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2013-01-23 04:26:46 PM

dopekitty74: Shut up Meg!
/oblig


Nice!
 
2013-01-23 04:28:50 PM

argylez: BIE?


Jeez, don't waste any time, do you? ; )
 
2013-01-23 04:31:10 PM

dopekitty74: CygnusDarius: The Angry Hand of God: CygnusDarius: As much as the general consensus on condoms (even I think so) making sex dull, it's better that than to get a burning surprise the next morning, or a kid you don't want/not ready to raise.

[media.247sports.com image 640x480]

I've yet to meet a woman that:

1.- Is bi-curious
2.- Gladly gives head
3.- Says yes to anal (then again, it has never occurred to me)
4.- A combination of the three above

You poor thing...
/Bi, love oral and anal.
//we DO exist!


Uh huh. I totally believe you.
 
2013-01-23 04:34:46 PM
Condoms are disgusting. You wouldn't put a plastic bag over your grandmother's head would you?

/uses them even though I'm in a monogamous relationship
//children are filthy little creatures
///is too scared to get a vasectomy
 
2013-01-23 04:35:45 PM

o'really: Cygnus, maybe the problem is you are in mexico?

/but then again, aren't the catholics down for buttsecks to avoid losing their "virginity"? Or is that only evangelicals?


I like to think society has come (pun intended) a long way from the traditional catholic values, but the catholic hypocrisy (that is, faking it) is still there, for sake of the status quo.
 
2013-01-23 04:35:54 PM

Stephanie M 1992: thecpt: your profile just had more clicks than the big wheel has ever made

Oh my--my lurking days have ended, and it starts off like this?

I'm doin' OK--how are all of you?


so your profile says you do porn? what is that like? Really, not the "oohhh it's great I get paid to have sex" answer, but the genuine answer
 
2013-01-23 04:36:43 PM

Kazan: jsteiner78: Then when you become sexually active, you realize, its because it feels way worse with one - its shocking because you were never warned, then you start to wonder about the other things they taught -

stop buying cheap ones.


You mean to tell me sheep-skin condoms suck?.
 
2013-01-23 04:39:37 PM
Where is the unlikely tag when you need it?
 
2013-01-23 04:42:23 PM

ModernPrimitive01: You wouldn't put a plastic bag over your grandmother's head would you?


I will not think of my pork sword and my grandma at the same time. I go into shutdown mode and actually start doing work. Please provide another example.
 
2013-01-23 04:43:48 PM

ModernPrimitive01: so your profile says you do porn? what is that like? Really, not the "oohhh it's great I get paid to have sex" answer, but the genuine answer


Once in awhile--not often. I have a couple of friends in the business (in a very small way, not big-timers), and sometimes I'll call them or they'll call me. It's OK. It's erotic to a point, but it's also a job (sort of). Mostly it's just kinda for fun. But unless I know the male talent personally, which is not often, condoms are a must with me. I HATE condoms, but I want to stay healthy and happy, you know? ; ) I don't know what working in big-time porn (such as it is) is like, and have no plans to find out. What I've got going on now works fine for me. Boring answer, probably.
 
2013-01-23 04:43:58 PM

Stephanie M 1992: argylez: BIE?

Jeez, don't waste any time, do you? ; )


You must be new here..

//I must be old here..
 
2013-01-23 04:44:04 PM

ModernPrimitive01: ...
///is too scared to get a vasectomy


I can attest to the fact that a vasectomy is infinitely superior to condoms. A little discomfort for a day or two followed by a couple months of mild discomfort followed by never again having to use a damn condom.

/my only word of caution - don't do a cannonball into a pool shortly after getting snipped. holy hell did that hurt.
 
2013-01-23 04:46:14 PM

themanuf: ModernPrimitive01: ...
///is too scared to get a vasectomy

I can attest to the fact that a vasectomy is infinitely superior to condoms. A little discomfort for a day or two followed by a couple months of mild discomfort followed by never again having to use a damn condom.

/my only word of caution - don't do a cannonball into a pool shortly after getting snipped. holy hell did that hurt.


Seconded. Two tiny incisions, a couple of snips, and you're done. The worst part by far is having to use some form of control until you're negative (which in my case, was condoms. boo).
 
2013-01-23 04:47:59 PM
First time I used a correctly fitting condom I suddenly understood that safe sex could indeed be OK.

Imagine my surprise. I'd all but written safe sex off as not even worth doing.

If you have not gone through the trouble to try all the brands and sizes, you don't know what you're missing.

/the condoms handed out for free in clubs likely aren't an ideal fit for you.
 
2013-01-23 04:49:08 PM
those scientists are liars
 
2013-01-23 04:50:08 PM

studebaker hoch:
/the condoms handed out for free in clubs likely aren't an ideal fit for you.


I know, they're way too small, right?
 
2013-01-23 04:51:38 PM
Trojan Magnums and they barely fit.
 
2013-01-23 04:57:45 PM

Stephanie M 1992: Hello, Zul--didn't expect to finally see me here, did you? ; )


HA! No I didn't. Glad to see you finally joined us. And I see you've already made some "friends"...

Call me later, got an idea I want to run past you.
 
2013-01-23 04:57:47 PM
Yeah I've never use a condom again after my first time. Condoms are terrible. And I don't lack for endurance anyhow, so a condom basically means I'll never get there. And its more like you are having sex with a piece of latex than a person. The woman might as well be having sex with a dildo - with a condom on I don't think she would know the difference.

That's why we have birth control pills and anti-biotics.
 
2013-01-23 04:58:35 PM

HotIgneous Intruder: Trojan Magnums and they barely fit.


You do realize they aren't supposed to fit like a set of baggy pants you have to keep on hitching up to keep them from falling down right?
 
2013-01-23 04:59:12 PM

Zul the Magnificent: Stephanie M 1992: Hello, Zul--didn't expect to finally see me here, did you? ; )

HA! No I didn't. Glad to see you finally joined us. And I see you've already made some "friends"...

Call me later, got an idea I want to run past you.


He means his penis.
 
2013-01-23 04:59:56 PM

Zul the Magnificent: Call me later


K. ; )
 
2013-01-23 05:00:51 PM
These scientists have never
 
2013-01-23 05:01:50 PM

HotIgneous Intruder: Trojan Magnums and they barely fit.


You aren't supposed to wear them like this:
www.collegewallofshame.com
 
2013-01-23 05:03:53 PM

bk3k: Yeah I've never use a condom again after my first time. Condoms are terrible. And I don't lack for endurance anyhow, so a condom basically means I'll never get there. And its more like you are having sex with a piece of latex than a person. The woman might as well be having sex with a dildo - with a condom on I don't think she would know the difference.

That's why we have birth control pills and anti-biotics.


It's really most effective if your lady takes both at the same time
 
2013-01-23 05:23:33 PM
rickycal78:
o'really: /but then again, aren't the catholics down for buttsecks to avoid losing their "virginity"? Or is that only evangelicals?

"You're thinking Catholic school girls. Catholic women don't want the penis anywhere near them unless it's for kids."

Must explain why I'm down for buttsecks.

/all girls catholic school
//not catholic
 
2013-01-23 05:30:45 PM
I can see that in your profile picture.

/Which is oviously Photoshopped. I can tell by the pixels.
 
2013-01-23 05:33:36 PM
Trojan magnums and a rubber band work pretty well.
/a friend told me
 
2013-01-23 05:36:20 PM

stonicus: Maybe when you were young and could still count up/remember the total number of times you've ever had sex. Maybe I'm just getting old and there's no novelty factor left in it, but I'd rather just jerk off than use a condom. Sounds jerkish to say it, but it's true.


I get that sentiment when you're having sex often, you get to be picky. But we're talking about when the alternative is not having sex at all. How long do you think you'd last jerkin off because you don't want to use a condom? Few weeks? Few months?
 
2013-01-23 05:39:42 PM

ModernPrimitive01: You wouldn't put a plastic bag over your grandmother's head would you?


Just stick to what you can prove in court.
 
2013-01-23 05:56:52 PM
It really does for me since I am not a one ejaculation and then I am done person I tend to go at least twice and with a condom it means only once which means I have to put a lot more effort into control than enjoyment. Also I do not care what type of condom one uses sex does not feel as good with one physically or mentally. I prefer to have sex with someone I can trust than use a condom, but will use one if I have to.
 
2013-01-23 06:03:53 PM
The male O is usually the male O, without much variation. There is the rare exception, but that always comes without a condom.

But even if the O is about the same, getting there is much, much more enjoyable without a condom.

Plus, disposing of the thing afterward is not very romantic.
 
2013-01-23 06:12:06 PM
ITT people who have never had an opportunity to use a condom claiming the study is wrong.
 
2013-01-23 06:18:23 PM

lennavan: stonicus: Maybe when you were young and could still count up/remember the total number of times you've ever had sex. Maybe I'm just getting old and there's no novelty factor left in it, but I'd rather just jerk off than use a condom. Sounds jerkish to say it, but it's true.

I get that sentiment when you're having sex often, you get to be picky. But we're talking about when the alternative is not having sex at all. How long do you think you'd last jerkin off because you don't want to use a condom? Few weeks? Few months?


7 years? Celibate by personality! Suck it! Or even just look at it a little. Anything. Please?
 
2013-01-23 06:30:49 PM

demidog: CygnusDarius: The Angry Hand of God: CygnusDarius: As much as the general consensus on condoms (even I think so) making sex dull, it's better that than to get a burning surprise the next morning, or a kid you don't want/not ready to raise.

[media.247sports.com image 640x480]

I've yet to meet a woman that:

1.- Is bi-curious
2.- Gladly gives head
3.- Says yes to anal (then again, it has never occurred to me)
4.- A combination of the three above

Really? Is this a troll? I would say most of the girls I've dated have been #4.


I think he is just married. Like me. Before marriage, my wife was good to go with bj's and was ok with doing threesomes with her roommate. After marriage? I'm lucky if I get missionary with the lights out.
 
2013-01-23 06:35:12 PM
Well that was heterocentric.
 
2013-01-23 06:35:24 PM

dopekitty74: CygnusDarius: The Angry Hand of God: CygnusDarius: As much as the general consensus on condoms (even I think so) making sex dull, it's better that than to get a burning surprise the next morning, or a kid you don't want/not ready to raise.

[media.247sports.com image 640x480]

I've yet to meet a woman that:

1.- Is bi-curious
2.- Gladly gives head
3.- Says yes to anal (then again, it has never occurred to me)
4.- A combination of the three above

You poor thing...
/Bi, love oral and anal.
//we DO exist!


Let me guess...Your five hundred pounds, have 6 kids.
 
2013-01-23 06:38:59 PM
farm9.staticflickr.com

You know how much condoms used to cost back in them days?
How much?
I don't know, we never used 'em.
 
2013-01-23 06:47:19 PM
What and the fark is a 'condom'?
 
2013-01-23 06:51:19 PM

Shazam999: I don't mind condoms, I usually last longer with one on.


^This.
 
2013-01-23 06:53:06 PM
i'd rather jerk it than use a condom. what the fark are you gay
 
2013-01-23 06:55:38 PM
Profedius:
"It really does for me since I am not a one ejaculation and then I am done person I tend to go at least twice and with a condom it means only once which means I have to put a lot more effort into control than enjoyment."

Sorry, why can't you just put on a second condom?
 
2013-01-23 07:02:36 PM
How about you just take a shower afterwards?
 
2013-01-23 07:14:30 PM
I only had one condom nightmare. I put the thing on her nightstand, hoping it would be ready to go when I needed it. Turns out it was an antique nightstand and the damn thing stained the antique laquer. Talk about a romance killer.
 
2013-01-23 07:20:05 PM

NeoBad: I only had one condom nightmare. I put the thing on her nightstand, hoping it would be ready to go when I needed it. Turns out it was an antique nightstand and the damn thing stained the antique laquer. Talk about a romance killer.


it's not romance if your gay!
 
2013-01-23 07:48:13 PM

jonny_q: Condom = less stimulation. But if the stimulation is good enough to keep going, then you can keep going for a LONG LONG LONG time.

Without it, it's better but often harder to keep going.


For some of us, that's a downside. I already tend to last longer than what I'd consider optimal (often for both people involved). With a rubber, I eventually give up, worn out and frustrated, about 60% of the time.

Condoms are a terrible necessity. I despise those things. The option to pursue other birth control methods is one of a short list of benefits that I find in monogamous relationships.
 
2013-01-23 07:54:08 PM

CruJones: Condoms absolutely make it worse. Will I wear them with a random? Sure. Someone I'm dating and we're both tested? Hell no. For the most part, I can't finish while wearing one. The exception being when I was 20 years old, they were great. They helped me last longer. But now that I'm 36 I have the opposite problem.


I was having the same problem until I tried the Avanti Bare, thinnest condoms commonly sold in the US and they're stronger than Trojan Magnums (only had .75% failure versus about 3%). Get a small pack locally and then bulk buy them on Amazon. Oh, and they're also good with low to moderate latex alergies.
 
2013-01-23 08:02:07 PM
Using a condom is like washing your feet with your socks on. No matter what the public service announcements -- or MTV TV shows -- say, sex using a condom is simply not as good for the guy. There is no comparison. Condoms are a matter of practicality, but stop trying to convince everyone that there is no difference. There is definitely a difference.

And yes, sex with condoms DOES impede the activity, especially if you use them correctly. To prevent pregnancy and disease, you're supposed to be 100 percent clean when you put on the condom. This means that if you're in the middle of a passionate moment and you're already emitting pre-cum, you are technically supposed to stop what you're doing, go wash off the pre-cum, and THEN put on the condom. If you penetrate for a while and then pull out, perhaps to temporarily move on to some other activity, before coming back to penetrate again, you are supposed to CHANGE the condom, again making sure that all bodily fluids are absent before doing so. I didn't make up these rules, kids -- this is what the condom manufacturers tell you to do if you want to do it correctly.

A big part of sex is the exchange of bodily fluids. Condoms, when used properly, are specifically designed to prevent this. YES, they impede sexual activity. If your standards are low and all you're interested in is a poke, then they're not much of a bother, But if you're really into your partner and the sex, then the damned things are a nuisance.
 
2013-01-23 08:06:43 PM
Wife says the pill makes her looney and messes her cycle all to hell.  Condoms for me until we have kids.  Finding the right size is helpful but there is no good way to stop the presses so to speak and put on the rubber.  I have to pre tear the damn packaging and put it on the nightstand.  No spontaneous sex outside of oral.

The day our second child is born I'll be on the couch with a beer in one hand and a bag of frozen peas on my lap.
 
2013-01-23 08:18:28 PM

ModernPrimitive01: Condoms are disgusting. You wouldn't put a plastic bag over your grandmother's head would you?

/uses them even though I'm in a monogamous relationship
//children are filthy little creatures
///is too scared to get a vasectomy


The big V is the best move ever. Did it and never regretted it.
 
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