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2013-01-08 01:56:46 PM
Dear Slut:
It is obvious, don't worry. He will know. They all will know.
 
2013-01-08 01:57:07 PM
Well this should be an interesting thread full of intelligent commentary.

/abandons ship
 
2013-01-08 01:57:12 PM
Don't bother.

They know already.
 
2013-01-08 01:57:51 PM
Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?
 
2013-01-08 01:58:46 PM
aka.media.entertainment.sky.com
 
2013-01-08 01:59:04 PM
If you are unable to come up with the words to explain life to your child, perhaps that's a sign that you shouldn't be having any.
 
2013-01-08 01:59:23 PM

LowbrowDeluxe: Well this should be an interesting thread full of intelligent commentary.

/abandons ship


Welcome to the circlejerk! Complementary tissues and lube?
 
2013-01-08 01:59:24 PM
A. He's five and it's on the internet, he already knows.
 
2013-01-08 01:59:31 PM
Why would you decide it was a good idea to have this child? Why would you stay with her after that? It isn't like your marriage is healthy, get a divorce immediately. You are not helping any of the children by staying together.
 
2013-01-08 01:59:44 PM
Candygram.
 
2013-01-08 01:59:46 PM
I call bullshiat
 
2013-01-08 01:59:51 PM
"But mommy, I heard you never go back..."
 
2013-01-08 02:00:07 PM

PowerSlacker: Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?


It partially explains why she cheated on him in the first place: She knew she would get away with it.
 
2013-01-08 02:00:12 PM
i.imgur.com
 
2013-01-08 02:00:28 PM
aka.media.entertainment.sky.com
 
2013-01-08 02:00:38 PM
Either fess up now, or wait for the inevitable beatings your little snowflake will take when he hits school age.
 
2013-01-08 02:00:49 PM
Because my husband and I had a 2-year-old son together we decided that we could keep our marriage together for his sake

Yeah that's not gonna work. Your second kid is a daily reminder to your husband that you're a lying cheating slut. Your relationship is going to fail, it is probably already terrible and your husband is wasting his years of life with you. He should teach his 2 year old son to not take that sort of shiat, divorce your sorry ass and kick you out of the house.

Hugs,
~Lenny
 
2013-01-08 02:01:12 PM
I can forgive a lot, but that would be too much. As much as I would fear losing custody of my kid, I would divorce and sue for full custody of the one she had with me. Let her get the other guy to take care of their child.
 
2013-01-08 02:01:28 PM
"One day, you can be President, you little mocha bastard".

/not helping, I know.
 
2013-01-08 02:01:33 PM

KidneyStone: [aka.media.entertainment.sky.com image 570x364]


DAMMIT.
 
2013-01-08 02:01:45 PM
Dude. Man up and leave. The other one isn't yours either.
 
2013-01-08 02:01:58 PM
Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.
 
2013-01-08 02:02:33 PM
Here's an answer that's actually true, if you use the secondary definitions of some of the words:

Your daddy was impotent, so I got a sperm donor.
 
2013-01-08 02:02:39 PM

GORDON: I can forgive a lot, but that would be too much. As much as I would fear losing custody of my kid, I would divorce and sue for full custody of the one she had with me. Let her get the other guy to take care of their child.


Based on my observations, that's hilarious.
 
2013-01-08 02:02:49 PM

lennavan: Because my husband and I had a 2-year-old son together we decided that we could keep our marriage together for his sake

Yeah that's not gonna work. Your second kid is a daily reminder to your husband that you're a lying cheating slut. Your relationship is going to fail, it is probably already terrible and your husband is wasting his years of life with you. He should teach his 2 year old son to not take that sort of shiat, divorce your sorry ass and kick you out of the house.

Hugs,
~Lenny


The best part is, if they get divorced now, the husband will likely be on the hook for child support for the mixed race kid too.

/There's a little gas on this fire for ya.
 
2013-01-08 02:02:56 PM
I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.
 
2013-01-08 02:02:57 PM
Gah, that poor little girl.
 
2013-01-08 02:03:33 PM

Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.


Now that's funny.
 
2013-01-08 02:04:24 PM

The Angry Hand of God: Why would you decide it was a good idea to have this child? Why would you stay with her after that? It isn't like your marriage is healthy, get a divorce immediately. You are not helping any of the children by staying together.


It's almost like for situations like this and the fact the people grow and change radically during their lives that this whole "until death do us part" things is really dumb (note that I'm a child of divorce and I do know from personal experience that two divorced adults with personal history with each other can indeed raise a healthy child together assuming both are mature, which you'd want in a nuclear family-type situation anyway).
 
2013-01-08 02:04:24 PM
my mother-in-law took it upon herself to tell him she was adopted. I'm at a loss for what to do. For now my husband has told MIL that the topic is verboten, but we haven't decided if we should correct her error.

Yeah, that's a good plan which will totally never backfire on you.
 
2013-01-08 02:04:46 PM
Just out of curiosity, is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent? 'Cause if so, I would think divorce would be the best option here.

My wife and I have an understanding on this. Just about anything will be forgiven, but not infidelity. No second chances. Trust is absolutely necessary for a working marriage, and once trust is violated to that degree, it can probably never be regained.

(I work from home and my wife is a stay at home mom, so it's not like we have a lot of opportunities to be unfaithful. Also, I'm amazed I have even one woman in the world who's interested in me anyway, so it's not like I'm going to cheat.)
 
2013-01-08 02:05:02 PM
I've often assumed that Ms. Prudence makes these up. She sure gets some of the most improbable letters.
 
2013-01-08 02:05:07 PM
Right kept the marriage together because of the kid.

Just come out and say "My husband loves to watch me get boned by BBC on a regular basis. One time we got carried away in the moment and he wanted to see his wife get a creampie from another dude."

Also the one about the lady getting off from the Maseur is a complete double standard. If a dude popped wood getting a rub down and wanted to go back and enjoy that this woman would probably be all over him for having a cheating mind.
 
2013-01-08 02:05:14 PM
This story would be better if they were fraternal twins of different races.
 
2013-01-08 02:05:21 PM
Son/Daughter,

There is an old saying. It goes 'When you go black, you never go back'. Well, I went black. And I have a beautiful child. But then I went back. Now, I'm not saying it was right of me to go back. Let's face it, daddy isn't all that in the downstairs department and I'm not scoring with that set of equipment, if you know what I mean. But he is a good provider, and his biatch ass better be, too. If he doesn't know what is good for him, I might just go off and find a nice Mexican to give you a brother to play with. Your daddy best know I'm good to him. Don't tell me I look fat in that dress, Mr Beer Belly. I'll run you into bankruptcy so fast you'll wish I had slept with the entire 1986 Denver Broncos squad. Now sweetie, let's just keep this between you and me, ok? No need to tell daddy anything, ok? Let's go get some ice cream. Mommy has a powerful need to go shopping and spend some of daddy's hard earned money. Want a pony? Let's go get one.
 
2013-01-08 02:05:23 PM
Also, cattle prod to the mother in law for lying to the child... and for being a lame stereotype of a mother in law.
 
2013-01-08 02:05:34 PM

cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


Something that people don't know well enough is that fertility for women jumps with new partners and after long droughts. So, cheating bastards and whores of the world, just because you stopped using condoms or other birth control with your spouse a long time ago doesn't mean that you should skip it with your new strange.
 
2013-01-08 02:06:04 PM
Dear Prudence:

My 5-year-old son is starting to ask why I, his father, have no testicles. And since I have no testicles, how am I a daddy in the first place?
 
2013-01-08 02:06:08 PM

Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.


Like the 10 guys running the train on her would be able to narrow it down!
 
2013-01-08 02:06:21 PM
Just say that it's our duty to smear all the colors together
 
2013-01-08 02:06:57 PM

Lord Dimwit: Just out of curiosity, is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent? 'Cause if so, I would think divorce would be the best option here.


When talking about custody of a child, the standard is always "best interest of the children." In this case, I would argue that having affairs doesnt' necessarily affect the child because that's an adult matter that doesn't really impact the child (although it may be foolish to have a kid from those affairs, but that's a separate issue). So generally, no, affairs don't impact custody decisions, unless it can be shown that mom is having affairs in front of the kid, or with dangerous people, or in a way that neglects the children.

/that'll be $200, please.
 
2013-01-08 02:07:14 PM
I certainly hope the white guy looked into the laws in his state, and didn't sign his name to the birth certificate. Otherwise it's gonna suck when he finally gets his balls back, divorces her, but then finds out he's still on the hook for the other guy's child support.
 
2013-01-08 02:07:16 PM
abandoned-orphaned.typepad.com
 
2013-01-08 02:07:54 PM

miss diminutive: Candygram.


Candygram for mongo?
 
2013-01-08 02:08:18 PM
He's gonna figure it out. And when he does, hopefully you will have taken him on enough slut-walks that he won't be too judgmental. And hopefully he will be gay. And promiscuous as hell. And flamboyant. And a Born again holy roller. And dating a bisexual, pre-op Haitian blood donor.
 
2013-01-08 02:08:31 PM

Lord Dimwit: Just out of curiosity, is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent? 'Cause if so, I would think divorce would be the best option here.



Marriage and the laws surrounding it are a matter of the individual states. So, the answer is it depends on what the state laws are.
 
2013-01-08 02:08:38 PM

Fark Rye For Many Whores: [abandoned-orphaned.typepad.com image 306x408]


Interesting body language in that pic.
 
2013-01-08 02:08:43 PM

RoxtarRyan: "But mommy, I heard you never go back..."


Hehehe
 
2013-01-08 02:09:23 PM
Mother: Navin, it's your birthday, and it's time you knew. You're not our natural-born child.
Navin R. Johnson: I'm not? You mean I'm gonna STAY this color?
 
2013-01-08 02:09:27 PM

Lord Dimwit: I work from home and my wife is a stay at home mom, so it's not like we have a lot of opportunities to be unfaithful.


Sorry, she's cheating on you with another furry from Second Life.

I keed, I keed.

I think infidelity is a dealbreaker for most people though. Especially if the cheating results in a child...which means she probably wasn't using protection and could have brought home all kinds of nastiness.
 
2013-01-08 02:09:45 PM

bob999: I've often assumed that Ms. Prudence makes these up. She sure gets some of the most improbable letters.


On her off days she writes for "Dear Penthouse"
 
2013-01-08 02:09:51 PM
sunsetandecho.files.wordpress.com

Let me give you some advice, bastard. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.
 
2013-01-08 02:09:56 PM

Crotchrocket Slim: Also, cattle prod to the mother in law for lying to the child... and for being a lame stereotype of a mother in law.


Isn't the mixed-race child technically adopted by the husband now? A similar but single-race situation like this happened in my friend group and the husband adopted the new kid. The wife was going through some serious alcohol problems when she left the husband and shacked up temporarily with the babydaddy, but the wife ended up returning to her husband and kids, got treatment, finished school and pulled her life together.

It can work, though that doesn't mean it will for TFA's giant whore.
 
2013-01-08 02:11:00 PM
images3.wikia.nocookie.net
 
2013-01-08 02:11:11 PM

Fark Rye For Many Whores: [abandoned-orphaned.typepad.com image 306x408]


Everyone has a reason to love that 'shop!
 
2013-01-08 02:11:47 PM
ts4.mm.bing.net

old school
 
2013-01-08 02:11:59 PM
You might have had a few moments of pleasure, but your husband is cuckolded for life.
 
2013-01-08 02:12:09 PM

factoryconnection: Crotchrocket Slim: Also, cattle prod to the mother in law for lying to the child... and for being a lame stereotype of a mother in law.

Isn't the mixed-race child technically adopted by the husband now? A similar but single-race situation like this happened in my friend group and the husband adopted the new kid. The wife was going through some serious alcohol problems when she left the husband and shacked up temporarily with the babydaddy, but the wife ended up returning to her husband and kids, got treatment, finished school and pulled her life together.

It can work, though that doesn't mean it will for TFA's giant whore.


There's something called the Putative Father doctrine that many (most?) states have that says any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.
 
2013-01-08 02:12:27 PM

iheartscotch: miss diminutive: Candygram.

Candygram for mongo?


Is there any other kind?

CygnusDarius: [sunsetandecho.files.wordpress.com image 600x500]

Let me give you some advice, bastard. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.


Dammit, that just reminded me how long I have to wait until the new season starts.
 
2013-01-08 02:12:32 PM

Koalaesq: When talking about custody of a child, the standard is always "best interest of the children." In this case, I would argue that having affairs doesnt' necessarily affect the child


Well, no affect other than it completely broke the family up, right? Parenting is about sacrifices and choosing what is in "the best interest of the child." I'm thinkin this lady needed to make a significantly better decision, perhaps at personal sacrifice.

Koalaesq: So generally, no, affairs don't impact custody decisions


You are picturing the custody decision as a single entity. Custody would be a single part of a larger divorce case. She cheated on him, so she's at fault, so she's going to be the one with the uphill battle. The stupidest thing a guy who just got cheated on can possibly do is move out. The court is going to give primary custody to whoever kept the house because that's in the best interest of the children. If he asks for it, odds are the guy who got cheated on is going to get it.
 
2013-01-08 02:12:50 PM
When a mommy and a daddy decide they want to make a very special child, they get together and a special child is made. Now multiply that by 50.

and/or

When you're 18, I can show you the video.

and/or

And the TV man said "You are the father" and that was the last I ever saw of him.
 
2013-01-08 02:12:59 PM

namegoeshere: Fark Rye For Many Whores: [abandoned-orphaned.typepad.com image 306x408]

Interesting body language in that pic.


That was the adopted child that W used to torpedo McCain out of the SC Primary in 2000, by claiming it was his secret, illegitimate child. That's what you get when you put this state full of morons in a position of power.
 
2013-01-08 02:13:12 PM

Koalaesq: Lord Dimwit: Just out of curiosity, is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent? 'Cause if so, I would think divorce would be the best option here.


When talking about custody of a child, the standard is always "best interest of the children." In this case, I would argue that having affairs doesnt' necessarily affect the child because that's an adult matter that doesn't really impact the child (although it may be foolish to have a kid from those affairs, but that's a separate issue). So generally, no, affairs don't impact custody decisions, unless it can be shown that mom is having affairs in front of the kid, or with dangerous people, or in a way that neglects the children.

/that'll be $200, please.


That's what I was expecting to hear. What always weirds me out though is that husbands are on the hook for child support for children who aren't their own. I get that it's "in the best interest of the child" to have that monetary support, but if that's the case, why don't all parents just get a stipend per child? That's in the child's best interest too. Why is a guy paying for another guy's child in that child's best interest if he was married to the mother, but if he wasn't married, it's not in the child's best interest?

(I know, I know "the law shall make no bastards" or whatever the phrase is.)
 
2013-01-08 02:13:15 PM
Here kids, let's have some of the gender-reveal cake!
 
2013-01-08 02:13:19 PM

DoBeDoBeDo: Also the one about the lady getting off from the Maseur is a complete double standard. If a dude popped wood getting a rub down and wanted to go back and enjoy that this woman would probably be all over him for having a cheating mind.


Dear Prudence,

The only way I can reach orgasm is for a small Asian woman to walk around on my back.  Should I tell my wife?
 
2013-01-08 02:13:31 PM
Any one else see this in the article... Dear Prudence: Doubling the Pleasure?

Sounds like a kinky Prudence...
 
2013-01-08 02:14:27 PM
25.media.tumblr.com
 
2013-01-08 02:14:29 PM

GORDON: I can forgive a lot, but that would be too much. As much as I would fear losing custody of my kid, I would divorce and sue for full custody of the one she had with me. Let her get the other guy to take care of their child.


Assuming the other guy is rich - it might work out in the Father's favor. The biological Dad should still be on the hook for child-support; and child-support isn't based on what it costs to raise a child, but on what the Dad can pay.
 
2013-01-08 02:14:41 PM
The Dr who delivered my eldest daughtr thinks he's a comedian. I said I didn't particularly want to observe the birth, so I stayed up with the Mrs and held her hand / talked her throug it. The Dr got me to lok by saying " It's crowning; l can see her little black curly hairs". Friggn smart arse that guy!

csbroheim
 
2013-01-08 02:14:52 PM
Despite continuing weekly evidence to the contrary, I will continue to believe that the vast majority of men who think they are the biological fathers of their children really did provide the sperm.

At least one writer for Slate can see their own disconnect from reality.
 
2013-01-08 02:14:55 PM
Just tell the truth. The husband is obviously ok with it. If other people don't like it, fark them.

I really think the "lol, she was adopted" thing will cause a lot more problems than "well, people fark, and I farked two different guys that got me pregnant." The kid doesn't deserve the deception.
 
2013-01-08 02:15:25 PM

miss diminutive: Lord Dimwit: I work from home and my wife is a stay at home mom, so it's not like we have a lot of opportunities to be unfaithful.

Sorry, she's cheating on you with another furry from Second Life.

I keed, I keed.

I think infidelity is a dealbreaker for most people though. Especially if the cheating results in a child...which means she probably wasn't using protection and could have brought home all kinds of nastiness.


A family friend found out her husband was cheating on her when she got some STD from him. Found out later that he'd been cheating on her for years. She kicked him out of the house and was going to divorce him, but then decided that she couldn't handle four kids on her own and let him back in. Sucks all around (which is not to imply anything other than 100% of the guilt lies on the husband).
 
2013-01-08 02:15:42 PM
Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"

//lude
 
2013-01-08 02:15:54 PM
Lady, you've made quite the series of bad decisions. Why change strategies now?
 
2013-01-08 02:16:13 PM

PowerSlacker: Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?



Seems like sticking around in this situation takes a lot more spine than just bailing out.

People make mistakes. They get over it.
 
2013-01-08 02:17:16 PM
I was out at the bar the other night with some of female acquaintances. One of the women is this amazingly cute little brunette who was lamenting us all night about how hard it was to find a "good man". I was perplexed at first because she was an extremely cute, educated, employed, and generally took care of herself well. I was curious where the hangup was.

Several beers later (and much more cavalier with letting my thoughts be known), I decided to "help" her figure out what she was doing wrong. Immediately I asked her if she had a child, and she did. It seemed the child was damn near black as night even though she was white, and she informed it it was a bad breakup with the "poor excuse for a father". Lets just say I got an earful that night from her friend because I told her the truth that: "there was no way any white, good-looking, intelligent, well-off, fun, Midwestern guys are going to shack up with a single mother who has a mixed race baby and has daddy issues. You might as well find another black dude that doesn't care if you have a kid."

Reality can be harsh at times. If you're a single white mother with a black child .... good luck
 
2013-01-08 02:17:24 PM

lennavan: Koalaesq: When talking about custody of a child, the standard is always "best interest of the children." In this case, I would argue that having affairs doesnt' necessarily affect the child

Well, no affect other than it completely broke the family up, right? Parenting is about sacrifices and choosing what is in "the best interest of the child." I'm thinkin this lady needed to make a significantly better decision, perhaps at personal sacrifice.

Koalaesq: So generally, no, affairs don't impact custody decisions

You are picturing the custody decision as a single entity. Custody would be a single part of a larger divorce case. She cheated on him, so she's at fault, so she's going to be the one with the uphill battle. The stupidest thing a guy who just got cheated on can possibly do is move out. The court is going to give primary custody to whoever kept the house because that's in the best interest of the children. If he asks for it, odds are the guy who got cheated on is going to get it.


That's not how it works at all. It depends on if there's a contest or not about who gets the kid. 99% of the time, there's joint custody, I assume you're just talking about "residential custody", which has to do with who the kid lives with 51% of the time. In that case, affairs have nothing to do with it.
 
2013-01-08 02:18:03 PM

Lord Dimwit: miss diminutive: Lord Dimwit: I work from home and my wife is a stay at home mom, so it's not like we have a lot of opportunities to be unfaithful.

Sorry, she's cheating on you with another furry from Second Life.

I keed, I keed.

I think infidelity is a dealbreaker for most people though. Especially if the cheating results in a child...which means she probably wasn't using protection and could have brought home all kinds of nastiness.

A family friend found out her husband was cheating on her when she got some STD from him. Found out later that he'd been cheating on her for years. She kicked him out of the house and was going to divorce him, but then decided that she couldn't handle four kids on her own and let him back in. Sucks all around (which is not to imply anything other than 100% of the guilt lies on the husband).


I'd argue that if

1.) Your spouse is cheating on you
2.) Your spouse cheats on you for years without you know it

Your relationship was pretty bad. And since relationships are formed by both people in them, I'd say the blame should be shared by both people.

But that's just me.
 
2013-01-08 02:18:09 PM
She like the BBC. Divorce the farking whore
 
2013-01-08 02:18:33 PM
What I really got from this is that her husband has really good credit.
 
2013-01-08 02:19:09 PM
Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?
 
2013-01-08 02:19:17 PM

Lord Dimwit: Koalaesq: Lord Dimwit: Just out of curiosity, is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent? 'Cause if so, I would think divorce would be the best option here.


When talking about custody of a child, the standard is always "best interest of the children." In this case, I would argue that having affairs doesnt' necessarily affect the child because that's an adult matter that doesn't really impact the child (although it may be foolish to have a kid from those affairs, but that's a separate issue). So generally, no, affairs don't impact custody decisions, unless it can be shown that mom is having affairs in front of the kid, or with dangerous people, or in a way that neglects the children.

/that'll be $200, please.

That's what I was expecting to hear. What always weirds me out though is that husbands are on the hook for child support for children who aren't their own. I get that it's "in the best interest of the child" to have that monetary support, but if that's the case, why don't all parents just get a stipend per child? That's in the child's best interest too. Why is a guy paying for another guy's child in that child's best interest if he was married to the mother, but if he wasn't married, it's not in the child's best interest?

(I know, I know "the law shall make no bastards" or whatever the phrase is.)


There are ways around it, but you have to get the courts involved. In NJ, there was a famous case where the husband/non-father sued the biological father for child support payments he had made on behalf of the kid and won. But those are tough.
 
2013-01-08 02:20:20 PM

miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?


It's what the mw4m and mw4mm sections are for on Casual Encounters.
 
2013-01-08 02:20:23 PM

Fark Reddit or bust: LowbrowDeluxe: Well this should be an interesting thread full of intelligent commentary.

/abandons ship

Welcome to the circlejerk! Complementary tissues and lube?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68LAbJtd4uk
 
2013-01-08 02:20:35 PM
I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.
 
2013-01-08 02:20:52 PM
I bet your husband can take of that.
 
2013-01-08 02:21:05 PM
I've seen this. I know a Middle Eastern guy that married an olive skinned woman of a nationality that I am not sure of. Anyway, their two sons are dark and middle eastern looking. Their daughter is as white as she could possibly be. Not really a big deal in that household as I am fairly sure (but not certain) the guy is the father and her skin/eye/hair color is the product of some recessive genes.
 
2013-01-08 02:21:13 PM
aka.media.entertainment.sky.com
 
2013-01-08 02:21:54 PM
Well put, subby. Bravo.

LowbrowDeluxe: Well this should be an interesting thread full of intelligent commentary.

/abandons ship


With a name like that you should either shut your hypocritical whore mouth or join in and wallow in the filth.
 
2013-01-08 02:22:10 PM
Headline says it all.

Mom is a bit overweight, has died blonde hair and self esteem issues? check
Sis goes directly into Special Ed while brother gets good grades? check

Not too much to figure out.

Can I say, I don't believe there is a husband? No man would put up with that. I think the state has become the husband for her. I see stupid hippie chicks with mocha babies all the time. Single moms raising ugly babies that don't like them on welfare. Black dads don't stick around girls. sad
 
2013-01-08 02:22:15 PM

Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.


One of my most memorable clients was a woman who had 5 children by 5 different fathers. We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room. She assured me it was ok because the kid was watching TV and "never saw what happened".

/CSS
 
2013-01-08 02:22:22 PM

bikerific: Seems like sticking around in this situation takes a lot more spine than just bailing out.

People make mistakes. They get over it.


You can stick around in their lives without still being married. I would never be able to trust the person again personally... definitely not enough to keep living with them. Once burned, etc...
 
2013-01-08 02:23:02 PM
Easy, send some BIE to my EIP, please.
 
2013-01-08 02:23:35 PM
Son,

I see you have noticed that your half-sister, Shaniquawana, is a different color than you, daddy and me.
Well, to explain everything, Hollywood made a movie and here's the dvd.
It's called Mandingo.

Love,
Mummy
 
2013-01-08 02:24:13 PM
Little Johnny:Mom? Wy does sis get to play in the bleach water and i don't?

///not an aisle seat for me i'll be in the back.
 
2013-01-08 02:24:14 PM
I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.
 
2013-01-08 02:25:40 PM

Koalaesq: lennavan: Koalaesq: When talking about custody of a child, the standard is always "best interest of the children." In this case, I would argue that having affairs doesnt' necessarily affect the child

Well, no affect other than it completely broke the family up, right? Parenting is about sacrifices and choosing what is in "the best interest of the child." I'm thinkin this lady needed to make a significantly better decision, perhaps at personal sacrifice.

Koalaesq: So generally, no, affairs don't impact custody decisions

You are picturing the custody decision as a single entity. Custody would be a single part of a larger divorce case. She cheated on him, so she's at fault, so she's going to be the one with the uphill battle. The stupidest thing a guy who just got cheated on can possibly do is move out. The court is going to give primary custody to whoever kept the house because that's in the best interest of the children. If he asks for it, odds are the guy who got cheated on is going to get it.

That's not how it works at all. It depends on if there's a contest or not about who gets the kid. 99% of the time, there's joint custody, I assume you're just talking about "residential custody", which has to do with who the kid lives with 51% of the time. In that case, affairs have nothing to do with it.


99% of the time you think there is joint custody? I'll admit, I don't actually know the statistics but I'm willing to read your citation on that one. Because I just don't buy it.

When I said primary custody, I meant primary physical custody and yes, that is exactly how it works. Whoever has the house is going to get primary physical custody. That's where the kid's bedroom is, that's where they have lived for a long time, that's where they have grown up. If you're going through a divorce and you want primary physical custody, don't move out. Affairs absolutely do have to do with which side gets the house. And whichever side gets the house is going to get the kids.
 
2013-01-08 02:25:50 PM

HellRaisingHoosier: "there was no way any white, good-looking, intelligent, well-off, fun, Midwestern guys are going to shack up with a single mother who has a mixed race baby and has daddy issues. You might as well find another black dude that doesn't care if you have a kid."

Reality can be harsh at times. If you're a single white mother with a black child .... good luck


Sad, but in my personal experiences out in the midwest (Kansas, Missouri, Illinois), true. She'd have better luck down south or along the coasts, where single parents are either more common, or people more accepting.
 
2013-01-08 02:26:27 PM
Isn't it racist to disdain her because she discovered a preference for the purple?
 
2013-01-08 02:26:55 PM

namegoeshere: This story would be better if they were fraternal twins of different races.


4.bp.blogspot.com

laughingsquid.com

static.guim.co.uk

Say whut?
 
2013-01-08 02:27:06 PM
"Q. Enjoying More Than Just the Massage I enjoy massages a couple of times a year. The last one was performed by a male masseuse. He did a wonderful job; I was relaxed and all of the major problems in my lower back were improved. There was an unexpected added bonus though. Because he was male, I felt a little excited about being touched by someone other than my husband. Nothing sexual happened. It wasn't a Sex and the City moment. But I still got a little secret thrill from the experience. My next massage is coming up. Is it OK for me to request another male masseuse?"

LOLOLOLOL..

I found this MUCH better place for massages then we had used in the past. I scheduled a massage for my wife with one of the girls. She liked it better then the other places, they were far more professional.... THEN her birthday was coming up so I scheduled another massage.. but noticed that they had a guy on staff now. FBd him.. found out he was active outdoors.. about 15 years younger.. had the hair she likes.. so I never told her about it but scheduled the guy instead....
:) She was extremely shocked and then pleased because as a guy he was much stronger and able to dig into those nots in her shoulders.. Then.. even though she requested just the upper back.. he moved down.. LOL.. even moved her panties down to " reach lower on her back" exposing 1/2 her ass.

..so in short to the letter writer I answer... oh dear.. its pretty much expected for you to get some sort of thrill from it... so just go with the flow.. and if you really love hubby.. schedule him an appoitment with a female masseuse at the same place.. or better yet... ask him to come sit in the room with you.
 
2013-01-08 02:28:07 PM
Nuttier than squirrel turds.
 
2013-01-08 02:28:58 PM
www.startrek.com
 
2013-01-08 02:28:59 PM

Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.


uh...wait, WHAT??!!
 
2013-01-08 02:29:00 PM
biatch must be a god damn once-in-a-lifetime piece of ass for him to stick around and raise someone else's kid, let alone a mulatto one.
 
2013-01-08 02:29:07 PM

bob999: I've often assumed that Ms. Prudence makes these up. She sure gets some of the most improbable letters.


I used to think that about Dan Savage, until I got out more.
 
2013-01-08 02:29:13 PM
Hey lady, I have an idea for your husband's next birthday.

rlv.zcache.com
Wear it with pride, idiot.
 
2013-01-08 02:29:52 PM

lennavan: Koalaesq: lennavan: Koalaesq: When talking about custody of a child, the standard is always "best interest of the children." In this case, I would argue that having affairs doesnt' necessarily affect the child

Well, no affect other than it completely broke the family up, right? Parenting is about sacrifices and choosing what is in "the best interest of the child." I'm thinkin this lady needed to make a significantly better decision, perhaps at personal sacrifice.

Koalaesq: So generally, no, affairs don't impact custody decisions

You are picturing the custody decision as a single entity. Custody would be a single part of a larger divorce case. She cheated on him, so she's at fault, so she's going to be the one with the uphill battle. The stupidest thing a guy who just got cheated on can possibly do is move out. The court is going to give primary custody to whoever kept the house because that's in the best interest of the children. If he asks for it, odds are the guy who got cheated on is going to get it.

That's not how it works at all. It depends on if there's a contest or not about who gets the kid. 99% of the time, there's joint custody, I assume you're just talking about "residential custody", which has to do with who the kid lives with 51% of the time. In that case, affairs have nothing to do with it.

99% of the time you think there is joint custody? I'll admit, I don't actually know the statistics but I'm willing to read your citation on that one. Because I just don't buy it.

When I said primary custody, I meant primary physical custody and yes, that is exactly how it works. Whoever has the house is going to get primary physical custody. That's where the kid's bedroom is, that's where they have lived for a long time, that's where they have grown up. If you're going through a divorce and you want primary physical custody, don't move out. Affairs absolutely do have to do with which side gets the house. And whichever side gets the house is going ...


My citation is based on my own personal experience. In NJ there is caselaw saying that the Best Interests of the Child are for joint custody unless there is a distinct reason not to do so (one parent is crazy; restraining order in place, etc). It's the default in NJ, anyhow, and very, very hard to get around (I just did a case about it). I don't know about other states; this is the problem with arguing law, it's all very state-based.

As for the house thing, I agree that I tell my clients not to move out of the house b/c that can help them with custody, but it also depends who owns the house, if it's rented, or community property, etc. There are a lotta factors there.
 
2013-01-08 02:30:30 PM

Spanky McStupid: namegoeshere: This story would be better if they were fraternal twins of different races.

[4.bp.blogspot.com image 335x250]

[laughingsquid.com image 590x400]

[static.guim.co.uk image 460x276]

Say whut?


Gimme a nice side of the bottom row.

That being said, it looks like the guy on the left is partially black too - just lighter. Kinda like Jason Kidd.
 
2013-01-08 02:31:22 PM

Lord Dimwit: My wife and I have an understanding on this. Just about anything will be forgiven, but not infidelity. No second chances. Trust is absolutely necessary for a working marriage, and once trust is violated to that degree, it can probably never be regained.


I'd normally disagree (forgiveness is divine, and all that) but dang; actually having the kid and getting your hubby to raise it as his own, guilting him into staying with you with the "think of what's best for our son!" line? And not even allowing him the face-saving "she's adopted" excuse?

That is cold.
 
2013-01-08 02:31:50 PM
i.imgur.com

i.imgur.com
Just tell the kid it's daddy's fault.
 
2013-01-08 02:31:55 PM
"We were on a break."
 
2013-01-08 02:32:13 PM

Citrate1007:
Despite continuing weekly evidence to the contrary, I will continue to believe that the vast majority of men who think they are the biological fathers of their children really did provide the sperm.

At least one writer for Slate can see their own disconnect from reality.


Came to say this, I can't see anyone with a half a brain taking the advice of a person with this mentality.
 
2013-01-08 02:32:16 PM

Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: biatch must be a god damn once-in-a-lifetime piece of ass for him to stick around and raise someone else's kid, let alone a mulatto one.


Maybe he's just thinking that he doesn't want to punish the child for the mother's mistakes.

He's more forgiving than most, it would seem.
 
2013-01-08 02:32:23 PM
Dear Prudence always reminds me of Yahoo answers in the relationship category.
 
2013-01-08 02:34:31 PM

kvinesknows: I found this MUCH better place for massages then we had used in the past. I scheduled a massage for my wife with one of the girls. She liked it better then the other places, they were far more professional.... THEN her birthday was coming up so I scheduled another massage.. but noticed that they had a guy on staff now. FBd him.. found out he was active outdoors.. about 15 years younger.. had the hair she likes.. so I never told her about it but scheduled the guy instead....
:) She was extremely shocked and then pleased because as a guy he was much stronger and able to dig into those nots in her shoulders.. Then.. even though she requested just the upper back.. he moved down.. LOL.. even moved her panties down to " reach lower on her back" exposing 1/2 her ass.

..so in short to the letter writer I answer... oh dear.. its pretty much expected for you to get some sort of thrill from it... so just go with the flow.. and if you really love hubby.. schedule him an appoitment with a female masseuse at the same place.. or better yet... ask him to come sit in the room with you.


You sound like the husband referred to in the "dear prudence" article.
 
2013-01-08 02:37:13 PM
 
2013-01-08 02:37:13 PM

maggoo: kvinesknows: I found this MUCH better place for massages then we had used in the past. I scheduled a massage for my wife with one of the girls. She liked it better then the other places, they were far more professional.... THEN her birthday was coming up so I scheduled another massage.. but noticed that they had a guy on staff now. FBd him.. found out he was active outdoors.. about 15 years younger.. had the hair she likes.. so I never told her about it but scheduled the guy instead....
:) She was extremely shocked and then pleased because as a guy he was much stronger and able to dig into those nots in her shoulders.. Then.. even though she requested just the upper back.. he moved down.. LOL.. even moved her panties down to " reach lower on her back" exposing 1/2 her ass.

..so in short to the letter writer I answer... oh dear.. its pretty much expected for you to get some sort of thrill from it... so just go with the flow.. and if you really love hubby.. schedule him an appoitment with a female masseuse at the same place.. or better yet... ask him to come sit in the room with you.

You sound like the husband referred to in the "dear prudence" article.



umm ..which one?
 
2013-01-08 02:37:45 PM

Koalaesq: joint custody unless there is a distinct reason not to do so


And that reason is always an iteration of "because they are incapable of reaching decisions together." Such as the examples you gave.

Koalaesq: I don't know about other states; this is the problem with arguing law, it's all very state-based.


That is very true.

Koalaesq: As for the house thing, I agree that I tell my clients not to move out of the house b/c that can help them with custody, but it also depends who owns the house, if it's rented, or community property, etc. There are a lotta factors there.


Right, I was using the context of the article (married, so they both have claim to the house if they own it) and assuming all else equal. You're coming from a broader perspective. Anyway...
 
2013-01-08 02:37:55 PM
FFS, just tell the damn kid that his little sister had a different father, but Mommy and Daddy love *both* of the kids no matter what.

The child will encounter other kids with half-siblings, step-siblings, and adopted siblings.  It's not exactly rare these days.  All he needs to know is that they're a family.  Don't make those kids feel shame over a situation they had nothing to do with.
It's not the fault of the two kids.  Those kids need love and support.  The adults have to straighten up and get their shiat together.
 
2013-01-08 02:37:59 PM

Random Anonymous Blackmail: Dear Prudence always reminds me of Yahoo answers in the relationship category.


How mixed babby formed?
How mixed babby formed?
How slut become pragnent?
 
2013-01-08 02:38:28 PM

Koalaesq: factoryconnection: Crotchrocket Slim: Also, cattle prod to the mother in law for lying to the child... and for being a lame stereotype of a mother in law.

Isn't the mixed-race child technically adopted by the husband now? A similar but single-race situation like this happened in my friend group and the husband adopted the new kid. The wife was going through some serious alcohol problems when she left the husband and shacked up temporarily with the babydaddy, but the wife ended up returning to her husband and kids, got treatment, finished school and pulled her life together.

It can work, though that doesn't mean it will for TFA's giant whore.

There's something called the Putative Father doctrine that many (most?) states have that says any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.


That's where an Action to Establish Paternity comes in handy. If you're genetically not the father, and never adopted the child, the odds of you getting away without having to pay child support increase. The Court would then ask Mommy to give it the name of the real father, who would then be on the hook for child support.
 
2013-01-08 02:38:42 PM
img.photobucket.com
 
2013-01-08 02:38:43 PM

Koalaesq: factoryconnection: Crotchrocket Slim: Also, cattle prod to the mother in law for lying to the child... and for being a lame stereotype of a mother in law.

Isn't the mixed-race child technically adopted by the husband now? A similar but single-race situation like this happened in my friend group and the husband adopted the new kid. The wife was going through some serious alcohol problems when she left the husband and shacked up temporarily with the babydaddy, but the wife ended up returning to her husband and kids, got treatment, finished school and pulled her life together.

It can work, though that doesn't mean it will for TFA's giant whore.

There's something called the Putative Father doctrine that many (most?) states have that says any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.


It didn't mention whether or not the biological father is on the birth certificate or whether or not he signed away any legal rights or if he even knows about the kid. But any child born from a married couple the husband is the presumptive father. This being the case, he can't technically adopt this child because that child technically is his in the eyes of the law. For a current example Kim Kardashian's kid is presuptively Kris Humphries if they are still married when she gives birth


//got my Fark Law degree with a minor in air conditioning repair.
 
2013-01-08 02:39:23 PM

Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.


I'm betting he at least still stops by to drop a few more potential kids off in the pool...
/IF ya know what I mean.
 
2013-01-08 02:39:32 PM

Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.


I'm just glad your story didn't involve Golars running wild
 
2013-01-08 02:39:55 PM

Lord Dimwit: A family friend found out her husband was cheating on her when she got some STD from him. Found out later that he'd been cheating on her for years. She kicked him out of the house and was going to divorce him, but then decided that she couldn't handle four kids on her own and let him back in. Sucks all around (which is not to imply anything other than 100% of the guilt lies on the husband).


www.nerve.com
Hey, it happens.
 
2013-01-08 02:41:21 PM

The My Little Pony Killer: If you are unable to come up with the words to explain life to your child, perhaps that's a sign that you shouldn't be having any.


images2.wikia.nocookie.net
 
2013-01-08 02:42:23 PM
A finding that benefits the state's perceived financial interest is what the state will likely determine in court on family matters.
 
2013-01-08 02:43:50 PM

accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.


Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."
 
2013-01-08 02:44:00 PM
"Because Mummy likes strange."
 
2013-01-08 02:44:34 PM

Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.


We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.
 
2013-01-08 02:45:21 PM

Karac: I certainly hope the white guy looked into the laws in his state, and didn't sign his name to the birth certificate. Otherwise it's gonna suck when he finally gets his balls back, divorces her, but then finds out he's still on the hook for the other guy's child support.


Too late as a court will say he was acting as the father, he is the father.
 
2013-01-08 02:45:31 PM

cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


Everyone keeps calling this guy a wimp, but we don't really know what sort of arrangement they worked out. All she said is that they stayed together for the 2 year old. Dad might be out in cognito banging strippers. After this, she would have no right to complain.
 
2013-01-08 02:46:09 PM

bikerific: PowerSlacker: Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?


Seems like sticking around in this situation takes a lot more spine than just bailing out.

People make mistakes. They get over it.


Yeah, they get over it by remedying the situation. Not let it fester around until it legally becomes a human being.

Bailing out and taking custody of the kid is what a guy with a spine does; especially if the woman won't do the right thing and remedy the mistake.

It takes great strength to raise a kid under those circumstances, it is easier to lie to yourself and the children there's nothing wrong.
 
2013-01-08 02:47:09 PM
What were the phone lines for Jerry and Maury busy?
 
2013-01-08 02:47:33 PM
Whores are gonna whore, I reckon.
 
2013-01-08 02:48:10 PM
4.bp.blogspot.com

\Seriously? I have to do this myself?
 
2013-01-08 02:48:36 PM

Lord Dimwit: is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent?


No.

The "family" court system is stacked overwhelmingly in favor of (1) breaking up families, (2) giving custody to the woman, and then (3) making the man pay her alimony (called child support).

The man should have bailed as soon as the baby came out black.
 
2013-01-08 02:48:39 PM

Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.


Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?
 
2013-01-08 02:49:49 PM

Schwhat: bikerific: PowerSlacker: Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?


Seems like sticking around in this situation takes a lot more spine than just bailing out.

People make mistakes. They get over it.

Yeah, they get over it by remedying the situation. Not let it fester around until it legally becomes a human being.

Bailing out and taking custody of the kid is what a guy with a spine does; especially if the woman won't do the right thing and remedy the mistake.

It takes great strength to raise a kid under those circumstances, it is easier to lie to yourself and the children there's nothing wrong.


She should have aborted it. She has brought shame on her family.
 
2013-01-08 02:51:04 PM

Tommy Moo: cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.

Everyone keeps calling this guy a wimp, but we don't really know what sort of arrangement they worked out. All she said is that they stayed together for the 2 year old. Dad might be out in cognito banging strippers. After this, she would have no right to complain.


He's not a wimp, and he'd look good in court for sticking around. As a plaintiff, he's avoiding being accused of having "Unclean Hands" and being screwed with paying support for 18 years. Link
 
2013-01-08 02:51:04 PM

It's Me Bender: The "family" court system is stacked overwhelmingly in favor of (1) breaking up families, (2) giving custody to the woman, and then (3) making the man pay her alimony (called child support).


That's because:

1) If you're in family court, you're probably already broken up.
2) Jackasses like you drive a social narrative so the fathers have already given up long before they ever got to court.
3) Your chance to biatch about supporting a woman comes when you are dating her and are married to her and she wants to be a stay at home mom. You don't get to be cool with it and then not come divorce time.
 
2013-01-08 02:51:10 PM

It's Me Bender: Lord Dimwit: is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent?

No.

The "family" court system is stacked overwhelmingly in favor of (1) breaking up families, (2) giving custody to the woman, and then (3) making the man pay her alimony (called child support).

The man should have bailed as soon as the baby came out black.


As in, if it's black, I'm not coming back?
 
2013-01-08 02:52:33 PM

miss diminutive: Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: biatch must be a god damn once-in-a-lifetime piece of ass for him to stick around and raise someone else's kid, let alone a mulatto one.

Maybe he's just thinking that he doesn't want to punish the child for the mother's mistakes.

He's more forgiving than most, it would seem.


I have a number of friends who had parents who cheated and got caught, and then had the parents stay together for the kids. I have yet to hear any of the kids say they think it was a good idea.
 
2013-01-08 02:54:50 PM

miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?


I can't watch porn with black dudes in it
 
2013-01-08 02:55:42 PM
Four words

www.hangthebankers.com
sugarmtnfarm.com
 
2013-01-08 02:55:51 PM

lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral contraceptives will find their very physiology transformed by her Nubian Lover. Some unknown quality exists in the Hung Black Stud (please forgive my redundancy, but it's a historical term), that will make the most barren woman fertile. Like the land that gave birth to his forefathers and indeed to all humanity, the fecundity of Mother Africa is somehow translated into the womb of the BBC Whore. She will ovulate despite the presence of anti-fertility hormones. Her ovum will find the uterus despite tubal ligations. Her seed with seek out his, bond and enjoin her flesh to bring forth more black life. And find that seed she will, for it is generally a copious discharge. At least, the first three or four of a session. After that he may require further hydration. And multiply that by the basketball or football team who arrive at the hotel to service her, and you can well imagine the veritable bath she'll take in their ejaculate.

Yes, who indeed is this Love Child's Black Daddy. Dare I say we all are.
 
2013-01-08 02:56:39 PM

ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."


One thing we can be certain of...she did not sleep with a wealthy black athlete.  Otherwise, you bet she'd be suing for a share of the Tiger Woods Children Out of Wedlock Trust.
 
2013-01-08 02:57:06 PM
Next time she feels that way perhaps she should consider a little
-4.bp.blogspot.com
Instead
 
2013-01-08 02:57:13 PM
My wife's sister-in-law announced her pregnancy in September, and since then it's been an exhausting parade of baby-related events that for which she expects my wife's presence: gender-reveal cake party, ultrasound party, three baby showers. She sends my wife (and the rest of the family) near daily updates about her gestational progress.

Holy crap that's a mountain of cray-cray. I expect her to make a few appearances on STFUParents in the near future.
 
2013-01-08 02:58:06 PM
I came
 
2013-01-08 02:58:45 PM

factoryconnection: That was the adopted child that W used to torpedo McCain out of the SC Primary in 2000, by claiming it was his secret, illegitimate child. That's what you get when you put this state full of morons in a position of power.


I'd be a little more outraged, except for the fact that McCain is an insane warmonger. Thank God he never got his hands on the nuclear button.

//No, I'm not saying Bush was good
//just not as bad as McCain
 
2013-01-08 02:59:08 PM

The Angry Hand of God: Why would you decide it was a good idea to have this child? Why would you stay with her after that? It isn't like your marriage is healthy, get a divorce immediately. You are not helping any of the children by staying together.


Yep. Bonus prize is that she has no grounds to ask for a damned thing in the divorce. Tell her to go have fun with her little bastard and go buy yourself a sports car.
 
2013-01-08 02:59:48 PM

ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."


Man, I'm glad someone said it. There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?
 
2013-01-08 03:00:00 PM

AngryJailhouseFistfark: lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral c ...



ffuuuuuuuu..... LOL
 
2013-01-08 03:00:01 PM

AngryJailhouseFistfark: lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral c ...


you sound black
 
2013-01-08 03:00:28 PM

InspectorZero: I call bullshiat


I wouldn't say that. This place where I worked many years ago there was this on Filipino women who had 5 kids. Only one of these kids looked even remotely full Filipino, the other four looked like they were either half black or white. And to make matters even worse, she was a known plant slut. I always wondered if whenever her husband dropped her off for work or they came to a company picnic if he was trying to figure out who was the biological father of the 4 kids that didn't look anything like him or look Filipino.
 
2013-01-08 03:00:52 PM

miss diminutive: Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: biatch must be a god damn once-in-a-lifetime piece of ass for him to stick around and raise someone else's kid, let alone a mulatto one.

Maybe he's just thinking that he doesn't want to punish the child for the mother's mistakes.


Yet he is punishing the children more by staying together than if he left. It's not him punishing the child, it's the mother who did the punishing.
 
2013-01-08 03:01:31 PM

OscarTamerz: Four words

[www.hangthebankers.com image 850x561]
[sugarmtnfarm.com image 850x566]


Smoking stack of wood?
 
2013-01-08 03:03:24 PM

demaL-demaL-yeH: OscarTamerz: Four words

[www.hangthebankers.com image 850x561]
[sugarmtnfarm.com image 850x566]

Smoking stack of wood?


No, it's "Young Barack Obama Smoked A Lot of Wood"
 
2013-01-08 03:04:44 PM

demaL-demaL-yeH: OscarTamerz: Four words

[www.hangthebankers.com image 850x561]
[sugarmtnfarm.com image 850x566]

Smoking stack of wood?


I once heard W.C. Fields use the expression, "An Ethiope in the fuel supply." I believe poster was using the image of our President in his youth as a euphemism for what we politely refer to as the N word.
 
2013-01-08 03:04:48 PM

another cultural observer: demaL-demaL-yeH: OscarTamerz: Four words

[www.hangthebankers.com image 850x561]
[sugarmtnfarm.com image 850x566]

Smoking stack of wood?

No, it's "Young Barack Obama Smoked A Lot of Wood"


"Barack is stacked"
 
2013-01-08 03:04:55 PM

Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers.


I'm not sure why you think this is unusual. It's incredibly common in the black community -- probably more common than a woman having all three of her children by the same father.
 
2013-01-08 03:06:25 PM
Is babbydaddy paying child support?
 
2013-01-08 03:07:05 PM
Dear Slut,

Explain to him that you were fat once.

Sincerely,

Prudence
 
2013-01-08 03:07:05 PM
Nordberg!
 
2013-01-08 03:07:28 PM

Amos Quito: Is babbydaddy paying child support?


Only if white dad goes to court, disestablishes paternity and divorces his harlot.
 
2013-01-08 03:08:35 PM

The Angry Hand of God: Why would you decide it was a good idea to have this child? Why would you stay with her after that? It isn't like your marriage is healthy, get a divorce immediately. You are not helping any of the children by staying together.


Worthless cheating sluts and pathetic spineless douchebags deserve one another. I hope they make eachother miserable for the rest of their lives (and leave the rest of us alone).
 
2013-01-08 03:09:19 PM

SevenizGud: Dear Slut,

Explain to him that you were fat once.

Sincerely,

Prudence


Thread over.

Ex-fatties are the best.
 
2013-01-08 03:10:56 PM

lennavan: miss diminutive: Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: biatch must be a god damn once-in-a-lifetime piece of ass for him to stick around and raise someone else's kid, let alone a mulatto one.

Maybe he's just thinking that he doesn't want to punish the child for the mother's mistakes.

Yet he is punishing the children more by staying together than if he left. It's not him punishing the child, it's the mother who did the punishing.


Whether or not his staying hurts the children depends on the state of his relationship with the mother. If he's decided to truly forgive and forget and they've worked out their issues then the kids could grow up fine.

I'm not saying I agree with his choices. If a man cheated on me and got another woman pregnant he'd be out the door in a heartbeat, kids or not.
 
2013-01-08 03:11:47 PM
Mommy was probably a cum guzzling slut before she got married - buyer beware!
 
2013-01-08 03:12:24 PM

Vectron: As in, if it's black, I'm not coming back?


"Once you go black, we don't want you back"
 
2013-01-08 03:12:36 PM

ordinarysteve: Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.

I'm just glad your story didn't involve Golars running wild


Huh. I just learned something. And all this time I was taking those valley cornholes at their word that the real issue was with folks on the North Mountain (read: low ridge forming the northern edge of the Annapolis Valley).
 
2013-01-08 03:14:37 PM

lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.


Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.
 
2013-01-08 03:16:16 PM
Dear Slut: She'll end up running away from home and turning tricks for crack by the time she is 14, so just keep avoiding the question until then and you'll be golden.
 
2013-01-08 03:17:09 PM
I can't believe she went back.
 
2013-01-08 03:17:39 PM

AngryJailhouseFistfark: lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral c ...


Too long, hard, black; didn't read ;)

+1
 
2013-01-08 03:18:11 PM

Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it


Try adjusting the brightness on your monitor.
 
2013-01-08 03:18:35 PM

ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.


child support: 500 x 12 x 18 + 1/3 college.
legal fees: 4,000.

Your friend made the mathematically sound choice.
 
2013-01-08 03:18:56 PM

miss diminutive: Whether or not his staying hurts the children depends on the state of his relationship with the mother. If he's decided to truly forgive and forget and they've worked out their issues then the kids could grow up fine.


Fair enough. I guess keeping their marriage together for their kid's sake hardly sounded like truly forgiving and forgetting to me. Sounded more like trying to suck it up and move on and it's not gonna work.
 
2013-01-08 03:20:02 PM

Big Beef Burrito: Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it

Try adjusting the brightness on your monitor.


LOL
 
2013-01-08 03:20:08 PM

another cultural observer: ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

child support: 500 x 12 x 18 + 1/3 college.
legal fees: 4,000.

Your friend made the mathematically sound choice.


While it's mathematically sound if I found out that my 18-month-old wasn't mine, I don't know what I would do. I'd be furious at my wife, sure, but...he's my son. I've been with him since the moment he was born, and I'm the only dad he knows, y'know? So...I would want to make sure he was supported. I suppose I would see what my chances were of getting decent custody after the divorce.
 
2013-01-08 03:22:35 PM

lennavan: miss diminutive: Whether or not his staying hurts the children depends on the state of his relationship with the mother. If he's decided to truly forgive and forget and they've worked out their issues then the kids could grow up fine.

Fair enough. I guess keeping their marriage together for their kid's sake hardly sounded like truly forgiving and forgetting to me. Sounded more like trying to suck it up and move on and it's not gonna work.



He might be Christian. Christians used to go on bloody crusades. This lay down with lambs shiat is for the birds.
 
2013-01-08 03:22:46 PM
It would seem the guys of fark have some very intense and rage-provoking insecurities when it comes to the idea of white chicks and black dudes.

I've seen affair threads come up before, the pure vitriolic fury in this thread is pretty astounding... and amusing.

How many guys in here are chomping at the bit to call her a "mud-shark?"
 
2013-01-08 03:23:05 PM

Koalaesq: One of my most memorable clients was a woman who had 5 children by 5 different fathers.


Reminds me of my sister, who while still quite young had 4 kids with 4 different men, only one of whom she married. Her fifth man, her second husband, ended up raising them all (with child support from baby daddy #1 & #2...IIRC).
 
2013-01-08 03:23:09 PM
theflyingguillotine.files.wordpress.com

Nordberg!!!
 
2013-01-08 03:23:14 PM
My advice to the woman:

Move out of your house immediately.

3.bp.blogspot.com
 
2013-01-08 03:23:21 PM
I believe it was Areo Hotah who said "someone always tells"
 
2013-01-08 03:23:26 PM

demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?


Legal aid. Close enough.
 
2013-01-08 03:23:28 PM

Lord Dimwit: another cultural observer: ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

child support: 500 x 12 x 18 + 1/3 college.
legal fees: 4,000.

Your friend made the mathematically sound choice.

While it's mathematically sound if I found out that my 18-month-old wasn't mine, I don't know what I would do. I'd be furious at my wife, sure, but...he's my son. I've been with him since the moment he was born, and I'm the only dad he knows, y'know? So...I would want to make sure he was supported. I suppose I would see what my chances were of getting decent custody after the divorce.


I see you're burdened with a human soul.
 
2013-01-08 03:25:06 PM

ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.


That's a different issue. What I was bringing up is establishing paternity in the first place. If you are married, you are by default assumed to be the legal father. You can contest it as a married father and get a DNA test, or if the wife signs the form you both can voluntarily agree you are not the father. Sounds like your friend already accepted being the father and wanted that changed.

Paternity is an amazingly simple thing to establish. It's a simple cheek swab and you're done and they do it essentially high-throughput down at the courthouse downtown. Your friend made the right choice long term financially but if someone is strapped for cash, the forms are all online. He could have filed it himself. Here's the pro se page. Link
 
2013-01-08 03:27:10 PM
CSB time...

Many many years ago I was working retail and the MILF that was the head of returns had just been promoted to asst mgr. She comes into the mostly empty lunchroom and someone mentions her 4 year old son (she's a single mom). She decides to tell us that she has no idea who the father is. Apparently, she was a flight attendant and had worked a flight to Vancouver without another flight to work until new years day. So, in her own words "I went on a week-long bender hopping from bar to bar and bed to bed and found out later I was pregnant." Then she told us she dreads the day the kid starts asking about his dad and she's trying to figure out how to tell him she has no idea who he is. *shakes head*
 
2013-01-08 03:27:57 PM
Worthless cheating sluts are worthless. Dad should divorce her lying ass post-haste and sue for custody of his child.

/Divorcing my own worthless cheating slut now
//55 days left to go then her ass gone forever
///thank FSM, we have no kids
 
2013-01-08 03:28:39 PM

lennavan: ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

That's a different issue. What I was bringing up is establishing paternity in the first place. If you are married, you are by default assumed to be the legal father. You can contest it as a married father and get a DNA test, or if the wife signs the form you both can voluntarily agree you are not the father. Sounds like your friend already accepted being the father and wanted that changed.

Paternity is an amazingly simple thing to establish. It's a simple cheek swab and you're done and they do it essentially high-throughput down at the courthouse downtown. Your friend made the right choice long term financially but if someone is strapped for cash, the forms are all online. He could have filed it himself. Here's the pro se page. Link


Another recent-ish NJ case had this fantastic turn of events: A father was getting a divorce from the mother. In NJ, you have to pay for child support through college. Mom applied for child support, and dad brought that up that he knew the kid wasn't even his, and refused to pay child support. Dad tried to get a DNA test to prove it, but since he had basically sat on his rights for 18 years and it would not benefit the kid, the court refused to let him off the hook and said he had to pay for the kid's college and continue to be the putative father.
 
2013-01-08 03:28:44 PM
YEAH!! TWO CHRISTMASES!
 
2013-01-08 03:29:01 PM
Bah I meant to click preview

"Apparently, she was a flight attendant and had worked a flight to Vancouver on Christmas Eve without another flight to work until new years day."
 
2013-01-08 03:30:50 PM

bemis23: Worthless cheating sluts are worthless. Dad should divorce her lying ass post-haste and sue for custody of his child.

/Divorcing my own worthless cheating slut now
//55 days left to go then her ass gone forever
///thank FSM, we have no kids


Divorce sucks (never did it myself, but assisted in quite a few), just remember to not give in just to "get it over with". People who say they just want to "get it over with" always regret the concessions they've made afterwards.

/also, be nice to your lawyer.
 
2013-01-08 03:31:30 PM

AngryJailhouseFistfark: lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral c ...


25.media.tumblr.com
 
2013-01-08 03:32:47 PM

reveal101: PowerSlacker: Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?

It partially explains why she cheated on him in the first place: She knew she would get away with it.


Not just cheat on him, but cheat on him and have another mans baby, a baby that will obviously let EVERYONE know he was cuckolded as well. To top it all off, she doesn't say anything about being remorseful, thinking her affair was a mistake, or being contrite. She says that they stayed together for their son.

I mean, shiat, really? Really?
 
2013-01-08 03:33:45 PM
farm8.staticflickr.com
 
2013-01-08 03:35:05 PM

kvinesknows: "Q. Enjoying More Than Just the Massage I enjoy massages a couple of times a year. The last one was performed by a male masseuse. He did a wonderful job; I was relaxed and all of the major problems in my lower back were improved. There was an unexpected added bonus though. Because he was male, I felt a little excited about being touched by someone other than my husband. Nothing sexual happened. It wasn't a Sex and the City moment. But I still got a little secret thrill from the experience. My next massage is coming up. Is it OK for me to request another male masseuse?"

LOLOLOLOL..

I found this MUCH better place for massages then we had used in the past. I scheduled a massage for my wife with one of the girls. She liked it better then the other places, they were far more professional.... THEN her birthday was coming up so I scheduled another massage.. but noticed that they had a guy on staff now. FBd him.. found out he was active outdoors.. about 15 years younger.. had the hair she likes.. so I never told her about it but scheduled the guy instead....
:) She was extremely shocked and then pleased because as a guy he was much stronger and able to dig into those nots in her shoulders.. Then.. even though she requested just the upper back.. he moved down.. LOL.. even moved her panties down to " reach lower on her back" exposing 1/2 her ass.

..so in short to the letter writer I answer... oh dear.. its pretty much expected for you to get some sort of thrill from it... so just go with the flow.. and if you really love hubby.. schedule him an appoitment with a female masseuse at the same place.. or better yet... ask him to come sit in the room with you.


So you are saying that your wife's excitement and arousal excites and arrouses you? I don't have a problem with that.
 
2013-01-08 03:37:17 PM
Here's the problem I have. This selfish biatch ruins the lives of her husband and biological son and gets a pass. She doesn't have to face the consequences of her decision because her husband appears to be a stand up guy. An idiot but a stand up guy.

My brother went through a similar scenario with his ex-biatch but the same race but these two kids look markedly different. She got knocked up by a neighbor and he kicked the biatch and the kid out. They are split. He has one kid, she has the other...hers with the neighbor. The neighbor didn't want anything to do with her and the new found kid because, shocker, he has a brood of his own. The court, in the Peoples Republic of New Jersey no less, upheld that the neighbor has to support both my brother's ex wife AND their biological kid. My brother has to pay half of her alimony and her health care but does not have to support the kid in any way shape or form.

Sometimes justice is done. I would have ditched the biatch long ago. We all knew she was cheating on him after about 3 months after they were married. We told him but he wouldn't listen.
 
2013-01-08 03:37:21 PM
This thread has more instances of the word "cuckold" than the Complete Works of William Shakespeare.
 
2013-01-08 03:37:55 PM

lennavan: ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

That's a different issue. What I was bringing up is establishing paternity in the first place. If you are married, you are by default assumed to be the legal father. You can contest it as a married father and get a DNA test, or if the wife signs the form you both can voluntarily agree you are not the father. Sounds like your friend already accepted being the father and wanted that changed.

Paternity is an amazingly simple thing to establish. It's a simple cheek swab and you're done and they do it essentially high-throughput down at the courthouse downtown. Your friend made the right choice long term financially but if someone is strapped for cash, the forms are all online. He could have filed it himself. Here's the pro se page. Link


Yeah he could have filled the paper work himself, but he also had to make a lot of court appearances, which if you are not a lawyer you should have one representing you. It just wasn't a simple fill out this form, show me the DNA test and you are off the hook. Plus there is also a time limit in which you have to protest.

Plus this seems to be the same. The guy I know signed the birth certificate. And from what you are saying if you are married and a child is born, then you are automatically presumed to be the father. In both cases the father has been established in the eyes of the law, so I would assume you would have to go through the same legal procedures to get yourself excluded as the father once you have been legally established to be the father. And once that has happened it isn't just a simple fill out paper work and show a DNA test.
 
2013-01-08 03:38:59 PM
i123.photobucket.com
 
2013-01-08 03:39:06 PM
Ya know, cheating like this isn't always sexually motivated. Perhaps our heroine has low social functioning and needs hubby to tell her what to say to people. Then, perhaps, she resents the constraints her primary relationship places upon her. The implication of her dysfunctionality. So the cheating is demonstrative or liberating or a chance to demonstrate her resentment of her situation. In this case she is a nutbag and since nutbag runs in families, the kids will need close attention as they mature.
 
2013-01-08 03:39:39 PM

Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.


Yeah I don't miss it...
 
2013-01-08 03:40:07 PM

signaljammer: Ya know, cheating like this isn't always sexually motivated. Perhaps our heroine has low social functioning and needs hubby to tell her what to say to people. Then, perhaps, she resents the constraints her primary relationship places upon her. The implication of her dysfunctionality. So the cheating is demonstrative or liberating or a chance to demonstrate her resentment of her situation. In this case she is a nutbag and since nutbag runs in families, the kids will need close attention as they mature.


I wish I had that kind of free time.
 
2013-01-08 03:40:18 PM
My wife would be out of my house like a heard of turds...
 
2013-01-08 03:40:30 PM

vudukungfu: He's gonna figure it out. And when he does, hopefully you will have taken him on enough slut-walks that he won't be too judgmental. And hopefully he will be gay. And promiscuous as hell. And flamboyant. And a Born again holy roller. And dating a bisexual, pre-op Haitian blood donor.


Looks like she tried for a Haitian Divorce.

Time for the dude to get a real one.
 
2013-01-08 03:41:30 PM
Just say you left the kid in the oven a little too long
 
2013-01-08 03:42:06 PM

Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.
/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.


Oh, you poor dea...
Nope.
Can't get that out.

/For the record, I tried.
//For the record, I also hope that the overwhelming majority of your clients are just decent people down on their luck.
 
2013-01-08 03:43:04 PM
Step 1. Give kid handful of these...
www.oldtimecandy.com
Step 2. Ask kid, "Do you like these?"
Step 3. When kid gives affirmative reply say (while smiling largely) , "So does Mommy!"

/Repeat until kid gets the idea.
 
2013-01-08 03:43:19 PM

Koalaesq: Another recent-ish NJ case had this fantastic turn of events: A father was getting a divorce from the mother. In NJ, you have to pay for child support through college. Mom applied for child support, and dad brought that up that he knew the kid wasn't even his, and refused to pay child support. Dad tried to get a DNA test to prove it, but since he had basically sat on his rights for 18 years and it would not benefit the kid, the court refused to let him off the hook and said he had to pay for the kid's college and continue to be the putative father.



Seems just a NJ twist (the college bit instead of 18 years old) on a common theme. I've seen other cases similar, where essentially a father who acts as a father for a long time later finds out he is not, still has to continue paying support. It sucks, I'm not entirely sure how I feel about it but honestly, I think I agree with it. When you sign the birth certificate and agree you're the father, that's that. It's not the kid's fault the mother is a lying ho-bag.
 
2013-01-08 03:43:27 PM

bikerific: PowerSlacker: Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?


Seems like sticking around in this situation takes a lot more spine than just bailing out.

People make mistakes. They get over it.


That's more than a mistake. That's the ultimate backstabbing move from the wife. She should have at least had the courage to get an abortion,
 
2013-01-08 03:45:19 PM
Jungle fever is a hard thing to get over.
 
2013-01-08 03:45:36 PM

Koalaesq: bemis23: Worthless cheating sluts are worthless. Dad should divorce her lying ass post-haste and sue for custody of his child.

/Divorcing my own worthless cheating slut now
//55 days left to go then her ass gone forever
///thank FSM, we have no kids

Divorce sucks (never did it myself, but assisted in quite a few), just remember to not give in just to "get it over with". People who say they just want to "get it over with" always regret the concessions they've made afterwards.

/also, be nice to your lawyer.


There's no real concessions being given. The stuff I want she doesn't care about and vice versa. The only thing worth arguing over is the dogs and since I'm taking a travel job and won't be able to care for them properly she can have them. I don't want the house. My car is legally separate property. The rest of the stuff...is just stuff that can be easily replaced. My goal is to get this toxic succubus out of my life permanently.

My lawyer rocks. Also, the associate attorney on my suit is hot.
 
2013-01-08 03:45:40 PM

Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it


BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.

In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases. The guy decided to stick it out and keep his family intact. Is it the decision that I would have made? Hell no. But, how much of a hypocrite do you have to be to pontificate about absentee fathers in other threads and then to come in here and complain that this guy didn't run crying into the woods when he found out his wife was a cheater. The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows. Sure, I see how you could twist that to be something weak, I just don't understand why you would.
 
2013-01-08 03:45:54 PM

Cer10Death: Jungle fever is a hard thing to get over.


So is yellow fever...so I have heard.
 
2013-01-08 03:46:53 PM

demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.
/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

Oh, you poor dea...
Nope.
Can't get that out.

/For the record, I tried.
//For the record, I also hope that the overwhelming majority of your clients are just decent people down on their luck.


My clients are all severely mentally ill and developmentally delayed, so yeah, life hasn't been too nice to them already. Most of them are decent people; a few are just pricks.
 
2013-01-08 03:47:26 PM
It's hard to get child support when the boyfriend is a ward of the state.

s3.vidimg.popscreen.com
(killed and cooked his white girlfriend)
 
2013-01-08 03:47:32 PM

ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.


It cost him a lot of money because he was a farking moron. You ask for the paternity test before you sign shiat. This means every time you have a kid too.

Only suckers convince themselves that they can trust their women in such a situation. You can't. And you women who flip out over us asking for a paternity test: fark you.
 
2013-01-08 03:47:56 PM

Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.


except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'
 
2013-01-08 03:48:07 PM

Buttknuckle: ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."

Man, I'm glad someone said it. There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?


No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.

I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.
 
2013-01-08 03:49:13 PM
Her getting pregnant would be too much for me. After they man up and explain that the wife cheated, good luck trying to teach your kids the value of monogomy. And I bet the dad in this family gets ALOT of free passes on things.

I lasted through marriage infidelity once, and that was enough.
 
2013-01-08 03:49:29 PM

The Muthaship: I wish I had that kind of free time.

Yup, its time I finish the coffee and find something to do. . .
jzheesh!

//funemployed
// since 1979
 
2013-01-08 03:50:04 PM
That's a farked situation. I'd be the fark out of there.
 
2013-01-08 03:51:00 PM

Nurglitch: ordinarysteve: Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.

I'm just glad your story didn't involve Golars running wild

Huh. I just learned something. And all this time I was taking those valley cornholes at their word that the real issue was with folks on the North Mountain (read: low ridge forming the northern edge of the Annapolis Valley).


Well they may be weird on North Mt. too but you definitely don't want to be around South Mt. when the banjo music starts.
/The valley is beautiful, but it's like our West Virginia though
 
2013-01-08 03:51:25 PM

inner ted: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'


Aw, someone is jealous of my law degree. Cute.

/aaaand "ignore".
 
2013-01-08 03:53:35 PM

ongbok: Yeah he could have filled the paper work himself, but he also had to make a lot of court appearances, which if you are not a lawyer you should have one representing you. It just wasn't a simple fill out this form, show me the DNA test and you are off the hook. Plus there is also a time limit in which you have to protest.


Right well your friend's case was more than simple paternity.

ongbok: the father has been established in the eyes of the law, so I would assume you would have to go through the same legal procedures to get yourself excluded as the father


Yeah see this is where it gets really sticky. This is where you want a lawyer. Problem is getting yourself excluded, once you were already established as the father, is a bit harder than proving the kid is not biologically yours.
 
2013-01-08 03:54:48 PM

Koalaesq: inner ted: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'

Aw, someone is jealous of my law degree. Cute.

/aaaand "ignore".


With several hundred thousand lawyers, many who can't find jobs, I'm not sure jealous is the word I'd use.
 
2013-01-08 03:54:53 PM
It is vitally important to know who both parents are (if you can) for your medical history and genetic predispositions. It's bad enough this whore is making her poor husband live wit this. It will be worse if she denies her child knowing the father and having the medical benefits of knowing him.
 
2013-01-08 03:56:20 PM

SpectroBoy: It is vitally important to know who both parents are (if you can) for your medical history and genetic predispositions. It's bad enough this whore is making her poor husband live wit this. It will be worse if she denies her child knowing the father and having the medical benefits of knowing him.


The Sickle Cell?
 
2013-01-08 03:56:37 PM
/ once you go black... we really dont want you back biatch!!
// single moms r hos.
/// just say 'no' ho, no!
 
2013-01-08 03:57:32 PM
I worry about my ex fiance from a few years ago doing something like this. Coming over one night hooking up then she is magically pregnant after a few weeks and claims it's mine. She married the main guy she was cheating on me with about 7 months after we broke up and got pregnant, maybe by him, maybe not. I just avoid her like the plague now.
 
2013-01-08 03:58:25 PM

Koalaesq: inner ted: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'

Aw, someone is jealous of my law degree. Cute.

/aaaand "ignore".


awww

someone thinks putting someone on 'ignore' means anything
lulz

and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

also: enjoy paying off those loans on a public defender legal assistant budget

/not jealous in the LEAST
 
2013-01-08 04:00:10 PM

another cultural observer: Lord Dimwit: another cultural observer: ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

child support: 500 x 12 x 18 + 1/3 college.
legal fees: 4,000.

Your friend made the mathematically sound choice.

While it's mathematically sound if I found out that my 18-month-old wasn't mine, I don't know what I would do. I'd be furious at my wife, sure, but...he's my son. I've been with him since the moment he was born, and I'm the only dad he knows, y'know? So...I would want to make sure he was supported. I suppose I would see what my chances were of getting decent custody after the divorce.

I see you're burdened with a human soul.


always a crutch
 
2013-01-08 04:00:13 PM
Khloe Kardashian is in the news again!? lol

/ ho
// gold diggin' baby snatcher
/// fat
//// Lamar got PLAYED by that fat biatch
 
2013-01-08 04:00:32 PM

Vectron:
(killed and cooked his white girlfriend)


So... he's single?
 
2013-01-08 04:01:43 PM

jackieeeee: Buttknuckle: ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."

Man, I'm glad someone said it. There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?

No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.

I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.


i.qkme.me
 
2013-01-08 04:01:55 PM

lennavan: ongbok: Yeah he could have filled the paper work himself, but he also had to make a lot of court appearances, which if you are not a lawyer you should have one representing you. It just wasn't a simple fill out this form, show me the DNA test and you are off the hook. Plus there is also a time limit in which you have to protest.

Right well your friend's case was more than simple paternity.

ongbok: the father has been established in the eyes of the law, so I would assume you would have to go through the same legal procedures to get yourself excluded as the father

Yeah see this is where it gets really sticky. This is where you want a lawyer. Problem is getting yourself excluded, once you were already established as the father, is a bit harder than proving the kid is not biologically yours.


Yep and that is the point. In these situations not being the biological father is just one component in not being the father in the eyes of the law. I guess he had to prove that he didn't know that he wasn't the biological father and hadn't agreed to to say he was, and a whole lot of other bs. Also because their is a time limit that you have to bring this up he had to go to court to verify that he was within that time limit.

Like I said before it is a long expensive process to do this in IL, but at least IL has a procedure for it. Some states don't.
 
2013-01-08 04:04:37 PM

jackieeeee: No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.


Well, it is a little worse for her to have had an affair and child with a black guy than a white guy. If the baby daddy had been white, then the hubby could have just sucked it up and said 'we're never going to discuss this again. Not the two of us, not your biatch of a mother, not the kids, not the neighbors - nobody.' He could have just buried it and gone on hating postmen and plumbers for the rest of his life with no one the wiser.

In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him. He's going to have people laughing behind his back and making him the butt of jokes until they're all dead and buried.
 
2013-01-08 04:06:34 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.


Why, it's almost like a large percentage of Farkers are bitter 40-ish male divorcees.

DROxINxTHExWIND: The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows


More likely he doesn't want his kid to grow up without a dad. Which I respect, but think it's probably the wrong move in the long term - kids with single parents tend to be better adjusted than kids with parents who stayed together but who hated each other.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?
 
2013-01-08 04:08:54 PM

Karac: I certainly hope the white guy looked into the laws in his state, and didn't sign his name to the birth certificate. Otherwise it's gonna suck when he finally gets his balls back, divorces her, but then finds out he's still on the hook for the other guy's child support.


In some states he will be anyway.
 
2013-01-08 04:09:12 PM
Look, a five-year-old isn't going to be familiar with the principles of Mendelian genetics. Just say that people come in all different colors and sometimes children look different than their parents.
 
2013-01-08 04:09:27 PM

Cer10Death: Here's the problem I have. This selfish biatch ruins the lives of her husband and biological son and gets a pass. She doesn't have to face the consequences of her decision because her husband appears to be a stand up guy. An idiot but a stand up guy.

My brother went through a similar scenario with his ex-biatch but the same race but these two kids look markedly different. She got knocked up by a neighbor and he kicked the biatch and the kid out. They are split. He has one kid, she has the other...hers with the neighbor. The neighbor didn't want anything to do with her and the new found kid because, shocker, he has a brood of his own. The court, in the Peoples Republic of New Jersey no less, upheld that the neighbor has to support both my brother's ex wife AND their biological kid. My brother has to pay half of her alimony and her health care but does not have to support the kid in any way shape or form.

Sometimes justice is done. I would have ditched the biatch long ago. We all knew she was cheating on him after about 3 months after they were married. We told him but he wouldn't listen.


Your story warms the cockles of my cold, black heart.
 
2013-01-08 04:09:47 PM

Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.


And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.
 
2013-01-08 04:10:44 PM

hermitage_deux: / once you go black... we really dont want you back biatch!!
// single moms r hos.
/// just say 'no' ho, no!


You know, I don't have a high tolerance for bigots, but I have less tolerance for people who don't read thr article. She's not single, you ass bucket. She's MARRIED. That's kinda the point of the letter. If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head. You should have drank more milk as a kid.
 
2013-01-08 04:11:27 PM

kokomo61: Haitian Divorce.


Wasn't that like a Steely Dan song or something?
 
2013-01-08 04:12:12 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy


Not once she got pregnant, she wouldn't....statistically speaking.....
 
2013-01-08 04:12:29 PM
Ex-girlfriends of black men.


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2013-01-08 04:12:36 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy.


wanna bet she still is?
 
2013-01-08 04:14:15 PM

Gunther: DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Because a good portion of farkers seem to be old school racists. Not funny, un-PC, ethnic jokes racist but mean, hateful racist. Seriously, the things I read in the Trayvon threads caused a small part of my humanity to die.
 
2013-01-08 04:14:25 PM
Yo, fo' reals...pity the bastard kid. To all the women go are BBC, once you've been blackbred, you are blackbred fo' life.
 
2013-01-08 04:16:10 PM
Gunther:
/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Meh. I'm a black guy on Fark. Sadly, I'm used to it. Funny thing is, if I respond to one of them I'll be the racist by the end of the thread. Smh.
 
2013-01-08 04:16:27 PM

bob999: I've often assumed that Ms. Prudence makes these up. She sure gets some of the most improbable letters.


Dear Penthouse Forums Ms. Prudence,
 
2013-01-08 04:16:36 PM

Gunther: DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.

Why, it's almost like a large percentage of Farkers are bitter 40-ish male divorcees.

DROxINxTHExWIND: The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows

More likely he doesn't want his kid to grow up without a dad. Which I respect, but think it's probably the wrong move in the long term - kids with single parents tend to be better adjusted than kids with parents who stayed together but who hated each other.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Because the majority of the few Farkers that do have real girlfriends or wives are insecure little men that are afraid that black men will still their wives. And judging by their mentalities I can imagine the type of woman that would put with them, and can safely tell them that they have nothing to worry about because nobody wants that women but them.

Then you have the truly sad cases of the ones that don't have real girlfriends or wives. But they are deathly afraid that if they did actually have one, that she would run off with a black man. These are really the sad ones.
 
2013-01-08 04:16:44 PM
ts1.mm.bing.net
You sent a letter to 'Dear Prudence'? Seriously, Mom, that's farked up.
 
2013-01-08 04:17:16 PM

Cer10Death: Here's the problem I have. This selfish biatch ruins the lives of her husband and biological son and gets a pass.


You're kidding, right? You realize she had Jungle Fever. What's she supposed to do, just pretend it's not there? Just "will it away"? This wasn't some elective behavior, she had no choice in the matter. Once that fever hits you, there's no denying it. None.
 
2013-01-08 04:17:25 PM

evaned: Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.

And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.


OK then, decent point. How about we limit my previous statement to everyone in his family, friends, neighbors, fellow churchgoers, and occasional bystanders who noticed that the wife was pregnant while the daughter while married to him.
 
2013-01-08 04:18:47 PM

technicolor-misfit: It would seem the guys of fark have some very intense and rage-provoking insecurities when it comes to the idea of white chicks and black dudes.

I've seen affair threads come up before, the pure vitriolic fury in this thread is pretty astounding... and amusing.

How many guys in here are chomping at the bit to call her a "mud-shark?"


You are so evolved and enlightened.
 
2013-01-08 04:19:44 PM
I went black and went back. Several times, in fact.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it

BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.


In all honestly, do you watch porn with white guys in it, or do you stick to your own color? I think the...object?...of porn is to imagine it's your dick, and mine is not black, so it loses that appeal.

Granted, it's not 10 inches long either, but not a lot of average size porn stars out there.
 
2013-01-08 04:20:05 PM

Gunther: DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.

Why, it's almost like a large percentage of Farkers are bitter 40-ish male divorcees.

DROxINxTHExWIND: The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows

More likely he doesn't want his kid to grow up without a dad. Which I respect, but think it's probably the wrong move in the long term - kids with single parents tend to be better adjusted than kids with parents who stayed together but who hated each other.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Don't be stupid. The reason it "makes it worse" is the exact same reason why she is writing to an advice column in the first place. Her little boy knows what's up and is asking questions, the little girl is sure as hell going to figure it out some day and most people who know them, will if they are lucky, keep their mouths shut but nod knowingly to each other.

Imagine being the little girl - imagine wondering if everyone who meets you knows that you're the product of an affair. Imagine trying to fit in with even your extended family with everyone obviously knowing something is different (it's not like they can avoid the question now, can they?)

That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day. As much as the MIL cops grief for saying that the girl was adopted, I bet that when she finds out the truth she's going to wish she really was adopted.
 
2013-01-08 04:21:19 PM

Spanky McStupid: namegoeshere: This story would be better if they were fraternal twins of different races.

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Say whut?


I love the second and third photos, because the family resemblance is so strong. (Babies tend to all look alike anyway.) I would have no trouble buying that these kids are fraternal twins from the same parents, with a little bit of interesting Mendelian genetics going on with the melanin genes. Especially the two young men.
 
2013-01-08 04:21:46 PM

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy

Not once she got pregnant, she wouldn't....statistically speaking.....


Naw, we'll still go back to our babymamas to get some ass. We just don't support our kids. Amirite? High-five!

Funny that the folks who have the most to say in every thread are the ones who stay anonymous. They can dish it but they do everything that they can to avoid taking it.
 
2013-01-08 04:24:49 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?


I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.
 
2013-01-08 04:25:56 PM

Cer10Death: Jungle fever is a hard thing to get over.


I went black and never went back, My prior girlfriend was Jamaican and my now-wife is black.

We get some odd looks because you don't see as many black women with white men as compared to the other way around.

My sex life has certainly improved. I don't know if black girls are better in bed or just black girls who are into white guys but from my admittedly small sample set both were way, way, way more into sex than any white girl I'd ever been with.

For any white guys who are interested in "tasting the rainbow" (as my wife says): Go for it. I used to assume in my ignorance that black women would not be interested, and sometimes that is the case. But there are a lot more black girls interested in white guys than one might initially believe.
 
2013-01-08 04:26:51 PM

TwistedFark: That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day


Sure, but the impression I'm getting from a heck of a lot of farkers in this thread is that they're waaaaaay madder that a white chick had sex with a black dude rather than that a woman had a kid that was obviously not her husbands.
 
2013-01-08 04:27:04 PM

FarkinHostile: I went black and went back. Several times, in fact.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it

BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.


In all honestly, do you watch porn with white guys in it, or do you stick to your own color? I think the...object?...of porn is to imagine it's your dick, and mine is not black, so it loses that appeal.

Granted, it's not 10 inches long either, but not a lot of average size porn stars out there.


If I cover my dick in shoe polish and pretend that it's big and black is that racist? I was thinking that it might be the porn equivalent of black face and I didn't want to offend anyone.
 
2013-01-08 04:27:13 PM

Gunther:
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?

Because not only did she cheat on her husband, she chose to rub his face in it every day by having a mixed-race baby. Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.

If she'd had an abortion she'd still be a cheater but the race of the father wouldn't matter.
 
2013-01-08 04:30:29 PM
i232.photobucket.com
 
2013-01-08 04:31:36 PM

Gunther: TwistedFark: That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day

Sure, but the impression I'm getting from a heck of a lot of farkers in this thread is that they're waaaaaay madder that a white chick had sex with a black dude rather than that a woman had a kid that was obviously not her husbands.


biatch wanted to have her chocolate cake and eat it too, nawmsayn?
 
2013-01-08 04:31:57 PM

JesusJuice: Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.


Whereas if the kid was white he would forget that it wasn't his after a while?
 
2013-01-08 04:36:46 PM

Gunther: TwistedFark: That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day

Sure, but the impression I'm getting from a heck of a lot of farkers in this thread is that they're waaaaaay madder that a white chick had sex with a black dude rather than that a woman had a kid that was obviously not her husbands.


To be honest, I read every post in this thread up to this point and while yes there are some jackholes, I sort of think you may be reading too much into some people's responses.

For me, I feel bad for the little girl because of the situation and how it's going to bring her a lot of undeserved shame over her life. I feel bad for the husband in particular just because it doesn't appear that the letter writer is actually contrite about the affair and that there was an emotional reconcilliation (they stayed together "for their son"). I don't feel particularly bad for the woman because she had multiple choices here - not have an affair, use contraception, have an abortion or give the child up for adoption - or lets face it, getting a divorce.

Given what limited information we have, I think that the scenario most likely in play here was that this woman wanted out of her marriage, slept around, then once she got pregnant by another man and obviously couldn't hide it, stayed married for the financial support and security. Sure the husband may be a stand up guy and trying to do the right thing by his son, but if that's the case, I question his judgement here since without some sort of indication that the family is actually reconciled and not just suffering a burden, this is all going to go disasterously tits up eventually.
 
2013-01-08 04:37:36 PM
A few years ago I cheated on my husband, got pregnant, and decided to keep the child.

Off wit' her head!

Because my husband and I had a 2-year-old son together we decided that we could keep our marriage together for his sake.

And off wit' his head, too!
 
2013-01-08 04:39:20 PM

Karac: evaned: Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.

And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.

OK then, decent point. How about we limit my previous statement to everyone in his family, friends, neighbors, fellow churchgoers, and occasional bystanders who noticed that the wife was pregnant while the daughter while married to him.



Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches. You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.
 
2013-01-08 04:39:51 PM

Gunther: JesusJuice: Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.

Whereas if the kid was white he would forget that it wasn't his after a while?


At least he'd be able to pretend in public. Now everytime someone seems him and his wife out with little Rayshonda they'll know what a sucker he is.
 
2013-01-08 04:41:36 PM

Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.


you must have missed the part where she said he was black

/I kid, I kid
 
2013-01-08 04:42:32 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another.


I was going to agree with your opinion but then took control of my own life and decided you're completely wrong. You can make a life-changing decision based on whatever the fark you want to. It's your own farking life. If you want to break up with a chick because she puts A1 sauce on her steak, farking do it.
 
2013-01-08 04:44:18 PM
weknowmemes.com
 
2013-01-08 04:44:48 PM

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.


Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.
 
2013-01-08 04:45:47 PM

jackieeeee: Buttknuckle: ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."

Man, I'm glad someone said it. There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?

No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.

I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.


Really? I worked with several mixed race people and that was the term they said they preferred. Apparently they didn't know a better word. (Well, besides the very PC mixed race, or slang terms for specific combinations like 'blasian.')

Eye of the beholder, I guess. I couldn't get over the vague notion that a term from the colonial era was probably racist and simply avoided the topic.
 
2013-01-08 04:47:52 PM

Gunther: JesusJuice: Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.

Whereas if the kid was white he would forget that it wasn't his after a while?


Yes, actually. Of course he'd still know, but it wouldn't be shoved forcefully into his face. My stepfather sometimes forgets I'm not biologically related to him.
 
2013-01-08 04:47:53 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Karac: evaned: Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.

And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.

OK then, decent point. How about we limit my previous statement to everyone in his family, friends, neighbors, fellow churchgoers, and occasional bystanders who noticed that the wife was pregnant while the daughter while married to him.


Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches. You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.


Word.
 
2013-01-08 04:48:51 PM

Vectron: [weknowmemes.com image 420x307]


what uh... is wrong with that password?
 
2013-01-08 04:49:26 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: I guess you only see a problem when its a black child.


Having no father around is a problem regardless of race. Statistics say the problem is much more common among blacks. Just another thing that can't be discussed without it "saying something about the person who mentions it" to paraphrase your sentiment. That won't lead to improvement in the situation.
 
2013-01-08 04:54:41 PM

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another.

I was going to agree with your opinion but then took control of my own life and decided you're completely wrong. You can make a life-changing decision based on whatever the fark you want to. It's your own farking life. If you want to break up with a chick because she puts A1 sauce on her steak, farking do it.



Totally agree with both of you actually. I live my life doing what I want to do, but understanding that along with that sometimes goes some grief or problems I have to deal with. It's like, you are free to say whatever you want to people, but you are not free of consequences of that. I think most people understand that.

For me, this would probably be too much of a hassle to deal with. I will give an example of this -

My wife has really big fake boobs (32J). People are always looking at her and wondering "Are those real?" some people even have the lack of appropriate self control to actually ask the question. It's a hassle to her and annoys her that people can't just enjoy the boobage without the whispering. However, if someone does flag her down and ask her (and this has happened on the street before) she can say "No they're not!" and not worry about it. It's not that big of a deal (no pun intended) and causes no lasting emotional harm.

Would hate to be in the position of having someone ask me, "Is your daughter adopted?" and then having to either lie about it ("Yes she is") or say, "No my wife cheated on me". Sure it wouldn't happen all the time, but I bet it would happen enough that you'd be dreading the next time it came up. What a shiat situation to be in really.

Anyway, back to my original point - I don't think it's "acting like a teenage girl" to acknowledge that there are uncomfortable situations brought about by other people and the knowledge of the daughters illegitimacy. To pretend that all you have to do is "not care and man up" is sort of naive. Certainly you should live life on your terms, but there is always something to be paid. Always. For me - I wouldn't want to pay this price, so I wouldn't. Maybe someone else could and that's fine.
 
HBK
2013-01-08 04:59:09 PM

lasercannon: Koalaesq: factoryconnection: Crotchrocket Slim: Also, cattle prod to the mother in law for lying to the child... and for being a lame stereotype of a mother in law.

Isn't the mixed-race child technically adopted by the husband now? A similar but single-race situation like this happened in my friend group and the husband adopted the new kid. The wife was going through some serious alcohol problems when she left the husband and shacked up temporarily with the babydaddy, but the wife ended up returning to her husband and kids, got treatment, finished school and pulled her life together.

It can work, though that doesn't mean it will for TFA's giant whore.

There's something called the Putative Father doctrine that many (most?) states have that says any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

It didn't mention whether or not the biological father is on the birth certificate or whether or not he signed away any legal rights or if he even knows about the kid. But any child born from a married couple the husband is the presumptive father. This being the case, he can't technically adopt this child because that child technically is his in the eyes of the law. For a current example Kim Kardashian's kid is presuptively Kris Humphries if they are still married when she gives birth


//got my Fark Law degree with a minor in air conditioning repair.


A DNA test overcomes the presumption in a lot of states.

For example, in TX if you can prove the kid isn't biologically yours, you can divorce the woman without ever having to pay child support.

/IANAL
// this is a relatively new law, like from within the past six years or so.
 
2013-01-08 05:00:03 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.


Now you're being a douche bag. There is no part of a "mans responsibility" that dictates he has to cohabitate with a woman that's cheated on him and had a baby by another man. He has a responsiblity certainly to his biological son, but I'd say that even in all this - where is the daughters biological father? Oh that's right, he's not in the picture. You're dancing around this if you ask me because it's uncomfortable. Whatever - but your opinion of what a mans responsibilities is, is frankly, rather regressive. It's no more correct than say, a woman staying with a husband that abuses her emotionally or physically simply because leaving would be "avoiding her womans responsibilities".
 
2013-01-08 05:04:49 PM

Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: Now everytime someone seems him and his wife out with little Rayshonda they'll know what a sucker he is.


Or they'll think that the black daughter is a friend. Or babysittee. Or that she's adopted. Or from an earlier marriage (or outside of one).

Obviously some of these explanations change their likelihood over time and depending on the circumstances and behavior of the kids (usually becoming more likely as they get older; a 6-month-old baby is probably not from an earlier marriage), but if I saw that family walking down the street I probably wouldn't even notice let alone try to calculate what happened.

As Karac said (in response to my earlier post about this), you're in "danger" from people who know you somewhat, but I don't think from random Joe Schmoe.
 
2013-01-08 05:08:14 PM

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: I guess you only see a problem when its a black child.

Having no father around is a problem regardless of race. Statistics say the problem is much more common among blacks. Just another thing that can't be discussed without it "saying something about the person who mentions it" to paraphrase your sentiment. That won't lead to improvement in the situation.


Lol. So, its ok for you to make sweeping generalizations about black fathers but its a problem when I catagorize you based on what you actually say. That's funny. Since we're pulling unsubstantiated stats out of our ass, statistically speaking, most white people on the internet are racist D-bags. I don't have a problem with anyone bringing up relevant facts. That's not what you did. This isn't a thread about black paternity, no matter how much you want to make it one. In a thread where a white woman cheated and a white man looked past it, you found a way to make a disparaging remark about black fathers. Congrats.
 
2013-01-08 05:08:14 PM
Its not about insecurity as you might think. Many white men see it as something "unclean" when a white woman has sex with a black man. A degradation. I can't explain it but ....there you go.
That might explain all the black on white cuckold videos. There is a fascination yet a revulsion at the same time. I'm not saying it's right, just the way it is.
 
2013-01-08 05:11:22 PM
Is this the thread where we talk about black guys dumping gorgeous black chicks for dumpy white ones?
 
2013-01-08 05:13:11 PM
I screwed a chick just after highschool who then went on to spend several years in Jamaica. When she came back I boinked her again once or twice. Her ass developed all of these degrees of freedom in her absence. There is something to be said for education. . .
 
2013-01-08 05:15:00 PM
There is an easy white lie to tell this kid until he's old enough to hear the "full" spiel...and it's simply this:

We were on a break. Things happen. We got back together, we love you, we love each other, and we love your sister. The end.

Assuming these people have reconciled and are truly making it work, that's all the reassurance a kid needs. This letter could have had a lot of details edited out for length...you don't know the status of the couple's relationship.
 
2013-01-08 05:15:16 PM
'new'
DoFs
 
2013-01-08 05:16:23 PM

Cer10Death: YEAH!! TWO CHRISTMASES!

KWANZAA, BIATCHES!!!
 
2013-01-08 05:19:26 PM

TwistedFark: DROxINxTHExWIND: The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.

Now you're being a douche bag. There is no part of a "mans responsibility" that dictates he has to cohabitate with a woman that's cheated on him and had a baby by another man. He has a responsiblity certainly to his biological son, but I'd say that even in all this - where is the daughters biological father? Oh that's right, he's not in the picture. You're dancing around this if you ask me because it's uncomfortable. Whatever - but your opinion of what a mans responsibilities is, is frankly, rather regressive. It's no more correct than say, a woman staying with a husband that abuses her emotionally or physically simply because leaving would be "avoiding her womans responsibilities".


Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish...then you come in here talking about how fast you would have gotten rid of that biatch for cheating. Is marriage til death do you part or not? And if you treat your marriage the same way you treat going steady in high school, then what the fark was the point in getting married. Not only are people in this thread totally looking past the vows that are so sacred any other time, they're deriding the father who DID STAY as some sort of pussy. I clearly stated earler in the thread that I WOULD NOT have stayed in the relationship, but I'm not the one who runs into these threads to talk down about single parents. When exactly did it become OK to raise a child in a single parent home? If I never marry my childs mother I'm part of the problem, but if I run out of the house when times get tough then I'm sensible? GTFO of here with that bullshiat.
 
2013-01-08 05:23:11 PM

inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant


Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".
 
2013-01-08 05:23:19 PM
With cuckolds, it's "Your whore wife got seduced by some dude who farked her and went on his way while you have spend the rest of your life raising his child."
The cuckold has always been the ulimate sucker. The less people that have to know about it the better.
 
2013-01-08 05:26:56 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish


We're looking down on the wife, not the kid. Duh. I can't believe you posted without bothering to actually read the posts.

DROxINxTHExWIND: but I have less tolerance for people who don't read thr article


Oh awkward.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Not only are people in this thread totally looking past the vows that are so sacred any other time


You give a nice big pass to the wife who shiat all over those vows. Christians believe Marriage is a sacred vow before God. You know what else Christians believe about women who cheat?

Deuteronomy 22:22 "If a man is found sleeping with another man's wife, both the man who slept with her and the woman must die."
Leviticus 20:10 "If a man commits adultery with another man's wife--with the wife of his neighbor--both the adulterer and the adulteress must be put to death."

I'm thinkin he's a nice guy if rather than putting her to death, he just divorces her.
 
2013-01-08 05:35:23 PM

lennavan: You give a nice big pass to the wife who shiat all over those vows. Christians believe Marriage is a sacred vow before God. You know what else Christians believe about women who cheat?

Deuteronomy 22:22 "If a man is found sleeping with another man's wife, both the man who slept with her and the woman must die."
Leviticus 20:10 "If a man commits adultery with another man's wife--with the wife of his neighbor--both the adulterer and the adulteress must be put to death."



I have to address this.

CHRISTIANS should not care one bit what the Old Testament says. Only Jews should. CHRISTians should only ask themselves one cliched question: "What Would Jesus Do?" The same Jesus who said after being tortured and nailed to a cross to die a horrible death: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Jesus would have forgiven her.

Glad I am not a christian.
 
2013-01-08 05:39:55 PM

R.A.Danny: Is this the thread where we talk about black guys dumping gorgeous black chicks for dumpy white ones?


I have to admit, as someone who grew up in Detroit, I never farking understood this. I have a cousin who is about 5'3, 230 lbs and dumb as a box of rocks. I was over at her mothers house visiting when she walks in with this passably attractive black guy, who I find out is her new boyfriend. I'm thinking to myself, "Wow she really got lucky."

Then an hour later this guys ex-girlfriend comes over to drop off his 2 year old kid (okay, so not quite so lucky, he has a kid already, but so does she) - and his ex girlfriend is this absolutely gorgeous black lady.

I remember walking out of there and thinking to myself, "Whatever the opposite of jungle fever is, this dude's got it". It's the only way to explain how he could be with my cousin.

//Yes, my cousin is a dumb troll.
 
2013-01-08 05:40:51 PM

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses

looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish

We're looking down on the wife, not the kid. Duh. I can't believe you posted without bothering to actually read the posts.

DROxINxTHExWIND: but I have less tolerance for people who don't read thr article

Oh awkward.


Pfffft. I bet your ass thought you said something real slick when you posted that. Lol. Your reading comprehension fails you. You look down at the UNWED who have children, not the children. Smh. I waited a few minutes to post this just so you could bask in your percieved awesomeness for a little while longer. You're welcome.
 
2013-01-08 05:41:02 PM

FarkinHostile: I have to address this.

CHRISTIANS should not care one bit what the Old Testament says. Only Jews should. CHRISTians should only ask themselves one cliched question: "What Would Jesus Do?" The same Jesus who said after being tortured and nailed to a cross to die a horrible death: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Jesus would have forgiven her.

Glad I am not a christian.


What would Jesus say about the Old Testament laws?

Matthew 5:17
Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them
 
2013-01-08 05:41:06 PM

feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".


it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?
 
2013-01-08 05:42:10 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Pfffft. I bet your ass thought you said something real slick when you posted that.


Says the guy discussing unwed people when the article we are all commenting on is about a married chick?

DROxINxTHExWIND: You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish


You silly pants, we read the article!

DROxINxTHExWIND: You're welcome.


Thanks.
 
2013-01-08 05:43:29 PM

inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?


I really don't think you are.
 
2013-01-08 05:43:41 PM

Callous: A. He's five and it's on the internet, he already knows.


Know? He's probably seen his own conception.
 
2013-01-08 05:44:21 PM

TwistedFark: R.A.Danny: Is this the thread where we talk about black guys dumping gorgeous black chicks for dumpy white ones?

I have to admit, as someone who grew up in Detroit, I never farking understood this. I have a cousin who is about 5'3, 230 lbs and dumb as a box of rocks. I was over at her mothers house visiting when she walks in with this passably attractive black guy, who I find out is her new boyfriend. I'm thinking to myself, "Wow she really got lucky."

Then an hour later this guys ex-girlfriend comes over to drop off his 2 year old kid (okay, so not quite so lucky, he has a kid already, but so does she) - and his ex girlfriend is this absolutely gorgeous black lady.

I remember walking out of there and thinking to myself, "Whatever the opposite of jungle fever is, this dude's got it". It's the only way to explain how he could be with my cousin.

//Yes, my cousin is a dumb troll.


Black chick has self respect and isn't willing to put up with shiat, whereas white chick has no self respect and will allow men to walk all over her?
 
2013-01-08 05:45:24 PM

lennavan: FarkinHostile: I have to address this.

CHRISTIANS should not care one bit what the Old Testament says. Only Jews should. CHRISTians should only ask themselves one cliched question: "What Would Jesus Do?" The same Jesus who said after being tortured and nailed to a cross to die a horrible death: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Jesus would have forgiven her.

Glad I am not a christian.

What would Jesus say about the Old Testament laws?

Matthew 5:17
Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them


So Jesus would have killed the biatch? I'm so confused.
 
2013-01-08 05:48:53 PM

ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."


I'm with you here. Seems like threads like this release the inner racism of some folks. For all we know, the woman in the letter could have been farking the CEO of American Express. But no, some people automatically assume it is some "Black dude named Tyrone who is a crackhead".

When I see this, I immediately begin to wonder about the possible esteem and fear issues some farkers may possess. But that thought is overrun with the other thought that some people here have some serious issues with race/fear of black men...and prolly of the psychosis that black men may take their women and there isn't shiat they can do about it.

/stop being racist...and childish, people
// and get over yourselves while you're at it.
 
2013-01-08 05:51:35 PM

Phony_Soldier: lennavan: FarkinHostile: I have to address this.

CHRISTIANS should not care one bit what the Old Testament says. Only Jews should. CHRISTians should only ask themselves one cliched question: "What Would Jesus Do?" The same Jesus who said after being tortured and nailed to a cross to die a horrible death: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Jesus would have forgiven her.

Glad I am not a christian.

What would Jesus say about the Old Testament laws?

Matthew 5:17
Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them

So Jesus would have killed the biatch? I'm so confused.



Well, to be fair, if you look to the bible for answers to any single question, you can pick verses that will give you whatever answer you want. So would he have killed the biatch? Depends, what do you want the answer to be? Choose quotes appropriately. Shiat's convenient that way.

Anyway point was lots of people look to religion with respect to a "sacred vow" of marriage. If you look further at the various religions, there's a lot of things said about cheating spouses. You're not just stuck with them forever.
 
2013-01-08 05:53:09 PM

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Pfffft. I bet your ass thought you said something real slick when you posted that.

Says the guy discussing unwed people when the article we are all commenting on is about a married chick?

DROxINxTHExWIND: You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish

You silly pants, we read the article!

DROxINxTHExWIND: You're welcome.

Thanks.


Translation: I'm going to move right past how wrong I was and try to tell another poorly received joke. I would tell you to read the thread so that you could have an informed opinion of how we all came to this point in the discussion, but I remember how you read. So, nevermind. Well, its the end of the work day and I've got a half-cigar in the ashtray that's calling my name. Take care.
 
2013-01-08 05:54:52 PM
A major portion of my family is mixed race, so I'm getting a kick out of this.
 
2013-01-08 05:55:47 PM

feffer: inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?

I really don't think you are.


Thank god for print-screen.
 
2013-01-08 05:58:11 PM

feffer: inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?

I really don't think you are.


you show me the part that is causing you trouble, and i'll be happy to explain where you erred.

or you can just say some flippant shiat with nothing to back it up all while calling me juvenile.

& not see the irony

you know, whichever
 
2013-01-08 06:01:34 PM
 
2013-01-08 06:06:30 PM

inner ted: feffer: inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?

I really don't think you are.

you show me the part that is causing you trouble, and i'll be happy to explain where you erred.

or you can just say some flippant shiat with nothing to back it up all while calling me juvenile.

& not see the irony

you know, whichever


The part that is causing me trouble is you ridiculing an attorney who works with low-income clients by comparing him/her to a secretary. "Legal aid" isn't an alternate title for paralegal, and you made yourself look like an ignorant asshole.
 
2013-01-08 06:15:14 PM

sychosyd_28: WWJRD?

(What Would John Redcorn Do?)


Cuckhold the hell of out Dale Gribble of Dale's Dead Bugs for like a decade or something.
 
2013-01-08 06:21:58 PM

Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.


LOL, dude.. seriously when was the last time you see a black dude seeking custody or visitation rights to his bastard child?
 
2013-01-08 06:23:09 PM

feffer: inner ted: feffer: inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?

I really don't think you are.

you show me the part that is causing you trouble, and i'll be happy to explain where you erred.

or you can just say some flippant shiat with nothing to back it up all while calling me juvenile.

& not see the irony

you know, whichever

The part that is causing me trouble is you ridiculing an attorney who works with low-income clients by comparing him/her to a secretary. "Legal aid" isn't an alternate title for paralegal, and you made yourself look like an ignorant asshole.


first, here - dry your tears

second - when i was at the local public defenders office, legal assistants / legal aids are the people that assist the attorney & investigator. they keep in contact with the client - schedule court appearances - you know, secretary type work.

if attorneys are now called "legal aids" - well it's news to me

so take a deep breath Francis
 
2013-01-08 06:24:45 PM

Buttknuckle: There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?


Not to mention the "lying cheating biatch whore" misogyny. Even Alabama has (recently) abandoned anti-miscegenation laws, people.
 
2013-01-08 06:28:42 PM

lennavan: You are picturing the custody decision as a single entity. Custody would be a single part of a larger divorce case. She cheated on him, so she's at fault, so she's going to be the one with the uphill battle. The stupidest thing a guy who just got cheated on can possibly do is move out. The court is going to give primary custody to whoever kept the house because that's in the best interest of the children



Then the husband should have thrown the slut's clothes out on the lawn and changed the locks, and got a restraining order against her, and filed for divorce.
 
2013-01-08 06:31:19 PM

DoBeDoBeDo:
Also the one about the lady getting off from the Maseur is a complete double standard. If a dude popped wood getting a rub down and wanted to go back and enjoy that this woman would probably be all over him for having a cheating mind.


actually that has never happened... because I am not aware of any man in the history of mankind who has ever written to some newspaper shrink asking her for advise when said incident you described happened to him at the massage place.. have you?
 
2013-01-08 06:39:32 PM

SuperNinjaToad: Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.

LOL, dude.. seriously when was the last time you see a black dude seeking custody or visitation rights to his bastard child?


Happens all the time. It just racist like you have built up a fantasy world where it doesn't happen so in your minds it doesn't.
 
2013-01-08 06:47:16 PM
We will never know how this turns out.
 
2013-01-08 06:48:50 PM
For all of you saying "once you go black, we don't want you back", I have some disappointing news...

Many of your wives and girlfriends might not have been completely honest with you about their sexual pasts. I'm married now, but in my single days...I dated and hooked up with quite a few white women. And no...not the fat unattractive white women that you've convinced yourselves are the only ones who sleep with black dudes. These were very cute white girls. Some of them downright stunning as I recall.

I'm sure that lots of them went on to get married, have relationships, families, etc. And although it's just a hunch, I'll bet that not all of them told their current husbands and boyfriends the race of every single guy they slept with.

Just something to keep in mind next time you bump uglies with your lady. Her pussy might not have always had a "whites only" policy.
 
2013-01-08 06:48:55 PM
Reality can be harsh at times. If you're a single white mother with a black child .... good luck

Chances are, you'll never live to see him become the President of the United States of America...
 
2013-01-08 06:49:13 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: TwistedFark: DROxINxTHExWIND: The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.

Now you're being a douche bag. There is no part of a "mans responsibility" that dictates he has to cohabitate with a woman that's cheated on him and had a baby by another man. He has a responsiblity certainly to his biological son, but I'd say that even in all this - where is the daughters biological father? Oh that's right, he's not in the picture. You're dancing around this if you ask me because it's uncomfortable. Whatever - but your opinion of what a mans responsibilities is, is frankly, rather regressive. It's no more correct than say, a woman staying with a husband that abuses her emotionally or physically simply because leaving would be "avoiding her womans responsibilities".

Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish...then you come in here talking about how fast you would have gotten rid of that biatch for cheating. Is marriage til death do you part or not? And if you treat your marriage the same way you treat going steady in high school, then what the fark was the point in getting married. Not only are people in this thread totally looking past the vows that are so sacred any other time, they're deriding the ...


So you are the only one in the thread who is allowed to say he should dump the cheating whore? The rest of us are hypocrites if we agree with you? Go fark yourself.
 
HBK
2013-01-08 06:49:37 PM

inner ted: second - when i was at the local public defenders office, legal assistants / legal aids are the people that assist the attorney & investigator. they keep in contact with the client - schedule court appearances - you know, secretary type work.

if attorneys are now called "legal aids" - well it's news to me

so take a deep breath Francis


Are you a troll or are you really this pants shiattingly stupid?
 
2013-01-08 06:50:24 PM
A lot of people are assuming that the husband is a spineless coward, but I always wondered in these kinds of situations what kind of demands the wronged partner could get away with. Perhaps as a condition for staying married to her, the husband insisted on a minimum of 2 sex acts of his choice per day. That might be worth staying for.
 
2013-01-08 06:50:54 PM

ongbok: SuperNinjaToad: Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.

LOL, dude.. seriously when was the last time you see a black dude seeking custody or visitation rights to his bastard child?

Happens all the time.


upload.wikimedia.org
 
2013-01-08 06:51:19 PM

I Browse: Her pussy might not have always had a "whites only" policy.


iamokaywiththis.jpg

/my penis doesn't either
 
2013-01-08 06:54:59 PM

I Browse: For all of you saying "once you go black, we don't want you back", I have some disappointing news...

Many of your wives and girlfriends might not have been completely honest with you about their sexual pasts. I'm married now, but in my single days...I dated and hooked up with quite a few white women. And no...not the fat unattractive white women that you've convinced yourselves are the only ones who sleep with black dudes. These were very cute white girls. Some of them downright stunning as I recall.

I'm sure that lots of them went on to get married, have relationships, families, etc. And although it's just a hunch, I'll bet that not all of them told their current husbands and boyfriends the race of every single guy they slept with.

Just something to keep in mind next time you bump uglies with your lady. Her pussy might not have always had a "whites only" policy.


Daddy?
 
HBK
2013-01-08 06:55:30 PM

I Browse: Just something to keep in mind next time you bump uglies with your lady. Her pussy might not have always had a "whites only" policy.


That would be funny if a vagina had such a policy. "Hey, you're a black, you have to use the other door."
 
2013-01-08 06:56:47 PM

Vectron: ongbok: SuperNinjaToad: Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.

LOL, dude.. seriously when was the last time you see a black dude seeking custody or visitation rights to his bastard child?

Happens all the time.

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How am I supposed to cite that? I don't think statistics are kept on the race of people who are seeking visitation rights. All I can say is that I have very many friends over the years who have fought for increased visitation with their kids. Why don't you give me a citation saying black men don't try to get visitation rights? And not the statistic that says black children don't have a father in the home because that has nothing to do with visitation.
 
2013-01-08 07:08:33 PM

ongbok: Vectron: ongbok: SuperNinjaToad: Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.

LOL, dude.. seriously when was the last time you see a black dude seeking custody or visitation rights to his bastard child?

Happens all the time.

[upload.wikimedia.org image 300x163]

How am I supposed to cite that? I don't think statistics are kept on the race of people who are seeking visitation rights. All I can say is that I have very many friends over the years who have fought for increased visitation with their kids. Why don't you give me a citation saying black men don't try to get visitation rights? And not the statistic that says black children don't have a father in the home because that has nothing to do with visitation.


And as often as men are farked over for visitation rights anyway, I can only imagine black men get it even worse.
 
2013-01-08 07:08:48 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: He's being a man and trying to keep his vows. Sure, I see how you could twist that to be something weak, I just don't understand why you would.


DROxInXThexWind is the voice of reason in the thread. Apparently the Mayans were right...
 
2013-01-08 07:10:25 PM

ongbok: Vectron: ongbok: SuperNinjaToad: Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.

LOL, dude.. seriously when was the last time you see a black dude seeking custody or visitation rights to his bastard child?

Happens all the time.

[upload.wikimedia.org image 300x163]

How am I supposed to cite that? I don't think statistics are kept on the race of people who are seeking visitation rights. All I can say is that I have very many friends over the years who have fought for increased visitation with their kids. Why don't you give me a citation saying black men don't try to get visitation rights? And not the statistic that says black children don't have a father in the home because that has nothing to do with visitation.



Ok, but you have to admit that on the whole, black men make the lousiest fathers and husbands by the standards of Western nations. They may be perfectly fine in the African tradition but their relationships are not understandable to white people.
 
2013-01-08 07:10:48 PM

proteus_b: DROxINxTHExWIND: He's being a man and trying to keep his vows. Sure, I see how you could twist that to be something weak, I just don't understand why you would.

DROxInXThexWind is the voice of reason in the thread. Apparently the Mayans were right...


Maybe he just doesn't want to get stuck paying child support.
 
2013-01-08 07:20:19 PM
My experience with lies and parents etc.

So I have just recovered from an automobile accident, and my best friend was mauled by my dog. My girlfriend is great, so great that whoever runs this game decided to get us pregnant. As best we could figure sperm and egg decided to do their thing on or around April 15. I remember the day she thought she was and we should check. We went into a drugstore and bought 2 tests. We went to my 'sister's' house so my GF and I could take the tests. First test: yup. Second test: you've just changed your life Dad! I remember my soon to be shaking the test as if that would change the result. She was 18, I was 23. We got married in a mid-summer day in July under the stifling DC heat and humidity. Wedding was all bliss, everyone seemed relaxed and happy. Even her father who was pushing her to decide to abort a few months prior put aside whatever he may have felt and decided to relax. I did too. I was able to forget about the letter from time to time. Every time I thought of it though, a cold shiver would run up my spine and I would try to shut it all out of my head. It would burn right through wherever I would shove the thought in my head and remind me to think about it all.

It was three days before our wedding when the letter came. I walked down to my parent's driveway to get the mail, a walk I have done hundreds of times before. On that day though the walk down seemed normal, but by the time it would take me to turn on my heels to do the walk back, something broke and broke very hard. And the way I understood the constructs of what my identity was no longer stood true
.
I opened the mailbox to see a letter addressed to me. I was thinking it was an early wedding gift. Odd it had no return address. The postmark was from a zip code about 10 minutes from my parents house. The sad thing was that it truly was in a plain brown wrapper. I flipped it over and ripped it open. Nothing big, just a piece of paper. I read it. I did not believe it at first, but then I thought about it all in an instant many things became clear. It was true. I knew it. The letter read, and I can still recall every word even though I only read that letter about three times: Dear Matthew. It is very hard for me to tell you this, but your real mother is your sister Mary. That is it. That is all it said. That is all it took in reality for me to know that it was true.

My 'mom' was in the kitchen. She was doing something like looking in a cabinet. I asked her about the letter. She looked shocked. Like that was the last thing she ever expected me to say. I could have told her I had liver cancer and had only 3 days to live and she would have looked less shocked. She said it was not true, and snatched the letter from me. I didn't care, I had already got the gist of it, and sweet Jesus what a mindfark. I went and asked my 'sister' and she got really quiet. Said nothing. Now my 'sister' who was really my mother was/is a pathological liar normally, she would have snowed me with snow bullshiat excuse, so she not saying anything was confirmation for me. It was a big deal, the house went into crisis mode. My 'dad' came home from work, and basically told me to keep on living as I thought. The past made no difference. The casual way he suggested to throw it all to the wind seemed surreal. I could not even look at my 'sister' with out feeling creeped out. Having the wedding thing, was the ultimate diversion from the aftermath of the letter. It was easier to just let that steer you. I would have thoughts about that letter, and my thoughts would skip like a badly scratched CD. And I would feel this wet blanket of truth wrap around me and smother me, but would give me just enough air to take it all in again and again. It seemed everyone was in on the lie but me.

Suddenly, everything started to make sense. If you think of the movie Angel Heart, when Mickey Rourke(sp?) puts all the horrible pieces together, that is how i felt. I know I am sounding a bit melodramatic, but that is indeed the way I saw it. In horrible flashes where I was the only one who didn't understand the punchline, while everyone else is in hysterics. Never saw any pictures of mom pregnant. When asked mom details of what she felt like when she was pregnant with me she would become evasive.
Why don't I look like a real Filipino? I had more European features than anyone else in my family. It explained why I was 6'2" when none of my parents hit over 5'6". It also explained why my 'dad' called me 'Jew Boy'. Thoughts like those would pop into my head at will.

I think it was that whole mess that let me appreciate and discover that opiates do a great job of softening the blow of psychic pain. The fact of my past also led me to think that the world owed me something. I, however learned that when you think the world owes you something, the hard fact is that you got nothing coming.
 
2013-01-08 07:21:35 PM
hahahahhahah. i knew the father would be a jiggaboo. guess hubby's tiny white penis just wasn't doing it for her anymore.
 
2013-01-08 07:21:55 PM
Once you go black you...end up a single mother.
 
2013-01-08 07:23:05 PM

TwistedFark: My wife has really big fake boobs (32J). People are always looking at her and wondering "Are those real?" some people even have the lack of appropriate self control to actually ask the question. It's a hassle to her and annoys her


No idea how she could have avoided this annoying situation...
 
2013-01-08 07:26:52 PM

orbister: Buttknuckle: There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?

Not to mention the "lying cheating biatch whore" misogyny. Even Alabama has (recently) abandoned anti-miscegenation laws, people.


Actually, calling her a 'lying cheating biatch whore' isn't in itself misogyny.  She is all of those things.  But holy crap, there really is a TON of misogyny in this thread.  Misogyny isn't in calling a person names, it's in the extra details - the speculations and the generalizations of women in general that are misogyny.  Hating a person does not equate to hating a gender.  However, there sure is plenty of both going on in here.

Too often people toss around the accusation of 'misogyny' over little things like being a creeper (seriously?), focusing on attractiveness, or using non-neutral language to slam an individual.  None of those things are misogynist.  There's some very real female-hating bile in this thread, which could serve as a good example of actual misogyny.  Combine that with the overt racism going on, and I feel more like I'm on /b/, rather than Fark.
 
2013-01-08 07:27:18 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it

BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.

In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases. The guy decided to stick it out and keep his family intact. Is it the decision that I would have made? Hell no. But, how much of a hypocrite do you have to be to pontificate about absentee fathers in other threads and then to come in here and complain that this guy didn't run crying into the woods when he found out his wife was a cheater. The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows. Sure, I see how you could twist that to be something weak, I just don't understand why you would.


Umm, she cheated with a kneegrow and her infidelity is an obvious and blatant slap in the face.

/just trying to fill it in here
 
2013-01-08 07:28:41 PM

AngryJailhouseFistfark: lude: Did she even know the guy's name? Or was he called "next"


While that may come across as a funny little joke, it should be remembered that most women who "go black" as they say, become complete whoores for the BBC. They crave it. It becomes their Lord and Master, such is the power of Black Mojo. They'll tryst away with their Black Lover, enjoying the prodigious manhood for which they are famous, and can even forget that the husband is there, in the room, perhaps touching himself, perhaps weeping tears of joy on his chastity device, but all she knows is she rests secure in the Bosom of Africa which controls, embraces, and penetrates her. She'll gleefully take his issue in whatever orifice it should please him to deposit it. Then she'll lay back and beckon for more as the African American man is known for his enormous sexual appetite and superhuman performance.

But here's where that fantasy becomes complicated. Indeed, she's gone black, she certainly cannot go back at this juncture. She can, however, go forward. Group liaisons with multiple hung, black stallions, two, three, even six at a time is not uncommon once a HotWife has truly accepted her identity as a Black C*ck Slut. Once she begins taking cream pies under such conditions, it is truly a lottery when attempting to determine the sire of the resultant spawn. And you can be sure, oh yes, that there will be cream pies. Demure at first, playing the coquettish Horny, Hot, White, Suburban Housewife, she may choose to require her partners to wear condoms when penetrating her vagina. Once her legs are wrapped around his torso and her hands cling to his muscular, athletic shoulders, however, she will take in his scent, feel his passion, and crave the sensation of his seed within her. It is inevitable. It happens not to most, but to all white women who indulge that Mandingo fantasy.

Also surprising to many of these women is the full scope of the Black Man's Sexual Prowess. Even women who are treated with oral contraceptives will find their very physiology transformed by her Nubian Lover. Some unknown quality exists in the Hung Black Stud (please forgive my redundancy, but it's a historical term), that will make the most barren woman fertile. Like the land that gave birth to his forefathers and indeed to all humanity, the fecundity of Mother Africa is somehow translated into the womb of the BBC Whore. She will ovulate despite the presence of anti-fertility hormones. Her ovum will find the uterus despite tubal ligations. Her seed with seek out his, bond and enjoin her flesh to bring forth more black life. And find that seed she will, for it is generally a copious discharge. At least, the first three or four of a session. After that he may require further hydration. And multiply that by the basketball or football team who arrive at the hotel to service her, and you can well imagine the veritable bath she'll take in their ejaculate.

Yes, who indeed is this Love Child's Black Daddy. Dare I say we all are.


Ihavethestrangestladybonerrightnow.jpg
 
2013-01-08 07:34:33 PM

The Quaalude Renaissance: My experience with lies and parents etc.

So I have just recovered from an automobile accident, and my best friend was mauled by my dog. My girlfriend is great, so great that whoever runs this game decided to get us pregnant. As best we could figure sperm and egg decided to do their thing on or around April 15. I remember the day she thought she was and we should check. We went into a drugstore and bought 2 tests. We went to my 'sister's' house so my GF and I could take the tests. First test: yup. Second test: you've just changed your life Dad! I remember my soon to be shaking the test as if that would change the result. She was 18, I was 23. We got married in a mid-summer day in July under the stifling DC heat and humidity. Wedding was all bliss, everyone seemed relaxed and happy. Even her father who was pushing her to decide to abort a few months prior put aside whatever he may have felt and decided to relax. I did too. I was able to forget about the letter from time to time. Every time I thought of it though, a cold shiver would run up my spine and I would try to shut it all out of my head. It would burn right through wherever I would shove the thought in my head and remind me to think about it all.

It was three days before our wedding when the letter came. I walked down to my parent's driveway to get the mail, a walk I have done hundreds of times before. On that day though the walk down seemed normal, but by the time it would take me to turn on my heels to do the walk back, something broke and broke very hard. And the way I understood the constructs of what my identity was no longer stood true
.
I opened the mailbox to see a letter addressed to me. I was thinking it was an early wedding gift. Odd it had no return address. The postmark was from a zip code about 10 minutes from my parents house. The sad thing was that it truly was in a plain brown wrapper. I flipped it over and ripped it open. Nothing big, just a piece of paper. I read it. I did not believe it at ...


I've never been in a situation like that, but I have to ask. If they were both still in your life and presumably both love you, what's the big deal? I can understand being upset at first, but turning to drugs? I don't know. Like I said, I've never been in that sort of situation. The closest thing in my life would be when I found out at 30 that I had a half-brother who is 35 right after the death of my dad. It was before he met my mother, but we both handled it pretty well when we found out.
 
2013-01-08 07:47:43 PM

cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.


cig-mkr: Son, shiat happens to stupid sluts, and your dad is a spineless pussy.

v
 
2013-01-08 07:49:30 PM

The Quaalude Renaissance: My experience with lies and parents etc.

So I have just recovered from an automobile accident, and my best friend was mauled by my dog. My girlfriend is great, so great that whoever runs this game decided to get us pregnant. As best we could figure sperm and egg decided to do their thing on or around April 15. I remember the day she thought she was and we should check. We went into a drugstore and bought 2 tests. We went to my 'sister's' house so my GF and I could take the tests. First test: yup. Second test: you've just changed your life Dad! I remember my soon to be shaking the test as if that would change the result. She was 18, I was 23. We got married in a mid-summer day in July under the stifling DC heat and humidity. Wedding was all bliss, everyone seemed relaxed and happy. Even her father who was pushing her to decide to abort a few months prior put aside whatever he may have felt and decided to relax. I did too. I was able to forget about the letter from time to time. Every time I thought of it though, a cold shiver would run up my spine and I would try to shut it all out of my head. It would burn right through wherever I would shove the thought in my head and remind me to think about it all.

It was three days before our wedding when the letter came. I walked down to my parent's driveway to get the mail, a walk I have done hundreds of times before. On that day though the walk down seemed normal, but by the time it would take me to turn on my heels to do the walk back, something broke and broke very hard. And the way I understood the constructs of what my identity was no longer stood true
.
I opened the mailbox to see a letter addressed to me. I was thinking it was an early wedding gift. Odd it had no return address. The postmark was from a zip code about 10 minutes from my parents house. The sad thing was that it truly was in a plain brown wrapper. I flipped it over and ripped it open. Nothing big, just a piece of paper. I read it. I did not believe it at ...


images3.wikia.nocookie.net

Then I threw the flat screen television that I had just purchased for my "mother" out of the window, and stormed out of the house.

/Sorry, couldn't resist.
 
2013-01-08 07:54:54 PM

The Quaalude Renaissance: My experience with lies and parents etc.

So I have just recovered from an automobile accident, and my best friend was mauled by my dog. My girlfriend is great, so great that whoever runs this game decided to get us pregnant. As best we could figure sperm and egg decided to do their thing on or around April 15. I remember the day she thought she was and we should check. We went into a drugstore and bought 2 tests. We went to my 'sister's' house so my GF and I could take the tests. First test: yup. Second test: you've just changed your life Dad! I remember my soon to be shaking the test as if that would change the result. She was 18, I was 23. We got married in a mid-summer day in July under the stifling DC heat and humidity. Wedding was all bliss, everyone seemed relaxed and happy. Even her father who was pushing her to decide to abort a few months prior put aside whatever he may have felt and decided to relax. I did too. I was able to forget about the letter from time to time. Every time I thought of it though, a cold shiver would run up my spine and I would try to shut it all out of my head. It would burn right through wherever I would shove the thought in my head and remind me to think about it all.

It was three days before our wedding when the letter came. I walked down to my parent's driveway to get the mail, a walk I have done hundreds of times before. On that day though the walk down seemed normal, but by the time it would take me to turn on my heels to do the walk back, something broke and broke very hard. And the way I understood the constructs of what my identity was no longer stood true
.
I opened the mailbox to see a letter addressed to me. I was thinking it was an early wedding gift. Odd it had no return address. The postmark was from a zip code about 10 minutes from my parents house. The sad thing was that it truly was in a plain brown wrapper. I flipped it over and ripped it open. Nothing big, just a piece of paper. I read it. I did not believe it at first, but then I thought about it all in an instant many things became clear. It was true. I knew it. The letter read, and I can still recall every word even though I only read that letter about three times: Dear Matthew. It is very hard for me to tell you this, but your real mother is your sister Mary. That is it. That is all it said. That is all it took in reality for me to know that it was true.

My 'mom' was in the kitchen. She was doing something like looking in a cabinet. I asked her about the letter. She looked shocked. Like that was the last thing she ever expected me to say. I could have told her I had liver cancer and had only 3 days to live and she would have looked less shocked. She said it was not true, and snatched the letter from me. I didn't care, I had already got the gist of it, and sweet Jesus what a mindfark. I went and asked my 'sister' and she got really quiet. Said nothing. Now my 'sister' who was really my mother was/is a pathological liar normally, she would have snowed me with snow bullshiat excuse, so she not saying anything was confirmation for me. It was a big deal, the house went into crisis mode. My 'dad' came home from work, and basically told me to keep on living as I thought. The past made no difference. The casual way he suggested to throw it all to the wind seemed surreal. I could not even look at my 'sister' with out feeling creeped out. Having the wedding thing, was the ultimate diversion from the aftermath of the letter. It was easier to just let that steer you. I would have thoughts about that letter, and my thoughts would skip like a badly scratched CD. And I would feel this wet blanket of truth wrap around me and smother me, but would give me just enough air to take it all in again and again. It seemed everyone was in on the lie but me.

Suddenly, everything started to make sense. If you think of the movie Angel Heart, when Mickey Rourke(sp?) puts all the horrible pieces together, that is how i felt. I know I am sounding a bit melodramatic, but that is indeed the way I saw it. In horrible flashes where I was the only one who didn't understand the punchline, while everyone else is in hysterics. Never saw any pictures of mom pregnant. When asked mom details of what she felt like when she was pregnant with me she would become evasive.
Why don't I look like a real Filipino? I had more European features than anyone else in my family. It explained why I was 6'2" when none of my parents hit over 5'6". It also explained why my 'dad' called me 'Jew Boy'. Thoughts like those would pop into my head at will.

I think it was that whole mess that let me appreciate and discover that opiates do a great job of softening the blow of psychic pain. The fact of my past also led me to think that the world owed me something. I, however learned that when you think the world owes you something, the hard fact is that you got nothing coming.


Thank you for sharing your story, families can do some weird things to cover up what they believe are shameful moments.

I hope you have grown to forgive them as you now have a family of your own.
 
2013-01-08 07:55:00 PM
meh, 'mommy's got hot pants, kid, and humans are just animals anyway.'
 
2013-01-08 08:01:23 PM
You know what they say: "Once you go black, you automatically become a whore and lose the respect of all civilized people."
 
2013-01-08 08:03:30 PM
Anybody read about Quinten Tarantino's childhood? His mom was a slut. She slutted around while he was little boy. She farked Wilt Chamberlin. But he turned out normal.

The most humane thing is once you have children, love them, protect them and don't do any thing to damage them.
 
2013-01-08 08:03:54 PM
cdn.motinetwork.net
 
2013-01-08 08:04:19 PM
Interracial sex RULES!!!
 
2013-01-08 08:05:37 PM
Mag,

I'm sorry, I should have mentioned that what you read was just an excerpt from a longer piece, and in context the reference to opiates was more germane. That happened in 1991.

It is no longer a big deal, but for many years it was. I do love them both, and all is fine now. Getting there was along walk.

The sister is your mother thing happened to these cats too:
Bobby Darin
Jack Nicholson (he found by reading an article about himself, the journalist dug it up)
Ted Bundy
 
2013-01-08 08:06:37 PM

Vectron: Anybody read about Quinten Tarantino's childhood? His mom was a slut. She slutted around while he was little boy. She farked Wilt Chamberlin. But he turned out normal.

The most humane thing is once you have children, love them, protect them and don't do any thing to damage them.


These words do not belong in the same national library, let alone in a single paragraph in a single post in a fark thread.
 
2013-01-08 08:07:24 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: But, how much of a hypocrite do you have to be to pontificate about absentee fathers in other threads and then to come in here and complain that this guy didn't run crying into the woods when he found out his wife was a cheater.



HE'S NOT THE FATHER
 
2013-01-08 08:08:16 PM

Riotboy: Interracial sex RULES!!!


Rule 1: get two people of different races
 
2013-01-08 08:10:54 PM

The Quaalude Renaissance: Mag,

I'm sorry, I should have mentioned that what you read was just an excerpt from a longer piece, and in context the reference to opiates was more germane. That happened in 1991.

It is no longer a big deal, but for many years it was. I do love them both, and all is fine now. Getting there was along walk.

The sister is your mother thing happened to these cats too:
Bobby Darin
Jack Nicholson (he found by reading an article about himself, the journalist dug it up)
Ted Bundy


Glad you've come to terms with it man. Thanks for sharing.
 
2013-01-08 08:11:38 PM

WhyKnot: Riotboy: Interracial sex RULES!!!

Rule 1: get two people of different races


Isn't this the second time in this thread you did something really clever?
 
2013-01-08 08:14:08 PM
How much money can you make selling these t shirts?

rlv.zcache.com
 
2013-01-08 08:18:45 PM
25.media.tumblr.com
 
2013-01-08 08:22:32 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.



Is that what they teach you where you are from?

No word about what is actually right or wrong? You don't think you need to act right in a civilized society? Just farking take what you want?

Think we see part of the problem here.
 
2013-01-08 08:23:02 PM
i like it interracial. intergalactic. innertubing?

2.bp.blogspot.com
 
2013-01-08 08:25:42 PM

Vectron: WhyKnot: Riotboy: Interracial sex RULES!!!

Rule 1: get two people of different races

Isn't this the second time in this thread you did something really clever?


*looks around nervously*
 
2013-01-08 08:36:20 PM

inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?


NOT "a" legal aide, "LEGAL AID" the entity you nitwit. It's an organization of lawyers who are either subsidized or paid for fully by the government/courts. It's lawyers for poor people, and before you get accepted as a client, there's an intake process to see if you qualify.
 
2013-01-08 08:43:59 PM

Vectron: Its not about insecurity as you might think. Many white men see it as something "unclean" when a white woman has sex with a black man. A degradation. I can't explain it but ....there you go.
That might explain all the black on white cuckold videos. There is a fascination yet a revulsion at the same time. I'm not saying it's right, just the way it is.


I can explain it: racism.

The Quaalude Renaissance: My experience with lies and parents etc.


My brother spent most of his childhood unaware his sister was really his mother too. Found the adoption papers when he was 14. Stuff like this always comes out in the end.
 
2013-01-08 08:46:38 PM
upload.wikimedia.org

/Happy 90th birthday
//Wife probably wrote the letter
 
2013-01-08 08:52:23 PM

Lord Dimwit: Just out of curiosity, is infidelity of a spouse useful in custody hearings? Like, showing that someone is an unfit parent? 'Cause if so, I would think divorce would be the best option here.

No. The only thing thing useful in a custody hearing is having a vagina.
 
2013-01-08 08:53:39 PM

Grave_Girl: Vectron: Its not about insecurity as you might think. Many white men see it as something "unclean" when a white woman has sex with a black man. A degradation. I can't explain it but ....there you go.
That might explain all the black on white cuckold videos. There is a fascination yet a revulsion at the same time. I'm not saying it's right, just the way it is.

I can explain it: racism. The Quaalude Renaissance: My experience with lies and parents etc.

My brother spent most of his childhood unaware his sister was really his mother too. Found the adoption papers when he was 14. Stuff like this always comes out in the end.


GG
I have come to learn that the sister as mom thing happens a lot more than you would think...
In Filipino culture, it is sort of endemic.
 
2013-01-08 08:54:15 PM
Link

Vectron: ongbok: SuperNinjaToad: Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.

LOL, dude.. seriously when was the last time you see a black dude seeking custody or visitation rights to his bastard child?

Um, like recently?
Link

 
2013-01-08 08:59:04 PM

Cer10Death: YEAH!! TWO CHRISTMASES!


Kwanza for the one.
 
2013-01-08 09:01:25 PM

CuttySupreme: [cdn.motinetwork.net image 640x548]


is that one dude farking the other dudes knee?
 
2013-01-08 09:17:32 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: You look down at the UNWED who have children



Ooo somebody hit a nerve. Why you got a boner for unwed shiat? I'll tell you why.

Yo mamma an unwed mother, right? Yo daddy never there? Is that why you are supposedly trying to be a real father, but at the same time denying that shiat always happens, and defending these absentee baby daddies like you was one of them?
 
2013-01-08 09:19:12 PM
Well that was a little personal...
 
2013-01-08 09:41:51 PM
What do you call a half hispanic half black gospel singer?

Latina Turner.
 
2013-01-08 09:43:08 PM

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Pfffft. I bet your ass thought you said something real slick when you posted that.

Says the guy discussing unwed people when the article we are all commenting on is about a married chick?


His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"
 
2013-01-08 09:45:53 PM

WeenerGord: DROxINxTHExWIND: But, how much of a hypocrite do you have to be to pontificate about absentee fathers in other threads and then to come in here and complain that this guy didn't run crying into the woods when he found out his wife was a cheater.


HE'S NOT THE FATHER


He sure as hell is the father of one of the kids, which means if he leaves his wife he's an absentee father.
 
2013-01-08 10:17:29 PM

kvinesknows: Vectron: [weknowmemes.com image 420x307]

what uh... is wrong with that password?


That's the kind of thing an idiot would have on his luggage.
 
2013-01-08 10:23:28 PM

shoegaze99: He sure as hell is the father of one of the kids



He might have thought he was, but maybe he's not the father of the son, either.

Maybe the slut was just more obvious the second time.
 
2013-01-08 10:32:23 PM

ordinarysteve: Gunther: DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?

Because a good portion of farkers seem to be old school racists. Not funny, un-PC, ethnic jokes racist but mean, hateful racist. Seriously, the things I read in the Trayvon threads caused a small part of my humanity to die.


Yeah, I'm not sure why I opened this thread. I swore off reading race or gender threads a while ago. My excuse today is that I'm sick in bed and was bored. My major conciliation is that most of these people probably got the women they deserved.
 
2013-01-08 10:34:59 PM

Vectron: [weknowmemes.com image 420x307]


How did you know my FARK password?
 
2013-01-08 11:15:04 PM
Getting a huge LOL out of this thread. Like it would really be any better if the other man were white. Like she's really truly ruined life for both of her children forever and a man who is obviously ok enough to stay. Oh yeah and I'm sure the guy who stayed is totally a spineless pussy, totally. For the record, in total seriousness, if I saw a couple with a white baby and a mixed race baby, I would first think of adoption or IVF before an affair. But then, I don't have a problem with mixed race babies nor do I automatically assume that their lives are ruined because their mother is a whore and their father is a dead beat named Tyrone.

I'm normal.
 
2013-01-09 12:10:55 AM

shoegaze99: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Pfffft. I bet your ass thought you said something real slick when you posted that.

Says the guy discussing unwed people when the article we are all commenting on is about a married chick?

His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"



Now who said she would have to be an unwed mother if the husband kicked her out?

What about the black father of her daughter? He should marry her and support his daughter, shouldn't he? Why, everyone is saying that black men often want to support and pursue visitation and be great dads, and he could be the CEO of American Express even, so why don't she go back to him and have him take care of her and his daughter? I'm sure he wants to, right?

Right?
 
2013-01-09 02:32:13 AM

Cer10Death: My wife would be out of my house like a heard of turds...


Yeah, I've heard of turds. You shiat outside your house?
 
2013-01-09 02:52:52 AM

iheartscotch: miss diminutive: Candygram.

Candygram for mongo?


Don't drag me into this. I didn't fark her.

Now if you'll excuse me, I have to go see why this shark keeps knocking on my door.
 
2013-01-09 06:55:06 AM

WeenerGord: shoegaze99: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Pfffft. I bet your ass thought you said something real slick when you posted that.

Says the guy discussing unwed people when the article we are all commenting on is about a married chick?

His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"


Now who said she would have to be an unwed mother if the husband kicked her out?

What about the black father of her daughter? He should marry her and support his daughter, shouldn't he? Why, everyone is saying that black men often want to support and pursue visitation and be great dads, and he could be the CEO of American Express even, so why don't she go back to him and have him take care of her and his daughter? I'm sure he wants to, right?

Right?


Well even if he was "white and right" why the hell would she expect a one night stand of any race to step up when he doesn't even know about the kid? It's a one night stand for a reason. Have you ever had one? Well if you haven't, the goal is to never see each other again after doing filthy, forbidden things to each other. They were both idiots to not use protection (or perhaps they fell into the 1% or so failure group), first off. But the burden is on her to track him down. As far as he knows, it's business as usual. When he finds out, that's when he can step up or not. This isn't a race thing as much as you want to make it, it's a one night stand thing. Her husband obviously knows, so her best bet is to tell the kid where she came from as early as possible. The longer she tries to keep an obvious secret, the worse the kid's going to hate her when she's older.
 
2013-01-09 08:10:16 AM

lennavan: Koalaesq: Another recent-ish NJ case had this fantastic turn of events: A father was getting a divorce from the mother. In NJ, you have to pay for child support through college. Mom applied for child support, and dad brought that up that he knew the kid wasn't even his, and refused to pay child support. Dad tried to get a DNA test to prove it, but since he had basically sat on his rights for 18 years and it would not benefit the kid, the court refused to let him off the hook and said he had to pay for the kid's college and continue to be the putative father.

Seems just a NJ twist (the college bit instead of 18 years old) on a common theme. I've seen other cases similar, where essentially a father who acts as a father for a long time later finds out he is not, still has to continue paying support. It sucks, I'm not entirely sure how I feel about it but honestly, I think I agree with it. When you sign the birth certificate and agree you're the father, that's that. It's not the kid's fault the mother is a lying ho-bag.


I'm sure that people who commit fraud also have kids to support, but that doesn't mean the court should uphold the contracts based on that fraud.

If it's so important to the state that the kid should be cared for, then it is the responsibility of the state to pick up the tab.
 
MBK [TotalFark]
2013-01-09 09:48:19 AM
As a brown man who has sex with white women, this thread is pretty...disturbing.  And disgusting.
 
2013-01-09 09:56:34 AM

MBK: As a brown man who has sex with white women, this thread is pretty...disturbing.  And disgusting.


not enough white ho pics?
 
2013-01-09 10:02:55 AM

WeenerGord: Right?


You don't even bother to make an effort to hide your bigotry ... which I guess is commendable, in a weird way. At least people know what you are right up front.
 
2013-01-09 10:08:38 AM

HBK: inner ted: second - when i was at the local public defenders office, legal assistants / legal aids are the people that assist the attorney & investigator. they keep in contact with the client - schedule court appearances - you know, secretary type work.

if attorneys are now called "legal aids" - well it's news to me

so take a deep breath Francis

Are you a troll or are you really this pants shiattingly stupid?


is that your sad face?

i know attorneys have a massive ego, but the level of butt hurtiness over this is staggering

go stare at your law degree - i'm sure it'll make you feel better
 
2013-01-09 10:13:29 AM

jackieeeee: I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.


Mulatto is not an epithet. It is a descriptive term which is sometimes replaced by epithets.

"Mulatto is a term used to refer to a person who is born from one white parent and one black parent, or more broadly, a person of mixed black and white ancestry."

You remind me of Michael Scott trying to come up with a non-offensive version of the word "Puerto Rican"
 
MBK [TotalFark]
2013-01-09 10:23:53 AM

Pangea: jackieeeee: I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.

Mulatto is not an epithet. It is a descriptive term which is sometimes replaced by epithets.

"Mulatto is a term used to refer to a person who is born from one white parent and one black parent, or more broadly, a person of mixed black and white ancestry."

You remind me of Michael Scott trying to come up with a non-offensive version of the word "Puerto Rican"


"The term is not commonly used any more but is generally considered archaic because of its association with slavery, colonial and racial oppression; accepted modern terms include "mixed" and "biracial" "

You know, it is okay to stop using that word.  Nothing wrong with saying mixed or biracial.  And don't say "but it has historical meaning".  We aren't living in 1700s, or the 1800s, it is okay to use different words now.
 
2013-01-09 10:26:41 AM

Pangea: You remind me of Michael Scott trying to come up with a non-offensive version of the word "Puerto Rican"


HAHAHA!!!

People are joking here. If someone can't take a joke it may be because they aren't comfortable with their own racism.
 
2013-01-09 10:34:29 AM

dopekitty74: inner ted: feffer: inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".

it's ok sugar, i'm well familiar with what a legal aid is

what part of the grown ups talking confused you?

NOT "a" legal aide, "LEGAL AID" the entity you nitwit. It's an organization of lawyers who are either subsidized or paid for fully by the government/courts. It's lawyers for poor people, and before you get accepted as a client, there's an intake process to see if you qualify.


holy christ - you kids are precious.

sorry i hurt your lawyer pride by confusing you with someone as lowly as your assistant when one of you refers to yourself by the same title as that assistant.

didn't they teach you to speak clearly in law school? or was all that time just spent stroking your ego?

& thanks, but i'm aware of what indigent defense is
 
2013-01-09 10:56:52 AM

shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"


I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.


By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."
 
2013-01-09 10:58:33 AM

TheWizard: lennavan: Koalaesq: Another recent-ish NJ case had this fantastic turn of events: A father was getting a divorce from the mother. In NJ, you have to pay for child support through college. Mom applied for child support, and dad brought that up that he knew the kid wasn't even his, and refused to pay child support. Dad tried to get a DNA test to prove it, but since he had basically sat on his rights for 18 years and it would not benefit the kid, the court refused to let him off the hook and said he had to pay for the kid's college and continue to be the putative father.

Seems just a NJ twist (the college bit instead of 18 years old) on a common theme. I've seen other cases similar, where essentially a father who acts as a father for a long time later finds out he is not, still has to continue paying support. It sucks, I'm not entirely sure how I feel about it but honestly, I think I agree with it. When you sign the birth certificate and agree you're the father, that's that. It's not the kid's fault the mother is a lying ho-bag.

I'm sure that people who commit fraud also have kids to support, but that doesn't mean the court should uphold the contracts based on that fraud.

If it's so important to the state that the kid should be cared for, then it is the responsibility of the state to pick up the tab.


I completely agree with you that is the way it should be. However that is not the way it currently is. And because of what a raw deal it currently is, I think it's important for people to realize how it currently is. When you admit paternity and sign that birth certificate, it's kinda a big deal. It's tougher to back out of than it should be.
 
2013-01-09 11:09:19 AM

Pangea: jackieeeee: I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.

Mulatto is not an epithet. It is a descriptive term which is sometimes replaced by epithets.

"Mulatto is a term used to refer to a person who is born from one white parent and one black parent, or more broadly, a person of mixed black and white ancestry."


If you had read the article you used as evidence that it is not an epithet, you would have found the following:

... now most people of mixed white and black ancestry rarely choose to self-identify as mulatto.[2] The term is not commonly used any more but is generally considered archaic because of its association with slavery, colonial and racial oppression; accepted modern terms include "mixed" and "biracial"

... Although still in use by some, the term mulatto has fallen out of favor, and is considered offensive by some in the United States.


So yeah - "considered archaic... association with slavery... racial oppression... considered offensive by some"

but not an epithet, oh no

You remind me of Michael Scott trying to come up with a non-offensive version of the word "Puerto Rican"

And you remind me of someone who repeatedly uses the word nubianrdly, on purpose, in the presence of African Americans just so you can feel smug and superior when one of them gets offended.
 
2013-01-09 11:11:17 AM

Ctrl-Alt-Del: nubianrdly


HAHAHA

So easy to forget the filter
 
2013-01-09 11:18:19 AM

MBK:
You know, it is okay to stop using that word.  Nothing wrong with saying mixed or biracial.


I actually didn't even realize the word mulatto is no longer acceptable, even though it probably came down lower on the page I linked. I can honestly say that I have never even used the word to describe anyone. The people I work with are predominantly white, but about 90% of the people I hang out with outside of work are non-white, with a large portion of them being mixed race.

It seems like a lot of people in this thread have the sensitivity on their racism detectors turned up really high, for pretty obvious reasons. The only person I really dislike in this story is the woman because she turned desires into actions. I will never cheat on my wife and I believe she will not cheat on me. I am also the sort that can find something beautiful about pretty much every woman and simply see prejudice as a huge burden that I am fortunate to rarely experience in my own thinking.
 
2013-01-09 11:22:05 AM
For now, the "she's adopted" thing ought to work. It has the advantage of being true, From A Certain Point Of View (namely, your husband's). Even setting the birds and the bees aside, the intricacies of a relationship gone that sordid will not only toss a five-year-old kid in way over his head, but will set up for some very nasty family interactions for years to come (not that "she's adopted" won't, but there are degrees, and it's a far less cruel). Head that off. The kid can get the full story later, when he's mature enough not to wield it as a weapon.

More important, I think, is to see to the health of your marriage. You've seen already that infidelity doesn't have to be fatal, but even when it is not, it is seriously damaging: rebuilding a marriage after that is a very long and very painful process. If you and your husband aren't already in therapy, individually and as a couple, remedy that now.
 
2013-01-09 12:24:33 PM

The Quaalude Renaissance: My experience with lies and parents etc.

So I have just recovered from an automobile accident, and my best friend was mauled by my dog. My girlfriend is great, so great that whoever runs this game decided to get us pregnant. As best we could figure sperm and egg decided to do their thing on or around April 15. I remember the day she thought she was and we should check. We went into a drugstore and bought 2 tests. We went to my 'sister's' house so my GF and I could take the tests. First test: yup. Second test: you've just changed your life Dad! I remember my soon to be shaking the test as if that would change the result. She was 18, I was 23. We got married in a mid-summer day in July under the stifling DC heat and humidity. Wedding was all bliss, everyone seemed relaxed and happy. Even her father who was pushing her to decide to abort a few months prior put aside whatever he may have felt and decided to relax. I did too. I was able to forget about the letter from time to time. Every time I thought of it though, a cold shiver would run up my spine and I would try to shut it all out of my head. It would burn right through wherever I would shove the thought in my head and remind me to think about it all.

It was three days before our wedding when the letter came. I walked down to my parent's driveway to get the mail, a walk I have done hundreds of times before. On that day though the walk down seemed normal, but by the time it would take me to turn on my heels to do the walk back, something broke and broke very hard. And the way I understood the constructs of what my identity was no longer stood true
.
I opened the mailbox to see a letter addressed to me. I was thinking it was an early wedding gift. Odd it had no return address. The postmark was from a zip code about 10 minutes from my parents house. The sad thing was that it truly was in a plain brown wrapper. I flipped it over and ripped it open. Nothing big, just a piece of paper. I read it. I did not believe it at ...


i48.tinypic.com
 
2013-01-09 01:43:22 PM
Seriously? Over 400 posts and no one posted this?
 
2013-01-09 01:45:21 PM

wambu: Seriously? Over 400 posts and no one posted this?

i.imgur.com

/too damn big, it seems
 
2013-01-09 02:15:31 PM

lennavan: shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"

I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.

By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."



Another case of failed reading comprehension. Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others that you can't be bothered to read shiat that you're responding too? Classic case of open mouth, closed ears. Also, you have to learn the differernce between "I'm right, STFU" and "Hey, you normally say this, so why is it changing, now?" I only asked for an explanation of your ever changing logic, I did not attempt to stiffle your speech...over the internet. Smh. Folks hate to get called out.
 
2013-01-09 02:44:18 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others


What did I miss out on?

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females.



Ah, we all just hate women and it's just female bashing.

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head.



Ah, those racist stereotypes are true and what's more, non black people have tiny penises.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches.



We're all biatches.

DROxINxTHExWIND: No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.



Man up you teenaged girls, stop letting someone's opinion steer your decisions and use my opinion to steer you. Otherwise you're just a slave.

DROxINxTHExWIND: And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater



Leaving a cheating spouse means you are an emotional pussy.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses



We are the ones on the high horses. Also, we are the hypocrites.

DROxINxTHExWIND: I clearly stated earler in the thread that I WOULD NOT have stayed in the relationship



You would have left.

So yeah, this wife cheated on her husband and anyone who says he should leave her is hypocritical woman hater stuck on their high horse in a teenage girl mindset. But you would have left her and it's not your fault white women prefer black men. Also if you're not black you have a tiny penis.

I missed out on a lot there, didn't I? I can't imagine why anyone would ignore your posts.
 
2013-01-09 03:08:16 PM
She deserves to have her reproductive organs removed. farking coont. And fark any of you selfish, lying whores who in any way defend her.
 
2013-01-09 03:43:30 PM

rushthatspeaks: She deserves to have her reproductive organs removed. farking coont. And fark any of you selfish, lying whores who in any way defend her.


Aren't you the same guy who went on a slew of bitter, misogynistic rants in a thread the other day load down with "whore" this and "whore that, prompting a load of posts to be deleted?

It looks like you are.

I feel bad for your wife (assuming she actually exists). You are an angry, bitter little human with big fat streaks of something ugly inside you. I sure hope you don't take your bitterness out on her.
 
2013-01-09 03:44:11 PM

MagSeven: Well even if he was "white and right" why the hell would she expect a one night stand of any race to step up when he doesn't even know about the kid? It's a one night stand for a reason. Have you ever had one? Well if you haven't, the goal is to never see each other again after doing filthy, forbidden things to each other. They were both idiots to not use protection (or perhaps they fell into the 1% or so failure group), first off. But the burden is on her to track him down. As far as he knows, it's business as usual. When he finds out, that's when he can step up or not. This isn't a race thing as much as you want to make it, it's a one night stand thing. Her husband obviously knows, so her best bet is to tell the kid where she came from as early as possible. The longer she tries to keep an obvious secret, the worse the kid's going to hate her when she's older.



The slut in the letter didn't say that it was a one night stand. She said that "her lover was black" sounds like they had a regular thing. Maybe he dumped her ass when she got knocked up. Still think it's all up to him as to whether he "steps up" or not?

Actually, what makes you think that a man does not have to provide child support even if it is a one night stand? He makes the baby, and the mother applies for welfare and names him, and the state is gonna make him pay, like it or not! and if they identify him by DNA, even years later, if the state paid her anything, they are gonna make him repay it. Tough shiat if it was a one night stand, if he makes it, eventually, he is gonna pay.

And yes, it IS a race thing, no matter how much you want to pretend it is not. The race thing is the whole point of the letter and the whole point of the thread. If it were not an obvious race thing, it could be swept under the rug and nobody would ever know. But since it is a race thing, not the one night stand thing that you made up, the whole world is gonna know at the first look, every time.
 
2013-01-09 03:50:47 PM

shoegaze99: WeenerGord: Right?

You don't even bother to make an effort to hide your bigotry ... which I guess is commendable, in a weird way. At least people know what you are right up front.



I don't know what you are talking about. Me bigoted? I'm defending the poor black father who almost certainly wants to support and have a relationship with his daughter who is being denied that chance. Right? He should have regular visitation rights with his daughter and this stupid man's wife. Right?

What about the farkers who are using this thread to say shiat about whites? is that not bigotry to you?
 
2013-01-09 03:58:45 PM

lennavan: shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"

I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.

By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."



His "point" is that he knows damn well the shiat that goes on in the black community, and he is ashamed to admit it, and he is desperately trying to sweep that shiat under the rug and hide it by accusing everyone and anyone else of whatever he can think of.

It takes a real man to start admitting that shiat and try to face it. Can't fix a problem till you admit there is a problem.
 
2013-01-09 04:00:44 PM

WeenerGord: MagSeven: Well even if he was "white and right" why the hell would she expect a one night stand of any race to step up when he doesn't even know about the kid? It's a one night stand for a reason. Have you ever had one? Well if you haven't, the goal is to never see each other again after doing filthy, forbidden things to each other. They were both idiots to not use protection (or perhaps they fell into the 1% or so failure group), first off. But the burden is on her to track him down. As far as he knows, it's business as usual. When he finds out, that's when he can step up or not. This isn't a race thing as much as you want to make it, it's a one night stand thing. Her husband obviously knows, so her best bet is to tell the kid where she came from as early as possible. The longer she tries to keep an obvious secret, the worse the kid's going to hate her when she's older.


The slut in the letter didn't say that it was a one night stand. She said that "her lover was black" sounds like they had a regular thing. Maybe he dumped her ass when she got knocked up. Still think it's all up to him as to whether he "steps up" or not?

Actually, what makes you think that a man does not have to provide child support even if it is a one night stand? He makes the baby, and the mother applies for welfare and names him, and the state is gonna make him pay, like it or not! and if they identify him by DNA, even years later, if the state paid her anything, they are gonna make him repay it. Tough shiat if it was a one night stand, if he makes it, eventually, he is gonna pay.

And yes, it IS a race thing, no matter how much you want to pretend it is not. The race thing is the whole point of the letter and the whole point of the thread. If it were not an obvious race thing, it could be swept under the rug and nobody would ever know. But since it is a race thing, not the one night stand thing that you made up, the whole world is gonna know at the first look, every time.


1. If he doesn't know about the kid how is he supposed to support it?
2. I never said he shouldn't support the kid. But if he doesn't know about it, how can he?
3. A "lover" doesn't have to be a regular thing. The "slut" didn't say it was a regular thing either. I read it as a one night stand, you didn't. It can go both ways.
4. I was saying it wasn't a race thing based on it being a one night stand. As many in this thread are implying or outright saying, they think he won't take care of the kid just because he's black. Not because he may not know about it.

These are all speculations based on how I interpreted the article. You have yours, I have mine. There are unanswered questions and vague details.
 
2013-01-09 04:03:34 PM

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others

What did I miss out on?

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females.

Ah, we all just hate women and it's just female bashing.

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head.

Ah, those racist stereotypes are true and what's more, non black people have tiny penises.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches.

We're all biatches.

DROxINxTHExWIND: No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.

Man up you teenaged girls, stop letting someone's opinion steer your decisions and use my opinion to steer you. Otherwise you're just a slave.

DROxINxTHExWIND: And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater

Leaving a cheating spouse means you are an emotional pussy.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses

We are the ones on the high horses. Also, we are the hypocrites.

DROxINxTHExWIND: I cle ...


What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.
 
2013-01-09 04:12:05 PM

MagSeven: 1. If he doesn't know about the kid how is he supposed to support it?
2. I never said he shouldn't support the kid. But if he doesn't know about it, how can he?
3. A "lover" doesn't have to be a regular thing. The "slut" didn't say it was a regular thing either. I read it as a one night stand, you didn't. It can go both ways.
4. I was saying it wasn't a race thing based on it being a one night stand. As many in this thread are implying or outright saying, they think he won't take care of the kid just because he's black. Not because he may not know about it.

These are all speculations based on how I interpreted the article. You have yours, I have mine. There are unanswered questions and vague details.



If he didn't know, he's going to know about it now. It's been published in the farking papers and on the internet. Now the whole world is going to know. Including everyone at the kids school, the neighbors, everybody.

I just know that the next million letters Prudence gets is gonna be from all the yearning, would be black fathers who ever had a one night stand, asking for this woman's name and address so they can track down their possible daughter and meet her and have a relationship with her and support her and make sure she knows her culture and where she came from. Or, you know, just to find the location of an easy slut who they won't ever have to be responsible for because some dumb cuckold is already doing that. Hell, maybe she wrote the letter as a way of hanging her shingle out. Some people are into that, as has already seen said.
 
2013-01-09 04:16:05 PM

WeenerGord: lennavan: shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"

I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.

By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."


His "point" is that he knows damn well the shiat that goes on in the black community, and he is ashamed to admit it, and he is desperately trying to sweep that shiat under the rug and hide it by accusing everyone and anyone else of whatever he can think of.

It takes a real man to start admitting that shiat and try to face it. Can't fix a problem till you admit there is a problem.


LOL. Calm down, bigot. I'm not going to convince you clowns of anything. I only pointed out the inconsistencies in your positions regarding marriage. The position that I have commented on says that having children when you are unmarried is the cause for all of societies ills, but running away from your marriage because your feelings are hurt causes no collateral damage to the children or society. Its only an issue about "the black community" because you all foam at the mouth anytime an article mentions a black person. I'm sure your very relevant points about how terrible black people are will still apply in the next thread about a black guy doing something. Just copy and past what you've written here.
 
2013-01-09 04:33:39 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.


This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.
 
2013-01-09 04:34:32 PM

WeenerGord: What about the farkers who are using this thread to say shiat about whites?


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2013-01-09 04:37:48 PM

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.


You're not real good at this. Lol.
 
2013-01-09 04:41:54 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Apology accepted DRO.
 
2013-01-09 04:43:22 PM

WeenerGord: MagSeven: 1. If he doesn't know about the kid how is he supposed to support it?
2. I never said he shouldn't support the kid. But if he doesn't know about it, how can he?
3. A "lover" doesn't have to be a regular thing. The "slut" didn't say it was a regular thing either. I read it as a one night stand, you didn't. It can go both ways.
4. I was saying it wasn't a race thing based on it being a one night stand. As many in this thread are implying or outright saying, they think he won't take care of the kid just because he's black. Not because he may not know about it.

These are all speculations based on how I interpreted the article. You have yours, I have mine. There are unanswered questions and vague details.


If he didn't know, he's going to know about it now. It's been published in the farking papers and on the internet. Now the whole world is going to know. Including everyone at the kids school, the neighbors, everybody.

I just know that the next million letters Prudence gets is gonna be from all the yearning, would be black fathers who ever had a one night stand, asking for this woman's name and address so they can track down their possible daughter and meet her and have a relationship with her and support her and make sure she knows her culture and where she came from. Or, you know, just to find the location of an easy slut who they won't ever have to be responsible for because some dumb cuckold is already doing that. Hell, maybe she wrote the letter as a way of hanging her shingle out. Some people are into that, as has already seen said.


If the Husband goes to Court and disestablishes paternity, they'll be able to sift through DNA records collected via incarceration to potentially find the father and start billing him - but as you said, it won't be a problem because I'm sure he's already started saving money, and maybe storing it in a box next to a picture of the baby and a little devotional candle. My guess is they'll find a match in the incarceration somewhere, there's about a 1 in 5 shot, demographically speaking.
 
2013-01-09 05:03:52 PM
Very few people have addressed the actual point of the letter. The adoption story told to a little girl was valid and nothing to be upset about. What did they prefer the old lady say? "Go ask your parents", which opens the door to her asking pointed questions about a scandal, or "Your mom cheated on your dad with a black dude", which tells the whole story?

As for the cheating itself, there's no way in hell I would ever tolerate a marriage with a biatch who cheated on me. If my wife hated me enough to spread'em for someone else, she should just divorce me and not act like a feral animal. Most everyone feels the same way--it's not an issue of marital vows--those were trashed by the letter-writer. It's an issue of being a dumb ganglia-driven twat who didn't have the fortitude to behave like a civilized human being.

The brownness of the guy who farked her just makes the issue more obvious and more difficult for everyone to accept the situation for what it is and move past it without questions from people outside the family.

These days, though, I would personally just assume the brown kid was adopted. Probably 20% of the people I know have adopted Asian or black kids.

Except two girls I know who are the exact stereotype exaggerated here in the thread. Both had rage issues against their families while in early-college (youngest kids in the family overshadowed by over-achieving siblings) and rebelled by farking every "Daddy will hate this" dick they could find. They both got knocked up by black dudes who ditched their responsibilities. Their families are so proud, but what can they do? The little kids are still sweet little kids and the grandchildren. And the grandparents have the shame of raising kids who went off the rails.

/But those "stereotypical" situations are just two out of many other brown-kids-with-white-families I see, so should the new stereotypical default be "Huh--I guess the kid is adopted."?
 
2013-01-09 05:15:48 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others

What did I miss out on?

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females.

Ah, we all just hate women and it's just female bashing.

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head.

Ah, those racist stereotypes are true and what's more, non black people have tiny penises.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches.

We're all biatches.

DROxINxTHExWIND: No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.

Man up you teenaged girls, stop letting someone's opinion steer your decisions and use my opinion to steer you. Otherwise you're just a slave.

DROxINxTHExWIND: And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater

Leaving a cheating spouse means you are an emotional pussy.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses

We are the ones on the high horses. Also, we are the hypocrites.

DROxINxTHExW ...



Looks like some smh folks hate to get called out.
 
2013-01-09 05:18:26 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.



Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.
 
2013-01-09 05:24:09 PM

WeenerGord: DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.


Racist!!
 
2013-01-09 05:53:06 PM

WeenerGord: DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.


Racists...UNITE! Lol. Do you all have to touch rings whenever you combine powers? So, this is the state of racism today, huh? A couple of squares on the internet, virtually crossing swords. Your grandfathers must be proud.
 
2013-01-09 08:15:10 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: WeenerGord: DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.

Racists...UNITE! Lol. Do you all have to touch rings whenever you combine powers? So, this is the state of racism today, huh? A couple of squares on the internet, virtually crossing swords. Your grandfathers must be proud.



Actually, if you are descended from slaves, and have any white blood...those are YOUR GRANDFATHERS.

Think about it.
 
2013-01-09 11:31:37 PM
Drox probably cuckolds white guys on a regular basis, and doesn't like being forced to reflect on the unpleasant aftermath of his hedonistic, amoral behavior.
That's the best explanation I've got for him aggressively playing the race card in defense of two degenerates ( the unfaithful wife and the homewrecker of a 'lover'. )
 
2013-01-10 04:34:17 AM

dfenstrate: Drox probably cuckolds white guys on a regular basis, and doesn't like being forced to reflect on the unpleasant aftermath of his hedonistic, amoral behavior.
That's the best explanation I've got for him aggressively playing the race card in defense of two degenerates ( the unfaithful wife and the homewrecker of a 'lover'. )


If he was doing that, do you think he'd have time to argue with all of you on the internet? Or all of his white "biatches" just taking dictation?
 
2013-01-10 11:09:46 AM
I really hate to say it, but DROX didn't really go off the deep end on this one.

But he did miss one major point. He bashes conservatives and/or general-purpose FARKERS with his perception of hypocrisy about the unwed mother thing versus divorcing the letter writer, he refuses to acknowledge too many people in society fark around with no thought to the well-being of bastard offspring.

While every race has it's out-of-wedlock issues, statistically blacks rank the highest and have a culture of it completely foreign to most others in a civilized society. The goal for most everyone is to have a stable family unit and in this case the whore of a wife is making it very difficult. The husband is doing something very few would do and is trying to maintain that family unit. My perception, based on what I see and the statistics, is there is minimal, if any, shame in the black community for young mothers or mothers with many children by many guys. And the guys have little, if any, shame about having kids all over their neighborhoods.

Shame and peer pressure are excellent tools if used properly. It's not normal or healthy in the long run to say it's allright to fark around without a family plan in case there are children resulting from said farking around.

At the very least, I find it astounding that according to pure statistics that are over-represented by the black community so many of the people are confused about condoms and birth control pills.
 
2013-01-10 01:38:53 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Racists...UNITE! Lol. Do you all have to touch rings whenever you combine powers? So, this is the state of racism today, huh? A couple of squares on the internet, virtually crossing swords. Your grandfathers must be proud.


LOL. We're racists for saying a white dude should dump a cheating white biatch because she happened to cheat with a black guy. This is over the top even for you.

Aren't you a racist for saying you would dump her too? Are white men only allowed to divorce their wives if they cheat with another white man? Help me out here. I'm trying to understand your farked up always-a-victim logic. You're pathetic.
 
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