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2013-01-08 04:12:12 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy


Not once she got pregnant, she wouldn't....statistically speaking.....
 
2013-01-08 04:12:29 PM
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2013-01-08 04:12:36 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy.


wanna bet she still is?
 
2013-01-08 04:14:15 PM

Gunther: DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Because a good portion of farkers seem to be old school racists. Not funny, un-PC, ethnic jokes racist but mean, hateful racist. Seriously, the things I read in the Trayvon threads caused a small part of my humanity to die.
 
2013-01-08 04:14:25 PM
Yo, fo' reals...pity the bastard kid. To all the women go are BBC, once you've been blackbred, you are blackbred fo' life.
 
2013-01-08 04:16:10 PM
Gunther:
/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Meh. I'm a black guy on Fark. Sadly, I'm used to it. Funny thing is, if I respond to one of them I'll be the racist by the end of the thread. Smh.
 
2013-01-08 04:16:27 PM

bob999: I've often assumed that Ms. Prudence makes these up. She sure gets some of the most improbable letters.


Dear Penthouse Forums Ms. Prudence,
 
2013-01-08 04:16:36 PM

Gunther: DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.

Why, it's almost like a large percentage of Farkers are bitter 40-ish male divorcees.

DROxINxTHExWIND: The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows

More likely he doesn't want his kid to grow up without a dad. Which I respect, but think it's probably the wrong move in the long term - kids with single parents tend to be better adjusted than kids with parents who stayed together but who hated each other.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Because the majority of the few Farkers that do have real girlfriends or wives are insecure little men that are afraid that black men will still their wives. And judging by their mentalities I can imagine the type of woman that would put with them, and can safely tell them that they have nothing to worry about because nobody wants that women but them.

Then you have the truly sad cases of the ones that don't have real girlfriends or wives. But they are deathly afraid that if they did actually have one, that she would run off with a black man. These are really the sad ones.
 
2013-01-08 04:16:44 PM
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You sent a letter to 'Dear Prudence'? Seriously, Mom, that's farked up.
 
2013-01-08 04:17:16 PM

Cer10Death: Here's the problem I have. This selfish biatch ruins the lives of her husband and biological son and gets a pass.


You're kidding, right? You realize she had Jungle Fever. What's she supposed to do, just pretend it's not there? Just "will it away"? This wasn't some elective behavior, she had no choice in the matter. Once that fever hits you, there's no denying it. None.
 
2013-01-08 04:17:25 PM

evaned: Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.

And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.


OK then, decent point. How about we limit my previous statement to everyone in his family, friends, neighbors, fellow churchgoers, and occasional bystanders who noticed that the wife was pregnant while the daughter while married to him.
 
2013-01-08 04:18:47 PM

technicolor-misfit: It would seem the guys of fark have some very intense and rage-provoking insecurities when it comes to the idea of white chicks and black dudes.

I've seen affair threads come up before, the pure vitriolic fury in this thread is pretty astounding... and amusing.

How many guys in here are chomping at the bit to call her a "mud-shark?"


You are so evolved and enlightened.
 
2013-01-08 04:19:44 PM
I went black and went back. Several times, in fact.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it

BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.


In all honestly, do you watch porn with white guys in it, or do you stick to your own color? I think the...object?...of porn is to imagine it's your dick, and mine is not black, so it loses that appeal.

Granted, it's not 10 inches long either, but not a lot of average size porn stars out there.
 
2013-01-08 04:20:05 PM

Gunther: DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.

Why, it's almost like a large percentage of Farkers are bitter 40-ish male divorcees.

DROxINxTHExWIND: The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows

More likely he doesn't want his kid to grow up without a dad. Which I respect, but think it's probably the wrong move in the long term - kids with single parents tend to be better adjusted than kids with parents who stayed together but who hated each other.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?


Don't be stupid. The reason it "makes it worse" is the exact same reason why she is writing to an advice column in the first place. Her little boy knows what's up and is asking questions, the little girl is sure as hell going to figure it out some day and most people who know them, will if they are lucky, keep their mouths shut but nod knowingly to each other.

Imagine being the little girl - imagine wondering if everyone who meets you knows that you're the product of an affair. Imagine trying to fit in with even your extended family with everyone obviously knowing something is different (it's not like they can avoid the question now, can they?)

That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day. As much as the MIL cops grief for saying that the girl was adopted, I bet that when she finds out the truth she's going to wish she really was adopted.
 
2013-01-08 04:21:19 PM

Spanky McStupid: namegoeshere: This story would be better if they were fraternal twins of different races.

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I love the second and third photos, because the family resemblance is so strong. (Babies tend to all look alike anyway.) I would have no trouble buying that these kids are fraternal twins from the same parents, with a little bit of interesting Mendelian genetics going on with the melanin genes. Especially the two young men.
 
2013-01-08 04:21:46 PM

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy

Not once she got pregnant, she wouldn't....statistically speaking.....


Naw, we'll still go back to our babymamas to get some ass. We just don't support our kids. Amirite? High-five!

Funny that the folks who have the most to say in every thread are the ones who stay anonymous. They can dish it but they do everything that they can to avoid taking it.
 
2013-01-08 04:24:49 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?


I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.
 
2013-01-08 04:25:56 PM

Cer10Death: Jungle fever is a hard thing to get over.


I went black and never went back, My prior girlfriend was Jamaican and my now-wife is black.

We get some odd looks because you don't see as many black women with white men as compared to the other way around.

My sex life has certainly improved. I don't know if black girls are better in bed or just black girls who are into white guys but from my admittedly small sample set both were way, way, way more into sex than any white girl I'd ever been with.

For any white guys who are interested in "tasting the rainbow" (as my wife says): Go for it. I used to assume in my ignorance that black women would not be interested, and sometimes that is the case. But there are a lot more black girls interested in white guys than one might initially believe.
 
2013-01-08 04:26:51 PM

TwistedFark: That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day


Sure, but the impression I'm getting from a heck of a lot of farkers in this thread is that they're waaaaaay madder that a white chick had sex with a black dude rather than that a woman had a kid that was obviously not her husbands.
 
2013-01-08 04:27:04 PM

FarkinHostile: I went black and went back. Several times, in fact.

DROxINxTHExWIND: Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it

BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.


In all honestly, do you watch porn with white guys in it, or do you stick to your own color? I think the...object?...of porn is to imagine it's your dick, and mine is not black, so it loses that appeal.

Granted, it's not 10 inches long either, but not a lot of average size porn stars out there.


If I cover my dick in shoe polish and pretend that it's big and black is that racist? I was thinking that it might be the porn equivalent of black face and I didn't want to offend anyone.
 
2013-01-08 04:27:13 PM

Gunther:
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?

Because not only did she cheat on her husband, she chose to rub his face in it every day by having a mixed-race baby. Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.

If she'd had an abortion she'd still be a cheater but the race of the father wouldn't matter.
 
2013-01-08 04:30:29 PM
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2013-01-08 04:31:36 PM

Gunther: TwistedFark: That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day

Sure, but the impression I'm getting from a heck of a lot of farkers in this thread is that they're waaaaaay madder that a white chick had sex with a black dude rather than that a woman had a kid that was obviously not her husbands.


biatch wanted to have her chocolate cake and eat it too, nawmsayn?
 
2013-01-08 04:31:57 PM

JesusJuice: Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.


Whereas if the kid was white he would forget that it wasn't his after a while?
 
2013-01-08 04:36:46 PM

Gunther: TwistedFark: That's why it's worse. It's going to be really hard on that kid and that family because the infidelity will be front and center and on display every day

Sure, but the impression I'm getting from a heck of a lot of farkers in this thread is that they're waaaaaay madder that a white chick had sex with a black dude rather than that a woman had a kid that was obviously not her husbands.


To be honest, I read every post in this thread up to this point and while yes there are some jackholes, I sort of think you may be reading too much into some people's responses.

For me, I feel bad for the little girl because of the situation and how it's going to bring her a lot of undeserved shame over her life. I feel bad for the husband in particular just because it doesn't appear that the letter writer is actually contrite about the affair and that there was an emotional reconcilliation (they stayed together "for their son"). I don't feel particularly bad for the woman because she had multiple choices here - not have an affair, use contraception, have an abortion or give the child up for adoption - or lets face it, getting a divorce.

Given what limited information we have, I think that the scenario most likely in play here was that this woman wanted out of her marriage, slept around, then once she got pregnant by another man and obviously couldn't hide it, stayed married for the financial support and security. Sure the husband may be a stand up guy and trying to do the right thing by his son, but if that's the case, I question his judgement here since without some sort of indication that the family is actually reconciled and not just suffering a burden, this is all going to go disasterously tits up eventually.
 
2013-01-08 04:37:36 PM
A few years ago I cheated on my husband, got pregnant, and decided to keep the child.

Off wit' her head!

Because my husband and I had a 2-year-old son together we decided that we could keep our marriage together for his sake.

And off wit' his head, too!
 
2013-01-08 04:39:20 PM

Karac: evaned: Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.

And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.

OK then, decent point. How about we limit my previous statement to everyone in his family, friends, neighbors, fellow churchgoers, and occasional bystanders who noticed that the wife was pregnant while the daughter while married to him.



Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches. You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.
 
2013-01-08 04:39:51 PM

Gunther: JesusJuice: Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.

Whereas if the kid was white he would forget that it wasn't his after a while?


At least he'd be able to pretend in public. Now everytime someone seems him and his wife out with little Rayshonda they'll know what a sucker he is.
 
2013-01-08 04:41:36 PM

Koalaesq: I wonder if the second kid's father is at all in the picture. Wait until he suddenly decides to come seeking custody or visitation rights of the kid; that'll really be confusing to the first kid.


you must have missed the part where she said he was black

/I kid, I kid
 
2013-01-08 04:42:32 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another.


I was going to agree with your opinion but then took control of my own life and decided you're completely wrong. You can make a life-changing decision based on whatever the fark you want to. It's your own farking life. If you want to break up with a chick because she puts A1 sauce on her steak, farking do it.
 
2013-01-08 04:44:18 PM
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2013-01-08 04:44:48 PM

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.


Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.
 
2013-01-08 04:45:47 PM

jackieeeee: Buttknuckle: ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."

Man, I'm glad someone said it. There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?

No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.

I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.


Really? I worked with several mixed race people and that was the term they said they preferred. Apparently they didn't know a better word. (Well, besides the very PC mixed race, or slang terms for specific combinations like 'blasian.')

Eye of the beholder, I guess. I couldn't get over the vague notion that a term from the colonial era was probably racist and simply avoided the topic.
 
2013-01-08 04:47:52 PM

Gunther: JesusJuice: Every time he sees that kid he'll be forcefully reminded that his wife is a whore and he's a cuckold.

Whereas if the kid was white he would forget that it wasn't his after a while?


Yes, actually. Of course he'd still know, but it wouldn't be shoved forcefully into his face. My stepfather sometimes forgets I'm not biologically related to him.
 
2013-01-08 04:47:53 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: Karac: evaned: Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.

And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.

OK then, decent point. How about we limit my previous statement to everyone in his family, friends, neighbors, fellow churchgoers, and occasional bystanders who noticed that the wife was pregnant while the daughter while married to him.


Look, please don't take this personally but you all sound like a bunch of biatches. You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another. Not one of those people with an opinion is going to be with you at night. None of them are supporting you in any way. This is the life philosophy of a teenaged girl. Man the fark up. Men do what they want and suckers do what they can. If you live life as a slave to the expectations of others, you're a sucker.


Word.
 
2013-01-08 04:48:51 PM

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2013-01-08 04:49:26 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: I guess you only see a problem when its a black child.


Having no father around is a problem regardless of race. Statistics say the problem is much more common among blacks. Just another thing that can't be discussed without it "saying something about the person who mentions it" to paraphrase your sentiment. That won't lead to improvement in the situation.
 
2013-01-08 04:54:41 PM

lennavan: DROxINxTHExWIND: You're going to make a life-changing decision and base it on "what everybody is going to think about you??" That's some punk ass shiat. You have ONE life to live. No one can live it for you. So, why let somebody's opinion steer you in one direction or another.

I was going to agree with your opinion but then took control of my own life and decided you're completely wrong. You can make a life-changing decision based on whatever the fark you want to. It's your own farking life. If you want to break up with a chick because she puts A1 sauce on her steak, farking do it.



Totally agree with both of you actually. I live my life doing what I want to do, but understanding that along with that sometimes goes some grief or problems I have to deal with. It's like, you are free to say whatever you want to people, but you are not free of consequences of that. I think most people understand that.

For me, this would probably be too much of a hassle to deal with. I will give an example of this -

My wife has really big fake boobs (32J). People are always looking at her and wondering "Are those real?" some people even have the lack of appropriate self control to actually ask the question. It's a hassle to her and annoys her that people can't just enjoy the boobage without the whispering. However, if someone does flag her down and ask her (and this has happened on the street before) she can say "No they're not!" and not worry about it. It's not that big of a deal (no pun intended) and causes no lasting emotional harm.

Would hate to be in the position of having someone ask me, "Is your daughter adopted?" and then having to either lie about it ("Yes she is") or say, "No my wife cheated on me". Sure it wouldn't happen all the time, but I bet it would happen enough that you'd be dreading the next time it came up. What a shiat situation to be in really.

Anyway, back to my original point - I don't think it's "acting like a teenage girl" to acknowledge that there are uncomfortable situations brought about by other people and the knowledge of the daughters illegitimacy. To pretend that all you have to do is "not care and man up" is sort of naive. Certainly you should live life on your terms, but there is always something to be paid. Always. For me - I wouldn't want to pay this price, so I wouldn't. Maybe someone else could and that's fine.
 
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2013-01-08 04:59:09 PM

lasercannon: Koalaesq: factoryconnection: Crotchrocket Slim: Also, cattle prod to the mother in law for lying to the child... and for being a lame stereotype of a mother in law.

Isn't the mixed-race child technically adopted by the husband now? A similar but single-race situation like this happened in my friend group and the husband adopted the new kid. The wife was going through some serious alcohol problems when she left the husband and shacked up temporarily with the babydaddy, but the wife ended up returning to her husband and kids, got treatment, finished school and pulled her life together.

It can work, though that doesn't mean it will for TFA's giant whore.

There's something called the Putative Father doctrine that many (most?) states have that says any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

It didn't mention whether or not the biological father is on the birth certificate or whether or not he signed away any legal rights or if he even knows about the kid. But any child born from a married couple the husband is the presumptive father. This being the case, he can't technically adopt this child because that child technically is his in the eyes of the law. For a current example Kim Kardashian's kid is presuptively Kris Humphries if they are still married when she gives birth


//got my Fark Law degree with a minor in air conditioning repair.


A DNA test overcomes the presumption in a lot of states.

For example, in TX if you can prove the kid isn't biologically yours, you can divorce the woman without ever having to pay child support.

/IANAL
// this is a relatively new law, like from within the past six years or so.
 
2013-01-08 05:00:03 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.


Now you're being a douche bag. There is no part of a "mans responsibility" that dictates he has to cohabitate with a woman that's cheated on him and had a baby by another man. He has a responsiblity certainly to his biological son, but I'd say that even in all this - where is the daughters biological father? Oh that's right, he's not in the picture. You're dancing around this if you ask me because it's uncomfortable. Whatever - but your opinion of what a mans responsibilities is, is frankly, rather regressive. It's no more correct than say, a woman staying with a husband that abuses her emotionally or physically simply because leaving would be "avoiding her womans responsibilities".
 
2013-01-08 05:04:49 PM

Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: Now everytime someone seems him and his wife out with little Rayshonda they'll know what a sucker he is.


Or they'll think that the black daughter is a friend. Or babysittee. Or that she's adopted. Or from an earlier marriage (or outside of one).

Obviously some of these explanations change their likelihood over time and depending on the circumstances and behavior of the kids (usually becoming more likely as they get older; a 6-month-old baby is probably not from an earlier marriage), but if I saw that family walking down the street I probably wouldn't even notice let alone try to calculate what happened.

As Karac said (in response to my earlier post about this), you're in "danger" from people who know you somewhat, but I don't think from random Joe Schmoe.
 
2013-01-08 05:08:14 PM

The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: I guess you only see a problem when its a black child.

Having no father around is a problem regardless of race. Statistics say the problem is much more common among blacks. Just another thing that can't be discussed without it "saying something about the person who mentions it" to paraphrase your sentiment. That won't lead to improvement in the situation.


Lol. So, its ok for you to make sweeping generalizations about black fathers but its a problem when I catagorize you based on what you actually say. That's funny. Since we're pulling unsubstantiated stats out of our ass, statistically speaking, most white people on the internet are racist D-bags. I don't have a problem with anyone bringing up relevant facts. That's not what you did. This isn't a thread about black paternity, no matter how much you want to make it one. In a thread where a white woman cheated and a white man looked past it, you found a way to make a disparaging remark about black fathers. Congrats.
 
2013-01-08 05:08:14 PM
Its not about insecurity as you might think. Many white men see it as something "unclean" when a white woman has sex with a black man. A degradation. I can't explain it but ....there you go.
That might explain all the black on white cuckold videos. There is a fascination yet a revulsion at the same time. I'm not saying it's right, just the way it is.
 
2013-01-08 05:11:22 PM
Is this the thread where we talk about black guys dumping gorgeous black chicks for dumpy white ones?
 
2013-01-08 05:13:11 PM
I screwed a chick just after highschool who then went on to spend several years in Jamaica. When she came back I boinked her again once or twice. Her ass developed all of these degrees of freedom in her absence. There is something to be said for education. . .
 
2013-01-08 05:15:00 PM
There is an easy white lie to tell this kid until he's old enough to hear the "full" spiel...and it's simply this:

We were on a break. Things happen. We got back together, we love you, we love each other, and we love your sister. The end.

Assuming these people have reconciled and are truly making it work, that's all the reassurance a kid needs. This letter could have had a lot of details edited out for length...you don't know the status of the couple's relationship.
 
2013-01-08 05:15:16 PM
'new'
DoFs
 
2013-01-08 05:16:23 PM

Cer10Death: YEAH!! TWO CHRISTMASES!

KWANZAA, BIATCHES!!!
 
2013-01-08 05:19:26 PM

TwistedFark: DROxINxTHExWIND: The Muthaship: DROxINxTHExWIND: Amirite?

I hope so, that would be better than the stats that say 70%+ of black kids grow up without a father.

I understand from your posts that you are a devoted father, so good on you for bucking that sad trend.

Smh. How dumb do you have to be to believe that. There is a difference between growing up without a father and growing up without a father "in the home". And from this thread, no one seems to have a problem with children being raised in single parent homes because all of these pussies would have run away from their responsibility in an emotional huff because the mother was a cheater. I guess you only see a problem when its a black child. Should tell you something about yourself.

Now you're being a douche bag. There is no part of a "mans responsibility" that dictates he has to cohabitate with a woman that's cheated on him and had a baby by another man. He has a responsiblity certainly to his biological son, but I'd say that even in all this - where is the daughters biological father? Oh that's right, he's not in the picture. You're dancing around this if you ask me because it's uncomfortable. Whatever - but your opinion of what a mans responsibilities is, is frankly, rather regressive. It's no more correct than say, a woman staying with a husband that abuses her emotionally or physically simply because leaving would be "avoiding her womans responsibilities".


Slow down. I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of Farkers. You all sit on high horses looking down at the unwed with children as if they are rubbish...then you come in here talking about how fast you would have gotten rid of that biatch for cheating. Is marriage til death do you part or not? And if you treat your marriage the same way you treat going steady in high school, then what the fark was the point in getting married. Not only are people in this thread totally looking past the vows that are so sacred any other time, they're deriding the father who DID STAY as some sort of pussy. I clearly stated earler in the thread that I WOULD NOT have stayed in the relationship, but I'm not the one who runs into these threads to talk down about single parents. When exactly did it become OK to raise a child in a single parent home? If I never marry my childs mother I'm part of the problem, but if I run out of the house when times get tough then I'm sensible? GTFO of here with that bullshiat.
 
2013-01-08 05:23:11 PM

inner ted: and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant


Oh sweetie. :( Does it hurt to be so dumb? Try googling "Legal Aid".
 
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