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2013-07-26 12:10:43 PM
14 votes:

impaler: NutWrench: Damn, he dodged a bullet (or a really sharp knife to his fun bits). That's bunny-boiler crazy.

Tough to say. That tantrum could have just been the breaking point after years of emotional manipulation/abuse. I'm not sure which one is dodging the bullet here.


Yeah, if this guy's first inclination is to post something to You Tube rather than seek marriage counseling, methinks we're not hearing the whole story here.
2013-07-26 12:15:24 PM
13 votes:
i.dailymail.co.uk

This explains everything.

Yankee fans are horrible people. It's a fact.
2013-07-26 01:21:43 PM
12 votes:
She's a melodramatic, immature crybaby who throws tantrums to express herself. He's a manipulative, condescending douche who instigates then records his wife to shame her before the world.

They certainly deserved each other.
2013-07-26 11:49:33 AM
7 votes:
That's a bummer. Both of them being total assholes... it seemed like a perfect match.
2013-07-26 11:47:46 AM
6 votes:
DO. NOT. STICK. YOUR. DICK. IN. CRAZY.
2013-07-26 01:38:00 PM
5 votes:
Life is too incredibly short to put up with that for one minute. And I'm talking about both of them.
2013-07-26 02:45:28 PM
4 votes:
I find it amazing that so many people are jumping to the defense of the woman despite the fact that she:

1) Has at a minimum 1 DUI if not more for her to have an Interlock device on the vehicle
2) Expects other people to be responsible for her vehicle
3) Has the ability to act like a little kid, I don't care how bad the issue is you do not act like that.  I can say that after experiencing some extreme stuff in my life like being told you are about to die while in the ER.
4) Quickly conclude that the guy is and has been nothing but a jerk despite having no evidence yet defend the woman even though there is tons of evidence that she is crazy.
2013-07-26 02:34:33 PM
4 votes:

lemonysprite: He comes off worse in the video than her. Yeah she's immature and irritating but he seems like a genuine asshole enjoying the whole thing.


NashMcNash: I do agree that this woman seems fairly unstable and probably a mess to live with, but the guy is a grade A dick for recording her and posting it online.


I find it difficult to believe she went from zero to hystrionic overnight. I suspect she's always been colorful and over-reactive, but the real villain in this thing is the guy. He struck me as a jerk from his comments and the mere fact that he was filming this instead of pulling over to the side of the road to seek some resolution, if only to quiet down until they got home. Then seeing his photos, he looks like a wet, sticky asshole.

I'm going with Abuser on this. She's a nurse. Now, that's a fine profession and there are plenty of sane, emotionally healthy people doing it. It does have more than its share of the emotionally vulnerable, though. I say this from having dated one and having worked in several hospitals during my psychiatric social worker career. I'm guessing he found this babe (and I do mean 'babe'), and enjoyed that he could light her up, taunt, goad, prod, harass, and intimated her. I'll also speculate that right now he's getting all cozy and schmoozy and lovey-dovey and "oh, come on, honey, it's a joke, it was funny. (And besides, who's going to want you now?) No, let's patch this up and have a merry, joyful life together (where I continue to control & manipulate you)."

And she'll fall for it.
2013-07-26 02:18:28 PM
4 votes:
I don't blame the guy for posting it.  He probably knew it was over (or should be) by that point in their relationship...  Her explanation that he egged her on, doesn't jive... He's just sitting there, and she's ranting for minutes on end, non-stop....   Even if he said/did something rude, that wouldn't provoke a never-ending tantrum, except in a crazy person.

She's begging and pleading.... Thats not the response of someone who is egged on... She's not upset with his attitude... She's upset that she's not getting her way.
2013-07-26 02:18:15 PM
4 votes:
My wife is not perfect, nor am I. But after seeing that video, dayum I need to pick up some flowers on the way home tonight.
2013-07-26 02:08:35 PM
4 votes:

WinoRhino: (For the record, after the breakup she had a one night stand, got a VD, met someone online, dropped out of college, moved in with him inside of two weeks, got married, had a kid, and then a divorce a couple years later.)


Dude, were you stalking her after?  I would have just let that shiat go.
2013-07-26 01:44:47 PM
4 votes:
Notice how calm he is being, knowing full well it's being recorded. What kind of behavior does he exhibit when the camera is turned off?
2013-07-26 01:14:27 PM
4 votes:
Called it. http://www.fark.com/comments/7853763/85502068#c85502068

Not that it was a tough call to make.  The divorce-court judge is going to have fun slamming this guy's wallet into the ground over "exhibit A: www.youtube.com/..."

I don't care if she's an emotional wreck, you don't surreptitiously record your spouse so that you can ridicule him or her to the world.  I hope she gets ALL.
2013-07-26 12:00:33 PM
4 votes:

NutWrench: Damn, he dodged a bullet (or a really sharp knife to his fun bits). That's bunny-boiler crazy.


Tough to say. That tantrum could have just been the breaking point after years of emotional manipulation/abuse. I'm not sure which one is dodging the bullet here.
2013-07-26 03:05:51 PM
3 votes:
I tried watching the video, but couldn't stand it more than halfway through. While her behavior looks looney, she keeps asking for him to stop for cigs and he keeps refusing, so she's likely having a nicotine fit. He's an enormous dickhole who keeps egging her on because he's a farking tool. She's all dressed up, so he obviously decided "Oh, she was really happy to go to the lake so I'm going to take it away BECUZ CONTROL!111" There's no reason they couldn't go after the damn tires got rotated. Right in the beginning, he himself states he won't sit down and have a basic financial discussion with her.

Her behavior wasn't right, but honestly, I had to stop watching because he forcibly reminds me of my highly abusive ex. He really would sit there and say in the middle of the week "Oh, let's do 'X' thing this weekend!" then decide at the last minute that we weren't going just to savor my disappointment (not batshiat disappointment, the regular kind). I really hope she gets some damn cigs and some help.
2013-07-26 02:45:02 PM
3 votes:
Nobody needs their tires rotated on THAT one day.  It's a pretty standard thing that you can do next week if you feel like it.  Sounds like he wanted to get her all worked up.
2013-07-26 02:39:28 PM
3 votes:

heili skrimsli: basemetal: A nurse with a DUI and throws immature temper tantrums.  I bet the nursing board is having a double take.

Do people usually get interlock devices after the first DUI, or is that like, once you fill up your frequent drunk card you get one? It looks to me like he's dealing with a highly unstable person who has a serious drinking problem.


A lot of states are making people install them after a first offense now. My buddy gave me an unused mouthpiece for the breath device to put on my key chain to remind me not to make the same mistake. A $70 dollar tab for the entire day, food inlcluded, bought him 10k worth of fines, lawyers, and hassles. His insurance shot up 100 buck a month too. Its not worth it

/This has been your Friday safety briefing.
2013-07-26 02:13:59 PM
3 votes:
I think men are getting smarter and this guy is an example of that. The pendulum of equality between the sexes has swung so far to the other side and does not exist in family court where men are concerned.

 When you've put your d**k in crazy, you have few options. One is getting out. Failing to do that, you should protect yourself.   This guy protected himself from a future restraining order or cries of abuse or he beat me or give me half your sh*t or in preparation for the negative press war that women rule in his future divorce; by documenting her level of insanity.  Good on him.   He's keeping his own a** out of jail from some trumped up assault charge, by documenting the crazy. Well played.
2013-07-26 02:10:20 PM
3 votes:
Dude is a dick. They're discussing things like the budget at the beginning, so she's not a total head case. Filming your wife in the middle of an argument like that is pretty childish. And he clearly doesn't care at all about her, he laughs at her reaction. She's over the top, but these two clearly shouldn't be together.
2013-07-26 01:58:33 PM
3 votes:
I do agree that this woman seems fairly unstable and probably a mess to live with, but the guy is a grade A dick for recording her and posting it online.
2013-07-26 01:57:36 PM
3 votes:
He comes off worse in the video than her. Yeah she's immature and irritating but he seems like a genuine asshole enjoying the whole thing.
2013-07-26 01:46:10 PM
3 votes:
Both of them are reprehensible children in adult bodies. Who cares what either of them thinks or does at this point, as long as it doesn't adversely affect anyone useful?
2013-07-26 01:43:06 PM
3 votes:
Even if the husband had goaded her into the argument adults walk away or ignore bullying. Adults don't throw tantrums like toddlers.

She looks like a typical spoiled biatch in all those pics.

Dude should RUN!!!!!
2013-07-26 01:18:28 PM
3 votes:
He may be a jerk, but I find it hard to believe anyone can be tricked into behaving like that.  Unless you set up a fake theater and hand her a script and tell her she's auditioning for and out of control, crazy, unreasonable biatch.
2013-07-26 12:58:16 PM
3 votes:
Oh the joys of being married to a crazy person. I was married to a crazy person who would act JUST LIKE THAT for reasons that still escape me. The difference is that I wouldn't egg her on.. I would try to avoid the situation which would of course get her even more geared up. She would block doors and scream at me.. Take my keys and throw them in the woods. Throw laptops/phones etc into the pool/toilet/closest body of water.

farking psycho. I knew it before I married her.. My friends knew it too .. they told me. But I didn't -really- know it until 6 months in and she went totally batshiat.  7.5 years until I could properly escape with my son. About to get remarried to my soul-mate. I'm a better person for being married to a psycho though. I can appreciate true brilliance, kindness, and love now like I never knew I could.

Maybe it's like being in prison.. Get out and everything looks greener, bluer, you can smell again.
2013-07-26 11:45:01 AM
3 votes:
How old is she and throwing a temper tantrum like that?

Run like hell man.  Run like hell.
2013-07-26 04:38:58 PM
2 votes:
To any Farkers who have not heard of this before, she is most likely suffering from borderline personality disorder.  For many years my ex was like this x10 and I just called her crazy.  Now I know exactly what that kind of crazy is called.  I bought a few books on it and she shares every single trait that someone who suffers from that disorder does.  It's like a playbook of sorts because they all do the same things and it scared me because of all the times I've had to explain to people "shes just crazy" and she made me feel like I was crazy and always became the victim.  This woman does one of the main traits of BPD on the video!  She uses "Splitting" to go on facebook to make herself look like a victim and her husband the bad one.  To borderliners, people are either all good or all bad.  I used to hear my exwife on the phone with people and she was like a different person to each person she was talking to.  She would be the best friend ever to who she was talking to and then say how bad everyone else was.  Then she would call someone else and do the same thing.  Nobody would listen to me say that she was crazy because she told everyone how I neglect her.  I found a book called "I hate you.... dont leave me!" and it was like finding my own autobiography.  I've been divorced from her for 13 years and have one more kid turning 18 soon so I celebrate never having to see her again.  She is still super crazy.  I could write a book about it but I would have to wait until my kid turns 18 to release it.

So tl/dr version:  Shes probably got borderline personality disorder.  If you dated one, you would recognize it.  You just probably never knew what it was called.  Check out bpdcentral website, its worth a google.

/I'm not a therapist, I just read like 5-6 books about it when I found out what its called.
//going to a therapist that understands bpd and life is getting better
2013-07-26 04:02:06 PM
2 votes:

Angry Drunk Bureaucrat: impaler: NutWrench: Damn, he dodged a bullet (or a really sharp knife to his fun bits). That's bunny-boiler crazy.

Tough to say. That tantrum could have just been the breaking point after years of emotional manipulation/abuse. I'm not sure which one is dodging the bullet here.

Yeah, if this guy's first inclination is to post something to You Tube rather than seek marriage counseling, methinks we're not hearing the whole story here.


I listened for the first 40 seconds or so. I heard a woman crying and begging to be let out of the car, and her husband laughing at her.

Run like hell, lady. RUN. You can do much better than this jerk.
2013-07-26 03:51:33 PM
2 votes:
obamadidcoke: That guy is a shiatbird. Just divorce her if she's that big a pain in the ass, but don't ridicule her. This dude is too big a pussy to make a decision and stand up for it, so he had to "prove" what a biatch she was and destroy her in the process.

This

I've know three women who high-sided while married.
1 - married very young to a charming man who, after the vows, beat and manipulated her to the point where she became shrill, brittle, and then secretive. She called me from outside the country after fleeing him. He spent two years stalking me, sure I knew where she was, out of "love for that biatch".
2 - married to a distant but successful man who, after the vows, managed to go broke in the internet porn industry, sleeping all day and ignoring the new baby. She became shrill, brittle and spent a year asking everyone "is it me? or is he a loser?"
3 - second marriage to a laid-back man, after the vows she began drinking in excess and eating antihistymine pills like m&m's out of boredom- something happened and she went from cheerful and jittery to manic to baker-acted (5150) with regular intervals. He refuses to divorce her but maintains there is no love, nor any human regard for her, left.

If it isn't working, don't be abusive - you'll drive the other person mad
2013-07-26 03:21:12 PM
2 votes:
The thing I dislike about the viral phenomenom is that it's inducing quick judgement. My pops always felt you should determine a safe distance, but then make value judgements much more slowly. He also said that given enough time, everyone will surprise you at least once. Feeding the impulse toward snap decisions is a great way to begin a manipulative process. People will be able to push public opinion far past the potential fo a reasonable response by providing an edited out of context video snapshot. This next bit sounds tin hat style, but the government will absolutely look at ways to use this to their advantage. If not in the U.S., then in some other technically capable regime. It has at least as much potential as doublethink.

All that said, my first impulse to to remind the guy that his vehicle has a driver and passenger front door, and he should make use of one of them.
2013-07-26 02:55:20 PM
2 votes:
That guy is a shiatbird. Just divorce her if she's that big a pain in the ass, but don't ridicule her. This dude is too big a pussy to make a decision and stand up for it, so he had to "prove" what a biatch she was and destroy her in the process.
2013-07-26 02:51:54 PM
2 votes:

dazed420: I find it amazing that so many people are jumping to the defense of the woman despite the fact that she:

1) Has at a minimum 1 DUI if not more for her to have an Interlock device on the vehicle
2) Expects other people to be responsible for her vehicle
3) Has the ability to act like a little kid, I don't care how bad the issue is you do not act like that.  I can say that after experiencing some extreme stuff in my life like being told you are about to die while in the ER.
4) Quickly conclude that the guy is and has been nothing but a jerk despite having no evidence yet defend the woman even though there is tons of evidence that she is crazy.


I don't think most of us are "jumping to her defense".  We are just pointing out that the husband is just as much of a dick as she is crazy.
2013-07-26 02:50:44 PM
2 votes:
I always wondered how Katie Kaboom would look all grown up.

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2013-07-26 02:38:53 PM
2 votes:

Pincy: Proteejay: What's the manly way for him to act?

Probably not secretly recording her and putting it on the Internet.


I would agree with the not putting it on the internet thing.  That's dickish. But recording it could be insurance.
2013-07-26 02:37:11 PM
2 votes:

AngryJailhouseFistfark: lemonysprite: He comes off worse in the video than her. Yeah she's immature and irritating but he seems like a genuine asshole enjoying the whole thing.

NashMcNash: I do agree that this woman seems fairly unstable and probably a mess to live with, but the guy is a grade A dick for recording her and posting it online.

I find it difficult to believe she went from zero to hystrionic overnight. I suspect she's always been colorful and over-reactive, but the real villain in this thing is the guy. He struck me as a jerk from his comments and the mere fact that he was filming this instead of pulling over to the side of the road to seek some resolution, if only to quiet down until they got home. Then seeing his photos, he looks like a wet, sticky asshole.

I'm going with Abuser on this. She's a nurse. Now, that's a fine profession and there are plenty of sane, emotionally healthy people doing it. It does have more than its share of the emotionally vulnerable, though. I say this from having dated one and having worked in several hospitals during my psychiatric social worker career. I'm guessing he found this babe (and I do mean 'babe'), and enjoyed that he could light her up, taunt, goad, prod, harass, and intimated her. I'll also speculate that right now he's getting all cozy and schmoozy and lovey-dovey and "oh, come on, honey, it's a joke, it was funny. (And besides, who's going to want you now?) No, let's patch this up and have a merry, joyful life together (where I continue to control & manipulate you)."

And she'll fall for it.


She'll be single soon. You should try to get with her and find out for yourself how much you can take. Good luck.
2013-07-26 02:33:16 PM
2 votes:

Proteejay: What's the manly way for him to act? Beat her? Be her b*tch? Maybe dude manned up and checked out.


You aloof the f*ck outta that sh*t and plan your escape. Dude's mistake was marrying her and feeding her cray cray.

I have no sympathy for Captain Brostein. He wanted princess and that's what he got.
2013-07-26 02:27:14 PM
2 votes:
The more I watch this, the more I get the "Maybe we can get on a reality show" bullshiat vibe. I mean, I know I'm not the first to think this, and I could very well be wrong, but something just seems fishy. Why does it take all day to get your tires rotated? And why would you take your wife with you?
2013-07-26 02:23:03 PM
2 votes:
Married 17 years, together for 21.  Reading these posts make me realized I got damn lucky on my first go around.
2013-07-26 02:20:45 PM
2 votes:

T.rex: I don't blame the guy for posting it.  He probably knew it was over (or should be) by that point in their relationship...  Her explanation that he egged her on, doesn't jive... He's just sitting there, and she's ranting for minutes on end, non-stop....   Even if he said/did something rude, that wouldn't provoke a never-ending tantrum, except in a crazy person.

She's begging and pleading.... Thats not the response of someone who is egged on... She's not upset with his attitude... She's upset that she's not getting her way.


The version I watched was filled with him taunting her, calling her names, and being kind of selfish.
2013-07-26 02:19:57 PM
2 votes:

miss diminutive: What is with Farkers dating/marrying crazy women?


Behold the power of pussy.
2013-07-26 02:11:36 PM
2 votes:

Hebalo: She's over the top, but these two clearly shouldn't be together.


Really? I think they should be sewn together.
2013-07-26 02:07:28 PM
2 votes:
Oh, the sanctity of straight marriage.
2013-07-26 02:01:39 PM
2 votes:

lemonysprite: He comes off worse in the video than her. Yeah she's immature and irritating but he seems like a genuine asshole enjoying the whole thing.


I agree.

That shiat would drive me nuts too.  You make plans to go somewhere, and someone in the middle of the trip is like--"I need my tires rotated.."
2013-07-26 02:00:45 PM
2 votes:
Damn.  What a horrible biatch of person that coont is.  The guy needs to run as far and as fast as he can to get away from her.
Damn.  What a controlling, domineering bastard that douchebag is.  The woman needs to run as far and as fast as she can to get away from him.
Damn.  I Hope those too people spend the rest of their lives alone and bitter.  And I hope that neither of them ever reproduce!
2013-07-26 01:56:50 PM
2 votes:

BlousyBrown: Notice how calm he is being, knowing full well it's being recorded. What kind of behavior does he exhibit when the camera is turned off?


People who record other people behave perfectly reasonable when doing so. If you ever deal with someone who is suddenly acting perfectly logical and nice when they usually act like a douche bag and then they do something to try to start something...probably a trap.
2013-07-26 01:51:16 PM
2 votes:
1. Adults don't get to throw temper tantrums regardless of circumstances or provocation. Ever. If you can't control your anger get help because there's something wrong with you.

2. The only people the husband should have showed that video to was his lawyer and the judge overseeing his divorce in the context of "This is why I want to divorce that crazy biatch".

/Both these people are assholes and they deserve each other.
2013-07-26 01:46:11 PM
2 votes:

The Gordie Howe Hat Trick: Life is too incredibly short to put up with that for one minute. And I'm talking about both of them.


I do agree. But I had a friend married to a crazy alcoholic and he was dealing with it for a few years trying to make it work.

One day I said "Life is too long for you to live like that." It kind of hit him just right. They got divorced a few months later.

That was already like 6 years ago.
2013-07-26 01:39:38 PM
2 votes:
My feeling last week was that 1. She's great in in bed, and 2. They don't have kids. Meaning that 3. He doesn't feel trapped by the marriage to this crazy lady. So I was right on two of them, may never know about the third. And I'm cutting the guy 100% slack. You know this girl was broadcasting her side of ALL of their buusiness to anyone who would listen, and her side is nuts.
2013-07-26 01:38:25 PM
2 votes:

Lucky LaRue: DO. NOT. STICK. YOUR. DICK. IN. PUT A RING ON CRAZY.


It's a fun ride but you have to know when the park's closing and the zombies are coming in.
2013-07-26 01:35:14 PM
2 votes:

factoryconnection: Called it. http://www.fark.com/comments/7853763/85502068#c85502068

Not that it was a tough call to make.  The divorce-court judge is going to have fun slamming this guy's wallet into the ground over "exhibit A: www.youtube.com/..."

I don't care if she's an emotional wreck, you don't surreptitiously record your spouse so that you can ridicule him or her to the world.  I hope she gets ALL.


having watched the video... I dont think you know what that means.
2013-07-26 01:22:52 PM
2 votes:

miss diminutive: She's a melodramatic, immature crybaby who throws tantrums to express herself. He's a manipulative, condescending douche who instigates then records his wife to shame her before the world.


Let's play the Dating Game!
2013-07-26 01:07:32 PM
2 votes:

Pray 4 Mojo: [i.dailymail.co.uk image 634x632]

This explains everything.

Yankee fans are horrible people. It's a fact.


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2013-07-26 01:03:04 PM
2 votes:

Sybarite: Everyone here seems like a terrible person. That said, I'd fark the crazy out of her.


It doesn't work that way.

/just trust me on that one.
2013-07-26 12:24:59 PM
2 votes:
A nurse with a DUI and throws immature temper tantrums.  I bet the nursing board is having a double take.
2013-07-26 11:58:33 AM
2 votes:

Pray 4 Mojo: That's a bummer. Both of them being total assholes... it seemed like a perfect match.

2013-07-26 11:55:57 AM
2 votes:
Damn, he dodged a bullet (or a really sharp knife to his fun bits). That's bunny-boiler crazy.
2013-07-26 08:40:39 PM
1 votes:

Tyrosine: 1. Adults don't get to throw temper tantrums regardless of circumstances or provocation. Ever. If you can't control your anger get help because there's something wrong with you.


Adults don't provoke one another. Ever. If you can't control your urge to provoke somebody else into a rage, get help because there's something wrong with you.

/especially if the 'another' is your spouse
2013-07-26 07:01:40 PM
1 votes:
SHE filed for divorce.

HE had to move out.

Does anyone else see the problem here?
2013-07-26 06:57:51 PM
1 votes:

corn-bread: Hebalo: Proteejay: I think men are getting smarter and this guy is an example of that. The pendulum of equality between the sexes has swung so far to the other side and does not exist in family court where men are concerned.

 When you've put your d**k in crazy, you have few options. One is getting out. Failing to do that, you should protect yourself.   This guy protected himself from a future restraining order or cries of abuse or he beat me or give me half your sh*t or in preparation for the negative press war that women rule in his future divorce; by documenting her level of insanity.  Good on him.   He's keeping his own a** out of jail from some trumped up assault charge, by documenting the crazy. Well played.

But this guy isn't acting like a man. A man doesn't taunt and callously treat a woman like that, no matter how batshiat crazy she reacts.


Uh huh.
You want to get your balls crushed, that's on you.
In this age of equality women are equally capable of causing various levels of harm to a man.
The modern day smart man discards your ridciulous chivalry shiate and fights fire with fire.


Except Women don't want true equality.  if a woman has a dead battery in a parking lot, she won't say "amazing how nobody came over to help" she will say "amazing how many men didn't offer to help".
2013-07-26 05:35:01 PM
1 votes:
I really recommend this book if you have to deal with getting away from someone with BPD:

ecx.images-amazon.com

It goes over what to expect in court and its almost exact science.  It explains about how they will try to claim abuse and seek ex-parte hearings and how to document and explain the behavior.  It explains how they act in court and how they act with mediation.  This one is top of my list of books on the subject that have helped me but I would also recommend:

Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You by Susan Forward

I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality by Jerold J. Kreisman

Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder by Paul Mason MS
2013-07-26 05:23:36 PM
1 votes:
http://www.bpdcentral.com/borderline-disorder/bpd-relationships/Five Familiar "Fights" (Relationship Behavioral Patterns)Having a borderline loved one means having that "it's déjà vu all over again" feeling much of the time. You may feel get stuck in these five familiar behavioral patterns, or "fights," with no clue about what's happening, how you got there, or how to get out.

1. The "It's Your Fault" Fight
"Once my BP girlfriend snapped at me for looking through some DVDs the wrong way. I asked her in a very even tone of voice, "What are you getting upset about?" For the rest of the day she sulked and gave me the silent treatment."
For BPs to admit to themselves or others that anything about them is less than perfect would be admitting that they are defective.
2. The "Heads I Win, Tails You Lose" Fight
"My mother is the master of double-binds. When I call her as soon as I get home at the end of my day, she is short and rude because she is in the middle of something. But if I wait until later in the evening to call, she says in an accusatory way, "You've been home for how long? And you didn't call me?"
You know you're in a no-win scenario when you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. People with BPD are consistently inconsistent.
3. The "Projection" Fight
"There's nothing wrong with me. There's something wrong with you!
People often try to avoid feeling bad about their own unpleasant traits, behaviors, or feelings by attributing them (often in an accusing way) to someone else. This is a common defense mechanism called projection. people with BPD take it to the extreme.
4. The "I Hate You-Don't Leave Me" Fight
I am totally confused. My BP boyfriend broke up with me on Tuesday, then on Friday wanted to know what I was doing over the weekend. I remember one night, we had a great time together and had great sex. Then he started a fight over nothing the next morning."
When people get too close, people with BPs feel engulfed. In turn, they distance themselves to avoid feeling controlled. But then BPs feel neglected, even abandoned. So they try to get closer again, and the cycle repeats.
5. The "Testing" Fight
Before I recovered from BPD I would tell people, "I'm just testing you to see how much you love me." I knew that I couldn't start with a full-blown BP rage. So I started softly and slowly. With each test I set forth and the person passed, I upped the ante and said, "If you loved me, you would do this or that." People usually accepted the most outrageous and inappropriate behavior to maintain the relationship.
You might think that once the non-BP passes the tests, their borderline family member would feel more secure. But that doesn't happen. Instead, people with BPD think, "Why would a healthy, normal person take the abuse? There must be something wrong with them."
2013-07-26 05:12:31 PM
1 votes:
I don't think he did promise to take her to the lake. I he had, she would have said something to the extent of, "BUT YOU PROMISED!" and she did not. In fact, he said, "I told you this was my day to get stuff done," and she did not refute this in any way. A person who had been promised a trip to the lake would mention a piked promise.

As for his condescending demeanor, sometimes all you can do is laugh.
2013-07-26 04:49:15 PM
1 votes:

MadAzza: What you are calling a "tantrum" (because of course all women are children) is a reaction to being trapped.


This is the textbook example of a tantrum.
2013-07-26 04:29:18 PM
1 votes:

heili skrimsli: PartTimeBuddha: There's only one person responsible for his behaviour, and that's him.

Apparently.

I really don't think his behavior was the problem. It's not like he was screaming, wailing, kicking things and acting like a three year old.


Indeed, no. He wasn't playing that particular game. He was playing more of an 'I HATE YOU' game, where he extracts and provokes the worst aspects of her character at the worst time, and then betrays any trust in the relationship by exposing her publicly. The whole thing is hatred in action.

Think on it.

> He wouldn't post the second worst example of her behaviour, would he?
> The woman must have started the car ride with an expectation of going to the lake. Yes -- she reacts REALLY badly to the change of destination, but he'd got her into the car in the first place with that as the assumption.

"Honey. Things have been bad, I know. But I love you. I do. Look -- let's just ... let's just try to put the past behind us and, you know, reconnect with who we really are. Who we were. Tomorrow ... that's right ... tomorrow, let's go to the lake. We'll get on the boats. We'll go swimming. With all that's happened, I ... I think we're both starting to forget who we are, right? How good we can be together? Remember? I love you. I'll prove it. I'll prove it tomorrow."

The guy is a liar and he's manipulated the situation and the woman into something for ridicule. Hatred in action.

Is he unhappy in his marriage? Sure. If you're unhappy, try to deal with it, and if you fail to deal with it, leave.
2013-07-26 04:17:48 PM
1 votes:

kobrakai: Hebalo: The version I watched was filled with him taunting her, calling her names, and being kind of selfish.

Which a normal person ignores, walks away from and files for divorce. A crazy biatch keeps fighting and throwing a tantrum thinking that the outcome is going to go her way.


He refused to stop the car so she could get out. What you are calling a "tantrum" (because of course all women are children) is a reaction to being trapped.

I hope she uses his own recording against the abusive asshole.

Also, the jerk has an extremely punchable smirky-face. And now, women everywhere know that he is to be avoided at all costs. So it's not all for naught.
2013-07-26 04:15:18 PM
1 votes:
Because the guy always has to be the one who's wrong, eh? It can't possibly be that he's just an average, normal, not abusive man who's been pushed to the point that he walked out the door by a crazy, immature, spoiled biatch, can it?


oh, not at all - it's entirely common for both parties to be wrong.
he may not be abusive, and he seems to have opted to walk out the door.

putting her tantrum on youtube, however? as juvenile as she
2013-07-26 04:05:19 PM
1 votes:

frepnog: AngryJailhouseFistfark: I find it difficult to believe she went from zero to hystrionic overnight. I suspect she's always been colorful and over-reactive, but the real villain in this thing is the guy. He struck me as a jerk from his comments and the mere fact that he was filming this instead of pulling over to the side of the road to seek some resolution, if only to quiet down until they got home. Then seeing his photos, he looks like a wet, sticky asshole.

I bet you good money that you are the kind of person that made him film this crazy biatch losing her shiat.

because no one would believe the level of crazy.

/was married to crazy.  she would go weapons grade insane when we were alone.  NO ONE would believe me.  Then once we were at her mother's and she forgot where she was and started to go off...  for about 40 seconds.  and then she realized where she was and total personality change.  Lots witnessed it.  No one disbelieved me any more.


That's what happened with my ex.  In her case, it was a five minute tirade, because I had deleted a horribly blurry picture of christmas lights off of a digital camera.  It was the evening that I was vindicated after forever of that kind of shiat in private.   and as it turned out, It was the start of the best thing that could have happened for me.   Her parents were there, her sisters and brothers were there....  The whole fam damily was there..

I even had a pretty sound calculation for an exchange rate.  For every 30 minutes she had to be nice to someone, I'd catch around 14.5 hours of hell for it.

I've still got a good relationship with the ex in-laws, after almost five years of being divorced from her.
2013-07-26 03:51:37 PM
1 votes:
He should have known better than to marry a smoker.
2013-07-26 03:41:10 PM
1 votes:

Hebalo: Proteejay: I think men are getting smarter and this guy is an example of that. The pendulum of equality between the sexes has swung so far to the other side and does not exist in family court where men are concerned.

 When you've put your d**k in crazy, you have few options. One is getting out. Failing to do that, you should protect yourself.   This guy protected himself from a future restraining order or cries of abuse or he beat me or give me half your sh*t or in preparation for the negative press war that women rule in his future divorce; by documenting her level of insanity.  Good on him.   He's keeping his own a** out of jail from some trumped up assault charge, by documenting the crazy. Well played.

But this guy isn't acting like a man. A man doesn't taunt and callously treat a woman like that, no matter how batshiat crazy she reacts.


Bullshiat.  I'm a nice guy, and I would have gotten screwed.  He did the right thing.  She did the wrong thing by marrying someone who wouldn't stand for her shiat.
2013-07-26 03:25:38 PM
1 votes:
shabu:All that said, my first impulse to to remind the guy that his vehicle has a driver and passenger front door, and he should make use of one of them.

Pushing her out of a moving vehicle would be bad. Probably.
2013-07-26 03:06:50 PM
1 votes:

WinoRhino: As a college senior I was dating a freshman woman who was crazy. For a few months is was SO worth it. Really. But then:


theathleticnerd.com
2013-07-26 03:00:06 PM
1 votes:

kobrakai: Now to the men on here calling this guy (and me I guess) an abuser I'll ask you this: How should I have handled that? How much of that bullshiat would you take from an adult before you went into self-preservation mode?


I'm not calling the husband in this video an abuser, I have no idea about that.  But if my wife thought that she needed to hit me then I would have ended the relationship after about the second time.  Not necessarily because I would be afraid she was going to seriously hurt me but because I would be afraid I might respond in kind.
2013-07-26 02:56:54 PM
1 votes:
to put up with all of that and now pull the rip cord, he must be tired of a girl who swallows, likes facials sometimes, and does anal.
2013-07-26 02:51:31 PM
1 votes:

SeedFreak: However, he seems to be experienced in pushing her buttons which make me think he's psychologically abusive.


I think she's just an immature crazy biatch.

There's only one person responsible for her behavior, and that person is her.

Onkel Buck: A lot of states are making people install them after a first offense now.


...

/This has been your Friday safety briefing.

Well, given that they keep lowering the limits to the point where a person can only be deemed 'intoxicated' using gas chromatography, I think it's pretty clearly not about just 'safety'. If a person's reaction time, balance, cognition and ability to follow instructions is not impaired and the level of alcohol in their system isn't enough to affect the testing of those things, then it's purely a money grab.

AngryJailhouseFistfark: But that's just the sort the abusers prey on.


Because the guy always has to be the one who's wrong, eh? It can't possibly be that he's just an average, normal, not abusive man who's been pushed to the point that he walked out the door by a crazy, immature, spoiled biatch, can it?
2013-07-26 02:48:27 PM
1 votes:

dazed420: I find it amazing that so many people are jumping to the defense of the woman despite the fact that she:

1) Has at a minimum 1 DUI if not more for her to have an Interlock device on the vehicle
2) Expects other people to be responsible for her vehicle
3) Has the ability to act like a little kid, I don't care how bad the issue is you do not act like that.  I can say that after experiencing some extreme stuff in my life like being told you are about to die while in the ER.
4) Quickly conclude that the guy is and has been nothing but a jerk despite having no evidence yet defend the woman even though there is tons of evidence that she is crazy.


We expect men to be responsible.
2013-07-26 02:47:30 PM
1 votes:
The Goddamn Batman: "Why does it take all day to get your tires rotated? And why would you take your wife with you?"

You seem to be missing the context of having known a crazy biatch or two.

It doesn't take all day to get your tired rotated. But she's insane, so not doing what she wants Right This Second is treated as if it were equivalent to not doing it, ever. The question of "why don't they just go after" is answered by the dude's "how can we afford it" that she never really addresses, conflating her income with their discretionary funds. This is a standard move of people with no monetary maturity, who don't grok/have budgets and have likely never had to be personally responsible for farking one up. (A person with $100 can afford any given $20 purchase. But that doesn't mean they can afford *every* potential $20 purchase opportunity they're presented. After you make a few $20 purchases, the rest become no longer affordable, regardless of how much you make -- she doesn't get this, or pretends not to.)

Your crazy-ass wife goes with you to get the tires rotated, when she really wants to go to the lake, because she believes she can tantrum her way into getting whatever she wants. Being in the car just makes it that much easier for you to break down, yell "fine!" and drive to B. Which is why she was wearing a beach dress with, almost certainly, her bathing suit underneath.

None of which means they *weren't* doing a reality show pitch. It just means she's either an authentic crazy biatch *anyway*, or plays one on TV really, *really* well.
2013-07-26 02:29:04 PM
1 votes:

Hebalo: Proteejay: I think men are getting smarter and this guy is an example of that. The pendulum of equality between the sexes has swung so far to the other side and does not exist in family court where men are concerned.

 When you've put your d**k in crazy, you have few options. One is getting out. Failing to do that, you should protect yourself.   This guy protected himself from a future restraining order or cries of abuse or he beat me or give me half your sh*t or in preparation for the negative press war that women rule in his future divorce; by documenting her level of insanity.  Good on him.   He's keeping his own a** out of jail from some trumped up assault charge, by documenting the crazy. Well played.

But this guy isn't acting like a man. A man doesn't taunt and callously treat a woman like that, no matter how batshiat crazy she reacts.


What's the manly way for him to act? Beat her? Be her b*tch?  Maybe dude manned up and  checked out.


Have you dated crazy? Normal people don't mean to date crazy. But have you?  If so; remember what it was like?  


To me, dude came across as callous and fed up. If you are rational, there is not much you can say to those with depression, anger issues or behavior problems where you won't look a prick; especially if there are water works.  Staying in that relationship would not have ended well for him.
2013-07-26 02:22:28 PM
1 votes:

WhiskeySticks: First clue of crazy right there.


Yeah, I got into the group because of her. I quickly learned that 50% of the members were batshiat insane, and the other 50% were actually very interesting well-rounded people (one guy from the group is actually on TV these days and made it pretty big). I enjoyed it, though, and later joined a community theater group. That's when I learned after college, the well-rounded interesting people had much better things to do with their time and community theater was populated by 100% batshiat insane people.
2013-07-26 02:22:20 PM
1 votes:
Man, I'd be pissed if I had to waste a Saturday and buy a present for a wedding and marriage that lasted a whopping 14 months.  Sheesh, people...figure out if you're actually compatible before you tie the knot.
2013-07-26 02:22:00 PM
1 votes:

lockers: Hebalo: Dude is a dick. They're discussing things like the budget at the beginning, so she's not a total head case. Filming your wife in the middle of an argument like that is pretty childish. And he clearly doesn't care at all about her, he laughs at her reaction. She's over the top, but these two clearly shouldn't be together.

Wow, what exactly does one have to do to qualify as unacceptably childish to you? I mean kicking and screaming get's a pass, so what would someone have to do before you say fark this, I'm out?


I'm not giving her a pass, but 3/4 of the comments here are all "dude is right", when dude is clearly being an asshole. It looks to me like this is round 4 of this argument, and he's been taunting her the whole time. Getting his tired rotated? really?
2013-07-26 02:21:40 PM
1 votes:

basemetal: A nurse with a DUI and throws immature temper tantrums.  I bet the nursing board is having a double take.


Do people usually get interlock devices after the first DUI, or is that like, once you fill up your frequent drunk card you get one? It looks to me like he's dealing with a highly unstable person who has a serious drinking problem.

factoryconnection: I hope she gets ALL.


I hope she doesn't get shiat. That kind of behavior doesn't need to be rewarded.

nytmare: What do you mean "first" inclination? He's been putting up with that shiat for a while. He's done trying to fix it; that didn't work. Now it's just time to laugh it off because there is no other option.


I can certainly see why after over a year married to her he would want people to know that she's full of she when she's bashing him on Facebook to all of their mutual friends. The last straw video combined with moving out and getting a restraining order seems to indicate that he was just pushed too damn far.
2013-07-26 02:19:29 PM
1 votes:
Let me guess, he had nooooooo idea that she acted this way before they got married.
2013-07-26 02:19:18 PM
1 votes:

Hebalo: Dude is a dick. They're discussing things like the budget at the beginning, so she's not a total head case. Filming your wife in the middle of an argument like that is pretty childish. And he clearly doesn't care at all about her, he laughs at her reaction. She's over the top, but these two clearly shouldn't be together.


Wow, what exactly does one have to do to qualify as unacceptably childish to you? I mean kicking and screaming get's a pass, so what would someone have to do before you say fark this, I'm out?
2013-07-26 02:17:34 PM
1 votes:

WinoRhino: in the same theater group


First clue of crazy right there.
2013-07-26 02:17:08 PM
1 votes:

Proteejay: I think men are getting smarter and this guy is an example of that. The pendulum of equality between the sexes has swung so far to the other side and does not exist in family court where men are concerned.

 When you've put your d**k in crazy, you have few options. One is getting out. Failing to do that, you should protect yourself.   This guy protected himself from a future restraining order or cries of abuse or he beat me or give me half your sh*t or in preparation for the negative press war that women rule in his future divorce; by documenting her level of insanity.  Good on him.   He's keeping his own a** out of jail from some trumped up assault charge, by documenting the crazy. Well played.


But this guy isn't acting like a man. A man doesn't taunt and callously treat a woman like that, no matter how batshiat crazy she reacts.
2013-07-26 02:16:48 PM
1 votes:

vudukungfu: She looks a bit like my second ex wife.
Also cray cray,
started of trantrumy,
ended up really violent.
Had to sell all my guns, before I realized,she was only going to get stabby, too.

Never stick you dick in crazy, son.


What is with Farkers dating/marrying crazy women? I know there are a lot of them out there, but based solely on Fark demographics it seems like one out of every three women is a psycho hose-beast.

I've never dated any crazy guys. I've dated overly possessive, emotionally crippled, jealously violent or chronically immature men, but never straight-up "batshiat insane" ones.
2013-07-26 02:12:56 PM
1 votes:
Part of me thinks showing her the video could have aided in letting her see how bat shiat crazy she acts.  Like when you're trying to help someone with a sever drug or alcohol problem.

The other part of me thinks he had already made up his mind and posted the video to show everyone else why he's walking away from bat shiat crazy.
2013-07-26 02:08:45 PM
1 votes:
She looks a bit like my second ex wife.
Also cray cray,
started of trantrumy,
ended up really violent.
Had to sell all my guns, before I realized,she was only going to get stabby, too.

Never stick you dick in crazy, son.
2013-07-26 02:00:40 PM
1 votes:

lemonysprite: He comes off worse in the video than her. Yeah she's immature and irritating but he seems like a genuine asshole enjoying the whole thing.


Over crocodile tears?  Please.
2013-07-26 01:59:12 PM
1 votes:

sandi_fish: metallion: xynix: Oh the joys of being married to a crazy person. I was married to a crazy person who would act JUST LIKE THAT for reasons that still escape me. The difference is that I wouldn't egg her on.. I would try to avoid the situation which would of course get her even more geared up. She would block doors and scream at me.. Take my keys and throw them in the woods. Throw laptops/phones etc into the pool/toilet/closest body of water.

farking psycho. I knew it before I married her.. My friends knew it too .. they told me. But I didn't -really- know it until 6 months in and she went totally batshiat.  7.5 years until I could properly escape with my son. About to get remarried to my soul-mate. I'm a better person for being married to a psycho though. I can appreciate true brilliance, kindness, and love now like I never knew I could.

Maybe it's like being in prison.. Get out and everything looks greener, bluer, you can smell again.

My ex-wife was like that.  She was fine until about a year after we exchanged vows...  She already had kids, and I was sort of trapped, because the kids needed something normal in their lives.   Put up with her for 12 years, and when I left, I felt like all of the circuits that had any caring for her were just burned flat out.   I also felt like a massive cement truck was off of my back.  The funny thing about it, is that the kids were both pretty much on my side about it.  "What I don't understand dad, is why you didn't leave her earlier...".   Now I've got a soulmate, who is everything good that I've missed for so long.  Pretty csb. :)

Agree with you both.  After being someone who could flip out about anything, it's a joy to have someone who is great to be around.  It seems your whole attitude changes once you are with a wonderful person who treats you well, and is always happy to see you.  Makes the world a whole different place.


It even makes the world look so much better, not having that big wad of stress on your shoulders, thinking what did I do wrong today, and why am I so worthless..   It's nice being encouraged and supported, as opposed to being belittled, and manipulated.
2013-07-26 01:58:12 PM
1 votes:

cwolf20: Bashar and Asma's Infinite Playlist: Why are nurses generally insane?

Have you seen some of what they have to deal with? And that's just the people who don't die on their watch.


It goes deeper than that though.

Even people who go into nursing school are crazier than the general populace.
2013-07-26 01:57:07 PM
1 votes:

xynix: metallion: My ex-wife was like that.  She was fine until about a year after we exchanged vows...  She already had kids, and I was sort of trapped, because the kids needed something normal in their lives.   Put up with her for 12 years, and when I left, I felt like all of the circuits that had any caring for her were just burned flat out.   I also felt like a massive cement truck was off of my back.  The funny thing about it, is that the kids were both pretty much on my side about it.  "What I don't understand dad, is why you didn't leave her earlier...".   Now I've got a soulmate, who is everything good that I've missed for so long.  Pretty csb. :)

Same deal except it was her mother and her mother's husband that suggest I divorce that crazy biatch for my son's sake. Now her entire family are my friends, shunning her, and I've got a person I can really enjoy life with.

Not sure if you like Darius Rucker but his song "this" defines my life with my soon to be wife.


Very similar indeed. :)  Her mom always asked me how I put up with it.   I would never have done a video though, because I would have been ashamed to have something like that in my posession.  There may not be as much of it, but abuse doesn't always come from the male in the relationship.
2013-07-26 01:57:04 PM
1 votes:

BlousyBrown: MutantMotherMouse: My only question is why she didn't take herself to the lake? Mr. Mutantmothermouse wants to run errands rather than meet friends at the lake? Fark that -- I'm going without him. lol! jk! Mr. MMM never turns down an opportunity to go to the lake.

I think she had a restricted license or something like that.


DUI interlock on her car.  She may have already started drinking that day.
2013-07-26 01:56:13 PM
1 votes:
Not much to add to all of the comments above, other than to agree that you cannot be "tricked" into behaving this way.  You either behave like a spoiled bratty child or you don't.  As for him secretly recording her and then posting it online, too freakin bad lady.  The world needs to know about your weapons-grade insanity, including your current employer, any possible future employers, and all possible future mates.  The guy is gonna get OWNED in divorce court because of this (or civil court, I'm no lawyer), but I for one am certainly glad he shared.
2013-07-26 01:55:32 PM
1 votes:

Bashar and Asma's Infinite Playlist: Why are nurses generally insane?


Have you seen some of what they have to deal with? And that's just the people who don't die on their watch.
2013-07-26 01:55:10 PM
1 votes:

cwolf20: Long term married life- taking arguments into the house and not allowing the public to see them.

Short term- embarrassing honey freakie-outtie boo-boo, making an embarrassment of yourself in the process because now everyone knows what you married.  And then having her be the winner by serving you divorce papers.


And she will win, too.
Because he humiliated her in public and damaged her reputation in the community, I'd bet.
Just wait and see.
2013-07-26 01:53:06 PM
1 votes:
My only question is why she didn't take herself to the lake? Mr. Mutantmothermouse wants to run errands rather than meet friends at the lake? Fark that -- I'm going without him. lol! jk! Mr. MMM never turns down an opportunity to go to the lake.
2013-07-26 01:52:00 PM
1 votes:
Too bad, it seems like they deserved each other.
2013-07-26 01:50:00 PM
1 votes:
Long term married life- taking arguments into the house and not allowing the public to see them.

Short term- embarrassing honey freakie-outtie boo-boo, making an embarrassment of yourself in the process because now everyone knows what you married.  And then having her be the winner by serving you divorce papers.
2013-07-26 01:48:32 PM
1 votes:
Instead of trying to decide who the worst party is in this situation, why not just be grateful they've both been outed as bad dating choices, especially now that they're available again?

/oh, who am I kidding. In a world where people send marriage proposals to Casey Anthony and Scott Peterson during their murder trials, what difference can a single YouTube video make?
2013-07-26 01:47:52 PM
1 votes:
After all that caterwauling, would it really be a pleasant time on the lake for either of them?
2013-07-26 01:47:16 PM
1 votes:

xynix: Oh the joys of being married to a crazy person. I was married to a crazy person who would act JUST LIKE THAT for reasons that still escape me. The difference is that I wouldn't egg her on.. I would try to avoid the situation which would of course get her even more geared up. She would block doors and scream at me.. Take my keys and throw them in the woods. Throw laptops/phones etc into the pool/toilet/closest body of water.

farking psycho. I knew it before I married her.. My friends knew it too .. they told me. But I didn't -really- know it until 6 months in and she went totally batshiat.  7.5 years until I could properly escape with my son. About to get remarried to my soul-mate. I'm a better person for being married to a psycho though. I can appreciate true brilliance, kindness, and love now like I never knew I could.

Maybe it's like being in prison.. Get out and everything looks greener, bluer, you can smell again.


My ex-wife was like that.  She was fine until about a year after we exchanged vows...  She already had kids, and I was sort of trapped, because the kids needed something normal in their lives.   Put up with her for 12 years, and when I left, I felt like all of the circuits that had any caring for her were just burned flat out.   I also felt like a massive cement truck was off of my back.  The funny thing about it, is that the kids were both pretty much on my side about it.  "What I don't understand dad, is why you didn't leave her earlier...".   Now I've got a soulmate, who is everything good that I've missed for so long.  Pretty csb. :)
2013-07-26 01:45:38 PM
1 votes:

Angry Drunk Bureaucrat: impaler: NutWrench: Damn, he dodged a bullet (or a really sharp knife to his fun bits). That's bunny-boiler crazy.

Tough to say. That tantrum could have just been the breaking point after years of emotional manipulation/abuse. I'm not sure which one is dodging the bullet here.

Yeah, if this guy's first inclination is to post something to You Tube rather than seek marriage counseling, methinks we're not hearing the whole story here.


What do you mean "first" inclination? He's been putting up with that shiat for a while. He's done trying to fix it; that didn't work. Now it's just time to laugh it off because there is no other option.
2013-07-26 01:44:48 PM
1 votes:
24.media.tumblr.com
2013-07-26 01:40:09 PM
1 votes:
That lake must be incredible. And, yup, i would.
2013-07-26 01:39:57 PM
1 votes:

Pray 4 Mojo: That's a bummer. Both of them being total assholes... it seemed like a perfect match.


Agreed, they both seem like immature little spoiled brats.  They were made for each other.
d23 [TotalFark]
2013-07-26 01:38:23 PM
1 votes:
she's got a hick accent.  What a surprise.

"geat mea sum ciggarettes"
2013-07-26 01:34:45 PM
1 votes:
Looking at all the photos in the article, it appears that the couple is unaware of Facebook privacy settings, or they just don't care.
2013-07-26 01:34:37 PM
1 votes:
Loved the video. It brought back such sweet memories. Memories about why I am not married anymore.
2013-07-26 01:32:43 PM
1 votes:

Pray 4 Mojo: That's a bummer. Both of them being total assholes... it seemed like a perfect match.


Yup. Too bad they couldn't work together and use their assholism synergistically.
2013-07-26 01:10:19 PM
1 votes:
Jim said he knew his wife accepted it was over when she de-friended him on Facebook.

shiat just got real.
2013-07-26 12:59:30 PM
1 votes:
Everyone here seems like a terrible person. That said, I'd fark the crazy out of her.
2013-07-26 12:35:36 PM
1 votes:
Oh, she's a nurse?

Well, sheeut. Of course she's a nut.
2013-07-26 12:31:11 PM
1 votes:

Pray 4 Mojo: [i.dailymail.co.uk image 634x632]

This explains everything.

Yankee fans are horrible people. It's a fact.


She looks crazy enough to cut your bunny in half and boil your penis.
ZAZ [TotalFark]
2013-07-26 12:19:17 PM
1 votes:
Pray 4 Mojo: That's a bummer. Both of them being total assholes... it seemed like a perfect match.
2013-07-26 11:52:05 AM
1 votes:
Ooh, she's filing for divorce...after he moved out.
 
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