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2013-07-22 12:31:47 PM  
No matter how hot she is, some guy, somewhere, is tired of her shiat.
 
2013-07-22 12:35:47 PM  
This clip just got yanked from YouTube (was listed as another headline further up the page). Wonder how long it will last here.
 
2013-07-22 12:46:11 PM  
They're both horrible people.
 
2013-07-22 12:46:29 PM  
Honestly Admin? You are greenlighting petty domestic dramas? Ugh. If I wanted to see shiat like that Id go out into the real world.
 
2013-07-22 12:48:11 PM  
CapeFearCadaver: They're both horrible people.
 
2013-07-22 01:04:42 PM  

quickdraw: Honestly Admin? You are greenlighting petty domestic dramas? Ugh. If I wanted to see shiat like that Id go out into the real world.


I concur.

CapeFearCadaver: They're both horrible people.


I'm going to side with the one that didn't surreptitiously film and then upload it to the internet, the one that understands what a family budget is for.  This argument didn't start with a "hey can we go to the lake," and yet the editing still makes it clear that the guy is f'd up.
 
2013-07-22 01:28:47 PM  
If it makes anyone feel better, the silver lining is that these two people are miserable, broken human beings, incapable of experiencing actual love, who will die alone and afraid.

So there's a ray of sunshine in all this.
 
2013-07-22 01:38:09 PM  

CapeFearCadaver: They're both horrible people.

 
2013-07-22 01:49:21 PM  

factoryconnection: I'm going to side with the one that didn't surreptitiously film and then upload it to the internet, the one that understands what a family budget is for.  This argument didn't start with a "hey can we go to the lake," and yet the editing still makes it clear that the guy is f'd up.


This one, and as I said in the redlit thread, this isn't going to play out in divorce proceedings nearly like the guy thinks it will.
 
2013-07-22 01:56:04 PM  
I bet she's a pretty good lay.
 
2013-07-22 01:58:29 PM  

ThatGuyGreg: factoryconnection: I'm going to side with the one that didn't surreptitiously film and then upload it to the internet, the one that understands what a family budget is for.  This argument didn't start with a "hey can we go to the lake," and yet the editing still makes it clear that the guy is f'd up.

This one, and as I said in the redlit thread, this isn't going to play out in divorce proceedings nearly like the guy thinks it will.


This.  He's going to wish he had just taken her to the farking lake...if you know what I mean.
 
2013-07-22 02:17:14 PM  
I actually see her side of it. Why won't he take her to the lake?
 
2013-07-22 02:17:58 PM  
I heard her say he has an interlock on her car.  This might explain some things.

/poor little princess snowflake
//the dude should drop her off at a daycare
///and start a new secret bank account
 
2013-07-22 02:20:37 PM  
Also, if y'all think that is a toddler-level tantrum, then here are two things to consider:
1. I live with a 3-year-old girl that can throw a tantrum about her shirt being difficult to put on that would make your head explode, and...
2. My ex-sis-in-law threw a tantrum about having to stop lighting fireworks after the nice state trooper gave us a warning that would make the debris from your exploded head re-form into your head, melt into your body, and explode out of your ass.

ThatGuyGreg: This one, and as I said in the redlit thread, this isn't going to play out in divorce proceedings nearly like the guy thinks it will.


Yeah, he's going to be the divorced-est!
 
2013-07-22 02:23:33 PM  
Dude, if you're telling yourself to ride it out, it will get better eventually, it won't.
 
2013-07-22 02:28:29 PM  
"your acting like an 11 year old that didn't get a toy from Walmart"

BS when my 5 year old acts like this I punish her.  If my ex wife had acted like this I would have pulled the truck over and left her on the side of the rode.
 
2013-07-22 02:30:47 PM  
To women everywhere:  This is how you sound.
 
2013-07-22 02:32:31 PM  
If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.
 
2013-07-22 02:32:57 PM  

cabbyman: To women everywhere:  This is how you sound.


I'm adding another to the horrible people list.
 
2013-07-22 02:33:52 PM  

YourOwnMedicine: If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.


Says you
 
2013-07-22 02:43:01 PM  
1)  Excellent job subby and greenlighter, I thought it was great.
2)  That chick has some serious issues.
3)  Budget, she has an interlock and a desire for smokes... I bet both cost her a ton.  He, has a giant new truck... I'm sure that wasn't cheap either.
4)  I think dude did an awesome job, even if it was vertical vid.
 
2013-07-22 02:45:00 PM  
Go home, you're drunk.
 
2013-07-22 02:58:59 PM  
The only time I threw a tantrum like that, I was naked and blackout drunk in a hotel room in St. Louis with a bunch of other naked people.
 
2013-07-22 03:01:06 PM  
Goddammit I wish my mother hadn't passed away 7 years ago and missed her chance to meet a total gem like this I brought home.
 
2013-07-22 03:04:07 PM  

basemetal: I heard her say he has an interlock on her car.  This might explain some things.

/poor little princess snowflake
//the dude should drop her off at a daycare
///and start a new secret bank account


Yeah, I caught that too. She sounds like a royal pain in the ass.
 
2013-07-22 03:12:07 PM  
I can top that:

My (now ex-)wife and I were on our way to a marital counseling session. I don't recall the specifics of the argument (I think she just didn't want to go), but she threw an effectively identical tantrum to the 1:15-1:45 segment here, except that she concluded it by smashing out the windshield with her feet. While I was driving down the highway. Not a "crack in the windshield," thing; a full-on spider web, looks-like-you-hit-a-deer-at-60-mph kind of thing.

The shock of seeing what she did calmed her down for about 2.5 seconds, and then she proceeded to blame me for making her do it.

I was polite enough not to mention the incident to the counselor, but needless to say, that was the last session we went to. We split up for good a couple of weeks later.
 
2013-07-22 03:12:22 PM  
This can't be real. I got the sense she was trying not to laugh when she was "crying". I refuse to believe this wasn't staged. I refuse to believe anyone her age acts like this.
 
2013-07-22 03:12:41 PM  
I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.
 
2013-07-22 03:15:23 PM  

ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.


Or just a guy used to dealing with her shiat.
 
2013-07-22 03:15:51 PM  

ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.


Dare I ask your sex?
 
2013-07-22 03:15:57 PM  

PacificaFitz: "your acting like an 11 year old that didn't get a toy from Walmart"

BS when my 5 year old acts like this I punish her.  If my ex wife had acted like this I would have pulled the truck over and left her on the side of the rode.


My wife and I were going to Yosemite for the weekend. In Oakdale we stop at Wendy's drive-through. She tells me to order her something, so I did, but I got the wrong thing. Nor did she want what I ordered. She yelled at me and yelled at me so I just said fark it, and drove back to Berkeley. However, what she probably wanted was a good hate farking in Yosemite and years later, I am pretty sure this was her idea of foreplay.
 
2013-07-22 03:16:29 PM  
After watching Dexter last night, I know how Deb would handle this person.

"You want to go to the lake?!?  HERE, go IN the lake!!"  *swerves car into water*
 
2013-07-22 03:18:48 PM  

devilEther: This can't be real. I got the sense she was trying not to laugh when she was "crying". I refuse to believe this wasn't staged. I refuse to believe anyone her age acts like this.


Watch C-SPAN2.
 
2013-07-22 03:19:17 PM  
I'm scared
 
2013-07-22 03:22:07 PM  

ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.


YouTube agrees: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GsBphJRdqFk

This video has been removed as a violation of YouTube's policy prohibiting content designed to harass, bully, or threaten.
 
2013-07-22 03:22:40 PM  

Uzzah: I can top that:

My (now ex-)wife and I were on our way to a marital counseling session. I don't recall the specifics of the argument (I think she just didn't want to go), but she threw an effectively identical tantrum to the 1:15-1:45 segment here, except that she concluded it by smashing out the windshield with her feet. While I was driving down the highway. Not a "crack in the windshield," thing; a full-on spider web, looks-like-you-hit-a-deer-at-60-mph kind of thing.

The shock of seeing what she did calmed her down for about 2.5 seconds, and then she proceeded to blame me for making her do it.

I was polite enough not to mention the incident to the counselor, but needless to say, that was the last session we went to. We split up for good a couple of weeks later.


Holy shiat. That right there is over-the-line, its-time-to-call-the-lawyers territory. Part of being an adult is the ability to control oneself in hyper-emotional situations. Always shocked at how many folk lack that abilty.
 
2013-07-22 03:23:53 PM  
Any of you who watched the video and think that the MAN is the problem / cause / whathaveyou...

you're farking stupid.  borderline retarded.

/I'm not saying he was right for filming it
 
2013-07-22 03:26:37 PM  
She a farking lunatic, but that is a major dick move of him to upload it to the internet. He married that nutjob and I'm sure she was nuts before they were married too. What a dick.
 
2013-07-22 03:28:44 PM  
Hey assmitter and assmod, how bout a NSFW language warning?
 
2013-07-22 03:29:11 PM  

The All-Powerful Atheismo: Any of you who watched the video and think that the MAN is the problem / cause / whathaveyou...

you're farking stupid.  borderline retarded.

/I'm not saying he was right for filming it


He isn't innocent in his behavior, but he will get a pass because she is crazy.
 
2013-07-22 03:30:52 PM  

Into the blue again: He isn't innocent in his behavior, but he will get a pass because she is crazy.


I'm not saying he's innocent.  She is clearly... for multiple reasons... "at fault" here, and is also farking insane.
 
2013-07-22 03:33:48 PM  
This is why you should probably get to know people really, really well before you marry them.
 
2013-07-22 03:34:05 PM  

The All-Powerful Atheismo: Into the blue again: He isn't innocent in his behavior, but he will get a pass because she is crazy.

I'm not saying he's innocent.  She is clearly... for multiple reasons... "at fault" here, and is also farking insane.


Agreed
 
2013-07-22 03:34:05 PM  

basemetal: I heard her say he has an interlock on her car.  This might explain some things.

/poor little princess snowflake
//the dude should drop her off at a daycare
///and start a new secret bank account


What's an interlock?  Like a breathalyzer type thing?
 
2013-07-22 03:42:23 PM  
Who puts off a trip to the lake to get their tires rotated?  Especially when he knows it is important to his wife.  This guy is a dumbass.

The follow up in two years will be a YouTube video posted by this guy's wife showing him desperately trying to proposition a hooker because he was totally cut off after the lake incident.
 
2013-07-22 03:42:40 PM  
She just needs a little Mountain Dew in a sippy cup to calm her down.
 
2013-07-22 03:49:06 PM  

ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.


Yep. There are several instances where it seems like he's gaslighting her.
 
2013-07-22 03:50:31 PM  
A match made in hell.
 
2013-07-22 03:53:18 PM  

The All-Powerful Atheismo: Any of you who watched the video and think that the MAN is the problem / cause / whathaveyou...

you're farking stupid.  borderline retarded.

/I'm not saying he was right for filming it


It's commonly referred to as "pushing someones buttons" and some people can become so masterful at doing it that all they have to do is mention something, even in a calm and collected tone, and they know it's going to send the other person into a rage. It's a sign of severe emotional abuse. I can't speak to the situation between the two in the video, but it shows all the signs of such a situation.
 
2013-07-22 03:54:08 PM  

mycathatesyou: She a farking lunatic, but that is a major dick move of him to upload it to the internet. He married that nutjob and

I'm sure she was nuts before they were married too. What a dick.


At the end of the video he calls her out for texting her friends to make him look like the bad guy. Sounds like she's done this before and he wanted to get his side of the story out there.
 
2013-07-22 03:54:24 PM  

Dancin_In_Anson: I bet she's a pretty good lay.


Ain't gonna take long for someone else to confirm that.
 
2013-07-22 03:55:11 PM  

Theaetetus: ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.

Yep. There are several instances where it seems like he's gaslighting her.


wow. I was focused on her, but you guys are right, he exhibits a different kind of sickness. what a disturbing scene.
 
2013-07-22 03:57:44 PM  

ReapTheChaos: It's commonly referred to as "pushing someones buttons" and some people can become so masterful at doing it that all they have to do is mention something, even in a calm and collected tone, and they know it's going to send the other person into a rage. It's a sign of severe emotional abuse. I can't speak to the situation between the two in the video, but it shows all the signs of such a situation.


No, it doesn't.  It shows signs of a severely immature personality.

That wasn't just a rage.  Or anger.  And there are other signs too.
 
2013-07-22 03:59:41 PM  

devilEther: he exhibits a different kind of sickness.


It's called the "not going to the lake" sickness.
 
2013-07-22 03:59:45 PM  

ApatheticMonkey: basemetal: I heard her say he has an interlock on her car.  This might explain some things.

/poor little princess snowflake
//the dude should drop her off at a daycare
///and start a new secret bank account

What's an interlock?  Like a breathalyzer type thing?


Yep, here, they put it in your car after a DUI so you can still drive to work and such. You have to blow in it to start the car and I think they make you blow in it after certain intervals of time.
 
2013-07-22 04:02:41 PM  

basemetal: ApatheticMonkey: basemetal: I heard her say he has an interlock on her car.  This might explain some things.

/poor little princess snowflake
//the dude should drop her off at a daycare
///and start a new secret bank account

What's an interlock?  Like a breathalyzer type thing?

Yep, here, they put it in your car after a DUI so you can still drive to work and such. You have to blow in it to start the car and I think they make you blow in it after certain intervals of time.


Why would an interlock keep her from taking the car for maintenance?

Also, how long does it take to rotate tires? Costco gets it done for me in about 45 minutes tops, (well trained pit crews can do it easily under 10 seconds).
 
2013-07-22 04:04:42 PM  

ThatGuyGreg: factoryconnection: I'm going to side with the one that didn't surreptitiously film and then upload it to the internet, the one that understands what a family budget is for.  This argument didn't start with a "hey can we go to the lake," and yet the editing still makes it clear that the guy is f'd up.

This one, and as I said in the redlit thread, this isn't going to play out in divorce proceedings nearly like the guy thinks it will.


Neither will a transcript of her text messages.
 
2013-07-22 04:05:48 PM  
due to the interlock comment I'm going to say alcohol was involved in this case. Also due to the guy putting it up on the internet and his terrible facial hair, I'm going to go out on limb and say they deserve each other
 
2013-07-22 04:07:03 PM  
He really DOES just need to take her out on the lake...

...and wrap some chains around her...

...wrap those around 40 or 50 cinderblocks...

...and push her ass in.
 
2013-07-22 04:07:30 PM  
I hope the last time he f*cked her it was reeeeeealy good since that will be the last he's getting some for a long time.
 
2013-07-22 04:07:32 PM  

Because People in power are Stupid: devilEther: he exhibits a different kind of sickness.

It's called the "not going to the lake" sickness.


I get the feeling refusing to take her to the lake was giving him a stiffy
 
2013-07-22 04:12:12 PM  

ApatheticMonkey: What's an interlock?  Like a breathalyzer type thing?


B-I-N-G-O

Somehow it prevents her from getting her oil changed, and she either has to have her husband do it, or one of her friends. In other words, I think this dumb broad is too drunk to drive, ALWAYS. Notice the red Solo cup in the video? She's obviously too drunk to argue...
 
2013-07-22 04:15:01 PM  

Because People in power are Stupid: I actually see her side of it. Why won't he take her to the lake?


asked-and-answered, your honor...
 
2013-07-22 04:15:15 PM  

Theaetetus: Yep. There are several instances where it seems like he's gaslighting her.


It may just be because he has to deal with this shiat all of the time, finally decided to tape it, and wanted to make sure it was one of her epic meltdowns, doesn't mean that she isn't like this just because he's massaging it.

A woman would get about 20 seconds to throw THAT kind of fit, and she'd be single again. Period. Not angry enough to scream, but that angry over something as trivial as a day at the lake, and kicking and screaming like that. I rate personality and rationality a lot higher than looks.
 
2013-07-22 04:15:48 PM  

Mikey1969: ApatheticMonkey: What's an interlock?  Like a breathalyzer type thing?

B-I-N-G-O

Somehow it prevents her from getting her oil changed, and she either has to have her husband do it, or one of her friends. In other words, I think this dumb broad is too drunk to drive, ALWAYS. Notice the red Solo cup in the video? She's obviously too drunk to argue...


Since he's the one filming himself driving with an open container, then his intelligence may also be in question.
 
2013-07-22 04:17:16 PM  

Mikey1969: I rate personality and rationality a lot higher than looks.


Well, you'd kinda have to, no?
 
2013-07-22 04:19:48 PM  

ReapTheChaos: The All-Powerful Atheismo: Any of you who watched the video and think that the MAN is the problem / cause / whathaveyou...

you're farking stupid.  borderline retarded.

/I'm not saying he was right for filming it

It's commonly referred to as "pushing someones buttons" and some people can become so masterful at doing it that all they have to do is mention something, even in a calm and collected tone, and they know it's going to send the other person into a rage. It's a sign of severe emotional abuse. I can't speak to the situation between the two in the video, but it shows all the signs of such a situation.


Or, you know, no matter what he said or did - she's just farking crazy. Believe me. I used to be married to that.
 
2013-07-22 04:22:51 PM  

Waldo Pepper: and the reason she hates taking her car to get her oil changed is she pretty much has to stay at the shop so she can blow into to start the car to drive into the shop and any other time they need it started. So poor little Princess is embarrassed by her actions.  If you need major work that takes a few hours/days you can call in and have it turned off for time needed once it is verified as in a legit shop. 
.
Dang too bad there wasn't a better view of her and her body, heck I live at a lake. LOL

Actually, if you listen to the next part, it sounds like she continually has to talk either one of her friends or the guy taping it(boyfriend? husband?) into taking her car down FOR her. As I said in another post, I think she may be constantly too farked up to get her own car to start.

 
2013-07-22 04:23:48 PM  

Waldo Pepper: Mikey1969: He really DOES just need to take her out on the lake...

Have some sexual fun first as she will be all happy and horny since she got her way and is at the lake.

and then

...and wrap some chains around her...

...wrap those around 40 or 50 cinderblocks...

...and push her ass in.

FTFY


You really DID fix it. Thanks!
 
2013-07-22 04:24:30 PM  

Theaetetus: Mikey1969: ApatheticMonkey: What's an interlock?  Like a breathalyzer type thing?

B-I-N-G-O

Somehow it prevents her from getting her oil changed, and she either has to have her husband do it, or one of her friends. In other words, I think this dumb broad is too drunk to drive, ALWAYS. Notice the red Solo cup in the video? She's obviously too drunk to argue...

Since he's the one filming himself driving with an open container, then his intelligence may also be in question.


Not necessarily, not all states have open container laws, as long as the driver isn't drinking.
 
2013-07-22 04:56:31 PM  

RoyBatty: Costco gets it done for me in about 45 minutes tops, (well trained pit crews can do it easily under 10 seconds).


I wouldn't take her to the friggin' lake even if my tires were just installed the day before. Can you imagine being stuck in the middle of a lake with that coont? It's not like he could get out and walk.
 
2013-07-22 05:18:01 PM  
Why would anyone put up with this for even the duration of this one video?  Leave.  Now.  You'll both be better off.  Sweet Jesus.
 
2013-07-22 05:20:48 PM  

quickdraw: Honestly Admin? You are greenlighting petty domestic dramas? Ugh. If I wanted to see shiat like that Id go out into the real world. home to my wife.

 
2013-07-22 05:23:54 PM  

YourOwnMedicine: If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.



yup
 
2013-07-22 05:40:46 PM  
Drive your own damn self to the lake.
Except you'd drink on the boat and then wouldn't be able to get your interlock-equipped car to start so you could get home.
 
2013-07-22 05:43:34 PM  
In Newfoundland, that woman would be called a "Sook"
 
2013-07-22 05:50:32 PM  

Because People in power are Stupid: devilEther: he exhibits a different kind of sickness.

It's called the "not going to the lake" sickness.


Is that like seasickness?
 
2013-07-22 05:54:04 PM  
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that this had nothing to do with the lake.  I think the lake was just a focal point for a much greater frustration in her life.
 
2013-07-22 05:55:17 PM  

SurfaceTension: No matter how hot she is, some guy, somewhere, is tired of her shiat.



Pretty easy to find too .. he appears to be sitting next to her in the truck
 
2013-07-22 05:58:00 PM  
PATRIARCHY, KILL THE PATRIARCHY. MEN ARE SCUM AND MANIPULATORS. FEMALE MASTER RACE. MEN SHOULD ONLY BE USED FOR BREEDING.

/nailed it.
 
2013-07-22 06:09:28 PM  
Looks like they're made for each other. Pity the kids (if any) though.
 
2013-07-22 06:24:23 PM  

CapeFearCadaver: They're both horrible people.


This. I honestly hope neither of them decided to breed.
 
2013-07-22 06:40:07 PM  

cabbyman: To women everywhere:  This is how you sound.


Men: marry grownups.
 
2013-07-22 06:42:33 PM  
Bet she does anal.
 
ZAZ [TotalFark]
2013-07-22 06:54:21 PM  
If this is the clip they played on the radio this morning, I sided with the crazy woman before changing the station.
 
2013-07-22 06:57:18 PM  
Fed up: Prior to posting the video (where he revealed his face at the very end), Jim filed for divorce and got a restraining order against his ex :
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2374151/Video-Wife-30-temper -t antrum-soon-ex-refuses-to-lake.html
 
2013-07-22 07:05:50 PM  

i_dig_chicks: Bet she does anal.


She does, but all the while she talks in that stupid accent.
 
2013-07-22 07:07:50 PM  
See, if he thought to record it, I can only assume she employs these tactics regularly.

While laughing at her probably wasn't the best response, she was screaming and kicking the damn roof of the truck for crying out loud - I'm not even sure how to react to that once, much less regularly.
 
2013-07-22 07:15:21 PM  
Accent + vehicle interlock makes it sound like NC, VA, or GA. I'm leaning GA with her accent, but It could be any of the above.
 
2013-07-22 07:37:14 PM  
Reminds me of my sister.
 
2013-07-22 07:38:06 PM  

YourOwnMedicine: If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.


Hahahaha you poor pussy whipped bastard.
 
2013-07-22 07:38:19 PM  

BlackMtnMan: YourOwnMedicine: If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.


yup


Sometimes it's warranted.  We were sitting on the porch last year and saw a baby bunny hopping out to eat something in the yard. One of the barn cats came out of nowhere and chased it with the clear intent of ending the bunny.  After a 5 second chase, a hawk swooped in and stole the bunny from the cat.  It happened very fast, but the cat was royally pissed off, the bunny was toast, and there wasn't anything but feathers and fur on the ground and a hawk that was probably a mile away in under a minute.  The cat planted himself in the yard where the bunny was with a "WTF just happened?" face and didn't move for ten minutes.

My wife burst into tears after the hawk picked up the bunny, but I found the entire situation hilarious.  I was hugging her and trying to calm her down, but I was laughing the entire time.  I only regret I don't have security cameras because it was farking awesome to watch.  Nature at its finest.
 
2013-07-22 07:43:03 PM  

devilEther: Theaetetus: ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.

Yep. There are several instances where it seems like he's gaslighting her.

wow. I was focused on her, but you guys are right, he exhibits a different kind of sickness. what a disturbing scene.


Wow...I actually got nervous watching the video. While the woman seems to have some serious
issues, the guy was clearly pushing her buttons to get the most explosive reactions possible out
of her.

My first husband was a manipulator like that. Except he didn't do it to send me into rages. He did it to
"keep me in line". Kept me away from my friends, had me afraid that if I stepped wrong he'd vanish
with my infant son, even had me thinking I was going insane.

There should be a special place in hell for narcissistic manipulative people like that.
 
2013-07-22 07:48:06 PM  

ph0rk: Accent + vehicle interlock makes it sound like NC, VA, or GA. I'm leaning GA with her accent, but It could be any of the above.


Doesn't really sound like a VA accent.  It's a little too twangy.  True VA accents are a softer kind of accent, but it's almost incomprehensible if you meet an old timer.

You know a VA accent because "house" sounds like "huss".
 
2013-07-22 07:51:45 PM  

digitalrain: devilEther: Theaetetus: ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.

Yep. There are several instances where it seems like he's gaslighting her.

wow. I was focused on her, but you guys are right, he exhibits a different kind of sickness. what a disturbing scene.

Wow...I actually got nervous watching the video. While the woman seems to have some serious
issues, the guy was clearly pushing her buttons to get the most explosive reactions possible out
of her.

My first husband was a manipulator like that. Except he didn't do it to send me into rages. He did it to
"keep me in line". Kept me away from my friends, had me afraid that if I stepped wrong he'd vanish
with my infant son, even had me thinking I was going insane.

There should be a special place in hell for narcissistic manipulative people like that.


He's probably an asshole, but if she's throwing a tantrum like that and complaining about the interlock on her car, she's not exactly a winner.

She may also be a master manipulator, where she's perfectly normal around other people and complaining about what an asshole he is, so he was videotaping proof that she's got a case of the nuts.

What I do know is that if you are at a point in your relationship where you are videotaping a fight "so other people understand" - it's time for a break.
 
2013-07-22 07:54:17 PM  

i_dig_chicks: Bet she does anal.


she screams like she does.
 
2013-07-22 07:59:05 PM  

ph0rk: See, if he thought to record it, I can only assume she employs these tactics regularly.

While laughing at her probably wasn't the best response, she was screaming and kicking the damn roof of the truck for crying out loud - I'm not even sure how to react to that once, much less regularly.


I respect crazy more than I do mean, tbh.
 
2013-07-22 08:10:40 PM  
I feel he had had enough.  He posted the video to dispel the thought that he was solely the asshole.
 
2013-07-22 08:14:19 PM  
I wonder if she has a history of trying to change his plans on a whim to suit her instead. I can see that being a reason why he would not be willing to put off his errands for the day. I don't blame him for laughing throughout it. Her behavior is so absurd that how can you not laugh as it's happening in the seat next to you?

I wouldn't be surprised if he's douchey, but given her behavior I don't blame him for not giving in to her tantrum. She's a big 'ol bag full of crazy. Who apparently has a breathalyzer interlock on her car and is so irresponsible that she can't be arsed to know what the thing is even called. "'Cause of the interlock thing..." She's apparently so childish that her first action after getting the point that she isn't going to get her way is to whine to other people that he's not giving her what she wants. She didn't dispute that.

No amount of sex is worth putting up with her shiat.
 
2013-07-22 08:14:32 PM  

devilEther: This can't be real. I got the sense she was trying not to laugh when she was "crying". I refuse to believe this wasn't staged. I refuse to believe anyone her age acts like this.


They do. My ex-wife behaved this way well into her 30s, which has something to do with our no longer being married.
 
2013-07-22 08:43:10 PM  
Lake.
Cement overshoes.
Problem solved.
 
2013-07-22 09:02:54 PM  

mycathatesyou: She a farking lunatic, but that is a major dick move of him to upload it to the internet.


This is all that needs to be said.

He's definitely not stupid for getting that type of behavior recorded, but it should only be to protect his behind, not to broadcast out of spite, or whatever wicked pleasure he got out of that entirely farked up scenario.
 
2013-07-22 09:10:59 PM  
In much of America, "the lake" is some godforsaken reservoir filled with drunk hicks zooming about on jet skis and pissing into their water supply.  I've been to "the lake", or as she pronounces it, "the luh-ache".
 
2013-07-22 09:33:52 PM  

Waldo Pepper: craggytabs: mycathatesyou: She a farking lunatic, but that is a major dick move of him to upload it to the internet.

This is all that needs to be said.

He's definitely not stupid for getting that type of behavior recorded, but it should only be to protect his behind, not to broadcast out of spite, or whatever wicked pleasure he got out of that entirely farked up scenario.

This could hurt him in the end, most women it seems by nature record/write/save stupid things their husbands do, who knows what she has on him.

Did he suggest or pour her drink before they got in the car, i'm sure she texted her friends earlier in the week that he was taking to the lake.

of course she could just be an idiot and he walks away with everything


"A lie can spread halfway around the world before the truth has time to get its pants on."

This was either said by Churchill or Twain depending on which site you visit, but my experience is that this is doubly true when it comes to court and court filings.

The "defendant" seems to hold enormous advantages in credibility compared to the plaintiff just by the nature of filing first. (Being a woman with a pussy pass also helps greatly.)

So uploading it may foreclose one set of lies to be told in court or at least stave them off a bit.
 
2013-07-22 09:34:34 PM  

Waldo Pepper: Rapmaster2000: In much of America, "the lake" is some godforsaken reservoir filled with drunk hicks zooming about on jet skis and pissing into their water supply.  I've been to "the lake", or as she pronounces it, "the luh-ache".

Well if she is from NC or Georgia it is more than likely a bay lake which have nothing to do with the city water supply.

I guess you just be one of them there city boys who look down on all us country folk


I think you're unfamiliar with Georgia.  In Georgia, the lakes responsible for over half the populations drinking water are Lake Lanier (Atlanta) and Lake Allatoona (NW suburban Atlanta) - both reservoirs.  Both of these are commonly referred to as "the lake" based on one's proximity.  If one is referring to another man-made reservoir (of which there are more than 30) the lake is referred to by its full name.

http://www.georgiaencyclopedia.org/nge/Table.jsp?id=l-4

Natural lakes extremely rare South of the receding point of Wisconsin glaciation in the Eastern half of the US.

This easily could be Lanier, but I don't know anyone in Atlanta with that horrendous an accent.
 
2013-07-22 09:35:03 PM  
It's *his* truck with the interlock. That's why he needs to take it in for maintenance on the weekend.

While she may have a drinking problem, it doesn't make sense that her drinking problem is the reason for the interlock on his car.

These two people are terrible human beings.
 
2013-07-22 09:43:41 PM  
"JAMES, there's no reason to not be on the lake right now"

"How can we afford it?"

"How can we afford it? JAMES that's like petty money that I'm spending on that boat compared to what I make"

"Then why do you keep going off telling me we don't have money ...
 
2013-07-22 09:57:06 PM  
Protip:

Stop and get her cigarettes.
 
2013-07-22 09:57:31 PM  

AverageAmericanGuy: It's *his* truck with the interlock. That's why he needs to take it in for maintenance on the weekend.

While she may have a drinking problem, it doesn't make sense that her drinking problem is the reason for the interlock on his car.

These two people are terrible human beings.



How do you know its his car, that was never stated in that manner in the video.  The woman's behavior clearly shows a lack of critical thinking leading to easy assumption that it was her fault for the dui causing the interlock on the vehicle she uses.

Even if the car is in his name, its still the car SHE uses and therefore is responsible for its care.  If she refuses to take care of the oil due to the interlock then thats her choice which falls into the character profile this video exposes.

The vehicle they were driving was not the one with the interlock.
 
2013-07-22 10:01:30 PM  
Lsherm:

What I do know is that if you are at a point in your relationship where you are videotaping a fight "so other people understand" - it's time for a break  DIVORCE.

Fixed that for them.
 
2013-07-22 10:05:13 PM  

Waldo Pepper: Rapmaster2000: Waldo Pepper: Rapmaster2000: In much of America, "the lake" is some godforsaken reservoir filled with drunk hicks zooming about on jet skis and pissing into their water supply.  I've been to "the lake", or as she pronounces it, "the luh-ache".

Well if she is from NC or Georgia it is more than likely a bay lake which have nothing to do with the city water supply.

I guess you just be one of them there city boys who look down on all us country folk

I think you're unfamiliar with Georgia.  In Georgia, the lakes responsible for over half the populations drinking water are Lake Lanier (Atlanta) and Lake Allatoona (NW suburban Atlanta) - both reservoirs.  Both of these are commonly referred to as "the lake" based on one's proximity.  If one is referring to another man-made reservoir (of which there are more than 30) the lake is referred to by its full name.

http://www.georgiaencyclopedia.org/nge/Table.jsp?id=l-4

Natural lakes extremely rare South of the receding point of Wisconsin glaciation in the Eastern half of the US.

This easily could be Lanier, but I don't know anyone in Atlanta with that horrendous an accent.

You I'm sure are correct about Georgia. I thought the bay lakes extended to GA but seem to be heavy mainly in NC


I probably should specify that I'm referring to the Appalachians.  Once you get down to the fringes of Florida, lakes start appearing again.

Don't get me wrong, I've enjoyed several lakes in Georgia like Rabun, Blue Ridge, and Hartwell, but Lanier can just suck it.  I think it's a great place if you're looking to get killed by an alcoholic.
 
2013-07-22 10:07:34 PM  

dazed420: AverageAmericanGuy: It's *his* truck with the interlock. That's why he needs to take it in for maintenance on the weekend.

While she may have a drinking problem, it doesn't make sense that her drinking problem is the reason for the interlock on his car.

These two people are terrible human beings.


How do you know its his car, that was never stated in that manner in the video.  The woman's behavior clearly shows a lack of critical thinking leading to easy assumption that it was her fault for the dui causing the interlock on the vehicle she uses.

Even if the car is in his name, its still the car SHE uses and therefore is responsible for its care.  If she refuses to take care of the oil due to the interlock then thats her choice which falls into the character profile this video exposes.

The vehicle they were driving was not the one with the interlock.


you certainly lived up to your handle with that post
 
2013-07-22 10:17:33 PM  
if you secretly film someone like this then upload it to the internet you should be shot
 
2013-07-22 10:21:37 PM  
She's flurgetastic!
 
2013-07-22 10:23:17 PM  

falcon176: if you secretly film someone like this then upload it to the internet you should be shot


That may be a bit harsh, but it yet may happen.

This is the south according to the Fark dialect experts.
 
2013-07-22 10:47:48 PM  
12 states have two party consent laws for recording, so if they live in California, Connecticut, Florida, Illinois, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, Pennsylvania or Washington, he could be in some trouble.
 
2013-07-22 10:58:42 PM  

Popcorn Johnny: 12 states have two party consent laws for recording, so if they live in California, Connecticut, Florida, Illinois, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, Pennsylvania or Washington, he could be in some trouble.


This entire scope of monitoring needs to be re written cuz technology.

And what we're gonna end up is with people being in jail because they filmed a government sponsored assassination with ninjas and shiat, "accidentally".
 
2013-07-22 11:01:32 PM  
.
 
2013-07-22 11:09:11 PM  
Mister F?
 
2013-07-22 11:15:45 PM  
crap, i didn't realize this was still recording
 
2013-07-22 11:59:05 PM  

Waldo Pepper: craggytabs: crap, i didn't realize this was still recording

actually doesn't he at some point tell her he is recording


i was making a comment about fark itself, not the story

i apologize for the miscomminication

i was pissed off when i could post earlier
 
2013-07-23 12:03:14 AM  
and i might have missed 'nt after could up their
 
2013-07-23 01:31:12 AM  
She's a drunk-driving immature ranting out-of-control hysterical lunatic so naturally her ridiculous behaviour is all the manipulative button-pushing husband's fault.

Because he's the one with the penis.
 
2013-07-23 02:27:04 AM  
It is a good thing I don't have patience to deal with screaming adult women.

Loves me my single life!
 
2013-07-23 02:39:30 AM  

craggytabs: you certainly lived up to your handle with that post



I lived up to my handle by stating that a person has to be responsible for their actions?

Please enlighten me as to why its not her fault for having an interlock device on the vehicle she drives.

Please enlighten me as to why its his responsibility to handle her mistakes.


BTW when you want to jump to conclusions about why people might have a certain handle you might just be way off the mark.
 
2013-07-23 04:34:20 AM  
Oh ha ha ha  everything on Fark is so funny.  Ha ha ha ha ha
 
2013-07-23 05:22:31 AM  
That's two who aren't helping each other.
 
2013-07-23 06:56:32 AM  
I guarantee this is a woman who was never told no as a kid (yes, there are dumb parents that do such things).  I have a friend that has a 4 year old like this, I just saw her future.
 
2013-07-23 07:31:47 AM  
not funny. this woman either has mental health issues or she's been locked in the house for a week or two with a bunch of maniacal young children. i knew a young adult woman who behaved this way. she now has four children (from four different fathers) and they are bi-polar medicated train wrecks.
 
2013-07-23 07:35:33 AM  

Revek: I feel he had had enough.  He posted the video to dispel the thought that he was solely the asshole.


I'm not sure he made any friends - sure, she clearly has issues, but he's bear-baiting her throughout the damned thing, too. He finds it amusing to poke her until she screams.

Neither of those folks are people I'd like to have as friends or acquaintances.
 
2013-07-23 07:42:03 AM  
This is pretty brilliant. It set itself up for the perfect sequels when they decide to have kids to save their marriage.
 
2013-07-23 08:17:08 AM  

FormlessOne: I'm not sure he made any friends - sure, she clearly has issues, but he's bear-baiting her throughout the damned thing, too. He finds it amusing to poke her until she screams.


If you're walking on eggshells throughout the relationship, but at some point realize you're doing it wrong it can be very liberating. Especially if you've decided to let go of the relationship anyway.
 
2013-07-23 08:27:31 AM  
Watching this, you gotta figure that somewhere along the line this must have worked for her before for her to do this, but she has had to step it up some for it to work again and now it's full blown ridiculous.

But to put your dirty laundry on the internet? This is a very cruel thing to do. You just know five thousand people are at this moment attempting to find out exactly who this Whitney is and she will be infamous for this within a week.

Who knows nowadays, perhaps this was the plan.
 
2013-07-23 08:35:37 AM  
I love that she wanted to go over the budget, but needed cigs first.
 
2013-07-23 08:51:30 AM  

SurfaceTension: No matter how hot she is, some guy, somewhere, is tired of her shiat.


one of the best things ive ever heard. dad was right about that
 
2013-07-23 09:01:33 AM  
I swear I heard her yell something about mountains coming out of the sky and standing there...

/keyboard solo
 
2013-07-23 09:19:37 AM  
i.imgur.com

This just in: Some people really know how push their spouse's buttons.
 
2013-07-23 09:23:05 AM  

Land Ark: This is pretty brilliant. It set itself up for the perfect sequels when they decide to have kids to save their marriage.


THIS.

Why do people do this? My brother-in-law is in a HORRIBLE relationship (they almost broke up on their honeymoon!!) and instead of a) working on why the relationship is so bad or b) just mutually deciding that it wasn't worth the fight, they c) had not 1, not 2 but THREE children.

?!?!?!?!?

Sure, the kids are great but the relationship is still epically bad. They barely talk and she actually unfriending him and FB and had herself as "single".
 
2013-07-23 09:38:01 AM  
Fark content has really improved.  160 comments judging two married strangers arguing in a car.
 
2013-07-23 10:07:54 AM  
been on the receiving end of more than a few of these tantrums. i just give the cold shoulder. dont respond to any of her provocations. dont say anything. gtfo asap. never talk to her again.
 
2013-07-23 11:01:34 AM  

Waldo Pepper: More info as per Gawker.com website:

According to Jim, this is how his 30-year-old wife acts "when she does not get her way."
In this particular instance, she wanted to go to the lake (which was really "more of a crick"), but Jim had already earmarked his weekend for household chores and car maintenance.
Commence hissy fit.
In the YouTube video's description, Jim says this "is not the first time this has happened," but it was apparently the last.
After dealing with her drinking problems ("she is on probation for a DUI"), trying to patch things up through marriage counseling ("she showed up 10 minutes late and left"), and suffering in silence while she repeatedly tried "to convince all of her friends that I was always yelling and cussing," Jim decided to call it a day.
He filed this follow-up a short while ago, after being asked if he had promised his wife a trip to the lake:
Didn't promise anything at all. In fact, I had worked 60 hours that week and told her all week that saturday was my day to get stuff done around the house. But as usual she threw a fit about it. She has broken doors off the jambs at our house...That was the last day I lived in our house. I have moved out and filed a restraining order against her.
Jim says he knew it was truly over when his wife defriended him on Facebook.


Interesting, but I'll take Jim's word on it when hell freezes over. The video thing is so underhanded I trust him less after than I would before.
 
2013-07-23 11:06:49 AM  
Let he (or she) who is without sin cast the first stone. Every married couple has to deal with this shiat, at least occasionally. Those that deal with it effectively stay married. Those that don't, Fukushima (and youtube). Embarrassing.
 
2013-07-23 11:38:31 AM  

Smackledorfer: Interesting, but I'll take Jim's word on it when hell freezes over. The video thing is so underhanded I trust him less after than I would before.


Waldo Pepper: Unless Whitney has some serious mental issues, there has to be something before the recording of the video that set her off.


Both of you are wrong. I was in a marriage EXACTLY LIKE THIS. She's got problems but they're everyone else ganging up on her - she never does anything wrong. She's got a bit of bi-polar, NPD and she self medicates with alcohol. Jim could say, "You look lovely this morning, dear." and she'll respond with something like "But that biatch at the restaurant is hotter, isn't she?" or "So I looked like shiat yesterday? Fark you!".
 
2013-07-23 11:41:21 AM  
In a way it's sad, because now both of them are back on the market.
 
2013-07-23 12:42:00 PM  

CapeFearCadaver: They're both horrible people.


Why is the husband a bad person here?
 
2013-07-23 12:46:02 PM  

mycathatesyou: She a farking lunatic, but that is a major dick move of him to upload it to the internet. He married that nutjob and I'm sure she was nuts before they were married too. What a dick.


It sounds like she talks smack about him all the time and posts stuff on Facebook about what a lousy husband he is (which he could be).  I think this was his answer to everyone about what she posts.  She does say "this is why all the people at work say stuff about you".
 
2013-07-23 12:48:12 PM  

mycathatesyou: She a farking lunatic, but that is a major dick move of him to upload it to the internet.


Clearly she had been posting stuff online and poisoning people against him. (they mention it in the video). I take his posting of this video as self defense. "See!??! I told you she was acting crazy and I was staying calm."
 
2013-07-23 12:54:02 PM  

YourOwnMedicine: If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.


Depends.

If she uses crying as emotional blackmail you have 2 choices

1) Be her biatch forever since you never push back on crying as extortion.

2) Demonstrate to her that it won't work.

The world may not be quite as simple as you currently imagine it to be.
 
2013-07-23 01:10:08 PM  

kobrakai: Smackledorfer: Interesting, but I'll take Jim's word on it when hell freezes over. The video thing is so underhanded I trust him less after than I would before.

Waldo Pepper: Unless Whitney has some serious mental issues, there has to be something before the recording of the video that set her off.

Both of you are wrong. I was in a marriage EXACTLY LIKE THIS. She's got problems but they're everyone else ganging up on her - she never does anything wrong. She's got a bit of bi-polar, NPD and she self medicates with alcohol. Jim could say, "You look lovely this morning, dear." and she'll respond with something like "But that biatch at the restaurant is hotter, isn't she?" or "So I looked like shiat yesterday? Fark you!".


What am I wrong about? At no point have I actually defended the wife or anything she has done.

The fact that crazy biatches be crazy, much less the fact that one single crazy biatch you know was crazy, has nothing to do with anything I've stated in this thread.
 
2013-07-23 01:17:32 PM  
Hi Folks,

Man card distribution manager here. Lets discuss the mutlitude of things wrong in this video. I know biatches be crazy, BUT heres where this "Man" isnt living up to the expectations placed on him by the Man Card Association of America:

mistake 1) This is a big one: he's got a boat and hes not on it. Do you know men would give their left nut for a wife who just wants to go on the lake? Heres how a conversation like this would go in my house"

wife: "Can we go on the lake today?"
me: "farking A right we can. put your favorite bikini on and lets GO!"

The fact that this numbnut states "I have stuff to get done around the house" adds insult to injury. Going on the boat should take priority over any and all other obligations unless the weather is cloudy. THAT is when you take care of everything else.

mistake 2) this "man" is TAKING his TRUCK to get the tires rotated. Playa, you dont TAKE your truck to be worked on, YOU DO IT YOURSELF. by the time you drive to the tire place, wait to get it done and drive back, you could have done it yourself 4x over for FREE and have more gas money for the boat.

mistake 3)In the video, this guys wife clearly states that her oil is overdue. CHANGE YOUR WIFES OIL PUSSY.

mistake 4)Truck looks like a Nissan Titan which makes it not really a truck at all so calling it your truck is an insult to trucks everywhere and insulting trucks is against man code. This is the kind of truck for guys who cant rotate their own tires in 15 minutes.

Judgement?
3.bp.blogspot.com
 
2013-07-23 01:18:45 PM  

YourOwnMedicine: If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.


When its shiat like this bet your ass I will be.
 
2013-07-23 01:22:54 PM  

ReapTheChaos: The All-Powerful Atheismo: Any of you who watched the video and think that the MAN is the problem / cause / whathaveyou...

you're farking stupid.  borderline retarded.

/I'm not saying he was right for filming it

It's commonly referred to as "pushing someones buttons" and some people can become so masterful at doing it that all they have to do is mention something, even in a calm and collected tone, and they know it's going to send the other person into a rage. It's a sign of severe emotional abuse. I can't speak to the situation between the two in the video, but it shows all the signs of such a situation.


My brother emotionally abused me then. He could say "I'm not touching you" and it would send me into full on "mom Dan is annoying me again" rage.
 
2013-07-23 01:29:45 PM  

Tony_Pepperoni: In Newfoundland, that woman would be called a "Sook"


Could you define that for me?
 
2013-07-23 01:31:05 PM  

YourOwnMedicine: If your wife is crying you shouldn't be laughing.


You should be giving her something to cry about.
 
2013-07-23 02:20:43 PM  

Max Awesome: She's a drunk-driving immature ranting out-of-control hysterical lunatic so naturally her ridiculous behaviour is all the manipulative button-pushing husband's fault.

Because he's the one with the penis.


Yup.  You might find his filming the encounter to be in poor taste, but you can't deny that she's stark raving mad.  There are things that adults do NOT do.  Behaving like a 4 year old with an out of control "id" is one of them.
 
2013-07-23 02:57:27 PM  

BEER_ME_in_CT: Hi Folks,

Man card distribution manager here. Lets discuss the mutlitude of things wrong in this video. I know biatches be crazy, BUT heres where this "Man" isnt living up to the expectations placed on him by the Man Card Association of America:

mistake 1) This is a big one: he's got a boat and hes not on it. Do you know men would give their left nut for a wife who just wants to go on the lake? Heres how a conversation like this would go in my house"

wife: "Can we go on the lake today?"
me: "farking A right we can. put your favorite bikini on and lets GO!"

The fact that this numbnut states "I have stuff to get done around the house" adds insult to injury. Going on the boat should take priority over any and all other obligations unless the weather is cloudy. THAT is when you take care of everything else.

mistake 2) this "man" is TAKING his TRUCK to get the tires rotated. Playa, you dont TAKE your truck to be worked on, YOU DO IT YOURSELF. by the time you drive to the tire place, wait to get it done and drive back, you could have done it yourself 4x over for FREE and have more gas money for the boat.

mistake 3)In the video, this guys wife clearly states that her oil is overdue. CHANGE YOUR WIFES OIL PUSSY.

mistake 4)Truck looks like a Nissan Titan which makes it not really a truck at all so calling it your truck is an insult to trucks everywhere and insulting trucks is against man code. This is the kind of truck for guys who cant rotate their own tires in 15 minutes.

Judgement?
[3.bp.blogspot.com image 320x186]


Amen brotha. Although I admit I use the local quick lube.
 
2013-07-23 03:21:56 PM  

Smackledorfer: BEER_ME_in_CT: Hi Folks,


Amen brotha. Although I admit I use the local quick lube.


Changing it yourself is fine, if your time is less valuable than your money.

1. Trip to the auto store.  Always takes longer than I think because they don't actually have a cashier, and all the guys at the counter are finding parts or bullshiatting about their cars.
2. Get oil, filter.  Hey, oil is getting more expensive.  Or Am I just getting older?
3. Find suitable spot to change oil.  Don't want it on my concrete, in case I get a spill.  Hmm. Do I have oil dry handy?  Maybe I'll do it over that patch of lawn that I hate mowing anyway.
4. Crawl under car, loosen oil pan drain.  Oh, look.  All over my hand.
5. Oil drained.  Replace filter.  Replace bolt (forgot that once.  once.)  Put in oil.
6. Hmm.  Got this lovely gallon of used oil.  Pour into the gallon container that the new oil came in.  Look more on my hands.  And on the grass.
7. Take used oil to recycle.  In my car.  Where it might leak.  Hope for the best.
8. Hey guys, Can I dump my used oil here?  Yeah, I'm the jerk who brings my used oil to you after not giving you my business.  Oh, look at your prices.  I could have had you do it for like $10 more than me doing it myself.

Read an article once that the best way to develop a positive reputation with a mechanic (especially small business mechanic) is to have him do your oil changes regularly.  It's easy money for him, and he's likely to spot or remind you of any problems before they get really costly.
 
2013-07-23 03:23:10 PM  

Smackledorfer: BEER_ME_in_CT: Hi Folks,

Man card distribution manager here. Lets discuss the mutlitude of things wrong in this video. I know biatches be crazy, BUT heres where this "Man" isnt living up to the expectations placed on him by the Man Card Association of America:

mistake 1) This is a big one: he's got a boat and hes not on it. Do you know men would give their left nut for a wife who just wants to go on the lake? Heres how a conversation like this would go in my house"

wife: "Can we go on the lake today?"
me: "farking A right we can. put your favorite bikini on and lets GO!"

The fact that this numbnut states "I have stuff to get done around the house" adds insult to injury. Going on the boat should take priority over any and all other obligations unless the weather is cloudy. THAT is when you take care of everything else.

mistake 2) this "man" is TAKING his TRUCK to get the tires rotated. Playa, you dont TAKE your truck to be worked on, YOU DO IT YOURSELF. by the time you drive to the tire place, wait to get it done and drive back, you could have done it yourself 4x over for FREE and have more gas money for the boat.

mistake 3)In the video, this guys wife clearly states that her oil is overdue. CHANGE YOUR WIFES OIL PUSSY.

mistake 4)Truck looks like a Nissan Titan which makes it not really a truck at all so calling it your truck is an insult to trucks everywhere and insulting trucks is against man code. This is the kind of truck for guys who cant rotate their own tires in 15 minutes.

Judgement?
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Amen brotha. Although I admit I use the local quick lube.


Why don't you guys go to the gym and pump each other?
 
2013-07-23 04:13:01 PM  

joeshill: Smackledorfer: BEER_ME_in_CT: Hi Folks,


Amen brotha. Although I admit I use the local quick lube.

Changing it yourself is fine, if your time is less valuable than your money.

1. Trip to the auto store.  Always takes longer than I think because they don't actually have a cashier, and all the guys at the counter are finding parts or bullshiatting about their cars.
2. Get oil, filter.  Hey, oil is getting more expensive.  Or Am I just getting older?
3. Find suitable spot to change oil.  Don't want it on my concrete, in case I get a spill.  Hmm. Do I have oil dry handy?  Maybe I'll do it over that patch of lawn that I hate mowing anyway.
4. Crawl under car, loosen oil pan drain.  Oh, look.  All over my hand.
5. Oil drained.  Replace filter.  Replace bolt (forgot that once.  once.)  Put in oil.
6. Hmm.  Got this lovely gallon of used oil.  Pour into the gallon container that the new oil came in.  Look more on my hands.  And on the grass.
7. Take used oil to recycle.  In my car.  Where it might leak.  Hope for the best.
8. Hey guys, Can I dump my used oil here?  Yeah, I'm the jerk who brings my used oil to you after not giving you my business.  Oh, look at your prices.  I could have had you do it for like $10 more than me doing it myself.

Read an article once that the best way to develop a positive reputation with a mechanic (especially small business mechanic) is to have him do your oil changes regularly.  It's easy money for him, and he's likely to spot or remind you of any problems before they get really costly.


Oh my GOD.

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Changing oil takes MAYBE 20 mins. You will get some on your hands. You know whats good for that? SOAP. or just rub some dirt on your hands and scour it off LIKE A MAN. Pour the oil back in original container and take it back to the auto parts place next time you buy oil. By the time you go to the quick lube and wait, you couldve done it yourself 2x over.

/see u at the gym in 26 minutes lol.
 
2013-07-23 04:21:13 PM  
Not worried about the man card.

I have worked in both coal mines and slaughter houses.  Have a patent in my name.   Installed my own 12-foot satellite dish.  I can run a lathe, a mill, a soldering iron, and can program in at least seven different languages.  Married a woman I love (26+ years now).  Raised a son who is happy and healthy and still comes to have lunch with mom and dad once a week or so.

My man card is just fine.
 
2013-07-23 04:21:49 PM  

BEER_ME_in_CT: Changing oil takes MAYBE 20 mins. You will get some on your hands. You know whats good for that? SOAP. or just rub some dirt on your hands and scour it off LIKE A MAN.


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2013-07-23 04:38:39 PM  

joeshill: Not worried about the man card.

I have worked in both coal mines and slaughter houses.  Have a patent in my name.   Installed my own 12-foot satellite dish.  I can run a lathe, a mill, a soldering iron, and can program in at least seven different languages.  Married a woman I love (26+ years now).  Raised a son who is happy and healthy and still comes to have lunch with mom and dad once a week or so.

My man card is just fine.


Well, you cant take a joke. But for 26 years of marriage...

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2013-07-23 04:43:01 PM  

BEER_ME_in_CT: joeshill: Not worried about the man card.

I have worked in both coal mines and slaughter houses.  Have a patent in my name.   Installed my own 12-foot satellite dish.  I can run a lathe, a mill, a soldering iron, and can program in at least seven different languages.  Married a woman I love (26+ years now).  Raised a son who is happy and healthy and still comes to have lunch with mom and dad once a week or so.

My man card is just fine.

Well, you cant take a joke. But for 26 years of marriage...

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A Joke?

A family - father, mother, son, daughter - walk into a talent agency.  The talent agent says "I don't usually handle family acts". The father says, "well, our's is a little different...

 
2013-07-23 05:38:16 PM  

BEER_ME_in_CT: Hi Folks,

Man card distribution manager here. Lets discuss the mutlitude of things wrong in this video. I know biatches be crazy, BUT heres where this "Man" isnt living up to the expectations placed on him by the Man Card Association of America:

mistake 1) This is a big one: he's got a boat and hes not on it. Do you know men would give their left nut for a wife who just wants to go on the lake? Heres how a conversation like this would go in my house"

wife: "Can we go on the lake today?"
me: "farking A right we can. put your favorite bikini on and lets GO!"

The fact that this numbnut states "I have stuff to get done around the house" adds insult to injury. Going on the boat should take priority over any and all other obligations unless the weather is cloudy. THAT is when you take care of everything else.

mistake 2) this "man" is TAKING his TRUCK to get the tires rotated. Playa, you dont TAKE your truck to be worked on, YOU DO IT YOURSELF. by the time you drive to the tire place, wait to get it done and drive back, you could have done it yourself 4x over for FREE and have more gas money for the boat.

mistake 3)In the video, this guys wife clearly states that her oil is overdue. CHANGE YOUR WIFES OIL PUSSY.

mistake 4)Truck looks like a Nissan Titan which makes it not really a truck at all so calling it your truck is an insult to trucks everywhere and insulting trucks is against man code. This is the kind of truck for guys who cant rotate their own tires in 15 minutes.

Judgement?
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Or:

1) The man hated hanging out with his wife, and a day on the boat with her is worse than a day in a dentist's chair getting a root canal.
2) He used any excuse in the book not to go on the boat with her, including some really lame excuses like "getting his tires rotated" and "changing the oil in her car." He probably used those excuses because she doesn't know anything about car maintenance, and they sound complicated and/or time-consuming to her.

It's good that they're getting divorced. This well has been poisoned.
 
2013-07-23 06:04:57 PM  

Waldo Pepper: Then why is she even in the truck with him. Something is off here.
If he was going to get his tires rotate would he not have said "honey i'm going to get my tires rotate, do you want to come along" and then what she hopes in the truck and is surprised they are not going to the lake.
I still don't get why upload to the video to youtube. If he wanted his and their friends to see how nuts she can get why not just upload to facebook.
Anyone find the facebook or twitter accounts of James and/or Whitney Allen?


She's probably in the truck because she demanded to go out with him. Maybe he said he was going to go to the store to do some shopping and she tagged along and he thought, "well, at least I can ditch her for a while at the mall."

And then on the way home she started in with the demands to go out on the boat.

As to why he uploaded it to YouTube...subconscious (or conscious) self-destruction of the marriage.

My ex did some pretty reprehensible things when she and I were splitting up. She regretted doing them later, but in the moment, she felt that she was justified.
 
2013-07-23 06:10:09 PM  

Lando Lincoln: Or:

1) The man hated hanging out with his wife, and a day on the boat with her is worse than a day in a dentist's chair getting a root canal.
2) He used any excuse in the book not to go on the boat with her, including some really lame excuses like "getting his tires rotated" and "changing the oil in her car." He probably used those excuses because she doesn't know anything about car maintenance, and they sound complicated and/or time-consuming to her.

It's good that they're getting divorced. This well has been poisoned.


Why would you marry someone that you don't enjoy hanging out with?  That's pretty much the definition of "marriage"
 
2013-07-23 11:05:58 PM  

ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.


Yup. He's a bastard. He sounds amused by her tantrum and he filmed it.
She has issues, but he is a psychopath.
 
2013-07-23 11:22:43 PM  

Gramma: ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.

Yup. He's a bastard. He sounds amused by her tantrum and he filmed it.
She has issues, but he is a psychopath.


...Riiiight.  She's an emotional 4 year old, but he's the bad guy.  Right.

//biatch be crazy
//he didn't realize until it was too late.
 
2013-07-24 12:23:07 AM  
Anybody who doesn't think that both parties in this conflict are sadly defective humans and thinks that it is illuminating probably is importing a lot of their own issues. I smell some women hating MRAs (men's rights advocates) and maybe some ultra feminists.

Arguing over who is "right" here (without a ton of prior information) is like arguing over who is right in a bar fight between 2 drunk idiots.
 
2013-07-24 12:53:21 AM  
I'd say that'd be a good time to practice slamming on the brakes while performing your best backhand.
Tell her it was a squirrel.
 
2013-07-24 01:25:30 AM  

Gramma: ReapTheChaos: I guess the guy in that video thinks because he's all calm and she's having a breakdown it proves she's the nut case, but what I see is a master manipulator who's honed his craft of emotional abuse to a science.

Yup. He's a bastard. He sounds amused by her tantrum and he filmed it.
She has issues, but he is a psychopath.


Or maybe he knew, right at this moment, that he was going to leave her, and so did not care anymore.
 
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