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(The Week)   Dear Starshine, My mother-in-law is dumb as a bag of hammers. Will my toddler catch The Stupid from her if I let the child hang around with her?   (theweek.com) divider line 88
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2013-05-10 12:00:08 PM  
Your child is more at risk of catching the stupid from her because you inseminated her daughter.
 
2013-05-10 12:01:53 PM  
Yes.
 
2013-05-10 12:11:15 PM  
Starshine?!?
 
2013-05-10 12:12:11 PM  
Your child is already a carrier
 
DAR [TotalFark]
2013-05-10 12:31:44 PM  
Your real question should be:  is being stupid a genetic or environmental condition.......?????.......k/dar
 
2013-05-10 12:49:50 PM  
Just to be clear here: the person asserting intellectual superiority in this dispute is the person seeking advice from a columnist named "Starshine."
 
2013-05-10 12:57:33 PM  

basemetal: Yes.


Or, use it as a learning experience. "Gramma said blahblahblahderp". "Well, Gramma is a moron and this is why".
 
2013-05-10 12:57:39 PM  
 
2013-05-10 12:58:04 PM  
But I kinda liked the answer they got.  I would have been more to the point, but the columnist was nice, yet got the point across.
 
2013-05-10 12:58:28 PM  
Dyeing your hair is really stupid, but this person is also requesting advice from a person named Starshine. I don't know where to start.
 
2013-05-10 01:02:14 PM  

Sybarite: Starshine?!?


RIP Starscream
encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com
 
2013-05-10 01:02:57 PM  
B-b-but she undermines all her advice by saying she dies her hair.

It would be like my doctor giving me a whole bunch of prescriptions and then telling me he's not really a doctor.

/on the interweb, no one knows you dye your hair.
 
2013-05-10 01:03:53 PM  

Trashy: Sybarite: Starshine?!?

RIP Starscream
[encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com image 192x263]


Is that star scream or stars cream?
 
2013-05-10 01:03:58 PM  

moothemagiccow: Dyeing your hair is really stupid, but this person is also requesting advice from a person named Starshine. I don't know where to start.


... With your early morning singing song?
 
2013-05-10 01:04:22 PM  

ladyfortuna: basemetal: Yes.

Or, use it as a learning experience. "Gramma said blahblahblahderp". "Well, Gramma is a moron and this is why".


I have the same conversations with my son, only about his mother, my ex-wife.
 
2013-05-10 01:05:29 PM  
Poor child is doomed and live happily ever after.
 
2013-05-10 01:06:42 PM  
Starshine's response was actually intelligent and to the point; that is, "you're dumb as a bag of hammers for asking such a moronic question, let your daughter hang out with your mother, dumbass."
 
2013-05-10 01:09:23 PM  
You make baby with MIL and compare.

/science is great!
 
2013-05-10 01:09:28 PM  
Only if she's christian, republican, or teabagger. if it's a tri-fecta, you're farked...
 
2013-05-10 01:12:08 PM  
media.theweek.com

Good morning, Starshine.
Your lips say hello

Glididdy gloop gloopy
Nibby nobby nooby
La la la lo lo
Sabba sibby sabba
Nooby abba dabba
Le le lo lo
dooby ooby walla
dooby abba dabba
Early morning singing song


And then there's a lot of other dirty thingss in that butchered song. I can't believe I waited30 years to use it on someone actually named Starshine..
 
2013-05-10 01:12:10 PM  
well, the person is a bit rude about it, but I'd have to agree with the concept that if you hang around stupid people, it can influence the person's ability to use their brain.

My kids, when they hang around some stupid people (which can include relatives), they go all derpy for a while.

Heck, sometimes, just reading comments on Fark kills some of my brain cells.

And some people I've know that hung around with the wrong crowd went from good and smart to wasted and stupid.
 
2013-05-10 01:13:25 PM  
What kind of parent is he? Children who don't learn how to interact with morons are going to have real trouble later in life.
 
2013-05-10 01:14:05 PM  
Starshine got trolled.
 
2013-05-10 01:15:17 PM  
Looks like she caught Starshine on a good day.

upload.wikimedia.org
 
2013-05-10 01:16:52 PM  
If stupidity was contagious, humanity would have died off long ago.
 
2013-05-10 01:17:26 PM  
Q: "Is there any possibility, with prolonged exposer, that my mother-in-law could dumb down my daughter? "

A: Glibby gloop gloopy Nibby Nabby Noopy La La La Lo Lo
Sabba sibby sabba nooby abba nabba Le Le Lo Lo
Tooby ooby walla Nooby abba nabba

/den you put de lime in da coconut and drink dem both together
//put de lime in da coconut and den you feel better
 
2013-05-10 01:18:15 PM  
Yes.  Being dumb is a learned behavior.  It's when you've decided that there's no value in not being dumb and that decision is influenced by your role models.
 
2013-05-10 01:21:23 PM  

Rapmaster2000: Yes.  Being dumb is a learned behavior.  It's when you've decided that there's no value in not being dumb and that decision is influenced by your role models.


That explains the Tea Party, and most of the GOP.
 
2013-05-10 01:28:54 PM  

special20: Rapmaster2000: Yes.  Being dumb is a learned behavior.  It's when you've decided that there's no value in not being dumb and that decision is influenced by your role models.

That explains the Tea Party, and most of the GOP.


And before you know it, you start making wild, polarizing generalizations!
 
2013-05-10 01:29:02 PM  
Is it really possible to dye one's hair blonde? I was under the impression that you could only bleach it to a certain degree to attain a particular shade of blonde. Of course, I could be wrong.
 
2013-05-10 01:31:28 PM  
Dear Concerned,

How old is your toddler? By the age of four, most toddlers are smart enough to realize that they are dealing with an adult who is an idiot. If the toddler is two or three, there is a slight chance of "catching the Stupid", but it is unlikely to damage the child permanently, provided there are a few better role models around. Living with idiots is a very important life skill which humans and some social animals acquire naturally.

And the role model doesn't have to be anything spectacular. Many toddlers have been rescued from the Stupid by a dog or cat, who act as a corrective to the idiocy of the Mother or Father figures.

About half of human intelligence is innate and half is environmentally determined. A child in an enriched environment can be extraordinarily precocious, precious, and annoying, but even in a deprived environment, where all the adults and children are idiots born and bred, an intelligent child can survive thanks to imaginary friends, demonic possession, or exposure to positive influences from television or books left on park benches by those annoying people who leave books in public places for other people to find and read. And, of course, the family dog may well be able to act as Nanny to the child.

Children were designed by Nature to thrive even if raised by parents with barely the intellectual capacity of apes. Parents have not evolved as quickly as children any way, because they are not affected by neoteny (except for Geek and Nerd Parents), so all children are, as a rule, more open and thoughtful than their care-givers. This explains how the population makes it through grade school teachers and kindergarten twits without serious degeneration of their mental capacity.

In worse cases scenarios, a gay uncle or aunt will take the child under their fairy wings and teach them the concepts of irony, kitsch, camp, and self-depreciating humour. In other words, will teach them that all of the adults that they know are morons. That's why God made gays--to correct the errors of heredity and evolution. Homosexuals are one of the rare creatures of God to pass their genes on two-steps forward and one step to the left or right, like the Knight's move in chess. Gayness is inherited from your uncles and aunts in much the same way that the Queen Bee's children are actually her sisters or something. Who knows from Queen Bees? Look it up in Wikipedia.
 
2013-05-10 01:31:54 PM  

acad1228: Is it really possible to dye one's hair blonde? I was under the impression that you could only bleach it to a certain degree to attain a particular shade of blonde. Of course, I could be wrong.


Often times you bleach it to a a very light color, then dye that to the shade of blond you want.
 
2013-05-10 01:35:11 PM  

Mangoose: Your child is more at risk of catching the stupid from her because you inseminated her daughter.


That's the first thing I thought of!

From the TFA : "My daughter was fortunate enough to have her parents' intelligence passed on to her"

...So... The kid was adopted then?

/Derp
 
2013-05-10 01:39:39 PM  
The child won't catch the stupid if you vaccinate them early.
 
2013-05-10 01:39:46 PM  

Sybarite: Starshine?!?


My exact response.
 
2013-05-10 01:40:27 PM  
So is dyeing your hair dumber than getting a tattoo or is the tattoo dumber? I would think that tattoo is worse since it's permanent but honestly It's hard to gauge the thoughts of fark on these matters.  I mean I once got told off for making fun of prince alberts.

So basically;
tattoo                 bad
dyed hair           bad
dick jewelry        good

/takes notes
 
2013-05-10 01:42:04 PM  

Rapmaster2000: Yes.  Being dumb is a learned behavior.  It's when you've decided that there's no value in not being dumb and that decision is influenced by your role models.


Being dumb isn't learned. If you're smart, you're smart, even if you lack common sense and/or act dumb. Being ignorant however, can definitely be a learned behavior. Eschewing the acquisition of knowledge is a choice, and a lot of even smart people seem to be okay with it.
 
2013-05-10 01:44:29 PM  
My mother in law is a self-indulgent, narrow minded, occasionally delusional harpy who hates people for no good reason, but likes to vent her spleen at foreigners and the poor, typically without a reasoned argument. She always frames her world in how things affect her first,every one else last.  When we told her we were having kids, her Weeners was, 'Well *I* can't help you!". Not that we asked, but was a 'hooray' to much to be asked for?A lot of this comes from being a burnt-out ER nurse who saw WAY too much of the underside of humanity for 35 years. She divorced my father in law years ago, hates men in general, and likes to pass judgement on everything everybody else does. My brother in law is in therapy, and it's taken my wife years to learn to argue without feeling like she's not allowed, or that it's all her fault. My m-i-l isn't actually stupid, but there's a level of intellectual laziness she demonstrates, a deliberate effort to ever think past the end of her own nose, that both frustrating and scary.

Now we've got twins on the way, and I swear to god,if she uses any of her vicious, insulting, you'll-never-succeed-unless-you-do-as-I-say rhetoric, she'll never see them again.

The guy who wrote the letter may be a jerk who can't articulate the problem well, but he may have a real concern.
 
2013-05-10 01:44:56 PM  
Wow, didn't know so many Farkers were missing from my ignore list.
 
2013-05-10 01:44:59 PM  
I hate to break it to you momsie - but at 15 months, you don't know dick about the actual intelligence of your child.

and you sound like a coont.
 
2013-05-10 01:47:15 PM  
The person who wrote the letter is probably more stupider than they think they are.
 
2013-05-10 01:47:40 PM  

acad1228: Is it really possible to dye one's hair blonde?


What is the difference between a blonde and a washing machine?
//If you dump a load in a washing machine it does not follow you around for a week.
 
2013-05-10 01:47:46 PM  
My mother is a fundie teabagger type.  My sister & I both have 10 year old sons.

My sister's kid is at grandma's house almost everyday.  Grandma has taught the boy that the world is 6,000 years old and that dinosaurs are the work of the devil.  She has also taught him that black/brown people are scary and bad.  The kid goes to a really good school and is otherwise a smart kid.  Unfortunately, he believes everything his grandma says is true.

We live in a different state and limit visits with her to once a year at most.  I don't want my mom's particular brand of crazy to influence my kid in any way.  Hell, most of my family are drug addicts, child molesters, and/or violent.  You don't get to be around my kid just because we're related.
 
2013-05-10 01:47:50 PM  

acad1228: Is it really possible to dye one's hair blonde? I was under the impression that you could only bleach it to a certain degree to attain a particular shade of blonde. Of course, I could be wrong.


You can bleach and then dye. Often with one treatment.

Blonde, however, is a state of mind, not a pigment.

Interestingly, blue eyes are the result of a lack of pigmentation rather than a pigment. There are only two pigments--carotene and melanin. Blue eyes result when the pigmentation is low and the light is scattered by lipids (fat) in the iris. Green and hazel eyes are variations on the same them.

(Some silly critic criticized Gustave Flaubert because Mme. Bovary's eyes are several different colours in the novel of the same name. But Flaubert was not being forgetful. He was being observant. Mme. Bovary had that kind of eye whose colour depends as much on ambiant lighting as the innate pigmentation, and possibly can even be shifted by her mood or the viewer's feelings. Flaubert was a genius and his critics are mostly morons. I learned that from Donald Barthelme, who is an exception to the rule. He understood Flaubert perfectly and has written some very interesting books of his own.)

Colour is a fascinating study, being the result of pigments, refraction, reflection, interferance, light, and even texture. Many of the colours in nature--especially blue--result not from pigments but from light effects. For example, the feathers of many brightly coloured birds, and the colours of many other creatures such as reptiles and fish, are the result of defraction of light by the texturing of the surface of the feather, scale, or whatnot.

Technically you can take something which is naturally black and make it a glorious rainbow of colours or even bright white by carving tiny ridges and troughs in the material. You can even make gold in a range of designer colours this way, although I don't know of a lot of jewelers who use micro-texture in their work.

You will have noticed that, with the exception of the special black socks purchased by priests, most black textiles are not really black but rather greenish, brownish, reddish, blueish breenish, etc. This is because there is more than one way to dye a cat.

The cloth is blackish rather than true black. I would love to have a waistcoat in 100 colours of black.

Years ago, there were pansies that grew on the lawn of the apartment building where I live. They were an extremely deep crimson colour, but looked almost black at times. I loved them dearly because there's very little more fun or beautiful in the world than gorgeous black pansies.

But I digress.
 
2013-05-10 01:48:37 PM  
you cant catch the dumb

but.............

I suspect if gramma was religious dumb, everyone would be sing from the same sheet.....keep that dumb biatch away from the kids before they catch the religious dumb
 
2013-05-10 01:49:09 PM  

StrikitRich: Wow, didn't know so many Farkers were missing from my ignore list.


Just out of curiosity what was it in this thread that offended you so much? This isn't exactly a serious thread.
 
2013-05-10 01:53:36 PM  

Crewmannumber6: basemetal: Yes.

The Earth says hello
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAOTxAGJUug


lonelymachines.org
 
2013-05-10 01:55:44 PM  

brantgoose: acad1228: Is it really possible to dye one's hair blonde? I was under the impression that you could only bleach it to a certain degree to attain a particular shade of blonde. Of course, I could be wrong.

You can bleach and then dye. Often with one treatment.

Blonde, however, is a state of mind, not a pigment.

Interestingly, blue eyes are the result of a lack of pigmentation rather than a pigment. There are only two pigments--carotene and melanin. Blue eyes result when the pigmentation is low and the light is scattered by lipids (fat) in the iris. Green and hazel eyes are variations on the same them.

(Some silly critic criticized Gustave Flaubert because Mme. Bovary's eyes are several different colours in the novel of the same name. But Flaubert was not being forgetful. He was being observant. Mme. Bovary had that kind of eye whose colour depends as much on ambiant lighting as the innate pigmentation, and possibly can even be shifted by her mood or the viewer's feelings. Flaubert was a genius and his critics are mostly morons. I learned that from Donald Barthelme, who is an exception to the rule. He understood Flaubert perfectly and has written some very interesting books of his own.)

Colour is a fascinating study, being the result of pigments, refraction, reflection, interferance, light, and even texture. Many of the colours in nature--especially blue--result not from pigments but from light effects. For example, the feathers of many brightly coloured birds, and the colours of many other creatures such as reptiles and fish, are the result of defraction of light by the texturing of the surface of the feather, scale, or whatnot.

Technically you can take something which is naturally black and make it a glorious rainbow of colours or even bright white by carving tiny ridges and troughs in the material. You can even make gold in a range of designer colours this way, although I don't know of a lot of jewelers who use micro-texture in their work.

You will have notic ...


You!  Are!  Awesome!
 
2013-05-10 01:55:48 PM  

furterfan: you cant catch the dumb

but.............

I suspect if gramma was religious dumb, everyone would be sing from the same sheet.....keep that dumb biatch away from the kids before they catch the religious dumb


You must have missed this chart the first million times it was posted.

1.bp.blogspot.com
It's OK you must be new to the internet.

/hot
 
2013-05-10 01:56:22 PM  

Egoy3k: StrikitRich: Wow, didn't know so many Farkers were missing from my ignore list.

Just out of curiosity what was it in this thread that offended you so much? This isn't exactly a serious thread.


Just the bigoted hypocrisy I see in many comments.
 
2013-05-10 01:56:52 PM  

Sybarite: Starshine?!?


Good morning, Starshine! The Earth says "Hello!"
You twinkle above us, we twinkle below!


That song was on the radio about twenty times a day, every day, for about twenty years. Somebody was bound to name their child "Starshine" somewhere, eventually.

Fortunately, I have never met or heard of a Shebuyinastaircasetohebbin yet. Sounds Indian.

I have a cousin named Starr (more than one if you dig into the family tree a bit deeper).

But she grew up in Maine, so it is pronounced STAH with an "A" so long it runs over the "R".

She is married to a guy named Judge, but it is spelled George.

Maine Yankees!

They're basically Massachusetts people too weird to stay in Massachusetts.
 
2013-05-10 01:57:59 PM  
Starshine?
 
2013-05-10 01:59:32 PM  
"Prolonged exposer?" Dude I know got six months in County for that.
 
2013-05-10 02:01:34 PM  

ThatGuyFromTheInternet: Crewmannumber6: basemetal: Yes.

The Earth says hello
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAOTxAGJUug

[lonelymachines.org image 340x269]


Just saw this. Glad you posted it. However it just occurred to me that the Wookie isn't wearing any pants. The question "Where is Scully's hand?" suddenly becomes very important.

Then again, where is a Wookie's anus? It could be high, it could be low, where it is, I just don't know.

Also, how does a Wookie keep its fur clean? Most apes tend to be a bit hairless around the whole general vicinity (and the taint). But Wookies are really covered with fur. Does a Wookie shiat in the woods, and if so, how? Do they carry a small wad of toilet paper somewhere? Is their species one of the few that invented bidets before they invented chairs?
 
2013-05-10 02:13:55 PM  
It depends on the upbringing of the parents.

If the child doesn't catch the stupid, but knows how to wrap Grandmama and Granpaw around her finger for example.

Friend- his daughter decided to pick a flower, while grampy was mowing.  Grampy didn't check behind him and sliced off part of her ankle.

Now-  "Grandma, can I have a pony."  "No honey."  "You know, one day Grandpa ran over my... "   2 days later, there was a pony at Grandma's.
 
2013-05-10 02:18:44 PM  
While visiting the other day, my father-in-law complained that my nephew told him that "dad says grampy doesn't know what he's talking about." Made me glad we live far enough away from my wife's parents that I'll likely not have to teach my daughter that same lesson.

//unless colloidal silver and excessive vitamin C do heal everything
 
2013-05-10 02:19:21 PM  

MaudlinMutantMollusk: Your child is already a carrier


THIS!!!

Congrats!  Your child is a carrier of "teh stupid", and your bad decision making skills.
 
2013-05-10 02:21:45 PM  
encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com

RIP SUNSHINE
 
2013-05-10 02:23:53 PM  

eggrolls: Now we've got twins on the way, and I swear to god,if she uses any of her vicious, insulting, you'll-never-succeed-unless-you-do-as-I-say rhetoric, she'll never see them again.


You're.... alright in my book.
 
2013-05-10 02:25:10 PM  

Satan's Bunny Slippers: But I kinda liked the answer they got.  I would have been more to the point, but the columnist was nice, yet got the point across.


I loved it.  The answer read like vintage Dear Abby.  Just perfect.
 
2013-05-10 02:25:37 PM  

Harry Freakstorm: [media.theweek.com image 240x300]

And then there's a lot of other dirty thingss in that butchered song. I can't believe I waited30 years to use it on someone actually named Starshine..


Learned it for 8th grad choir. back in '69.
 
2013-05-10 02:35:24 PM  
and actually dyes her hair blonde.

The horror.
 
2013-05-10 02:36:43 PM  
People are going to make fun of this lady, 'Deeeerrrrrr!  I caught the stupid from a lady on the bus!'

But I honestly suspect there is a social element to intelligence, or at the absolute minimum, the appearance of intelligence.  Children are very impressionable and they do pick up habits of others.  In actual practice, the line between having natural intelligence and having knowledge is pretty blurry and if a child idolizes someone who does act like they are 'as dumb as a bag of hammers' will probably pick up habits that might not impact their natural intelligence, but could certainly impact their acquisition of knowledge.  And in a few years, it will have the same end result.

Growing up I moved from a nicer area to a crappier area and, in an attempt to fit in, my sister decided that doing good in school was 'uncool'.  She hung out with a dumb crowd and adopted a lot of their phrases and manorisms.  At first, that's just superficial.  But she also adopted their attitudes towards school and education; and after a few years of not applying herself....even if her intelligence was unaffected, she performed poorly academically and was completely turned off to learning.  It created a big knowledge deficit.  When it was time for junior high placement tests - she performed poorly, not because she 'caught the stupid' but she spent years trying NOT to learn anything.  And her poor placement scores meant that she was placed in a classroom with......students who performed poorly.  Some of whom might have been less intelligent, or lazy, or that had no desire to learn, or just didn't like school.  Whatever.  Those classes had more disruptions, less motivated teachers, covered less material, and kids tend to socialize with those around them.  Her social circle was filled with people in the 'slow' classes.  That became her normal.

Similarly, studies have shown that obesity has a large social component.  I suspect for many of the same reasons.  Your social circle has a huge impact on what defines your 'normal'.  And if all your friends are obese, it makes it a lot easier for you to be obese.  You're around obese people, you start to feel like it's normal.  You also hang out with these people and emulate their behaviors - if all your friends are going to go eat a lot - most teenagers are going to do what their friends do.  If they're all talking about eating salads or hitting the gym....most teenagers are going to go along with that too.

So yeah, at first glance, 'Catching teh fat!' sounds ridiculous; but it isn't.  I suspect 'Catching teh stupid' is the same.
 
2013-05-10 02:40:49 PM  

Charlie Chingas: Only if she's christian, republican, or teabagger. if it's a tri-fecta, you're farked...


They come separately? I thought those pathologies only came installed as a set.
 
2013-05-10 02:48:34 PM  
Can you catch stupid from your grandmother? I don't know. But here's my contribution.

All my life my dad has been sorta homophobic. When I was five, I wanted to be Dracula for Halloween, and my grandmother, his mother-in-law,  cut up an old evening gown to make me a Dracula cape and matching black velvet pants. When I wanted clown makeup, he objected, saying that makeup was for girls. His unspoken fear was that it would make me gay. He may have had a point.

Anyhow, my grandmother bought me the clown makeup. And gave me piano lessons. And taught me to sew. And pretty much taught me all the fun gay-boy stuff that my father hated. (I Everything, that is, aside from the coxzucking. I had to learn that on my own.) I'm pretty sure, knowing my grandmother and my father and how they disliked each other, that this was deliberate.

So while it's now considered backward and unenlightened to think you can train someone to be gay... I don't know if you can catch stupid from your grandmother, but I'll always have a doubt in the back of my mind about what early training and a dedicated old lady can do.
 
2013-05-10 02:50:34 PM  
25.media.tumblr.com
 
2013-05-10 02:51:17 PM  
This can't be a real question. Is this a real question?

Hey, I think she's starting to get the idea of this whole advice column thing.
 
2013-05-10 02:51:19 PM  
Funny to see Starshine Rochelle pop up somewhere else.  She also writes columns for Westways, the official magazine / life insurance sales pitch book for AAA Southern California.

Her last big article was about a road trip that her and her family took in a *gasp* RV.  As an ultra liberal city chick who's self admitted idea of a vacation was going to a resort and being pampered with cucumber facials, it was amusing reading her first time account of hitting the highways with her family in a rolling box.

As someone who owns and enjoys an RV it was entertaining to see it from that perspective.
 
2013-05-10 02:53:26 PM  

highwayrun: So while it's now considered backward and unenlightened to think you can train someone to be gay... I don't know if you can catch stupid from your grandmother, but I'll always have a doubt in the back of my mind about what early training and a dedicated old lady can do.


If your dad was so afraid of the gay that clown makeup was out, I don't think it was your grandmother you caught it from.
 
2013-05-10 02:53:35 PM  

CliChe Guevara: Charlie Chingas: Only if she's christian, republican, or teabagger. if it's a tri-fecta, you're farked...

They come separately? I thought those pathologies only came installed as a set.


You forget. There are Christian Democrats too
 
2013-05-10 02:54:45 PM  

CliChe Guevara: Charlie Chingas: Only if she's christian, republican, or teabagger. if it's a tri-fecta, you're farked...

They come separately? I thought those pathologies only came installed as a set.


But, but, according to Farkers...

/I'll just stop there...
 
2013-05-10 03:11:09 PM  

Carousel Beast: special20: Rapmaster2000: Yes.  Being dumb is a learned behavior.  It's when you've decided that there's no value in not being dumb and that decision is influenced by your role models.

That explains the Tea Party, and most of the GOP.

And before you know it, you start making wild, polarizing generalizations!


This is the way of the ITG.
 
2013-05-10 03:18:49 PM  

cwolf20: CliChe Guevara: Charlie Chingas: Only if she's christian, republican, or teabagger. if it's a tri-fecta, you're farked...

They come separately? I thought those pathologies only came installed as a set.

You forget. There are Christian Democrats too


They have hearts and actually care about people.
 
2013-05-10 03:23:18 PM  

Fano: moothemagiccow: Dyeing your hair is really stupid, but this person is also requesting advice from a person named Starshine. I don't know where to start.

... With your early morning singing song?


I lol'd
 
2013-05-10 03:25:15 PM  
dyes her hair blond to warn others she is stupid
and then this guy writes to her
who is more stupid?


/this is why i like brunetts.
 
2013-05-10 03:27:08 PM  
Whatever happened to teaching your child that respecting one's elders does not mean you have to respect everything they do?  It's fine for Grandma to be a dunce, because loving Grandma doesn't mean that you have to believe what she believe, say what she says, or act like she acts.  As long as Grandma isn't doing something that hurts the kid, that type of interaction is the perfect teachable setting.  What's the alternative - to teach the kid that they should avoid everyone who isn't exactly like them (or like Mommy)?  Whatever happened to, "It takes all kinds"?

Case in point: I grew up in the Deep South.  My paternal grandmother, who was the sweetest, kindest person on earth, was also one of the most uneducated.  She did not know any words to refer to black people except for the most offensive one, because that's what she was taught to say, and she was past the age where anyone could have changed her behavior.  My parents let me spend plenty of time with her, but also taught me that her language was utterly unacceptable for me to use.
 
2013-05-10 03:32:44 PM  
Stupid tends to socialize with stupid. Stupid tends to breed with stupid. So chances are the daughter is already stupid.
 
2013-05-10 03:44:14 PM  
If you have to ask if stupidity is contagious, for you, yes, yes it is

/don't catch the derp people
 
2013-05-10 03:59:44 PM  

Salem Witch: Fano: moothemagiccow: Dyeing your hair is really stupid, but this person is also requesting advice from a person named Starshine. I don't know where to start.

... With your early morning singing song?

I lol'd


Your mirth says hello?
 
2013-05-10 04:29:50 PM  
They should have been more specific about what kind of stupid the MIL was. Is she stupid because she dyes her hair? Stupid because she thinks stripey toothpaste is a miracle of science? Stupid because she's a lying, asswipey drama queen but happens to be popular with toddlers?

My own mother would love to spend time with her grandkids, but she's a lying, asswipey drama queen. She throws temper tantrums when things don't go her way, and is deliberately hyperbolic about it in public. We haven't spoken in years.

My MIL enjoys seeing the kids on birthdays and holidays, but she's very anal about her house and is uncomfortable with small kids running around. She is very vocal about things like fingerprints and messes. In her opinion, it's the height of rudeness for a guest to use the restroom and not take the time to wipe water spots off the bathroom fixtures. She's also made it very clear to all of her kids that she's NOT a babysitter.

If the mother is "stupid" like mine, I understand. If the mother is simply airheaded, suck it up and be grateful she enjoys time with your kid. Unless of course you have plenty of other people willing to watch your kid from time to time. Because it sucks balls when you don't.
 
2013-05-10 04:34:07 PM  

penthesilea: My mother is a fundie teabagger type.  My sister & I both have 10 year old sons.

My sister's kid is at grandma's house almost everyday.  Grandma has taught the boy that the world is 6,000 years old and that dinosaurs are the work of the devil.  She has also taught him that black/brown people are scary and bad.  The kid goes to a really good school and is otherwise a smart kid.  Unfortunately, he believes everything his grandma says is true.

We live in a different state and limit visits with her to once a year at most.  I don't want my mom's particular brand of crazy to influence my kid in any way.  Hell, most of my family are drug addicts, child molesters, and/or violent.  You don't get to be around my kid just because we're related.


Don't worry, get the kid a job at a young age where he has to interact with other non-WASP/teabagger people and he'll realize it's all bullshiat pretty quick.

/Raised in a neo-con household where we listened to Rush Limbaugh on a daily basis
//Trying to save my Mom from the derp, my Dad keeps on reinfecting her though
 
2013-05-10 04:54:33 PM  

teeny: They should have been more specific about what kind of stupid the MIL was. Is she stupid because she dyes her hair? Stupid because she thinks stripey toothpaste is a miracle of science? Stupid because she's a lying, asswipey drama queen but happens to be popular with toddlers?

My own mother would love to spend time with her grandkids, but she's a lying, asswipey drama queen. She throws temper tantrums when things don't go her way, and is deliberately hyperbolic about it in public. We haven't spoken in years.

My MIL enjoys seeing the kids on birthdays and holidays, but she's very anal about her house and is uncomfortable with small kids running around. She is very vocal about things like fingerprints and messes. In her opinion, it's the height of rudeness for a guest to use the restroom and not take the time to wipe water spots off the bathroom fixtures. She's also made it very clear to all of her kids that she's NOT a babysitter.

If the mother is "stupid" like mine, I understand. If the mother is simply airheaded, suck it up and be grateful she enjoys time with your kid. Unless of course you have plenty of other people willing to watch your kid from time to time. Because it sucks balls when you don't.


What are her thoughts on wire coat hangers?
 
2013-05-10 05:35:08 PM  
Well, considering that my mother-in-law once got in her car to chase after the end of a rainbow, I share similar concerns..
 
2013-05-10 05:58:01 PM  

basemetal: Yes.

 
2013-05-10 07:42:10 PM  

Fano: Salem Witch: Fano: moothemagiccow: Dyeing your hair is really stupid, but this person is also requesting advice from a person named Starshine. I don't know where to start.

... With your early morning singing song?

I lol'd

Your mirth says hello?


You chuckle above us
We chuckle at Fano
 
2013-05-10 10:34:46 PM  
Came for Order of the Stick references and/or captions.

Leaving disappointed.
 
2013-05-11 12:12:31 AM  

Salem Witch: Fano: Salem Witch: Fano: moothemagiccow: Dyeing your hair is really stupid, but this person is also requesting advice from a person named Starshine. I don't know where to start.

... With your early morning singing song?

I lol'd

Your mirth says hello?

You chuckle above us
We chuckle at Fano


Lol
 
2013-05-11 04:35:37 AM  

Boris S. Wort: B-b-but she undermines all her advice by saying she dies her hair.

It would be like my doctor giving me a whole bunch of prescriptions and then telling me he's not really a doctor.

/on the interweb, no one knows you dye your hair.


*snrk*

There is the photo to the right. Could anyone suspect those highlights stripes were natural?

CSB: Ma used to work at a religious school where make-up and hair-dye were strictly forbidden. Nonetheless, she decided to go from D.Trump Yellow to Fire-Engine Red in one weekend. A co-worker with Purrrple-ish Highlights sidled up to her and whispered conspiratorially, "Psst! Do you dye your hair too? Tee-hee!" Ma replied with a straight face, "Nope. I never have."
 
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