duke3522: He was just thinking of the children
buzzcut73: Guy probably knew better than anybody that at this point, it didn't matter whether he would be found guilty or cleared of wrongdoing, in the eyes of the justice department and his co-workers, he likes kiddie porn, and his life was over.I'd probably go ahead and put myself out of my misery too, because there are some things you'll never recover from, and being an accused kiddy diddler is one of them, whether you ever did it or not.
theorellior: "He seemed to have a fun and carefree life and enjoyed life itself," said Hietpas.Sounds like a testimonial for the hobby of child porn.
Huck And Molly Ziegler: Surely there's an organic malfunction that can be either repaired or neutralized.
jj325: A public servant who actually saved the state of Florida hundreds of thousands of dollars in court/trial/incarceration costs. Give this man a medal!
Surpheon: I'd think it's better to have no sex drive
Surpheon: It's not that simple. Although chemical castration (Depo Provera) does seem to do the trick in many cases. I'd think it's better to have no sex drive than one for children.
zulius: My ex friend was caught with the kiddie stuff when they caught him trying to do a 6-year old, hopefully when he gets out, he'll do the same thing...
Lady Indica: zulius: My ex friend was caught with the kiddie stuff when they caught him trying to do a 6-year old, hopefully when he gets out, he'll do the same thing...I worked with a guy (we were lunch buddies) who's childhood best friend was a pedophile. Caught and convicted, though he actually did molest someone. Was a group of 3 guys all best friends growing up. Other guy was unforgiving. Anyone because of my background in psych he wanted to know if his friend could be treated/cured/fixed. I gave him all the data around back then (pre-google) and then like now, the answer is pretty much 'no'.Beyond the csb, it was the first time I'd seen someone go through that, though of course people who commit heinous crimes of course have friends and family who once or still does love them. I can't imagine going through that though. I'm not conflating the damage done as equal or close to that done to the kids, but it was my first introduction to how much damage is done to the people who once cared for and trusted these people. Even though he still loved his friend and wanted to salvage, he was reflecting on every past moment. Asking over and over what he missed. Why was his friend like this? How could he do this?Anyway whole point was, I wanted to say I'm sorry for what you must have gone through with that. I don't think a lot of people recognize how horrific that is too.
Nacc: This.My ex husband.Our daughter.I only recently realized how many pictures he isn't in, except for one last family photo before his lies came unraveled, and told him I am grateful because that photo I can no longer enjoy looking at, seeing her face and realizing the huge secret she was about to tell me and my stupid face not realizing what was happening in my house. But there are others he isn't in, so I can still enjoy them without being reminded of his presence.He served some time and is on probation living with his mother, telling whoever whatever he wants to say about what happened, sure not the truth, instead letting his guilty verdict speak for itself.I didn't want him hurt or to die because it is enough having to explain to our kids, our son, that he's gone and can't be a part of our lives the way that he was without having to add his death to the reasons to grieve.
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