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2013-01-09 10:56:52 AM  

shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"


I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.


By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."
 
2013-01-09 10:58:33 AM  

TheWizard: lennavan: Koalaesq: Another recent-ish NJ case had this fantastic turn of events: A father was getting a divorce from the mother. In NJ, you have to pay for child support through college. Mom applied for child support, and dad brought that up that he knew the kid wasn't even his, and refused to pay child support. Dad tried to get a DNA test to prove it, but since he had basically sat on his rights for 18 years and it would not benefit the kid, the court refused to let him off the hook and said he had to pay for the kid's college and continue to be the putative father.

Seems just a NJ twist (the college bit instead of 18 years old) on a common theme. I've seen other cases similar, where essentially a father who acts as a father for a long time later finds out he is not, still has to continue paying support. It sucks, I'm not entirely sure how I feel about it but honestly, I think I agree with it. When you sign the birth certificate and agree you're the father, that's that. It's not the kid's fault the mother is a lying ho-bag.

I'm sure that people who commit fraud also have kids to support, but that doesn't mean the court should uphold the contracts based on that fraud.

If it's so important to the state that the kid should be cared for, then it is the responsibility of the state to pick up the tab.


I completely agree with you that is the way it should be. However that is not the way it currently is. And because of what a raw deal it currently is, I think it's important for people to realize how it currently is. When you admit paternity and sign that birth certificate, it's kinda a big deal. It's tougher to back out of than it should be.
 
2013-01-09 11:09:19 AM  

Pangea: jackieeeee: I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.

Mulatto is not an epithet. It is a descriptive term which is sometimes replaced by epithets.

"Mulatto is a term used to refer to a person who is born from one white parent and one black parent, or more broadly, a person of mixed black and white ancestry."


If you had read the article you used as evidence that it is not an epithet, you would have found the following:

... now most people of mixed white and black ancestry rarely choose to self-identify as mulatto.[2] The term is not commonly used any more but is generally considered archaic because of its association with slavery, colonial and racial oppression; accepted modern terms include "mixed" and "biracial"

... Although still in use by some, the term mulatto has fallen out of favor, and is considered offensive by some in the United States.


So yeah - "considered archaic... association with slavery... racial oppression... considered offensive by some"

but not an epithet, oh no

You remind me of Michael Scott trying to come up with a non-offensive version of the word "Puerto Rican"

And you remind me of someone who repeatedly uses the word nubianrdly, on purpose, in the presence of African Americans just so you can feel smug and superior when one of them gets offended.
 
2013-01-09 11:11:17 AM  

Ctrl-Alt-Del: nubianrdly


HAHAHA

So easy to forget the filter
 
2013-01-09 11:18:19 AM  

MBK:
You know, it is okay to stop using that word.  Nothing wrong with saying mixed or biracial.


I actually didn't even realize the word mulatto is no longer acceptable, even though it probably came down lower on the page I linked. I can honestly say that I have never even used the word to describe anyone. The people I work with are predominantly white, but about 90% of the people I hang out with outside of work are non-white, with a large portion of them being mixed race.

It seems like a lot of people in this thread have the sensitivity on their racism detectors turned up really high, for pretty obvious reasons. The only person I really dislike in this story is the woman because she turned desires into actions. I will never cheat on my wife and I believe she will not cheat on me. I am also the sort that can find something beautiful about pretty much every woman and simply see prejudice as a huge burden that I am fortunate to rarely experience in my own thinking.
 
2013-01-09 11:22:05 AM  
For now, the "she's adopted" thing ought to work. It has the advantage of being true, From A Certain Point Of View (namely, your husband's). Even setting the birds and the bees aside, the intricacies of a relationship gone that sordid will not only toss a five-year-old kid in way over his head, but will set up for some very nasty family interactions for years to come (not that "she's adopted" won't, but there are degrees, and it's a far less cruel). Head that off. The kid can get the full story later, when he's mature enough not to wield it as a weapon.

More important, I think, is to see to the health of your marriage. You've seen already that infidelity doesn't have to be fatal, but even when it is not, it is seriously damaging: rebuilding a marriage after that is a very long and very painful process. If you and your husband aren't already in therapy, individually and as a couple, remedy that now.
 
2013-01-09 12:24:33 PM  

The Quaalude Renaissance: My experience with lies and parents etc.

So I have just recovered from an automobile accident, and my best friend was mauled by my dog. My girlfriend is great, so great that whoever runs this game decided to get us pregnant. As best we could figure sperm and egg decided to do their thing on or around April 15. I remember the day she thought she was and we should check. We went into a drugstore and bought 2 tests. We went to my 'sister's' house so my GF and I could take the tests. First test: yup. Second test: you've just changed your life Dad! I remember my soon to be shaking the test as if that would change the result. She was 18, I was 23. We got married in a mid-summer day in July under the stifling DC heat and humidity. Wedding was all bliss, everyone seemed relaxed and happy. Even her father who was pushing her to decide to abort a few months prior put aside whatever he may have felt and decided to relax. I did too. I was able to forget about the letter from time to time. Every time I thought of it though, a cold shiver would run up my spine and I would try to shut it all out of my head. It would burn right through wherever I would shove the thought in my head and remind me to think about it all.

It was three days before our wedding when the letter came. I walked down to my parent's driveway to get the mail, a walk I have done hundreds of times before. On that day though the walk down seemed normal, but by the time it would take me to turn on my heels to do the walk back, something broke and broke very hard. And the way I understood the constructs of what my identity was no longer stood true
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I opened the mailbox to see a letter addressed to me. I was thinking it was an early wedding gift. Odd it had no return address. The postmark was from a zip code about 10 minutes from my parents house. The sad thing was that it truly was in a plain brown wrapper. I flipped it over and ripped it open. Nothing big, just a piece of paper. I read it. I did not believe it at ...


i48.tinypic.com
 
2013-01-09 01:43:22 PM  
Seriously? Over 400 posts and no one posted this?
 
2013-01-09 01:45:21 PM  

wambu: Seriously? Over 400 posts and no one posted this?

i.imgur.com

/too damn big, it seems
 
2013-01-09 02:15:31 PM  

lennavan: shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"

I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.

By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."



Another case of failed reading comprehension. Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others that you can't be bothered to read shiat that you're responding too? Classic case of open mouth, closed ears. Also, you have to learn the differernce between "I'm right, STFU" and "Hey, you normally say this, so why is it changing, now?" I only asked for an explanation of your ever changing logic, I did not attempt to stiffle your speech...over the internet. Smh. Folks hate to get called out.
 
2013-01-09 02:44:18 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others


What did I miss out on?

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females.



Ah, we all just hate women and it's just female bashing.

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head.



Ah, those racist stereotypes are true and what's more, non black people have tiny penises.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches.



We're all biatches.

DROxINxTHExWIND: No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.



Man up you teenaged girls, stop letting someone's opinion steer your decisions and use my opinion to steer you. Otherwise you're just a slave.

DROxINxTHExWIND: And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater



Leaving a cheating spouse means you are an emotional pussy.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses



We are the ones on the high horses. Also, we are the hypocrites.

DROxINxTHExWIND: I clearly stated earler in the thread that I WOULD NOT have stayed in the relationship



You would have left.

So yeah, this wife cheated on her husband and anyone who says he should leave her is hypocritical woman hater stuck on their high horse in a teenage girl mindset. But you would have left her and it's not your fault white women prefer black men. Also if you're not black you have a tiny penis.

I missed out on a lot there, didn't I? I can't imagine why anyone would ignore your posts.
 
2013-01-09 03:08:16 PM  
She deserves to have her reproductive organs removed. farking coont. And fark any of you selfish, lying whores who in any way defend her.
 
2013-01-09 03:43:30 PM  

rushthatspeaks: She deserves to have her reproductive organs removed. farking coont. And fark any of you selfish, lying whores who in any way defend her.


Aren't you the same guy who went on a slew of bitter, misogynistic rants in a thread the other day load down with "whore" this and "whore that, prompting a load of posts to be deleted?

It looks like you are.

I feel bad for your wife (assuming she actually exists). You are an angry, bitter little human with big fat streaks of something ugly inside you. I sure hope you don't take your bitterness out on her.
 
2013-01-09 03:44:11 PM  

MagSeven: Well even if he was "white and right" why the hell would she expect a one night stand of any race to step up when he doesn't even know about the kid? It's a one night stand for a reason. Have you ever had one? Well if you haven't, the goal is to never see each other again after doing filthy, forbidden things to each other. They were both idiots to not use protection (or perhaps they fell into the 1% or so failure group), first off. But the burden is on her to track him down. As far as he knows, it's business as usual. When he finds out, that's when he can step up or not. This isn't a race thing as much as you want to make it, it's a one night stand thing. Her husband obviously knows, so her best bet is to tell the kid where she came from as early as possible. The longer she tries to keep an obvious secret, the worse the kid's going to hate her when she's older.



The slut in the letter didn't say that it was a one night stand. She said that "her lover was black" sounds like they had a regular thing. Maybe he dumped her ass when she got knocked up. Still think it's all up to him as to whether he "steps up" or not?

Actually, what makes you think that a man does not have to provide child support even if it is a one night stand? He makes the baby, and the mother applies for welfare and names him, and the state is gonna make him pay, like it or not! and if they identify him by DNA, even years later, if the state paid her anything, they are gonna make him repay it. Tough shiat if it was a one night stand, if he makes it, eventually, he is gonna pay.

And yes, it IS a race thing, no matter how much you want to pretend it is not. The race thing is the whole point of the letter and the whole point of the thread. If it were not an obvious race thing, it could be swept under the rug and nobody would ever know. But since it is a race thing, not the one night stand thing that you made up, the whole world is gonna know at the first look, every time.
 
2013-01-09 03:50:47 PM  

shoegaze99: WeenerGord: Right?

You don't even bother to make an effort to hide your bigotry ... which I guess is commendable, in a weird way. At least people know what you are right up front.



I don't know what you are talking about. Me bigoted? I'm defending the poor black father who almost certainly wants to support and have a relationship with his daughter who is being denied that chance. Right? He should have regular visitation rights with his daughter and this stupid man's wife. Right?

What about the farkers who are using this thread to say shiat about whites? is that not bigotry to you?
 
2013-01-09 03:58:45 PM  

lennavan: shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"

I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.

By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."



His "point" is that he knows damn well the shiat that goes on in the black community, and he is ashamed to admit it, and he is desperately trying to sweep that shiat under the rug and hide it by accusing everyone and anyone else of whatever he can think of.

It takes a real man to start admitting that shiat and try to face it. Can't fix a problem till you admit there is a problem.
 
2013-01-09 04:00:44 PM  

WeenerGord: MagSeven: Well even if he was "white and right" why the hell would she expect a one night stand of any race to step up when he doesn't even know about the kid? It's a one night stand for a reason. Have you ever had one? Well if you haven't, the goal is to never see each other again after doing filthy, forbidden things to each other. They were both idiots to not use protection (or perhaps they fell into the 1% or so failure group), first off. But the burden is on her to track him down. As far as he knows, it's business as usual. When he finds out, that's when he can step up or not. This isn't a race thing as much as you want to make it, it's a one night stand thing. Her husband obviously knows, so her best bet is to tell the kid where she came from as early as possible. The longer she tries to keep an obvious secret, the worse the kid's going to hate her when she's older.


The slut in the letter didn't say that it was a one night stand. She said that "her lover was black" sounds like they had a regular thing. Maybe he dumped her ass when she got knocked up. Still think it's all up to him as to whether he "steps up" or not?

Actually, what makes you think that a man does not have to provide child support even if it is a one night stand? He makes the baby, and the mother applies for welfare and names him, and the state is gonna make him pay, like it or not! and if they identify him by DNA, even years later, if the state paid her anything, they are gonna make him repay it. Tough shiat if it was a one night stand, if he makes it, eventually, he is gonna pay.

And yes, it IS a race thing, no matter how much you want to pretend it is not. The race thing is the whole point of the letter and the whole point of the thread. If it were not an obvious race thing, it could be swept under the rug and nobody would ever know. But since it is a race thing, not the one night stand thing that you made up, the whole world is gonna know at the first look, every time.


1. If he doesn't know about the kid how is he supposed to support it?
2. I never said he shouldn't support the kid. But if he doesn't know about it, how can he?
3. A "lover" doesn't have to be a regular thing. The "slut" didn't say it was a regular thing either. I read it as a one night stand, you didn't. It can go both ways.
4. I was saying it wasn't a race thing based on it being a one night stand. As many in this thread are implying or outright saying, they think he won't take care of the kid just because he's black. Not because he may not know about it.

These are all speculations based on how I interpreted the article. You have yours, I have mine. There are unanswered questions and vague details.
 
2013-01-09 04:03:34 PM  

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others

What did I miss out on?

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females.

Ah, we all just hate women and it's just female bashing.

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head.

Ah, those racist stereotypes are true and what's more, non black people have tiny penises.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches.

We're all biatches.

DROxINxTHExWIND: No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.

Man up you teenaged girls, stop letting someone's opinion steer your decisions and use my opinion to steer you. Otherwise you're just a slave.

DROxINxTHExWIND: And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater

Leaving a cheating spouse means you are an emotional pussy.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses

We are the ones on the high horses. Also, we are the hypocrites.

DROxINxTHExWIND: I cle ...


What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.
 
2013-01-09 04:12:05 PM  

MagSeven: 1. If he doesn't know about the kid how is he supposed to support it?
2. I never said he shouldn't support the kid. But if he doesn't know about it, how can he?
3. A "lover" doesn't have to be a regular thing. The "slut" didn't say it was a regular thing either. I read it as a one night stand, you didn't. It can go both ways.
4. I was saying it wasn't a race thing based on it being a one night stand. As many in this thread are implying or outright saying, they think he won't take care of the kid just because he's black. Not because he may not know about it.

These are all speculations based on how I interpreted the article. You have yours, I have mine. There are unanswered questions and vague details.



If he didn't know, he's going to know about it now. It's been published in the farking papers and on the internet. Now the whole world is going to know. Including everyone at the kids school, the neighbors, everybody.

I just know that the next million letters Prudence gets is gonna be from all the yearning, would be black fathers who ever had a one night stand, asking for this woman's name and address so they can track down their possible daughter and meet her and have a relationship with her and support her and make sure she knows her culture and where she came from. Or, you know, just to find the location of an easy slut who they won't ever have to be responsible for because some dumb cuckold is already doing that. Hell, maybe she wrote the letter as a way of hanging her shingle out. Some people are into that, as has already seen said.
 
2013-01-09 04:16:05 PM  

WeenerGord: lennavan: shoegaze99: His point is that a jillion people in this thread were encouraging the husband to turn the couple into unwed parents, ie. to break up the marriage, but when the discussion turned more towards race unwed parents were suddenly a big problem. His point is, "Which is it, Fark?"

I didn't gather that from his posts. I ignored most of his posts as stupid, so perhaps that's why I missed it. But there are a few where he hops up on his high horse and positions himself as some sort of authority on the matter. He had a post telling people what is and is not acceptable to break up with a girl for.

A woman cheated on her husband. Apparently farkers who have negative comments about this woman are:

DROxINxTHExWIND: I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing.

By all means, disagree with whether or not this woman is a biatch. But calling a woman who cheated on her husband a biatch isn't random female bashing. We don't hate all women, we just hate women who cheat on their husbands.

His point as I see it is "Here's the way it is, I'm right, all of you STFU."


His "point" is that he knows damn well the shiat that goes on in the black community, and he is ashamed to admit it, and he is desperately trying to sweep that shiat under the rug and hide it by accusing everyone and anyone else of whatever he can think of.

It takes a real man to start admitting that shiat and try to face it. Can't fix a problem till you admit there is a problem.


LOL. Calm down, bigot. I'm not going to convince you clowns of anything. I only pointed out the inconsistencies in your positions regarding marriage. The position that I have commented on says that having children when you are unmarried is the cause for all of societies ills, but running away from your marriage because your feelings are hurt causes no collateral damage to the children or society. Its only an issue about "the black community" because you all foam at the mouth anytime an article mentions a black person. I'm sure your very relevant points about how terrible black people are will still apply in the next thread about a black guy doing something. Just copy and past what you've written here.
 
2013-01-09 04:33:39 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.


This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.
 
2013-01-09 04:34:32 PM  

WeenerGord: What about the farkers who are using this thread to say shiat about whites?


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2013-01-09 04:37:48 PM  

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.


You're not real good at this. Lol.
 
2013-01-09 04:41:54 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Apology accepted DRO.
 
2013-01-09 04:43:22 PM  

WeenerGord: MagSeven: 1. If he doesn't know about the kid how is he supposed to support it?
2. I never said he shouldn't support the kid. But if he doesn't know about it, how can he?
3. A "lover" doesn't have to be a regular thing. The "slut" didn't say it was a regular thing either. I read it as a one night stand, you didn't. It can go both ways.
4. I was saying it wasn't a race thing based on it being a one night stand. As many in this thread are implying or outright saying, they think he won't take care of the kid just because he's black. Not because he may not know about it.

These are all speculations based on how I interpreted the article. You have yours, I have mine. There are unanswered questions and vague details.


If he didn't know, he's going to know about it now. It's been published in the farking papers and on the internet. Now the whole world is going to know. Including everyone at the kids school, the neighbors, everybody.

I just know that the next million letters Prudence gets is gonna be from all the yearning, would be black fathers who ever had a one night stand, asking for this woman's name and address so they can track down their possible daughter and meet her and have a relationship with her and support her and make sure she knows her culture and where she came from. Or, you know, just to find the location of an easy slut who they won't ever have to be responsible for because some dumb cuckold is already doing that. Hell, maybe she wrote the letter as a way of hanging her shingle out. Some people are into that, as has already seen said.


If the Husband goes to Court and disestablishes paternity, they'll be able to sift through DNA records collected via incarceration to potentially find the father and start billing him - but as you said, it won't be a problem because I'm sure he's already started saving money, and maybe storing it in a box next to a picture of the baby and a little devotional candle. My guess is they'll find a match in the incarceration somewhere, there's about a 1 in 5 shot, demographically speaking.
 
2013-01-09 05:03:52 PM  
Very few people have addressed the actual point of the letter. The adoption story told to a little girl was valid and nothing to be upset about. What did they prefer the old lady say? "Go ask your parents", which opens the door to her asking pointed questions about a scandal, or "Your mom cheated on your dad with a black dude", which tells the whole story?

As for the cheating itself, there's no way in hell I would ever tolerate a marriage with a biatch who cheated on me. If my wife hated me enough to spread'em for someone else, she should just divorce me and not act like a feral animal. Most everyone feels the same way--it's not an issue of marital vows--those were trashed by the letter-writer. It's an issue of being a dumb ganglia-driven twat who didn't have the fortitude to behave like a civilized human being.

The brownness of the guy who farked her just makes the issue more obvious and more difficult for everyone to accept the situation for what it is and move past it without questions from people outside the family.

These days, though, I would personally just assume the brown kid was adopted. Probably 20% of the people I know have adopted Asian or black kids.

Except two girls I know who are the exact stereotype exaggerated here in the thread. Both had rage issues against their families while in early-college (youngest kids in the family overshadowed by over-achieving siblings) and rebelled by farking every "Daddy will hate this" dick they could find. They both got knocked up by black dudes who ditched their responsibilities. Their families are so proud, but what can they do? The little kids are still sweet little kids and the grandchildren. And the grandparents have the shame of raising kids who went off the rails.

/But those "stereotypical" situations are just two out of many other brown-kids-with-white-families I see, so should the new stereotypical default be "Huh--I guess the kid is adopted."?
 
2013-01-09 05:15:48 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: Why should anyone care about your opinion when you have such a callous disregard for the opinion of others

What did I miss out on?

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females.

Ah, we all just hate women and it's just female bashing.

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head.

Ah, those racist stereotypes are true and what's more, non black people have tiny penises.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches.

We're all biatches.

DROxINxTHExWIND: No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.

Man up you teenaged girls, stop letting someone's opinion steer your decisions and use my opinion to steer you. Otherwise you're just a slave.

DROxINxTHExWIND: And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater

Leaving a cheating spouse means you are an emotional pussy.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses

We are the ones on the high horses. Also, we are the hypocrites.

DROxINxTHExW ...



Looks like some smh folks hate to get called out.
 
2013-01-09 05:18:26 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.



Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.
 
2013-01-09 05:24:09 PM  

WeenerGord: DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.


Racist!!
 
2013-01-09 05:53:06 PM  

WeenerGord: DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.


Racists...UNITE! Lol. Do you all have to touch rings whenever you combine powers? So, this is the state of racism today, huh? A couple of squares on the internet, virtually crossing swords. Your grandfathers must be proud.
 
2013-01-09 08:15:10 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: WeenerGord: DROxINxTHExWIND: lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: What you are doing, including responding to me over the course of two days, is the opposite of ignoring my posts. Maybe the problem with your reading comprehension can be attributed to a limited vocabulary? I won't waste time showing you where you're wrong about your interpretations of the posts above. You've already admitted that you don't like to read.

This post made me feel kinda bad. Like I just beat up on the stupid kid in class. Look, I'm sorry DRO. I guess the thing that stuck out from your posts was the irony and the hypocrisy. You told everyone to listen to your opinion which was don't listen to other people's opinions. You cried about others racism, only to move on about how black men were stealing white women because they are better and have larger penises. Then after many posts saying everyone in the thread is a biatch teenaged girl emo pussy you said we were all on our high horses. You spent a thread chastising people who said the husband should leave the wife, only to later admit you would have left her too. After all of that, you called us hypocrites.

Hey look, do one or the other. Call us emo pussies, or tell us we're on our high horses. You can't do both. That's all I was sayin. I'm sorry I had to call you out like that. We know folks don't like gettin called out.

You're not real good at this. Lol.


Yeah, he is real good at it. You got served, biatch.

Racists...UNITE! Lol. Do you all have to touch rings whenever you combine powers? So, this is the state of racism today, huh? A couple of squares on the internet, virtually crossing swords. Your grandfathers must be proud.



Actually, if you are descended from slaves, and have any white blood...those are YOUR GRANDFATHERS.

Think about it.
 
2013-01-09 11:31:37 PM  
Drox probably cuckolds white guys on a regular basis, and doesn't like being forced to reflect on the unpleasant aftermath of his hedonistic, amoral behavior.
That's the best explanation I've got for him aggressively playing the race card in defense of two degenerates ( the unfaithful wife and the homewrecker of a 'lover'. )
 
2013-01-10 04:34:17 AM  

dfenstrate: Drox probably cuckolds white guys on a regular basis, and doesn't like being forced to reflect on the unpleasant aftermath of his hedonistic, amoral behavior.
That's the best explanation I've got for him aggressively playing the race card in defense of two degenerates ( the unfaithful wife and the homewrecker of a 'lover'. )


If he was doing that, do you think he'd have time to argue with all of you on the internet? Or all of his white "biatches" just taking dictation?
 
2013-01-10 11:09:46 AM  
I really hate to say it, but DROX didn't really go off the deep end on this one.

But he did miss one major point. He bashes conservatives and/or general-purpose FARKERS with his perception of hypocrisy about the unwed mother thing versus divorcing the letter writer, he refuses to acknowledge too many people in society fark around with no thought to the well-being of bastard offspring.

While every race has it's out-of-wedlock issues, statistically blacks rank the highest and have a culture of it completely foreign to most others in a civilized society. The goal for most everyone is to have a stable family unit and in this case the whore of a wife is making it very difficult. The husband is doing something very few would do and is trying to maintain that family unit. My perception, based on what I see and the statistics, is there is minimal, if any, shame in the black community for young mothers or mothers with many children by many guys. And the guys have little, if any, shame about having kids all over their neighborhoods.

Shame and peer pressure are excellent tools if used properly. It's not normal or healthy in the long run to say it's allright to fark around without a family plan in case there are children resulting from said farking around.

At the very least, I find it astounding that according to pure statistics that are over-represented by the black community so many of the people are confused about condoms and birth control pills.
 
2013-01-10 01:38:53 PM  

DROxINxTHExWIND: Racists...UNITE! Lol. Do you all have to touch rings whenever you combine powers? So, this is the state of racism today, huh? A couple of squares on the internet, virtually crossing swords. Your grandfathers must be proud.


LOL. We're racists for saying a white dude should dump a cheating white biatch because she happened to cheat with a black guy. This is over the top even for you.

Aren't you a racist for saying you would dump her too? Are white men only allowed to divorce their wives if they cheat with another white man? Help me out here. I'm trying to understand your farked up always-a-victim logic. You're pathetic.
 
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