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(Slate)   Dear Prudence, My slutty good for nothing niece is about to marry my bastard son. What should I do?   (slate.com ) divider line
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2013-08-20 02:05:16 PM  
From a genetic standpoint, their relationship is actually still distant enough for the risks to be negligible.

From a financial standpoint, Maury would probably pay a small fortune for this one.
 
2013-08-20 02:22:33 PM  
I was feelin' pretty down
'Till my girlfriend came around
We're just so alike in every way
I gotta say

In fact, I just thought I might
Pop the question there that night
I was kissing her so tenderly
But woe is me

Who would have guessed
Her family crest
I'd suddely spy
Tattooed on her thigh
And son-of-a-gun
It's just like the one on me

Tell me
How was I supposed to know we were both related?
Believe me, if I knew she was my cousin we never would have dated
What to do now? Should I go ahead and propose
And get hitched and have kids with eleven toes
And move to Alabama where that kind of thing is tolerated?
 
2013-08-20 02:27:56 PM  
Any link that can directly reference Weird Al lyrics gets my vote!
 
2013-08-20 02:41:44 PM  
"slutty" you say?
 
2013-08-20 02:46:29 PM  
Spay or neuter your pests.
 
2013-08-20 03:17:39 PM  
Was Dear Prudence always like Anon-DIT?
 
2013-08-20 03:27:56 PM  
Woe is she
Shame and scandal in the family.
 
2013-08-20 03:33:49 PM  

Diogenes: Was Dear Prudence always like Anon-DIT?


lol
 
2013-08-20 04:13:33 PM  
I thought Sean Bean died in first season.
 
2013-08-20 04:13:45 PM  
post photos of the wedding, thats what you should do.
 
2013-08-20 04:13:58 PM  
This is why the preacher asks "If anyone here knows of a reason these two should not be wed speak now"  He should definitely speak up at that point I'm sure all involved would thank him.
 
2013-08-20 04:15:18 PM  
Prudie rolls 8 ball: "Ask me again."
 
2013-08-20 04:15:44 PM  
The weirder part of that whole question is the Prudi response, which is basically,
"don't tell anyone they're cousins, and btw I think cousin farking should be legal."
 
2013-08-20 04:16:07 PM  
I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.
 
2013-08-20 04:17:25 PM  
It's going to come out eventually.  There's a very awkward day coming in this couples future.
 
2013-08-20 04:18:54 PM  
cue the letter in a year:

Prudie,
My family and in-laws lied to me and let me marry my cousin. I thought I loved her, but this breach of trust really gives me second thoughts.  But the hot cousin sex is good.  What should I do?
 
2013-08-20 04:19:12 PM  
How much does slate pay for these links?
 
2013-08-20 04:19:49 PM  

blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.


What are you saying?  You want to date one?  Post pictures and we'll help you choose.
 
2013-08-20 04:19:52 PM  
Reply from Dear Prudence:

"Congratulate your bastard son on a job well done"

/had one friend in school with a buncha red-hot (and very wild) cousins
//he was bangin' all of them and all us other guys were green with envy
 
2013-08-20 04:20:31 PM  
Your only hope is to put on your best pair of crotchless panties, slather yourself in pickled egg juice, roll in ground up pork rinds then tell that bastard son you are his late night love snack.
 
2013-08-20 04:21:18 PM  
Now that they're in love, there's absolutely no way to stop this without farking them up for life. Unless the family already has a lot of recessive genetic disorders, the chances of farked-up babies from a one-off first cousin marriage is really slim. Just leave them alone.
 
2013-08-20 04:21:26 PM  

PhilGed: The weirder part of that whole question is the Prudi response, which is basically,
"don't tell anyone they're cousins, and btw I think cousin farking should be legal."


I noticed that, too and snortled as I was reading it.  This is a weird aside, but I remember reading an advice column on Boston.com where an older divorced woman had not dated in decades and asked for advice.  The usually normal advice columnist told her to shave her vagina.
 
2013-08-20 04:22:37 PM  
I have six pretty good looking sister in laws, so if something happens to the wife, i can move one on in, cause it ain't like we blood related. They are all the same size as my wife, so i wouldnt have to worry about a new wardrobe.

/sister in laws mmm mmm mmm
 
2013-08-20 04:23:01 PM  

blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.


I have two cousins I won't have minded marrying. Or at least honeymooning with.
 
2013-08-20 04:23:20 PM  
31.media.tumblr.com
 
2013-08-20 04:24:00 PM  
WTF? Don't they require blood tests for your marriage license up there in the DC area?
 
2013-08-20 04:24:08 PM  

LeroyBourne: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

What are you saying?  You want to date one?  Post pictures and we'll help you choose.


One is married.  One lives in Oregon and the other one, well, yikes*.

*She hasn't gotten around I have been told.

/also she's only 18
 
2013-08-20 04:24:12 PM  
My grandmother was the child of first cousins, and I turned out just potato.
 
2013-08-20 04:24:18 PM  
Years ago I went to a friend's wedding up in the wild hinterlands of Wiscansin.

The brides cousins were already drunk and frisky during the wedding ceremony. They wanted me to drive them to the reception but I declined and drove home to my girlfriend.

I have always regretted not going with them.
 
2013-08-20 04:24:30 PM  
In other news, Slate approves of wincest!
 
2013-08-20 04:25:14 PM  

Chinchillazilla: Now that they're in love, there's absolutely no way to stop this without farking them up for life. Unless the family already has a lot of recessive genetic disorders, the chances of farked-up babies from a one-off first cousin marriage is really slim. Just leave them alone.


If you're a cruelly funny person, when do you think the best time to reveal this would be?  They've likely already been having sex.  They're not married yet.  The big reveal is his dad is not really his dad and he's been f*ing his cousin.
I say on a Today Show with Matt Lauer special during the reception.
 
2013-08-20 04:26:54 PM  

illannoyin: Years ago I went to a friend's wedding up in the wild hinterlands of Wiscansin.

The brides cousins were already drunk and frisky during the wedding ceremony. They wanted me to drive them to the reception but I declined and drove home to my girlfriend.

I have always regretted not going with them.


I've highlighted the biggest regret you should have about that.
 
2013-08-20 04:27:13 PM  

theflatline: I have six pretty good looking sister in laws, so if something happens to the wife, i can move one on in, cause it ain't like we blood related. They are all the same size as my wife, so i wouldnt have to worry about a new wardrobe.

/sister in laws mmm mmm mmm


So... in your parts if your wife dies you remarry a sister of hers, and have to supply the clothing?
 
2013-08-20 04:27:44 PM  
Also...

Link
 
2013-08-20 04:27:50 PM  
Actually, come to think of it, I'm surprised no one has hijacked Slate's comment thread with pictures of Spiderman.
 
2013-08-20 04:29:16 PM  

varmitydog: WTF? Don't they require blood tests for your marriage license up there in the DC area?


Not in Maryland. Unless they changed it.
 
2013-08-20 04:29:18 PM  

PhilGed: The weirder part of that whole question is the Prudi response, which is basically,
"don't tell anyone they're cousins, and btw I think cousin farking should be legal."


That's cause she has a hot cousin.
 
2013-08-20 04:29:29 PM  

Was his name Clevon?

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2013-08-20 04:30:10 PM  

Halstread: theflatline: I have six pretty good looking sister in laws, so if something happens to the wife, i can move one on in, cause it ain't like we blood related. They are all the same size as my wife, so i wouldnt have to worry about a new wardrobe.

/sister in laws mmm mmm mmm

So... in your parts if your wife dies you remarry a sister of hers, and have to supply the clothing?


No, it is a common joke my wife makes with me, it something happens to her, I can marry one of her sisters.  We joke about it because they all share clothes, shoes, etc, so it would not be much a strain to move one in..
 
2013-08-20 04:30:43 PM  
Are Dear Prudence letters sponsored links now?  I swear, we see more of these than we ever saw Cracked lists.
 
2013-08-20 04:30:47 PM  

Uncle Pooky: illannoyin: Years ago I went to a friend's wedding up in the wild hinterlands of Wiscansin.

The brides cousins were already drunk and frisky during the wedding ceremony. They wanted me to drive them to the reception but I declined and drove home to my girlfriend.

I have always regretted not going with them.

I've highlighted the biggest regret you should have about that.


Yes. It has been many years and I will probably never be able to let it go.

Also, if the niece in question is slutty she's at least good for something right?
 
2013-08-20 04:31:02 PM  
Don't show up for the wedding?
 
2013-08-20 04:31:38 PM  

Nana's Vibrator: Chinchillazilla: Now that they're in love, there's absolutely no way to stop this without farking them up for life. Unless the family already has a lot of recessive genetic disorders, the chances of farked-up babies from a one-off first cousin marriage is really slim. Just leave them alone.

If you're a cruelly funny person, when do you think the best time to reveal this would be?  They've likely already been having sex.  They're not married yet.  The big reveal is his dad is not really his dad and he's been f*ing his cousin.
I say on a Today Show with Matt Lauer special during the reception.


Probably busting in on them while they're having sex
 
2013-08-20 04:32:15 PM  
prudy joins the rest
incest is the best !


/not on my shift
 
2013-08-20 04:34:21 PM  

blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.


Wellon Dowd: I have two cousins I won't have minded marrying. Or at least honeymooning with.


You're not the only ones, true for me too; and I've got several friends who have also confessed screwing around with cousins too.
 
2013-08-20 04:35:00 PM  
Holy shiat. I'd be terrified. The friggin' odds of that happening in the first place....and then what IF something goes bad and there's some kind of genetic problem and the son finds out the truth. Now your son, your sister AND your niece all hate your f*cking guts forever. In addition to...you know...having a grandson with life problems that you could have prevented.
 
2013-08-20 04:35:44 PM  

Nana's Vibrator: Chinchillazilla: Now that they're in love, there's absolutely no way to stop this without farking them up for life. Unless the family already has a lot of recessive genetic disorders, the chances of farked-up babies from a one-off first cousin marriage is really slim. Just leave them alone.

If you're a cruelly funny person, when do you think the best time to reveal this would be?  They've likely already been having sex.  They're not married yet.  The big reveal is his dad is not really his dad and he's been f*ing his cousin.
I say on a Today Show with Matt Lauer special during the reception.


The meanest time would be when she's a couple days away from popping out their second child.
 
2013-08-20 04:36:17 PM  

PhilGed: The weirder part of that whole question is the Prudi response, which is basically,
"don't tell anyone they're cousins, and btw I think cousin farking should be legal."


She wasn't paying attention to her response
She was slitchin it.
 
2013-08-20 04:36:27 PM  

theflatline: Halstread: theflatline: I have six pretty good looking sister in laws, so if something happens to the wife, i can move one on in, cause it ain't like we blood related. They are all the same size as my wife, so i wouldnt have to worry about a new wardrobe.

/sister in laws mmm mmm mmm

So... in your parts if your wife dies you remarry a sister of hers, and have to supply the clothing?

No, it is a common joke my wife makes with me, it something happens to her, I can marry one of her sisters.  We joke about it because they all share clothes, shoes, etc, so it would not be much a strain to move one in..


How..exactly does that conversation go?

Wife: They borrow all my stuff they may as well borrow you, too!
You: *no response due to awkwardness*
Wife: ha ha ha ha you should bang my sisters!  Ha ha ha!
You: maybe just ask Brittany to give me a handy while we're all drunk?
Wife *Slap!*  you're such a sick pervert!  I'm leaving you!
You: OK, I'll get the lube
 
2013-08-20 04:38:02 PM  

Wellon Dowd: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

I have two cousins I won't have minded marrying. Or at least honeymooning with.



Awwww shiat. Is this where this thread is going?

/homerbackingintothebushes.jpg
 
2013-08-20 04:39:20 PM  
Well, Johnny be fine and Johnny be fair he wants me for to wed
And I would marry Johnny, but my father up and said,
"I'm sorry to tell you daughter what your mother never knew
But Johnny he's a son of mine, so he's kin to you."

Well, Willie be fine and Willie be fair he wants me for to wed
And I would marry Willie, but my father up and said,
"I'm sorry to tell you daughter what your mother never knew
But Willie he's a son of mine, so he's kin to you."

Well, Jimmy be fine and Jimmy be fair he wants me for to wed
And I would marry Jimmy, but my father up and said,
"I'm sorry to tell you daughter what your mother never knew
But Jimmy he's a son of mine, so he's kin to you."

Well, never was there a girl so sad and sorry as I was
The boys in town, they're all my kin and my father is the cause!
I will not be contented for to die a single miss
I think I'll go to mother and complain to her of this.

"Well, daughter, haven't I taught you to forgive and to forget?
So, your father sowed his oats, oh still you should not fret.
Your father may be the cause of all the boys in town, but still.....
He's not the one who sired you so marry whom you will."
 
2013-08-20 04:39:23 PM  

Drubell: Nana's Vibrator: Chinchillazilla: Now that they're in love, there's absolutely no way to stop this without farking them up for life. Unless the family already has a lot of recessive genetic disorders, the chances of farked-up babies from a one-off first cousin marriage is really slim. Just leave them alone.

If you're a cruelly funny person, when do you think the best time to reveal this would be?  They've likely already been having sex.  They're not married yet.  The big reveal is his dad is not really his dad and he's been f*ing his cousin.
I say on a Today Show with Matt Lauer special during the reception.

Probably busting in on them while they're having sex


Actually I think the cruelest time is to put them in your will, "to my married son and daughter." Unfortunately (or fortunately), you wouldn't get to see the fallout.
 
2013-08-20 04:39:42 PM  
Looked it up a while ago after a round of 'would you do your cousin' jokes at work:

In the US, about .5% of marriages are between cousins.
In the whole World, about 25% are between cousins.

My theory is that this reflects more rural, smaller communities on average globally, and maybe with an emphasis on keeping land in the family, but that's just a guess.

/weird situation though...
 
2013-08-20 04:40:16 PM  

TheShavingofOccam123: Your only hope is to put on your best pair of crotchless panties, slather yourself in pickled egg juice, roll in ground up pork rinds then tell that bastard son you are his late night love snack.


And they're wasting all that money on Prudie when they could be paying you.
 
2013-08-20 04:40:30 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: Wellon Dowd: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

I have two cousins I won't have minded marrying. Or at least honeymooning with.


Awwww shiat. Is this where this thread is going?

/homerbackingintothebushes.jpg


Hey Guys, whats going on in this thread?

www.martinfrost.ws
 
2013-08-20 04:41:27 PM  
Dear Prudence, My slutty good for nothing niece is about to marry my bastard son. What should I do?

Move out of Appalachia?
 
2013-08-20 04:41:32 PM  

jjmartin: Looked it up a while ago after a round of 'would you do your cousin' jokes at work:

In the US, about .5% of marriages are between cousins.
In the whole World, about 25% are between cousins.

My theory is that this reflects more rural, smaller communities on average globally, and maybe with an emphasis on keeping land in the family, but that's just a guess.

/weird situation though...



I'd guess it has more to do with availability of eligible women.
 
2013-08-20 04:43:30 PM  
Film it
 
2013-08-20 04:43:34 PM  
Dear Prudence, My slutty good for nothing niece is about to marry my bastard son. What should I do?

Get a van and replace the steps leading up to your house with a ramp to get ready for the grandkids.
 
2013-08-20 04:44:03 PM  

jst3p: DROxINxTHExWIND: Wellon Dowd: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

Hey Guys, whats going on in this thread?

[www.martinfrost.ws image 320x240]


That's a lot of li'l piggies.
 
2013-08-20 04:44:35 PM  

TheShavingofOccam123: Your only hope is to put on your best pair of crotchless panties, slather yourself in pickled egg juice, roll in ground up pork rinds then tell that bastard son you are his late night love snack.


i1168.photobucket.com
 
2013-08-20 04:46:20 PM  

Kid Lester: Holy shiat. I'd be terrified. The friggin' odds of that happening in the first place....and then what IF something goes bad and there's some kind of genetic problem and the son finds out the truth. Now your son, your sister AND your niece all hate your f*cking guts forever. In addition to...you know...having a grandson with life problems that you could have prevented.


In small towns the odds greatly increase. Not just from the smaller number of people to fark, but also because small town folk by and large don't consider cousin farking to be a deal breaker.
 
2013-08-20 04:46:44 PM  
Guy de Maupassant writes:

Go for it. Don't be a pussy.
 
2013-08-20 04:47:12 PM  
suck it
 
2013-08-20 04:48:31 PM  
Nabokov weighs in:

"Wait, what's the problem, exactly?"
 
2013-08-20 04:48:32 PM  

groppet: varmitydog: WTF? Don't they require blood tests for your marriage license up there in the DC area?

Not in Maryland. Unless they changed it.


A blood test wouldn't show that they were related. And they're cousins not siblings, all a genetic test would show was "Hey you're probably distantly related." Unless their family has an extended history of inbreeding or serious genetic diseases there's little to no chance of any problems.
 
2013-08-20 04:48:50 PM  

Drubell: Drubell: Nana's Vibrator: Chinchillazilla: Now that they're in love, there's absolutely no way to stop this without farking them up for life. Unless the family already has a lot of recessive genetic disorders, the chances of farked-up babies from a one-off first cousin marriage is really slim. Just leave them alone.

If you're a cruelly funny person, when do you think the best time to reveal this would be?  They've likely already been having sex.  They're not married yet.  The big reveal is his dad is not really his dad and he's been f*ing his cousin.
I say on a Today Show with Matt Lauer special during the reception.

Probably busting in on them while they're having sex

Actually I think the cruelest time is to put them in your will, "to my married son and daughter." Unfortunately (or fortunately), you wouldn't get to see the fallout.


Both are great answers.  There's really no incorrect choice.
 
2013-08-20 04:48:54 PM  
I bet they are white.
 
2013-08-20 04:51:09 PM  

To The Escape Zeppelin!: groppet: varmitydog: WTF? Don't they require blood tests for your marriage license up there in the DC area?

Not in Maryland. Unless they changed it.

A blood test wouldn't show that they were related. And they're cousins not siblings, all a genetic test would show was "Hey you're probably distantly related." Unless their family has an extended history of inbreeding or serious genetic diseases there's little to no chance of any problems.



You sound like you have a sexy cousin.
 
2013-08-20 04:53:01 PM  

jst3p: DROxINxTHExWIND: Wellon Dowd: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

I have two cousins I won't have minded marrying. Or at least honeymooning with.


Awwww shiat. Is this where this thread is going?

/homerbackingintothebushes.jpg

Hey Guys, whats going on in this thread?


Is her name Polly?
 
2013-08-20 04:53:17 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: You sound like you have a sexy cousin.


Her?

//maybe
 
2013-08-20 04:54:04 PM  

Nana's Vibrator: Chinchillazilla: Now that they're in love, there's absolutely no way to stop this without farking them up for life. Unless the family already has a lot of recessive genetic disorders, the chances of farked-up babies from a one-off first cousin marriage is really slim. Just leave them alone.

If you're a cruelly funny person, when do you think the best time to reveal this would be?  They've likely already been having sex.  They're not married yet.  The big reveal is his dad is not really his dad and he's been f*ing his cousin.
I say on a Today Show with Matt Lauer special during the reception.


After they have their first kid. Ask to hold your grandchild and when they get confused explain and swear up and down that you thought you had mentions it before.
 
2013-08-20 04:55:57 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: You sound like you have a sexy cousin.


I really don't. The women on that side of my family are all chugging full speed into fat country.
 
2013-08-20 04:56:00 PM  
I can't believe people are bragging about banging their cousins.  I'm not to judge, if that's your bag babby, I just find it a little taboo for me.  Or maybe its because I don't have any hot cousins, so I've never been tempted.
 
2013-08-20 04:56:34 PM  
Move to Arkansas. I hear that it's accepted there.

JC
 
2013-08-20 04:56:56 PM  

Nana's Vibrator: theflatline: Halstread: theflatline: I have six pretty good looking sister in laws, so if something happens to the wife, i can move one on in, cause it ain't like we blood related. They are all the same size as my wife, so i wouldnt have to worry about a new wardrobe.

/sister in laws mmm mmm mmm

So... in your parts if your wife dies you remarry a sister of hers, and have to supply the clothing?

No, it is a common joke my wife makes with me, it something happens to her, I can marry one of her sisters.  We joke about it because they all share clothes, shoes, etc, so it would not be much a strain to move one in..

How..exactly does that conversation go?

Wife: They borrow all my stuff they may as well borrow you, too!
You: *no response due to awkwardness*
Wife: ha ha ha ha you should bang my sisters!  Ha ha ha!
You: maybe just ask Brittany to give me a handy while we're all drunk?
Wife *Slap!*  you're such a sick pervert!  I'm leaving you!
You: OK, I'll get the lube



For some reason I heard my wife wants a 3-way with her sisters, but yours is just as good. :)
 
2013-08-20 04:57:28 PM  
Does anyone actually think these are real letters?
 
2013-08-20 04:58:08 PM  

theflatline: I have six pretty good looking sister in laws, so if something happens to the wife, i can move one on in, cause it ain't like we blood related. They are all the same size as my wife, so i wouldnt have to worry about a new wardrobe.

/sister in laws mmm mmm mmm


My sister-in-law gives the best lap dances at the strip club.
 
2013-08-20 04:58:59 PM  
i.imgur.com
 
2013-08-20 05:00:51 PM  
"Destination wedding"?!!?

If I was invited to a wedding and was expected to make travel arrangements to their honeymoon location in order to attend there would be no way I'd be attending!

I can see spending to go out of town to a wedding; but the very idea that the bride and groom are going to make EVERYONE pay to do this seems absolutely insufferable.  I'd laugh my way out of the room if they actually were offended when I said I would not be going.
 
2013-08-20 05:02:48 PM  
 
2013-08-20 05:03:24 PM  

illannoyin: Years ago I went to a friend's wedding up in the wild hinterlands of Wiscansin.

The brides cousins were already drunk and frisky during the wedding ceremony. They wanted me to drive them to the reception but I declined and drove home to my girlfriend.

I have always regretted not going with them.


Man, am I glad you didn't go with them!  Seriously!  That was the best night of my life.

Thanks!
 
2013-08-20 05:04:15 PM  
img.fark.net


WWWWWWWWESTSIDE biotches!
 
2013-08-20 05:04:27 PM  
cdn.madamenoire.com
 
2013-08-20 05:05:57 PM  

cdn.madamenoire.com

 
2013-08-20 05:05:58 PM  

Magnanimous_J: Does anyone actually think these are real letters?


Real, only in the sense that they exist because someone wrote them. Are the situations real? Very doubtful.
 
2013-08-20 05:06:33 PM  
hutchkc:
For some reason I heard my wife wants a 3-way with her sisters, but yours is just as good. :)

I heard the same thing and was trying to provoke a response.  HIs silence says it all.  He's totally nailed one of them already.
/I have problems
 
2013-08-20 05:06:51 PM  
On the off-chance that this letter is real, I think the advice is good. Yeah, it's cousin marriage, but it's repeated cousin marriages that bring out the real horror shows, and unless something like CF, hemophilia, Tay-Sachs or thalassemia runs in the family, their kids should be fine. (And since the letter-writer is so opposed to the marriage, I'm guessing he would have mentioned it if they did have a genetic problem, as a reason why it shouldn't happen). Besides, am I the only one who kind of wonders if the son is definitely his biological child? He was having an affair with the woman, she got pregnant, the husband told him to back off -- no genetic testing or anything, and the fact that she was having an affair doesn't automatically mean she and her husband never slept together. That's not exactly 100% conclusive that it's the letter-writer's baby.
 
2013-08-20 05:07:06 PM  
Send him off to the Night's Watch?
 
2013-08-20 05:07:19 PM  
If I was the bride or groom to be, I'd want to know.  The longer they let this run on, the worse it will be should they ever one day find out.

And I don't care HOW hot the cousin is - no chance am I farking mine.  Yee-gads no.
 
2013-08-20 05:08:51 PM  

RyansPrivates: cue the letter in a year:

Prudie,
My family and in-laws lied to me and let me marry my cousin. I thought I loved her, but this breach of trust really gives me second thoughts.  But the hot cousin sex is good.  What should I do?


Just regular stuff for the first few months, and save the real kinky stuff for New Year's Eve, when you can both blame it on being hammered if things go wrong.
 
2013-08-20 05:08:57 PM  

blatz514: LeroyBourne: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

What are you saying?  You want to date one?  Post pictures and we'll help you choose.

One is married.  One lives in Oregon and the other one, well, yikes*.

*She hasn't gotten around I have been told.

/also she's only 18


Nothing wrong about you getting randy at the thought of your hot 18-year-old cousin, it's perfectly natural. Lots of guys get randy at the thought of your hot 18-year-old cousin.
 
2013-08-20 05:10:39 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: Dear Prudence, My slutty good for nothing niece is about to marry my bastard son. What should I do?

Get a van and replace the steps leading up to your house with a ramp to get ready for the grandkids.


And start saving for a banjo
 
2013-08-20 05:17:22 PM  

illannoyin: The brides cousins were already drunk and frisky during the wedding ceremony. They wanted me to drive them to the reception but I declined and drove home to my girlfriend.I have always regretted not going with them.


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2013-08-20 05:20:00 PM  

theflatline: Halstread: theflatline: I have six pretty good looking sister in laws, so if something happens to the wife, i can move one on in, cause it ain't like we blood related. They are all the same size as my wife, so i wouldnt have to worry about a new wardrobe.

/sister in laws mmm mmm mmm

So... in your parts if your wife dies you remarry a sister of hers, and have to supply the clothing?

No, it is a common joke my wife makes with me, it something happens to her, I can marry one of her sisters.  We joke about it because they all share clothes, shoes, etc, so it would not be much a strain to move one in..


Cool in-joke, bro.
 
2013-08-20 05:20:46 PM  

Magnanimous_J: Does anyone actually think these are real letters?


Of course not. Nowhere in the actual letter does he say that she's a slut.

/disappointed
 
2013-08-20 05:21:59 PM  

abfalter: "Destination wedding"?!!?

If I was invited to a wedding and was expected to make travel arrangements to their honeymoon location in order to attend there would be no way I'd be attending!

I can see spending to go out of town to a wedding; but the very idea that the bride and groom are going to make EVERYONE pay to do this seems absolutely insufferable.  I'd laugh my way out of the room if they actually were offended when I said I would not be going.


This is the best actual advice in the column. Quit having destination weddings, assholes. People are perfectly content to watch you get married somewhere they can easily get to and not have to hang out with you on vacation too.
 
2013-08-20 05:22:25 PM  

varmitydog: WTF? Don't they require blood tests for your marriage license up there in the DC area?


The blood test is for syphilis, not a genetic test that can determine if someone is your cousin.
 
2013-08-20 05:23:01 PM  

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Came for this...twice.
 
2013-08-20 05:24:19 PM  
My mother and her siblings were all adopted so the odds of my actually being related to my hot cousin are about on par with my odds of ever farking her.  That is to say, damned near none.
 
2013-08-20 05:26:17 PM  

King Something: blatz514: LeroyBourne: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

What are you saying?  You want to date one?  Post pictures and we'll help you choose.

One is married.  One lives in Oregon and the other one, well, yikes*.

*She hasn't gotten around I have been told.

/also she's only 18

Nothing wrong about you getting randy at the thought of your hot 18-year-old cousin, it's perfectly natural. Lots of guys get randy at the thought of your hot 18-year-old cousin.


There is a perk to her being hot;  whenever my uncle invites me along for boat rides, my cousin usually invites a friend or two along.  WIN!
 
2013-08-20 05:30:30 PM  

RyansPrivates: cue the letter in a year:

Prudie,
My family and in-laws lied to me and let me marry my cousin. I thought I loved her, but this breach of trust really gives me second thoughts.  But the hot cousin sex is good.  What should I do?


No, here is her letter of the year:

Dear Prudence:
I was in a Wal-mart the other day and the ghost of a dead confederate slapped my son and called him a catamite. However, the internet won't believe me. However, poppa tells me that if you read something in Dear Prudence, it must be so. Tell me, do homophobic ghosts exist?

-Flustered in Florida Nuthouse


Vyktoriah, your internet friends are wrong. They have been affected by the skepticism of a skeptical age. They do not believe except they see. They think that nothing can be which is not comprehensible by their little minds. All minds, Vyktoriah, whether they be men's or children's, are little. In this great universe of ours man is a mere insect, an ant, in his intellect, as compared with the boundless world about him, as measured by the intelligence capable of grasping the whole of truth and knowledge.

Yes, Vytoriah, there is a homophobic ghost. He exists as certainly as hate and insanity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there were no Homophobe Ghost. It would be as dreary as if there were no VYKTORIAHS. There would be no childlike faith then, no poetry, no romance to make tolerable this existence. We should have no enjoyment, except in sense and sight. The eternal light with which childhood fills the world would be extinguished.

Not believe in Homophobe Ghost! You might as well not believe in Spentmiles! You might get your papa to hire men to watch in all the Wal-Marts in Florida to catch Homophobe Ghost, but even if they did not see Homophobe Ghost coming down, what would that prove? Nobody sees Homophobe Ghost, but that is no sign that there is no Homophobe Ghost. The most real things in the world are those that neither children nor men can see. Did you ever see fairies dancing on the lawn? Of course you did, because you're crazy, but that's no proof that they are not there. Nobody can conceive or imagine all the wonders there are unseen and unseeable in the world.


You may tear apart the baby's rattle and see what makes the noise inside, but there is a veil covering the unseen world which not the strongest man, nor even the united strength of all the strongest men that ever lived, could tear apart. Only faith, fancy, poetry, love, romance, can push aside that curtain and view and picture the supernal beauty and glory beyond. Is it all real? Ah, VYKTORIAH, in all this world there is nothing else real and abiding.

No Homophobe Ghost! Thank God! he lives, and he lives forever. A thousand years from now, Vyktoriah, nay, ten times ten thousand years from now, he will continue to make glad the glories of FARK.
 
2013-08-20 05:30:34 PM  

Millennium: From a genetic standpoint, their relationship is actually still distant enough for the risks to be negligible.


What are the odds of a brother and sister passing along genetic defects to their child if neither parent has genetic defects?
 
2013-08-20 05:35:00 PM  

heili skrimsli: varmitydog: WTF? Don't they require blood tests for your marriage license up there in the DC area?

The blood test is for syphilis, not a genetic test that can determine if someone is your cousin.


This, although they test for a few other diseases as well.  Its been abolished in most states, but a handful still have them.  It used to be for STDs like syphilis, but in some places they also test for Sickle-Cell Anemia if you're both African American, or for other recessive gene type diseases based on race.
 
2013-08-20 05:35:46 PM  

worlddan: Millennium: From a genetic standpoint, their relationship is actually still distant enough for the risks to be negligible.

What are the odds of a brother and sister passing along genetic defects to their child if neither parent has genetic defects?


Comparable the the risks a man would incur by wearing tight jeans all the Tim, or a woman having a kid in her 40s.
 
2013-08-20 05:46:15 PM  

Fano: abfalter: "Destination wedding"?!!?

If I was invited to a wedding and was expected to make travel arrangements to their honeymoon location in order to attend there would be no way I'd be attending!

I can see spending to go out of town to a wedding; but the very idea that the bride and groom are going to make EVERYONE pay to do this seems absolutely insufferable.  I'd laugh my way out of the room if they actually were offended when I said I would not be going.

This is the best actual advice in the column. Quit having destination weddings, assholes. People are perfectly content to watch you get married somewhere they can easily get to and not have to hang out with you on vacation too.


Fortunately I haven't been invited to a destination wedding yet.  On one hand it's presumptious as all hell to invite everybody to spend the one vacation a year they can afford on the cruise to wherever to watch a wedding on the beach.  On the other hand, it cuts down on the people you didn't really want at your wedding.
 
2013-08-20 06:00:01 PM  
Hasn't anybody else heard the term "kissin' cousins" before?

/rural family background
 
2013-08-20 06:00:24 PM  

ManateeGag: "slutty" you say?


Go onnnn....
 
2013-08-20 06:01:23 PM  
Well, you could try farking her.

/just saying.
 
2013-08-20 06:02:06 PM  

Fano: abfalter: "Destination wedding"?!!?

If I was invited to a wedding and was expected to make travel arrangements to their honeymoon location in order to attend there would be no way I'd be attending!

I can see spending to go out of town to a wedding; but the very idea that the bride and groom are going to make EVERYONE pay to do this seems absolutely insufferable.  I'd laugh my way out of the room if they actually were offended when I said I would not be going.

This is the best actual advice in the column. Quit having destination weddings, assholes. People are perfectly content to watch you get married somewhere they can easily get to and not have to hang out with you on vacation too.


Lol I don't get the anger about this.

If you get an invitation to a destination wedding and you hadn't already planned on attending it you're just supposed to send a gift. I would think that's obvious
 
2013-08-20 06:02:21 PM  
I don't really care about the genetics issue, but I do have a big farking problem with these parents LYING to their adult son to save mom the horror of admitting she's a cheating slut. The guy has a right to know! If they still choose to get married knowing they are cousins, then fine, but that is THEIR decision to make. And they should make it before any kids come along. Genetic testing is becoming designer and common place more and more so the chances of them finding out someday is pretty good. Lets not destroy a few innocent future kids lives when this blows up and the cousins get divorced all because the whore mother wants to save face.
 
2013-08-20 06:03:28 PM  
Isn't there an episode of Nip/Tuck that's really close to this?
 
2013-08-20 06:04:11 PM  
I would sit them down and ask them- "How strong is your love for each other?"
Explain to them that true love can withstand trials and tribulations. And ask them if they are truly ready for the real world.
Then tell them the truth.
Love should prevail if they truly love each other.
 
2013-08-20 06:08:57 PM  

hailin: I do have a big farking problem with these parents LYING to their adult son to save mom the horror of admitting she's a cheating slut.


They were ON a BREAK!
 
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2013-08-20 06:21:24 PM  
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2013-08-20 06:44:54 PM  

BizarreMan: On one hand it's presumptious as all hell to invite everybody to spend the one vacation a year they can afford...


To play devil's advocate, flip it around: if a lot of your invitees would have to travel to get to your wedding regardless, why not have it somewhere nicer to travel to, and allow them to  combine the wedding and real vacation instead of having to choose between the two?
 
2013-08-20 06:46:37 PM  

TheShavingofOccam123: Your only hope is to put on your best pair of crotchless panties, slather yourself in pickled egg juice, roll in ground up pork rinds then tell that bastard son you are his late night love snack.


Does it have to be pork rinds?  We're jewish.
 
2013-08-20 06:58:12 PM  

dj_spanmaster: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

Wellon Dowd: I have two cousins I won't have minded marrying. Or at least honeymooning with.

You're not the only ones, true for me too; and I've got several friends who have also confessed screwing around with cousins too.


Who hasn't stuck it into a cousin or two?  Sheesh.  It's kinda like a practice target before you go off to the qualifying range.

/yes
//would again if presented
 
2013-08-20 07:13:51 PM  

RenownedCurator: On the off-chance that this letter is real, I think the advice is good. Yeah, it's cousin marriage, but it's repeated cousin marriages that bring out the real horror shows, and unless something like CF, hemophilia, Tay-Sachs or thalassemia runs in the family, their kids should be fine. (And since the letter-writer is so opposed to the marriage, I'm guessing he would have mentioned it if they did have a genetic problem, as a reason why it shouldn't happen). Besides, am I the only one who kind of wonders if the son is definitely his biological child? He was having an affair with the woman, she got pregnant, the husband told him to back off -- no genetic testing or anything, and the fact that she was having an affair doesn't automatically mean she and her husband never slept together. That's not exactly 100% conclusive that it's the letter-writer's baby.


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2013-08-20 07:25:08 PM  

rugman11: RenownedCurator: On the off-chance that this letter is real, I think the advice is good. Yeah, it's cousin marriage, but it's repeated cousin marriages that bring out the real horror shows, and unless something like CF, hemophilia, Tay-Sachs or thalassemia runs in the family, their kids should be fine. (And since the letter-writer is so opposed to the marriage, I'm guessing he would have mentioned it if they did have a genetic problem, as a reason why it shouldn't happen). Besides, am I the only one who kind of wonders if the son is definitely his biological child? He was having an affair with the woman, she got pregnant, the husband told him to back off -- no genetic testing or anything, and the fact that she was having an affair doesn't automatically mean she and her husband never slept together. That's not exactly 100% conclusive that it's the letter-writer's baby.

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I don't see Jay Leno in that family tree...
 
2013-08-20 07:29:40 PM  
Queen Victoria and Prince Albert would like to weigh in too:

Go for it!
 
2013-08-20 07:36:10 PM  
Ex husband and I were 4th cousins, 3 times removed, I think.  His great aunt was my great grandmother's sister.  We were so far removed genetically that it didn't matter, nor did we have any children.  But it creeped him out way worse than it did me.  I just thought it was funny.  The man I'm currently with shares the same name as me, but we're nowhere near related.  Just sounds like we are.
 
2013-08-20 08:00:31 PM  
No "That's My Boy" brother farker references?

/I am disappoint
 
2013-08-20 08:04:16 PM  
Am I the first one to point out that if the niece is actually indeed slutty, she's good for at least *ONE* thing?
 
2013-08-20 08:08:42 PM  
This is why my folks told me from an early age that I had a mystery cousin. If I ever ran into an adopted guy around my age who looked vaguely like me, we would hopefully avoid a relationship and not spawn a race of two-headed vampires.

Poor guy was immediately given up for adoption right after birth, probably a year or less before I was born, and his whereabouts are still completely unknown several decades later.
 
2013-08-20 08:13:50 PM  

worlddan: Millennium: From a genetic standpoint, their relationship is actually still distant enough for the risks to be negligible.

What are the odds of a brother and sister passing along genetic defects to their child if neither parent has genetic defects?


You should read up on how recessive genes work.
 
2013-08-20 08:18:14 PM  

Stoker: I would sit them down and ask them- "How strong is your love for each other?"
Explain to them that true love can withstand trials and tribulations. And ask them if they are truly ready for the real world.
Then tell them the truth.
Love should prevail if they truly love each other.


And then the mom pops out of the cake in a corset and high heels...
 
2013-08-20 08:37:00 PM  

Nana's Vibrator: PhilGed: The weirder part of that whole question is the Prudi response, which is basically,
"don't tell anyone they're cousins, and btw I think cousin farking should be legal."

I noticed that, too and snortled as I was reading it.  This is a weird aside, but I remember reading an advice column on Boston.com where an older divorced woman had not dated in decades and asked for advice.  The usually normal advice columnist told her to shave her vagina.


1. Prudence is 100% correct. If it's not legal, it should be.  The risk of mutant offspring is pretty low.  Eg. Charles Darwin married his cousin, as did many middle to upper class Victorian Britons, and as do many, many humans worldwide.

2. Probably not the worst advice ever, but I would have started with "buy some nice clothes and take some time to get comfortable with yourself".

3. "Destination weddings"... yeah no.  If invited, the odds are we can't get the time off anyway.  Enjoy your gift donation to UNICEF, overly-moneyed asswads.
 
2013-08-20 09:03:56 PM  

Fano: abfalter: "Destination wedding"?!!?

If I was invited to a wedding and was expected to make travel arrangements to their honeymoon location in order to attend there would be no way I'd be attending!

I can see spending to go out of town to a wedding; but the very idea that the bride and groom are going to make EVERYONE pay to do this seems absolutely insufferable.  I'd laugh my way out of the room if they actually were offended when I said I would not be going.

This is the best actual advice in the column. Quit having destination weddings, assholes. People are perfectly content to watch you get married somewhere they can easily get to and not have to hang out with you on vacation too.


I've been to one destination wedding. It was in HI where I had never been so it was a good excuse to go. We had a great time. We hung out with the couple and their family for a few evenings, ceremony on the beach, and vacationed on our own. I can see how getting invited to a couple a year would be annoying but we don't go to very many weddings at our age so it was totally cool with us.
 
2013-08-20 09:14:47 PM  

groppet: varmitydog: WTF? Don't they require blood tests for your marriage license up there in the DC area?

Not in Maryland. Unless they changed it.


Blood tests are for syphilis, not a complete DNA map.
 
2013-08-20 09:24:26 PM  

jjmartin: Looked it up a while ago after a round of 'would you do your cousin' jokes at work:

In the US, about .5% of marriages are between cousins.
In the whole World, about 25% are between cousins.

My theory is that this reflects more rural, smaller communities on average globally, and maybe with an emphasis on keeping land in the family, but that's just a guess.

/weird situation though...


When I looked into my family genealogy, I found lots of cases of 2 brothers marrying 2 sisters - to keep the land together.  This was back in Germany and France, 1600s and 1700s.
 
2013-08-20 10:39:10 PM  
EEeeeew.
 
2013-08-20 11:02:57 PM  

blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.


Let me guess -- from Shelbyville?
 
2013-08-20 11:15:38 PM  

jst3p: DROxINxTHExWIND: Wellon Dowd: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

I have two cousins I won't have minded marrying. Or at least honeymooning with.


Awwww shiat. Is this where this thread is going?

/homerbackingintothebushes.jpg

Hey Guys, whats going on in this thread?


I laughed way too hard at this.

/one ticket, please
 
2013-08-20 11:19:05 PM  
Bastard!
images3.wikia.nocookie.net
What - nobody did this yet?
 
2013-08-20 11:43:11 PM  
I would have no problem banging any of my cousins. Well...the good looking ones, anyway.

I didn't grow up with them, so it's not like it's weird that I don't see them as close family members.

Also, why wouldn't we wanna fark a girl that has so much in common with me? Is it just because we're trying to discourage low-hanging fruit? I mean...who are we to judge fruit that's so far from Heaven.
 
2013-08-21 12:15:31 AM  
vudukungfu:
jst3p: DROxINxTHExWIND: Wellon Dowd: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

Hey Guys, whats going on in this thread?

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That's a lot of li'l piggies.


Weee-weee-weeeeeee-weee-weeeee-weee--weeeeeeeee-weee-weeeeeeeeeee-a ll the way to West Virginia!
 
2013-08-21 03:39:16 AM  
Are they North American? If not, nobody cares.

/okay, I think somwhere in Eastasia people too totally flip out about cousin couples
//nowhere else though
 
2013-08-21 06:29:36 AM  

GrizzlyPouch: If you get an invitation to a destination wedding and you hadn't already planned on attending it you're just supposed to send a gift. I would think that's obvious


How does receiving an invitation mean one is obligated to respond with a gift?

evaned: To play devil's advocate, flip it around: if a lot of your invitees would have to travel to get to your wedding regardless, why not have it somewhere nicer to travel to, and allow them to combine the wedding and real vacation instead of having to choose between the two?


i guess that depends on what people think is 'somewhere nice to travel to'. I'm not into the whole resort/beach thing where regardless of where you are in the world, everything looks basically the same upscale bland as it is in every other resort. Generally that is the kind of place I hear about for 'destination wedding'. Some beach resort in whatever the cheap Carribean or Central American vacation destination is all the rage right now.

Which just says to me that I'm sorry but I won't be able to make it.
 
2013-08-21 08:25:44 AM  

jenny next: blatz514: I have three incredibly hot cousins.  There, I said it.

Let me guess -- from Shelbyville?


It took waaay too long in this thread to get a Shelbyville reference.
 
2013-08-21 11:03:54 AM  
This is the perfect opportunity to do this.

Minister: "If anyone here knows of any reason why these two should not be joined in Holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold your peace."

You: "He's my illegitimate son! She's my niece! What's on the buffet at the reception?"

And hilarity ensues.
 
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