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2017-08-12 04:58:36 PM  
Is there any plan that involves posting on Facebook that *DOESN'T* backfire?
 
2017-08-12 08:05:45 PM  
I'd leave that alone...

Meryl Streep of the Gangbang
Youtube RyYlBEZxmZg
 
2017-08-12 08:11:30 PM  
I'm usually on a liquid diet, so.... I'd do her.

/drinking
 
2017-08-12 08:13:05 PM  
Looks like a specimen of early bro culture.
 
2017-08-12 08:14:23 PM  
'I just found this video of a person crunching really loudly, and she told me to stop playing it,' said Rob. 'I just played it to her over and over again

So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway.  Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.
 
2017-08-12 08:20:31 PM  
I am sure she does things that bug him as well.
 
2017-08-12 08:21:53 PM  
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2017-08-12 08:22:07 PM  
That was cuter than i expected.
 
2017-08-12 08:22:30 PM  
I leave my docks on the floor to. Sure its ok it dirty kids clothes and undies get thrown in the hallway but god forbid my socks!!

Well I say my socks are just fine and I'll pick them up right now sorry dear please stop yelling at me.
 
2017-08-12 08:27:12 PM  
After reading the article, I think he can do way better than her. He's far too forgiving of her childish tantrums.
 
2017-08-12 08:27:54 PM  
So threesome?
 
2017-08-12 08:29:17 PM  
Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.
 
KIA
2017-08-12 08:30:05 PM  
Eh, people find each other and stay with each other for all kinds of bizarre reasons.  I've long since stopped trying to figure it out.
 
2017-08-12 08:37:35 PM  
I learned from the Metro that my crotch has less spice than I anticipated. Crotch Charms, I already have two dangling on the inside, apparently that is not enough. Spice up your crotch with crotch charms today! Thanks Metro.
 
2017-08-12 08:37:38 PM  
"...house trained..."  I am sure referring to a spouse in the same manner as you would a dog would be perfectly acceptable if genders were reversed.
 
2017-08-12 08:38:54 PM  

basemetal: 'I just found this video of a person crunching really loudly, and she told me to stop playing it,' said Rob. 'I just played it to her over and over again

So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway.  Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.


Aw man.  It's called teasing.  How long you been married?   She cut up his soccer cleats so he couldn't play.   It's funny.
 
2017-08-12 08:40:08 PM  

bingethinker: After reading the article, I think he can do way better than her. He's far too forgiving of her childish tantrums.


Bro, it's a joke.  It's funny.   How long you been married? I am on year 19 and we do crap like this to each other all the time
 
2017-08-12 08:43:22 PM  
People will take anything if its free.
 
2017-08-12 08:48:58 PM  
He should have totally gone and banged 300 of those chicks and posted the video on facebook for his coont wife to see.
 
2017-08-12 08:58:27 PM  

abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.


Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
 
2017-08-12 08:58:52 PM  
I liked the beachtail advertising on that site.
 
2017-08-12 08:59:40 PM  
FTA: "you want to tell them to p*ss off forever, just so you don't have to listen to them ... mispronouncing Kim Kardashian's name"

I tried to be normal once.  But then I discovered it was impossible because normal people would think some thing like the above is actually a thing.  I've never been any situation where Kim Kardashian's name came up.  Let alone one where it was mispronounced.  I have always pronounced Kanye's name Caine.  Just because I was too lazy to fully read his name.
 
2017-08-12 09:01:47 PM  
At least they have a sense of humor about it. I probably wouldn't.
 
2017-08-12 09:02:17 PM  

namegoeshere: That was cuter than i expected.


Yeah, it looks like pretty standard "couple goofing around" stuff that just happened to get picked up for a dumb human interest story. And of course we have people coming by to call the woman a c*nt.
 
2017-08-12 09:08:34 PM  
Been FB free for a year and 7 months. Hi I'm Solokumba. Screw you bookers.
 
2017-08-12 09:10:52 PM  

Hyjamon: "...house trained..."  I am sure referring to a spouse in the same manner as you would a dog would be perfectly acceptable if genders were reversed.


Shut up biatch I'm watching TV.
 
2017-08-12 09:11:17 PM  
Amusing?

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
 
2017-08-12 09:21:51 PM  

Your Dance Instructor: bingethinker: After reading the article, I think he can do way better than her. He's far too forgiving of her childish tantrums.

Bro, it's a joke.  It's funny.   How long you been married? I am on year 19 and we do crap like this to each other all the time


Today's my 17th anniversary.  Wife said the blessing over the food, and she included she was thankful for the first 17 years, and hopes to have many more.  After she was done, I said, "Well, there goes my parole hearing.  I was denied."  If you take yourself too serious, you're only going to become insufferable, then bye-bye marriage.  It's just as important to know when to stop teasing as well, and no one outside should decide when that is.
 
2017-08-12 09:24:15 PM  

abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.


I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.
 
2017-08-12 09:27:50 PM  

dittybopper: Is there any plan that involves posting on Facebook that *DOESN'T* backfire?


Well, that's how I got my 2 adopted kittens from a woman who lives nearby, so yeah there are some.
 
2017-08-12 09:29:40 PM  

abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.


I think I have that, to a degree, as well. I have trouble watching gameplay of H1Z1 because they are constantly stopping to munch on some can of something-or-other.
 
2017-08-12 09:30:23 PM  
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2017-08-12 09:32:58 PM  

Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.

I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.
 
2017-08-12 09:39:25 PM  

solokumba: Been FB free for a year and 7 months. Hi I'm Solokumba. Screw you bookers.


Signed up, got requests to play random games all day, and quit a few weeks in.

Signed up for Twitter last year, still haven't done the confirmation email

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2017-08-12 09:39:37 PM  

abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.


That's why we have discussions around our dinner table...it drowns out the munching.

/except where there's always one person who talks with her mouth full of food

*giggity*
 
2017-08-12 09:41:21 PM  

abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.


Don't worry. I'm sure everyone is more than happy to let you eat alone in a different room/zip code.
 
2017-08-12 09:41:54 PM  

Your Dance Instructor: bingethinker: After reading the article, I think he can do way better than her. He's far too forgiving of her childish tantrums.

Bro, it's a joke.  It's funny.   How long you been married? I am on year 19 and we do crap like this to each other all the time


THIS!

/going on 31 years
//still crazy after all these years
///Zero Burnout slashies
 
2017-08-12 09:43:25 PM  

Phelon Hardtimes: abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.

Don't worry. I'm sure everyone is more than happy to let you eat alone in a different room/zip code.


edgy
 
2017-08-12 09:43:38 PM  

abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.


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2017-08-12 09:44:17 PM  

abhorrent1: Phelon Hardtimes: abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.

Don't worry. I'm sure everyone is more than happy to let you eat alone in a different room/zip code.

edgy


You don't even know what that means, do you?
 
2017-08-12 09:47:34 PM  

MSBFDffpm: Your Dance Instructor: bingethinker: After reading the article, I think he can do way better than her. He's far too forgiving of her childish tantrums.

Bro, it's a joke.  It's funny.   How long you been married? I am on year 19 and we do crap like this to each other all the time

THIS!

/going on 31 years
//still crazy after all these years
///Zero Burnout slashies


32 here...it helps to pinch the booty.
 
2017-08-12 09:49:03 PM  

Phelon Hardtimes: abhorrent1: Phelon Hardtimes: abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.

Don't worry. I'm sure everyone is more than happy to let you eat alone in a different room/zip code.

edgy

You don't even know what that means, do you?


Apparently not. From a movie I assume?
 
2017-08-12 09:49:56 PM  

solokumba: Been FB free for a year and 7 months. Hi I'm Solokumba. Screw you bookers.

When do we stop counting?  I'm at least 7 years free.  I think I may be closer to like, 10.
 
2017-08-12 09:50:39 PM  
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2017-08-12 09:54:34 PM  

abhorrent1: Phelon Hardtimes: abhorrent1: Phelon Hardtimes: abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.

Don't worry. I'm sure everyone is more than happy to let you eat alone in a different room/zip code.

edgy

You don't even know what that means, do you?

Apparently not. From a movie I assume?


Yes, from the "Cutting Edge".  It's an Ice Skating movie the broke down barriers and won every movie award that year.  It starred Gary Busey and Amanda Bynes.
 
2017-08-12 10:02:09 PM  

abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.


If you listen well, you can hear yourself chewing food. You're as gross as the person to your right or left.
/maybe a psychologist can help you
 
2017-08-12 10:02:51 PM  

MSBFDffpm: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

That's why we have discussions around our dinner table...it drowns out the munching.

/except where there's always one person who talks with her mouth full of food

*giggity*


That freaking Benefull commercial where the "dog" narrates while eating makes me want to punch the Pope.
 
2017-08-12 10:09:01 PM  

Spanky McStupid: MSBFDffpm: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

That's why we have discussions around our dinner table...it drowns out the munching.

/except where there's always one person who talks with her mouth full of food

*giggity*

That freaking Benefull commercial where the "dog" narrates while eating makes me want to punch the Pope.


OK...But Sinead gets first dibs!
 
2017-08-12 10:10:25 PM  

Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.


Apples and watermelon.
 
2017-08-12 10:13:06 PM  

Alunan: I'd leave that alone...


Meryl Streep of the Gangbang
Youtube RyYlBEZxmZg


I don't remember that scene from X-Men Origins:  Wolverine.
 
2017-08-12 10:15:29 PM  
You know that loud, sharp noise when you drop the toilet seat from full height?  If I hear anything like that, I try to snap the necks of anyone within reach.
 
2017-08-12 10:16:21 PM  
Hope that was all in fun. There are zero marriages where one person doesn't do something that annoys the shiat out of the other. The sooner we all realize that the sooner we can appreciate our spouses for the things that don't annoy you.
 
2017-08-12 10:16:35 PM  

abhorrent1: And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.


The sound of nails on a chalkboard does not bother me but teeth on a fork does.


/That being said, the sight of a hand running across a chalkboard is extremely cringe worthy.
 
2017-08-12 10:18:21 PM  

basemetal: 'I just found this video of a person crunching really loudly, and she told me to stop playing it,' said Rob. 'I just played it to her over and over again

So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway.  Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.


Difficult for me to judge on the context of a short news story.

He could be a total ahole who deliberately provokes his wife hoping to get a response, or is insensitive to how much it bothers her.

She could be a controlling shrew who uses her condition (or perhaps "condition") as a tool to manipulate. Or maybe she married a handsome boor and her plan to class him up has not worked as planned.

Given that she resorted to public shaming of her spouse, I am leaning towards the second paragraph. but I also think these two deserve each other. Water finds its own level where birds of a feather are flocking.

I know misiphonia is real. I have not been formally diagnosed but certain sounds are majorly irritating to me in a way others don't grasp.  I didn't buy $300 Bose headphones for the audiophile sound but for the noise canceling.

However, I also know more than a few self-diagnosed people who use their malady like a weapon in wars of attrition with family.
 
2017-08-12 10:22:09 PM  
Don't mind me. I'm just here for the undeservedly smug, pseudo intellectual , liberal women.
 
2017-08-12 10:22:19 PM  

Spanky McStupid: That freaking Benefull commercial where the "dog" narrates while eating makes me want to punch the Pope.


There was a woman I worked with that would be eating on EVERY farking conference call she was ever on. I think she ate every single minute of the day. She would sound just like that dog. There were times I would just drop because it was making me climb the walls.

She was also that person that would microwave fish and burn popcorn too so...
 
2017-08-12 10:27:15 PM  
The Mrs. used to blow off a little steam by complaining about me to her friends. One evening she complained with me sitting there. Two of them offered to swap her their ex husbands.  Immediate and permanent change in her behavior.
 
2017-08-12 10:31:26 PM  
'It gave a lot of people something to laugh at and it brightened up their day. I'm happy that our silly sense of humour made others laugh.'

Smooth backpedal babe.
 
2017-08-12 10:33:48 PM  
My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.
 
2017-08-12 10:36:45 PM  

interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.


How old is your son?  Just curious.
 
2017-08-12 10:48:07 PM  
How do people with misophonia survive some asian cultures with the slurping noises?  From my limited understanding some people just are wired for this issue, but I have never seen a cultural breakdown of this issue.  I have a Chinese co-worker who is the loudest eater I know and cultura
 
2017-08-12 10:48:27 PM  
For him its normal
 
2017-08-12 10:50:43 PM  

clborgia: For him its normal


I mean culturally for him its normal.  But it drives another co-worker mad.
/phone issues
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2017-08-12 11:00:31 PM  
I guess I am getting old. 33 years and counting. I can't hear that well so "Yes dear" seems to work for me rather well.
 
2017-08-12 11:01:40 PM  

clborgia: clborgia: For him its normal

I mean culturally for him its normal.  But it drives another co-worker mad.
/phone issues
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You know those occasional stabbing rampages you hear about from China? I assume this is the cause. I know it would be if I had to listen to smacking and slurping with no escape...
 
2017-08-12 11:03:13 PM  

Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.


He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.
 
2017-08-12 11:04:28 PM  
She don't want no money?

She don't speak good English.
 
2017-08-12 11:05:25 PM  

basemetal: 'I just found this video of a person crunching really loudly, and she told me to stop playing it,' said Rob. 'I just played it to her over and over again

So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway.  Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.


Bingo. And why the hell would you do that to someone you love? He's a ass. A great big giant ass.
 
2017-08-12 11:10:12 PM  
My roommate has this, and no, he doesn't eat with the family anymore.
Now, when he does it, it's perfectly acceptable. I'm not sure if you can subconsciously be a hypocrite, but there it is.
 
2017-08-12 11:10:19 PM  

abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises.


I wish contemporary law allowed me to murder the 2 young boneheads that gun their motorcycles at ridiculous speed and volume up and down the strip of road outside my apartment as an extension of their masculinity and personal virtue.  It wakes up my niece and nephew when they're sleeping over without fail and makes extra work to get them settled again.  I want to yell out the window:  "Yeah, rev it bro!  We're all impressed!  Holy crap, how cool are THESE guys?"
 
2017-08-12 11:14:37 PM  

interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.


I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.
 
2017-08-12 11:21:36 PM  

ThereAre4Lights: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises.

I wish contemporary law allowed me to murder the 2 young boneheads that gun their motorcycles at ridiculous speed and volume up and down the strip of road outside my apartment as an extension of their masculinity and personal virtue.  It wakes up my niece and nephew when they're sleeping over without fail and makes extra work to get them settled again.  I want to yell out the window:  "Yeah, rev it bro!  We're all impressed!  Holy crap, how cool are THESE guys?"


Buy a .22 airgun with hallowpoint pellets.  My state has no registration on any guns but most have none on airguns.  A .22 airgun is no joke.  You can take down game with them.
 
2017-08-12 11:23:58 PM  
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2017-08-12 11:28:15 PM  
There was a kid who sat at my lunch table who would quite deliberately chew loud just to annoy people.  I don't care about eating sounds but that guy annoyed the hell out of me.

I got him back when I started leaving specks of food on my face, and refusing to brush them off whenever he pointed them out.
 
2017-08-12 11:29:52 PM  

aerojockey: I got him back when I started leaving specks of food on my face, and refusing to brush them off whenever he pointed them out.


Come to think of it, based on everyone's reactions, that bothered them far more than the loud chewing.  Well tough shjt everyone, you should have took my side when I complained about the loud chewing.
 
2017-08-12 11:41:18 PM  

Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.


When the specialist they send you to says "I have never seen this before" it is time to say "farkkkk......"

That sounds like my wife, she has a form of Myasthenia Gravis that her current doctor who is a nationally recognized researcher says no one ever has...and she has it (I do not know it he finally ended up publishing her case).  You do not want to be this patient, EVER!  You want to be boring, you want to hear "here is a shot and/or pill and call me in two weeks if you don't feel better".  Good luck to your Dad, I hope they can find a treatment (my wife has been doing reasonably well for almost a decade now).
 
2017-08-12 11:42:20 PM  

Your Dance Instructor: basemetal: 'I just found this video of a person crunching really loudly, and she told me to stop playing it,' said Rob. 'I just played it to her over and over again

So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway.  Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.

Aw man.  It's called teasing.  How long you been married?   She cut up his soccer cleats so he couldn't play.   It's funny.


26 years, is that long enough for you?  I don't disrespect her, I never talk bad about her, I don't denigrate her, yes I tease her still, and still flirt, but there are some things you just don't do because you know there are things that really make the skin crawl.
 
2017-08-12 11:58:08 PM  

interstellar_tedium: That sounds like my wife, she has a form of Myasthenia Gravis that her current doctor who is a nationally recognized researcher says no one ever has...and she has it (I do not know it he finally ended up publishing her case).  You do not want to be this patient, EVER!  You want to be boring, you want to hear "here is a shot and/or pill and call me in two weeks if you don't feel better".  Good luck to your Dad, I hope they can find a treatment (my wife has been doing reasonably well for almost a decade now).


Thank you. I wish you are yours the best as well.
 
2017-08-13 12:04:21 AM  
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2017-08-13 12:18:48 AM  

basemetal: Your Dance Instructor: basemetal: 'I just found this video of a person crunching really loudly, and she told me to stop playing it,' said Rob. 'I just played it to her over and over again

So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway.  Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.

Aw man.  It's called teasing.  How long you been married?   She cut up his soccer cleats so he couldn't play.   It's funny.

26 years, is that long enough for you?  I don't disrespect her, I never talk bad about her, I don't denigrate her, yes I tease her still, and still flirt, but there are some things you just don't do because you know there are things that really make the skin crawl.


Married even longer after living together for a while, and I agree this is not teasing this is both of them being purposely mean to the other all as a "joke".  This is far from a healthy relationship.

My wife and I tease each other, for example I'll sneak a pinch of her butt or quickly hug her from behind and put my hands over her boobs when no one can see us just to hear her squeak.  But the thing is I respect her boundaries, I never do this in public or in front of the kids, I don't do it if she is tired or feeling sick, and I know that as much as sometimes she wishes I didn't she is also happy that I do because it shows her how much she still turns me on if that makes sense.   We tease but it is always something where it make us both realize how much we love the other.  This couple is just nasty, they are not teasing they are showing how much they hate the other.
 
2017-08-13 12:20:27 AM  

Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.


My father died of MSA 10 years ago this week.

Getting it diagnosed took several years. He had already resorted to going to Rochester, but then got referred to Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville. The specialist there started ticking off questions about symptoms, yes, yep, that too, etc., symptoms that were handwaved away by previous diagnosticians, except the *one* symptom that fit their favorite diagnosis.
 
2017-08-13 12:22:11 AM  

Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.


Apologies. I neglected to extend my sympathy. Please accept it.
 
2017-08-13 12:23:07 AM  
Meh, if the sex is right, you can put up with a lot.
 
2017-08-13 12:29:51 AM  
Grammar Police desperately needed here and there ..
 
2017-08-13 12:47:41 AM  
I read this whole article and the voice readi g it in my head for the whole thing was Ali G doing a bit part on coronation street.
 
2017-08-13 12:52:25 AM  

DoctorCal: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.

Apologies. I neglected to extend my sympathy. ...


No, no and thank you.  They gave him about 8 years max from the time they diagnosed it.  That was over six years ago.  I'm sorry for your loss.  It's going to be brutal for me because Pops is my best friend.
 
2017-08-13 12:57:04 AM  

aerojockey: There was a kid who sat at my lunch table who would quite deliberately chew loud just to annoy people.  I don't care about eating sounds but that guy annoyed the hell out of me.

I got him back when I started leaving specks of food on my face, and refusing to brush them off whenever he pointed them out.


Here's one to try.

Wear a shirt with a breast pocket and a light jacket over it. Get a spool of thread of a colour that will stand out against the jacket and a needle. Pull a bit of thread through the jacket, back to front near the pocket. Cut it, leaving a small bit of thread outside. Leave the rest of the thread on the spool. It will look like a bit of thread is stuck to your jacket. Drop the spool into your shirt pocket.

Now wait for someone to try to pluck the stray bit of thread off your jacket.
 
2017-08-13 12:57:37 AM  

DoctorCal: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.

My father died of MSA 10 years ago this week.
...


Wow, my Dad died 9 years and 11 months ago and I know how awful it is when it happens and how awful it can still be all this time later.  That had to be so hard, and I know anniversaries like that are really hard (especially the "big ones") from when I was younger and was not dealing with my Mom's death.

You take care of yourself, let people close to you know if they don't so they realize why you might be off, and don't do anything stupid like I used to because I refused to admit I was upset (I almost blew things with my girlfriend now wife when we were in college because I didn't even realize what was happening when it was the 10th anniversary of my Mom's death).
 
2017-08-13 01:02:55 AM  
interstellar_tedium: This couple is just nasty, they are not teasing they are showing how much they hate the other.

Which is as old as history.  The difference now is that social media instantly amplifies personal grievances for the bandwagon-hungry, with all the resulting fallout and misdirection, very occasional justice, and more often increased confusion.  Whether this is a societal benefit or hindrance is contextual and a question probably better left to philosophers.  I feel bad to have been flippant in a thread that has turned pretty serious, but that's Fark for you.  If I'd been serious, the thread probably would have turned flippant.

/beer is great, everybody go buy some
 
2017-08-13 01:09:54 AM  

Phelon Hardtimes: DoctorCal: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.

Apologies. I neglected to extend my ...


I have been reading on MSA, and that is a really tough one that I never heard of before which scares me (why are there some many things I never heard of?).  Like you my Dad was my best friend and for almost a decade it was just the two of us against the world after my Mom died and before I went off to college, and I can't imagine how hard this must be for you.  You hang in there and remember sometimes the doctors are wrong, and in the meantime spend time with him doing whatever you can together and make memories (really, my last day with my Dad pre-stroke we cut down trees and cleared the pond on the family land and I cooked us dinner, wouldn't trade that day for anything).
 
2017-08-13 01:11:32 AM  

dittybopper: Is there any plan that involves posting on Facebook that *DOESN'T* backfire?


Packaging people's lives to advertisers?
 
2017-08-13 01:12:31 AM  
Streep stroke
Youtube 9uD3_OBpdYA
 
2017-08-13 01:17:58 AM  
'I don't want no money he is FREE.

So, the headline is correct.  She does want money for him.  But then she goes on about him being FREE in what should really be an entirely different sentence.  I can only assume by that she means that he is emancipated or otherwise unencumbered.

Then again perhaps she is just a semi-literate twat.
 
2017-08-13 01:19:51 AM  

interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: DoctorCal: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studies.

Apologies. I negl ...


Thank you and I am sorry for your loss as well.  I quit my last job so I could be closer to my Father after he was diagnosed with MSA.  I didn't understand how important your family was until I was around 30.  Now my family is everything.  Like you, now I spend all the quality time I can with my Father and appreciate every minute of it.  Sometimes I get upset it took me so long to enjoy those times.
 
2017-08-13 01:39:06 AM  

Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: DoctorCal: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: Phelon Hardtimes: interstellar_tedium: My son has misophonia but unfortunately the sound that sets him off is caused by my daughters and my TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorders) which cause our jaws and thus mouths to make noises as we move things so that we do not feel pain.

When it started I would just play music as we ate, then he was on the other side of the table, and eventually upstairs.  If I am around him I clench my jaws and speak that way as he does not hear the noise that bothers him.  If we are in a situation where it is hard to hear me, if I am shouting from a distance, or if as I said above my jaw does not move he is fine.

Misophonia sucks.

How old is your son?  Just curious.

He is now 16, started to bug him at 13-14 but it was at first get the music volume up, then get him a bit away (he was now always behind me in the back seat of the car), then it was could I clench my jaw and eventually he gave up and went upstairs at dinner and would wear headphones in the car.

Now my wife says my daughter and I make noise as we talk and eat that she can hear (it is apparently a a click, click with a smack, smack).  I have never gone in for treatment but my daughter has and while it has helped her jaw to be more comfortable (especially important as she is a musician) is has never totally removed what has bugged my son.

We are all working on it, believe it or not if we talk LOUD it makes a difference for him, I guess our jaws and mouth act differently.  Eating still sucks but we spend other times together.  So now we shout a lot at each other, but very happily.

I'm glad you have worked out some of the querks and wish your family the best.  I was not familiar with this unique disorder so I have learned something today.  Best to you.

My father has a rare condition called "MSA"  Multiple System Atropthy.  It's so uncommon that that Johns Hopkins has had him in for studie ...


You sound like you have things together.

My Dad and I were apart most of the time from when I was 18 until I was in my 40's and he was in his 80's.  It wasn't anything except I went to school, started dating and then lived with and finally married my wife, had kids, got jobs, and just felt that there was always more time.  Now I would visit for a week or 2 every summer and occasionally more than once, and it wasn't like he didn't have my step-mom (aka she who will not be named), and I called him a lot but still...somehow we had drifted apart, but after the kids were born we visited more often.  Now fortunately I started spending a week and a half with him and just him just before he had his stroke.  It is funny I learned more things about my Dad in that bit of time than I think I ever had before despite the years we had spent together, although sadly I learned many more after he died that I wish I could have talked to him about.

I really envy you, I wish 30 or 40 year old me had been smart enough to take that time.
 
2017-08-13 01:40:30 AM  

Phelon Hardtimes: I'm sorry for your loss.


interstellar_tedium: You take care of yourself,


Sympathies and well-wishes appreciated, and returned.
I'm good. The intervening decade has been rich and eventful, so the recollections are now nearly always joyful.
 
2017-08-13 01:48:30 AM  

DoctorCal: Phelon Hardtimes: I'm sorry for your loss.

interstellar_tedium: You take care of yourself,

Sympathies and well-wishes appreciated, and returned.
I'm good. The intervening decade has been rich and eventful, so the recollections are now nearly always joyful.


That is good, I am glad to hear it.  Give him one toast for me, I will toast my Dad in September with a Vernors Ginger Ale which is what we used to drink when we went fishing.
 
2017-08-13 02:11:46 AM  

abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.


So I guess messy oral sex is off the menu?...
 
2017-08-13 02:13:42 AM  

bingethinker: After reading the article, I think he can do way better than her. He's far too forgiving of her childish tantrums.


This is like Alfred Hitchcock's Mr and Mrs Smith
 
2017-08-13 02:27:33 AM  
Yeah, there's no such thing as misophonia. It's even less real than the mid-life crisis. What you actually have is "I'm an intolerant whiny coont" syndrome.
 
2017-08-13 02:32:30 AM  

Your Dance Instructor: It's called teasing.


It's not teasing when it's misophonia.  It's torture.
 
2017-08-13 02:33:59 AM  

Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.



For me, it's any periodic sound, including ticking clocks and windshield wipers.  I have to keep some Ativan or Xanax on hand.
 
2017-08-13 02:45:20 AM  

The Derp Stops Here: [weknowmemes.com image 400x312]


I don't care so much that I made a point to take the time and effort to come into this thread and find a picture to post so I can tell everyone about how much I don't care.

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2017-08-13 04:07:38 AM  
don't let her drive...
 
2017-08-13 04:29:08 AM  

StaleCoffee: Yeah, there's no such thing as misophonia. It's even less real than the mid-life crisis. What you actually have is "I'm an intolerant whiny coont" syndrome.


Even if it's as simple as "I don't like that," you're still being an enormous dick if someone expresses that preference and you ignore it or go out of your way to make them experience it. Imagine someone forced you to eat some food you don't care for, and then revisit your thoughts on the matter.
 
2017-08-13 04:43:15 AM  

NobleHam: StaleCoffee: Yeah, there's no such thing as misophonia. It's even less real than the mid-life crisis. What you actually have is "I'm an intolerant whiny coont" syndrome.

Even if it's as simple as "I don't like that," you're still being an enormous dick if someone expresses that preference and you ignore it or go out of your way to make them experience it. Imagine someone forced you to eat some food you don't care for, and then revisit your thoughts on the matter.


the horror
 
2017-08-13 04:46:39 AM  

Trik: NobleHam: StaleCoffee: Yeah, there's no such thing as misophonia. It's even less real than the mid-life crisis. What you actually have is "I'm an intolerant whiny coont" syndrome.

Even if it's as simple as "I don't like that," you're still being an enormous dick if someone expresses that preference and you ignore it or go out of your way to make them experience it. Imagine someone forced you to eat some food you don't care for, and then revisit your thoughts on the matter.

the horror


addendum:
Bet the fuud had Gluten
Again: The Horror
 
2017-08-13 05:05:16 AM  

Cagey B: Yeah, it looks like pretty standard "couple goofing around" stuff that just happened to get picked up for a dumb human interest story. And of course we have people coming by to call the woman a c*nt.


And other people are dropping by to call the man a domestic abuser.  People will read what they want into a story if it gives them an excuse to get mad about it.
 
2017-08-13 05:15:02 AM  

Trik: NobleHam: StaleCoffee: Yeah, there's no such thing as misophonia. It's even less real than the mid-life crisis. What you actually have is "I'm an intolerant whiny coont" syndrome.

Even if it's as simple as "I don't like that," you're still being an enormous dick if someone expresses that preference and you ignore it or go out of your way to make them experience it. Imagine someone forced you to eat some food you don't care for, and then revisit your thoughts on the matter.

the horror


Yeah, it's almost as bad as people not being okay with things you're fine with.

Some snowflakes will complain all day about people complaining about things.
 
2017-08-13 05:18:43 AM  

ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.


Aannnndddd...How you doin? Never touched WOW and will eat whever You want. That work?
 
2017-08-13 05:27:49 AM  

zeppo_shemp: basemetal: 'I just found this video of a person crunching really loudly, and she told me to stop playing it,' said Rob. 'I just played it to her over and over again

So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway.  Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.

Difficult for me to judge on the context of a short news story.

He could be a total ahole who deliberately provokes his wife hoping to get a response, or is insensitive to how much it bothers her.

She could be a controlling shrew who uses her condition (or perhaps "condition") as a tool to manipulate. Or maybe she married a handsome boor and her plan to class him up has not worked as planned.

Given that she resorted to public shaming of her spouse, I am leaning towards the second paragraph. but I also think these two deserve each other. Water finds its own level where birds of a feather are flocking.

I know misiphonia is real. I have not been formally diagnosed but certain sounds are majorly irritating to me in a way others don't grasp.  I didn't buy $300 Bose headphones for the audiophile sound but for the noise canceling.

However, I also know more than a few self-diagnosed people who use their malady like a weapon in wars of attrition with family.


Audiophiles don't buy Bose or noise-cancelling.
 
2017-08-13 05:57:28 AM  

NobleHam: Trik: NobleHam: StaleCoffee: Yeah, there's no such thing as misophonia. It's even less real than the mid-life crisis. What you actually have is "I'm an intolerant whiny coont" syndrome.

Even if it's as simple as "I don't like that," you're still being an enormous dick if someone expresses that preference and you ignore it or go out of your way to make them experience it. Imagine someone forced you to eat some food you don't care for, and then revisit your thoughts on the matter.

the horror

Yeah, it's almost as bad as people not being okay with things you're fine with.

Some snowflakes will complain all day about people complaining about things.


and some people never devolved coping mechanism / skills
True SnowFlakes
They will require coddling their entire lives.
 
2017-08-13 06:06:21 AM  

ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.


For me it's the sound of water being poured into a glass.
 
2017-08-13 07:12:10 AM  

Starblazer: solokumba: Been FB free for a year and 7 months. Hi I'm Solokumba. Screw you bookers.
When do we stop counting?  I'm at least 7 years free.  I think I may be closer to like, 10.


Are we talking about the Glory of a Facebook-Free life? Because I don't know what that is. I delete the app every other month and allow myself two visits per week via the internet. If I can go one week sans the FB, I buy myself something nice. Fark me. It's a vicious cycle. No one posts anything besides their kids/meals/vacations/pets. And no one notices me if I'm gone! Not even my husband. OMGSTFU - I hate Facebook. (● ˃ロ˂)੭ꠥ⁾⁾

/so if I visit FB more than two times per week, no Fark Sports for me for 7 whole days. I have an illness.
//s.o.s.
 
2017-08-13 07:13:25 AM  
There should be a Quit Facebook hotline. But I wonder... would that become addicting too?
 
2017-08-13 07:24:41 AM  

FizixJunkee: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.


For me, it's any periodic sound, including ticking clocks and windshield wipers.  I have to keep some Ativan or Xanax on hand.


Wait a sec. The windshield wipers thing is legit. My husband forgets they are on and lets them screech. Why? Because he's talking! I have to reach over anf turn them off before they catch fire.
 
2017-08-13 07:50:17 AM  

LarrySouth: abhorrent1: Thong_of_Zardoz: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

Same here. Corn on the cob is especially troublesome for me.
I don't know that there's any particular food for me. It's chewing/smacking sounds, heavy breathing and especially swallowing noises.

If I see a commercial for like Gatorade or some other drink and they use glug glug swallowing sounds as they show them drinking it, it makes me want to stab a baby.

And if you scrape your teeth on your fork, I will farking set you on fire.

So I guess messy oral sex is off the menu?...


Oh mymfarkinggod with the teeth on the fork thing. You have lips, use them!
 
2017-08-13 07:51:20 AM  

StaleCoffee: Yeah, there's no such thing as misophonia. It's even less real than the mid-life crisis. What you actually have is "I'm an intolerant whiny coont" syndrome.


fark off.

You have no idea what it's like.
 
2017-08-13 08:03:40 AM  
Irrational woman is irrational
 
2017-08-13 08:42:49 AM  

FizixJunkee: Your Dance Instructor: It's called teasing.

It's not teasing when it's misophonia.  It's torture.


So tortuous that she went and made a funny Facebook post.  Sorry friend.  Not everyone is a victim.  Shake that victim mentality.  It's hard to succeed with that hanging over you
 
2017-08-13 08:45:30 AM  

ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.


I am so sorry.   Any man what chooses WOW over something good, like call of duty or Bf4.....  JOKING.  sorry about the man child.  Hope you have found what you are looking for
 
2017-08-13 08:48:42 AM  

ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.


Ooohhh and just saw your pic.  You are much better looking than anything in WOW.  Actualky, you are WOW.  Hubba Hubba, Dayum, and all that !
 
2017-08-13 08:55:31 AM  

Your Dance Instructor: ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.

Ooohhh and just saw your pic.  You are much better looking than anything in WOW.  Actualky, you are WOW.  Hubba Hubba, Dayum, and all that !


Someone's thirsty. Damn son. Put your tongue back in your mouth.
 
2017-08-13 09:01:16 AM  
Isn't Misophonia a mental illness, and part of the autism spectrum?
 
2017-08-13 09:01:55 AM  

Unikitty: Your Dance Instructor: ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.

Ooohhh and just saw your pic.  You are much better looking than anything in WOW.  Actualky, you are WOW.  Hubba Hubba, Dayum, and all that !

Someone's thirsty. Damn son. Put your tongue back in your mouth.


Broseph, this lady's ex picked WOW over the booty.   THE BOOTY.
 
2017-08-13 10:03:13 AM  

Trik: Irrational woman is irrational


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2017-08-13 10:04:20 AM  

Your Dance Instructor: Unikitty: Your Dance Instructor: ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.

Ooohhh and just saw your pic.  You are much better looking than anything in WOW.  Actualky, you are WOW.  Hubba Hubba, Dayum, and all that !

Someone's thirsty. Damn son. Put your tongue back in your mouth.

Broseph, this lady's ex picked WOW over the booty.   THE BOOTY.


Perhaps there's more to it than picking WOW...
 
2017-08-13 10:14:06 AM  
To everyone:

Chew with your god damn mouths closed you savage beasts.

That is all.
 
2017-08-13 10:16:13 AM  

Umfufu: Isn't Misophonia a mental illness, and part of the autism spectrum?


My shrink says my misophonia is a direct result of my ADHD.  The part of my brain that's suppose to filter out what's important (and thus, what I'm supposed to pay attention to) and what's not important (and consequently, can be ignored) is broken.  As a result, stuff that's supposed to fall into the background (including noises) doesn't, and I end up focusing on them.  For us ADHDers/misophoniacs, there is no ability to ignore or tune out unpleasant sounds.

For me, regular and periodic noises are especially bad.  I can't be in the same room as a ticking analog clock, for example.  My shrink has such a clock in his office, and the very first thing I do at our visits is remove his clock from the wall and pull out the batteries; when I leave, I put the batteries back in and reset the time.

Windshield wipers, too (I use Rain-X and avoid windshield wipers unless I absolutely must use them).  My husband's snoring (we sleep in separate rooms).   Even my own heartbeat (just one of dozens of reasons I struggle to fall asleep).  With periodic noises, I end up anticipating the next occurrence and it leads to a shiat ton of anxiety (like, full-on fight-or-flight response, complete with chest tightness and the inability to breathe).

Yeah, it's all probably part of some general "sensory processing disorder" which is common among autistic people, too.

It all sucks.
 
2017-08-13 10:17:07 AM  
My first thought:  she found a buyer?
 
2017-08-13 10:17:42 AM  

Trik: Irrational woman is irrational


Dickhead is dickhead.
 
2017-08-13 10:20:16 AM  

OMGSTFU: Wait a sec. The windshield wipers thing is legit. My husband forgets they are on and lets them screech. Why? Because he's talking! I have to reach over anf turn them off before they catch fire.


I'm always turning off my husband's wipers, too.  He somehow doesn't notice the noise?!??  How the fark is that possible?
 
2017-08-13 10:22:45 AM  

Spanky McStupid: Trik: Irrational woman is irrational

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sarcasm?
 
2017-08-13 10:31:03 AM  

FizixJunkee: Trik: Irrational woman is irrational Dickhead is dickhead.

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remove most the dialogue
and it's yew

 
2017-08-13 10:33:10 AM  
My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.
 
2017-08-13 10:44:37 AM  
I have calluses on all y sort spots
most importantly my emotions
It's a survival skill
One that should have been nurtured.
 
2017-08-13 10:49:36 AM  
replying to HanShotPreemptively
need an edit function
 
2017-08-13 12:16:42 PM  

basemetal: So, you know that irritates the shiat out of her, but you do it anyway. Some might see this as mental abuse, and it hurts some people as much as physical abuse.


Yeah.  Giving him the boot would be reasonable.
 
2017-08-13 12:21:23 PM  

HanShotPreemptively: My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.


So if a guy asks his wife to stop nagging, and she continues, shall we assume that she is abusive, too?
 
2017-08-13 12:42:45 PM  

bronyaur1: HanShotPreemptively: My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.

So if a guy asks his wife to stop nagging, and she continues, shall we assume that she is abusive, too?


Don't be ridiculous. Women can't be abusive.

/tips fedora
 
2017-08-13 01:47:06 PM  
I recall a female comedian talking about one of her young just-married friends complaining to her that her husband left the cap off the toothpaste etc.  She told her to suck it up and "come back when he's farking your sister and beating you."
 
2017-08-13 02:21:32 PM  

Trik: Spanky McStupid: Trik: Irrational woman is irrational

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sarcasm?


Not at all.
 
2017-08-13 02:24:46 PM  

Spanky McStupid: Trik: Spanky McStupid: Trik: Irrational woman is irrational

[img.fark.net image 640x640]

sarcasm?

Not at all.


I should add, this is how my husband's mind works
 
2017-08-13 02:35:17 PM  

bronyaur1: HanShotPreemptively: My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.

So if a guy asks his wife to stop nagging, and she continues, shall we assume that she is abusive, too?


At least half the cases of nagging I have known have involved a spouse who just doesn't follow through on stuff they said they would do in hopes the other will come in and clean up the mess, so the other spouse starts to remind them more, so the first one passive aggressively starts "forgetting"  more often, which leads to more reminders and either separate bedrooms or a divorce.

And why is it only called "nagging" if she does it?
 
2017-08-13 03:58:42 PM  

Spanky McStupid: Trik: Spanky McStupid: Trik: Irrational woman is irrational

[img.fark.net image 640x640]

sarcasm?

Not at all.


I blame your parents and the school system that reared you.
 
2017-08-13 04:00:07 PM  

Spanky McStupid: Spanky McStupid: Trik: Spanky McStupid: Trik: Irrational woman is irrational

[img.fark.net image 640x640]

sarcasm?

Not at all.

I should add, this is how my husband's mind works


borderline "metoo'ing"
 
2017-08-13 05:53:06 PM  

Sassy Smurfette 21: Your Dance Instructor: Unikitty: Your Dance Instructor: ihateallofyou: abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.

I have it as well and divorced over it. Well, that and I wanted sex and he wanted WoW.
But yes, I do have this and will stab a biatch.

Ooohhh and just saw your pic.  You are much better looking than anything in WOW.  Actualky, you are WOW.  Hubba Hubba, Dayum, and all that !

Someone's thirsty. Damn son. Put your tongue back in your mouth.

Broseph, this lady's ex picked WOW over the booty.   THE BOOTY.

Perhaps there's more to it than picking WOW...


Bingo
 
2017-08-13 06:47:33 PM  

interstellar_tedium: At least half the cases of nagging I have known have involved a spouse who just doesn't follow through on stuff they said they would do in hopes the other will come in and clean up the mess, so the other spouse starts to remind them more, so the first one passive aggressively starts "forgetting"  more often, which leads to more reminders and either separate bedrooms or a divorce.


Surprisingly, after we broke up, I continued to exist and manage to do all those things to run a household on budget
 
2017-08-13 08:37:48 PM  

Harry_Seldon: interstellar_tedium: At least half the cases of nagging I have known have involved a spouse who just doesn't follow through on stuff they said they would do in hopes the other will come in and clean up the mess, so the other spouse starts to remind them more, so the first one passive aggressively starts "forgetting"  more often, which leads to more reminders and either separate bedrooms or a divorce.

Surprisingly, after we broke up, I continued to exist and manage to do all those things to run a household on budget


Didn't say every case jackass
 
2017-08-13 08:45:07 PM  

interstellar_tedium: bronyaur1: HanShotPreemptively: My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.

So if a guy asks his wife to stop nagging, and she continues, shall we assume that she is abusive, too?

At least half the cases of nagging I have known have involved a spouse who just doesn't follow through on stuff they said they would do in hopes the other will come in and clean up the mess, so the other spouse starts to remind them more, so the first one passive aggressively starts "forgetting"  more often, which leads to more reminders and either separate bedrooms or a divorce.

And why is it only called "nagging" if she does it?


Guys can nag, but apparently do so at a rate or in such a way that a lot fewer women complain about it than do men.
 
2017-08-13 11:05:29 PM  

bronyaur1: interstellar_tedium: bronyaur1: HanShotPreemptively: My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.

So if a guy asks his wife to stop nagging, and she continues, shall we assume that she is abusive, too?

At least half the cases of nagging I have known have involved a spouse who just doesn't follow through on stuff they said they would do in hopes the other will come in and clean up the mess, so the other spouse starts to remind them more, so the first one passive aggressively starts "forgetting"  more often, which leads to more reminders and either separate bedrooms or a divorce.

And why is it only called "nagging" if she does it?

Guys can nag, but apparently do so at a rate or in such a way that a lot fewer women complain about it than do men.


I know this is very generalized and very anectdotal ...

From my observations and experience: men tend to be less concerned with method than women are as long as the end result is the same. The nagging reflects that.
- typical guy: he usually just wants "X" to get done, and once it's done, he's happy.
- typical gal: she's much more likely to specify exactly how she wants "X" to be done.
 
2017-08-14 02:37:11 AM  

Kouta: bronyaur1: interstellar_tedium: bronyaur1: HanShotPreemptively: My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.

So if a guy asks his wife to stop nagging, and she continues, shall we assume that she is abusive, too?

At least half the cases of nagging I have known have involved a spouse who just doesn't follow through on stuff they said they would do in hopes the other will come in and clean up the mess, so the other spouse starts to remind them more, so the first one passive aggressively starts "forgetting"  more often, which leads to more reminders and either separate bedrooms or a divorce.

And why is it only called "nagging" if she does it?

Guys can nag, but apparently do so at a rate or in such a way that a lot fewer women complain about it than do men.

I know this is very generalized and very anectdotal ...

From my observations and experience: men tend to be less concerned with method than women are as long as the end result is the same. The nagging reflects that.
- typical guy: he usually just wants "X" to get done, and once it's done, he's happy.
- typical gal: she's much more likely to specify exactly how she wants "X" to be done.


I agree, and note that in my limited dataset, gals will restate ALL the required steps even if the guy is doing step 3 of 5...

Mrs South, when challenged, will respond, "I just want to be shure..."

/ She's a red-head
// Was once a teacher of adolescent girls
 
2017-08-14 04:15:51 AM  

LarrySouth: Kouta: bronyaur1: interstellar_tedium: bronyaur1: HanShotPreemptively: My wife and one of my daughters have misophonia. You understand it's a real thing when you see an otherwise tough 12 year old girl in tears holding her head because her sister is eating chips.

If she asked him to stop, and the husband continued, then he's being a abusive.

So if a guy asks his wife to stop nagging, and she continues, shall we assume that she is abusive, too?

At least half the cases of nagging I have known have involved a spouse who just doesn't follow through on stuff they said they would do in hopes the other will come in and clean up the mess, so the other spouse starts to remind them more, so the first one passive aggressively starts "forgetting"  more often, which leads to more reminders and either separate bedrooms or a divorce.

And why is it only called "nagging" if she does it?

Guys can nag, but apparently do so at a rate or in such a way that a lot fewer women complain about it than do men.

I know this is very generalized and very anectdotal ...

From my observations and experience: men tend to be less concerned with method than women are as long as the end result is the same. The nagging reflects that.
- typical guy: he usually just wants "X" to get done, and once it's done, he's happy.
- typical gal: she's much more likely to specify exactly how she wants "X" to be done.

I agree, and note that in my limited dataset, gals will restate ALL the required steps even if the guy is doing step 3 of 5...

Mrs South, when challenged, will respond, "I just want to be shure..."

/ She's a red-head
// Was once a teacher of adolescent girls


I'm a very boyish woman. All of my fussy ex-girlfriends quickly learned that I can clean in less half the time they need and, when I clean my toilet, it's spotless and stays clean for about a month.
 
2017-08-14 08:26:48 AM  

abhorrent1: Misophonia, if you didn't know, is a sensitivity to certain noises. Teresa can't handle listening to people eating loudly.

I totally have that. I CAN NOT stand eating sounds. I've had to get up from the table and leave the room to go eat my myself more times that I can remember. If we're at my house, I usually have a radio or TV on for some background noise, but sitting silently at a table listening to people eat makes me murdery.


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