serial_crusher: "found jesus in prison"
starrion: I am actually physically sick. I have never heard of this:http://www.nytimes.com/2012/05/23/us/native-americans-struggle-with-h i gh-rate-of-rape.html?pagewanted=2&_r=0">http://www.nytimes.com/2012/0 5/23/us/native-americans-struggle-with-hi gh-rate-of-rape.html?pagewanted=2&_r=0I mean WTF? How the hell is this tolerated? WHY HASN'T THIS BEEN DEALT WITH BEFORE?RAPE TOURS?!! How about NO!
Wall_of_Doodoo: Off to watch another episode of 'the legue' and cuddle my girlfriend. This weekend we work out then have dinner at bob Evans. I love our lameness.
Cold_Sassy: FARK rebel soldier: Brostorm: These are trash people making horrible decisions. ... Was he a piece of human garbage? Absolutely.you are a puppet: shes trash. She let that dude be around her kids and now they will probably grow up to be trash too. Circle of trashWho could believe this is the same guy with TRASH tattoed down his left side (#24)I noticed that also. Self-labeling?
imfallen_angel: zabadu: I'm 52 years old. I have never been in an abusive relationship. I have had friends that have been.I don't profess to know anything other than this was real, not staged (he got arrested folks, and I posted proof of that), people get angry to the point where they see nothing else that matters (go study "rage"), and guys who pretend they are cops are usually f-d up (see above macho posts).Reality TV has made people horribly cynical to real life situations. If you know of any seriously mature 15 year olds that could raise a family with the same mindset a 30 year old would, please tell. This girl is 19. And she gets blamed.At first I was...[i478.photobucket.com image 218x150]Then I was[i478.photobucket.com image 300x200]Then you make me think that since you believe yourself all smart and crap and others are busting your bubble, that you must be...[i478.photobucket.com image 461x576]
Yogimus: Staple this to your door. (literally this: print it out)[media.masslive.com image 665x481]
serial_crusher: The incredible thing is that you think people are normal, but can never really tell. If this family can fall apart, is anyone safe?
imfallen_angel: And if you decided to keep your attitude of smugness (in a freaking thread about abuse)... then I'd offer...
GoSurfing: WhippingBoy: GoSurfing: And besides, some people are more talented/smarter/awesome than you.YOU maybe. Not me. Not me.Pfft. Anything you can do I can do better, I can do anything better than you.
WhippingBoy: GoSurfing: And besides, some people are more talented/smarter/awesome than you.YOU maybe. Not me. Not me.
Slam1263: ...No fisticuffs, no hard ass noise, just a little bit of experience with dumb young males, I am a former Marine, I was young and dumb, and everyone went home verticle.Honest ...
Mistress Jedana: She missed a lot of warning signs--competition with the young son, overcompensating with the daughter.
Thunderpipes: Anyone in the world with half a brain could see where her ingenious plan would lead. Fact you are defending that stupidity sheds light on the capacity of your Obama fascinated mind.
Tat'dGreaser: Thunderpipes: In the modern age, where information is everywhere, I have to ask what kind of modern woman would take being abused even once. This is not the 50's where you have nobody to go to. Women do not grow up today ignorant about the world. Why would a woman think getting to know a guy in prison, then dating and being with him is a good idea? Why?Guys so the same thing, get whipped, have no spine, are miserable and to wuss to do anything about it, so it is not just women. Lots of people who are just maybe weak and scared.Are you trolling or are you always this f*cking retarded?
FARK rebel soldier: Brostorm: These are trash people making horrible decisions. ... Was he a piece of human garbage? Absolutely.you are a puppet: shes trash. She let that dude be around her kids and now they will probably grow up to be trash too. Circle of trashWho could believe this is the same guy with TRASH tattoed down his left side (#24)
Chach: Tatted-up ex-con who assaults his live-in girlfriend at a trailer park and sees himself as being in competition with a male child for her attention.Yep, the Ohio State hat definitely makes sense.
I Like Bread: I've gotten violent with a woman exactly once. Sort of swung something at her that was way heavier than I thought it was. I was lashing out because of that same feeling of isolation, being forced into a living situation I couldn't get out of, and basically her being a large tumor that I needed to cut out of my life.There was plenty of screaming though. Honestly, I did it to keep her away. Conversations would always escalate and I'd scream her down and make my escape. Eventually that wasn't enough for her. More than once I'd be sitting in a small locked room, tearing my hair out, with her outside kicking the door because she wasn't done telling me how much of a piece of shiat I was for running out of money to support her with. Or how I'm a liar and can't keep my promises because I failed to rescue her from her smoldering crater of a life. Eventually I became incapable of speaking to her at a normal volume because every word out of her mouth was bargaining, begging, judging, denying, or disagreeing. Seeing or hearing her made my blood boil. If another woman ever says, "How can you just stop loving someone?" to me again, I don't know how I'll react.But yeah... once it got physical I knew I had to get out at all costs. I didn't like the person I was changing into. Most of my stuff is now sitting in a landfill and I'm sleeping on a futon at my parents' house. It might be another few years before I'm ready for a relationship.
Terrible Old Man: JerkyMeat: Young women LOVE men like this and they get what they deserve. They reject the "nice" guy. So, now she knows. Fark her.Wow, really? You think an overweight, unemployed, single mother with obvious low self-esteem and no options with 2 kids has choices in her love life? Why the hell did you think she was relegated to prison men?You're as disgusting as the abuser is.
Random Anonymous Blackmail: Ceiling MoranEvery single one of you even partially blaming the victim: fark you. All of you. You're part of the problem.Date An InmateI am sure her release date or 2023-2040 in no way is a red flag.
Ihaveanevilparrot: Ladies, if you see a tat on a guy that describes him in a negative manner, the tat is probably true. Just sayin'. You were forewarned. In HUGE letters nonetheless.
orclover: Ihaveanevilparrot: orclover: I know waaaay too many women like her. In my life I would almost call her typical. Yes my life has been described as "farked up" by outside "normal" people.Are you, too, part of the "you can't possibly know/have seen that much farked up stuff because we don't want to believe..." club?[25.media.tumblr.com image 500x375]i've seen some shiat man.....
Ihaveanevilparrot: skullkrusher: [timethemoment.files.wordpress.com image 735x490]that lat tat pretty much sums it upI didn't notice that one.Ladies, if you see a tat on a guy that describes him in a negative manner, the tat is probably true. Just sayin'. You were forewarned. In HUGE letters nonetheless.Didn't a comedian already do a skit about this same thing?
Freudian_slipknot: I think most of them focus on the "nice" thing because they have to work SO HARD to be a decent human towards women, who they clearly actually think are sub-humans or uninteresting or otherwise unworthy of friendship, that all they can think of is the sheer wasted effort that went into treating them like people, only to receive little or no sex in return.
moonscatter: KIA: Welcome to redneck America. Oh, and... don't date felons or people who carry visible demonstrations of their inability to make good life choices.I know this REALLY awesome rich doctor. He'll treat you "just like family." He's incredibly wealthy, having patented a surgical procedure for carpal tunnel cases. His name is Michael Brown and he's looking for a new love. You should check him out.
Yogimus: Theaetetus: Yogimus: Why the hell would you watch a man beat a woman, when you could ACT?And do...?I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest that the photographer is not Ronda Rousey. But if you have better information about her capabilities, feel free to offer them up.Here is the thing (and the photographer would have no way of knowing this)1. Abusive people are farking cowards. No, seriously... not because they abuse, but because of the pattern they develop2. They train their victim for MONTHS prior to that 1st beating, to make sure they are dependent enough to not leave3. They need to build up the courage to beat their victim. See #1. This takes time.4. When the beating occurs, it is almost sexual in its catharsis.5. A variable introduced into this equation with fark it all up for the abuser.6. Seriously.. how can you just WATCH?!
ciberido: ReapTheChaos: So, the photographer just stood there the whole time snapping photos while both parties act oblivious to her presence then the dude beats the shiat out of his wife while someone snaps pics?Bullshiat.FTA: I've been castigated by a number of anonymous internet commenters who have said that I should have somehow physically intervened between the two. Their criticism counters what actual law enforcement officers have told me - that physically intervening would have likely only made the situation worse, endangering me, and further endangering Maggie.So either you didn't bother to read the article, or you think you're more of an expert on domestic violence than the police.
Yogimus: sendtodave: Yogimus: sendtodave: That's not her job.Bullshiat. That's everyone's job.Their criticism counters what actual law enforcement officers have told me - that physically intervening would have likely only made the situation worse, endangering me, and further endangering Maggie.No, it isn't.Puck you. You are a piece of shiate if you accept another human being get beaten in front of you. No excuse, you are a farking coward for watching without acting. Is there risk? Yes. Man up, grow a pair of ovaries, whatever it takes.
A Terrible Human: JerkyMeat: Young women LOVE men like this and they get what they deserve. They reject the "nice" guy. So, now she knows. Fark her.Quantum Apostrophe: Don't forget, ladies, he'll change for you. That nice guy at the office is just so boring and nerdy.BummerDuck: She was actually good looking, and I am sure she could have gotten a better, or at least less violent male companion. However, I'm sure she told all those guys "You are a really nice guy, but you are not my type...".The fark is wrong with some of you? Out of all threads this is the one you pick to pull out your nice guy bullshiat?
J. Frank Parnell: Jixa: Maybe it's just my "survivor's paranoia", but what disturbed me more was the disproportionate amount of attention he lavished on the little girl.*checks profile*Hentai-con really that bad?
gja: serial_crusher: "found jesus in prison"Wow. Even he got busted?DAY-UM!
Yogimus: TV's Vinnie: And remember folks. The republicans are dead-set against the Violence Against Women Act in any way, shape, or form.Link the act, specifically the portions you support. I find "acts" that have feelgood names are more often than not complete bullshiat that do little to solve the issues they are named after. Is beating a woman legal? No? Then why more laws? What is the benefit?/50% snark, 50% curiosity. Feel free to tell me to half fark myself.
A Terrible Human: nice guy bullshiat?
Yogimus: 50% snark, 50% curiosity. Feel free to tell me to half fark myself.
Jixa: Maybe it's just my "survivor's paranoia"
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