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2013-08-23 11:48:09 AM
The safety word is "Endowment".
 
2013-08-23 12:33:39 PM
So that's what they call their young republicans club at Harvard...
 
2013-08-23 12:57:01 PM
They've had a fencing club for years
 
2013-08-23 01:28:16 PM

unlikely: They've had a fencing club for years


As a sabreur I agree
 
2013-08-23 01:31:45 PM
Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.
 
2013-08-23 01:36:33 PM

hailin: Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.


You'd be surprised, I think.  Black Rose DC is rumored to have some VERY "Pretend you don't recognize him/her"  Members
 
2013-08-23 01:37:25 PM
many a greek letter boy gonna be real confused
 
2013-08-23 01:37:44 PM
Looks like great fun, but if it gets on some official record somewhere you can forget about a political career....
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 01:38:46 PM
Hard to believe Harvard is this far behind Univ. of Chicago.
 
2013-08-23 01:39:17 PM
Do you get a free shirt out of it?
 
2013-08-23 01:39:17 PM
Thank you sir, may I have another.
 
2013-08-23 01:39:51 PM
It's prepping them for "The Grove"!
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 01:40:05 PM

Magorn: hailin: Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.

You'd be surprised, I think.  Black Rose DC is rumored to have some VERY "Pretend you don't recognize him/her"  Members


That's true of a number of places when that scene is the topic. Teachers, police officers, etc.. that happens a lot. Though, yes, I can see why DC might be even more pronounced about it with the public life of those in the area.
 
2013-08-23 01:40:07 PM

hailin: Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.


Uh, if you ever become part of a local BDSM Munch or group, you'll quickly realize how much professional connections and networking can be made in them. Many of them, especially in larger and affluent cities, contain a lot of politically and enterprise-connected people who have a lot of power and sway in everyday life.

They also take privacy seriously enough to make you sign NDAs at times, and outing members will not only get you banned, but ass kicked.
 
2013-08-23 01:42:47 PM
Where do I sign up?
 
2013-08-23 01:42:49 PM
What hardinparamedic said.
 
2013-08-23 01:43:13 PM
Frigging perverted degenerate masters of the world.
 
2013-08-23 01:43:19 PM
At least he got a free t-shirt
i1.cpcache.com
 
2013-08-23 01:43:26 PM

hardinparamedic: hailin: Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.

Uh, if you ever become part of a local BDSM Munch or group, you'll quickly realize how much professional connections and networking can be made in them. Many of them, especially in larger and affluent cities, contain a lot of politically and enterprise-connected people who have a lot of power and sway in everyday life.

They also take privacy seriously enough to make you sign NDAs at times, and outing members will not only get you banned, but ass kicked.


^this
 
2013-08-23 01:43:35 PM
www.eljamesauthor.com
Approved.
 
2013-08-23 01:43:47 PM
Ahh Eurotrip, funny movie.

And my god was Buffy's sister hot.
 
2013-08-23 01:43:54 PM
hardinparamedic: ...outing members will not only get you banned, but ass kicked.

Isn't that kind of the point of BDSM?
 
2013-08-23 01:49:07 PM

Angry Drunk Bureaucrat: The safety word is "Endowment".


No safe words have to be something the party would NEVER normally say...so "I can't afford it" or "I'll just dip into the principle" are much better choices
 
2013-08-23 01:49:37 PM
"I do not use safe-word. I use bicycle horn."

Obscure?
 
2013-08-23 01:51:52 PM
Injuriosum Veritas will be their motto?


/Cr*p at Latin, so if that means something other than naughty truth, my apologies
 
2013-08-23 01:52:55 PM

amindtat: Isn't that kind of the point of BDSM?


Outing people in the same sense as outing someone who was gay and closeted to everyone else.

People who openly practice BDSM are still very much stigmatized due to stereotypes and perceptions of abuse even though the relationship is consensual between two legal adults.

The local group, I know, requires you to consent to and pay for a criminal background check AND sign a legal NDA before you're even allowed to attend. And you have to be sponsered or invited by a current member.
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 01:52:57 PM

amindtat: hardinparamedic: ...outing members will not only get you banned, but ass kicked.

Isn't that kind of the point of BDSM?


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

that's funny. ooh boy. good one. whew. still rolling.
 
2013-08-23 01:54:53 PM

amindtat: hardinparamedic: ...outing members will not only get you banned, but ass kicked.

Isn't that kind of the point of BDSM?


There's good pain and bad pain. The ass kicking you got would "slightly" fall on the bad side of the ledger.
 
2013-08-23 01:54:59 PM
I'm in if she is!

imnotobsessed.com
 
2013-08-23 01:55:09 PM

DGS: Magorn: hailin: Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.

You'd be surprised, I think.  Black Rose DC is rumored to have some VERY "Pretend you don't recognize him/her"  Members

That's true of a number of places when that scene is the topic. Teachers, police officers, etc.. that happens a lot. Though, yes, I can see why DC might be even more pronounced about it with the public life of those in the area.


Know someon in that scene who was trying to chat  up a girl who had come late to a party and was still dressed for what had obviously been a fancy evening out.  He jokingly siad something about "What? just coming from Dinner at the white House are we?"  Ans she turned white as a sheet and then got very angry with him till he hastily reassured her he was just kidding-turns out that had been EXACTLY where she'd just been
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 01:55:41 PM

hardinparamedic: amindtat: Isn't that kind of the point of BDSM?

Outing people in the same sense as outing someone who was gay and closeted to everyone else.

People who openly practice BDSM are still very much stigmatized due to stereotypes and perceptions of abuse even though the relationship is consensual between two legal adults.

The local group, I know, requires you to consent to and pay for a criminal background check AND sign a legal NDA before you're even allowed to attend. And you have to be sponsered or invited by a current member.


Looks like you're also in an area that's significantly more conservative than where I live. That said, I imagine outing is downright catastrophic there as compared to here. I'd never heard of an NDA used locally, though there are certainly groups where you need sponsorship before you can attend to try and keep out the general public and their typically absurd expectations.
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 01:57:48 PM

Magorn: DGS: Magorn: hailin: Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.

You'd be surprised, I think.  Black Rose DC is rumored to have some VERY "Pretend you don't recognize him/her"  Members

That's true of a number of places when that scene is the topic. Teachers, police officers, etc.. that happens a lot. Though, yes, I can see why DC might be even more pronounced about it with the public life of those in the area.

Know someon in that scene who was trying to chat  up a girl who had come late to a party and was still dressed for what had obviously been a fancy evening out.  He jokingly siad something about "What? just coming from Dinner at the white House are we?"  Ans she turned white as a sheet and then got very angry with him till he hastily reassured her he was just kidding-turns out that had been EXACTLY where she'd just been


Hah! Nice! If nothing else, that's a good story. And yes, we're farking EVERYWHERE. Like them gays, hurrhurr. Except we haven't had our Stonewall yet, and while the attempts at education have been good, there simply hasn't been the same fight for acceptance as seen from the LGBTQ community.
 
2013-08-23 01:58:45 PM
instart0.flixster.com
Did you say fluggegecheimen?
 
2013-08-23 02:00:23 PM

ACunningPlan: Injuriosum Veritas will be their motto?


/Cr*p at Latin, so if that means something other than naughty truth, my apologies


tuta, sanus, consensuales

or pehaps

bonum dolor, iniuria malum

or my personal motto which is also apropros here:
tertia salutem
 
2013-08-23 02:00:29 PM
imgs.xkcd.com
 
2013-08-23 02:04:38 PM
+1 for Subby.
 
2013-08-23 02:09:02 PM

DGS: Hah! Nice! If nothing else, that's a good story. And yes, we're farking EVERYWHERE. Like them gays, hurrhurr. Except we haven't had our Stonewall yet, and while the attempts at education have been good, there simply hasn't been the same fight for acceptance as seen from the LGBTQ community.


It's getting there.  Give it 20 years before you find cheap knock-off of the toys at Target.
 
2013-08-23 02:11:45 PM

Magorn: ACunningPlan: Injuriosum Veritas will be their motto?


/Cr*p at Latin, so if that means something other than naughty truth, my apologies

tuta, sanus, consensuales

or pehaps

bonum dolor, iniuria malum

or my personal motto which is also apropros here:
tertia salutem


Excellent selection: if I were choosing, I'd go with the first, as it has a nice rhythm to it in both languages, imo.
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 02:12:02 PM

Makh: DGS: Hah! Nice! If nothing else, that's a good story. And yes, we're farking EVERYWHERE. Like them gays, hurrhurr. Except we haven't had our Stonewall yet, and while the attempts at education have been good, there simply hasn't been the same fight for acceptance as seen from the LGBTQ community.

It's getting there.  Give it 20 years before you find cheap knock-off of the toys at Target.


Eh, there are already plenty of cheap options out there for gear and it is all too detrimental as it is. (I almost said it hurts more than it helps, but.. you know.) Just imagine the 13,000 or so among the 'Million Moms Against JC Penney' and the outcry about Target if they did that. Heh. Anyway, it's slow, steady progress.. but I really don't anticipate it ever being plainly accepted.
 
2013-08-23 02:12:35 PM
(sits back and waits for specific farkette)
 
2013-08-23 02:16:15 PM
Ribulosebiphosphatecarboxylaseoxygenase!

Man, chemists pick the worst safewords
/source
 
2013-08-23 02:16:56 PM

DGS: Looks like you're also in an area that's significantly more conservative than where I live. That said, I imagine outing is downright catastrophic there as compared to here. I'd never heard of an NDA used locally, though there are certainly groups where you need sponsorship before you can attend to try and keep out the general public and their typically absurd expectations.


From what I have been told, there were a few careers (and marriages) ruined by an outing a few years ago after one of the group prospects was arrested for a felony crime, so the local group went to doing that.

That said, even when I'm just wearing a collar on my private time, I've had some very odd things said to me (How do you let someone abuse you like that, etc.)
 
2013-08-23 02:18:53 PM

Magorn: hailin: Isn't Harvard mostly about networking and gaining professional connections? Belonging to this group might make it hard to be part of the elite.

You'd be surprised, I think.  Black Rose DC is rumored to have some VERY "Pretend you don't recognize him/her"  Members


One of these days I am going to get into one of these threads and find that you Haven't already said exactly what I was going to post.

Was even going to use Black Rose as an example.. but there are others in MD and VA that have some high-level movers and shakers.
 
2013-08-23 02:19:40 PM
"Destrucity"

/Because The Ultimate Warrior is the ultimate kinktime killer
 
2013-08-23 02:19:46 PM

DGS: Makh: DGS: Hah! Nice! If nothing else, that's a good story. And yes, we're farking EVERYWHERE. Like them gays, hurrhurr. Except we haven't had our Stonewall yet, and while the attempts at education have been good, there simply hasn't been the same fight for acceptance as seen from the LGBTQ community.

It's getting there.  Give it 20 years before you find cheap knock-off of the toys at Target.

Eh, there are already plenty of cheap options out there for gear and it is all too detrimental as it is. (I almost said it hurts more than it helps, but.. you know.) Just imagine the 13,000 or so among the 'Million Moms Against JC Penney' and the outcry about Target if they did that. Heh. Anyway, it's slow, steady progress.. but I really don't anticipate it ever being plainly accepted.


Meh, you'll be looked on as prudes when biotech and cyborgs push the boundaries of what is even physically possible in the next 20-30 years. There, I said it.
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 02:19:55 PM

hardinparamedic: DGS: Looks like you're also in an area that's significantly more conservative than where I live. That said, I imagine outing is downright catastrophic there as compared to here. I'd never heard of an NDA used locally, though there are certainly groups where you need sponsorship before you can attend to try and keep out the general public and their typically absurd expectations.

From what I have been told, there were a few careers (and marriages) ruined by an outing a few years ago after one of the group prospects was arrested for a felony crime, so the local group went to doing that.

That said, even when I'm just wearing a collar on my private time, I've had some very odd things said to me (How do you let someone abuse you like that, etc.)


Oh yeah, we could go on about this at length. There was someone in the Chicago scene who would routinely threaten to out others. It was.. a very difficult thing to work through and actually make progress on. I think a lot of outsiders look at it, imagine themselves in that position, then immediately feel victimized for you. There's no concept, no basis for understanding, and no interest in acknowledging what benefits come from such an accepted approach to relationships. And I think the communication isn't understood either. It's just different.
 
DGS [TotalFark]
2013-08-23 02:21:03 PM

UrukHaiGuyz: Meh, you'll be looked on as prudes when biotech and cyborgs push the boundaries of what is even physically possible in the next 20-30 years. There, I said it.


There's always "the next big thing" I guess.
 
2013-08-23 02:22:06 PM

hardinparamedic: amindtat: Isn't that kind of the point of BDSM?

Outing people in the same sense as outing someone who was gay and closeted to everyone else.

People who openly practice BDSM are still very much stigmatized due to stereotypes and perceptions of abuse even though the relationship is consensual between two legal adults.

The local group, I know, requires you to consent to and pay for a criminal background check AND sign a legal NDA before you're even allowed to attend. And you have to be sponsered or invited by a current member.


I saw Tom Cruise and his wife at one of those meetings, too.
 
2013-08-23 02:23:09 PM

hardinparamedic: DGS: Looks like you're also in an area that's significantly more conservative than where I live. That said, I imagine outing is downright catastrophic there as compared to here. I'd never heard of an NDA used locally, though there are certainly groups where you need sponsorship before you can attend to try and keep out the general public and their typically absurd expectations.

From what I have been told, there were a few careers (and marriages) ruined by an outing a few years ago after one of the group prospects was arrested for a felony crime, so the local group went to doing that.

That said, even when I'm just wearing a collar on my private time, I've had some very odd things said to me (How do you let someone abuse you like that, etc.)


You can blame 50 Shades and GIS of women with their tits bound 'til purple for that. :( what ever happened to low temp candles & soft rope.
 
2013-08-23 02:24:27 PM

hardinparamedic: DGS: Looks like you're also in an area that's significantly more conservative than where I live. That said, I imagine outing is downright catastrophic there as compared to here. I'd never heard of an NDA used locally, though there are certainly groups where you need sponsorship before you can attend to try and keep out the general public and their typically absurd expectations.

From what I have been told, there were a few careers (and marriages) ruined by an outing a few years ago after one of the group prospects was arrested for a felony crime, so the local group went to doing that.

That said, even when I'm just wearing a collar on my private time, I've had some very odd things said to me (How do you let someone abuse you like that, etc.)


Which is why my pets all have very subtle daycollars or pendants.

/Sighs.. back when I had time to still be in the scene. I miss my pets
 
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