first.
 
2019-03-15 05:50:34 AM  
Porn
 
2019-03-15 06:51:29 AM  

Snapper Carr: Porn


Or generally, an inability to see women as anything but a cock-receptacle... which probably stems at least partially from porn.
 
2019-03-15 07:15:36 AM  
I recommend an agreed upon set of hand signals or possibly semaphore...

The below means

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"I'm not cleaning that up!"
 
2019-03-15 07:28:17 AM  
Harry Reems testified in the obscenity case that the act in question wasn't really pleasurable. I'm sure it varies from guy to guy, though.
 
2019-03-15 07:30:17 AM  
I was surprised the first time a woman deep throated me. I wasn't expecting it and it threw me off.
 
2019-03-15 07:44:00 AM  

sithon: I was surprised the first time a woman deep throated me. I wasn't expecting it and it threw me off.


I don't like being deep-throated.  Seems a little too objectifying...
 
2019-03-15 08:05:01 AM  

bigfatbuddhist: sithon: I was surprised the first time a woman deep throated me. I wasn't expecting it and it threw me off.

I don't like being deep-throated.  Seems a little too objectifying...


People should make a note of that, for when the Mueller Report finally drops
 
2019-03-15 08:07:43 AM  
Because they paid the $40 up front?
 
2019-03-15 08:09:47 AM  
Maybe its just been done incorrectly to me, but every time I've been deep-throated, it didn't really feel good. It didn't hurt or anything, but it didn't make my eyes roll back and I never got the appeal of it other than the visual of seeing your whole package disappear in her mouth followed by her face turning red and listening to her gag as she choked on it and tried to breathe. I guess some guys get off on that sort of thing. Frankly, I'd rather she continue focusing on the first few inches instead of trying to cram it all down her throat.

/yes, username checks out.
 
2019-03-15 08:17:28 AM  
Fark is not your personal erotica site.

Try Tumblr. Oh, wait.
 
2019-03-15 08:18:48 AM  
I can't help but wonder if the problem here is too much Irrumatio and not enough Fellatio, given the latter has the giver with more control.

/Wikipedia has articles on both terms
//Its also does not have to be a hands-free sport
 
2019-03-15 08:20:30 AM  

bigfatbuddhist: Seems a little too objectifying...


That can be part of the appeal for him and her if properly negotiated.
 
2019-03-15 08:29:16 AM  

turboke: bigfatbuddhist: Seems a little too objectifying...

That can be part of the appeal for him and her if properly negotiated.


Or him and him or her and her of course. My cis was showing.
 
2019-03-15 09:08:35 AM  
I dated one woman who just thought that's how it's supposed to be done. Did it without all the mascara running and gagging too.

Must not have really enjoyed it though. Last I heard she'd rediscovered herself and is lesbian.
 
2019-03-15 09:11:37 AM  

Dick Gozinya: Maybe its just been done incorrectly to me, but every time I've been deep-throated, it didn't really feel good. It didn't hurt or anything, but it didn't make my eyes roll back and I never got the appeal of it other than the visual of seeing your whole package disappear in her mouth followed by her face turning red and listening to her gag as she choked on it and tried to breathe. I guess some guys get off on that sort of thing. Frankly, I'd rather she continue focusing on the first few inches instead of trying to cram it all down her throat.

/yes, username checks out.


With prose like that you should write porn for a living.
 
2019-03-15 09:15:21 AM  

Vlad_the_Inaner: I can't help but wonder if the problem here is too much Irrumatio and not enough Fellatio, given the latter has the giver with more control.

/Wikipedia has articles on both terms


So it does. I'll be damned. Never heard of it. Well, I have, but by a different term.
 
2019-03-15 11:21:42 AM  
Put me down in the receiving deep throat is meh camp. A good lollipop lick OTH is toe curling...
 
2019-03-15 11:28:43 AM  

John Buck 41: Vlad_the_Inaner: I can't help but wonder if the problem here is too much Irrumatio and not enough Fellatio, given the latter has the giver with more control.

/Wikipedia has articles on both terms

So it does. I'll be damned. Never heard of it. Well, I have, but by a different term.


Facebooking?
 
2019-03-15 12:28:49 PM  
There are about thirty different moves a person can use during felatio. Deep throating is only one of them. My dim recollections of prior girlfriends and 22 years of marriage suggest that going through a variety of moves yields the best result. Also, pushing on the back of her head during head is frowned upon.
 
2019-03-15 01:07:53 PM  
See, I would think there's too much tooth exposure when you do deep throating. I wonder why a guy would insist on it.

I mean, I really can't (triggers my gag reflex). I'll offer to work with you to find something else you'll like but it seems like trying to jam your dick down someone else's throat without asking first is just asking for trouble.


/Dudes. Amirite?
 
2019-03-15 01:41:26 PM  

Gleeman: Put me down in the receiving deep throat is meh camp. A good lollipop lick OTH is toe curling...


You like lollipop licks on your other hand? That's an odd fetish, but you do you.
 
2019-03-15 02:04:21 PM  

Needlessly Complicated: See, I would think there's too much tooth exposure when you do deep throating. I wonder why a guy would insist on it.

I mean, I really can't (triggers my gag reflex). I'll offer to work with you to find something else you'll like but it seems like trying to jam your dick down someone else's throat without asking first is just asking for trouble.


/Dudes. Amirite?


I've had a long standing policy of communicating my likes and dislikes and making sure she's always aware of anything I'm about to do anytime I have my dick in her mouth.

Put it this way: She may be on her knees, but she's got you by the balls. Show some respect.
 
2019-03-15 03:16:14 PM  

incendi: Snapper Carr: Porn

Or generally, an inability to see women as anything but a cock-receptacle... which probably stems at least partially from porn.


Actually most guys are about 6" or less and most (99%+) of women can handle that without an issue. Once you get past 8" you know you have to ask because you're lucky if you find a woman who could do it.
 
2019-03-15 07:34:23 PM  
Typical male attitude is to not care if the woman is having a bad time as long as he is having a good one, and then inevitably wonder later on why she doesn't want to do it anymore.
 
2019-03-15 07:48:40 PM  

inglixthemad: incendi: Snapper Carr: Porn

Or generally, an inability to see women as anything but a cock-receptacle... which probably stems at least partially from porn.

Actually most guys are about 6" or less and most (99%+) of women can handle that without an issue. Once you get past 8" you know you have to ask because you're lucky if you find a woman who could do it.


There is only ever one person who gets to decide what a woman "can handle without an issue", and that is the individual woman who is being asked to do it, and that is why you ask, always.

But thanks for the insight as to how the mind of a man who regards women as being nothing but a cock-receptacle works.
 
2019-03-15 07:52:55 PM  

madgonad: There are about thirty different moves a person can use during felatio. Deep throating is only one of them. My dim recollections of prior girlfriends and 22 years of marriage suggest that going through a variety of moves yields the best result. Also, pushing on the back of her head during head is frowned upon.


Unless she asks you to:)
 
2019-03-16 01:21:31 AM  

That KY Girl: Gleeman: Put me down in the receiving deep throat is meh camp. A good lollipop lick OTH is toe curling...

You like lollipop licks on your other hand? That's an odd fetish, but you do you.


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