Rain Fall: That said, sex and marriage go hand in hand. I don't understand women who withhold sex from their men, or men who demand sex from their women. Surely there must be a way to figure it out without all the stupid gender stereotypes having to come into play?
Lets talk frankly about internal cleanliness: E5bie: Lets talk frankly about internal cleanliness:"I've tried everything! I've tried talking to you, I've tried staying out of your way, you just seem so mad all the time.""Have you tried sucking my cock? Just throwing that out there..."Wooo-hoo! You're about to unlock level one achievement for a happy marriage: She learns to suck it off before it gripes!Next achievement is level two: He learns to brush teeth and shower without being asked! Even though he's "only" with his wife!Level three is only good for bragging rights, as this is relationship will undoubtedly last:He and She forget that other people don't know this basic shiat!shiat, I wish I was that far along. I'm still working on the "she learns to pick up after herself" achievement and the "occasionally cooks dinner for her family" achievement.
Rain Fall: If sex is the glue holding your marriage together, you should not be married.There are plenty of things that can make sex become hard, if not impossible: disease being one of them...say cancer..and it can literally stop sex like turning off a light switch. In this case, the relationship itself, the love and friendship, devotion and so on.. are what will hold the marriage together. Understand, cancer can stop sex permanently depending on its severity. I'm just saying...That said, sex and marriage go hand in hand. I don't understand women who withhold sex from their men, or men who demand sex from their women. Surely there must be a way to figure it out without all the stupid gender stereotypes having to come into play?I would assume a man needs intimacy and love and to fee appreciated and cared for in the same way as a woman does, and I would assume that a woman needs sex the same way a man does, but crossed wires, cultural and/ or gender expectations, combined with fatigue, ennui, being married for the wrong reasons, job pressures, kids, life in general make this all hard to accomplish sometimes.People should communicate more, not read articles online. If your afraid to talk to your husband or wife about intimate issues, you probably should not be married to that person.
The Southern Logic Company: Not clicking the link, but if I had to guess:Twice a week is too much because all sex is rape and disgusting because men./How close was I?
cgraves67: First thought: "What's wrong with having sex twice a week?"Second thought: "Author sounds like a married woman."Third thought: "Oh, Jezebel. It all makes sense now."
smoky2010: Twice a week is a good number as it is 4 to 8 times the normal amount of sex married couples have.
minoridiot: I got married because I wanted to see my wife intimately on a regular basis, not because I needed a roommate.
mongbiohazard: Does it have to be with my wife?
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