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2017-09-14 07:56:53 AM  
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2017-09-14 08:07:53 AM  
And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.
 
2017-09-14 08:22:54 AM  

Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.


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This is why I have signed contracts...
 
2017-09-14 08:23:28 AM  
MAGA?
 
2017-09-14 08:29:25 AM  
It's better than the previous version.
(Donut) GO FART-
HER WITHOUT
CONSENT
 
2017-09-14 08:32:14 AM  
So I have to ask the donut for consent before I stick my dick in it?
 
2017-09-14 08:32:40 AM  

Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.


"Hans, are we the baddies?"
 
2017-09-14 08:36:33 AM  
Benevolent Misanthrope:
We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

I understand you.  Speaking as a male, sometimes I am ashamed to be one of them.  But take heart, we're not all like that.
Speaking as a white male, sometimes I feel compelled to say the same thing to my black friends.
 
2017-09-14 08:37:04 AM  
mmmmmmmmm.....lack of consent

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//and gummi bears
 
2017-09-14 08:37:29 AM  
Wife tells me no all the time. Apparently, cuddling up to her and pressing my erection into her back isn't sexy. Guess I'll just fark a donut.
 
2017-09-14 08:41:39 AM  

bainsguy: So I have to ask the donut for consent before I stick my dick in it?


Glazed means Glazed
 
2017-09-14 08:41:54 AM  

Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.


As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.
 
2017-09-14 08:43:29 AM  

Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.


If by "guys," you mean "very few guys," you may be right. Dumb stereotyping is dumb.
 
2017-09-14 08:43:55 AM  
Always get permission before you fark a
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the ass
 
2017-09-14 08:46:42 AM  
America has lost it's sense of humor.  Actually, it has lost it's sense.
 
2017-09-14 08:47:24 AM  

yoyopro: Benevolent Misanthrope:
We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

I understand you.  Speaking as a male, sometimes I am ashamed to be one of them.  But take heart, we're not all like that.
Speaking as a white male, sometimes I feel compelled to say the same thing to my black friends.


Yeah - I know what you mean. As a white woman, my experience is vastly different from other ethnic groups. And even though I'm gay, that's not obvious. It's not the same as being part of a visible minority. I often want to say to my black and Latino friends, "Yes,  I get it that I enjoy privilege. Please don't think I'm like those turds in Charlottesville."
 
2017-09-14 08:47:48 AM  
This is why you never launch a campaign without market research and audience feedback. What kind of half-assed operation was this?
 
2017-09-14 08:48:05 AM  

SanityIsAFullTimeJob: Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

If by "guys," you mean "very few guys," you may be right. Dumb stereotyping is dumb.


All of this. The vast majority of guys have no problem at all with the concept of consent. So it can't be that difficult to establish in someone.
 
2017-09-14 08:49:03 AM  

Benevolent Misanthrope: yoyopro: Benevolent Misanthrope:
We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

I understand you.  Speaking as a male, sometimes I am ashamed to be one of them.  But take heart, we're not all like that.
Speaking as a white male, sometimes I feel compelled to say the same thing to my black friends.

Yeah - I know what you mean. As a white woman, my experience is vastly different from other ethnic groups. And even though I'm gay, that's not obvious. It's not the same as being part of a visible minority. I often want to say to my black and Latino friends, "Yes,  I get it that I enjoy privilege. Please don't think I'm like those turds in Charlottesville."


Are you Canadian?

"Visible minority".
 
2017-09-14 08:49:51 AM  

SanityIsAFullTimeJob: Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

If by "guys," you mean "very few guys," you may be right. Dumb stereotyping is dumb.


Maybe, but let's not pretend that we aren't a nation that let Donald Trump take high office.
 
2017-09-14 08:53:47 AM  
There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?
 
2017-09-14 08:54:18 AM  

Hickory-smoked: This is why you never launch a campaign without market research and audience feedback. What kind of half-assed operation was this?


What are you talking about?
See how much publicity this got them!
I mean, not as a much as a 'stolen' sex tape, but still.
 
2017-09-14 09:00:50 AM  

Lady J: SanityIsAFullTimeJob: Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

If by "guys," you mean "very few guys," you may be right. Dumb stereotyping is dumb.

All of this. The vast majority of guys have no problem at all with the concept of consent. So it can't be that difficult to establish in someone.


Yeah. The two dicks I've met who were into actual manipulation, even blackmail and attempted rape (he couldn't keep the erection) knew exactly what they were doing. Worse, they were amused by it.

/I have no qualms with the death penalty for 100% proven cases of rape
 
2017-09-14 09:04:53 AM  

Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?



"Women can't buy condoms" said no sane person ever.
 
2017-09-14 09:05:03 AM  
I didn't even bother reading TFA.  But WTF were they thinking to release something like that.  Unless it was done intentionally in order to feed the well oiled outrage machine.

/stay angry mis amigos
 
2017-09-14 09:06:22 AM  

Smoking GNU: Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.


The challenge is convincing some guys (not directed at you, because you're clearly a supporter) that "no means no" isn't enough - but that "yes means yes".
 
2017-09-14 09:07:44 AM  

pikov.yndropov: I didn't even bother reading TFA.  But WTF were they thinking to release something like that.  Unless it was done intentionally in order to feed the well oiled outrage machine.

/stay angry mis amigos


I almost wonder if, though, if we're just not the target audience for this. Are 17 year-olds reading it the same way? If it's just that I'm old, and other people are regularly communicating with rebus puzzles like this....it's not impossible that we're missing the point, not them.
 
2017-09-14 09:08:14 AM  

Smoking GNU: As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.


It's not just "no means no", it's also "not saying anything means no".
 
2017-09-14 09:08:53 AM  
Who the hell has difficulty 'wrapping their head around the concept of consent'?  Those sociopaths understand it just fine, they chose to ignore it.  And they are the minority or else there would be open rape in the streets 24/7.
 
2017-09-14 09:11:01 AM  

OlderGuy: America has lost it's sense of humor.  Actually, it has lost it's sense.


I think the Internet has become more thorough oppression than small town ladies church groups.
 
2017-09-14 09:11:50 AM  

Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?


Was the ad for actual female condoms?

They ARE different:  https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/female-condom/​ho​w-do-i-use-a-female-condom
 
2017-09-14 09:12:23 AM  

Smoking GNU: Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.


The issue isn't just "No means no". It's also "Silence doesn't mean yes" and that there's nothing wrong with asking the person you're having sex with if they're enjoying something.
 
2017-09-14 09:13:01 AM  

IDisposable: Smoking GNU: As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.

It's not just "no means no", it's also "not saying anything means no".


You make a good point. This consent stuff is all over the media here, and there's been loads of soap storylines, and public service type adverts aimed at young people.

I think a good rule of thumb for a young person would be, if the other person isn't doing any of the running , isn't making any of the moves ... you need to check they're up for it.
 
2017-09-14 09:13:46 AM  

Snarfangel: Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?


"Women can't buy condoms" said no sane person ever.


Wait.. Were they female condoms... Because that is a thing.
 
2017-09-14 09:15:11 AM  

IDisposable: Smoking GNU: As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.

It's not just "no means no", it's also "not saying anything means no".


That's the trickier one for a lot of guys. "She was into it, by which I mean she didn't slap my face and say no, and I didn't want to jinx it by explicitly asking."
 
2017-09-14 09:15:24 AM  
look, can I fark the donut or not? I've got my pants off and this cruller is cooling pretty rapidly
 
2017-09-14 09:15:44 AM  

IDisposable: Smoking GNU: As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.

It's not just "no means no", it's also "not saying anything means no".


meanmutton: Smoking GNU: Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

As a male, i find ''No means no'' to be pretty self-explanatory.

The issue isn't just "No means no". It's also "Silence doesn't mean yes" and that there's nothing wrong with asking the person you're having sex with if they're enjoying something.


That too, yes.
 
2017-09-14 09:16:24 AM  

Shadow Blasko: Snarfangel: Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?


"Women can't buy condoms" said no sane person ever.

Wait.. Were they female condoms... Because that is a thing.


Man I'd love to live in one of those.
 
2017-09-14 09:18:20 AM  
Before I have sex, I sit down with a woman and teach her how to say 'Yes' and 'No' in half a dozen different languages. Then I ask her if she's okay with us proceeding, and ask for her consent in a specific language.

If she can't correctly say 'Yes' in that particular language during this quiz, we don't move forward.

Or at least that's how I imagine it would go. Also, I'm not certain what happens after. Ladies, call me.
 
2017-09-14 09:18:41 AM  

PunGent: Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?

Was the ad for actual female condoms?

They ARE different:  https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/female-condom/h​ow-do-i-use-a-female-condom


No, they were just packaged differently, with a "feminine" little container.
 
2017-09-14 09:23:07 AM  

Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?


Female condom.
 
2017-09-14 09:23:40 AM  

Fano: Shadow Blasko: Snarfangel: Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?


"Women can't buy condoms" said no sane person ever.

Wait.. Were they female condoms... Because that is a thing.

Man I'd love to live in one of those.


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2017-09-14 09:26:50 AM  
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2017-09-14 09:27:53 AM  
I'm automatically attracted to beautiful - I just start kissing them. It's like a magnet. I just kiss. I don't even wait. And when you're a star, they let you do it. You can do anything.
 
2017-09-14 09:28:47 AM  

Kouta: Ker_Thwap: There's a condom ad for women now.  It's kind of stupid, and slays a giant straw man. "Don't let anyone tell you that women can't buy condoms!"  I thought it was kind of insulting.  Gendered condoms?  Really?

Female condom.


As I mentioned above, it's a standard male worn condom.  I don't really want to mention the manufacturer and give them free advertising.
 
2017-09-14 09:45:52 AM  

Benevolent Misanthrope: And they sold the fark out of them, too.

We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.


Want to bet these condoms will be on eBay soon?
 
2017-09-14 09:50:22 AM  
I waaant yoooou to want me...
 
2017-09-14 09:50:58 AM  

theflatline: Benevolent Misanthrope: yoyopro: Benevolent Misanthrope:
We had a thread about this recently - how rapists don't know they're rapists and the whole idea of consent being difficult for many men to get their brains around.  This makes me think guys feel like consent for sex is a joke - something you do because she might falsely accuse you of rape later, but everybody knows it's just another PC-stupid thing.

I understand you.  Speaking as a male, sometimes I am ashamed to be one of them.  But take heart, we're not all like that.
Speaking as a white male, sometimes I feel compelled to say the same thing to my black friends.

Yeah - I know what you mean. As a white woman, my experience is vastly different from other ethnic groups. And even though I'm gay, that's not obvious. It's not the same as being part of a visible minority. I often want to say to my black and Latino friends, "Yes,  I get it that I enjoy privilege. Please don't think I'm like those turds in Charlottesville."

Are you Canadian?

"Visible minority".


No, but used to live there and I like that shorthand.  I also use "newcomer" instead of "immigrant".  It's just nicer.
 
2017-09-14 09:57:40 AM  

Benevolent Misanthrope: As a white woman, my experience is vastly different from other ethnic groups.


Who are you to speak about the experiences of other ethnic groups? Check your privilege.
 
2017-09-14 09:59:49 AM  

IDisposable: it's also "not saying anything means no".


That's a very dubious notion. Are you really claiming that consent is withdrawn if either party stops talking during sex?
 
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