Do you have adblock enabled?
If you can read this, either the style sheet didn't load or you have an older browser that doesn't support style sheets. Try clearing your browser cache and refreshing the page.

(Kansas City)   Raped 14-year-old daughter moves away from town that hates her, town doesn't forgive, still burns down the old house   (kansascity.com) divider line 780
    More: Scary, college town, Missouri House of Representatives, town square, freshman year, Maryville, school year, girl play  
•       •       •

21959 clicks; posted to Main » on 14 Oct 2013 at 8:23 AM (1 year ago)   |  Favorite    |   share:  Share on Twitter share via Email Share on Facebook   more»



780 Comments   (+0 »)
   
View Voting Results: Smartest and Funniest

Archived thread

First | « | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15 | 16 | » | Last | Show all
 
2013-10-14 06:41:22 PM  

The My Little Pony Killer: elchupacabra: The My Little Pony Killer: skozlaw: The My Little Pony Killer: Can we start focus on helping to teach our sons not to rape

Yea, right, you sure got me there. Nobody teaches their sons that rape is wrong. Good point.

No, you still severely missed my point.

Any time it is brought up that we need to do better in our upbringing of boys, misogynists like you jump up to demand that boys already are being taught not to rape. That's why rapes never happen, and why this town didn't run a family off and burn their house down, right?

Sorry to swerve into this, but that's less "Teach Boys not to rape" than "Teach communities not to shelter their criminals just because they're popular or talented at some stupid thing".

We wouldn't have to worry so much about the occasional craptacular parent failing to educate, then protecting their crotchspawn from consequences of being scum, if the community would not tolerate this crap because FOOTBALL!

You have to have a criminal in the first place in order for the town to shelter them over FOOTBALL.


Erm... I'm confused; are we saying charges were not dropped to protect popular athletes?  If so, the community should have risen up and asserted they would not tolerate the absence of prosecution of criminal conduct -- especially if it were a slam dunk as asserted.  Otherwise, the town sheltered them over FOOTBALL.
 
2013-10-14 06:41:56 PM  
The county has been full of instances where crap just seems to happen.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nodaway_County,_Missouri#Crime_in_Nodaw ay _County
 
2013-10-14 06:43:42 PM  

Daraymann: So when is Matthew Barnett, rapist, going to be on Fox News?


When is Matthew Barnett, rapist, going to be a member of the Fox News team?

/Would have struck and edited, but I'm on mobilefark.
 
2013-10-14 06:45:16 PM  

kcfarker: Texas Gabe:
Jordan Zech is a pedophile
Jordan Zech, pedophile
Jordan Zech Maryville pedophile
Jordan Zech is a child pornographer
Jordan Zech, child pornographer
Jordan Zech Maryville child pornographer
Jordan Zech Maryville child porn
JordP@55w0rd5an Zech Maryville kiddie porn

you forgot...

Matthew Barnett is a pedophile
Matthew Barnett, pedophile
Matthew Barnett Maryville pedophile
Matthew Barnett is a child pornographer
Matthew Barnett, child pornographer
Matthew Barnett Maryville child pornographer
Matthew Barnett Maryville child porn

...and...

A&G Restaurant for pedophiles
A&G Restaurant, pedophile
A&G Restaurant Maryville pedophile
A&G Restaurant for child pornographers
A&G Restaurant, child pornographer
A&G Restaurant Maryville child pornographer
A&G Restaurant Maryville child porn


I didn't forget, I just thought that Jordan Zech the Maryville pedophile child pornographer wasn't getting his share of the hate in this thread.
 
2013-10-14 06:45:19 PM  
Funny how its always the footballers... and people wonder why I don't watch football, and don't encourage my kids to have anything to do with it...
 
2013-10-14 06:46:11 PM  

elchupacabra: The My Little Pony Killer: elchupacabra: The My Little Pony Killer: skozlaw: The My Little Pony Killer: Can we start focus on helping to teach our sons not to rape

Yea, right, you sure got me there. Nobody teaches their sons that rape is wrong. Good point.

No, you still severely missed my point.

Any time it is brought up that we need to do better in our upbringing of boys, misogynists like you jump up to demand that boys already are being taught not to rape. That's why rapes never happen, and why this town didn't run a family off and burn their house down, right?

Sorry to swerve into this, but that's less "Teach Boys not to rape" than "Teach communities not to shelter their criminals just because they're popular or talented at some stupid thing".

We wouldn't have to worry so much about the occasional craptacular parent failing to educate, then protecting their crotchspawn from consequences of being scum, if the community would not tolerate this crap because FOOTBALL!

You have to have a criminal in the first place in order for the town to shelter them over FOOTBALL.

Erm... I'm confused; are we saying charges were not dropped to protect popular athletes?  If so, the community should have risen up and asserted they would not tolerate the absence of prosecution of criminal conduct -- especially if it were a slam dunk as asserted.  Otherwise, the town sheltered them over FOOTBALL.


I thought it was because Matthew Barnett, rapist, is the grandson of a politician?
 
2013-10-14 06:47:31 PM  

LavenderWolf: The My Little Pony Killer: You can help women avoid predators by actively refusing to raise predators. They don't come from a vacuum. You idiots are hyperfocused on what the woman could have done wrong in the situation, when all she did was exist. TEACH YOUR BOYS TO RESPECT OTHER HUMAN BEINGS. Not a difficult concept, and it shouldn't be met with jackholes demanding that we don't forget the girls in all this. We haven't forgotten the girls, we just choose to acknowledge that the boys (and their parents, and community) have had THEIR own roles in all this as well.

Misandrist.

Nobody is telling boys it's okay to rape. The message is LOUD AND CLEAR that rape is wrong.


Apparently some people haven't gotten the message. Like Matthew and his friend, the authorities that swept it under the rug, the townspeople that are cheering him on, whoever burnt the victim's house down, the person that filmed it, the people that ran the victim's family out of town.

Seriously, a good number of people in that town including the authorities are covering for this kid who admitted to raping the girl and dumping her unconscious body on the lawn in the freezing cold. What kind of message does THAT send?

Not everyone gets the talk from their parents about how to be a gentleman but you know what guys ARE told though? To be aggressive. To go after women. To score. The hero gets the girl and football stars are heroes. You couple all that with a society that is more likely to vilify and punish the victim while letting the rapist go free and yeah, some guys are going to be emboldened enough to try it. Not only is there a clear lack of consequences but people will cover for them! You're darn right some jerk with no respect for others is going to cross the line.

Because as a society we're NOT sending a clear enough message that it won't be tolerated.
 
2013-10-14 06:49:47 PM  

Texas Gabe: kcfarker: Texas Gabe:
Jordan Zech is a pedophile
Jordan Zech, pedophile
Jordan Zech Maryville pedophile
Jordan Zech is a child pornographer
Jordan Zech, child pornographer
Jordan Zech Maryville child pornographer
Jordan Zech Maryville child porn
JordP@55w0rd5an Zech Maryville kiddie porn

you forgot...

Matthew Barnett is a pedophile
Matthew Barnett, pedophile
Matthew Barnett Maryville pedophile
Matthew Barnett is a child pornographer
Matthew Barnett, child pornographer
Matthew Barnett Maryville child pornographer
Matthew Barnett Maryville child porn

...and...

A&G Restaurant for pedophiles
A&G Restaurant, pedophile
A&G Restaurant Maryville pedophile
A&G Restaurant for child pornographers
A&G Restaurant, child pornographer
A&G Restaurant Maryville child pornographer
A&G Restaurant Maryville child porn

I didn't forget, I just thought that Jordan Zech the Maryville pedophile child pornographer wasn't getting his share of the hate in this thread.


Yes. We mustn't forget about Jordan Zech, the child pornographer who filmed the rape committed by Matthew Barnett, rapist and then was mysteriously lost by Jordan Zech, child pornographer.
 
2013-10-14 06:50:02 PM  
I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.
 
2013-10-14 06:53:32 PM  
Mid_mo_mad_man Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.

well...you ARE in N'west Mizzurrah
 
2013-10-14 06:55:25 PM  

Mid_mo_mad_man: I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.


I thought the facts were pretty well covered in TFA about Matthew Barnett being a rapist and his friend Jordan Zech the child pornographer filming it with his iPhone . Perhaps you should read it again to refresh your memory?
 
2013-10-14 06:57:31 PM  

RectalFury: Fano: RectalFury: Well since  Matthew Barnett who attendsUniversity of Central Missouri is in fact, a rapist. Probably will also grow into a pedophile. Have you seen the guy?  [img.gawkerassets.com image 320x432]

[img.gawkerassets.com image 320x432]

Looks like  Matthew Barnett who attendsUniversity of Central Missouri couldn't look more like a rapist to me.

Does anyone have the original of that pic?

Not finding it.


www.holdinoutforahero.orgi.qkme.me
i1.ytimg.com
 
2013-10-14 06:59:10 PM  

Fano: RectalFury: Fano: RectalFury: Well since  Matthew Barnett who attendsUniversity of Central Missouri is in fact, a rapist. Probably will also grow into a pedophile. Have you seen the guy?  [img.gawkerassets.com image 320x432]

[img.gawkerassets.com image 320x432]

Looks like  Matthew Barnett who attendsUniversity of Central Missouri couldn't look more like a rapist to me.

Does anyone have the original of that pic?

Not finding it.


At least Rock's face fits his head.
 
2013-10-14 06:59:44 PM  
elysive: Also, I question if people really understand what rape is.

I think that's exactly the issue at the heart of shiatty situations like this, or Steubenville, and also a big part of the reason someone can still get 40% of the vote in a Senate race after uttering the phrase "legitimate rape."  People aren't supporting these guys because they don't know (or believe) what happened, or because they know what happened but they think rape is okay.  Most people supporting these guys do know what happened, but they don't think it was rape.

Teenagers need to be taught what qualifies as consent and what doesn't.  It's not a problem specific to guys, it's not as simple as telling guys not to rape.  They know that.  There's obviously plenty of misunderstanding among girls and women too, which is why so many of them are supporting rapists, and why so many of them think it's their fault when they're raped.  I've spent a good chunk of my life in small Midwestern towns, and I think this is the biggest problem: an awful lot of people really don't know what rape is.  I'd like to think they shouldn't have to be told.  It would be nice if everyone just understood that an unconscious or otherwise incapacitated person can't consent to sex.  But apparently it's not that obvious to everyone, which is why a clear explanation of consent should be part of health class in every high school.  Which, yes, I realize is not a thing that's ever gonna happen in most of America.  So...here we are.
 
2013-10-14 07:03:52 PM  

Mid_mo_mad_man: I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.


OK Fark - Ready. Aim. FIRE!
 
2013-10-14 07:09:13 PM  
So, Mid_Mo_Mad_Man, are you Barnett, or are you the other guy?
 
2013-10-14 07:14:28 PM  
Has anyone mentioned 'Roid rapey yet with the huge neck and tiny tiny head?

/just sayin'
//I said JUST SAYIN'!!!
///Wait, what was I saying?
 
2013-10-14 07:16:51 PM  

Savage Belief: Mid_mo_mad_man: I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.

I thought the facts were pretty well covered in TFA about Matthew Barnett being a rapist and his friend Jordan Zech the child pornographer filming it with his iPhone . Perhaps you should read it again to refresh your memory?


they had the right to shoot because they felt endangered
 
2013-10-14 07:21:11 PM  

RectalFury: elchupacabra: RectalFury: [pbs.twimg.com image 850x378]

DNRTFA; I take it this is someone who sided with the rapist?

Pretty much. Also called a rape victim a skank, which was a nice touch.


Aaaaand...she's gone.

But the intarweb never forgets.

/right-click, save image as...
 
2013-10-14 07:24:49 PM  

elchupacabra: The My Little Pony Killer: elchupacabra: The My Little Pony Killer: skozlaw: The My Little Pony Killer: Can we start focus on helping to teach our sons not to rape

Yea, right, you sure got me there. Nobody teaches their sons that rape is wrong. Good point.

No, you still severely missed my point.

Any time it is brought up that we need to do better in our upbringing of boys, misogynists like you jump up to demand that boys already are being taught not to rape. That's why rapes never happen, and why this town didn't run a family off and burn their house down, right?

Sorry to swerve into this, but that's less "Teach Boys not to rape" than "Teach communities not to shelter their criminals just because they're popular or talented at some stupid thing".

We wouldn't have to worry so much about the occasional craptacular parent failing to educate, then protecting their crotchspawn from consequences of being scum, if the community would not tolerate this crap because FOOTBALL!

You have to have a criminal in the first place in order for the town to shelter them over FOOTBALL.

Erm... I'm confused; are we saying charges were not dropped to protect popular athletes?  If so, the community should have risen up and asserted they would not tolerate the absence of prosecution of criminal conduct -- especially if it were a slam dunk as asserted.  Otherwise, the town sheltered them over FOOTBALL.


We are not saying charges were not dropped to protect the popular athletes. Raising children starts with parents, no? The community has nothing to do with that. However, I AM saying that there wouldn't be little criminals for the community to rally for if we do not tolerate the crime in the first place.

I AM saying that we tolerate rape. That is not good.
 
2013-10-14 07:28:40 PM  
Apparently Nodaway County doesn't like priests either.

http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/news/nation/2002/06/10/abbey-shooting .h tm
 
2013-10-14 07:31:28 PM  
This situation calls for extrajudicial violence.
 
2013-10-14 07:38:05 PM  

RectalFury: [img.fark.net image 320x432]


My god, nor only is Matthew Barnett the rapist, but he's also the giraffe.
 
2013-10-14 07:39:07 PM  

The My Little Pony Killer: elchupacabra: .

We are not saying charges were not dropped to protect the popular athletes. Raising children starts with parents, no? The community has nothing to do with that. However, I AM saying that there wouldn't be little criminals for the community to rally for if we do not tolerate the crime in the first place.

I AM saying that we tolerate rape. That is not good.


Gotcha.  I'm actually saying we tolerate rape if the rapist is popular for some (undeserved IMO) reason.

And paradoxically, I think your statement agrees more with my assertion.  Because if the issue were tolerance of rape in general, you'd have much more of what we see in, say, Pakistan, where women get executed for adultery or other sin if they're raped because why were they outside and away from their (male owner)?

If this weren't a popular athlete but some creepy emo kid or "Trenchcoat Mafia" type, the hammer would have come down HARD even if it meant a local was prosecuted for what happened to the new girl.  Or if the girl was the head cheerleader and was accused of something equally dire, I bet the cover up would have gone in her favor and the accusing boy would have been bullied incessantly as some sissy tattletale.  Or worse words.

You can "teach men not to rape" by whatever standard you think needed -- but we'll never really know if these scum actually weren't taught, or ignored the lesson.  But the fact that there was a cover up means the culture, again, protected the popular kid.
 
2013-10-14 07:40:05 PM  

wingnutx: This situation calls for extrajudicial violence.


Against the rapist, or against the community that tolerates it?

/I'm thinking the answer is yes
 
2013-10-14 07:41:12 PM  
UCM is getting heat, too. Their copypasta Tweet response:  UCM is required to allow qualified/eligible students to pursue an education.We're committed to safety http://bit.ly/1bRusVP

/just hit CNN, I hear. "bright futures?"
 
2013-10-14 07:42:47 PM  
 
2013-10-14 07:50:46 PM  
It's on CNN Now
 
2013-10-14 07:57:38 PM  
There's decent men with loving families, they go home every day after work and turn on the news, you know what they see? They see rapists and murderers and child molesters. They're all getting out of prison Not trying to sound like an internet tough guy, buy I have people close to me that were teenage victims of rape and I see what it does to people.
 
2013-10-14 08:05:12 PM  
Hmm, mom says the sheriff told her this happened to as many as 10 other girls from this same clique of boys, yet no one was prosecuted?  Serial rapist Matthew Barnett is all serial and rape-y, possibly many times over.  His favorite cartoon?:   Rape Ape
 
2013-10-14 08:28:03 PM  

Voiceofreason01: Crabs_Can_Polevault: They call it the "heartland."Missouri

don't lump the rest of us in with those people.

/Missouri: if you're not in St. Louis or Kansas City then you're in backwoods, hick, redneck country that will rival anything in Appalachia or the deep south.


You forgot Columbia
 
gja
2013-10-14 08:42:42 PM  

HeartBurnKid: don't think that applies here. This is not an instance of a guilty man getting off on a technicality or because of a reasonable doubt. This is a heinous crime, one of the most heinous crimes a person can commit, being excused simply because the criminal is a son of privilege. This isn't a flaw in the system, this is an indication that the system is completely and utterly broken, that the deck is stacked in favor of the elite. And sometimes, an angry mob is just the thing to level the playing field. At the very least, it'll put the fear of God back into the elites, and make them realize the commoners aren't going to tolerate their shiat.


That would be a nice thing, but these people are Godless, so I am gonna go with it's a hopeless cause in their case.
 
gja
2013-10-14 08:45:21 PM  

IRQ12: She was .13BAC after ~10hours?  She's lucky to be alive on multiple fronts.  This isn't even one of those "he said/she said" type scenarios:  If there was evidence of sexual contact linking him it's a slam dunk.  Someone in the .25-.3 BAC is not even likely to be conscious.  It also lends credibility to them giving them  glasses full of vodka knowing exactly what the result would be.

The thing I don't get is why these guys do this.  I can understand the crime of opportunity scumbags taking advantage of girls but these guys sound like they could have their pick of the litter and having willing participants at their beck and call (current  victim included).  Why go this route?  Is humping something warm and unconscious a thing?


WOWSERS! .13? That's freaking high enough I would have that girl checked out for actual problems. That's alcohol poisoning territory.
 
2013-10-14 08:53:00 PM  
RectalFury Looks like it

Boy, that was quick-she's still on F'book extolling her interests in Lil' Wayne, planking & the Goo Goo Dolls-It's nice her little Jayhawk bro is open-minded enough to hang out with guys in powdery wigs & flowing shirts while losing his shiat over the town's 1st GameStop https://twitter.com/JGolightly12/status/372915297281646592
 
2013-10-14 08:54:26 PM  

Savage Belief: Mid_mo_mad_man: I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.

I thought the facts were pretty well covered in TFA about Matthew Barnett being a rapist and his friend Jordan Zech the child pornographer filming it with his iPhone . Perhaps you should read it again to refresh your memory?




He's not been convicted of rape. So be careful calling him a rapist. That being said all we have so far is her side of the story.
 
2013-10-14 09:02:19 PM  
More fun for everyone : https://www.facebook.com/DailyForum
 
2013-10-14 09:05:02 PM  

Mid_mo_mad_man: Savage Belief: Mid_mo_mad_man: I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.

I thought the facts were pretty well covered in TFA about Matthew Barnett being a rapist and his friend Jordan Zech the child pornographer filming it with his iPhone . Perhaps you should read it again to refresh your memory?

He's not been convicted of rape. So be careful calling him a rapist. That being said all we have so far is her side of the story.


Although you are a dumass I will give you credit for staying power.
 
2013-10-14 09:08:19 PM  

R. Paulson: Mid_mo_mad_man: Savage Belief: Mid_mo_mad_man: I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.

I thought the facts were pretty well covered in TFA about Matthew Barnett being a rapist and his friend Jordan Zech the child pornographer filming it with his iPhone . Perhaps you should read it again to refresh your memory?

He's not been convicted of rape. So be careful calling him a rapist. That being said all we have so far is her side of the story.

Although you are a dumass I will give you credit for staying power.


What's the point of being a rapist if you blow your load right away?

img.fark.net
 
2013-10-14 09:20:29 PM  

RectalFury: R. Paulson: Mid_mo_mad_man: Savage Belief: Mid_mo_mad_man: I said it earlier and I will say it again. Fark gets ready to lynch way to quick before all the facts are known. Just like the Zimmerman case people don't know the facts completely and rushing to judgement. Someone of you all scare me more then these alleged rapists.

I thought the facts were pretty well covered in TFA about Matthew Barnett being a rapist and his friend Jordan Zech the child pornographer filming it with his iPhone . Perhaps you should read it again to refresh your memory?

He's not been convicted of rape. So be careful calling him a rapist. That being said all we have so far is her side of the story.

Although you are a dumass I will give you credit for staying power.

What's the point of being a rapist if you blow your load right away?

[img.fark.net image 320x432]


That's a neck only Gul Dukat could love.
 
2013-10-14 09:54:46 PM  
And now Anonymous is getting involved...

http://rt.com/usa/anonymous-daisy-coleman-missouri-179/
 
2013-10-14 09:57:28 PM  
Well, shucks.  I tried to submit something to the "Report a problem" page on the Maryville MO site, but the it appears to be going toes up.  Anonymous at work already?

Allow me to paste my vitriol here, I know it is self-indulgent, but I am livid:
---
I'll tell you what the problem is.  YOUR TOWN IS THE PROBLEM.  It is positively sickening that you people dropped charges against known rapists who left a girl for dead, dumped, half frozen outside her house.

Despite a wealth of evidence against the scumbags who committed these crimes, it wasn't enough, apparently, to overcome the connections the rapist Matthew Barnett had to the town and to a state senator.

Your people fired the mother, harassed the girl and her brother and threatened them with violence, and finally, in a fit that boggles the imagination of decent human beings (NOT YOU) the people of your town burned their old house to the ground.

Anonymous is coming for you, and I couldn't be happier about it.  I hope your dreams are tortured, and a righteous God punishes you for the evil your whole town has done.
 
2013-10-14 10:18:46 PM  
You know "who" is really teaching children about sexual behavioral norms? The Internet. I'd love to think that a vanilla "dont do that" pep talk from a parent could compete with the hours upon hours of powerful, visual imagery piped directly to the brain of an 8, 9 or 10 yo child with unsupervised access to the net, as they masturbate and create pleasure pathways in their brains. I'd like to think a parent could "teach" a kid these things, but I just don't think you can compete with the lovely double edged internet sword we've created.

Today's porn doesn't just train the boys that all women are worthless, nasty sluts who want "the D", humiliation and sexual cruelty - it also teaches girls that. In the absence of the structured society and well defined sex roles of the past, these negative and harmful "new normals" have emerged to impact your children in ways more powerful than you can.

Males should act responsibly and not take advantage of drunk females. Females should act responsibly and not take advantage of drunk males. Neither should think its ok to get shiatfaced to the point of total loss of control and putting themselves in an unsafe, compromised position, regardless of blame and fault.

As for girls and women, you are not a powerless "victim." But if you're constantly told that you have no control over the situation, you not only lose confidence and empowerment, but you now live in fear of all the terrible things that those evil, nasty people can do to you that are completely out of your control.

Know your surroundings, know the people you're with, don't give up control (getting shiatfaced drunk or high), and know your limits. You are not those girls in Gonzo porn, there to be humiliated, used and abused as a cum dumpster. Develop your self respect, protect yourself and DON'T BE NAIVE.
 
2013-10-14 10:57:15 PM  

nucrash: More fun for everyone : https://www.facebook.com/DailyForum


The user called Phillip J Fry seems defensive, perhaps angry.  I wonder if he's pissed he missed out on the underage rape.
 
2013-10-14 11:45:30 PM  

RectalFury: GoldSpider: Cybernetic: The fact that the girl was easy prey does not excuse the actions of the predator.

And you can bet that when/if I ever have a teenage daughter, I'm going to try my damndest to teach her now not to be easy prey.

Lesson 1: How to drink responsibly.

Lesson 2: Avoid roofies. Or, blunt objects to the back of the head. Walking in lonely parking lots, or crowded ones. Or, being in public.

Always walk everywhere with a male chaperon. Elder, must be related. Although, they may rape you too. If they do, its your fault SLUT.

[upload.wikimedia.org image 850x554]


Really? You're going to hate on people who give their kids safety tips? I have a boy. I'm going to teach him how not to get raped and also how not to rape others. Good thing he's not a girl because then teaching her to remain safe would make me a terrible victim blamer and a rape apologist or some shiat I guess.
 
2013-10-14 11:45:49 PM  

Mid_mo_mad_man: He's not been convicted of rape. So be careful calling him a rapist.


The Mo is right about this, folks. Matthew Barnett is an accused rapist, because it's been said that Matt Barnett raped a child. But Matt Barnett has not been tried for the rape he allegedly committed. So it can't be said that Matt Barnett is a convicted rapist.

It's my personal opinion that it would be just for Matt Barnett to be tried for the rape he is said to have committed. But unless Matt Barnett is tried and convicted of rape, it would not be correct to call him "Matthew Barnett the rapist", let alone "Matt Barnett, convicted rapist"

Did I do that right, The Mo?
 
2013-10-14 11:48:19 PM  

Captain Horatio Mindblower: Mid_mo_mad_man: He's not been convicted of rape. So be careful calling him a rapist.

The Mo is right about this, folks. Matthew Barnett is an accused rapist, because it's been said that Matt Barnett raped a child. But Matt Barnett has not been tried for the rape he allegedly committed. So it can't be said that Matt Barnett is a convicted rapist.

It's my personal opinion that it would be just for Matt Barnett to be tried for the rape he is said to have committed. But unless Matt Barnett is tried and convicted of rape, it would not be correct to call him "Matthew Barnett the rapist", let alone "Matt Barnett, convicted rapist"

Did I do that right, The Mo?


But is "Matthew Barnett the confessed rapist" still okay? He didn't take back that confession, did he?
 
2013-10-15 12:20:28 AM  

The My Little Pony Killer: ColSanders: However, bad decisions on the girls' part should be pointed out and used as a teaching moment for young girlsboys.

Girls don't need to be taught to be not raped. Boys need to be taught to not rape. Don't let boys rape, period.

Blaming the victim only goes down a rabbit hole that nobody in this country wants to go down. Do YOU want women to have to cover themselves head-to-toe whenever they leave the house? Because that is where your idea leads to.


I'm sorry but it stands to reason that teaching everyone about rape and what it is and why it's bad and how not to be a part of it would be more effective than teaching only half the people, no? Despite whatever your answer may be, I'm still going to teach my kid both sides like never leave your drink unattended, etc, as well as teaching him never to have sex with someone who's been drinking, for example. Not everyone plays by the rules and you have to be careful.
 
2013-10-15 12:51:43 AM  

The My Little Pony Killer: spiderpaz: because you don't want to jeopardize your ideological purity

Not teaching your sons not to rape is what fails to jeopardize ideological purity, you git.


So I shouldn't teach my daughters to recognize and avoid risky situations because ... I can count on everyone else on the entire planet to teach their sons that rape is evil? Sure, I'll teach my son that. I'll still teach my daughters that sneaking out to meet boys at 1 AM and drinking with them could end up turning into something a lot worse. And no, it would not be their fault, just like it isn't the girl's fault in the article. She was a child, he was an adult and -- if the article is accurate -- should be doing time. Unfortunately the trauma will be there regardless of how faultless the girl is. THAT is what people are trying to protect their daughters from.
 
2013-10-15 01:02:40 AM  

Witness99: You know "who" is really teaching children about sexual behavioral norms? The Internet. I'd love to think that a vanilla "dont do that" pep talk from a parent could compete with the hours upon hours of powerful, visual imagery piped directly to the brain of an 8, 9 or 10 yo child with unsupervised access to the net, as they masturbate and create pleasure pathways in their brains. I'd like to think a parent could "teach" a kid these things, but I just don't think you can compete with the lovely double edged internet sword we've created.

Today's porn doesn't just train the boys that all women are worthless, nasty sluts who want "the D", humiliation and sexual cruelty - it also teaches girls that. In the absence of the structured society and well defined sex roles of the past, these negative and harmful "new normals" have emerged to impact your children in ways more powerful than you can.


This is indeed frightening and I've already started to think about how to deal with this when raising my son. It seems I am going to have to have a talk with my boy at some early age about degradation porn and the difference between fantasy and reality and how society in general has made sex this marketing tool and how real sex is not like what you see on the internet because that's all exxaggerated for the viewer to make up for the lack of an actual partner while watching and be careful with the extreme stuff because you can't unsee that kind horror.

Thanks, world.
 
2013-10-15 01:17:45 AM  
From what I've read, these people have obviously never seen/heard of Silent Hill and have no idea the kind of hell they may have unleashed upon themselves.
 
Displayed 50 of 780 comments

First | « | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | 14 | 15 | 16 | » | Last | Show all

View Voting Results: Smartest and Funniest


This thread is archived, and closed to new comments.

Continue Farking
Submit a Link »
Advertisement
On Twitter






In Other Media


  1. Links are submitted by members of the Fark community.

  2. When community members submit a link, they also write a custom headline for the story.

  3. Other Farkers comment on the links. This is the number of comments. Click here to read them.

  4. Click here to submit a link.

Report