heili skrimsli: SeedFreak: However, he seems to be experienced in pushing her buttons which make me think he's psychologically abusive.I think she's just an immature crazy biatch.There's only one person responsible for her behavior, and that person is her.AngryJailhouseFistfark: But that's just the sort the abusers prey on.Because the guy always has to be the one who's wrong, eh? It can't possibly be that he's just an average, normal, not abusive man who's been pushed to the point that he walked out the door by a crazy, immature, spoiled biatch, can it?
ringersol: impaler: "Tough to say. That tantrum could have just been the breaking point after years of emotional manipulation/abuse."Did you miss her casual mention of how getting her oil changed was somehow someone else's problem because of "the interlock thing" on her car?The dude may *also* be a colossal d-bag, but the question of whether she's bug-fark-nuts is not remotely tough to say.
miss diminutive: What is with Farkers dating/marrying crazy women? I know there are a lot of them out there, but based solely on Fark demographics it seems like one out of every three women is a psycho hose-beast.I've never dated any crazy guys. I've dated overly possessive, emotionally crippled, jealously violent or chronically immature men, but never straight-up "batshiat insane" ones.
PartTimeBuddha: There's only one person responsible for his behaviour, and that's him.Apparently.
kobrakai: Hebalo: The version I watched was filled with him taunting her, calling her names, and being kind of selfish.Which a normal person ignores, walks away from and files for divorce. A crazy biatch keeps fighting and throwing a tantrum thinking that the outcome is going to go her way.
MadAzza: Also, the jerk has an extremely punchable smirky-face. And now, women everywhere know that he is to be avoided at all costs. So it's not all for naught.
Sybarite: Everyone here seems like a terrible person. That said, I'd fark the crazy out of her.
heili skrimsli: PartTimeBuddha: There's only one person responsible for his behaviour, and that's him.Apparently.I really don't think his behavior was the problem. It's not like he was screaming, wailing, kicking things and acting like a three year old.
TheThirdViceroy: Man, I'd be pissed if I had to waste a Saturday and buy a present for a wedding and marriage that lasted a whopping 14 months. Sheesh, people...figure out if you're actually compatible before you tie the knot.
MadAzza: He refused to stop the car so she could get out.
MadAzza: I hope she uses his own recording against the abusive asshole.
Fear the Clam: It was obvious what was going to happen as soon as you saw how many bridesmaids/groomsmen they had:
kobrakai: But I know none of this means anything to you. He is a man, ergo he's the bad guy.
barefoot in the head: obamadidcoke: That guy is a shiatbird. Just divorce her if she's that big a pain in the ass, but don't ridicule her. This dude is too big a pussy to make a decision and stand up for it, so he had to "prove" what a biatch she was and destroy her in the process.Yep.
MadAzza: What you are calling a "tantrum" (because of course all women are children) is a reaction to being trapped.
The Chaos Toadman: To any Farkers who have not heard of this before, she is most likely suffering from borderline personality disorder. For many years my ex was like this x10 and I just called her crazy. Now I know exactly what that kind of crazy is called. I bought a few books on it and she shares every single trait that someone who suffers from that disorder does. It's like a playbook of sorts because they all do the same things and it scared me because of all the times I've had to explain to people "shes just crazy" and she made me feel like I was crazy and always became the victim. This woman does one of the main traits of BPD on the video! She uses "Splitting" to go on facebook to make herself look like a victim and her husband the bad one. To borderliners, people are either all good or all bad. I used to hear my exwife on the phone with people and she was like a different person to each person she was talking to. She would be the best friend ever to who she was talking to and then say how bad everyone else was. Then she would call someone else and do the same thing. Nobody would listen to me say that she was crazy because she told everyone how I neglect her. I found a book called "I hate you.... dont leave me!" and it was like finding my own autobiography. I've been divorced from her for 13 years and have one more kid turning 18 soon so I celebrate never having to see her again. She is still super crazy. I could write a book about it but I would have to wait until my kid turns 18 to release it.So tl/dr version: Shes probably got borderline personality disorder. If you dated one, you would recognize it. You just probably never knew what it was called. Check out bpdcentral website, its worth a google./I'm not a therapist, I just read like 5-6 books about it when I found out what its called.//going to a therapist that understands bpd and life is getting better
factoryconnection: Called it. http://www.fark.com/comments/7853763/85502068#c85502068Not that it was a tough call to make. The divorce-court judge is going to have fun slamming this guy's wallet into the ground over "exhibit A: www.youtube.com/..."I don't care if she's an emotional wreck, you don't surreptitiously record your spouse so that you can ridicule him or her to the world. I hope she gets ALL.
Xcott: Came for "Wife-lake tantrum detected."Leaving dissatisfied. WHAT THE HELL PEOPLE
miss diminutive: vudukungfu: She looks a bit like my second ex wife.Also cray cray,started of trantrumy,ended up really violent.Had to sell all my guns, before I realized,she was only going to get stabby, too.Never stick you dick in crazy, son.What is with Farkers dating/marrying crazy women? I know there are a lot of them out there, but based solely on Fark demographics it seems like one out of every three women is a psycho hose-beast.I've never dated any crazy guys. I've dated overly possessive, emotionally crippled, jealously violent or chronically immature men, but never straight-up "batshiat insane" ones.
Waldo Pepper: vudukungfu: She looks a bit like my second ex wife.Also cray cray,started of trantrumy,ended up really violent.Had to sell all my guns, before I realized,she was only going to get stabby, too.Never stick you dick in crazy, son.can we ban the use of the word "cray" meaning crazy on fark.
metallion: frepnog: AngryJailhouseFistfark: I find it difficult to believe she went from zero to hystrionic overnight. I suspect she's always been colorful and over-reactive, but the real villain in this thing is the guy. He struck me as a jerk from his comments and the mere fact that he was filming this instead of pulling over to the side of the road to seek some resolution, if only to quiet down until they got home. Then seeing his photos, he looks like a wet, sticky asshole.I bet you good money that you are the kind of person that made him film this crazy biatch losing her shiat.because no one would believe the level of crazy./was married to crazy. she would go weapons grade insane when we were alone. NO ONE would believe me. Then once we were at her mother's and she forgot where she was and started to go off... for about 40 seconds. and then she realized where she was and total personality change. Lots witnessed it. No one disbelieved me any more.That's what happened with my ex. In her case, it was a five minute tirade, because I had deleted a horribly blurry picture of christmas lights off of a digital camera. It was the evening that I was vindicated after forever of that kind of shiat in private. and as it turned out, It was the start of the best thing that could have happened for me. Her parents were there, her sisters and brothers were there.... The whole fam damily was there..I even had a pretty sound calculation for an exchange rate. For every 30 minutes she had to be nice to someone, I'd catch around 14.5 hours of hell for it.I've still got a good relationship with the ex in-laws, after almost five years of being divorced from her.
The Flexecutioner: Xcott: Came for "Wife-lake tantrum detected."Leaving dissatisfied. WHAT THE HELL PEOPLEif it's any consolation i gave you a 'funny' vote.
Haplo127x: Oh, you're just missing out then. I came home one day to find my boyfriend very angry at me because he insisted the cat told him I was cheating on him instead of going to work. When I broke up with him the next day he kept insisting that the cat was a reincarnation of a famous guru who "knew things" and it would be very bad luck for me to leave him. Then he proceeded to call me repeatedly at work, introducing himself as either the cat or the guru. You should count your blessings.
"Once my BP girlfriend snapped at me for looking through some DVDs the wrong way. I asked her in a very even tone of voice, "What are you getting upset about?" For the rest of the day she sulked and gave me the silent treatment."
"My mother is the master of double-binds. When I call her as soon as I get home at the end of my day, she is short and rude because she is in the middle of something. But if I wait until later in the evening to call, she says in an accusatory way, "You've been home for how long? And you didn't call me?"
"There's nothing wrong with me. There's something wrong with you!
I am totally confused. My BP boyfriend broke up with me on Tuesday, then on Friday wanted to know what I was doing over the weekend. I remember one night, we had a great time together and had great sex. Then he started a fight over nothing the next morning."
Before I recovered from BPD I would tell people, "I'm just testing you to see how much you love me." I knew that I couldn't start with a full-blown BP rage. So I started softly and slowly. With each test I set forth and the person passed, I upped the ante and said, "If you loved me, you would do this or that." People usually accepted the most outrageous and inappropriate behavior to maintain the relationship.
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ThrobblefootSpectre: What a weird thread. Woman has a fit so it must be a man's fault. This is the typical attitude holding women back from equality. They just couldn't possibly be responsible for their actins. Sad.
kobrakai: This is the textbook example of a tantrum.
superlawyergirl: Just told the boyfriend to look up the video... I'd like a little appreciation for not being batshiat insane.
Hebalo: Proteejay: I think men are getting smarter and this guy is an example of that. The pendulum of equality between the sexes has swung so far to the other side and does not exist in family court where men are concerned. When you've put your d**k in crazy, you have few options. One is getting out. Failing to do that, you should protect yourself. This guy protected himself from a future restraining order or cries of abuse or he beat me or give me half your sh*t or in preparation for the negative press war that women rule in his future divorce; by documenting her level of insanity. Good on him. He's keeping his own a** out of jail from some trumped up assault charge, by documenting the crazy. Well played.But this guy isn't acting like a man. A man doesn't taunt and callously treat a woman like that, no matter how batshiat crazy she reacts.
heili skrimsli: ThrobblefootSpectre: What a weird thread. Woman has a fit so it must be a man's fault. This is the typical attitude holding women back from equality. They just couldn't possibly be responsible for their actins. Sad.You're just seeing a ton of white knights and feminists who think that women should not ever be held responsible for their shiatty behavior.
here to help: rev. dave
kobrakai: Now to the men on here calling this guy (and me I guess) an abuser I'll ask you this: How should I have handled that? How much of that bullshiat would you take from an adult before you went into self-preservation mode?
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