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2013-03-25 10:42:14 PM  

Farxist Marxist: Dellirium: martid4: I'm 52 and my girlfriends are 22, 26, 27, 32, 35, 41 and 44.  I'm trying to get them in a pile.

Average age = 32.5

Niiiice!

Interesting. Very close to one sigma.

/I did not say smegma.


You rang splooged?
 
2013-03-25 10:44:01 PM  

noitsnot: Delay: megarian: I saw that as I opened aanother bottle of wine

Second?

Got it.


Woah. Nice catch. Thanks!!!
 
2013-03-25 10:44:47 PM  

WhippingBoy: Quantum Apostrophe: It's not so much that I'm attracted to younger women, it's that there's nothing I want from a woman my age. Who wants to deal with a pre-menopausal, boring, demanding harpy whose idea of fun is shopping and eating? Or some sort of career-driven superwoman running around all the time and has no time for a simple walk in between running the universe and buying expensive crap? Or delusional middle-aged pear-shaped women who weigh well into the mid 200s but insist they're not fat? Yet find it necessary to point out my receding hairline?

You can stop eating, what can I do about my hair?

3D print a toupee?

Yeah, pretty much this.



Seconded.

51, hangs with 20-somethings regularly. They are fun, cute and full of life.
 
2013-03-25 10:47:19 PM  
GopherGuts:
Not sure why, but quite a few attractive young women seem attracted to a slim, polite, graying man with a decent job who can make them laugh... and can drive them wild in bed. Quite a few attractive older women are attracted to a slim, polite, not entirely grayed man with a decent job who can make them laugh... and can drive at night.

LOLOLOL.  Zing!

madgonad:
I have a hard time imagining dating a girl in her 20s now that I am over 40. I deal with them at work frequently and they are mind-numblingly annoying. You can't have sex every minute of the day, so you have to deal with vapid twaddle for hours on end.

I'd just be afraid of them listening to the Beatles all the time.  Thought that was gonna die off with the Boomers but... bloody iTunes.
 
2013-03-25 10:49:57 PM  
If anyone needed any evolutionary justification for such behaviour, look at pregnancy rates with IVF using egg donors (who are almost always <30 yo). The pregnancy rates with egg donors are extremely high (as expected), but essentially unaffected by paternal age. However, once a patient is in her mid- to late-30s, advancing paternal age starts to negatively affect outcomes, ergo a potentially plausible "pop" evolutionary psychological mechanism for "The Cougar".
 
2013-03-25 10:55:40 PM  

WhippingBoy: One thing always baffled me. When I was 39, I dated a 22 year old. Women my age would come up to me and say "You know, she's only dating you for your money".

To this day, I fail to see the relevance of that statement. The last thing I cared about was why she was dating me.


Out of the mouth of babes: Melania Trump (née Knauss) was asked in an interview whether she was with Donald Trump because of his money. Her response? "If I weren't beautiful, do you think he'd be with me?"
 
2013-03-25 10:58:24 PM  

No Such Agency: GopherGuts:
Not sure why, but quite a few attractive young women seem attracted to a slim, polite, graying man with a decent job who can make them laugh... and can drive them wild in bed. Quite a few attractive older women are attracted to a slim, polite, not entirely grayed man with a decent job who can make them laugh... and can drive at night.

LOLOLOL.  Zing!

madgonad:
I have a hard time imagining dating a girl in her 20s now that I am over 40. I deal with them at work frequently and they are mind-numblingly annoying. You can't have sex every minute of the day, so you have to deal with vapid twaddle for hours on end.

I'd just be afraid of them listening to the Beatles all the time.  Thought that was gonna die off with the Boomers but... bloody iTunes.


No no - iTunes is the thing where the song thats plays is the one you picked.  Pandora plays the sh*t you don't want to hear.
 
2013-03-25 10:59:07 PM  

Ronin FF: The Irresponsible Captain: Two reasons. Both pert.

Plus, young girls today are into the naughty stuff you were begging your girlfriend for in high school.

I'm 42, and my GF is 24. You nailed it.


I sure did. How do I taste?
 
2013-03-25 11:00:39 PM  

jmr61: 51, hangs with 20-somethings regularly. They are fun, cute and full of life.


I'm just the opposite. I'm 24 and hang out with mostly people over 40. I find people my age to be annoying.
 
2013-03-25 11:03:54 PM  
FTA: I told my friend Jake that while a 20-something may not be as "jaded," she may still have issues that are specific to young women, like insecurities and an annoying, constant need for attention and reassurance.

Oh yeah, older women never display those types of behaviors. The very fact she wrote this article using the condescending tone she did, basically proves it.
 
2013-03-25 11:04:41 PM  
Because males are attracted to beauty and females are attracted to power.
 
2013-03-25 11:08:14 PM  

WhippingBoy: I'm in my early 40's. I date younger women for one simple reason: Younger women act more mature than older women.


We have a winnar. I'm 50, my gf is 32. not only is she the smartest person I've ever met, but she has uncommonly good sense. Which totally offsets my stupidity and lack of class.

\yeah, it's that farking big.
 
2013-03-25 11:08:27 PM  
Because younger men have been disproportionately affected by the economic collapse and most women are whores
 
2013-03-25 11:09:57 PM  
Never dated a woman younger than me. Age difference was anywhere from 2 weeks to 26 years. Mrs Shirley is a good 10 years older and we've been happily married for many years.
Too much drama with them youngsters.

meanmutton:Oh, and that screeching thing that 22 year olds do in the bars?  Yeah, not dealing with that.

That, too.
 
2013-03-25 11:12:05 PM  
because we know where the clitoris is, you fools!

images.uulyrics.com

you're doing it right now!
 
2013-03-25 11:15:17 PM  
 
2013-03-25 11:15:30 PM  

WhippingBoy: One thing always baffled me. When I was 39, I dated a 22 year old. Women my age would come up to me and say "You know, she's only dating you for your money".

To this day, I fail to see the relevance of that statement. The last thing I cared about was why she was dating me.


when i was 41 i lived with an 18 y/o. good couple of years followed, then she moved on.

/yes i'm bragging.
 
2013-03-25 11:16:03 PM  

WhoopAssWayne: All the fark liberals are going to be in for a bad time when their precious little snowflake daughters - everyone gets an A+++ - start riding the pole in some crappy downtown strip joint. Liberal "child-raising" is pure child abuse in my view, and we see the sad results every day to prove it, and it costs us all.


Most strippers come from liberal families? Thank you for your counter-intuitive, rectally extracted factoid.

/Did I just feed a troll?
 
2013-03-25 11:17:37 PM  

BarkingUnicorn: Shortly before washing my hands of the entire human race, I spent three years dating no one old enough to drink or too young to vote.   I was in my 50s.

There are plenty of such girls who are not gold-diggers or Electra. They generally don't like girls their ages.  Boys their ages bore them.  They are smart, kind, socially conscious, and ladylike.  They are modestly employed and financially responsible.  They are curious, open-minded, and brave.  They have lots of pride but little vanity.  They're a minority, but they're everywhere and all it takes is eyes with which to see them and confidence to talk to them.  They are seeking to have adventures, not end adventuring.

What's not to like?


A large portion of them tend to be school teachers.
 
2013-03-25 11:22:19 PM  

Psycoholic_Slag: BarkingUnicorn: Shortly before washing my hands of the entire human race, I spent three years dating no one old enough to drink or too young to vote.   I was in my 50s.

There are plenty of such girls who are not gold-diggers or Electra. They generally don't like girls their ages.  Boys their ages bore them.  They are smart, kind, socially conscious, and ladylike.  They are modestly employed and financially responsible.  They are curious, open-minded, and brave.  They have lots of pride but little vanity.  They're a minority, but they're everywhere and all it takes is eyes with which to see them and confidence to talk to them.  They are seeking to have adventures, not end adventuring.

What's not to like?

A large portion of them tend to be school teachers.


Before they can drink?  Impossible!
 
2013-03-25 11:25:35 PM  
I married a 20 year-old stripper when I was in my mid-30's, so I'm getting a kick out these replies.
 
2013-03-25 11:25:46 PM  

Quantum Apostrophe: martid4: Because men age like wine and women age like milk.

I always heard that a woman's value is like a car, a man's value is like a house.


That's true.

A man ISN'T worth much, after you set him on fire...
 
2013-03-25 11:27:50 PM  

drjekel_mrhyde: Digitalstrange: Fark I am disappoint, I was expecting this thread to be nothing but pics of hot young girls.

[i.imgur.com image 590x782]


we really need to work on your definition of both hot and young.
 
2013-03-25 11:28:49 PM  
From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?
 
2013-03-25 11:31:25 PM  

Dellirium: martid4: I'm 52 and my girlfriends are 22, 26, 27, 32, 35, 41 and 44.  I'm trying to get them in a pile.

Average age = 32.5

Niiiice!


Yeah, but I'm thinking about hanging red flags in the lockers of the 41 and 44 year olds.  Women are like dog turds, the older they get the easier they are to pick up.
 
2013-03-25 11:32:12 PM  
I actually prefer slightly older women.
They have their own money.
 
2013-03-25 11:32:36 PM  

BarkingUnicorn: Psycoholic_Slag: BarkingUnicorn: Shortly before washing my hands of the entire human race, I spent three years dating no one old enough to drink or too young to vote.   I was in my 50s.

There are plenty of such girls who are not gold-diggers or Electra. They generally don't like girls their ages.  Boys their ages bore them.  They are smart, kind, socially conscious, and ladylike.  They are modestly employed and financially responsible.  They are curious, open-minded, and brave.  They have lots of pride but little vanity.  They're a minority, but they're everywhere and all it takes is eyes with which to see them and confidence to talk to them.  They are seeking to have adventures, not end adventuring.

What's not to like?

A large portion of them tend to be school teachers.

Before they can drink?  Impossible!


Lulz!  I read right past that part.  I'm not sure I can go that young just because I have a 19 yr old daughter and I think it would be too awkward.  I'm over 50 and most of the young women I've had experience with in the last few years were in the 26 to 30 range.
 
2013-03-25 11:32:53 PM  

mrlewish: Macular Degenerate: I'm 41, skyping with a 20 year old who thinks I'm hot, I'm getting a kick out of these replies.


Kenny, is that you?
 
2013-03-25 11:35:05 PM  

minoridiot: I married a 20 year-old stripper when I was in my mid-30's, so I'm getting a kick out these replies.


How old was the guy you married her to, Rev?
 
2013-03-25 11:36:51 PM  

Nidiot: From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?


To wander a post-apocalyptic wasteland, searching for ever-scarcer supplies of petrol while avoiding the roving gangs of crazed nomads...
 
2013-03-25 11:37:08 PM  

KrispyKritter: way to miss the point of TFA, Subby. lady doctor writer is pointing out to her dentist friend that he has sweet young poonie because he pulls in mondo cash in his practice.


He's almost certainly aware of that already.

"She's only dating you because you're mature, experienced, and have more money than younger men!"

Well duh.
 
2013-03-25 11:40:56 PM  

Nidiot: From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?


the moral of this story is if you are an older woman without a man it is because you chose to reject dozens of good quality men during your 20s, and now get to experience your own medicine during your 30s (with interest).

the advice is to invest in a good man when your market value is high instead of pissing away your 20s riding the badboy and alpha cock carousel. they will dump your ass as soon as it is worthless because they are are not stupid, and they are completely aware that you dont actually love them or care about them. they know that you only care about the way they make you feel and the way they make you look.
 
2013-03-25 11:41:04 PM  

Macular Degenerate: I'm 41, skyping with a 20 year old who thinks I'm hot, I'm getting a kick out of these replies.


Is she in Canada?
 
2013-03-25 11:47:34 PM  
This:

rosalingerie.files.wordpress.com

or this?

i.telegraph.co.uk
 
2013-03-25 11:48:29 PM  

Unhip1: I actually prefer slightly older women.
They have their own money.


That would be fair, men get younger women who want them for their money, and women get younger men who want them for their money. Only it rarely works that way around.

Things they don't tell you at school: women who are single at forty are so irrelevant they should just shoot themselves.
 
2013-03-25 11:49:17 PM  

Psycoholic_Slag: BarkingUnicorn: Psycoholic_Slag: BarkingUnicorn: Shortly before washing my hands of the entire human race, I spent three years dating no one old enough to drink or too young to vote.   I was in my 50s.

There are plenty of such girls who are not gold-diggers or Electra. They generally don't like girls their ages.  Boys their ages bore them.  They are smart, kind, socially conscious, and ladylike.  They are modestly employed and financially responsible.  They are curious, open-minded, and brave.  They have lots of pride but little vanity.  They're a minority, but they're everywhere and all it takes is eyes with which to see them and confidence to talk to them.  They are seeking to have adventures, not end adventuring.

What's not to like?

A large portion of them tend to be school teachers.

Before they can drink?  Impossible!

Lulz!  I read right past that part.  I'm not sure I can go that young just because I have a 19 yr old daughter and I think it would be too awkward.  I'm over 50 and most of the young women I've had experience with in the last few years were in the 26 to 30 range.


I'd probably feel the same if I had a daughter.  But I don't, though it was often assumed that I did.  I remember one booth wench at a Ren faire who asked me quietly,

"So, is this a family outing?"

"Let me ask.  DARLING, ARE YOU PREGNANT?"

"What?? NO!"

"I guess not, dear."
 
2013-03-25 11:53:21 PM  

shower_in_my_socks: Why is this issue never explored with the question "Why do younger women date older men?"?


This! People don't want to ask this question because any answer beyond "he has money or fame" would force them to think harder than Hollywood writers.

CS:
After years of having the "no more than five years" rule I started dating someone 20 years my senior. One date went to 2, 2 went to 10, 10 went to me moving in and now I'm planning our 4th Anniversary.

Guys my age are still binge drinking at the club or are just starting to find themselves. Which is all fine and dandy, its not my life. However, dating someone that loves sushi one week then hates it the next is too frustrating and confusing. One does not simply have time for that.

Why can't I love my boyfriend because he knows what he wants, he has more sexual experience, he has a steady routine, he doesn't need me to show him how to hang drywall, he is a gentleman, or because he is a (proven) good father?

No, it has to because I can't count to potatoe, need a sugar daddy, and I'm just waiting for the day for him to die so I can collect all of his insurance and sail away on some fancy yacht with my new boyfriend that has six pack abs and no ability to speak English while giving the finger to his entire family. Yeah, that makes MUCH more sense!
 
2013-03-25 11:54:03 PM  
It was a lot more impressive five years ago when I could say I'm 32 and I'm with a 25-year-old. Now, 37 and 30 just doesn't have that same ring to it.
 
2013-03-25 11:54:47 PM  

Nidiot: From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?


Pretty much, yup.
 
2013-03-25 11:54:55 PM  

GF named my left testicle thundercles: Nidiot: From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?

the moral of this story is if you are an older woman without a man it is because you chose to reject dozens of good quality men during your 20s, and now get to experience your own medicine during your 30s (with interest).

the advice is to invest in a good man when your market value is high instead of pissing away your 20s riding the badboy and alpha cock carousel. they will dump your ass as soon as it is worthless because they are are not stupid, and they are completely aware that you dont actually love them or care about them. they know that you only care about the way they make you feel and the way they make you look.


You can talk to yourself without using an internet forum, you know.
 
2013-03-26 12:01:02 AM  
Ben Franklin had something to say about older women and younger men
 
2013-03-26 12:02:06 AM  
I noticed early on that the men who went for younger women were not the pick of the litter. They seemed rather insecure and self-centered.

Guys who liked older women though...wow...these guys are gems. Secure, adventurous and generally more intelligent.

My two cents.
 
2013-03-26 12:02:44 AM  
It dawned on me one day that I was old.

The brain kept telling me that I was still somewhere in my 30's. If that was the case, who in the hell was that 60 year old guy looking back at me from the mirror?

I reflected on the women I had cared about in the past and realized that my mental images of them were long out of date; from a time when they were in their 20's. Now, all would be over 50.

Sure, I'd noticed I was slowing down. Less vim and vigor. Legs ached at times and my back periodically acted up. I had plastic lenses installed in my eyes -- and still need glasses. The Dr told me the cataracts were from a lifetime of being outside in the sun.

I can't wolf down an entire, large, everything on it pizza like I used to. Maybe half. Then, within hours, I grab the Tums. That never used to happen. I used to be a champion of causes decades ago, determined to change the world. Now, either I figure it's too much effort for something that's going to fail anyhow or just completely stupid.

The niece I used to bounce on my knee and who thought I was the best thing since ice cream when she was 5 is now in her 20's, in college, often speaks to me like I'm a child and no longer has time to visit.

I'm single. I think about relationships. When I check out dating sites and women within my age bracket, I want to run. Baggy, draggy and saggy. MILFs with saggy boobs, lumpy hips and curiously bumpy bellies.

They remind me of my Mom.

Any woman under 21 is ..... too dippy and too inexperienced, not to mention a one way trip to the slammer and a ruined life. There's a fire in their eyes and their step that lasts well into their thirties that is attractive and they usually have well formed, smooth skinned, comfortable bodies.

I'm attracted to the 30's. They still have some expectations, can view the world with eyes not fully jaded, still like to look good for 'their' man and can be experimental, willing to try new things. Usually, by then they've learned that guzzling a bottle of Jim Beam, throwing up in the toilet, the car, the living room or on the street and suffering a hideous hangover the next day isn't all that much fun anymore.

Yet they still act and look young. There's a spring in their step. Their skin is still smooth and firm. They haven't yet developed the ingrained frown lines around their mouths or the hard look in their eyes. Most have not yet gotten the pear shape of The Great American Mom.

They're a pleasure to touch, to hold, to smell, to be around. They know what they like. Very few will give you that 'fake' affection so many younger women like to hand out like candy.

Yeah. That's what draws me to younger women.

Plus, they still wear 'panties' and not 'drawers'.

However, I'm not the handsomest man to look at. I never was. I've not turned into a beach-ball with legs, my skin doesn't resemble either that of a corpse or sun burnt, wrinkly leather. Somewhere, my abs vanished, probably around the time my ass decided to take a walk and leave me flat back there.

A bunch of my hair left and what remains is no longer silky brown, but rather a crappy grayish tint. Years of fighting lost causes has left lines in my face and more years of realizing that the majority of humanity sucks has taken a lot of the twinkle out of my eyes.

I weigh only 10 lbs more than I did in my 30's. I control my weight. I'm tired of seeing older men in shorts and baseball caps, wearing sports jerseys and sprouting beer guts the size of kegs.

A younger woman steams me up. I don't want to cuddle with someone with wrinkly, leathery skin, a voice starting to grow hoarse, legs getting spindly and the only thing plastic surgery can really fix is the face.
Over 40, anything from the neck down can't really be fixed with surgery.

Yeah, I'm not as randy as before, but the urge is still there. Medications have affected my function, but there's always Viagra. I might not be able to go three and 4 times in one night, but I can probably perform better for her. One good session might be just as satisfying as 4 hasty, hormone driven ones.

I still like black lights and scented candles. I like mood music. I like how easy a pretty woman is on the eyes. They're so graceful when they move -- before they pass 50. After 50, it starts to become obvious that there's some wear and tear on the operating machinery.

I know that from myself.

I can understand why a guy wants a younger woman. I just have problems understanding why cute, younger woman would want some of the twisted, saggy, baggy, pallid, downright ugly wrecks of older men.

It's a pain in the ass for the brain to still think you're 20 to 30 years younger than you actually are, but that will happen to all of us as we age.

Another advantage of older age: you're not as quick to start swinging in a bar after a few shots. The pain, the hassle, and the expense afterwards aint worth it.

Maybe some hair dye will help. A good set of dentures or implants. After a certain age, you can pump iron all you want, and your muscles are still going to sag. (It will strengthen your bones, though.)

Still, I can dream of meeting a younger woman. I can go back in my memories and recall all of those I've held in the past. For some, I still recall their perfume, the scent of their shampooed hair and the strength of their hugs.
 
2013-03-26 12:02:55 AM  
Middle aged men by and large really are not very attractive. Many spend too much time biatching about their ex wives and annyong teenaged kids
Just because the media tells them that they are all entitled to a hot 22 year old doesnt make it true.

The term "rhino" is often used for tge ines who think an expensive car makes them hot shiat...stubborn. grumpy ugly and horny. "Trout" is another word for an old guy who buys sex from women way out of his league physically.
 
2013-03-26 12:03:52 AM  

anuran: Ben Franklin had something to say about older women and younger men


"Early to bed, and early to rise, then sneak out the door with a clever disguise."
 
2013-03-26 12:03:56 AM  

GF named my left testicle thundercles: Nidiot: From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?

the moral of this story is if you are an older woman without a man it is because you chose to reject dozens of good quality men during your 20s, and now get to experience your own medicine during your 30s (with interest).

the advice is to invest in a good man when your market value is high instead of pissing away your 20s riding the badboy and alpha cock carousel. they will dump your ass as soon as it is worthless because they are are not stupid, and they are completely aware that you dont actually love them or care about them. they know that you only care about the way they make you feel and the way they make you look.


You know how most men are not ready to settle down and have kids in his 20's, that may also apply to some women. That is a very young age for anyone to know what they want in life IMHO and I would not personally recommend anyone get married before they are thirty. Twenty somethings of either gender are rarely mature enough. (I agree there are always exceptions, before I get a list of people explaining their own personal success stories.)

Also "you dont actually love them or care about them. they know that you only care about the way they make you feel and the way they make you look" is exactly the same thing I could say about any man dating a girl young enough to be his daughter. Shallow people occur in either gender and at any age.

What I see as genuine love and care is something that occurs between people who are individuals that are of similar ages. Youth fades, if you are in it for the long haul you better like the person you are with.  But that is just me.
 
2013-03-26 12:08:30 AM  

noitsnot: GF named my left testicle thundercles: Nidiot: From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?

the moral of this story is if you are an older woman without a man it is because you chose to reject dozens of good quality men during your 20s, and now get to experience your own medicine during your 30s (with interest).

the advice is to invest in a good man when your market value is high instead of pissing away your 20s riding the badboy and alpha cock carousel. they will dump your ass as soon as it is worthless because they are are not stupid, and they are completely aware that you dont actually love them or care about them. they know that you only care about the way they make you feel and the way they make you look.

You can talk to yourself without using an internet forum, you know.


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Nidiot:
 You know how most men are not ready to settle down and have kids in his 20's, that may also apply to some women. That is a very young age for anyone to know what they want in life IMHO and I would not personally recommend anyone get married before they are thirty. Twenty somethings of either gender are rarely mature enough. (I agree there are always exceptions, before I get a list of people explaining their own personal success stories.)


Also "you dont actually love them or care about them. they know that you only care about the way they make you feel and the way they make you look" is exactly the same thing I could say about any man dating a girl young enough to be his daughter. Shallow people ...



i agree with everything you just said.
 
2013-03-26 12:19:02 AM  
I like older women, but they've got to be total whores in bed.
 
2013-03-26 12:22:41 AM  
Same reason older gay men try to score with younger guys ... or at least pay them generously to mow their yards (meant literally, not a euphemism).
 
2013-03-26 12:34:14 AM  

GF named my left testicle thundercles: Nidiot: From GF named my left testicle thundercles's link:
"when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls ... It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

...and then men wonder why older women are jaded...

Really, is that all that an older woman can expect from life, to be nothing more than repeatedly pumped and dumped or to spent the next half of her life a lonely old cat woman? Is the advice to marry in your 20's and hope to hell you never divorce or your husband doesn't die because after that you are completely unwanted?

the moral of this story is if you are an older woman without a man it is because you chose to reject dozens of good quality men during your 20s, and now get to experience your own medicine during your 30s (with interest).

the advice is to invest in a good man when your market value is high instead of pissing away your 20s riding the badboy and alpha cock carousel. they will dump your ass as soon as it is worthless because they are are not stupid, and they are completely aware that you dont actually love them or care about them. they know that you only care about the way they make you feel and the way they make you look.


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