Dude. Man up and leave. The other one isn't yours either.

Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it

BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.

In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases. The guy decided to stick it out and keep his family intact. Is it the decision that I would have made? Hell no. But, how much of a hypocrite do you have to be to pontificate about absentee fathers in other threads and then to come in here and complain that this guy didn't run crying into the woods when he found out his wife was a cheater. The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows. Sure, I see how you could twist that to be something weak, I just don't understand why you would.

FFS, just tell the damn kid that his little sister had a different father, but Mommy and Daddy love *both* of the kids no matter what.

The child will encounter other kids with half-siblings, step-siblings, and adopted siblings.  It's not exactly rare these days.  All he needs to know is that they're a family.  Don't make those kids feel shame over a situation they had nothing to do with.
It's not the fault of the two kids.  Those kids need love and support.  The adults have to straighten up and get their shiat together.

TwistedFark: DROxINxTHExWIND: The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.

Now you're being a douche bag. There is no part of a "mans responsibility" that dictates he has to cohabitate with a woman that's cheated on him and had a baby by another man. He has a responsiblity certainly to his biological son, but I'd say that even in all this - where is the daughters biological father? Oh that's right, he's not in the picture. You're dancing around this if you ask me because it's uncomfortable. Whatever - but your opinion of what a mans responsibilities is, is frankly, rather regressive. It's no more correct than say, a woman staying with a husband that abuses her emotionally or physically simply because leaving would be "avoiding her womans responsibilities".

Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish...then you come in here talking about how fast you would have gotten rid of that biatch for cheating. Is marriage til death do you part or not? And if you treat your marriage the same way you treat going steady in high school, then what the fark was the point in getting married. Not only are people in this thread totally looking past the vows that are so sacred any other time, they're deriding the father who DID STAY as some sort of pussy. I clearly stated earler in the thread that I WOULD NOT have stayed in the relationship, but I'm not the one who runs into these threads to talk down about single parents. When exactly did it become OK to raise a child in a single parent home? If I never marry my childs mother I'm part of the problem, but if I run out of the house when times get tough then I'm sensible? GTFO of here with that bullshiat.

Karac: evaned: Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.

And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.

OK then, decent point. How about we limit my previous statement to everyone in his family, friends, neighbors, fellow churchgoers, and occasional bystanders who noticed that the wife was pregnant while the daughter while married to him.


Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches. You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.

inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?

NOT "a" legal aide, "LEGAL AID" the entity you nitwit. It's an organization of lawyers who are either subsidized or paid for fully by the government/courts. It's lawyers for poor people, and before you get accepted as a client, there's an intake process to see if you qualify.

DROxINxTHExWIND: I guess you only see a problem when its a black child.

Having no father around is a problem regardless of race. Statistics say the problem is much more common among blacks. Just another thing that can't be discussed without it "saying something about the person who mentions it" to paraphrase your sentiment. That won't lead to improvement in the situation.

That's a farked situation. I'd be the fark out of there.

ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

It cost him a lot of money because he was a farking moron. You ask for the paternity test before you sign shiat. This means every time you have a kid too.

Only suckers convince themselves that they can trust their women in such a situation. You can't. And you women who flip out over us asking for a paternity test: fark you.

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish

We're looking down on the wife, not the kid. Duh. I can't believe you posted without bothering to actually read the posts.

DROxINxTHExWIND: but I have less tolerance for people who don't read thr article

Oh awkward.

Pfffft. I bet your ass thought you said something real slick when you posted that. Lol. Your reading comprehension fails you. You look down at the UNWED who have children, not the children. Smh. I waited a few minutes to post this just so you could bask in your percieved awesomeness for a little while longer. You're welcome.

Is this the thread where we talk about black guys dumping gorgeous black chicks for dumpy white ones?

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: I guess you only see a problem when its a black child.

Having no father around is a problem regardless of race. Statistics say the problem is much more common among blacks. Just another thing that can't be discussed without it "saying something about the person who mentions it" to paraphrase your sentiment. That won't lead to improvement in the situation.

Lol. So, its ok for you to make sweeping generalizations about black fathers but its a problem when I catagorize you based on what you actually say. That's funny. Since we're pulling unsubstantiated stats out of our ass, statistically speaking, most white people on the internet are racist D-bags. I don't have a problem with anyone bringing up relevant facts. That's not what you did. This isn't a thread about black paternity, no matter how much you want to make it one. In a thread where a white woman cheated and a white man looked past it, you found a way to make a disparaging remark about black fathers. Congrats.

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

I believe it was Areo Hotah who said "someone always tells"

Mommy was probably a cum guzzling slut before she got married - buyer beware!

AngryJailhouseFistfark: lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral c ...

you sound black

My wife's sister-in-law announced her pregnancy in September, and since then it's been an exhausting parade of baby-related events that for which she expects my wife's presence: gender-reveal cake party, ultrasound party, three baby showers. She sends my wife (and the rest of the family) near daily updates about her gestational progress.

Holy crap that's a mountain of cray-cray. I expect her to make a few appearances on STFUParents in the near future.

ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."

One thing we can be certain of...she did not sleep with a wealthy black athlete.  Otherwise, you bet she'd be suing for a share of the Tiger Woods Children Out of Wedlock Trust.

lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral contraceptives will find their very physiology transformed by her Nubian Lover. Some unknown quality exists in the Hung Black Stud (please forgive my redundancy, but it's a historical term), that will make the most barren woman fertile. Like the land that gave birth to his forefathers and indeed to all humanity, the fecundity of Mother Africa is somehow translated into the womb of the BBC Whore. She will ovulate despite the presence of anti-fertility hormones. Her ovum will find the uterus despite tubal ligations. Her seed with seek out his, bond and enjoin her flesh to bring forth more black life. And find that seed she will, for it is generally a copious discharge. At least, the first three or four of a session. After that he may require further hydration. And multiply that by the basketball or football team who arrive at the hotel to service her, and you can well imagine the veritable bath she'll take in their ejaculate.

Yes, who indeed is this Love Child's Black Daddy. Dare I say we all are.

namegoeshere: Fark Rye For Many Whores: [abandoned-orphaned.typepad.com image 306x408]

Interesting body language in that pic.

That was the adopted child that W used to torpedo McCain out of the SC Primary in 2000, by claiming it was his secret, illegitimate child. That's what you get when you put this state full of morons in a position of power.

cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.

Something that people don't know well enough is that fertility for women jumps with new partners and after long droughts. So, cheating bastards and whores of the world, just because you stopped using condoms or other birth control with your spouse a long time ago doesn't mean that you should skip it with your new strange.

Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.

Now that's funny.

A. He's five and it's on the internet, he already knows.