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  2013-04-09 10:01:00 PM
I want to say "Why didn't her parents take her off the net (no internet no cell phone)?", but reality set in. What a f*cking horrible thing.

I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.
 
  2013-04-09 10:05:42 PM
NewportBarGuy: I want to say "Why didn't her parents take her off the net (no internet no cell phone)?", but reality set in. What a f*cking horrible thing.

I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.


I'm rooting for the Anonymous.
 
  2013-04-09 10:09:07 PM
Back in the day, the initial RCMP investigation would have been 4 homicides of teenage boys and no one would have seen anything.
 
  2013-04-09 10:14:22 PM
Holy shiat...that's outrageously sad.

And yeah, here we are where Anonymous is now our real-life Batman equivalent.
 
  2013-04-09 10:27:09 PM
This shiat makes me all pissed off and stabby.

It's bad enough having to relive being raped when it shows up in one's nightmares...I can't imagine how it must have been for this girl to have actual photos of the crime shoved in her face and shared with the world.

It REALLY makes me sick knowing that other females also attacked her after the fact.

Bontesla: NewportBarGuy: I want to say "Why didn't her parents take her off the net (no internet no cell phone)?", but reality set in. What a f*cking horrible thing.

I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.

I'm rooting for the Anonymous.


Me, too.
 
  2013-04-09 10:32:44 PM
Barfmaker: Anonymous is now our real-life Batman equivalent.

They're more like Oracle.

Lorelle: It REALLY makes me sick knowing that other females also attacked her after the fact.

Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.
 
  2013-04-09 10:36:25 PM
"An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.
 
  2013-04-09 10:37:58 PM
Some people need killin'. Her rapists and bullies qualify. Farking farks.
 
  2013-04-09 10:38:37 PM
doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Some are. I was bullied a lot in junior high and high school, mostly by other girls. In jr. high it was female gang members, in h.s. it was stuck-up, biatchy female socs.

/eventually got revenge on the latter
//enjoyed it immensely
 
  2013-04-09 10:42:23 PM
miss diminutive: who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape?

Teenagers.

Lorelle: I was bullied a lot in junior high and high school, mostly by other girls.

I was bullied a lot in high school. Mostly by other boys. Some of them are cool people now. Again, it's teens more than anything.

Not to mention stories like this explain why in Japan you can't play Hangman or anything like that in class because so many kids have hung themselves it's taboo. You think bullying in a western school is bad, try the bullying you get when you have to spend all day every day in the same classroom with the same kids for three years.
 
  2013-04-09 10:43:59 PM
"An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

Well, other than the photos of the actual rape that everybody passed around. WTF?
 
  2013-04-09 10:48:48 PM
The police conducted an investigation and found no basis for charges. Sounds more like a case of a girl who got wild and crazy with a few boys and ended up regretting it once word got out.
 
  2013-04-09 10:49:33 PM
NutWrench: Well, other than the photos of the actual rape that everybody passed around. WTF?

You should really read more than one article on the story.
 
  2013-04-09 10:51:56 PM
There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

Link
 
  2013-04-09 10:57:04 PM
Popcorn Johnny: NutWrench: Well, other than the photos of the actual rape that everybody passed around. WTF?

You should really read more than one article on the story.


Which part is incorrect? The rape part or the "passing around pictures of the rape" part?
 
  2013-04-09 11:00:45 PM
Popcorn Johnny: There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

Link


From the other articles I've read, it was clear that she was drunk, the boy forced himself on her (just like the Stupidville case), and some asshole who should be outed and shamed for being one took pictures of the attack and posted them on the internet.
 
  2013-04-09 11:00:53 PM
The article states there was one picture of her throwing up and being sexually assaulted. When I was a kid, when a girl was throwing up from drinking too much, we used to hold her hair and get her some water. This generation all kinds of sucks to put it mildly.
 
  2013-04-09 11:02:28 PM
gonzoduke: When I was a kid, when a girl was throwing up from drinking too much, we used to hold her hair and get her some water.

You did.  Maybe the people you knew did.  Not everyone did.
 
  2013-04-09 11:06:01 PM
Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.
 
  2013-04-09 11:07:41 PM
 
  2013-04-09 11:09:25 PM
Anonymous...great. Well as long as the don't screw up and the point the finger at the wrong kid. Because that would suck having the wrath of the internet come down on you because somebody 1000 miles away screwed up.
 
  2013-04-09 11:11:12 PM
Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

You must be a real blast at parties.
 
  2013-04-09 11:14:32 PM
Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

so, if presented with the picture of a girl obviously inebriated or impaired, possibly displaying pain, being sexually violated, and testimony from that girl that it was not consensual, you'd immediately call bullshiat on her?

Dumbass
 
  2013-04-09 11:15:39 PM
Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.
 
  2013-04-09 11:17:58 PM
NewportBarGuy: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

You must be a real blast at parties.


I wouldn't want to be drunk near him.
 
  2013-04-09 11:18:37 PM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.


That might explain his post.
 
  2013-04-09 11:19:34 PM
vygramul: NewportBarGuy: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

You must be a real blast at parties.

I wouldn't want to be drunk near him.


Get in line.
 
  2013-04-09 11:22:24 PM
NewportBarGuy: vygramul: NewportBarGuy: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

You must be a real blast at parties.

I wouldn't want to be drunk near him.

Get in line.


That's what he usually says in those situations.
 
  2013-04-09 11:24:35 PM
gonzoduke: The article states there was one picture of her throwing up and being sexually assaulted. When I was a kid, when a girl was throwing up from drinking too much, we used to hold her hair and get her some water. This generation all kinds of sucks to put it mildly.

There's a woman's body in England they found randomly near Hadrian's wall. Bone structure native to England, cause of death gladius to the base of the skull.

Don't pull this "kids today" bullshiat. People have always been horrible.
 
  2013-04-09 11:28:34 PM
doglover: gonzoduke: The article states there was one picture of her throwing up and being sexually assaulted. When I was a kid, when a girl was throwing up from drinking too much, we used to hold her hair and get her some water. This generation all kinds of sucks to put it mildly.

There's a woman's body in England they found randomly near Hadrian's wall. Bone structure native to England, cause of death gladius to the base of the skull.

Don't pull this "kids today" bullshiat. People have always been horrible.


How do you know it isn't Boudicca?
 
  2013-04-09 11:33:49 PM
oh crap...this went green.
 
  2013-04-09 11:34:51 PM
Lorelle: oh crap...this went green.

Unleash the hounds.
 
  2013-04-09 11:36:59 PM
NewportBarGuy: Lorelle: oh crap...this went green.

Unleash the hounds.


Great...now I have Who Let The Dogs Out? going through my head...
 
  2013-04-09 11:40:08 PM
vygramul: How do you know it isn't Boudicca?

Because we know what happened to her body.

Besides, Boudicca and her daughters were raped to send a message that Rome rules Picts drools and that's what sparked her whole little rape and murder of an entire city.
 
  2013-04-09 11:44:30 PM
Nova Scotia? Really? When the fark did you go all Texas/Pennsyltucky?

/I would have expected the Praries
 
  2013-04-09 11:53:21 PM
OtherLittleGuy: Nova Scotia? Really? When the fark did you go all Texas/Pennsyltucky?

/I would have expected the Praries


Don't be an asshole.
 
  2013-04-09 11:57:58 PM
doglover: vygramul: How do you know it isn't Boudicca?

Because we know what happened to her body.

Besides, Boudicca and her daughters were raped to send a message that Rome rules Picts drools and that's what sparked her whole little rape and murder of an entire city.


One contemporary historian and a couple of cave paintings don't constitute proof.
 
  2013-04-10 12:00:19 AM
vygramul: doglover: vygramul: How do you know it isn't Boudicca?

Because we know what happened to her body.

Besides, Boudicca and her daughters were raped to send a message that Rome rules Picts drools and that's what sparked her whole little rape and murder of an entire city.

One contemporary historian and a couple of cave paintings don't constitute proof.


Those cave paintings can be shooped you know.
 
  2013-04-10 12:00:26 AM
Couldn't finish reading
To sad..........
 
  2013-04-10 12:01:46 AM
vygramul: doglover: vygramul: How do you know it isn't Boudicca?

Because we know what happened to her body.

Besides, Boudicca and her daughters were raped to send a message that Rome rules Picts drools and that's what sparked her whole little rape and murder of an entire city.

One contemporary historian and a couple of cave paintings don't constitute proof.


Actually a contemporary historian is one primary source more than most historical things have from that time period.
 
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  2013-04-10 12:02:42 AM
Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

Okay, so at least arrest the kids for distributing child pornography.  Investigate it more.  Talk to people.  Do policework instead of "oh it was just some dumb 15 year old slut".

That's what rape culture is about, when you blame the victim for being a victim instead of blaming the violators of raping.

F*ck you.
 
  2013-04-10 12:02:59 AM
img42.imageshack.us

Still can't look at that picture without tearing up.
 
  2013-04-10 12:04:21 AM
doglover: vygramul: doglover: vygramul: How do you know it isn't Boudicca?

Because we know what happened to her body.

Besides, Boudicca and her daughters were raped to send a message that Rome rules Picts drools and that's what sparked her whole little rape and murder of an entire city.

One contemporary historian and a couple of cave paintings don't constitute proof.

Actually a contemporary historian is one primary source more than most historical things have from that time period.


(psst! Do a search in this thread for "Popcorn Johnny")
 
  2013-04-10 12:05:27 AM
Nice job investigating RCMP.  They had photographic evidence...but somehow the RCMP couldn't prosecute these farks.  At least in America, we can attribute a lack of prosecution in Stuebenville to corruption until Anonymous came along.  I thought Canada was better than this.

Sorry, if a girl is so drunk she's throwing up, that is NOT consent.

I can't blame the girl.  The shame and horror be being raped then having to relive it?
 
  2013-04-10 12:09:45 AM
What's going to be truly sick are the comments in this thread come morning.
 
  2013-04-10 12:22:30 AM
Sucks...looks like she was a good girl.
 
  2013-04-10 12:24:12 AM
Pocket Ninja: What's going to be truly sick are the comments in this thread come morning.

Indeed. Sad commentary on our current situation.
 
  2013-04-10 12:25:01 AM
I thought, oh no, not that girl from Canada...

I'll just be over in the corner weeping
 
  2013-04-10 12:30:50 AM
miss diminutive: Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

well the rape victim was going to get their friends in trouble. you know, reporting the rape and all.
and yah, the best thing would be for anonymous to go medieval on them.
imagine the outrage when 4 rapists confession on video and then are executed.

nah

better yet, WHERE are the parents of the rapists and the bullies?
oh right, bullies are raised by bullies

/time to die
 
  2013-04-10 12:34:52 AM
namatad: miss diminutive: Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

well the rape victim was going to get their friends in trouble. you know, reporting the rape and all.
and yah, the best thing would be for anonymous to go medieval on them.
imagine the outrage when 4 rapists confession on video and then are executed.

nah

better yet, WHERE are the parents of the rapists and the bullies?
oh right, bullies are raised by bullies

/time to die


The incidence of parental rejection is high with bullies.
 
  2013-04-10 12:37:28 AM
gonzoduke: Wait, that was a different article on the same story.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/nova-scotia-teen-kills- he rself-after-being-raped-bullied-online/article10940600/


"just days after the alleged rape. "

Can we STOP CALLING IT ALLEGED?
It was not an alleged rape. it was a RAPE.
She reported that she was raped to the police.
Period.

The people who raped her would best be called unconvicted rapists.
By calling it alleged, we continue to blame the victim.

PTSD is an insane and insidious disease.  I wonder when we will ever start to fix these problems.
 
  2013-04-10 12:41:17 AM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.


He shows up in these types of threads and defends the rapists. Classic troll. Please do not feed him, especially after midnight.
 
  2013-04-10 12:43:27 AM
vygramul: The incidence of parental rejection is high with bullies.

Now is not the time for facts!

Clearly loud noises and instinctive reactions without evidence or forethought is the only course of action!
 
  2013-04-10 12:43:53 AM
vygramul: The incidence of parental rejection is high with bullies.

this shiat just never ends.
bad parents, leading to terrible children, who will be awful parents
abused kids, having kids and then abusing them

shudder

A few years ago, a number of us were talking down from stomping on a rapist or two.
Maybe it is time to stop getting talked down.
At what point do we need vigilantes again because society has completely failed to do anything about this problem.

video recorder + water-boarding + proper, non-leading questioning?
if you caught one of these kids and water-boarded them and just asked them to name the girls that they posted nude photos or took nude photos or got drunk and farked, would you be able to "know" that they were the ones?

hell, just putting their "confession" online would be a start
sigh

maybe if the cops would stop wasting so much time on arresting people for drugs and actually worked rape cases.
sigh

/I hate this world, can I get off?
 
  2013-04-10 12:45:06 AM
SundaesChild: Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.

He shows up in these types of threads and defends the rapists. Classic troll. Please do not feed him, especially after midnight.


thank you - yet another rapist for the ignore list ..so nice to clear fark of people like that
 
  2013-04-10 12:47:40 AM
[thisthreadi *punches self*
 
  2013-04-10 12:51:04 AM
namatad: maybe if the cops would stop wasting so much time on arresting people for drugs and actually worked rape cases.

Right? Ending the war on drugs would create a utopia because aside from drug charges we've only got a few thousand crimes left. You can have multiple detectives on each report because there'd be nothing else for them to do. Investigations would take a week, not a year.
 
  2013-04-10 12:54:54 AM
You know what?  I was having a pretty good morning until I saw this headline.

Stupid world.  I hate people.
 
  2013-04-10 12:57:54 AM
Was she "raped", or was it more like "raped" rape?
 
  2013-04-10 01:01:19 AM
Lorelle: doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Some are. I was bullied a lot in junior high and high school, mostly by other girls. In jr. high it was female gang members, in h.s. it was stuck-up, biatchy female socs.

/eventually got revenge on the latter
//enjoyed it immensely


I hope you and Dally and the rest got them good,

Stay gold Ponyboy Stay Gold

/Sorry it had to be done.
 
  2013-04-10 01:08:51 AM
This fills me with incredible rage as well as deep sadness for her and her mother.
 
  2013-04-10 01:08:56 AM
Why are the rapists not in jail?
 
  2013-04-10 01:11:52 AM
Bucky Katt: Why are therapists not in jail?

they're trying to help
 
  2013-04-10 01:12:34 AM
As an aside, her first name is "Heather" backwards.  It wasn't until I typed it out that I realized it wasn't "heat her".  Parents are weird.
 
  2013-04-10 01:15:31 AM
Bucky Katt: Why are the rapists not in jail?

Due process, most likely. I bet those photos weren't as slam dunk as we'd like to think. Terrible story.
 
  2013-04-10 01:29:34 AM
OtherLittleGuy: Nova Scotia? Really? When the fark did you go all Texas/Pennsyltucky?

/I would have expected the Praries


People in the Prairies are really nice, far nicer than Vancouver or Toronto.

/Unless they're driving
//Lookout.
 
  2013-04-10 01:44:58 AM
Great, another rape thread...
 
  2013-04-10 02:02:56 AM
Nezorf: Great, another ape thread...

got something against apes?
 
  2013-04-10 02:04:04 AM
sorry. backspace key has been on the fritz
 
  2013-04-10 02:17:32 AM
doglover: Bucky Katt: Why are the rapists not in jail?

Due process, most likely. I bet those photos weren't as slam dunk as we'd like to think. Terrible story.


A photo is an instant in time, so even if it showed her having sex with someone, it's possible there wasn't any way to deduce consent or not from it.  Since it sounds like the attackers were also underage, that further complicates matters.

Terrible story all around, and at the very least I hope it gets spread around so other girls get some help before it comes to this.  Being a teenager was bad enough in the early 80's, I can't imagine my worst moments being played out on social media.  It's awful to think about.
 
  2013-04-10 02:22:46 AM
Lorelle: It REALLY makes me sick knowing that other females also attacked her after the fact.

Sadly it's a defense mechanism in a way. "That could never happen to me because I'm not a slut."

Ergo...

This sort of thing is enabled by the perpetuation of the Just-world hypothesis.
 
  2013-04-10 02:27:10 AM
gonzoduke: The article states there was one picture of her throwing up and being sexually assaulted. When I was a kid, when a girl was throwing up from drinking too much, we used to hold her hair and get her some water. This generation all kinds of sucks to put it mildly.

I know. No girl ever got penetrated while throwing up before the 2000s. Don't believe me? Find some internet pictures of it happening! The don't exist!

Kids these days...

Dumbarse.
 
  2013-04-10 02:37:08 AM
impaler: The don't exist!

They, rather.
 
  2013-04-10 02:44:25 AM
judging by the thread I think I'm going to save myself some cringes and not read the article.
 
  2013-04-10 02:46:48 AM
Lsherm: doglover: Bucky Katt: Why are the rapists not in jail?

Due process, most likely. I bet those photos weren't as slam dunk as we'd like to think. Terrible story.

A photo is an instant in time, so even if it showed her having sex with someone, it's possible there wasn't any way to deduce consent or not from it.  Since it sounds like the attackers were also underage, that further complicates matters.

Terrible story all around, and at the very least I hope it gets spread around so other girls get some help before it comes to this.  Being a teenager was bad enough in the early 80's, I can't imagine my worst moments being played out on social media.  It's awful to think about.


A: Canda (do they even have laws?)

B: Ain't seen the photo ( Could just be racy, not nude or sexual)

C: Minors ( miners wish they had a quarter of the legal protection)

It's farked up, hope it leads to changed laws, but allegations =! facts

My theory is this girl had a history of mental issues, was thus tolerated not welcomed, got assaulted while drunk because nobody cared(2 photos of drunk not assault), and was shamed into leaving, mental issues lead to suicide in new town.

This is supported by totally healthy people don't usually an hero even when traumatized, friends don't let rapists keep teeth, and even Canadian cops are good enough to arrest you with photos of rape in your phone. All anecdotal, but that's been my experience in life this far.

Anyway they know who they are and soon the internet will as well. I just hope the RCMP gets evidence this time.
 
  2013-04-10 02:49:26 AM
globalwarmingpraiser: Lorelle: doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Some are. I was bullied a lot in junior high and high school, mostly by other girls. In jr. high it was female gang members, in h.s. it was stuck-up, biatchy female socs.

/eventually got revenge on the latter
//enjoyed it immensely

I hope you and Dally and the rest got them good,

Stay gold Ponyboy Stay Gold

/Sorry it had to be done.


Ya know, I didn't know that the term came from The Outsiders until I read the book in jr. high. Kids referred to other kids  as "socs" when I was still in elementary school.
 
  2013-04-10 03:36:51 AM
I just got home from work and on my drive home I listened to an interview with the mother about everything that happened from day one.  I can't even begin to imagine how she feels, or how her daughter felt. Ugh, breaks my heart, especially hearing that only a few of her friends supported her, the rest of them jumped on the slut train.
 
  2013-04-10 03:37:55 AM
Lorelle: doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Some are. I was bullied a lot in junior high and high school, mostly by other girls. In jr. high it was female gang members, in h.s. it was stuck-up, biatchy female socs.

/eventually got revenge on the latter
//enjoyed it immensely


"Socs?"  Society girls?
 
  2013-04-10 03:41:23 AM
Popcorn Johnny: The police conducted an investigation and found no basis for charges. Sounds more like a case of a girl who got wild and crazy with a few boys and ended up regretting it once word got out.

"Insufficient evidence to lay charges" is not "no basis."  The former means the prosecution didn't think it had enough evidence to win.  The latter means they had enough evidence to say, "She lied."
 
  2013-04-10 03:42:12 AM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.


If you're underage, you cannot consent. If you're underage, you cannot consent. Oh, and if you're underage, you cannot consent. But in case there was any question, there are other laws that say if you're underage, you cannot consent.

And in re this: Why are 4men who raped a 15 yr old + distributed photographic evidence of their crime walking free today?

Why are her classmates who gang-raped her again by slut-shaming her also walking around free today? I hope every single one of them feels like the rotten turd on a snake's belly that they are right now.
 
  2013-04-10 03:44:17 AM
miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.


Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.
 
  2013-04-10 03:44:18 AM
Popcorn Johnny: There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

Link


"The family said they were told the photographs were not a criminal issue even though Rehtaeh was underage."

Huh.  Wonder how that worked.
 
  2013-04-10 03:45:13 AM
Pocket Ninja: What's going to be truly sick are the comments in this thread come morning.

FARK is not your personal erotica site.
 
  2013-04-10 03:47:48 AM
FTA: "Rape culture"

Hoo boy there's a great trolling buzzword.

http://evebitfirst.wordpress.com/2011/05/18/a-man-is-a-rape-supporte r- if/
 
  2013-04-10 03:48:50 AM
This sounds like a little from column A and a little from column B. I imagine she got a little wild. For Fark's sake; she's got tats at 17. Then there's this whole other situation. I could see where, if she was raped; she'd want to hurt herself, hince, the tattoos.

On the other hand; her parents could have found out that she participated in a sex act know as "the Ghostbusters" and she said rape so she wouldn't be grounded till judgement day.

/ I don't know which is right; and neither will anyone else, this side of the afterlife

// my sympathies to the family
 
  2013-04-10 03:49:05 AM
It'd be a damn shame if the rapists, the asshole who took the pictures and the asshole(s) who thought it would be "funny" to post them online (assuming they're different people) were identified and outed by Anonymous.

Especially if that resulted in them receiving some nasty (but non-fatal) beatings.

Yep. Real shame, that.
 
  2013-04-10 03:49:28 AM
farkingismybusiness: Pocket Ninja: What's going to be truly sick are the comments in this thread come morning.

FARK is not your personal erotica site.


Shut your whore mouth.

/fap fap fap fap fap
 
  2013-04-10 03:51:15 AM
msupf: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

so, if presented with the picture of a girl obviously inebriated or impaired, possibly displaying pain, being sexually violated, and testimony from that girl that it was not consensual, you'd immediately call bullshiat on her?


Well, I'd have to see the photo before deciding whether she looks impaired or violated.  If she's grinning and flashing a thumbs-up, I might look askance at her testimony.

I'm trying to understand why circulating a pic of a 15 year-old farking is not a criminal matter in Canada.
 
  2013-04-10 03:51:29 AM
i.imgur.com


go get 'em
 
  2013-04-10 03:52:10 AM
Lorelle: doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Some are. I was bullied a lot in junior high and high school, mostly by other girls. In jr. high it was female gang members, in h.s. it was stuck-up, biatchy female socs.

/eventually got revenge on the latter
//enjoyed it immensely


www.starburstmagazine.com
 
  2013-04-10 03:53:17 AM
msupf: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

so, if presented with the picture of a girl obviously inebriated or impaired, possibly displaying pain, being sexually violated, and testimony from that girl that it was not consensual, you'd immediately call bullshiat on her?

Dumbass


WATCH THE PERSONAL ATTACKS / HATESPEECH THERES A NEWB MOD.

"prick" and "asshole" are ok though
 
  2013-04-10 03:54:29 AM
namatad: gonzoduke: Wait, that was a different article on the same story.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/nova-scotia-teen-kills- he rself-after-being-raped-bullied-online/article10940600/

"just days after the alleged rape. "

Can we STOP CALLING IT ALLEGED?
It was not an alleged rape. it was a RAPE.
She reported that she was raped to the police.
Period.

The people who raped her would best be called unconvicted rapists.
By calling it alleged, we continue to blame the victim.


I find your disrespect for fundamental human rights disturbing.
 
  2013-04-10 03:56:46 AM
Gyrfalcon: Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.

If you're underage, you cannot consent. If you're underage, you cannot consent. Oh, and if you're underage, you cannot consent. But in case there was any question, there are other laws that say if you're underage, you cannot consent.

And in re this: Why are 4men who raped a 15 yr old + distributed photographic evidence of their crime walking free today?

Why are her classmates who gang-raped her again by slut-shaming her also walking around free today? I hope every single one of them feels like the rotten turd on a snake's belly that they are right now.


I wonder how they'll treat their own daughters.
 
  2013-04-10 03:57:07 AM
iheartscotch: This sounds like a little from column A and a little from column B. I imagine she got a little wild. For Fark's sake; she's got tats at 17. Then there's this whole other situation. I could see where, if she was raped; she'd want to hurt herself, hince, the tattoos.

On the other hand; her parents could have found out that she participated in a sex act know as "the Ghostbusters" and she said rape so she wouldn't be grounded till judgement day.

/ I don't know which is right; and neither will anyone else, this side of the afterlife

// my sympathies to the family


After all, people making false accusations of rape are TOTALLY gonna kill themselves over it!

Bullshiat we don't know which is right. The girl made a poor choice to get drunk (particularly at that age). But that is irrelevant. The men who raped her are, 100%, at fault for raping her.
 
  2013-04-10 03:57:44 AM
Lsherm: doglover: Bucky Katt: Why are the rapists not in jail?

Due process, most likely. I bet those photos weren't as slam dunk as we'd like to think. Terrible story.

A photo is an instant in time, so even if it showed her having sex with someone, it's possible there wasn't any way to deduce consent or not from it.  Since it sounds like the attackers were also underage, that further complicates matters.

Terrible story all around, and at the very least I hope it gets spread around so other girls get some help before it comes to this.  Being a teenager was bad enough in the early 80's, I can't imagine my worst moments being played out on social media.  It's awful to think about.


Generally speaking, if you're underage you cannot consent, because if you're underage, you cannot consent. And even if the other party is underage, neither of you can consent, so it's not that complicated, as there was no consent. Because since both of them were underage, there was no consent. Primarily because they could not consent.

I'm not sure why everyone is having so much trouble with this concept.
 
  2013-04-10 03:58:24 AM
namatad: SundaesChild: Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.

He shows up in these types of threads and defends the rapists. Classic troll. Please do not feed him, especially after midnight.

thank you - yet another rapist for the ignore list ..so nice to clear fark of people like that


It's the "ignore" button, not the "ban" button.

Are you in counseling?  You don't seem well grounded.
 
  2013-04-10 04:01:02 AM
Gyrfalcon: Lsherm: doglover: Bucky Katt: Why are the rapists not in jail?

Due process, most likely. I bet those photos weren't as slam dunk as we'd like to think. Terrible story.

A photo is an instant in time, so even if it showed her having sex with someone, it's possible there wasn't any way to deduce consent or not from it.  Since it sounds like the attackers were also underage, that further complicates matters.

Terrible story all around, and at the very least I hope it gets spread around so other girls get some help before it comes to this.  Being a teenager was bad enough in the early 80's, I can't imagine my worst moments being played out on social media.  It's awful to think about.

Generally speaking, if you're underage you cannot consent, because if you're underage, you cannot consent. And even if the other party is underage, neither of you can consent, so it's not that complicated, as there was no consent. Because since both of them were underage, there was no consent. Primarily because they could not consent.

I'm not sure why everyone is having so much trouble with this concept.


Because everyone knows it's an arbitrary legal convention that sometimes conflicts with reality?  Even you start off with "generally."
 
  2013-04-10 04:01:44 AM
Alright, I'll be the first to ask:

Was it rape-rape?

/Hell, please
 
  2013-04-10 04:04:23 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.


WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?
 
  2013-04-10 04:06:56 AM
BarkingUnicorn: WTF did LE do wrong? Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them? WTF is wrong with you people?

I'd be happy with feather-tickle confessions.

/seriously, 2 minutes of tickling and I'd admit to being the unabomber
 
  2013-04-10 04:07:00 AM
The best way to eliminate school shootings and decrease teen suicides is to make bullying a capital crime, preferably with public executions.
 
  2013-04-10 04:07:18 AM
vernonFL: Was she "raped", or was it more like "raped" rape?

images.sodahead.com
 
  2013-04-10 04:07:27 AM
Fallout Boy: Alright, I'll be the first to ask:

Was it rape-rape?

/Hell, please


It was rape-rape-rape-rape if all four boys did it.  And we know they did, for certain, because every rape victim and everyone who's ever known a rape victim tells us so.

Rapists are scum.  Rape vigilantes are animals.
 
  2013-04-10 04:07:55 AM
Just forget about the rape altogether. No one should be harassed so relentlessly by a bunch of ignorant sadists about anything. Nothing makes it ok.

Profoundly sick society we live in.
 
  2013-04-10 04:08:16 AM
miss diminutive: BarkingUnicorn: WTF did LE do wrong? Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them? WTF is wrong with you people?

I'd be happy with feather-tickle confessions.

/seriously, 2 minutes of tickling and I'd admit to being the unabomber


You've just made some police officer needing to close out cases a happy person.

"Miss Diminutive appears to have been the Zodiac killer, sir.  We have a confession."
 
  2013-04-10 04:09:06 AM
LordJiro: iheartscotch: This sounds like a little from column A and a little from column B. I imagine she got a little wild. For Fark's sake; she's got tats at 17. Then there's this whole other situation. I could see where, if she was raped; she'd want to hurt herself, hince, the tattoos.

On the other hand; her parents could have found out that she participated in a sex act know as "the Ghostbusters" and she said rape so she wouldn't be grounded till judgement day.

/ I don't know which is right; and neither will anyone else, this side of the afterlife

// my sympathies to the family

After all, people making false accusations of rape are TOTALLY gonna kill themselves over it!

Bullshiat we don't know which is right. The girl made a poor choice to get drunk (particularly at that age). But that is irrelevant. The men who raped her are, 100%, at fault for raping her.


She killed herself because of the bullying. That isn't proof either way.

I'm not saying she made false allegations; I'm saying that there are legitimate alternative theories. Possibly compelling enough that the prosecutor felt that they couldn't get a conviction. Maybe they can't prove that the suspects were involved.

I agree, the persons responsible should face prison time. For the bullying and the child porn those are the charges that can be proved.

The prosecutor would have a tough time selling rape without a victim to testify. Maybe they can get one with the parent's testemony; but, that would probably count as hearsay.
 
  2013-04-10 04:10:27 AM
J. Frank Parnell: Just forget about the rape altogether. No one should be harassed so relentlessly by a bunch of ignorant sadists about anything. Nothing makes it ok.

Profoundly sick society we live in.


I'm with that.  This kind of crap should be no more protected by the free-speech halo than child porn is.
 
  2013-04-10 04:10:59 AM
It's beyond the time when vigilantism should make a appearance...maybe 4 corpses hanging from trees would make rapists and bullies have second thoughts
 
  2013-04-10 04:11:06 AM
Pictures taken of the rape of an underage girl and redistributed by the accusers but the police found there was insufficient evidence to lay charges?

I suspect there's a lot to this story that's not being shared by the article, there.  My money is on "the pictures didn't actually depict the crime and the parent is just trying to mitigate their own guilt over not responding to bullying by making shiat up" at minimum.
 
  2013-04-10 04:11:07 AM
J. Frank Parnell: Just forget about the rape altogether. No one should be harassed so relentlessly by a bunch of ignorant sadists about anything. Nothing makes it ok.

Profoundly sick society we live in.


I know in a lot of cases it is not possible to retaliate, but the way we've set up our "no bullying policies" very often leaves people defenseless -- they literally cannot fight back.

I got bullied a lot when I was young (I was ahead age-wise in class and always the smallest guy), at the beginning of the ole "Bullies are just insecure people, you just need to learn how to deal with them!" phase in the educational system.  Fortunately, I took my grandfather's advice and publicly beat the hell out of one of them before the "You get suspended from school for defending yourself" rules went into effect.  And surprise: no more bullying.  Wish I would have done it a few years earlier.

On the plus side, most of the bullies actually grew up, and it's not so surprising when you talk to them as adults and learn that they almost all had horribly awful parents.
 
  2013-04-10 04:12:06 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?


I'm assuming (hoping) they're all drunk.
 
  2013-04-10 04:12:16 AM
Jim_Callahan: Pictures taken of the rape of an underage girl and redistributed by the accusers but the police found there was insufficient evidence to lay charges?

I suspect there's a lot to this story that's not being shared by the article, there.  My money is on "the pictures didn't actually depict the crime and the parent is just trying to mitigate their own guilt over not responding to bullying by making shiat up" at minimum.


Depends where you live.  My gut is that you are probably correct, but there are places where depending on the people involved, the girl (specifically on rape) is going to get stonewalled and encourage to "re-remember" what happened.

But, yes, as it stands, the story does sound rather odd.
 
  2013-04-10 04:12:53 AM
okay... 17 year old with tats...  what's up with that?
 
  2013-04-10 04:14:22 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Fallout Boy: Alright, I'll be the first to ask:

Was it rape-rape?

/Hell, please

It was rape-rape-rape-rape if all four boys did it.  And we know they did, for certain, because every rape victim and everyone who's ever known a rape victim tells us so.

Rapists are scum.  Rape vigilantes are animals.


What if a boy took turn twice?

These are the thoughts that keep me up at night. And out of normal society.
 
  2013-04-10 04:16:13 AM
iheartscotch: LordJiro: iheartscotch: 

I'm not saying she made false allegations; I'm saying that there are legitimate alternative theories. Possibly compelling enough that the prosecutor felt that they couldn't get a conviction. Maybe they can't prove that the suspects were involved.



That's an easy one -- it's very hard to deal with suicide cases in court, because there are almost always comorbidity with other things that can be drummed up as a defense.  A history of depression or any depression or anxiety medication can be used to show instability that "decreases the likelihood" that a particular event was the direct cause of the suicide (even if the comorbid systems were caused by the direct event!).

Got to go through this with a family member who got hurt in an industrial accident.  It wasn't that anyone actually disagreed that his being, for all intents and purposes, essentially ruined for life was due to the accident, but because he had taken anti-depressants before, there was a "pre-existing condition" which diminished the responsibility of the business for the consequences of the accident.
 
  2013-04-10 04:17:16 AM
Fallout Boy: BarkingUnicorn: Fallout Boy: Alright, I'll be the first to ask:

Was it rape-rape?

/Hell, please

It was rape-rape-rape-rape if all four boys did it.  And we know they did, for certain, because every rape victim and everyone who's ever known a rape victim tells us so.

Rapists are scum.  Rape vigilantes are animals.

What if a boy took turn twice?

These are the thoughts that keep me up at night. And out of normal society.


Well, that's two positives that came out of this sad story.
 
  2013-04-10 04:22:10 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?


I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.
 
  2013-04-10 04:23:27 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.


Have you seen the photos?
 
  2013-04-10 04:23:49 AM
FitzShivering: Jim_Callahan: Pictures taken of the rape of an underage girl and redistributed by the accusers but the police found there was insufficient evidence to lay charges?

I suspect there's a lot to this story that's not being shared by the article, there.  My money is on "the pictures didn't actually depict the crime and the parent is just trying to mitigate their own guilt over not responding to bullying by making shiat up" at minimum.

Depends where you live.  My gut is that you are probably correct, but there are places where depending on the people involved, the girl (specifically on rape) is going to get stonewalled and encourage to "re-remember" what happened.

But, yes, as it stands, the story does sound rather odd.


The pic that made the rounds was described in another article as one that "depicted the girl having sex with one of the boys."

IDK Canada's statutory rape or child porn laws.  In the U. S., that would be enough for both.  Seems the cops could have found out who was farking her and who took the pic.  Yet prosecutors decided not to pursue charges long before the girl killed herself.
 
  2013-04-10 04:25:56 AM
Anonymous is not farking Superman! It's a group of white knighting AW teenaged 'hackers' from that pit of scum and villainy 4chan. Do you really trust them to conduct an investigation and determine the facts or is your emotional gut reaction as a society enough to justify their wrath? This is real life, not comic books.
All this calling for vigilante justice scares me more than any aspect of this story. The vast majority of you are basing your opinions on one or two articles. You don't have access to the facts yet you can't wait to see these young men lynched.


Now tell me this-
How in the fark can you direct so much hate at the folks who believe what they see on Fox news? What is the difference?
 
  2013-04-10 04:26:26 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.


We don't have those photos. They may not be all that damning. The RCMP are not local cops. Takes more than a local football connection to get them to go away. A total lack of incriminating evidence, for example.

That's what bugs me.
 
  2013-04-10 04:26:53 AM
Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Have you seen the photos?


Of course not, I'm going on what TFA said: "One of those boys took a photo of her being raped and decided it would be fun to distribute the photo to everyone in Rehtaeh's school and community where it quickly went viral".
 
  2013-04-10 04:27:35 AM
FitzShivering: iheartscotch: LordJiro: iheartscotch: 

I'm not saying she made false allegations; I'm saying that there are legitimate alternative theories. Possibly compelling enough that the prosecutor felt that they couldn't get a conviction. Maybe they can't prove that the suspects were involved.


That's an easy one -- it's very hard to deal with suicide cases in court, because there are almost always comorbidity with other things that can be drummed up as a defense.  A history of depression or any depression or anxiety medication can be used to show instability that "decreases the likelihood" that a particular event was the direct cause of the suicide (even if the comorbid systems were caused by the direct event!).

Got to go through this with a family member who got hurt in an industrial accident.  It wasn't that anyone actually disagreed that his being, for all intents and purposes, essentially ruined for life was due to the accident, but because he had taken anti-depressants before, there was a "pre-existing condition" which diminished the responsibility of the business for the consequences of the accident.


Indeed.

If she was bi-polar, for example, or had a mental issue; the suspects could argue that any act(s) was/were consensual in nature and she flipped out after her parents found out, and she can't deny that because, she's dead.

Forget the rape, get 'em on the bullying and the porn charges. Those won't have any mitigating factors; and one of them might flip on the others and testify about the rape(s).

/ thems the breaks when you have a functioning legal system; you can't just hang people
 
  2013-04-10 04:27:52 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.


Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?
 
  2013-04-10 04:28:31 AM
wildcardjack: okay... 17 year old with tats...  what's up with that?

PTSD is a helluva thing.
 
  2013-04-10 04:29:39 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?


So because the boy was unidentifiable she wasn't raped?
 
  2013-04-10 04:31:22 AM
BarkingUnicorn: FitzShivering: Jim_Callahan: Pictures taken of the rape of an underage girl and redistributed by the accusers but the police found there was insufficient evidence to lay charges?

I suspect there's a lot to this story that's not being shared by the article, there.  My money is on "the pictures didn't actually depict the crime and the parent is just trying to mitigate their own guilt over not responding to bullying by making shiat up" at minimum.

Depends where you live.  My gut is that you are probably correct, but there are places where depending on the people involved, the girl (specifically on rape) is going to get stonewalled and encourage to "re-remember" what happened.

But, yes, as it stands, the story does sound rather odd.

The pic that made the rounds was described in another article as one that "depicted the girl having sex with one of the boys."

IDK Canada's statutory rape or child porn laws.  In the U. S., that would be enough for both.  Seems the cops could have found out who was farking her and who took the pic.  Yet prosecutors decided not to pursue charges long before the girl killed herself.


You're probably right.  I haven't seen the pic (nor do I want to), so don't know what it actually contained and what they should have decided.  I imagine most of us are probably on the same page that if it showed something certain, the police should have done something, and if it didn't, then it is just a shiatty situation all around.
 
  2013-04-10 04:31:37 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?


Also, do you have the article you referenced?  I couldn't find it in TFA.  Seriously interested.
 
  2013-04-10 04:33:17 AM
It's especially awful when one so young commits suicide. To deal with a temporary problem with a permanent solution. Of course, the fog of depression doesn't give that kind of clarity. The signs can also be hard to distinguish from normal adolescent mood swings and teens can be secretive about what they get up to.  I just hate seeing lives cut short like this. It happens far too much.
 
  2013-04-10 04:35:24 AM
iheartscotch: FitzShivering: iheartscotch: LordJiro: iheartscotch: 

If she was bi-polar, for example, or had a mental issue; the suspects could argue that any act(s) was/were consensual in nature and she flipped out after her parents found out, and she can't deny that because, she's dead.


Hell, I had my depression used against me before when reporting something (serious police misconduct locally).  Fortunately, it seems most people are increasingly becoming aware that a majority of people in America are on or have taken depression or anxiety medication at some point in their lives, and if you try to throw that baby out with the bathwater, it's unlikely anyone can ever attest to anything.

I have no idea what they would have done if I were bipolar -- probably accused me of being a witch and trying to see if I floated.
 
  2013-04-10 04:35:35 AM
FitzShivering: BarkingUnicorn: FitzShivering: Jim_Callahan: Pictures taken of the rape of an underage girl and redistributed by the accusers but the police found there was insufficient evidence to lay charges?

I suspect there's a lot to this story that's not being shared by the article, there.  My money is on "the pictures didn't actually depict the crime and the parent is just trying to mitigate their own guilt over not responding to bullying by making shiat up" at minimum.

Depends where you live.  My gut is that you are probably correct, but there are places where depending on the people involved, the girl (specifically on rape) is going to get stonewalled and encourage to "re-remember" what happened.

But, yes, as it stands, the story does sound rather odd.

The pic that made the rounds was described in another article as one that "depicted the girl having sex with one of the boys."

IDK Canada's statutory rape or child porn laws.  In the U. S., that would be enough for both.  Seems the cops could have found out who was farking her and who took the pic.  Yet prosecutors decided not to pursue charges long before the girl killed herself.

You're probably right.  I haven't seen the pic (nor do I want to), so don't know what it actually contained and what they should have decided.  I imagine most of us are probably on the same page that if it showed something certain, the police should have done something, and if it didn't, then it is just a shiatty situation all around.


I think what's more disturbing is how the community treated her.  From what it sounds like the only consolation she had was from her family, and she was shunned pretty much everywhere else. I'm sure she had a few friends, but it seems apparent there was a culture of shame around her that she was subjected to constantly.
 
  2013-04-10 04:35:42 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?

So because the boy was unidentifiable she wasn't raped?


Can you prove who did it? Can you prove it wasn't consentual? Can you prove all four were involved? Can you prove it to a Canadian jury?

It's not just "J'accuse!" followed by erecting a gallows.
 
  2013-04-10 04:37:20 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?

So because the boy was unidentifiable she wasn't raped?


I have no idea if she was raped and neither do you.  IDK Canadian law.  I assume the RCMP and prosecutors do.  I don't see any reason to suspect they ignored Canadian law or failed to do their jobs.  So ask again, WTF did LE do wrong?
 
  2013-04-10 04:37:22 AM
Half of the American population has committed a rape, per the modern definition.
 
  2013-04-10 04:37:24 AM
FitzShivering: iheartscotch: FitzShivering: iheartscotch: LordJiro: iheartscotch: 

If she was bi-polar, for example, or had a mental issue; the suspects could argue that any act(s) was/were consensual in nature and she flipped out after her parents found out, and she can't deny that because, she's dead.

Hell, I had my depression used against me before when reporting something (serious police misconduct locally).  Fortunately, it seems most people are increasingly becoming aware that a majority of people in America are on or have taken depression or anxiety medication at some point in their lives, and if you try to throw that baby out with the bathwater, it's unlikely anyone can ever attest to anything.

I have no idea what they would have done if I were bipolar -- probably accused me of being a witch and trying to see if I floated.


I dated someone in college who had bipolar disorder. Boy was that a roller coaster, I wouldn't wish it upon anyone.

/well, maybe a few people.....
 
  2013-04-10 04:38:34 AM
thisispete: It's especially awful when one so young commits suicide. To deal with a temporary problem with a permanent solution. Of course, the fog of depression doesn't give that kind of clarity. The signs can also be hard to distinguish from normal adolescent mood swings and teens can be secretive about what they get up to.  I just hate seeing lives cut short like this. It happens far too much.

100% agreement.  The awful part about depression is that suicide really does seem the most logical (or passionately correct, depending) action, and there isn't much anyone is going to say to sway that without professional help and/or therapy.

I really wish it were less stigmatized (I know it's way better from where it used to be, to be fair) for people to get help.   I went through a really rough period in my life that was really needless, that if I just hadn't been raised to think seeing a therapist was akin to murdering babies for fun, I probably would have gotten better incredibly quickly, versus it being a multi-year slog.
 
  2013-04-10 04:38:46 AM
There can be many reasons the original rape case wasn't prosecuted.  Lack of evidence, conflicting stories, any number of reasons that the prosecutor decided that there wasn't enough to get a conviction.  Add to it these were minors involved and any punishment even if there was a conviction would have been muted.  As far as child pornography charges for the pictures, we don't know what the pictures depicted.   Her passed out with clothes, or with her private parts covered may not qualify as child pornography under the statute. Remember this is Canadian law and it operates under its own rules and interpretations that may or may not conform to your understanding of the law in your jurisdiction. Sexual assault type cases are very difficult even assuming you have physical evidence which we don't know was present in this case.  It is very difficult and unfair to nit pick at the decisions police and prosecutors made when we don't have all the evidence and investigation materials available.

Now what happened after the case didn't proceed just shows the cruelty and lack of social standards in society.  Thats not to say it directly led to her suicide as a unprosecuted sexual assault could have severely damaged her psyche as much as the bullying.  Add to it we don't know the parental relationships or any other support from friends and family and there could be numerous reasons she decided to end her life. Ultimately, nothing can be done to bring her back and it is difficult to say this outcome wouldn't have happened if one or two circumstances were different.  Suicides can and do happen for reason that only the person who commits knows.  Certainly her troubled life made it easier to choose this outcome and it is always sad to see it happen.
 
  2013-04-10 04:39:21 AM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.


While I don't condone taking advantage of someone that is wasted the booze thing doesn't hold much ground alone.

Drive a car? It's your fault. Get in an altercation? It's your fault, etc etc. Pretty much every scenario will end up with it being your fault because being inebriated doesn't give you immunity from your actions (except for "had sex"). Possibly rape, possibly a little too friendly with other party goers. She stayed silent until she was outed to her classmates as a slut, it's easy to toss around the rape word at that point as a last ditch effort to save face.
 
  2013-04-10 04:40:37 AM
Barfmaker: Holy shiat...that's outrageously sad.

And yeah, here we are where Anonymous is now our real-life Batman equivalent.


That's the way I see it, too. Without knowing the facts, it seems there's a lot to be said by defenders of the law and defenders of victims. And in ways, they're both right. To come down too heavily on the side of the law in every case like this can, I think, perpetuate the idea that it was just a bunch of stupid boys being boys. To come down too heavily on the side of the victim can also lead to disregard for the law in pursuing what is "right".

I haven't been following this story, but it doesn't seem like there's really enough information given in the two articles I've read for me to come down on one side or the other. I'm glad it's not my call.
 
  2013-04-10 04:40:45 AM
FitzShivering: I know in a lot of cases it is not possible to retaliate, but the way we've set up our "no bullying policies" very often leaves people defenseless -- they literally cannot fight back.

There are other ways to get individual bullies to leave you alone. And violence is not really an option for girls. For guys it's probably the most direct route, though.

But when groups get going it's a whole other dynamic. Social stigma, slander, and all that. Everyone feeding on the suffering they're causing someone. I really do think it's something learned from growing up in our current society. Adults are maybe just more subtle or discrete about it.
 
  2013-04-10 04:40:53 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: FitzShivering: iheartscotch: FitzShivering: iheartscotch: LordJiro: iheartscotch: 

If she was bi-polar, for example, or had a mental issue; the suspects could argue that any act(s) was/were consensual in nature and she flipped out after her parents found out, and she can't deny that because, she's dead.

Hell, I had my depression used against me before when reporting something (serious police misconduct locally).  Fortunately, it seems most people are increasingly becoming aware that a majority of people in America are on or have taken depression or anxiety medication at some point in their lives, and if you try to throw that baby out with the bathwater, it's unlikely anyone can ever attest to anything.

I have no idea what they would have done if I were bipolar -- probably accused me of being a witch and trying to see if I floated.

I dated someone in college who had bipolar disorder. Boy was that a roller coaster, I wouldn't wish it upon anyone.

/well, maybe a few people.....


As did I.  I always knew from my bipolar parent about mood swings, but I had no understanding of extreme bipolar disorder.  When your SO becomes convinced she has magical powers and can fly out of your window and a few days later is so depressed she physically won't leave her bed, it's a completely different level of problems.

/happy CSB, though -- she has herself under control now and is a pretty top notch professor nowadays, which is damned cool
 
  2013-04-10 04:41:02 AM
puffy999: Half of the American population has committed a rape, per the modern definition.

i.imgur.com


/and an asshole
 
  2013-04-10 04:41:10 AM
God damn it.
 
  2013-04-10 04:41:59 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?

So because the boy was unidentifiable she wasn't raped?

I have no idea if she was raped and neither do you.  IDK Canadian law.  I assume the RCMP and prosecutors do.  I don't see any reason to suspect they ignored Canadian law or failed to do their jobs.  So ask again, WTF did LE do wrong?


I can't say what they did wrong, and yes it possible it was consensual sex that was distributed which is why she felt ashamed.

I guess my real outrage is that a girl took her own life because she was harassed constantly.  Regardless of whether or not she was raped, there does seem to be some double-standard that when girls have sex they're "sluts" and when guys have sex their "players".  It's a social stigma that still exists, and it leads to these kind of results, which are tragic.

Again, my initial reaction against LE was obviously emotional, I just don't understand how this crap can still happen.
 
  2013-04-10 04:42:16 AM
J. Frank Parnell: FitzShivering: I know in a lot of cases it is not possible to retaliate, but the way we've set up our "no bullying policies" very often leaves people defenseless -- they literally cannot fight back.

There are other ways to get individual bullies to leave you alone. And violence is not really an option for girls. For guys it's probably the most direct route, though.

But when groups get going it's a whole other dynamic. Social stigma, slander, and all that. Everyone feeding on the suffering they're causing someone. I really do think it's something learned from growing up in our current society. Adults are maybe just more subtle or discrete about it.


I don't disagree with you at all.  I feel especially awful for females suffering it.  They're also still most likely to get accused of making it all up.
 
  2013-04-10 04:43:37 AM
How droll, all the guys I have labeled as rape defenders are here on this thread, and I can see they're defending as others quote 'em.

Glad I tagged 'em correctly.
 
  2013-04-10 04:44:37 AM
FitzShivering: iheartscotch: FitzShivering: iheartscotch: LordJiro: iheartscotch: 

If she was bi-polar, for example, or had a mental issue; the suspects could argue that any act(s) was/were consensual in nature and she flipped out after her parents found out, and she can't deny that because, she's dead.

Hell, I had my depression used against me before when reporting something (serious police misconduct locally).  Fortunately, it seems most people are increasingly becoming aware that a majority of people in America are on or have taken depression or anxiety medication at some point in their lives, and if you try to throw that baby out with the bathwater, it's unlikely anyone can ever attest to anything.

I have no idea what they would have done if I were bipolar -- probably accused me of being a witch and trying to see if I floated.


Do you, by chance, weigh the same as a duck?

I agree; increasingly, it seems everybody but me is on drugs. I feel that is unfair.

Maybe this will change the way things are done in the legal system. And maybe I'll get hit by a train on a tuesday, the 29th of February; while unicycling on top of a pogo stick in a rainstorm.
 
  2013-04-10 04:44:40 AM
FitzShivering: Almost Everybody Poops: FitzShivering: iheartscotch: FitzShivering: iheartscotch: LordJiro: iheartscotch: 

If she was bi-polar, for example, or had a mental issue; the suspects could argue that any act(s) was/were consensual in nature and she flipped out after her parents found out, and she can't deny that because, she's dead.

Hell, I had my depression used against me before when reporting something (serious police misconduct locally).  Fortunately, it seems most people are increasingly becoming aware that a majority of people in America are on or have taken depression or anxiety medication at some point in their lives, and if you try to throw that baby out with the bathwater, it's unlikely anyone can ever attest to anything.

I have no idea what they would have done if I were bipolar -- probably accused me of being a witch and trying to see if I floated.

I dated someone in college who had bipolar disorder. Boy was that a roller coaster, I wouldn't wish it upon anyone.

/well, maybe a few people.....

As did I.  I always knew from my bipolar parent about mood swings, but I had no understanding of extreme bipolar disorder.  When your SO becomes convinced she has magical powers and can fly out of your window and a few days later is so depressed she physically won't leave her bed, it's a completely different level of problems.

/happy CSB, though -- she has herself under control now and is a pretty top notch professor nowadays, which is damned cool


Good to hear she came out okay.  Not sure when you dated her but for me it was in highschool/college.  I can actually remember similar instances about the "magical powers" stuff, just completely off the wall nonsense that you kinda had to roll with at the time.

/kinda found it sexy at the time.
//now, i be a bit smarter...
 
  2013-04-10 04:46:16 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?

So because the boy was unidentifiable she wasn't raped?

I have no idea if she was raped and neither do you.  IDK Canadian law.  I assume the RCMP and prosecutors do.  I don't see any reason to suspect they ignored Canadian law or failed to do their jobs.  So ask again, WTF did LE do wrong?

I can't say what they did wrong, and yes it possible it was consensual sex that was distributed which is why she felt ashamed.

I guess my real outrage is that a girl took her own life because she was harassed ...


To be fair, and specifically not about this exact case because I don't know enough about it to say anything and highly doubt it is applicable here, but if one has consensual sex, takes photos and then tries to ruin other peoples' lives over it, I think a certain amount of harassment is likely justified, at least insofar as we tolerate harassment of those who are guilty of crimes.  You can't just have a one-way protection (anyone can accuse and do what they wish with no consequence).  A certain amount of societal shaming is expected any time someone does something "wrong."
 
  2013-04-10 04:47:03 AM
Bontesla: I'm rooting for the Anonymous.

Yeah, because if anyone stands for restrictions on internet freedom, it's that bunch of losers
 
  2013-04-10 04:49:21 AM
Almost Everybody Poops:
Good to hear she came out okay.  Not sure when you dated her but for me it was in highschool/college.  I can actually remember similar instances about the "magical powers" stuff, just completely off the wall nonsense that you kinda had to roll with at the time.

/kinda found it sexy at the time.
//now, i be a bit smarter...


College, and I thought it was sexy, too -- granted, she was incredibly damned hot, and given I'm incredibly damned not, part of the reason we were together was likely the dynamic we had.

But, I learned that the 'ole maxims of:

"Don't stick your dick in crazy."
"You can't save everyone."

Exist because they contain a whole, whole lot of wisdom.

Damned adults and their knowing things I should have listened to in my early twenties.
 
  2013-04-10 04:49:37 AM
As I learned while learning about the Amanda Todd case, the real cause of these types of suicides is slut-shaming. What kind of sick society calls a rape victim a slut? One which still views sex as something only bad girls enjoy.
Interesting article on it here: http://fakepretty.com/2012/10/on-the-posthumous-slut-shaming-of-amand a -todd/
 
  2013-04-10 04:52:56 AM
MBK: That's what rape culture is about, when you blame the victim for being a victim instead of blaming the violators of raping.

F*ck you.


In view of the content of the first of those sentences, how appropriate do you think it was to use a metaphor of sexual assault in the second. That, friend, is your rape culture, right there.
 
  2013-04-10 04:56:28 AM
slayer199: Nice job investigating RCMP.  They had photographic evidence...but somehow the RCMP couldn't prosecute these farks.

I have not seen the photograph and I do not wish to see the photograph, but is it not possible that a photograph might show an offence without clearly identifying the offender? Furthermore, a photograph might show that a particular act took place, but not whether it was consensual, leaving the case as one person's word against another. In most rape trials, I gather, it's consent that's at issue, not the act itself.
 
  2013-04-10 04:57:28 AM
Lady Indica: How droll, all the guys I have labeled as rape defenders are here on this thread, and I can see they're defending as others quote 'em.

Glad I tagged 'em correctly.


There's a difference  between defending rape and defending due process of law.
 
  2013-04-10 05:00:00 AM
namatad: Can we STOP CALLING IT ALLEGED?
It was not an alleged rape. it was a RAPE.
She reported that she was raped to the police.
Period.

The people who raped her would best be called unconvicted rapists.
By calling it alleged, we continue to blame the victim apply the legal standards which have defined civilisation for centuries.


It's unfortunate, but even in rape we can't allow the word of one person to circumvent due process. Calling people "unconvicted rapists" solely on another person's word is a very, very slippery slope.

There isn't a hint of victim blaming to this.
 
  2013-04-10 05:02:00 AM
Having worked amongst rape / DV victims and their prosecutors, I can say that in the US, prosecutors hate rape or DV cases.  Hate them.  They'll do everything they can to find an excuse to not bring the trial to court.  Most I've spoken to won't even risk going to court unless they are absolutely sure of a conviction, which in the case of a rape or domestic violence is practically never guaranteed.  Society tells women to report rapes to anyone who will listen but the court system says (and rightly so if conviction numbers are an indication) "Yeah, despite all of this really incriminating evidence and your obvious distress, there probably isn't enough to sway a jury".  Because a few people on that jury, doesn't matter the gender or proclivities of the jurists, are thinking "what did that person do to get themselves raped?".  Prosecutors are judged by convictions, after all.

As bad as it is for women, it's worse for men.

Maybe Canadian lawyers and judges and juries are just as sucky as their American counterparts.
 
  2013-04-10 05:02:52 AM
Gyrfalcon: If you're underage, you cannot consent. If you're underage, you cannot consent. Oh, and if you're underage, you cannot consent. But in case there was any question, there are other laws that say if you're underage, you cannot consent.

Does that apply to underage boys as well?
 
  2013-04-10 05:03:39 AM
namatad: Can we STOP CALLING IT ALLEGED?
It was not an alleged rape. it was a RAPE.
She reported that she was raped to the police.
Period.

The people who raped her would best be called unconvicted rapists.
By calling it alleged, we continue to blame the victim.


The reason they call it alleged is because the scum was never convicted. They weren't even tried. It's messed up, but "alleged" is always used by media so they can't get sued.

SpikeStrip: [thisthreadi *punches self*

Why do you keep punching yourself?

Lsherm: A photo is an instant in time, so even if it showed her having sex with someone, it's possible there wasn't any way to deduce consent or not from it. Since it sounds like the attackers were also underage, that further complicates matters.

She was drunk, and there are pictures of her throwing up, so she couldn't consent. Plus she was underage, so she couldn't consent. Plus the attackers took and distributed pictures, both of which are illegal. The police really messed this one up, either through stupidity or lack of sympathy.

doglover: My theory is this girl had a history of mental issues, was thus tolerated not welcomed, got assaulted while drunk because nobody cared(2 photos of drunk not assault), and was shamed into leaving, mental issues lead to suicide in new town.

Did you just post that getting assaulted while drunk is not getting assaulted? The fact that she was drunk automatically makes it assault.

This is supported by totally healthy people don't usually an hero even when traumatized, friends don't let rapists keep teeth, and even Canadian cops are good enough to arrest you with photos of rape in your phone. All anecdotal, but that's been my experience in life this far.

The bolded part isn't necessarily true. Ever heard of rape culture?

You are Borg: I just got home from work and on my drive home I listened to an interview with the mother about everything that happened from day one. I can't even begin to imagine how she feels, or how her daughter felt. Ugh, breaks my heart, especially hearing that only a few of her friends supported her, the rest of them jumped on the slut train.

That was an unfortunate way to phrase that.

ZoSo_the_Crowe: FTA: "Rape culture"

Hoo boy there's a great trolling buzzword.


Go be stupid somewhere else.

BarkingUnicorn: WTF did LE do wrong? Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?

No, but they could have investigated. The attackers are guilty of at least three different crimes here, and the police did nothing.
 
  2013-04-10 05:03:41 AM
orbister: slayer199: Nice job investigating RCMP.  They had photographic evidence...but somehow the RCMP couldn't prosecute these farks.

I have not seen the photograph and I do not wish to see the photograph, but is it not possible that a photograph might show an offence without clearly identifying the offender? Furthermore, a photograph might show that a particular act took place, but not whether it was consensual, leaving the case as one person's word against another. In most rape trials, I gather, it's consent that's at issue, not the act itself.


There's the "age of consent" thing to consider in this case.  Then there's the "Romeo & Juliet" thing to consider:  it's not statutory rape if it's "young love" and both parties ages are within some arbitrary number of years of each other.  Then there's Canadian law to consider, and I have no clue what it is.
 
  2013-04-10 05:04:14 AM
Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

Please tell me you're not a lawyer....
 
  2013-04-10 05:05:12 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Lady Indica: How droll, all the guys I have labeled as rape defenders are here on this thread, and I can see they're defending as others quote 'em.

Glad I tagged 'em correctly.

There's a difference  between defending rape and defending due process of law.


Due process? I thought that we had to act on emotions. If one life could be spared by passing ludicrously ineffective laws; we should pass those laws.

/ I agree; we say suspect or the accused until they are proved to be guilty, then we can stick a fork in 'em all we want
 
  2013-04-10 05:05:27 AM
orbister: namatad: Can we STOP CALLING IT ALLEGED?
It was not an alleged rape. it was a RAPE.
She reported that she was raped to the police.
Period.

The people who raped her would best be called unconvicted rapists.
By calling it alleged, we continue to blame the victim apply the legal standards which have defined civilisation for centuries.

It's unfortunate, but even in rape we can't allow the word of one person to circumvent due process. Calling people "unconvicted rapists" solely on another person's word is a very, very slippery slope.

There isn't a hint of victim blaming to this.


Clearly calling people unconvicted anything doesn't make sense.  In that case, all people who report a rape would be "unconvicted false report filers."
 
  2013-04-10 05:07:35 AM
FitzShivering: Almost Everybody Poops:
Good to hear she came out okay.  Not sure when you dated her but for me it was in highschool/college.  I can actually remember similar instances about the "magical powers" stuff, just completely off the wall nonsense that you kinda had to roll with at the time.

/kinda found it sexy at the time.
//now, i be a bit smarter...

College, and I thought it was sexy, too -- granted, she was incredibly damned hot, and given I'm incredibly damned not, part of the reason we were together was likely the dynamic we had.

But, I learned that the 'ole maxims of:

"Don't stick your dick in crazy."
"You can't save everyone."


Exist because they contain a whole, whole lot of wisdom.

Damned adults and their knowing things I should have listened to in my early twenties.


That pretty much sums up my relationships with her.  I thought I could fix her, and she cheated on me with a meth-addict (thus becoming one herself).  Fun times!
 
  2013-04-10 05:10:11 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: FitzShivering: Almost Everybody Poops:
Good to hear she came out okay.  Not sure when you dated her but for me it was in highschool/college.  I can actually remember similar instances about the "magical powers" stuff, just completely off the wall nonsense that you kinda had to roll with at the time.

/kinda found it sexy at the time.
//now, i be a bit smarter...

College, and I thought it was sexy, too -- granted, she was incredibly damned hot, and given I'm incredibly damned not, part of the reason we were together was likely the dynamic we had.

But, I learned that the 'ole maxims of:

"Don't stick your dick in crazy."
"You can't save everyone."

Exist because they contain a whole, whole lot of wisdom.

Damned adults and their knowing things I should have listened to in my early twenties.

That pretty much sums up my relationships with her.  I thought I could fix her, and she cheated on me with a meth-addict (thus becoming one herself).  Fun times!


Um.  We may have been dating the same girl.  That or you are her and you are farking with me.  :P
 
  2013-04-10 05:11:45 AM
Did I get in before someone claims that....

THE MEN

ARE

THE REAL

VICTIMS

HERE


...?
 
  2013-04-10 05:14:48 AM
Abacus9: She was drunk, and there are pictures of her throwing up, so she couldn't consent. Plus she was underage, so she couldn't consent.

I wonder how easy it would be to prove beyond reasonable doubt that the drunkenness came before the sex?
 
  2013-04-10 05:15:37 AM
You are Borg: I just got home from work and on my drive home I listened to an interview with the mother about everything that happened from day one.  I can't even begin to imagine how she feels, or how her daughter felt. Ugh, breaks my heart, especially hearing that only a few of her friends supported her, the rest of them jumped on the slut train.

And who would be in a better position to make the "slut" vs "non-slut" call? Her friends that actually knew her or a pitchfork wielding internet mob?
 
  2013-04-10 05:17:48 AM
FitzShivering: miss diminutive: BarkingUnicorn: WTF did LE do wrong? Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them? WTF is wrong with you people?

I'd be happy with feather-tickle confessions.

/seriously, 2 minutes of tickling and I'd admit to being the unabomber

You've just made some police officer needing to close out cases a happy person.

"Miss Diminutive appears to have been the Zodiac killer, sir.  We have a confession."


Unfortunately the recording of the confession was deemed inadmissible in court due to incomprehensible gigglesnorting and high-pitched manic screaming.
 
  2013-04-10 05:18:12 AM
FitzShivering: Almost Everybody Poops: FitzShivering: Almost Everybody Poops:
Good to hear she came out okay.  Not sure when you dated her but for me it was in highschool/college.  I can actually remember similar instances about the "magical powers" stuff, just completely off the wall nonsense that you kinda had to roll with at the time.

/kinda found it sexy at the time.
//now, i be a bit smarter...

College, and I thought it was sexy, too -- granted, she was incredibly damned hot, and given I'm incredibly damned not, part of the reason we were together was likely the dynamic we had.

But, I learned that the 'ole maxims of:

"Don't stick your dick in crazy."
"You can't save everyone."

Exist because they contain a whole, whole lot of wisdom.

Damned adults and their knowing things I should have listened to in my early twenties.

That pretty much sums up my relationships with her.  I thought I could fix her, and she cheated on me with a meth-addict (thus becoming one herself).  Fun times!

Um.  We may have been dating the same girl.  That or you are her and you are farking with me.  :P


We have ALL dated that girl, in her infinite incarnations.  I've dated two of her.  One had a Harley Davidson logo tattooed across her pubic bone and liked Christian Bros. brandy.  The other liked handcuffs, bananas, and coke.
 
  2013-04-10 05:18:52 AM
msupf: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

so, if presented with the picture of a girl obviously inebriated or impaired, possibly displaying pain, being sexually violated, and testimony from that girl that it was not consensual, you'd immediately call bullshiat on her?

Dumbass


Have you even SEEN college porn these days?  You just described most dorm room videos.
 
  2013-04-10 05:19:20 AM
BarkingUnicorn: There's the "age of consent" thing to consider in this case.  Then there's the "Romeo & Juliet" thing to consider:  it's not statutory rape if it's "young love" and both parties ages are within some arbitrary number of years of each other.  Then there's Canadian law to consider, and I have no clue what it is.

Google suggests that the age of consent in Canada is 16, with an exemption for 14 and 15 year olds. So if she and the person with whom she had sex were both 15, age of consent would not appear to be an issue, though consent would.

However ... a young woman in great distress has killed herself. Whatever the law, whatever the actions, whoever the actors, that distress was real, and terribly, terribly sad.
 
  2013-04-10 05:19:51 AM
Abacus9: No, but they could have investigated. The attackers are guilty of at least three different crimes here, and the police did nothing.

Look, there's a lot of this going on in this thread. You have no clue what the police did or did not do. It's possible they dropped the ball. It's also possible that there wasn't enough evidence to arrest anyone. Nobody here has seen the pictures. Nobody here has even seen a first-hand account of the events.

Given what little we do know, it seems extremely likely this girl was raped. We do know she was bullied afterwards. We know very little else.

But not one person in this thread knows how the cops handled the investigation, or how they reached their conclusions regarding arrest and prosecution. Anyone presuming they did something wrong, just because nobody with peripheral responsibility for this girl's death has been arrested, is spouting off purely from emotion.

As justified as those emotions may be, they are probably not a valid basis for prosecution under Canadian sexual crime laws.

The biggest problem here is the bullies, who made a bad situation worse on purpose and out of spite. If you need somewhere to direct your anger, try focusing on them.
 
  2013-04-10 05:19:58 AM
Hanged.
 
  2013-04-10 05:20:21 AM
ZoSo_the_Crowe: FTA: "Rape culture"

Hoo boy there's a great trolling buzzword.

http://evebitfirst.wordpress.com/2011/05/18/a-man-is-a-rape-supporte r- if/


The the authorette of that blog:
wildhunt.org
 
  2013-04-10 05:20:38 AM
Sweaty Dynamite: You are Borg: I just got home from work and on my drive home I listened to an interview with the mother about everything that happened from day one.  I can't even begin to imagine how she feels, or how her daughter felt. Ugh, breaks my heart, especially hearing that only a few of her friends supported her, the rest of them jumped on the slut train.

And who would be in a better position to make the "slut" vs "non-slut" call? Her friends that actually knew her or a pitchfork wielding internet mob?


At any rate Rehtaeh Parsons lived and died as a floozy.

i.imgur.com
 
  2013-04-10 05:22:33 AM
 
  2013-04-10 05:27:11 AM
I don't like the "too drunk to make a choice" line of prosicution. It sounds to much like the morning after "wtf did I do?" Fix ... if a rational choice can't be made while drunk could the defense use this as well? How about a drunken theft? Or can you make a legal descision if really really tired? No means no and yes means no if I change my mind later. That being said I feel for the young lady and our teenage years are a hell of a crucible and no one escapes unscathed.
 
  2013-04-10 05:28:13 AM
NewportBarGuy: I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.

Passing pictures of her being raped around is a felony, her suicide should invoke the felony murder rule.
 
  2013-04-10 05:31:33 AM
orbister: BarkingUnicorn: There's the "age of consent" thing to consider in this case.  Then there's the "Romeo & Juliet" thing to consider:  it's not statutory rape if it's "young love" and both parties ages are within some arbitrary number of years of each other.  Then there's Canadian law to consider, and I have no clue what it is.

Google suggests that the age of consent in Canada is 16, with an exemption for 14 and 15 year olds. So if she and the person with whom she had sex were both 15, age of consent would not appear to be an issue, though consent would.

However ... a young woman in great distress has killed herself. Whatever the law, whatever the actions, whoever the actors, that distress was real, and terribly, terribly sad.


Being a half-assed Buddhist, I half believe that she's already been reborn to repeat the class, hopefully passing it this time.  The other half wants to send the others to remedial lifetimes immediately.
 
  2013-04-10 05:33:28 AM
orbister: Abacus9: She was drunk, and there are pictures of her throwing up, so she couldn't consent. Plus she was underage, so she couldn't consent.

I wonder how easy it would be to prove beyond reasonable doubt that the drunkenness came before the sex?


Pretty easy these days, unless the pictures were taken with an old-fashioned Polaroid camera, which I doubt.
 
  2013-04-10 05:36:58 AM
I'd like to know what some people would regard as sufficient evidence before you'd accept a girl's claim of being raped?

In general there is not going to be a room full of witnesses, video recordings or the like. It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his. Judging by some of the responses here, her word carries less value than that of the alleged rapist/s.
 
  2013-04-10 05:40:02 AM
cornfedokie: I don't like the "too drunk to make a choice" line of prosicution. It sounds to much like the morning after "wtf did I do?" Fix ... if a rational choice can't be made while drunk could the defense use this as well? How about a drunken theft?

A drunken theft is different because you may be drunk but it's during the commission of a crime, which there is no excuse for. In the case of rape, the victim isn't committing a crime.
 
  2013-04-10 05:42:44 AM
Nidiot: I'd like to know what some people would regard as sufficient evidence before you'd accept a girl's claim of being raped?

In general there is not going to be a room full of witnesses, video recordings or the like. It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his. Judging by some of the responses here, her word carries less value than that of the alleged rapist/s.


If only words counted, there would be no need for trials.  A jury could just read statements and decide.  So your question is unrealistically oversimplified.
 
  2013-04-10 05:44:47 AM
My sympathies go out to her family.

doglover: You think bullying in a western school is bad, try the bullying you get when you have to spend all day every day in the same classroom with the same kids for three years.

Make it five years, and you've described my elementary school experience.
 
  2013-04-10 05:45:06 AM
right on fark mods...

another thread full of of misogynist hate you are either too lazy to deal with or too  stupid to understand.

rather than wade through more bullshiat to point out single instances, i'll let the brain trust that is the FARKMOD ELITE BACK PATTING CLUB MEMBERS .TM try and wade through...

good luck dumbasses.
 
  2013-04-10 05:45:57 AM
Nidiot: I'd like to know what some people would regard as sufficient evidence before you'd accept a girl's claim of being raped?

Most of Fark's pro-rape contingent wouldn't accept it if the guy held a national press conference to announce that he can't get it up unless there's rape involved. They don't believe that there's even such a thing as rape (and are trolls - mostly the troll thing, really).
 
  2013-04-10 05:48:13 AM
Nidiot: It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his.

I accuse you of raping a goat. How much evidence should I have to present before someone takes my word over yours over your alleged guilt?

/  Innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent.
//  As for how much evidence, beyond reasonable doubt is the standard.
 
  2013-04-10 05:48:43 AM
Fluorescent Testicle: Nidiot: I'd like to know what some people would regard as sufficient evidence before you'd accept a girl's claim of being raped?

Most of Fark's pro-rape contingent wouldn't accept it if the guy held a national press conference to announce that he can't get it up unless there's rape involved. They don't believe that there's even such a thing as rape (and are trolls - mostly the troll thing, really).


And most of Fark's rape victims would string a man up if a woman just pointed her finger at him and stammered.

Then there are Farkers who defend due process, not alleged rapists or alleged victims.
 
  2013-04-10 05:49:30 AM
cajunns: It's beyond the time when vigilantism should make a appearance...maybe 4 corpses hanging from trees would make rapists and bullies have second thoughts

I agree and think of this too much. Too often law enforcement and courts fail to deliver. In this case we must remember the poor judgement of youth, which was abundant.

RIP sweet girl
Sincere condolences to the broken hearted
 
  2013-04-10 05:50:44 AM
Abacus9: cornfedokie: I don't like the "too drunk to make a choice" line of prosicution. It sounds to much like the morning after "wtf did I do?" Fix ... if a rational choice can't be made while drunk could the defense use this as well? How about a drunken theft?

A drunken theft is different because you may be drunk but it's during the commission of a crime, which there is no excuse for. In the case of rape, the victim isn't committing a crime.


Never once said the victim was committing a crime but my question is better put this way. If the prosicution can claim the lady was not able to make a rational choice. So despite her not saying no it was still rape. Could the defense use the accused's drunken state to claim they could not rationally take her state into account if she never made a detering statement?
 
  2013-04-10 05:54:52 AM
doglover: Back in the day, the initial RCMP investigation would have been 4 homicides of teenage boys and no one would have seen anything.

You mean the same "day" in which a "good Christian" society regularly humiliated women for being raped?  Hell, those boys would've been even bigger heroes.
 
  2013-04-10 05:56:55 AM
Nidiot: It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his. Judging by some of the responses here, her word carries less value than that of the alleged rapist/s.

Why should it carry more? How do you decide in general whose word in a court of law is going to be worth more than someone else's?

It's a fundamental principle of Scots law that corroboration is needed, and cases of one person's word against another's can't proceed. Corroboration, by the way, can be forensic, photographs or other evidence; it doesn't have to be another witness.
 
  2013-04-10 05:58:18 AM
As a father of two little girls, I can say without a doubt, that if this was my little girl, I would be in jail now. And all four of those boys would be maimed for life. Death would be too easy for these monsters.

What would be hard would be figuring out how to live without their cock and balls.

I'm not being an ITG here. If someone put my daughter through what these monsters did, then God help them, because they would not get any mercy from me.
 
  2013-04-10 05:58:40 AM
Fluorescent Testicle: Most of Fark's pro-rape contingent

Please give me a few instances of anyone saying on Fark that they think rape is a good thing. "You're gonna get raped" fantasies over sexual violence in prison don't count.
 
  2013-04-10 05:58:42 AM
MooseUpNorth: Nidiot: It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his.

I accuse you of raping a goat. How much evidence should I have to present before someone takes my word over yours over your alleged guilt?

/  Innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent.
//  As for how much evidence, beyond reasonable doubt is the standard.


That's the conviction standard.  I think Nidiot is wondering what it takes to even get a serious investigation, let alone a credible attempt at prosecution.

As an investigator, I would gather every scrap of evidence I could and grill both parties hard.  I want a rapist badly.  I also don't want to refer a guy for prosecution of such a serious crime unless my ducks all line up.  So the gloves come off for both parties.

As a prosecutor, I try the case in my head based on the evidence the investigator sent me and what I learned in meetings with defense counsel.  If my internal one-man jury convicts, I'd take it to trial.
 
  2013-04-10 06:01:26 AM
cornfedokie: Abacus9: cornfedokie: I don't like the "too drunk to make a choice" line of prosicution. It sounds to much like the morning after "wtf did I do?" Fix ... if a rational choice can't be made while drunk could the defense use this as well? How about a drunken theft?

A drunken theft is different because you may be drunk but it's during the commission of a crime, which there is no excuse for. In the case of rape, the victim isn't committing a crime.

Never once said the victim was committing a crime but my question is better put this way. If the prosicution can claim the lady was not able to make a rational choice. So despite her not saying no it was still rape. Could the defense use the accused's drunken state to claim they could not rationally take her state into account if she never made a detering statement?


Nah.  It's a matter of strict liability, just like farking a minor after checking her fake ID.
 
  2013-04-10 06:01:27 AM
cornfedokie: Abacus9: cornfedokie: I don't like the "too drunk to make a choice" line of prosicution. It sounds to much like the morning after "wtf did I do?" Fix ... if a rational choice can't be made while drunk could the defense use this as well? How about a drunken theft?

A drunken theft is different because you may be drunk but it's during the commission of a crime, which there is no excuse for. In the case of rape, the victim isn't committing a crime.

Never once said the victim was committing a crime but my question is better put this way. If the prosicution can claim the lady was not able to make a rational choice. So despite her not saying no it was still rape. Could the defense use the accused's drunken state to claim they could not rationally take her state into account if she never made a detering statement?


This would be fine if the default were yes.  But it's not.  The default is no, and she doesn't need to say it.  Hell, the victim would have a far better case to say that her "Yes" wouldn't count because she was drunk.
 
  2013-04-10 06:01:28 AM
cornfedokie: Abacus9: cornfedokie: I don't like the "too drunk to make a choice" line of prosicution. It sounds to much like the morning after "wtf did I do?" Fix ... if a rational choice can't be made while drunk could the defense use this as well? How about a drunken theft?

A drunken theft is different because you may be drunk but it's during the commission of a crime, which there is no excuse for. In the case of rape, the victim isn't committing a crime.

Never once said the victim was committing a crime but my question is better put this way. If the prosicution can claim the lady was not able to make a rational choice. So despite her not saying no it was still rape. Could the defense use the accused's drunken state to claim they could not rationally take her state into account if she never made a detering statement?


If the other party is drunk then they can't consent. That said... Canada's laws don't look like they cover the 'intoxicated and can't consent' side of it.

Canada's Criminal Code has no specific "rape" provision. Instead, it defines assault and provides for a specific punishment for "sexual assault". In defining "assault", the Code includes physical contact and threats. The provision reads:

266(3) For the purposes of this section, no consent is obtained where the complainant submits or does not resist by reason of

(a) the application of force to the complainant or to a person other than the complainant;

(b) threats or fear of the application of force to the complainant or to a person other than the complainant;

(c) fraud; or

(d) the exercise of authority.

Consent gets even more complicated when alcohol and drugs are involved in that it becomes a question of whether the victim had the capacity to consent. Again, the court will look at the totality of the evidence and decide.

So it's possible the prosecutor went with the safe option and tried to not argue on the basis of her being intoxicated as a form of non-consent.

/Hope the people who did it die in a fire, however.
 
  2013-04-10 06:07:51 AM
Legios: cornfedokie: Abacus9: cornfedokie: I don't like the "too drunk to make a choice" line of prosicution. It sounds to much like the morning after "wtf did I do?" Fix ... if a rational choice can't be made while drunk could the defense use this as well? How about a drunken theft?

A drunken theft is different because you may be drunk but it's during the commission of a crime, which there is no excuse for. In the case of rape, the victim isn't committing a crime.

Never once said the victim was committing a crime but my question is better put this way. If the prosicution can claim the lady was not able to make a rational choice. So despite her not saying no it was still rape. Could the defense use the accused's drunken state to claim they could not rationally take her state into account if she never made a detering statement?

If the other party is drunk then they can't consent. That said... Canada's laws don't look like they cover the 'intoxicated and can't consent' side of it.

Canada's Criminal Code has no specific "rape" provision. Instead, it defines assault and provides for a specific punishment for "sexual assault". In defining "assault", the Code includes physical contact and threats. The provision reads:

266(3) For the purposes of this section, no consent is obtained where the complainant submits or does not resist by reason of

(a) the application of force to the complainant or to a person other than the complainant;

(b) threats or fear of the application of force to the complainant or to a person other than the complainant;

(c) fraud; or

(d) the exercise of authority.

Consent gets even more complicated when alcohol and drugs are involved in that it becomes a question of whether the victim had the capacity to consent. Again, the court will look at the totality of the evidence and decide.


So it's no different from U. S. incapacitated-consent jurisprudence.
 
  2013-04-10 06:13:18 AM
Nidiot: I'd like to know what some people would regard as sufficient evidence before you'd accept a girl's claim of being raped?

In general there is not going to be a room full of witnesses, video recordings or the like. It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his. Judging by some of the responses here, her word carries less value than that of the alleged rapist/s.


Lady Justice is most often depicted with a set of scales typically suspended from her right hand, upon which she measures the strengths of a case's support and opposition. She is also often seen carrying a double-edged sword in her left hand, symbolizing the power of Reason and Justice, which may be wielded either for or against any party.

It's an imperfect system, for sure. But it beats every alternative I can think of, short of unfalsifiable mind-reading.
 
  2013-04-10 06:15:18 AM
100 Watt Walrus: Look, there's a lot of this going on in this thread. You have no clue what the police did or did not do. It's possible they dropped the ball. It's also possible that there wasn't enough evidence to arrest anyone.

The pictures should be evidence enough because: She's underage, and drunk. Two different ways she can't legally consent. Plus, distributing the photos is also a crime.
 
  2013-04-10 06:17:52 AM
sxacho: Nidiot: I'd like to know what some people would regard as sufficient evidence before you'd accept a girl's claim of being raped?

In general there is not going to be a room full of witnesses, video recordings or the like. It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his. Judging by some of the responses here, her word carries less value than that of the alleged rapist/s.

Lady Justice is most often depicted with a set of scales typically suspended from her right hand, upon which she measures the strengths of a case's support and opposition. She is also often seen carrying a double-edged sword in her left hand, symbolizing the power of Reason and Justice, which may be wielded either for or against any party.

It's an imperfect system, for sure. But it beats every alternative I can think of, short of unfalsifiable mind-reading.


The Japanese used to call a special breed of unicorn to court.  It could divine the guilty party and would run him through with its horn.  I forget the exact name of that species... not kirin.
 
  2013-04-10 06:18:37 AM
Well, shiat. There are no words.

/stop this effing planet, I want to get off
 
  2013-04-10 06:19:57 AM
MooseUpNorth: Nidiot: It mostly only ever comes down to her word vs his.

I accuse you of raping a goat. How much evidence should I have to present before someone takes my word over yours over your alleged guilt?


Pictures would be good evidence.
 
  2013-04-10 06:21:15 AM
Abacus9: 100 Watt Walrus: Look, there's a lot of this going on in this thread. You have no clue what the police did or did not do. It's possible they dropped the ball. It's also possible that there wasn't enough evidence to arrest anyone.

The pictures should be evidence enough because: She's underage, and drunk. Two different ways she can't legally consent. Plus, distributing the photos is also a crime.


Great.  Crimes were committed.

By whom?  Whoever she says?  That's not how it works.
 
  2013-04-10 06:22:35 AM
Lsherm: [img42.imageshack.us image 620x348]

Still can't look at that picture without tearing up.


Is that her??
 
  2013-04-10 06:23:44 AM
Is her name Rita or Reytayah?
 
  2013-04-10 06:23:46 AM
BarkingUnicorn: 
So it's no different from U. S. incapacitated-consent jurisprudence.

Possibly not? I don't have much knowledge of the US legal system. I was just quoting some stuff from a Canadian site talking about it.

/Aussie
 
  2013-04-10 06:23:51 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Abacus9: 100 Watt Walrus: Look, there's a lot of this going on in this thread. You have no clue what the police did or did not do. It's possible they dropped the ball. It's also possible that there wasn't enough evidence to arrest anyone.

The pictures should be evidence enough because: She's underage, and drunk. Two different ways she can't legally consent. Plus, distributing the photos is also a crime.

Great.  Crimes were committed.

By whom?  Whoever she says?  That's not how it works.


Is that what I said? No. And perhaps you missed the part in bold. Are you saying that the police don't have the authority to check their cell phones for these pictures, or they don't have the ability to find out which device the pictures originate from?
 
  2013-04-10 06:25:23 AM
Rehtaeh?

She never stood a chance.
 
  2013-04-10 06:36:56 AM
This kind of thing definitely happened in the late 90s when I was this age. I knew a girl who had gotten drunk and taken advantage of while another guy put it on VHS. The girl's brother and a friend went and kicked some ass, took the tape and destroyed it. Nothing was reported, to save the girl from shame. No one went to jail. No one besides her family found out until later. By senior year the girl was sharing the story with her friends. Point of the story is that if we all had Facebook back then, what happened to her would have been shared immediately, before she could recover emotionally. So I don't think this generation of kids is raping or taking advantage more frequently, they're just getting found out faster. If anything, the light shining on the situation may discourage future perps. In the meantime the glare of the social media light makes a small fraction of the girls kill themselves. If the girl in my story had killed herself, no one at school would have known why.
 
  2013-04-10 06:42:35 AM
Legios: BarkingUnicorn: 
So it's no different from U. S. incapacitated-consent jurisprudence.

Possibly not? I don't have much knowledge of the US legal system. I was just quoting some stuff from a Canadian site talking about it.

/Aussie


Here, a person who is so incapacitated as to be incapable of making a conscious, rational decision cannot give consent.  Incapacitation may result from intoxication, physical damage, mental illness, or just being a deep sleeper. A judge or jury determines the degree of incapacitation based on evidence.
 
  2013-04-10 06:42:42 AM
NicoFinn: Lsherm: [img42.imageshack.us image 620x348]

Still can't look at that picture without tearing up.

Is that her??



If I recall correctly, that was a different girl from last year. Don't know if she was raped, but she was bullied pretty mercilessly. She wrote different messages on signs and put them on her Facebook or whatever. She was literally begging for help. She also hanged herself.
 
  2013-04-10 06:47:15 AM
Something about the tattoos makes me wonder if there isn't something more going on here. The life span of girls with large tattoos of stars on their arms has always been pretty low.
 
  2013-04-10 06:47:56 AM
Jim_Callahan: Pictures taken of the rape of an underage girl and redistributed by the accusers but the police found there was insufficient evidence to lay charges?

I suspect there's a lot to this story that's not being shared by the article, there.  My money is on "the pictures didn't actually depict the crime and the parent is just trying to mitigate their own guilt over not responding to bullying by making shiat up" at minimum.


Apparently the photo shows one of the boys having sex with her while she was vomiting. The police said they could not proceed with charges on child porn because the boys could have denied knowing she was 15. I did not know knowledge as to age was relevant.

I listened to Rehtaeh's mother yesterday speak about what has happened. It made me cry. I don't cry.
 
  2013-04-10 06:50:24 AM
Why does the drunk means you can't give consent only apply to women?

We're the guys also drunk? If they were wouldn't that mean thy also couldn't give consent?
 
  2013-04-10 06:52:10 AM
Abacus9: BarkingUnicorn: Abacus9: 100 Watt Walrus: Look, there's a lot of this going on in this thread. You have no clue what the police did or did not do. It's possible they dropped the ball. It's also possible that there wasn't enough evidence to arrest anyone.

The pictures should be evidence enough because: She's underage, and drunk. Two different ways she can't legally consent. Plus, distributing the photos is also a crime.

Great.  Crimes were committed.

By whom?  Whoever she says?  That's not how it works.

Is that what I said? No. And perhaps you missed the part in bold. Are you saying that the police don't have the authority to check their cell phones for these pictures, or they don't have the ability to find out which device the pictures originate from?


"The family said they were told the photographs were not a criminal issue even though Rehtaeh was underage."

I guess Canadian law needs to be changed.  But don't blame law enforcement.
 
  2013-04-10 06:55:35 AM
Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: BarkingUnicorn: Almost Everybody Poops: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

Seriously, this.

It appears to be a lack of empathy and stigma on part of law enforcement.  But this shiat should not stand.

I wish a thousand butt-hole surfers to penetrate the rapists asses while covered in knives and arugula.

WTF did LE do wrong?  Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them?  WTF is wrong with you people?

I would assume the PHOTOS THEY TOOK WHILE RAPING HER would be enough evidence, but that's just me.

Well, apparently something was insufficient about those photos (another article says one was circulated, showing her "having sex with one of the boys").  Boy unidentifiable in pic.  Nobody would talk.  So we're back to waterboarding, right?

So because the boy was unidentifiable she wasn't raped?


The boy was identified. According to Rehtaeh's mother he was looking at the camera giving a thumbs up in the photo I referenced above. The police also know who owned the phone that took the picture.
 
  2013-04-10 06:57:52 AM
Barfmaker: Holy shiat...that's outrageously sad.

And yeah, here we are where Anonymous is now our real-life Batman equivalent.


except that "anonymous" has a feavy overlap with thw /b fplks who CAUSE shiat like this
 
  2013-04-10 07:01:03 AM
Warlordtrooper: Why does the drunk means you can't give consent only apply to women?

We're the guys also drunk? If they were wouldn't that mean thy also couldn't give consent?


Not to being penetrated.  Rape laws (a subset of "sexual assault" laws) involve penetration of the sexual, oral, or "elimination" orifices, "however slight."

Also, "drunk" is insufficient; you must be so drunk that an ordinary (including "sober") observer would reasonably conclude that you are incapable of making rational decisions.
 
  2013-04-10 07:06:33 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Warlordtrooper: Why does the drunk means you can't give consent only apply to women?

We're the guys also drunk? If they were wouldn't that mean thy also couldn't give consent?

Not to being penetrated.  Rape laws (a subset of "sexual assault" laws) involve penetration of the sexual, oral, or "elimination" orifices, "however slight."

Also, "drunk" is insufficient; you must be so drunk that an ordinary (including "sober") observer would reasonably conclude that you are incapable of making rational decisions.


Ah ok. So basically pissed drunk.

Its sad that the rapists aren't being charged but it's better then convicting somebody without a level of evidence that is beyond reasonable doubt
 
  2013-04-10 07:06:34 AM
This case is tragic, and if the perpetrators can be prosecuted in some way still, I hope they are.

However, a lot of people have posted that they are outraged that she is underage and yet nothing was done.  As I understand Canadian (which is to say, very little) she was not underage if there was consent.  I don't know anything about this case beyond the article, and in no way am I saying she did consent.
 
  2013-04-10 07:11:12 AM
I have no idea what happened and of course it's a horrible story.  HOWEVER, I have yet to meet a 17 year old (did she have them at 15) with so many tattoos that was all sweet and innocent.  Regret can be a hard pill for a kid to swallow and I'm guessing parents who let their kid run around with all that ink (fake or not) were probably not clued into how she was feeling until too late.
 
  2013-04-10 07:12:56 AM
msupf: so, if presented with the picture of a girl obviously inebriated or impaired, possibly displaying pain, being sexually violated, and testimony from that girl that it was not consensual, you'd immediately call bullshiat on her?

So now we're just going to make shiat up?
 
  2013-04-10 07:16:12 AM
If there was not sufficient evidence to prosecute rape how about prosecuting the people who were sending this trash around the net? Surely there are some laws that were broken?
 
  2013-04-10 07:18:25 AM
Lorelle: When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.

So you've seen the picture? It's of a drunk girl passed out in a pile of her own vomit, being banged by a dude?

Oh wait, of course you haven't seen the picture, you have no farking idea what really happened. Since you're a chick, you automatically believe a girl when they say they were raped. Lets just ignore evidence and stuff and start convicting guys of rape whenever a woman says so. Women would never lie, right?
 
  2013-04-10 07:19:47 AM
Lsherm: [img42.imageshack.us image 620x348]

Still can't look at that picture without tearing up.


Neither can I, it appears.

Jesus Christ, we really have failed this generation of kids. Not sure what specific thing came unglued. Perhaps it's a laundry list of things.

Horribly sad.
 
  2013-04-10 07:22:06 AM
A lot of people here seem to be wondering how there was 'insufficient evidence...'

I can answer that question pretty easily, actually.

Let's assume for a second that there was a rape- it did happen, no consent.
That's easy enough- not just underage, but drunk... the entirety of the western world has laws preventing someone from being held to a contract signed while visibly intoxicated or under duress precisely because they're incapable of consenting... I see that as precedent for the same limitations on consent here.
If I sign a contract drunk, I can later get out of the contract by saying I didn't understand what was going on. If the photos (and any personal account or witness statement) confirm she was as far gone as I'd suspect here... even if she gave something that got taken as consent... she has a legal right to retract that consent once sober, in theory. [Word of warning to guys here- if she's buzzed, you're probably ok... wasted... even a yes is shaky, so just... don't.]

If the photo didn't include the boy's face, we very quickly have a problem.
She was drunk- she may not be able to identify the boys accurately (or accurately enough).
Even if the photo has identifying features (distinguishing birthmark or summat), they'd at least need a specific accusation against the correct individual to compel him to show it for comparison.
If it doesn't... well. We have a problem because we have a victim, but no way to identify the suspect beyond the hazy memories of a drunken, traumatic event.

As for the photo(s?)... they went viral- at a certain point, well before viral, it becomes impossible to trace them back to a source.
And bloody difficult to charge everyone who ever shared it with a count of child pornography, simply because there aren't enough handcuffs to go around.

Evidence may abound, but it's also all useless evidence unless a suspect comes forward and confesses, or someone close to the event is able to identify him/them.

Police have to let crimes they KNOW happened slide all the time because they are literally unable to pursue them... they lack a victim willing to prosecute, or legally usable evidence, or even a good suspect... or once in a while, they have all of the above, but lack the resources to do anything about it.
 
  2013-04-10 07:31:33 AM
At least the boys involved came to the realization that what they did was wrong.

//sarcasm mode off
 
  2013-04-10 07:33:59 AM
I'm sure being named "Rehtaeh" didn't help matters much, either. Seriously, parents...STAHP!!

In other news, sounds like some dude(s) need a killin'. But in the meantime, I'm OK with this: Multiple Anonymous-affiliated OP accounts are already trying to find and publish the identities of the four men involved with Rehtaeh's rape.
 
  2013-04-10 07:35:09 AM
phenn: Lsherm: [img42.imageshack.us image 620x348]

Still can't look at that picture without tearing up.

Neither can I, it appears.

Jesus Christ, we really have failed this generation of kids. Not sure what specific thing came unglued. Perhaps it's a laundry list of things.

Horribly sad.


I don't think stuff like this is really more common.  We just have more kids (look at the population size) with more means to broadcast/share their depression, teen angst, etc. and those same means make it more widey reported when they opt out.

Bullying is not anything new, most older folks remember it back in the day.
 
  2013-04-10 07:36:14 AM
doglover: Back in the day, the initial RCMP investigation would have been 4 homicides of teenage boys and no one would have seen anything.

I know if I were that girl's dad, I'd be facing the Crown on multiple homicide charges.  This shiat is sickening.
 
  2013-04-10 07:36:48 AM
Hope karma farks them in the ass with a nail-studded broom handle
 
  2013-04-10 07:37:36 AM
SpikeStrip: Nezorf: Great, another ape thread...

got something against apes?


Stop monkeying around with people's posts.
 
  2013-04-10 07:39:12 AM
Obviously he was just trying to advance in the main storyline.

i.imgur.com

STAY CLASSY ADFLY.
 
  2013-04-10 07:39:56 AM
gibbon1: NewportBarGuy: I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.

Passing pictures of her being raped around is a felony, her suicide should invoke the felony murder rule.


This.
 
  2013-04-10 07:41:46 AM
All I know is...I am NOT looking forward to when my son becomes a hormone-riddled teenager. I can preach and teach good behavior so much, but the other party has to listen.  And this kid has a hard time listening.
 
  2013-04-10 07:43:39 AM
Well I fully welcome the nuclear holocaust.
 
  2013-04-10 07:45:21 AM
farkmedown: gibbon1: NewportBarGuy: I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.

Passing pictures of her being raped around is a felony, her suicide should invoke the felony murder rule.

This.


At the very least, it's child porn.  Can't get these assholes on rape charges?  Child porn charges.  That includes the farktards that were passing the pictures around.
 
  2013-04-10 07:45:49 AM
rattchett: The boy was identified. According to Rehtaeh's mother he was looking at the camera giving a thumbs up in the photo I referenced above. The police also know who owned the phone that took the picture.

OK.  Thanks.  Slowly, details get filled in.

So we have this news, and let's add someone else's comment that she was puking while being railed.  So it's safe to assume she wasn't enjoying herself when the pic was taken.

Unfortunately, that still doesn't prove she did not consent or was not capable of consenting.  My ex told me a perfectly disgusting story about puking during a bj, and swore she was sober at the time

This girl drank a lot, but she puked out a window as well as during sex. How can anyone credibly estimate how much alcohol remained in her and how much it impaired her decision-making ability?  When I was a teen and first getting started, the first shot of liquor would try to come back up and sometimes succeeded.  Then I'd try again, and again, frustrated that I wasn't getting drunk.

It was quite some time after the party that she told her parents and they called the cops.  So the only other evidence of incapacitation is her testimony and the testimony of others at the party.  Apparently, the cops got all of that testimony.

The family was told that the photograph was not a criminal matter despite the girl's age.  That really surprises me, if it's true.  No one has cited a source that says it isn't true, so I'll be surprised for now.

The prosecutor decided there was too much doubt about her impairment or consent for a reasonable likelihood of conviction. Wouldn't you like a prosecutor to feel there's a reasonable likelihood of conviction before he charges you?

Now, it appears that the state has opened a new investigation into the girl's death.  Perhaps that will lead to charges against those who harassed the girl.  Or maybe not; it's been a long time since she moved away from them.

The case was incredibly messy.  The cops and prosecutors made the best of it they could, and came up short.  Until someone shows me evidence that they ignored evidence, I'm not going to blame them.
 
  2013-04-10 07:51:27 AM
She was underaged, how is that not child porn?
 
jxc
  2013-04-10 07:53:25 AM
Photos with tongue ring, tattoos, bongs and booze = sweet innocent teenage girl
One photo no one has seen = horrible teenage boys who must be put down in the most horrible way
Strange days....
 
  2013-04-10 07:53:42 AM
xanadian: All I know is...I am NOT looking forward to when my son becomes a hormone-riddled teenager. I can preach and teach good behavior so much, but the other party has to listen.  And this kid has a hard time listening.

sack of oranges... they'll listen and there won't be bruises... win-win
 
  2013-04-10 07:55:30 AM
This is very sad. My home town of Halifax is a shameful place sometimes. The school, the RCMP (Canadian nation police), the kids involved, their parents, and the justice system have all failed this girl and her family. Here are a whole bunch of things I don't get:

- According to a gut wrenching interview on CBC radio's As It Happens last night, the mother of this girl said they supplied the police with the names of many of the people at the party. They know who committed the crime and who witnessed it, yet the RCMP have done nothing to arrest these little monsters.

- The mother also said the school did not contact the family at all during this whole ordeal. Shame on them. In this area we hear an enormous amount of talk about bullying in the schools and all the good the schools do to curve its pursuit. Evidently talk is a cheap commodity used as a tool to make their public image perception all shiny and nice. They must get involved in such things to intervene early before it's too late. Someone at both schools must have known something here; I can't believe they were that naive. Do the right thing.

- The "adults" who own the home where the rape took place should be held accountable. The RCMP and the courts have completely failed in their responsibility to make these irresponsible people accountable for what goes on in their home. Teaching our kids to be good people takes an enormous amount effort; laziness and neglect is not an option.

- Shockingly, the mother said there is a boy in the photo having sex with the minor giving the thumps up. Look, RCMP! There he is! Get off your lazy asses, go to his home and arrest the little bastard! He's a rapist! Do your farking job!

- Online bulling is easy to track. It's online! The terrible kids who harassed this poor girl, and their parents need to be held accountable for just being horrible people if nothing else.

We like to proclaim ourselves as evolved beings here in 2013, but I'm not so sure sometimes. Rape should find no tolerance anywhere at any time period.
 
  2013-04-10 07:56:15 AM
jxc: Photos with tongue ring, tattoos, bongs and booze = sweet innocent teenage girl
One photo no one has seen = horrible teenage boys who must be put down in the most horrible way
Strange days....


You're right, how have I not seen this before? If a girl as a tattoo, then she is incapable of NOT being raped right? Only sweet innocent girls can be raped, so she has to have sex with anyone who wants it. Oh f*ck, how have I not seen this before?
 
  2013-04-10 07:58:50 AM
jxc: Photos with tongue ring, tattoos, bongs and booze = sweet innocent teenage girl
One photo no one has seen = horrible teenage boys who must be put down in the most horrible way
Strange days....


So a rape isn't actually a rape if the victim's appearance doesn't meet with your approval.

Gotcha.
 
  2013-04-10 08:01:38 AM
I don't usually support Anonymous and their antics, but go get em guys.  This is sick.  Barring any kind of crazy info we don't have, the whole town should be ashamed of itself and mostly the rcmp.  Let's hope these goons learn their lesson in prison on how much fun it is to get raped.  Heck maybe we can call in a favor with the AB and get them to gang rape these lil fun boys and publish the pics.  Anyhoo, at the very least I hope her family can find peace someday as this is a tragedy that gets played out way too often.  If it was a teacher, farkers would be bro fisting.  Let's hope they think of this the next time one of those threads comes up.

My only CSB:  A friend in college decided to bed this disgusting douche that myself and her girlfriends warned her about.  She goes over there and they hook up one night and he videos the whole thing.  Shows it around to his friends and it gets back to us.  Myself and this douche actually came from the same hometown before college so I knew him and his ilk.  Dropped a dime to some friends that were still at home and when he went back for spring break they found him on a boardwalk one night.  He returned to college with a broken arm, nose, and two black eyes.  His arm had been broken over the rail of the boardwalk.  Another day we went and retrieved the tape and smashed it.  L as we'll call her, dropped out of college after another semester and just started working at home.  Probably waits at a Chili's or some such these days.  The douche-who knows.  Hopefully he didn't do anything like that again.
 
  2013-04-10 08:02:48 AM
Lorelle: doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Some are. I was bullied a lot in junior high and high school, mostly by other girls. In jr. high it was female gang members, in h.s. it was stuck-up, biatchy female socs.

/eventually got revenge on the latter
//enjoyed it immensely



I remember that.  You got covered in pigs' blood or something at the prom, then everything started on fire and shiat.  Freaked me the hell out.
 
  2013-04-10 08:03:20 AM
Warlordtrooper: BarkingUnicorn: Warlordtrooper: Why does the drunk means you can't give consent only apply to women?

We're the guys also drunk? If they were wouldn't that mean thy also couldn't give consent?

Not to being penetrated.  Rape laws (a subset of "sexual assault" laws) involve penetration of the sexual, oral, or "elimination" orifices, "however slight."

Also, "drunk" is insufficient; you must be so drunk that an ordinary (including "sober") observer would reasonably conclude that you are incapable of making rational decisions.

Ah ok. So basically pissed drunk.

Its sad that the rapists aren't being charged but it's better then convicting somebody without a level of evidence that is beyond reasonable doubt


If "pissed drunk" means "can't find your car," then the standard is not that high. More like DUI, I would say.  They do call it "driving while impaired" in some States.

I'm not going to call anyone a rapist until he's been convicted by a jury.
 
jxc
  2013-04-10 08:05:41 AM
Nope. I think girls with tongue rings, tattoos and fondness for booze and pot have every right to express themselves anyway they like and that their appearance should have no bearing on the facts of the case. I also think the news media should portray the girl as she so desperately wanted to be seen.

Using out of date photos helps no one and only encourages "she had it coming" attitudes when more recent photos emerge.
 
  2013-04-10 08:08:52 AM
Why was no one arrested?
 
  2013-04-10 08:08:55 AM
doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Given the choice between being a teenager again and being a prey species in the actual wilderness, I would like to be a bunny, please.

At least when you're a grownup who works with teenagers, you have that once-in-a-lifetime, worth-your-job chance to slap one who's being a complete twat every now and then. I never have taken a little sumbiatch up on it, but I've been reliably informed that every teacher gets one good smack, like dogs and biting. That, and being the IT consultant for a school, it's often fascinating to watch as the bullies' senior projects are the ones that get tragically wiped in a hard-drive crash, whereas the nice, non-bully or victim kids who remind one of oneself did regular backups on different machines and only lost a paragraph or two, if anything.

Hard drive crash. Yeah. Funny how those happen.

That, and being the IT consultant, I have the moral obligation to report anyone who uploads or shares sexual pictures of a minor as a purveyor or creator of child pornography. Somebody does what happened to the little girl in TFA or has anything to do with the aftermath in my district, and they'll be on the Megan's Law shiat-list until they die unless their parents can cough up for an excruciatingly good lawyer. Informing a roomful of smug 'but our sons would never' PTA mommies and football dads that 'yes, that is the policy and no, I do not care about your son's football scholarship or your daughter's grades, if your kid shares explicit pictures of another kid and I find anything on the school's network, my first call is to the cops, plus the principal will only even hear about it after your kid's already in cuffs and halfway to the precinct,' the week after the Steubenville verdict was pretty enjoyable. They just looked so shocked and appalled that their 'won't somebody think of the children' applied to their kids as well and failure to parent them effectively, stomp out bullying at the roots or monitor their Internet usage could lead to serious consequences. (And yes, the 'you find it, you call the police and THEN notify the administration' part of the policy is in place because of Steubenville. There will BE no cover-ups on our superintendent's watch. She's the best boss ever.)

The bit where the superintendent pointed out that this was the child protection law said parents overwhelmingly voted for in action was especially choice. It was also precious to see how many high-school kids had stickers over the lenses of their camera phones the next day.
 
  2013-04-10 08:11:17 AM
xanadian: All I know is...I am NOT looking forward to when my son becomes a hormone-riddled teenager. I can preach and teach good behavior so much, but the other party has to listen.  And this kid has a hard time listening.

So did mine.  I still remember the address and zip code of  juvenile court.  He's 22 now and doing fine.

"When I was 14 my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to be around him.  But by the time I turned 21, I was astonished by how much the old man had learned in just seven years."  Mark Twain.

Cling to that quote; it's truth.
 
  2013-04-10 08:14:26 AM
doglover:
Back in the day, the initial RCMP investigation would have been 4 homicides of teenage boys and no one would have seen anything grill the girl until she admitted she had sex once or twice before and write the whole thing off as a false accusation by a slutty little tramp.

Let's be honest, cops have been blowing off legitimate rape cases for a long time.
 
  2013-04-10 08:14:30 AM
Only solution is to have internet control, finger printing and background check before every post. Oh, and a fee on every post as well

/if i was this parent, i would be hunting wabbits
//and wtf didnt her parents move her out of that school?
 
  2013-04-10 08:15:15 AM
 
  2013-04-10 08:19:15 AM
SpiderQueenDemon: doglover: Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.

Given the choice between being a teenager again and being a prey species in the actual wilderness, I would like to be a bunny, please.

At least when you're a grownup who works with teenagers, you have that once-in-a-lifetime, worth-your-job chance to slap one who's being a complete twat every now and then. I never have taken a little sumbiatch up on it, but I've been reliably informed that every teacher gets one good smack, like dogs and biting. That, and being the IT consultant for a school, it's often fascinating to watch as the bullies' senior projects are the ones that get tragically wiped in a hard-drive crash, whereas the nice, non-bully or victim kids who remind one of oneself did regular backups on different machines and only lost a paragraph or two, if anything.

Hard drive crash. Yeah. Funny how those happen.

That, and being the IT consultant, I have the moral obligation to report anyone who uploads or shares sexual pictures of a minor as a purveyor or creator of child pornography. Somebody does what happened to the little girl in TFA or has anything to do with the aftermath in my district, and they'll be on the Megan's Law shiat-list until they die unless their parents can cough up for an excruciatingly good lawyer. Informing a roomful of smug 'but our sons would never' PTA mommies and football dads that 'yes, that is the policy and no, I do not care about your son's football scholarship or your daughter's grades, if your kid shares explicit pictures of another kid and I find anything on the school's network, my first call is to the cops, plus the principal will only even hear about it after your kid's already in cuffs and halfway to the precinct,' the week after the Steubenville verdict was pretty enjoyable. They just looked so shocked and appalled ...


Good job.  Carry on!  In fact, you might put together a training tape for other school IT people.
 
  2013-04-10 08:19:17 AM
BarkingUnicorn: "The family said they were told the photographs were not a criminal issue even though Rehtaeh was underage."

I guess Canadian law needs to be changed.


So that every fifteen year old who sexts her boyfriend can be charged with child porn offences and put on the register for life?
 
  2013-04-10 08:21:58 AM
kimmygibblershomework:If it was a teacher, farkers would be bro fisting.  Let's hope they think of this the next time one of those threads comes up.

Had it been a teacher, the utmost care would have been taken to keep it private.
 
  2013-04-10 08:23:52 AM
Vigilanteism arises when people do not see justice being meted out via the usual legal methods. It may be true that there was not enough evidence in this case for a conviction. However, a sense of fairness is a strong human trait. So when people who appear to have committed an awful, harmful crime, appear to be just getting away without even a slap on the wrist, it is quite natural for the baying for blood to occur amongst the general population. Maybe Law Enforcement needs to look a bit harder at cases rather than put things in the 'too hard' basket, say 'tough shiat' to the victim and head out for lunch. If they don't, eventually average citizens might be pissed off enough to bring about what they see as justice their own way.

One can hope anyway.
 
  2013-04-10 08:28:22 AM
Joe Blowme: Only solution is to have internet control, finger printing and background check before every post. Oh, and a fee on every post as well

/if i was this parent, i would be hunting wabbits
//and wtf didnt her parents move her out of that school?


They did. The thing with the internet is, it's everywhere. The rape, the bullying, the slut shaming all followed her.
 
  2013-04-10 08:28:52 AM
SpiderQueenDemon: That, and being the IT consultant, I have the moral obligation to report anyone who uploads or shares sexual pictures of a minor as a purveyor or creator of child pornography.

What benefits do you see in legal action against 15 year old girls who send naked pictures of themselves to their boyfriends?
 
  2013-04-10 08:30:30 AM
Nidiot: If they don't, eventually average citizens might be pissed off enough to bring about what they see as justice their own way.

Ironically, of course, that is exactly what happened in this case. Don't assume that average citizens will always be on your side.
 
  2013-04-10 08:30:54 AM
Popcorn Johnny: There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

Link


Doesn't make it right.  Matter of fact, not much in this whole thing is right.
No "stand up" people there.  Not one.
 
  2013-04-10 08:33:03 AM
orbister: BarkingUnicorn: "The family said they were told the photographs were not a criminal issue even though Rehtaeh was underage."

I guess Canadian law needs to be changed.

So that every fifteen year old who sexts her boyfriend can be charged with child porn offences and put on the register for life?


We already have that possibility in the U. S.  Can't say I recall it being realized.

Publishing or sharing sexually explicit images or video of a person who has a reasonable expectation of privacy, including a reasonable expectation that you will not publish or share what he/she has shared with you, should definitely be a crime.

I could even argue it deserves the sex offender registry more than copping a feel on a bus does.  The damage done is widespread and continues long after the material is published or shared.  Want to see revenge porn disappear?  That would help a lot.

Then girls will be more willing to let us record them for our private use.
 
  2013-04-10 08:33:39 AM
Once again, I am disturbed by what the world has become.  Normally I'm against bullying of any type, but part of me hopes that Anon cyber bullies the crap out of the bullies.  Just desserts and all.
 
  2013-04-10 08:36:03 AM
GORDON: kimmygibblershomework:If it was a teacher, farkers would be bro fisting.  Let's hope they think of this the next time one of those threads comes up.

Had it been a teacher, the utmost care would have been taken to keep it private.


You don't hang out here often, do you?
 
  2013-04-10 08:40:41 AM
Pics?
 
  2013-04-10 08:40:45 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Publishing or sharing sexually explicit images or video of a person who has a reasonable expectation of privacy, including a reasonable expectation that you will not publish or share what he/she has shared with you, should definitely be a crime.

I could even argue it deserves the sex offender registry more than copping a feel on a bus does.  The damage done is widespread and continues long after the material is published or shared.  Want to see revenge porn disappear?  That would help a lot.


You speak much sense, and I agree with you completely.
 
  2013-04-10 08:41:59 AM
ZoSo_the_Crowe: FTA: "Rape culture"

Hoo boy there's a great trolling buzzword.

http://evebitfirst.wordpress.com/2011/05/18/a-man-is-a-rape-supporte r- if/


From the list:
He watches pornography in which women are depicted

Seriously? We are only allowed to watch male-only gay porn? Otherwise we think rape is 'okay'? WTF is that author smoking?
 
  2013-04-10 08:46:15 AM
Sounds like she had the sex then regretted it when people found out. If your to weak to take hounding after falsely accusing guys boo hoo. World doesn't need girls like her in it
 
  2013-04-10 08:47:24 AM
NutWrench: Popcorn Johnny: NutWrench: Well, other than the photos of the actual rape that everybody passed around. WTF?

You should really read more than one article on the story.

Which part is incorrect? The rape part or the "passing around pictures of the rape" part?


Only the parents think she was raped. Nobody else does.
 
  2013-04-10 08:48:28 AM
luxup: I have no idea what happened and of course it's a horrible story.  HOWEVER, I have yet to meet a 17 year old (did she have them at 15) with so many tattoos that was all sweet and innocent.  Regret can be a hard pill for a kid to swallow and I'm guessing parents who let their kid run around with all that ink (fake or not) were probably not clued into how she was feeling until too late.

oh stfu.

straight-A student whose favourite subject was science.
 
  2013-04-10 08:48:48 AM
MythDragon: Seriously? We are only allowed to watch male-only gay porn? Otherwise we think rape is 'okay'? WTF is that author smoking?

Some years ago I read an article in Spare Rib, a now defunct British feminist magazine, which claimed that straight porn was bad because it degraded women but that gay porn was even worse because it rejected women altogether. Overdiligent application of theory can lead to some very odd places.
 
  2013-04-10 08:49:31 AM
namegoeshere: Joe Blowme: Only solution is to have internet control, finger printing and background check before every post. Oh, and a fee on every post as well

/if i was this parent, i would be hunting wabbits
//and wtf didnt her parents move her out of that school?

They did. The thing with the internet is, it's everywhere. The rape, the bullying, the slut shaming all followed her.


If it was me,  i would have been arrested for multiple assaults of minors.
 
  2013-04-10 08:50:19 AM
xanadian: doglover: Back in the day, the initial RCMP investigation would have been 4 homicides of teenage boys and no one would have seen anything.

I know if I were that girl's dad, I'd be facing the Crown on multiple homicide charges.  This shiat is sickening.


But not the RCMP's job. They can't press charges without evidence. Law or Emotion, can't have both.
 
  2013-04-10 08:50:51 AM
orbister: Nidiot: If they don't, eventually average citizens might be pissed off enough to bring about what they see as justice their own way.

Ironically, of course, that is exactly what happened in this case. Don't assume that average citizens will always be on your side.


Valid point.

In all honesty I'd rather things were done properly via the law. What is their official statement? We just don't have evidence to convict the rapists, or, we don't have evidence that the rape claim is legitimate in the first place? Aren't false accusations also an offence? So since there is no mention of her being charged with making a false accusation, personally I'm thinking these are guys getting away with rape.
 
  2013-04-10 08:52:35 AM
s10.postimg.org
 
  2013-04-10 08:54:16 AM
orbister: Overdiligent application of theory can lead to some very odd places.

Like say, Tumblr, where this idiocy thrives
 
  2013-04-10 08:54:27 AM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.


Totally agree with Lorelle.
 
  2013-04-10 08:54:48 AM
doglover: Back in the day, the initial RCMP investigation would have been 4 homicides of teenage boys and no one would have seen anything.

And that would have been wrong.  I think FARK is pretty much of one mind when it comes to police determining guilt and acting without authorization.  The RCMP are cops, not judges.

That said, this whole situation is awful.
 
  2013-04-10 08:55:34 AM
MythDragon: ZoSo_the_Crowe: FTA: "Rape culture"

Hoo boy there's a great trolling buzzword.

http://evebitfirst.wordpress.com/2011/05/18/a-man-is-a-rape-supporte r- if/

From the list:
He watches pornography in which women are depicted

Seriously? We are only allowed to watch male-only gay porn? Otherwise we think rape is 'okay'? WTF is that author smoking?


Yeah, I can't quite tell if the author, there, is trolling, an idiot, or hasn't bothered to think about any of the contents of that list for longer than it took to type it up.
 
  2013-04-10 08:56:27 AM
What happened to her seems horrible, but like too many of these stories, they start with stupid decisions by the victim that leave them vulnerable to predators.  Nobody deserves to be raped, but you have to realize their are people out there looking to harm you.  Getting drunk around a bunch of teenage boys while you are teenage girl is never going to turn out well.
 
  2013-04-10 08:56:37 AM
Quinsisdos: orbister: Overdiligent application of theory can lead to some very odd places.

Like say, Tumblr, where this idiocy thrives


what is this?  I don't even.
 
  2013-04-10 08:57:17 AM
doglover: You think bullying in a western school is bad, try the bullying you get when you have to spend all day every day in the same classroom with the same kids for three years.

I can top that.  I grew up in a small town, where the graduating classes typically numbered around 75 students.  There were three classrooms per grade in elementary and middle school...and you stayed with that class all day.  Which meant you went to school with pretty much the same people until you hit the 9th grade.  High school was a little better, you shared classes with other grades.  But these people knew (and remembered well) EVERY STUPID THING YOU EVER DID IN YOUR LIFE.  Plus, back then the staff did *nothing* to bullies....so basically they could pick and choose what to bully you over.
 
  2013-04-10 08:57:29 AM
Hi guys, sorry I'm late. Traffic was a biatch.

Abacus9: 100 Watt Walrus: Look, there's a lot of this going on in this thread. You have no clue what the police did or did not do. It's possible they dropped the ball. It's also possible that there wasn't enough evidence to arrest anyone.

The pictures should be evidence enough because: She's underage, and drunk. Two different ways she can't legally consent. Plus, distributing the photos is also a crime.


Fifteen isn't underage if the other guys are close in age and aren't otherwise responsible for her, and nobody can prove how drunk she was. The RCMP say there isn't enough evidence to prove sexual assault (as opposed to 'consent and recant' or retaliatory accusation for spreading the photo, not that I'm suggesting she did either of those things either because I don't know anyone involved and wasn't there) so we have to take them at their word until we find out that the inspector's son is one of the guys involved or something.

As for whether the photo's child porn or not, that's a weird one. The depiction of a sex act with a child is child porn by definition, The only things I can think of is that there's either insufficient detail in the photo to objectively identify the subject as a child (if she's not recognizable in the picture then you have to rely on the obvious absence of secondary sex characteristics) or it doesn't pass the "if she were dressed would this still be a creepy picture" test.

Whether it was rape or not doesn't really matter: They photographed her naked and used the pictures to turn her life to shiat. I'm not saying I'd have gone to school with a weapon and done something to these guys, but if she had I don't think I'd feel particularly bad about it.
 
  2013-04-10 08:59:01 AM
luxup: I have no idea what happened and of course it's a horrible story.  HOWEVER, I have yet to meet a 17 year old (did she have them at 15) with so many tattoos that was all sweet and innocent.  Regret can be a hard pill for a kid to swallow and I'm guessing parents who let their kid run around with all that ink (fake or not) were probably not clued into how she was feeling until too late.

you and Popcorn Johnny should really hook up. Each of you is about as good as the other's going to get.
 
  2013-04-10 08:59:41 AM
Damn...pretty dusty in here this morning...

I hope the four guys are caught and have an eel inserted against their will, then get it X-rayed, then get their faces, names, addresses, and phone numbers published along with the X-ray images.
 
  2013-04-10 09:01:33 AM
Seems like when kids are educated about sex, they are only taught about the physical act and not also about the emotional side of things. A lot of teens don't seem to have an understanding of the repercussions of having sex, aside from the whole pregnancy thing. Much more to sex than bumping naughty bits.
 
  2013-04-10 09:02:39 AM
Nidiot: orbister: Nidiot: If they don't, eventually average citizens might be pissed off enough to bring about what they see as justice their own way.

Ironically, of course, that is exactly what happened in this case. Don't assume that average citizens will always be on your side.

Valid point.

In all honesty I'd rather things were done properly via the law. What is their official statement? We just don't have evidence to convict the rapists, or, we don't have evidence that the rape claim is legitimate in the first place? Aren't false accusations also an offence? So since there is no mention of her being charged with making a false accusation, personally I'm thinking these are guys getting away with rape.


Wrong on both counts, I'm afraid. "We don't have enough evidence" could mean "there was no rape", "there was a rape but we can't prove it" or "we don't know what the hell happened". They don't say more to protect the privacy of the victim and the accused.

While technically a false accusation of rape is Public Mischief, NOBODY would even start to produce the brain chemicals necessary to begin approaching thinking about the idea of maybe bringing that to a Crown, because if that discouraged even one victim from reporting a rape she wasn't sure she could prove then whatever time this false accuser served wouldn't be worth it. That sort of thing is usually handled in civil court.
 
  2013-04-10 09:03:25 AM

manimal2878: What happened to her seems horrible, but like too many of these stories, they start with stupid decisions by the victim that leave them vulnerable to predators.  Nobody deserves to be raped, but you have to realize their are people out there looking to harm you.  Getting drunk around a bunch of teenage boys while you are teenage girl is never going to turn out well.



This! Ladies have to use some common sense. However with all that ink I doubt she had any
 
  2013-04-10 09:03:28 AM
I smell bullshiat. For there to be photographic evidence and everybody just makes fun of her and calls her a slut? Police say not enough evidence?

The biatch got drunk and farked a room full of dudes... then called it rape when the word got around. End of story.
 
  2013-04-10 09:04:57 AM
Alonjar: I smell bullshiat. For there to be photographic evidence and everybody just makes fun of her and calls her a slut? Police say not enough evidence?

The biatch got drunk and farked a room full of dudes... then called it rape when the word got around. End of story.


Well, if a libel artist such as yourself is able to make such a determination, then no further investigation is warranted.
 
  2013-04-10 09:06:29 AM
namatad: this shiat just never ends.
bad parents, leading to terrible children, who will be awful parents
abused kids, having kids and then abusing them


shudder


That sums up the human condition well, I think.

/ now i'm sad...
 
  2013-04-10 09:07:37 AM

Dimensio: Alonjar: I smell bullshiat. For there to be photographic evidence and everybody just makes fun of her and calls her a slut? Police say not enough evidence?

The biatch got drunk and farked a room full of dudes... then called it rape when the word got around. End of story.

Well, if a libel artist such as yourself is able to make such a determination, then no further investigation is warranted.




I wouldn't be surpised if thats the truth. Parents were most likely clueless to how she lived. They let her ink up and dress like a slut and bad things happened. Boo hoo
 
  2013-04-10 09:08:38 AM
Nidiot: In all honesty I'd rather things were done properly via the law. What is their official statement? We just don't have evidence to convict the rapists, or, we don't have evidence that the rape claim is legitimate in the first place? Aren't false accusations also an offence?

It's not a dichotomy between "true claim" and "false claim". Someone might honestly believe she was raped while there is not enough evidence for the legal system - which can't go solely by belief - to determine that a rape happened. When that happens it's very bad for the victim but it's difficult to see how to change things without making things worse for society. No easy answers, I'm afraid.
 
  2013-04-10 09:08:44 AM
Lorelle: This shiat makes me all pissed off and stabby.

It's bad enough having to relive being raped when it shows up in one's nightmares...I can't imagine how it must have been for this girl to have actual photos of the crime shoved in her face and shared with the world.


The only thing she remembers is "throwing up out a window".

She didn't find out she'd been 'raped' until she saw the photos.

Sex with a drunk girl is bad, mmmmmkay, but it isn't the same thing as raping a girl using a knife to her throat as persuasion (or whatever).

Plus... we don't know if it was her first taste of vodka or if she was a real party girl who'd already slept with half the boys at the party.

We don't know the facts, let's not judge anybody.
 
  2013-04-10 09:10:00 AM
Where's Dexter when we need him???
 
  2013-04-10 09:10:16 AM
www.troll.me
 
  2013-04-10 09:12:25 AM
ARedthorn: A lot of people here seem to be wondering how there was 'insufficient evidence...'

I can answer that question pretty easily, actually.

Let's assume for a second that there was a rape- it did happen, no consent.
That's easy enough- not just underage, but drunk... the entirety of the western world has laws preventing someone from being held to a contract signed while visibly intoxicated or under duress precisely because they're incapable of consenting... I see that as precedent for the same limitations on consent here.
If I sign a contract drunk, I can later get out of the contract by saying I didn't understand what was going on. If the photos (and any personal account or witness statement) confirm she was as far gone as I'd suspect here... even if she gave something that got taken as consent... she has a legal right to retract that consent once sober, in theory. [Word of warning to guys here- if she's buzzed, you're probably ok... wasted... even a yes is shaky, so just... don't.]

If the photo didn't include the boy's face, we very quickly have a problem.
She was drunk- she may not be able to identify the boys accurately (or accurately enough).
Even if the photo has identifying features (distinguishing birthmark or summat), they'd at least need a specific accusation against the correct individual to compel him to show it for comparison.
If it doesn't... well. We have a problem because we have a victim, but no way to identify the suspect beyond the hazy memories of a drunken, traumatic event.

As for the photo(s?)... they went viral- at a certain point, well before viral, it becomes impossible to trace them back to a source.
And bloody difficult to charge everyone who ever shared it with a count of child pornography, simply because there aren't enough handcuffs to go around.

Evidence may abound, but it's also all useless evidence unless a suspect comes forward and confesses, or someone close to the event is able to identify him/them.

Police have to let crimes they KNOW happened slide all the time because they are literally unable to pursue them... they lack a victim willing to prosecute, or legally usable evidence, or even a good suspect... or once in a while, they have all of the above, but lack the resources to do anything about it.


How dare you let logic and facts interfere with a good lynch mob
 
  2013-04-10 09:14:11 AM
Abacus9: 100 Watt Walrus: Look, there's a lot of this going on in this thread. You have no clue what the police did or did not do. It's possible they dropped the ball. It's also possible that there wasn't enough evidence to arrest anyone.

The pictures should be evidence enough because: She's underage, and drunk. Two different ways she can't legally consent. Plus, distributing the photos is also a crime.



Age of consent can be somewhat flexible based on the age of the other party. In Canada, it is 16, but minors aged 14-15 may consent to sex with someone less that five years older than they are; minors aged 12-13 can consent to sex with a partner less than two years older.

The distribution, on the other hand, depending upon what was actually shown in the pictures (which none of us have seen) may meet the criteria for a felony.
 
  2013-04-10 09:14:43 AM

ARedthorn: As for the photo(s?)... they went viral- at a certain point, well before viral, it becomes impossible to trace them back to a source.



Every time you take a picture with your cell phone, the phone encodes hidden data in the image file to identify who took the picture and where via gps coordinates.

No tinfoil hat required... true story.
 
  2013-04-10 09:14:55 AM
jxc: Photos with tongue ring, tattoos, bongs and booze = sweet innocent teenage girl
One photo no one has seen = horrible teenage boys who must be put down in the most horrible way
Strange days....


I know quite a few women with tats who are very sweet.

I know some with tats who are not so sweet that could probably easily beat the shiat out of a farker like you who thinks he's the ultimate judge of girls with tats.
Just sayin'.
 
  2013-04-10 09:15:49 AM
Popcorn Johnny: The police conducted an investigation and found no basis for charges. Sounds more like a case of a girl who got wild and crazy with a few boys and ended up regretting it once word got out.

Ah there is a reason your comments are in red with the title WANKER. I shall not wonder about what made me write that again.

Troll or not, you suck :p
 
gja [TotalFark]
  2013-04-10 09:19:01 AM
doglover: Back in the day, the initial RCMP investigation would have been 4 homicides of teenage boys and no one would have seen anything.

I like that idea. Good old school vengeance. No school like old school.
 
  2013-04-10 09:19:23 AM
Threads like this make me wonder if all the sex comedies from the 90s, where alcohol is jokingly declared to be the most important part of the human mating ritual, will one day evoke as much revulsion and horror in polite society as 1920s racial humor does.

/it was a different time
//a time when any guy could get laid, if he could get his date drunk enough
 
  2013-04-10 09:19:47 AM
hasty ambush: phenn: Lsherm: [img42.imageshack.us image 620x348]

Still can't look at that picture without tearing up.

Neither can I, it appears.

Jesus Christ, we really have failed this generation of kids. Not sure what specific thing came unglued. Perhaps it's a laundry list of things.

Horribly sad.

I don't think stuff like this is really more common.  We just have more kids (look at the population size) with more means to broadcast/share their depression, teen angst, etc. and those same means make it more widey reported when they opt out.

Bullying is not anything new, most older folks remember it back in the day.


Indeed.  The only real failure is for older generations to understand that the internet is like high school x 1million for angsty kids.  They have a larger platform to vent their teen woes on, but at the same time there is a larger group of people that point and laugh at least just as harsh as other teens.

Maybe you shouldn't post half-naked pictures of your teen body on Reddit.  Maybe you shouldn't send your boyfriend nude pictures from your phone(that also has no password protection).  Maybe that will come back to bite you.

We also fail on teaching our kids how to deal with shiat with the snowflake crap, which, of course, makes the effects of bullying worse.
 
  2013-04-10 09:20:16 AM
Mid_mo_mad_man: I wouldn't be surpised if thats the truth. Parents were most likely clueless to how she lived. They let her ink up and dress like a slut and bad things happened. Boo hoo

Wow, you're the very definition of blame the victim.
 
  2013-04-10 09:20:55 AM
At the least let us shame the four boys involved.

I now know her name and have seen her picture - lets at least share around their names and pictures, then sit back and see how their adult lives progress ...
 
  2013-04-10 09:22:53 AM
There are some days when I click a thread on fark and pray to multiple deities that the headline is a sick joke. And when it isn't, it reminds me that humanity sucks, quite often actually. Some people really deserve to die a painful death... Chinese torture methods. And no, not just the type of torture using cattleprods. I mean the kind where they slice off pieces of flesh, and then they rub salt, and then they continue.

/feel free to get creative
 
  2013-04-10 09:26:26 AM
miscreant: Mid_mo_mad_man: I wouldn't be surpised if thats the truth. Parents were most likely clueless to how she lived. They let her ink up and dress like a slut and bad things happened. Boo hoo

Wow, you're the very definition of blame the victim.


argh, DON'T!  The ignoring of the troll was going splendidly...  now you've given him hope.
 
  2013-04-10 09:27:43 AM
Gyrfalcon: Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.

If you're underage, you cannot consent. If you're underage, you cannot consent. Oh, and if you're underage, you cannot consent. But in case there was any question, there are other laws that say if you're underage, you cannot consent.

And in re this: Why are 4men who raped a 15 yr old + distributed photographic evidence of their crime walking free today?

Why are her classmates who gang-raped her again by slut-shaming her also walking around free today? I hope every single one of them feels like the rotten turd on a snake's belly that they are right now.


It's instinctive behavior that derives from when we were arboreal primates with a tribal social structure.  Adolescent primates need to establish their place in the social hierarchy in order to ensure access to food/water and mates.  Lowering the status of others is one way of elevating one's own relative status.  Biologically speaking, teenagers are supposed to be bullying each other.  Of course, because we are rational beings we recognize that it's wrong.  But that realization doesn't usually come until well after we are through our teenage years.  So even though you can talk to a teenager about why bullying is wrong and we ought to do something about it, they will cheerfully agree with you and then turn around and go slut-shame some girl for getting raped by the varsity lacrosse team.  They simply can't recognize that their behavior is wrong because of the irresistible instinct to lower the status of their social rivals.  That's why you hear things like "she deserved it" and "she should have known what she was getting into."  Those are attempts to deflect the rational realization that what they instinctively desire to do is wrong.

Study just about any species of primate that has a tribal social structure.  Watch how the adolescents behave.  Then apply that to what you see in any high school in America.  Until educators understand the evolutionary and biological imperative to bully, they'll never be able to "solve" the bullying problem.
 
  2013-04-10 09:27:55 AM
give me doughnuts: Age of consent can be somewhat flexible based on the age of the other party. In Canada, it is 16, but minors aged 14-15 may consent to sex with someone less that five years older than they are; minors aged 12-13 can consent to sex with a partner less than two years older.

Her age likely wouldn't matter in this instance anyway. It sounds like she was too drunk to consent.
 
  2013-04-10 09:29:00 AM
miscreant: Mid_mo_mad_man: I wouldn't be surpised if thats the truth. Parents were most likely clueless to how she lived. They let her ink up and dress like a slut and bad things happened. Boo hoo

Wow, you're the very definition of blame the victim.


He's showing little compassion, but contributory negligence is a real thing.  If you had actuaries make risk assessments on your everyday life, you can be sure the things you do to your body and the way you dress would affect those assessments
 
  2013-04-10 09:29:10 AM
orbister: SpiderQueenDemon: That, and being the IT consultant, I have the moral obligation to report anyone who uploads or shares sexual pictures of a minor as a purveyor or creator of child pornography.

What benefits do you see in legal action against 15 year old girls who send naked pictures of themselves to their boyfriends?



Well, if I 'm on the jury, then I'll get to look at the pics. There's your "benefit" right there.
 
  2013-04-10 09:30:41 AM

miscreant: Mid_mo_mad_man: I wouldn't be surpised if thats the truth. Parents were most likely clueless to how she lived. They let her ink up and dress like a slut and bad things happened. Boo hoo

Wow, you're the very definition of blame the victim.




First I highly doubt she was a victim. Some guys probaly pulled a train on her and she regretted later. That said ladies need to be more proactive in protecting themselves. Don't get drunk and expect everyone to behave like gentlemen.
 
  2013-04-10 09:31:04 AM
Oh, and Retaeh? Wow. Nevaeh was the oldschool "different" name.
 
  2013-04-10 09:35:58 AM
Unrealistic Decoy: This is very sad. My home town of Halifax is a shameful place sometimes. The school, the RCMP (Canadian nation police), the kids involved, their parents, and the justice system have all failed this girl and her family. Here are a whole bunch of things I don't get:

What I don't get is how you feel your in a position to pass judgement on another person when you have no idea what happened. Care to explain how it is that you know more than the people who conducted the investigation?

What's sickening to me about all this is how many of you are willing to send people to prison without proof of a crime being committed.
 
  2013-04-10 09:37:26 AM
Langdon_777: At the least let us shame the four boys involved.

There was one picture showing one boy having sex with her. What the hell is wrong with you?
 
  2013-04-10 09:38:15 AM
Mid_mo_mad_man: miscreant: Mid_mo_mad_man: I wouldn't be surpised if thats the truth. Parents were most likely clueless to how she lived. They let her ink up and dress like a slut and bad things happened. Boo hoo

Wow, you're the very definition of blame the victim.

First I highly doubt she was a victim. Some guys probaly pulled a train on her and she regretted later. That said ladies need to be more proactive in protecting themselves. Don't get drunk and expect everyone to behave like gentlemen.


Thank you so much for that deeply insightful comment.

Hope you have daughters some day.  Lots and lots of daughters.
 
  2013-04-10 09:39:42 AM
Marcus Aurelius: Thank you so much for that deeply insightful comment.

Hope you have daughters some day. Lots and lots of daughters.


As was pointed out to me above, he's a troll, best to ignore him.
 
  2013-04-10 09:40:17 AM
cajunns: It's beyond the time when vigilantism should make a appearance...maybe 4 corpses hanging from trees would make rapists and bullies have second thoughts

If criminals had long term planning skills, they wouldn't be criminals in the first place.
 
  2013-04-10 09:40:32 AM
I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant
 
  2013-04-10 09:40:40 AM
miscreant: Marcus Aurelius: Thank you so much for that deeply insightful comment.

Hope you have daughters some day. Lots and lots of daughters.

As was pointed out to me above, he's a troll, best to ignore him.


Sorry.  There's so many around here I can't keep track of them.  I'll be sure to color him in appropriately.
 
  2013-04-10 09:43:45 AM
Gyrfalcon: Lsherm: doglover: Bucky Katt: Why are the rapists not in jail?

Due process, most likely. I bet those photos weren't as slam dunk as we'd like to think. Terrible story.

A photo is an instant in time, so even if it showed her having sex with someone, it's possible there wasn't any way to deduce consent or not from it.  Since it sounds like the attackers were also underage, that further complicates matters.

Terrible story all around, and at the very least I hope it gets spread around so other girls get some help before it comes to this.  Being a teenager was bad enough in the early 80's, I can't imagine my worst moments being played out on social media.  It's awful to think about.

Generally speaking, if you're underage you cannot consent, because if you're underage, you cannot consent. And even if the other party is underage, neither of you can consent, so it's not that complicated, as there was no consent. Because since both of them were underage, there was no consent. Primarily because they could not consent.

I'm not sure why everyone is having so much trouble with this concept.


Age of consent doesn't work that way in Canada.
 
  2013-04-10 09:44:47 AM
StreetlightInTheGhetto: oh stfu.

straight-A student whose favourite subject was science.


And that proves....what exactly?  Did you happen to see the pics she posted of bongs, her drinking and showing off all the tattoos?  Perhaps you think speculation on situations like this only applies to poor students who, dare I say it, are minorities.  But you just go ahead and believe everything you hear.  I'm not saying she wasn't raped, I'm just speculating on other scenarios based on what I see because you see, none of us know what happened.

precious_crotchflake: you and Popcorn Johnny should really hook up. Each of you is about as good as the other's going to get.

Again, just go on and believe everything you read without question.  It's people not willing to question anything that scares me most.  You may think I'm all messed up and that's cool.  Meanwhile I'll make sure to pay attention to what my kids are doing and making damn sure that my 15 year old daughter isn't sporting tattoos and disappearing all night to get drunk with her friends.

Excuse me while I go take care of my kids now.  Forum fun time is over, time to be a dad.  What are you doing?
 
  2013-04-10 09:44:48 AM
It's been a few years since I read it, but didn't "The Godfather" start like that? A man's daughter is raped, the rapists walk due to the crappy legal system and the aggrieved father (an old world fellow who had an old world sense of honor) appealed to Don Corleone for justice.

The rapists didn't make it.

/I love a happy book.
 
  2013-04-10 09:45:26 AM
MBK: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

Okay, so at least arrest the kids for distributing child pornography.  Investigate it more.  Talk to people.  Do policework instead of "oh it was just some dumb 15 year old slut".

That's what rape culture is about, when you blame the victim for being a victim instead of blaming the violators of raping.

F*ck you.


Exactly! Couldn't have said it better MBK.

My heart goes out to her, her family and all the other victims of this evil crime.

A mother and father shouldn't have to train their little girls in hand-to-hand combat and escape techniques to survive teenagehood.

Parents of boys need to teach their boys ethics and how to NOT rape!!

/I hope justice is done in this case.
 
  2013-04-10 09:45:45 AM

Marcus Aurelius: miscreant: Marcus Aurelius: Thank you so much for that deeply insightful comment.

Hope you have daughters some day. Lots and lots of daughters.

As was pointed out to me above, he's a troll, best to ignore him.

Sorry.  There's so many around here I can't keep track of them.  I'll be sure to color him in appropriately.




Instead of allowing a variety of opinions lets just label everyone a troll.
That being said ladies have to take care of themselves because no one else will.
 
  2013-04-10 09:46:41 AM
Poor girl.  I hope she finds some peace.
 
  2013-04-10 09:47:35 AM
She rides the cock carousel like a champ, goes full attention-whore, gets tatted up, drinks like a sailor and dresses like a cheap prostitute.

Then she wonders why no one wants her except for use as a fark-hole.
 
  2013-04-10 09:49:04 AM
That's a shame. She was a cute kid. It's always the pretty ones...

Welp, ready the gallows and round up a posse.

0.tqn.com

/Eye for an eye
 
  2013-04-10 09:49:34 AM
Alonjar: Every time you take a picture with your cell phone, the phone encodes hidden data in the image file to identify who took the picture and where via gps coordinates.

The EXIF data on my phone says when the picture was taken (well, when the camera thought it was taken, which is not necessarily the same thing) and what type of device was used to take it. It doesn't say where, perhaps because I have location information set off, and it doesn't say on what particular device it was taken. So there is no way, as far as I can see, of linking a particular picture to my phone and therefore to me.
 
  2013-04-10 09:50:53 AM
Popcorn Johnny: Unrealistic Decoy: This is very sad. My home town of Halifax is a shameful place sometimes. The school, the RCMP (Canadian nation police), the kids involved, their parents, and the justice system have all failed this girl and her family. Here are a whole bunch of things I don't get:

What I don't get is how you feel your in a position to pass judgement on another person when you have no idea what happened. Care to explain how it is that you know more than the people who conducted the investigation?

What's sickening to me about all this is how many of you are willing to send people to prison without proof of a crime being committed.


Wow you really are a piece of work.

Prison is not necessary, just names and pics - that way the mob can deal with it.

And as for your 'only one involved' - there was at least a second, he took the pic.

Let the internets know who they are, let us shine a bright light on them, just like these creeps shone a light on her moment of .... whatever.
 
  2013-04-10 09:50:56 AM
BarkingUnicorn: Popcorn Johnny: There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

Link

"The family said they were told the photographs were not a criminal issue even though Rehtaeh was underage."

Huh.  Wonder how that worked.


I bet if cops find one on my computer it would be.
 
  2013-04-10 09:51:43 AM
luxup: StreetlightInTheGhetto: oh stfu.

straight-A student whose favourite subject was science.

And that proves....what exactly?  Did you happen to see the pics she posted of bongs, her drinking and showing off all the tattoos?  Perhaps you think speculation on situations like this only applies to poor students who, dare I say it, are minorities.  But you just go ahead and believe everything you hear.  I'm not saying she wasn't raped, I'm just speculating on other scenarios based on what I see because you see, none of us know what happened.

precious_crotchflake: you and Popcorn Johnny should really hook up. Each of you is about as good as the other's going to get.

Again, just go on and believe everything you read without question.  It's people not willing to question anything that scares me most.  You may think I'm all messed up and that's cool.  Meanwhile I'll make sure to pay attention to what my kids are doing and making damn sure that my 15 year old daughter isn't sporting tattoos and disappearing all night to get drunk with her friends.

Excuse me while I go take care of my kids now.  Forum fun time is over, time to be a dad.  What are you doing?


the only thing sadder than a bad troll is a bad troll that tries SO hard.
 
  2013-04-10 09:54:38 AM
Tatterdemalian: Threads like this make me wonder if all the sex comedies from the 90s, where alcohol is jokingly declared to be the most important part of the human mating ritual, will one day evoke as much revulsion and horror in polite society as 1920s racial humor does.

/it was a different time
//a time when any guy could get laid, if he could get his date drunk enough


Hardly confined to poor naive women being plied with alcohol by men. The literature is full of men waking up next to women with whom they would not have slept if they were sober. There's even a slang phrase for it in the UK: a Romford Rotweiler is an Essex  woman so ugly that you would rather chew your own arm off and make your escape than wake her up by pulling it out from under her in the morning.
 
  2013-04-10 09:58:08 AM
give me doughnuts: Well, if I 'm on the jury, then I'll get to look at the pics. There's your "benefit" right there.

I do have a certain curiosity about someone who boasts that he spends a lot of his professional time looking for naked and sexually explicit pictures of children on servers. But hey, he's doing it to report them to the police, so that's OK.
 
  2013-04-10 09:58:31 AM
Phinn: She rides the cock carousel like a champ, goes full attention-whore, gets tatted up, drinks like a sailor and dresses like a cheap prostitute.

Then she wonders why no one wants her except for use as a fark-hole.


Even though you're clearly a straight bullshiat troll, everything we say and do has consequences.

You'll end up paying for that cruel comment.  When something bad happens to you I hope you think back on just how awful what you said was and remember you had it coming.

/good luck
 
  2013-04-10 09:59:17 AM
The legal system need not even become involved here.
Anon. will out them and then someone with a pair will take care of the boys.
 
  2013-04-10 09:59:20 AM
orbister: Tatterdemalian: Threads like this make me wonder if all the sex comedies from the 90s, where alcohol is jokingly declared to be the most important part of the human mating ritual, will one day evoke as much revulsion and horror in polite society as 1920s racial humor does.

/it was a different time
//a time when any guy could get laid, if he could get his date drunk enough

Hardly confined to poor naive women being plied with alcohol by men. The literature is full of men waking up next to women with whom they would not have slept if they were sober. There's even a slang phrase for it in the UK: a Romford Rotweiler is an Essex  woman so ugly that you would rather chew your own arm off and make your escape than wake her up by pulling it out from under her in the morning.


Been there *shame*

Alcohol is bad!!!

Legalise pot :D (never had that experience when just stoned.)
 
  2013-04-10 10:01:34 AM
Tenatra: I did some crawling, would you all care to take a glimpse inside her mind?

Twitter - https://twitter.com/rprsnsxo
Instagram - http://in.5thvillage.com/u/rprsnsxo/
Tumblr - http://rprsns.tumblr.com/
WeHeartIt - http://weheartit.com/rprsns


/oooo look at that side boob action on Instagram
[distilleryimage6.s3.amazonaws.com image 306x306]

/also

[distilleryimage3.s3.amazonaws.com image 612x612]

*cue the comments about how she was begging to get raped again. Maybe even throw the friend in the bg in for a twofer


One of her pics:
data.whicdn.com
 
  2013-04-10 10:04:42 AM
Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?

It is a phrase which on fark is generally used by those whose objection to rape is not that other people have been raped but that they themselves might be. It's a way of grabbing attention from the real victims - those who have actually had the horrible experience of rape - and claiming victim status as someone who might be at risk from rape.

There are only a few posters who trot it out and since they never seem to appear in the same thread I have my suspicions that there are rather fewer real people than logins involved.
 
  2013-04-10 10:07:21 AM
Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant


Correct, there isn't a rape culture here.

However, there has always been that small clique of teen boys that do everything together including getting into trouble.  On rare occasion you hear of one that graduates from petty vandalism and minor misdemeanors to felony level stuff.  In my own community, a very good friend of my sister who was 10 or 11 that was molested pretty badly by such a group, long before there was a World Wide Web and cheap digital photography and easy file sharing (there was Polaroid cameras of course but thankfully I don't believe they had one).

Those that "graduate" to felonies like that usually end up in juvie hall and most spend most of their life in and out of prison.

Oh and...looking at the photos in the links of that girl in Canada, I can tell you she was heading for serious trouble and the parents should have reigned her in long before she ended up in a bad situation.  Too late.  That in no way absolves the scum that took advantage of her, but some times the best way not to get mugged is to stop going in bad neighborhoods.
 
  2013-04-10 10:07:38 AM
Ray_Peranus: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=cmHETvyk6eA#

Who Needs Rape Culture?


Right off the bat he defines it improperly, and then goes about trying to make his point in a manner that demonstrates how he misses the point.
 
  2013-04-10 10:08:20 AM
vygramul: One of her pics:

Which one did she go with? Oh, right.
 
  2013-04-10 10:09:01 AM
ZoSo_the_Crowe: FTA: "Rape culture"

Hoo boy there's a great trolling buzzword.

http://evebitfirst.wordpress.com/2011/05/18/a-man-is-a-rape-supporte r- if/


What a bunch of small, liberal arts college, Womyn's Studies Program bullshiat that was...
 
  2013-04-10 10:12:37 AM
orbister: Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?

It is a phrase which on fark is generally used by those whose objection to rape is not that other people have been raped but that they themselves might be. It's a way of grabbing attention from the real victims - those who have actually had the horrible experience of rape - and claiming victim status as someone who might be at risk from rape.

There are only a few posters who trot it out and since they never seem to appear in the same thread I have my suspicions that there are rather fewer real people than logins involved.


never mind orbister, Maul.  He's  a bitter dude who CAN'T STAND that women get attention on an issue where men generally don't. You know, the kind that almost pees his pants while he cuts-and-pastes from his saved files of all the MRA male rape stats whenever we're talking about a girl or woman who was raped.

I have him fark labeled as such and I imagine there is a fair number of other Farkers who do as well.
 
  2013-04-10 10:12:46 AM
precious_crotchflake: the only thing sadder than a bad troll is a bad troll that tries SO hard.

All I did was point out the obvious which doesn't really require any effort.  Riddle me this Batman:  If I am the troll, why is it that you don't have any thoughts of your own and only seem to reply to what other people post?
 
  2013-04-10 10:14:03 AM
luxup: precious_crotchflake: the only thing sadder than a bad troll is a bad troll that tries SO hard.

All I did was point out the obvious which doesn't really require any effort.  Riddle me this Batman:  If I am the troll, why is it that you don't have any thoughts of your own and only seem to reply to what other people post?


did you abandon your kids to post this?  You are a crappy dad.  Hope they don't end up like this girl did all on account of you.
 
  2013-04-10 10:14:27 AM
TeddyRooseveltsMustache: That's a shame. She was a cute kid. It's always the pretty ones...

Welp, ready the gallows and round up a posse.

[0.tqn.com image 500x336]

/Eye for an eye


Actually lex talionis would demand they be raped themselves. Welcome to the wacky world of true justice. You don't really want it defining the legal system and it's rarely satisfying.
 
  2013-04-10 10:15:42 AM
Sorry but the RCMP isn't perfect but they generally reserve the space under the rug for hiding their own internal misconducts, and for not defending rapists. If they say there isn't sufficient evidence for a conviction then there probably isn't and a trial wouldn't accomplish anything other than waste taxpayer money.

This is a sad story but there is literally nothing else that the legal system can do. That doesn't mean the legal system is broken, the system is designed to err on the side of caution when it comes to convictions. This is a universally held concept within the western world and it exists for many very good reasons. I don't like rape any more than anybody else but as terrible as it sounds I'd rather have these rapists and a hundred more walk away from their crimes than one innocent person be convicted of rape.

/I'm probably going to be farkied as a rapist now
//oh well.
 
  2013-04-10 10:19:51 AM
Well it's obvious she wasn't a christian Farkers are being way too nice to her
 
  2013-04-10 10:20:27 AM
OscarTamerz: Here's a news story of a virtually identical crime from 2006 except the police ended up arresting the victim.

Yep, there is probably a pretty good reason the police didn't prosecute the boys. Maybe a month went by between the event and the pictures being passed around and only after the parents became aware of it did any mention of rape occur? Maybe the pictures show consensual sex? Maybe the girl is the town bike and she made up the whole story about a rape to get back at some of the jerks she shouldn't have had sex with? Maybe that is why the other girls at school were calling her a slut - because the pictures showed an all to willing participant? And the ink (at 16, is that legal?), whorish outfits, and blatant drug use make her look just like the village whore that we all cared so much about when we were young.

Oh, and apparently the PARENTS were the ones that insisted that she was the victim. Well, now she really is one. Being a teenager still suck.

Also -
retroslashers.net
 
  2013-04-10 10:20:32 AM
orbister: Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?

It is a phrase which on fark is generally used by those whose objection to rape is not that other people have been raped but that they themselves might be. It's a way of grabbing attention from the real victims - those who have actually had the horrible experience of rape - and claiming victim status as someone who might be at risk from rape.

There are only a few posters who trot it out and since they never seem to appear in the same thread I have my suspicions that there are rather fewer real people than logins involved.


Declaration that you're a part of rape culture in 3... 2...

/poisoning the well: back in style, because the Holocaust can't make logical reasoning popular forevet
 
  2013-04-10 10:20:54 AM
doglover: This is supported by totally healthy people don't usually an hero even when traumatized,

Interdasting
 
  2013-04-10 10:21:00 AM
precious_crotchflake:
never mind orbister, Maul.  He's  a bitter dude who CAN'T STAND that women get attention on an issue where men generally don't. You know, the kind that almost pees his pants while he cuts-and-pastes from his saved files of all the MRA male rape stats whenever we're talking about a girl or woman who was raped.

I'm sorry you feel like that. I believe that rape is a dreadful crime made worse both by institutional reluctance to take it seriously (about which something can be done) and by the legal difficulties of establishing issues of consent after an event (about which very little can be done). I have little time for the MRA people, who I believe are in general are unpleasant chauvinists, and I think the only time I have posted anything on male rape was on the differences between the UK legal systems regarding it; Scots law now recognises that men can be raped while English law does not. I have no saved files on male rape statistics and I don't think I have ever posted any.

I have him fark labeled as such and I imagine there is a fair number of other Farkers who do as well.

I can do little about your misconception save to say that I regret them. Have a nice day and look after yourself.
 
  2013-04-10 10:22:25 AM
precious_crotchflake: luxup: did you abandon your kids to post this?  You are a crappy dad.  Hope they don't end up like this girl did all on account of you.

Yeah, because it's impossible to read, type and watch your kids play.

"This one displeases me"
//toss away
 
  2013-04-10 10:24:23 AM
Egoy3k:  and for not defending rapists

wow oops that should read "and not for defending rapists"
 
  2013-04-10 10:24:30 AM
Egoy3k: Sorry but the RCMP isn't perfect but they generally reserve the space under the rug for hiding their own internal misconducts, and for not defending rapists. If they say there isn't sufficient evidence for a conviction then there probably isn't and a trial wouldn't accomplish anything other than waste taxpayer money.

This is a sad story but there is literally nothing else that the legal system can do. That doesn't mean the legal system is broken, the system is designed to err on the side of caution when it comes to convictions. This is a universally held concept within the western world and it exists for many very good reasons. I don't like rape any more than anybody else but as terrible as it sounds I'd rather have these rapists and a hundred more walk away from their crimes than one innocent person be convicted of rape.

/I'm probably going to be farkied as a rapist now
//oh well.


No you will not.

But that doesn't mean we cannot know the names and see pics of the 'innocent' ;-)

No crime involved in the details of her experience being shared around, no crime involved in us knowing the details of the sharers.

We all have to live together, be a prick, expect to get pricked.
 
  2013-04-10 10:25:02 AM
Egoy3k: Sorry but the RCMP isn't perfect but they generally reserve the space under the rug for hiding their own internal misconducts, and for not defending rapists. If they say there isn't sufficient evidence for a conviction then there probably isn't and a trial wouldn't accomplish anything other than waste taxpayer money.

This is a sad story but there is literally nothing else that the legal system can do. That doesn't mean the legal system is broken, the system is designed to err on the side of caution when it comes to convictions. This is a universally held concept within the western world and it exists for many very good reasons. I don't like rape any more than anybody else but as terrible as it sounds I'd rather have these rapists and a hundred more walk away from their crimes than one innocent person be convicted of rape.

/I'm probably going to be farkied as a rapist now
//oh well.


Here in the US recently Brian Banks, a guy who had a promising athletic career, was released from jail after 5 years of incarceration for a rape that never happen.  His story at least has something of a happy ending in that at 27 he was picked up by the Atlanta Falcons.  But he lost at least a few years or so off his career for nothing.
 
  2013-04-10 10:27:58 AM
Tatterdemalian: Declaration that you're a part of rape culture in 3... 2...

Already happened, alas. It's a shame, because I have no doubt that social and legal attitudes to rape need constant revision, and branding anyone who disagrees with any aspects of one extreme position as "pro-rape" or "part of rape culture" devalues the whole debate. It is possible to think that accused rapists should get fair trials without advocating that all men carry Rohypnol just in case.
 
  2013-04-10 10:28:10 AM
I only read the first page of TFT; was Pocket Ninja correct in his presumption once this went green?
 
  2013-04-10 10:28:30 AM
Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant


Rape culture is a term used to describe both de facto and de jure instantiations of a particular cluster of mindsets that seek to eliminate, dismiss, or ignore the fundamental rights of women to be able to be the ultimate decider in who she sleeps with and when. It is not unique to the United States. It runs the gamut of laws that have said that married women cannot be considered to have ever been raped by her husband, in spite of her protests, to cultural and subcultural ideas that suggest the way a woman was dressed or her past sexual history should be primary factors in considering whether or not to consider a particular instance a rape or not. It includes the view held by some that under any circumstances men are owed sex by women for any of the following: being nice to them, paying for dinner on a date, not having molested or raped them when they were drunk in the past, etc. Rape culture is a mindset that argues if she cannot say no, say for being too intoxicated - as was attempted by the defense attorney in the Steubenville trial - than she wasn't raped. Rape culture will argue simultaneously that if a rape accuser did not fight off her attacker she wasn't really raped AND that she is responsible for an assault becoming a rape for having tried to fight her attacker off, thus making her attacker more enraged and exculpating him for his reactions. It is a mindset that is more concerned about the consequences of the less than 2% of instances of false accusations of rape than the 20% of women who are raped at least once in their lifetime (of which approximately 2% will ever see their attacker end up in prison). Rape culture considers it more important for men to be able to have sexual gratification than for women to have autonomous control over her body. And, in doing so, in addition to the complete and utter contempt it has for women, it degrades men by removing from men the capacity to be in control of our bodies, of our sexual urges. It is very real, and not every aspect of it is clear-cut. And we all need to open our eyes to this dark aspect of our societies.
 
  2013-04-10 10:30:47 AM
Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant


Rape culture is where the heinous act itself is condoned rather than condemned. Where we're free to defend rapists and blame the victim. Were a victim can be hounded out of his/her own society because of a damaged "reputation". A female Private can accuse a Sergeant of rape and be awarded with dishonorable discharge while he stays in a position of authority where he can perpetrate the crime again with little to no consequence. A teenage girl is allowed to be called a slut and adults do little to nothing about it until she ODs on pills. It's insidious and it bleeds through every level of society because we allow perpetrators to think that it's ok.
 
  2013-04-10 10:31:31 AM
Langdon_777: But that doesn't mean we cannot know the names and see pics of the 'innocent' ;-)

No crime involved in the details of her experience being shared around, no crime involved in us knowing the details of the sharers.

We all have to live together, be a prick, expect to get pricked.


We have very strict laws in Canada about publishing the names and pictures of young offenders in the justice system. That includes accused who haven't gone to trial. I'm sure the community knows and I'm sure those involved could be found with very little digging but you will never see their names or pictures in the media.
 
  2013-04-10 10:31:55 AM
I hope these little shiatheads get arrested and they become someones little biatch for the rest of their farking lives!
 
  2013-04-10 10:36:00 AM
tmcottle: I hope these little shiatheads get arrested and they become someones little biatch for the rest of their farking lives!

Two wrongs don't make a right and wishing for prison rape is one of the more vile cliches of Fark. You aren't helping, not even a little. Rape is unacceptable in any circumstance.
 
  2013-04-10 10:36:14 AM
There are at least three misogynist blame-the-victim assholes in this thread who need to DIAF, literally.

I am not joking.

/this thread almost makes me ashamed to be male
 
  2013-04-10 10:36:23 AM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.


You can diagnose from a photo? Are you Bill Frist?
 
  2013-04-10 10:36:54 AM
KatjaMouse: Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant

Rape culture is where the heinous act itself is condoned rather than condemned. Where we're free to defend rapists and blame the victim. Were a victim can be hounded out of his/her own society because of a damaged "reputation". A female Private can accuse a Sergeant of rape and be awarded with dishonorable discharge while he stays in a position of authority where he can perpetrate the crime again with little to no consequence. A teenage girl is allowed to be called a slut and adults do little to nothing about it until she ODs on pills. It's insidious and it bleeds through every level of society because we allow perpetrators to think that it's ok.


/me looks around

So no widespread rape culture in the western world then... Thanks....
 
  2013-04-10 10:38:05 AM
Egoy3k: Langdon_777: But that doesn't mean we cannot know the names and see pics of the 'innocent' ;-)

No crime involved in the details of her experience being shared around, no crime involved in us knowing the details of the sharers.

We all have to live together, be a prick, expect to get pricked.

We have very strict laws in Canada about publishing the names and pictures of young offenders in the justice system. That includes accused who haven't gone to trial. I'm sure the community knows and I'm sure those involved could be found with very little digging but you will never see their names or pictures in the media.


Ah but I do not live in Canada, so please feel free to share :D

The boys involved didn't seem to care about sharing around her pic and lets face it they are innocent of any crime, so what is the harm in giving their names and pics to the world at large?
 
  2013-04-10 10:38:40 AM
Egoy3k: tmcottle: I hope these little shiatheads get arrested and they become someones little biatch for the rest of their farking lives!

Two wrongs don't make a right and wishing for prison rape is one of the more vile cliches of Fark. You aren't helping, not even a little. Rape is unacceptable in any circumstance.


Okay, if it was my daughter.........I would kill the shiatheads!
 
  2013-04-10 10:39:23 AM
Trapper439: There are at least three misogynist blame-the-victim assholes in this thread who need to DIAF, literally.

Just three? That's actually not too bad for a main page rape thread.
 
  2013-04-10 10:39:55 AM
Giant Clown Shoe: Phinn: She rides the cock carousel like a champ, goes full attention-whore, gets tatted up, drinks like a sailor and dresses like a cheap prostitute.

Then she wonders why no one wants her except for use as a fark-hole.

Even though you're clearly a straight bullshiat troll, everything we say and do has consequences.

You'll end up paying for that cruel comment.  When something bad happens to you I hope you think back on just how awful what you said was and remember you had it coming.

/good luck


Thanks for the well-wishes, but I suspect you completely missed my point.

I think it's really sad that she killed herself.  But it didn't happen in a vacuum.  She wasn't sitting in her bedroom, quietly studying her beloved science textbook when a mad, bearded lunatic stranger crept in through her window, kidnapped her and raped her under a bridge.

She clearly had some bad ideas about how the world works.  Those bad ideas led to her being raped (if it was rape) and her suicide that followed.

One of the contributing factors here was therefore this set of ideas that led her to behave this way.  But, for some reason, NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO QUESTION THESE IDEAS.

You probably don't even see what I'm talking about.  But let's change the context.  Imagine that psychedelic drugs were not illegal.  Let's say that there were a broad cultural movement that repeatedly encouraged adolescent males to believe that a really great way to act is the Vagabond Lifestyle -- they are told that, to be really happy and fulfilled as a young man today, they need to divest themselves of all their material possessions, get deeply involved in psychedelic drug use, hang out with other drug users, and listen to all kinds of weird music in seedy places.  One of the key elements of this lifestyle is to have no fixed address, and to float on the seas of chance.  Ah, freedom!  Ah, spontaneity!  Who could dispute the value of these things?  This is what it means to be a man!

But let's say that people start to notice that this type of behavior leads to some young men finding themselves deeply unhappy later in life.  They miss out on marriage, having kids, meaningful careers they otherwise would have had, and being generally rejected by the kind of women that they would prefer that like them in return.

And, let's say that for a substantial number of them, their lives end up far worse - these men end up more than with just a vague, gnawing sense of life-dissatisfaction.  Some of them end up living in cardboard boxes, and sucking cock in dark alleys for a dollar just to get enough to eat.  And every now and then, the guys who suck cock for money get the crap kicked out of them and their shoes get stolen.

How would you react to this situation?  Is it a crime that the Vagabond Lifestyle devotee, poor unfortunate young man that he is, got his ribs kicked in and shoes stolen?  Yes, of course.  He's a victim here.

But, somewhere along the way, someone might stop to ask how all these young men are getting into that situation in the first place.  Especially if this unfortunate life story were a pattern that seemed to occur a lot.

What would people say about the cultural movement that promoted this Vagabond Lifestyle?  Would it be socially permissible to criticize it?  Would people be shamed into silence if they DARED to point out that there is a rather OBVIOUS connection between ending up alone and dissatisfied, or even worse (destitute, sucking cock, and a victim of brutal crimes just to take your shoes)?

Or would it be OK with you if someone were to come along and say, "Hey, there's a direct correlation between the Vagabond Lifestyle and ending up with nothing, and also increasing your risk of being victimized."?

I don't blame this young girl.

I blame her parents, and all of the other people in her life (many of whom she didn't even know, i.e., those who controlled her media consumption) who repeatedly taught her that getting tatted up, dressing like a street whore, chasing cock, and getting sot drunk around a bunch of horny teenagers is a good idea.

Someone might have taken her aside at some point and said, "There's a direct correlation between your lifestyle and ending up dissatisfied with how other people treat you -- they will tend to think of you only as a warm hole, at best, and at worst, an unwilling warm hole when you aren't in a position to resist."

But, apparently, I'm not allowed to say these things.
 
  2013-04-10 10:41:44 AM
I can't judge either party as I don't know what happened but I feel it's crazy that someone would kill themselves over bullying.  She could have moved, started over, got off the internet, changed her name, anything is better than killing yourself.
 
  2013-04-10 10:41:51 AM
KatjaMouse: Rape culture is where the heinous act itself is condoned rather than condemned. Where we're free to defend rapists and blame the victim. Were a victim can be hounded out of his/her own society because of a damaged "reputation". A female Private can accuse a Sergeant of rape and be awarded with dishonorable discharge while he stays in a position of authority where he can perpetrate the crime again with little to no consequence. A teenage girl is allowed to be called a slut and adults do little to nothing about it until she ODs on pills. It's insidious and it bleeds through every level of society because we allow perpetrators to think that it's ok.

And women can make up stories and send men to jail for years.

And the whole 'being drunk' excuse is BS.

If a woman gets drunk and decides to have sex - she is a victim.
If a woman gets drunk and gets in the car - she is a criminal.
 
  2013-04-10 10:42:16 AM
KatjaMouse: Rape culture is where the heinous act itself is condoned rather than condemned. Where we're free to defend rapists and blame the victim.

My problem with this is in the use of the word "culture", which suggest to me that these repulsive attitudes are being suggested as widespread in society. There may well be small groups which amongst themselves condone rape amongst other sexual misbehaviours, but I simply do not accept that it is typical of our society.

In fact, I think the western world is getting steadily more stringent on what constitutes rape and on how it should be treated. Marital rape was abolished in the UK in 1991, male rape was recognised by the Scots legal system in 2010 and behaviour by a string of TV celebrities which was treated as a perk of fame in the 60s, 70s and 80s is occupying a lot of police time here and will soon occupy a lot of court time and a lot of headlines.

If you want to see what a rape culture looks like, see tribal Pakistan, where village elders routinely order gang rape as a punishment for the most minor social and sexual transgressions.
 
  2013-04-10 10:42:25 AM
Private_Citizen: It's been a few years since I read it, but didn't "The Godfather" start like that? A man's daughter is raped, the rapists walk due to the crappy legal system and the aggrieved father (an old world fellow who had an old world sense of honor) appealed to Don Corleone for justice.

The rapists didn't make it.

/I love a happy book.


Yep.  Guy did it the legal way and got screwed.  So he called Don Vito to have them permanently rearranged.


Of course, the cost was doing Sonny's funeral.
 
  2013-04-10 10:43:52 AM
Kome: Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant

Rape culture is a term used to describe both de facto and de jure instantiations of a particular cluster of mindsets that seek to eliminate, dismiss, or ignore the fundamental rights of women to be able to be the ultimate decider in who she sleeps with and when. It is not unique to the United States. It runs the gamut of laws that have said that married women cannot be considered to have ever been raped by her husband, in spite of her protests, to cultural and subcultural ideas that suggest the way a woman was dressed or her past sexual history should be primary factors in considering whether or not to consider a particular instance a rape or not. It includes the view held by some that under any circumstances men are owed sex by women for any of the following: being nice to them, paying for dinner on a date, not having molested or raped them when they were drunk in the past, etc. Rape culture is a mindset that argues if she cannot say no, say for being too intoxicated - as was attempted by the defense attorney in the Steubenville trial - than she wasn't raped. Rape culture will argue simultaneously that if a rape accuser did not fight off her attacker she wasn't really raped AND that she is responsible for an assault becoming a rape for having tried to fight her attacker off, thus making her attacker more enraged and exculpating him for his reactions. It is a mindset that is more concerned about the consequences o ...


Wow. Well said. I knew I had you in green for a reason.
 
  2013-04-10 10:44:22 AM
tmcottle: Egoy3k: tmcottle: I hope these little shiatheads get arrested and they become someones little biatch for the rest of their farking lives!

Two wrongs don't make a right and wishing for prison rape is one of the more vile cliches of Fark. You aren't helping, not even a little. Rape is unacceptable in any circumstance.

Okay, if it was my daughter.........I would kill the shiatheads!


Sure and I wouldn't blame you I would feel the same way.

I would also fully support you being convicted of first degree murder.
 
  2013-04-10 10:44:53 AM
Lorelle: It REALLY makes me sick knowing that other females also attacked her after the fact.

Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.


I think partly it's because the don't want to think it could happen to them, so they have to come up with some way in their heads that the victim did something to bring it on herself.
 
  2013-04-10 10:46:49 AM
Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant


Rape Culture is the conglomerate of misunderstandings about rape and collateral consequences. For example:

Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.

If your first thought is how to mitigate the responsibility of the rapist, if your first instinct is to think she's lying, if your first move is to start listing things she should have done to avoid it, then you might just have been programmed by Rape Culture.

And it exists in one form or another, to one degree to another, throughout the world.
 
  2013-04-10 10:49:29 AM
orbister:  male rape was recognised by the Scots legal system in 2010

2010?

And we have the nerve to biatch about the Muslim countries who are (around) 100 years behind.

We do tend to suck as a race, it takes us a hell of a lot of pressure (bad shiat and individual suffering ... guess that is why was called the Suffrage Movement ;) before we get off our arses and change something.
 
  2013-04-10 10:49:42 AM
Egoy3k: tmcottle: Egoy3k: tmcottle: I hope these little shiatheads get arrested and they become someones little biatch for the rest of their farking lives!

Two wrongs don't make a right and wishing for prison rape is one of the more vile cliches of Fark. You aren't helping, not even a little. Rape is unacceptable in any circumstance.

Okay, if it was my daughter.........I would kill the shiatheads!

Sure and I wouldn't blame you I would feel the same way.

I would also fully support you being convicted of first degree murder.


Totally agree with you.
 
  2013-04-10 10:51:12 AM
vygramul: Maul555: I am confused.  WTF is rape culture?  I am pretty sure its a thing that only exists in the dark recesses of a fetish niche...    Why are people blaming a "rape culture" for this shiat?  There is no such thing as a widespread "rape culture" in this country, or anywhere in the western world for that matter.  We don't blame a "murder culture" for murder because that's farking stupid.  This rape culture bullshiat is equally as stupid here.  In india or the middle east this is actually a thing, but don't try to tag my people with this crap.

/end rant

Rape Culture is the conglomerate of misunderstandings about rape and collateral consequences. For example:

Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.

If your first thought is how to mitigate the responsibility of the rapist, if your first instinct is to think she's lying, if your first move is to start listing things she should have done to avoid it, then you might just have been programmed by Rape Culture.

And it exists in one form or another, to one degree to another, throughout the world.


yeah ummm.... I don't see this happening...
 
  2013-04-10 10:52:04 AM
hdhale:

Correct, there isn't a rape culture here.

However, there has always been that small clique of teen boys that do everything together including getting into trouble.  On rare occasion you hear of one that graduates from petty vandalism and minor misdemeanors to felony level stuff.  In my own community, a very good friend of my sister who was 10 or 11 that was molested pretty badly by such a group, long before there was a World Wide Web and cheap digital photography and easy file sharing (there was Polaroid cameras of course but thankfully I don't believe they had one).

Those that "graduate" to felonies like that usually end up in juvie hall and most spend most of their life in and out of prison.

Oh and...looking at the photos in the links of that girl in Canada, I can tell you she was heading for serious trouble and the parents should have reigned her in long before she ended up in a bad situation.  Too late.  That in no way absolves the scum that took advantage of her, but some times the best way not to get mugged is to stop going in bad neighborhoods.


So much THIS. Thank you for talking some real sense here.

I used to be a teen girl myself, and know too well what you are talking about. Mother felt that free love and feminism meant that I was seizing empowerment by going anywhere any time, dressed in anything,  and partying way the hell out of my age range. The best and only protection she gave was to put me on the pill at age twelve just in case I was "raped" (with air quotes, hers). Turns out, such enlightened living doesn't translate well with drunk neanderthals in dark alleys, or cops, or practically anyone else really. Just a failure of communication I suppose. But thank FSM this was before phone cameras and Facebook. I'm betting hidden camera fears have preserved more kids' virginity today than the AIDS crisis and all teen pregnancy TV shows combined.

Yeah, I do feel for this girl.
 
  2013-04-10 10:52:15 AM
giftedmadness: Well it's obvious she wasn't a christian Farkers are being way too nice to her

Or black.
 
  2013-04-10 10:53:03 AM
Phinn: Imagine that psychedelic drugs were not illegal.  Let's say that there were a broad cultural movement that repeatedly encouraged adolescent males to believe that a really great way to act is the Vagabond Lifestyle -- they are told that, to be really happy and fulfilled as a young man today, they need to divest themselves of all their material possessions, get deeply involved in psychedelic drug use, hang out with other drug users, and listen to all kinds of weird music in seedy places.  One of the key elements of this lifestyle is to have no fixed address, and to float on the seas of chance.  Ah, freedom!  Ah, spontaneity!  Who could dispute the value of these things?  This is what it means to be a man!

stormtyy.files.wordpress.com
 
  2013-04-10 10:54:29 AM
vygramul: Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.


These things are not pervasive throughout society, or even common, thank goodness.
 
  2013-04-10 10:54:37 AM
Langdon_777: Prison is not necessary, just names and pics - that way the mob can deal with it.

Ah yes, the Duke Lacrosse theory. How did that work out for you?

Because it didn't so well for the people whose lives got ruined by farkers like you.
 
  2013-04-10 10:59:07 AM
Langdon_777: orbister:  male rape was recognised by the Scots legal system in 2010

2010?

And we have the nerve to biatch about the Muslim countries who are (around) 100 years behind.


It's not quite as bad as it sounds. The act was an offence before then, but it was called "indecent assault" and not "rape" and carried the same maximum penalty of life imprisonment. It was a semantic change rather than a fundamental legal one.
 
  2013-04-10 10:59:13 AM
Maul555: yeah ummm.... I don't see this happening...

http://publicshaming.tumblr.com/post/45608534736/the-news-out-of-ste ub enville-today-is-a-small

was trying to find a jpg that had a shiatload of them together on a huge page but am having troubles. Anyways, this is kinda the gist of what people are talking about here in the western world.
 
  2013-04-10 11:00:14 AM
I wonder if her classmates are getting the standard counseling that kids get at school when a classmate kills themselves.

/divides by zero
 
  2013-04-10 11:00:28 AM
As soon as the ship is fixed I'll take some of you with me.
 
  2013-04-10 11:01:17 AM
Maul555: yeah ummm.... I don't see this happening...

That's because you have either been raised right in a family that approaches such things appropriately, or you simply haven't experienced what happens when many women get raped, or haven't been paying attention. Just look at this case. And Steubenville. You think these are outliers?

Go into a high school classroom that hasn't had the benefit of an actual discussion about something like this and ask the question if it's ok for a boy to fondle a girl who is passed out. You'll be dismayed at how many people answer in the affirmative. Ask how many think it's ok for a guy to rape a girl if he feels he "led him on". Ask how many think it's ok if the guy is just really, really horny. You want to hate humanity? You want to feel like you need a bath? Go do that.

And then come back and report how such widespread ideas are neither cultural nor about rape.
 
  2013-04-10 11:04:40 AM
Phinn: and being generally rejected by the kind of women that they would prefer that like them in return.

I read that as 'in rectum'
 
  2013-04-10 11:05:45 AM
orbister: vygramul: Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.

These things are not pervasive throughout society, or even common, thank goodness.


In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances.

31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience

(CITATION: White, Jacqueline W. and John A. Humphrey. "Young People's Attitudes Toward Acquaintance Rape." Acquaintance Rape: The Hidden crime." John Wiley and Sons, 1991)

I can go on and on, complete with citations.
 
  2013-04-10 11:08:18 AM
BarkingUnicorn: namatad: gonzoduke: Wait, that was a different article on the same story.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/nova-scotia-teen-kills- he rself-after-being-raped-bullied-online/article10940600/

"just days after the alleged rape. "

Can we STOP CALLING IT ALLEGED?
It was not an alleged rape. it was a RAPE.
She reported that she was raped to the police.
Period.

The people who raped her would best be called unconvicted rapists.
By calling it alleged, we continue to blame the victim.

I find your disrespect for fundamental human rights disturbing.


THIS.

I wish I had the option to downrate the original poster.

It is alleged because it has not been proven.

The "photos" were deemed not to be a criminal matter which likely means they show only that the girl was in the company of the boys in question but no nudity/sexual content. There wasn't enough evidence to charge them meaning DNA samples could not be obtained, or that they gave statements saying the sexual was consensual and there was no evidence obtained to the contrary (eye-witness accounts, defensive wounds, etc.).

I feel terrible for this girl but we have due process for a reason. I personally know a girl who made a false rape claim. Why? She was caught by a friend cheating on her boyfriend, so she claimed it was rape. The friend was my then-GF, and she dragged this girl to the police station to make a statement, because my then-GF fully believed the friend's story. So this girl files a statement saying "So and so forced me to have sex with him."

Days later she's bragging!! to friends about how she got away with cheating by filing a false report. This got back to my GF who confronted her and the girl admitted it. Lucky for her the police never filed charges because it was he-said she-said, and no one ever ratted her pathetic ass out for filing a false police report. My GF would have had the guy been charged because she felt responsible, but since it was dropped she did that one last favour for the friend, and no longer keeps in touch with her.

Not to say this is common, but it happens, and it's why we use the word "alleged" until a trial is held and the outcome (guilty or not) is determined.
 
  2013-04-10 11:08:59 AM
E5bie: I used to be a teen girl myself, and know too well what you are talking about. Mother felt that free love and feminism meant that I was seizing empowerment by going anywhere any time, dressed in anything,  and partying way the hell out of my age range.

There have been a couple of court cases here involving gangs of men grooming and raping teenage girls, often from broken homes or the care system. It has emerged, worryingly, that social workers knew what was going on but didn't like to do anything about it because they thought that the girls had a right to choose (sic) a sexual relationship (sic) at the age of 12 or 13 (sick) (sic).

That's not rape culture, though. It's an example of a bad judgement was made at a place where the rights of children to determine their own behaviour and the responsibility of adults to control that behaviour bang up against each other.

Sure, it's unlikely that a 13 year old can give informed consent to sex with a group of 40-something men in the grubby flat above a takeaway ... but can she give informed consent to sex with her 13 year old boyfriend? And if she can't (as I believe) how do we deal with it? I am sure that the answer is as much about empowering and liberating young women as it is about educating young men (the middle aged ones can rot in gaol).

But then, if we say that young women should be given control of their own sexuality, how do we deal with those who can't or don't exercise that control without blaming them for their victimhood? How do we tell a 12 year old that she can say "no" without also telling her that she can say "yes"?

I just don't know. These are difficult questions with ramifications throughout our society. We have the third highest teen pregnancy rate in Europe, though, so we have to do better.
 
  2013-04-10 11:11:25 AM
Phinn:
Your thought process is a bit confused, and your bio page suggests a strong affinity for negative feedback. Get your head checked and carry on. You're welcome.
 
  2013-04-10 11:11:41 AM
Maul555: KatjaMouse: Rape culture is where the heinous act itself is condoned rather than condemned. Where we're free to defend rapists and blame the victim. Were a victim can be hounded out of his/her own society because of a damaged "reputation". A female Private can accuse a Sergeant of rape and be awarded with dishonorable discharge while he stays in a position of authority where he can perpetrate the crime again with little to no consequence. A teenage girl is allowed to be called a slut and adults do little to nothing about it until she ODs on pills. It's insidious and it bleeds through every level of society because we allow perpetrators to think that it's ok.

/me looks around

So no widespread rape culture in the western world then... Thanks....


Just because you think you never participated in it yourself doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
 
  2013-04-10 11:11:52 AM
Want to tear your heart out and set in on fire?

Project Unbreakable

The worst ones are where parents and "friends" tell them it was their fault.
 
  2013-04-10 11:13:55 AM
vygramul: orbister: vygramul: Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.

These things are not pervasive throughout society, or even common, thank goodness.

In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances.

31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience

(CITATION: White, Jacqueline W. and John A. Humphrey. "Young People's Attitudes Toward Acquaintance Rape." Acquaintance Rape: The Hidden crime." John Wiley and Sons, 1991)

I can go on and on, complete with citations.


I can't help but notice your source is 22 years old. An entire generation has gone by since those numbers were compiled. Have any follow-up studies been done, the methodologies updated, etc?

The issue I have is that you're answering someone speaking in the present tense with a study from before the information age took off.
 
  2013-04-10 11:14:29 AM
miss diminutive: BarkingUnicorn: WTF did LE do wrong? Do you seriously expect them to waterboard confessions out of four boys just because a girl accused them? WTF is wrong with you people?

I'd be happy with feather-tickle confessions.

/seriously, 2 minutes of tickling and I'd admit to being the unabomber



Sweeeeeeeeeeeet!

For some inexplicable reason, I've always wanted to meet the unabomber........ even if only while role playing!
 
  2013-04-10 11:17:04 AM
Flagg99: I find your disrespect for fundamental human rights disturbing.

THIS.

I wish I had the option to downrate the original poster.

It is alleged because it has not been proven.

The "photos" were deemed not to be a criminal matter which likely means they show only that the girl was in the company of the boys in question but no nudity/sexual content. There wasn't enough evidence to charge them meaning DNA samples could not be obtained, or that they gave statements saying the sexual was consensual and there was no evidence obtained to the contrary (eye-witness accounts, defensive wounds, etc.).

I feel terrible for this girl but we have due process for a reason. I personally know a girl who made a false rape claim. Why? She was caught by a friend cheating on her boyfriend, so she claimed it was rape. The friend was my then-GF, and she dragged this girl to the police station to make a statement, because my then-GF fully believed the friend's story. So this girl files a statement saying "So and so forced me to have sex with him."

Days later she's bragging!! to friends about how she got away with cheating by filing a false report. This got back to my GF who confronted her and the girl admitted it. Lucky for her the police never filed charges because it was he-said she-said, and no one ever ratted her pathetic ass out for filing a false police report. My GF would have had the guy been charged because she felt responsible, but since it was dropped she did that one last favour for the friend, and no longer keeps in touch with her.

Not to say this is common, but it happens, and it's why we use the word "alleged" until a trial is held and the outcome (guilty or not) is determined.


The FBI has found the rate of unfounded rape reports to be about 8%. I'm not saying we convict people based on he-said she-said. But if a girl says she was rape, I'm going to treat it as a rape until demonstrated otherwise. And then I will burn the false accuser at the stake, because those farkers do more to advance rape culture than every "she was asking for it" ever uttered.

/Perjury of that sort should be punishable by a sentence equal to that of the actual crime.
 
  2013-04-10 11:17:06 AM
KatjaMouse: Maul555: KatjaMouse: Rape culture is where the heinous act itself is condoned rather than condemned. Where we're free to defend rapists and blame the victim. Were a victim can be hounded out of his/her own society because of a damaged "reputation". A female Private can accuse a Sergeant of rape and be awarded with dishonorable discharge while he stays in a position of authority where he can perpetrate the crime again with little to no consequence. A teenage girl is allowed to be called a slut and adults do little to nothing about it until she ODs on pills. It's insidious and it bleeds through every level of society because we allow perpetrators to think that it's ok.

/me looks around

So no widespread rape culture in the western world then... Thanks....

Just because you think you never participated in it yourself doesn't mean it doesn't exist.


Just because it's a theory that supports your worldview doesn't mean it does exist.
 
  2013-04-10 11:18:07 AM
Bontesla: NewportBarGuy: I want to say "Why didn't her parents take her off the net (no internet no cell phone)?", but reality set in. What a f*cking horrible thing.

I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.

I'm rooting for the Anonymous.


Same
 
  2013-04-10 11:18:19 AM
vygramul: Go into a high school classroom that hasn't had the benefit of an actual discussion about something like this and ask the question if it's ok for a boy to fondle a girl who is passed out.

It would also be interesting to ask how many girls would think it acceptable to fondle a boy who was passed out.

You'll be dismayed at how many people answer in the affirmative. Ask how many think it's ok for a guy to rape a girl if he feels he "led him on". Ask how many think it's ok if the guy is just really, really horny. You want to hate humanity? You want to feel like you need a bath? Go do that.

I have no doubt that the answers would be depressing, and I also have no doubt that you wouldn't find as much divergence between the boys' answers and the girls' answers.

But.

You're talking about teenagers, coming to terms with raging hormones and a whole new sphere of experience. Yes, they are likely to have worrying, upsetting or simply naïve views. But that's part of being a teenager. They have worrying, upsetting or simply naïve views about everything. About drinks, drugs, relationships, politics, race, religion - about anything involving an opinion. And they are in school, where we can educate them. We can teach them that sex isn't just about sticking A into B, but that it's a part of human relationships and indivisible from other emotions. We can point out that for all the publicity given to the hookup culture, it leaves young women in particular feeling as used, cheated and exploited as it did forty years ago when it was called "free love".

Untutored human views on sex are depressing, but untutored human views on everything are depressing. That's why "Lord of the Flies" is still relevant today.
 
  2013-04-10 11:18:58 AM
Holy crap who cares.

Dead teen in Canada.
 
  2013-04-10 11:21:36 AM
vygramul: In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances.

31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience


Would you take the views of high school students on politics as indicative of the culture of society as a whole?

/crossed with longer reply, will leave it there.
 
  2013-04-10 11:21:39 AM
Carousel Beast: I can't help but notice your source is 22 years old. An entire generation has gone by since those numbers were compiled. Have any follow-up studies been done, the methodologies updated, etc?

The issue I have is that you're answering someone speaking in the present tense with a study from before the information age took off.


2010: This might be pretty dense material, but essentially, 56% of incoming college freshmen believed in many of the 'she asked for it" rape myths.
 
  2013-04-10 11:23:38 AM
Fluorescent Testicle: Nidiot: I'd like to know what some people would regard as sufficient evidence before you'd accept a girl's claim of being raped?

Most of Fark's pro-rape contingent wouldn't accept it if the guy held a national press conference to announce that he can't get it up unless there's rape involved. They don't believe that there's even such a thing as rape (and are trolls - mostly the troll thing, really).


"Pro rape contingent"?? Jesus some of you people are mentally unwell.
 
  2013-04-10 11:26:09 AM
vygramul: The FBI has found the rate of unfounded rape reports to be about 8%.

Director of Public Prosecutions says about 5% in the UK. Pretty similar. High enough that allegations must be carefully rested, low enough that they must by default be respected.
 
  2013-04-10 11:26:41 AM
vygramul: Flagg99: I find your disrespect for fundamental human rights disturbing.

THIS.

I wish I had the option to downrate the original poster.

It is alleged because it has not been proven.

The "photos" were deemed not to be a criminal matter which likely means they show only that the girl was in the company of the boys in question but no nudity/sexual content. There wasn't enough evidence to charge them meaning DNA samples could not be obtained, or that they gave statements saying the sexual was consensual and there was no evidence obtained to the contrary (eye-witness accounts, defensive wounds, etc.).

I feel terrible for this girl but we have due process for a reason. I personally know a girl who made a false rape claim. Why? She was caught by a friend cheating on her boyfriend, so she claimed it was rape. The friend was my then-GF, and she dragged this girl to the police station to make a statement, because my then-GF fully believed the friend's story. So this girl files a statement saying "So and so forced me to have sex with him."

Days later she's bragging!! to friends about how she got away with cheating by filing a false report. This got back to my GF who confronted her and the girl admitted it. Lucky for her the police never filed charges because it was he-said she-said, and no one ever ratted her pathetic ass out for filing a false police report. My GF would have had the guy been charged because she felt responsible, but since it was dropped she did that one last favour for the friend, and no longer keeps in touch with her.

Not to say this is common, but it happens, and it's why we use the word "alleged" until a trial is held and the outcome (guilty or not) is determined.

The FBI has found the rate of unfounded rape reports to be about 8%. I'm not saying we convict people based on he-said she-said. But if a girl says she was rape, I'm going to treat it as a rape until demonstrated otherwise. And then I will burn the false accuser at the stake, because those farkers do more to advance rape culture than every "she was asking for it" ever uttered.

/Perjury of that sort should be punishable by a sentence equal to that of the actual crime.


Guilty until proven innocent is a great policy.
 
  2013-04-10 11:27:01 AM
orbister: High enough that allegations must be carefully rested tested

FTFM
 
  2013-04-10 11:27:50 AM
orbister: vygramul: Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.

These things are not pervasive throughout society, or even common, thank goodness.


This. Do they happen? Yes. And when they do the people behind such comments are raked over the coals, and rightfully so.

That doesn't make a culture.

My high school Sex-Ed class had an entire unit on consent, including covering the fact that consent can't be given in some circumstances (age, intoxication, etc.) and that was 20 years ago. Our "culture" (if you're referring to western culture) condemns rape and has for at least the past few decades. However, social justice movements give people an empowerred feeling, something of a rush, and come with trendy slogans.

I would say sex crimes are actually treated with more reverence than even murder. They are the most sensitive area of the criminal justice system, and a few sad examples don't make a culture.
 
  2013-04-10 11:28:13 AM
vygramul: Carousel Beast: I can't help but notice your source is 22 years old. An entire generation has gone by since those numbers were compiled. Have any follow-up studies been done, the methodologies updated, etc?

The issue I have is that you're answering someone speaking in the present tense with a study from before the information age took off.

2010: This might be pretty dense material, but essentially, 56% of incoming college freshmen believed in many of the 'she asked for it" rape myths.


It won't accept the URL even though it works for me:

https://psy.psych.colostate.edu/Research/Spring/Article7.pdf
 
  2013-04-10 11:29:06 AM
Generation_D: Holy crap who cares.

Dead teen in Canada.


No man is an island,
Entire of itself.
Each is a piece of the continent,
A part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less.
As well as if a promontory were.
As well as if a manor of thine own
Or of thine friend's were.
Each man's death diminishes me,
For I am involved in mankind.
Therefore, send not to know
For whom the bell tolls,
It tolls for thee.
 
  2013-04-10 11:33:33 AM
I am not a violent person by nature, but it's shiat like this that makes me want to go all Al Capone on the 4 pieces of walking fecal matter that would do this as well as anyone involved in bullying this poor girl ...

// I want them DEAD, I want their families DEAD, I want their homes burned to the GROUND ...
 
  2013-04-10 11:34:26 AM
orbister: vygramul: In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances.

31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience

Would you take the views of high school students on politics as indicative of the culture of society as a whole?

/crossed with longer reply, will leave it there.


You're asking good questions. Unfortunately, the older the person, the worse the attitude towards victims.

(In case that link doesn't work:
http://www.d.umn.edu/cla/faculty/jhamlin/3925/4925HomeComputer/Rape%2 0 myths/Attitudes%20Toward%20Victims.pdf )

They suspect that greater education programs are changing the attitudes and awareness of violence towards women.
 
  2013-04-10 11:36:19 AM
Flagg99: orbister: vygramul: Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.

These things are not pervasive throughout society, or even common, thank goodness.

This. Do they happen? Yes. And when they do the people behind such comments are raked over the coals, and rightfully so.

That doesn't make a culture.

My high school Sex-Ed class had an entire unit on consent, including covering the fact that consent can't be given in some circumstances (age, intoxication, etc.) and that was 20 years ago. Our "culture" (if you're referring to western culture) condemns rape and has for at least the past few decades. However, social justice movements give people an empowerred feeling, something of a rush, and come with trendy slogans.

I would say sex crimes are actually treated with more reverence than even murder. They are the most sensitive area of the criminal justice system, and a few sad examples don't make a culture.


Read my following posts for citations to studies that prove otherwise and that these are not just a few sad examples.
 
  2013-04-10 11:37:25 AM
NutWrench: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

Well, other than the photos of the actual rape that everybody passed around. WTF?


Well, obviously the stories differed as to whether it was consensual or not.

I guess since it was a party, then they couldn't convict anyone of rape if everyone at the party claimed it was consensual. Everyone could be lying, but based on that, how could you convict anyone?


Passing the pictures around however ought to pretty easy to convict people for. If she was pictured naked it would be childporn.
 
  2013-04-10 11:37:49 AM
Abacus9: The reason they call it alleged is because the scum was never convicted. They weren't even tried. It's messed up, but "alleged" is always used by media so they can't get sued.

I get that the media might not want to name the boys and call them rapists. Alleged rapists protects the media.
But the woman reported the rape. She didnt report an alleged rape.
They can safely call what happened to her as rape and be protected from suit.
The unconvicted rapists were not named, nor were the child porn distributors.

It is clear that a number of crimes were committed. Calling them alleged crimes is just re-injuring the victim of the crime.
I agree that perps are alleged perps until they are convicted.

and none of this matters
not as long as the conviction rate for rape continues to be so close to zero and dont get me started about bullying and harassment and ignoring mental health issues.
 
  2013-04-10 11:41:05 AM
vygramul: Maul555: yeah ummm.... I don't see this happening...

That's because you have either been raised right in a family that approaches such things appropriately, or you simply haven't experienced what happens when many women get raped, or haven't been paying attention. Just look at this case. And Steubenville. You think these are outliers?


*Yes

Go into a high school classroom that hasn't had the benefit of an actual discussion about something like this and ask the question if it's ok for a boy to fondle a girl who is passed out. You'll be dismayed at how many people answer in the affirmative. Ask how many think it's ok for a guy to rape a girl if he feels he "led him on". Ask how many think it's ok if the guy is just really, really horny. You want to hate humanity? You want to feel like you need a bath? Go do that.

And then come back and report how such widespread ideas are neither cultural nor about rape.


*I know of no such study that has been done
 
  2013-04-10 11:42:45 AM
vygramul: orbister: vygramul: Saying she asked for it because of how she was dressed
Saying she must've wanted it because she is a slut
Saying she was drunk and passed-out, so it's ok to fark her
Saying they're football players so we'll cover up for them
Saying she invited him in, so she led him on and deserved it

That's an incomplete list, but culture is all those things that are pervasive throughout society, so if the above are common, even if not universal, that means you have a culture that makes excuses for rapists. In other words, Rape Culture.

These things are not pervasive throughout society, or even common, thank goodness.

In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances.

31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience

(CITATION: White, Jacqueline W. and John A. Humphrey. "Young People's Attitudes Toward Acquaintance Rape." Acquaintance Rape: The Hidden crime." John Wiley and Sons, 1991)

I can go on and on, complete with citations.


I stand corrected...   wtf...
 
  2013-04-10 11:43:13 AM
doglover: Barfmaker: Anonymous is now our real-life Batman equivalent.

They're more like Oracle.

Lorelle: It REALLY makes me sick knowing that other females also attacked her after the fact.

Teenage girls are the least compassionate creatures on the planet. Even honey badger steers clear. Teenage boys are right behind them. I think it's some kind of mixture of ignorance and hormones.



I started to agree, but then I thought, Wait a minute: how is it that girls who are verbally abusing a rape victim are worse than the guy who does the rape?  Is it because girls are supposed to know better?  That they are supposed to be more compassionate?

I hate that argument: it's worse when a woman does it because women are supposed to be born nurturers.  They're supposed to want to care for and comfort people and put other people's needs before their own.  It's okay for men to do it; it's expected that they're sometimes selfish and aggressive.

Sorry but many women aren't "built" with capabilities to empathize with others, even other women.  Just like many men aren't built to empathize with other guys' nightmarish situations.   Those women who have harassed Parsons are probably the types of people that think they wouldn't "be stupid enough" to get raped.  It's horrid that anybody, male or female, thinks like that.
 
  2013-04-10 11:47:20 AM
vygramul: Flagg99: I find your disrespect for fundamental human rights disturbing.

THIS.

I wish I had the option to downrate the original poster.

It is alleged because it has not been proven.

The "photos" were deemed not to be a criminal matter which likely means they show only that the girl was in the company of the boys in question but no nudity/sexual content. There wasn't enough evidence to charge them meaning DNA samples could not be obtained, or that they gave statements saying the sexual was consensual and there was no evidence obtained to the contrary (eye-witness accounts, defensive wounds, etc.).

I feel terrible for this girl but we have due process for a reason. I personally know a girl who made a false rape claim. Why? She was caught by a friend cheating on her boyfriend, so she claimed it was rape. The friend was my then-GF, and she dragged this girl to the police station to make a statement, because my then-GF fully believed the friend's story. So this girl files a statement saying "So and so forced me to have sex with him."

Days later she's bragging!! to friends about how she got away with cheating by filing a false report. This got back to my GF who confronted her and the girl admitted it. Lucky for her the police never filed charges because it was he-said she-said, and no one ever ratted her pathetic ass out for filing a false police report. My GF would have had the guy been charged because she felt responsible, but since it was dropped she did that one last favour for the friend, and no longer keeps in touch with her.

Not to say this is common, but it happens, and it's why we use the word "alleged" until a trial is held and the outcome (guilty or not) is determined.

The FBI has found the rate of unfounded rape reports to be about 8%. I'm not saying we convict people based on he-said she-said. But if a girl says she was rape, I'm going to treat it as a rape until demonstrated otherwise. And then I will burn the false accuser at the stake, because thos ...


8% is a pretty high number to me. I'm actually shocked it's that high, I only have my real-life experience to go on, and that's basically a number lower than 8%. 8% of accusations, based on the number of crimes reported, would likely be hundreds if they cover just a single country (depending on which), no?

And no one said don't treat it as rape, but the word "alleged" it justified by both legal terms and common sense.

I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.
 
  2013-04-10 11:48:41 AM
Langdon_777: Wow you really are a piece of work.

Prison is not necessary, just names and pics - that way the mob can deal with it.


Yeah, I'm the piece of work. It's absolutely mind blowing how people like you react to stories like this. The bottom line is that you don't convict people of crimes when there's no evidence that one was committed. Is that really so hard for you and the rest of the mob to grasp?
 
  2013-04-10 11:52:01 AM
Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.
 
  2013-04-10 11:54:50 AM
orbister: E5bie: I used to be a teen girl myself, and know too well what you are talking about. Mother felt that free love and feminism meant that I was seizing empowerment by going anywhere any time, dressed in anything,  and partying way the hell out of my age range.

There have been a couple of court cases here involving gangs of men grooming and raping teenage girls, often from broken homes or the care system. It has emerged, worryingly, that social workers knew what was going on but didn't like to do anything about it because they thought that the girls had a right to choose (sic) a sexual relationship (sic) at the age of 12 or 13 (sick) (sic).

That's not rape culture, though. It's an example of a bad judgement was made at a place where the rights of children to determine their own behaviour and the responsibility of adults to control that behaviour bang up against each other.


I never said it was rape culture. Bad judgement though? YES. Especially considering that a 13 year old can't drive herself to the doctor if Uncle Pimp decides it's time for a baby.

Sure, it's unlikely that a 13 year old can give informed consent to sex with a group of 40-something men in the grubby flat above a takeaway ... but can she give informed consent to sex with her 13 year old boyfriend? And if she can't (as I believe) how do we deal with it? I am sure that the answer is as much about empowering and liberating young women as it is about educating young men (the middle aged ones can rot in gaol).

But then, if we say that young women should be given control of their own sexuality, how do we deal with those who can't or don't exercise that control without blaming them for their victimhood? How do we tell a 12 year old that she can say "no" without also telling her that she can say "yes"?


Maybe sit the kids down at length and repeatedly, to talk about feelings, growing up, self respect, and also disclose the nasty fact that social conventions exist for a reason. Assholes exist. Avoid getting into ambiguous situations, male or female, sexual or otherwise.

And anyway, why just pick on the girls? My husband and I encourage our teenage sons to ignore the overcharged dating culture around them and focus on academics, long-term goals, and self-improvement during their school years. (Do they get razzed for it by peers? Yes, but so far they seem to be OK.) We watch TV programs with romantic content and talk about relationships, and different ways that they can work (or not) for the people involved. Above all, we treat our kids as whole emerging human beings, not as extensions of our egos or, ahem, worse. I think that even today boys are more likely to be treated this way than girls, unfortunately. And if there is a sad lack of parenting going on in the world, I attribute it to a sad lack of real LOVE among humans in general. Culture can help, but only so far. So yeah, I agree, it's tricky.
 
  2013-04-10 12:03:00 PM
vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.


The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" crowd is really frightening.
 
  2013-04-10 12:05:43 PM
orbister: Long delay, looks like you covered my comments already. Very articulately too. Kudos.
 
  2013-04-10 12:06:29 PM
Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.

The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" crowd is really frightening.


You're conflating how we treat the victim with how we treat the accused.

I said you treat her as if she's telling the truth and it's entirely not her fault.

That is not the same as saying you treat THEM as if they're guilty.
 
  2013-04-10 12:10:04 PM
Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.

The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" crowd is really frightening.


Social justice isn't about justice. It's about anger and retribution.
 
  2013-04-10 12:11:03 PM
WhippingBoy: Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.

The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" crowd is really frightening.

Social justice isn't about justice. It's about anger and retribution.


I said you treat her as if she's telling the truth and it's entirely not her fault.

That is not the same as saying you treat THEM as if they're guilty.
 
  2013-04-10 12:11:39 PM
NewportBarGuy: I want to say "Why didn't her parents take her off the net (no internet no cell phone)?", but reality set in. What a f*cking horrible thing.

I hope the assholes die of ass cancer, slowly.


That wouldn't have helped--the photos were being distributed to classmates.

miss diminutive: So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

You're assuming their faces are in the pictures.

Popcorn Johnny: There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

No, the investigation didn't charge anybody but that's not proof it was consensual.  Drunk he-said/she-said, if she didn't go to the cops right away it would be basically impossible to convict unless someone was stupid enough as to confess.

It does sound like they did a bad job, though--I'm wondering what connections the boys have.

Jim_Callahan: Pictures taken of the rape of an underage girl and redistributed by the accusers but the police found there was insufficient evidence to lay charges?

I suspect there's a lot to this story that's not being shared by the article, there.  My money is on "the pictures didn't actually depict the crime and the parent is just trying to mitigate their own guilt over not responding to bullying by making shiat up" at minimum.


The pictures probably show sex but aren't enough to show whether it was consensual or not.
 
  2013-04-10 12:12:21 PM
The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" principle only applies when females make the accusations, preferably in ways that fit into an anti-male political agenda.
 
  2013-04-10 12:14:30 PM
Phinn: The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" principle only applies when females make the accusations, preferably in ways that fit into an anti-male political agenda.

No one on fark can possibly make that accusation with a straight face. A recent high-profile counter-example is so damn obvious you're going to feel like an idiot when you figure it out or have it pointed out to you.
 
  2013-04-10 12:29:10 PM
vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.


Lets be fair - the police didn't mock her. Kids at her school did. And I'm all for eliminating that, but that's an issue with teens and bullying. No one said they didn't treat her as 100% right, but they investigated, the "photo evidence" didn't even qualify as illegal, and there was no evidence of rape.

Frankly I say charge the worst offenders who were bullying her with harassment, as has been done in Canada before.
 
  2013-04-10 12:29:17 PM
vygramul: WhippingBoy: Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.

The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" crowd is really frightening.

Social justice isn't about justice. It's about anger and retribution.

I said you treat her as if she's telling the truth and it's entirely not her fault.

That is not the same as saying you treat THEM as if they're guilty.


Who do you mean? If you mean the "system" (e.g. law enforcement, etc.) then I completely agree.
If you mean people in general, well, good luck with that. People are assholes and will usually assume the worst of others. If your satisfaction of life or self-worth relies on other people thinking or acting a certain way about you, then you're pretty much doomed. You can't force or mandate people to be polite, decent or reasonable.
 
  2013-04-10 12:31:57 PM
The four who did this should be shot in the feet, then knees, then thighs, then hips, then arms, then shoulders, then ears, then nuts.

As for the girl's parents, where were they with all this odd behavior with a minor?  Drinking, tattoos, partying?  Seriously, if you want to shape your kids into healthy people there has to be some level of discipline and teaching them the approval of their peers is bullshiat.  Social media isn't the culprit here, but replying on it the way she did made a bad situation worse.
 
  2013-04-10 12:36:04 PM
Flagg99: vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.

Lets be fair - the police didn't mock her. Kids at her school did. And I'm all for eliminating that, but that's an issue with teens and bullying. No one said they didn't treat her as 100% right, but they investigated, the "photo evidence" didn't even qualify as illegal, and there was no evidence of rape.

Frankly I say charge the worst offenders who were bullying her with harassment, as has been done in Canada before.


That is exactly what the Province is looking into doing. There's been a lot of justifiable dogpiling on the ponywhackers these days but there's absolutely no indication the RCMP dogged this one.
 
  2013-04-10 12:37:58 PM
It's absolutely horrible that this girl killed herself, but too many of the "facts" in this case are being reported by the victim's mother.  I can't take them at face value.
 
  2013-04-10 12:38:27 PM
Flagg99: 8% is a pretty high number to me. I'm actually shocked it's that high, I only have my real-life experience to go on, and that's basically a number lower than 8%. 8% of accusations, based on the number of crimes reported, would likely be hundreds if they cover just a single country (depending on which), no?

There are two things to note, however. The first is that reports are different than accusations. "I was raped" is a report. "That man raped me" is an accusation. As a parallel, you file a police report when you are involved in an accident and the other person flees the scene, even if you didn't get the license plate number or anything. That doesn't mean you have accused any particular person for the police to investigate, just that you have a report - which can come in handy later but legally doesn't do jack or sh*t to the person who t-boned your car. The second note is that "unfounded" does not mean "false." In legal contexts, to the best of my knowledge, "unfounded" certainly includes false reports, but also reports that cannot be followed up. If, for instance, a woman files a report that says she was raped but does not (or can not?) provide any details such as where or when or what was else was going on at the time (e.g. a party, a date, walking home, etc.) then that gets filed as "unfounded". There are no details, nothing for police to go on. But it doesn't mean it's a false report, much less a false accusation. False accusations account for approximately 2% of all accusations. But it does imply that 98% of accusations are not false (not "true", just "not false"), which makes the approximately 10% of rape cases that result in a trial/confession and the 2% of cases that result in any jail time (the vast majority of which are for less time than possession of cannabis convictions, mind you) for the accused much more abhorrent.

I am speaking to US statistics, by the way. Things are potentially different in Canada, UK, Australia, etc. etc.
 
  2013-04-10 12:38:34 PM
WhippingBoy: vygramul: WhippingBoy: Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.

The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" crowd is really frightening.

Social justice isn't about justice. It's about anger and retribution.

I said you treat her as if she's telling the truth and it's entirely not her fault.

That is not the same as saying you treat THEM as if they're guilty.

Who do you mean? If you mean the "system" (e.g. law enforcement, etc.) then I completely agree.
If you mean people in general, well, good luck with that. People are assholes and will usually assume the worst of others. If your satisfaction of life or self-worth relies on other people thinking or acting a certain way about you, then you're pretty much doomed. You can't force or mandate people to be polite, decent or reasonable.


No, but when choosing between white-knighting bullies and white-knighting a girl who killed herself over (you choose) a) rape b) slut-shaming, I am not about o pick up my sword for the former.

Were this a community that was out to string up the boys who did this, with the entire school rallying to the girl's side, with little evidence, I would be more understanding of a desire to protect the boys. But even if the sex was consensual, the after-the-fact behavior of the boys and the community is not worth defending in the slightest.
 
  2013-04-10 12:39:35 PM
4.bp.blogspot.com

Is there a problem?
 
  2013-04-10 12:46:24 PM
Popcorn Johnny: Lorelle: When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.

So you've seen the picture? It's of a drunk girl passed out in a pile of her own vomit, being banged by a dude?

Oh wait, of course you haven't seen the picture, you have no farking idea what really happened. Since you're a chick, you automatically believe a girl when they say they were raped. Lets just ignore evidence and stuff and start convicting guys of rape whenever a woman says so. Women would never lie, right?


Plenty of others have seen the picture, and have stated that not only was the girl being assaulted while vomiting, the $@#! asshole who did it gave a thumb-up while doing so.

You're obviously the kind of jerk who, if he saw his own mother being raped, would film the attack, high-five the rapist afterwards, kick his mother in the cooter, refuse to call the police or get medical help for her, post the video online, tell everyone that his mother was a whore, drive her to commit suicide, and then whine because she cut him out of her will.
 
  2013-04-10 12:46:41 PM
There are some real scumbags here.

That's all I need to say, I think.
 
  2013-04-10 12:49:19 PM
Anybody who thinks these boys being football players has anything to do with them getting away with this have never been to Nova Scotia. Football isn't exactly super popular or revered here like it is elsewhere. Trust me on this one I played varsity football in high school in Nova Scotia. We won two championships in my three years and it still wasn't that big of a deal to most people. It's getting more popular now but it's still a long way from the status of basketball, soccer, or the holiest of all sports which is, of course, hockey.
 
  2013-04-10 12:51:29 PM
Egoy3k: Anybody who thinks these boys being football players has anything to do with them getting away with this have never been to Nova Scotia. Football isn't exactly super popular or revered here like it is elsewhere. Trust me on this one I played varsity football in high school in Nova Scotia. We won two championships in my three years and it still wasn't that big of a deal to most people. It's getting more popular now but it's still a long way from the status of basketball, soccer, or the holiest of all sports which is, of course, hockey.

Could be different up there in Canada. In the US, you can fark children in the ass so long as you're part of a successful football program.
 
  2013-04-10 12:54:34 PM

GavinTheAlmighty: It's absolutely horrible that this girl killed herself, but too many of the "facts" in this case are being reported by the victim's mother.  I can't take them at face value.



This!
If mom had been a mother her kid would be alive. Shouldn't have let her think it was ok to get inked, party and run wild
 
  2013-04-10 12:58:23 PM
Mid_mo_mad_man: GavinTheAlmighty: It's absolutely horrible that this girl killed herself, but too many of the "facts" in this case are being reported by the victim's mother.  I can't take them at face value.

This!
If mom had been a mother her kid would be alive. Shouldn't have let her think it was ok to get inked, party and run wild


Not sure that's what  GavinTheAlmighty was saying. Mom's a flawed narrator here and she has good reason to be. She can't tell the whole story because of her bias, the police know it but won't because of privacy and the people who were there aren't talking because they may be subhuman cowards but they're not stupid. We don't have the whole story.
 
  2013-04-10 12:58:29 PM
vygramul: WhippingBoy: vygramul: WhippingBoy: Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: vygramul: Flagg99: I'm all for doing a second investigation in this case even. I just don't want to break out the pitchforks just yet.

I guess I'm more victim-focused in that this girl, when alive, should not have had her experience diminished, much less mocked. Always treat an accuser as if they are 100% right. That's not to say the criminal justice system should treat the accused as guilty before they even start investigating. But she should be cared for and protected by everyone.

I'm not sure what the incidence is of suicide is among false rape accusers, but I bet the incidence of victims whose communities abandoned them is high.

The "accused are guilty until proven innocent" crowd is really frightening.

Social justice isn't about justice. It's about anger and retribution.

I said you treat her as if she's telling the truth and it's entirely not her fault.

That is not the same as saying you treat THEM as if they're guilty.

Who do you mean? If you mean the "system" (e.g. law enforcement, etc.) then I completely agree.
If you mean people in general, well, good luck with that. People are assholes and will usually assume the worst of others. If your satisfaction of life or self-worth relies on other people thinking or acting a certain way about you, then you're pretty much doomed. You can't force or mandate people to be polite, decent or reasonable.

No, but when choosing between white-knighting bullies and white-knighting a girl who killed herself over (you choose) a) rape b) slut-shaming, I am not about o pick up my sword for the former.

Were this a community that was out to string up the boys who did this, with the entire school rallying to the girl's side, with little evidence, I would be more understanding of a desire to protect the boys. But even if the sex was consensual, the after-the-fact behavior of the boys and the community is not worth defending in the slightest.


The kids who bullied her (either the boys involved themselves or other kids at the school/where ever) deserve discipline without question. No one is defending them, the original point however is that while not condoning the boy's behaviour after-the-fact, there was a fair investigation in this case, and there wasn't enough evidence to move forward with rape charges. That's unfortunate especially if the allegations were true - but it's also how the justice system works. If there's no evidence and it's a he-said, she-said, you're usually at a standstill.

And that's a hell of a lot better than social mob justice. It's also no help to this girl's mother, and I completely understand her anger. It's the third parties that yell out "string 'em up" like they're extras in an old western that worry me. Because while the girl's community isn't yelling that as a whole, there are plenty of people on and offline who no doubt are (for examples, see: this thread).
 
  2013-04-10 01:00:52 PM
E5bie: Maybe sit the kids down at length and repeatedly, to talk about feelings, growing up, self respect, and also disclose the nasty fact that social conventions exist for a reason. Assholes exist. Avoid getting into ambiguous situations, male or female, sexual or otherwise.

I agree

And anyway, why just pick on the girls?

We shouldn't. The messages needed, or the emphases needed, are different, though. We need to make sure that boys know that sex without consent is always, always, always wrong, and we need to make sure that girls are educated and empowered not to give consent lightly, or early, or unwisely.

That's sexist, but reflects a basic imbalance in human nature: boys will, by and large, have sex with anyone who allows them to so as a first step we have to encourage girls to use their power and boys to respect that use.
 
  2013-04-10 01:01:51 PM
Mid_mo_mad_man: GavinTheAlmighty: It's absolutely horrible that this girl killed herself, but too many of the "facts" in this case are being reported by the victim's mother.  I can't take them at face value.

This!
If mom had been a mother her kid would be alive. Shouldn't have let her think it was ok to get inked, party and run wild


That's the funny thing about your reputation. No matter how badly you wish it weren't the case, you'll always be judged for your past sins.
 
  2013-04-10 01:03:21 PM
ZeroCorpse: There are some real scumbags here.

That's all I need to say, I think.


This. I can hardly believe the amount of shiatbirds scrambling to defend these scumbags. Even if it wasn't a "rape rape" which I absolutely believe it was, these jagoffs bullied a girl into suicide, spread around kiddy porn and were high fiving each other the entire time. I don't care how much weed she claims to smoke on Tumblr, doesn't mean she or anyone deserves this. A lot of you are jumping through hoops to defend the scum of the earth. Protect your own I guess.
 
  2013-04-10 01:06:31 PM
orbister: E5bie: Maybe sit the kids down at length and repeatedly, to talk about feelings, growing up, self respect, and also disclose the nasty fact that social conventions exist for a reason. Assholes exist. Avoid getting into ambiguous situations, male or female, sexual or otherwise.

I agree

And anyway, why just pick on the girls?

We shouldn't. The messages needed, or the emphases needed, are different, though. We need to make sure that boys know that sex without consent is always, always, always wrong, and we need to make sure that girls are educated and empowered not to give consent lightly, or early, or unwisely.

That's sexist, but reflects a basic imbalance in human nature: boys will, by and large, have sex with anyone who allows them to so as a first step we have to encourage girls to use their power and boys to respect that use.


I have a bit of a problem with the underlying assumption that most "boys" in general believe that sex without consent it OK. This strikes me as a staggeringly sexist thing to think.
If what you say is true, then every time a teenage boy was alone with a teenage girl, a rape would occur. This clearly is not the case.
 
  2013-04-10 01:07:41 PM
Flakeloaf: Not sure that's what GavinTheAlmighty was saying. Mom's a flawed narrator here and she has good reason to be. She can't tell the whole story because of her bias, the police know it but won't because of privacy and the people who were there aren't talking because they may be subhuman cowards but they're not stupid. We don't have the whole story.

Thanks - I definitely am not blaming the mother in any way - just that we'll only get one side of the story.  She is a grieving mother, and I am exceedingly sorry for her loss.  It could be that even she doesn't know all of the facts, but that said, I need to see facts come out from a party that does not have a vested interest.
 
  2013-04-10 01:11:02 PM

MagSeven: ZeroCorpse: There are some real scumbags here.

That's all I need to say, I think.

This. I can hardly believe the amount of shiatbirds scrambling to defend these scumbags. Even if it wasn't a "rape rape" which I absolutely believe it was, these jagoffs bullied a girl into suicide, spread around kiddy porn and were high fiving each other the entire time. I don't care how much weed she claims to smoke on Tumblr, doesn't mean she or anyone deserves this. A lot of you are jumping through hoops to defend the scum of the earth. Protect your own I guess.




It's clear that RCMP and the DA ( I'm not sure what they are called in Canada) didn't agree with you and her mom? Maybe they know a little more then you do. If she did lie about being rape I don't blame them for harassing her.
 
  2013-04-10 01:41:12 PM
So i just read her tweets instagram etc, and I can now inform you that she had a cocaine abuse problem.

For anyone that doesnt know, cocaine causes intense fits of depression and mood swings, in addition to a hundred other things.

So... theres your problem.

/Also every single picture is tagged with #drunk #stoned or talking about popping pain killers. So... she wasnt right in the head.
 
  2013-04-10 01:44:35 PM
WhippingBoy: I have a bit of a problem with the underlying assumption that most "boys" in general believe that sex without consent it OK. This strikes me as a staggeringly sexist thing to think.

I don't think they do all believe that, but you have to teach 'em all to get to the ones you need to. Same with girls: lots of them already know that you don't need to give a boy access to your underwear if he asks.

I'm not proposing these as exclusive lesson content, by the way, just as two different messages which need to be got across during sex and relationship education.
 
  2013-04-10 02:00:47 PM
MagSeven: ZeroCorpse: There are some real scumbags here.

That's all I need to say, I think.

This. I can hardly believe the amount of shiatbirds scrambling to defend these scumbags. Even if it wasn't a "rape rape" which I absolutely believe it was, these jagoffs bullied a girl into suicide, spread around kiddy porn and were high fiving each other the entire time. I don't care how much weed she claims to smoke on Tumblr, doesn't mean she or anyone deserves this. A lot of you are jumping through hoops to defend the scum of the earth. Protect your own I guess.


The photos being spread around were examined by police and deemed to not be illegal, which means they were not sexual.

Not sure if you're familiar with Canadian law, but if she was even in a sexual position with clothes on, the photos could have been considered illegal, so for the police to clear them, it's likely they were pretty generic "kids at a party" type shots.
 
  2013-04-10 02:08:36 PM
My first thought when I saw Buzzfeed as the link was: "does it go to a slideshow?"

She's under 18 but has tattoos? Guessing lack of parental skills/involvement is a contributing factor here.
 
  2013-04-10 02:10:03 PM
miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.


In the USA it would at least be distribution of child porn and every kid in the school who sent it would go to jail.

Guess Canada is a lawless, messed up place.
 
  2013-04-10 02:13:53 PM
Popcorn Johnny: There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

Link


They mention how her twitter said she was doing drugs, she has a tattoo in the pics and was drinking at age 15. She had real... "potential" if you include stripping as a career.
 
  2013-04-10 02:22:53 PM
Alonjar: So i just read her tweets instagram etc, and I can now inform you that she had a cocaine abuse problem.

For anyone that doesnt know, cocaine causes intense fits of depression and mood swings, in addition to a hundred other things.

So... theres your problem.

/Also every single picture is tagged with #drunk #stoned or talking about popping pain killers. So... she wasnt right in the head.


So. Farking. What.

If anything, the fact that she may have been mentally unbalanced makes it even worse. WTF is wrong with you?
 
  2013-04-10 02:27:57 PM
Barfmaker: Holy shiat...that's outrageously sad.

And yeah, here we are where Anonymous is now our real-life Batman equivalent.


He's the hero the internet deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So, we'll hunt him, because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian. A watchful protector. A Dark Knight.
 
  2013-04-10 02:31:00 PM
Guilty unless proven innocent...
 
  2013-04-10 02:32:55 PM
Bullseyed: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

In the USA it would at least be distribution of child porn and every kid in the school who sent it would go to jail.

Guess Canada is a lawless, messed up place.


Hi. Canadian ex-cop here. Three guesses what my specialty was if I'm in this thread :)

I said this earlier but it's a big thread, so: Depicting a child in a sex act is by definition child porn. If the photo wasn't enough to start a child porn proceeding then that means one of three things:

1. The person in the photo is not demonstrably a child (the individual can't be recognized and there's nothing obvious that distinguishes a child from, say, someone like Anne Howe (q.v., NSFW))
2. The subject of the photo is neither a sex act or the anal or genital region of a child (see #1). The real test is kinda complicated but the layman's rule is "if everyone here were fully dressed, would this still be creepy?"
3. The photo was technically child porn but the totality of the circumstances would make a conviction unlikely because of inability to prove other elements of the offense. Think of a teenaged Olson twin's head photoshopped onto some naked waif being penised: Technically that's child porn (porn depicting a child) but realistically no Crown will prosecute that because a jury would question the intent and acquit.

Not having seen the photo I couldn't guess at which one it is, but if the RCMP investigator whose job this currently is has seen it and decided that it isn't enough to go forward then I feel pretty good about not second-guessing that decision.
 
  2013-04-10 02:49:30 PM
FTA "Multiple Anonymous-affiliated OP accounts are already trying to find and publish the identities of the four men involved with Rehtaeh's rape."

I really, truly hope they find out who these bastards are.
Anonymous, do your worst. You have my support.
 
  2013-04-10 02:51:47 PM
heavy tatts ...
 
  2013-04-10 02:53:43 PM
orbister: Tatterdemalian: Declaration that you're a part of rape culture in 3... 2...

Already happened, alas. It's a shame, because I have no doubt that social and legal attitudes to rape need constant revision, and branding anyone who disagrees with any aspects of one extreme position as "pro-rape" or "part of rape culture" devalues the whole debate. It is possible to think that accused rapists should get fair trials without advocating that all men carry Rohypnol just in case.


That would be great if it was politically possible. Unfortunately, there needs to be a solid legal definition of "rape" before that can happen, and the political leaders who have intentionally stretched that definition until it broke apart are only getting started, now that they have that unquestioned victory to build upon.

/the only possible end now is a government that makes The Republic of Gilead look like a hippie commune in comparison
//the fact that women will be acting as its enfocement arm will not make the handmaids' lives any better
 
  2013-04-10 02:54:20 PM
Flakeloaf: Bullseyed: miss diminutive: "An investigation into an earlier sexual assault was completed, and in consultation with the Crown, there was insufficient evidence to lay charges," MacRae said.

So there's apparently picture evidence of the crime being distributed by the offenders and the Crown doesn't have enough evidence to charge them?

Also, maybe I'm already out of touch with today's youth, but who bullies a girl who's been a victim of rape? Seriously? I know I did some pretty hurtful things in my biatchy teenage days, but something like this would have never crossed my mind. I honestly don't understand.

Anyway, my heart breaks for this girl.

In the USA it would at least be distribution of child porn and every kid in the school who sent it would go to jail.

Guess Canada is a lawless, messed up place.

Hi. Canadian ex-cop here. Three guesses what my specialty was if I'm in this thread :)

I said this earlier but it's a big thread, so: Depicting a child in a sex act is by definition child porn. If the photo wasn't enough to start a child porn proceeding then that means one of three things:

1. The person in the photo is not demonstrably a child (the individual can't be recognized and there's nothing obvious that distinguishes a child from, say, someone like Anne Howe (q.v., NSFW))
2. The subject of the photo is neither a sex act or the anal or genital region of a child (see #1). The real test is kinda complicated but the layman's rule is "if everyone here were fully dressed, would this still be creepy?"
3. The photo was technically child porn but the totality of the circumstances would make a conviction unlikely because of inability to prove other elements of the offense. Think of a teenaged Olson twin's head photoshopped onto some naked waif being penised: Technically that's child porn (porn depicting a child) but realistically no Crown will prosecute that because a jury would question the intent and acquit.

Not having seen the photo I couldn't guess at which on ...


Everyone please read the above.

The photo was described by the mom (in another article today) as the girl "puking out a window" while a boy is behind her. It's doubful much could be seen, but being caught on camera puking out a window and having it spread around is no doubt hard on the girl's self-esteem. People spreading it around are dicks but take point 1 above into account - I'm guessing you couldn't distinguish much here.
 
  2013-04-10 02:58:06 PM
Kome: Rape culture is a mindset that argues if she cannot say no, say for being too intoxicated - as was attempted by the defense attorney in the Steubenville trial - than she wasn't raped. Rape culture will argue simultaneously that if a rape accuser did not fight off her attacker she wasn't really raped AND that she is responsible for an assault becoming a rape for having tried to fight her attacker off, thus making her attacker more enraged and exculpating him for his reactions.

What about Party Girl Culture?

It's comprised of attention-whore females, often tattooed with an affinity for drugs and alcohol, who overtly signal their sexual availability.

I don't know how familiar you are with Party Girl Culture, but its members profess to wanting to have sex with the highest-status male they can find.  And the male counterparts to Party Girl Culture frequently think of themselves as being more high-status (i.e., attractive to Party Girls) than they actually are.

I entirely agree that everyone, even the most ardent Party Girl Culture aficionado, has the absolute right to withhold consent for sex.  (Although the central issue in a criminal rape case is slightly different -- whether there is sufficient evidence that the accused knew she did not consent, which is a few steps removed from the issue of consent per se.)

But no matter what the criminal law of rape may be defined to be, and no matter how many pots are banged on campuses, and no matter how many PR campaigns are launched, you cannot control how men perceive Party Girls.

You can rail against that until you're blue in the face, but it's just unrealistic if you think you can change that.
 
  2013-04-10 03:00:54 PM
Wait, are people really starting to say if a girl has tattoos she deserves to get raped? Or that she's obviously lying? Or she obviously makes bad decisions so it's cool if she was raped? Or... what?
 
  2013-04-10 03:09:35 PM
CapeFearCadaver: Wait, are people really starting to say if a girl has tattoos she deserves to get raped? Or that she's obviously lying? Or she obviously makes bad decisions so it's cool if she was raped? Or... what?

Being edgy on the internet is cool the way being random is funny. Purple monkey dishwasher.
 
  2013-04-10 03:13:42 PM
StreetlightInTheGhetto: oh stfu.

straight-A student whose favourite subject was science.


Ummm except this image of her report card she posted on Twitter is the exact opposite of that. Note: ZERO credits earned

pbs.twimg.com
 
  2013-04-10 03:13:48 PM
CapeFearCadaver: Wait, are people really starting to say if a girl has tattoos she deserves to get raped? Or that she's obviously lying? Or she obviously makes bad decisions so it's cool if she was raped? Or... what?

Yes. All of the above. Because rape culture. Let's hope Anonymous finds anyone who ever knew this girl and rapes them. Because irrational emotional response.
 
  2013-04-10 03:17:05 PM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: There was one photo of her having sex with one boy. Parents claim she was raped, the evidence said otherwise.

Link

From the other articles I've read, it was clear that she was drunk, the boy forced himself on her (just like the Stupidville case), and some asshole who should be outed and shamed for being one took pictures of the attack and posted them on the internet.


How do you prove that? What evidence exists besides her saying so, after the fact?

I'm really starting to think there should be some kind of rule that anything you do sexually when drunk is ruled as not rape. People need to stop blacking out drunk in strangers homes.
 
  2013-04-10 03:18:32 PM
Lorelle: Popcorn Johnny: Sorry, you don't convict someone of rape based on the word of one person and a photo or two.

When you're so drunk that you're throwing up, it's clear that you are NOT in any condition to give consent to having sex, or to make any rational decision, for that matter.


So we should ban people from getting that drunk then, right?