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2013-01-08 03:33:45 PM
farm8.staticflickr.com
 
2013-01-08 03:35:05 PM

kvinesknows: "Q. Enjoying More Than Just the Massage I enjoy massages a couple of times a year. The last one was performed by a male masseuse. He did a wonderful job; I was relaxed and all of the major problems in my lower back were improved. There was an unexpected added bonus though. Because he was male, I felt a little excited about being touched by someone other than my husband. Nothing sexual happened. It wasn't a Sex and the City moment. But I still got a little secret thrill from the experience. My next massage is coming up. Is it OK for me to request another male masseuse?"

LOLOLOLOL..

I found this MUCH better place for massages then we had used in the past. I scheduled a massage for my wife with one of the girls. She liked it better then the other places, they were far more professional.... THEN her birthday was coming up so I scheduled another massage.. but noticed that they had a guy on staff now. FBd him.. found out he was active outdoors.. about 15 years younger.. had the hair she likes.. so I never told her about it but scheduled the guy instead....
:) She was extremely shocked and then pleased because as a guy he was much stronger and able to dig into those nots in her shoulders.. Then.. even though she requested just the upper back.. he moved down.. LOL.. even moved her panties down to " reach lower on her back" exposing 1/2 her ass.

..so in short to the letter writer I answer... oh dear.. its pretty much expected for you to get some sort of thrill from it... so just go with the flow.. and if you really love hubby.. schedule him an appoitment with a female masseuse at the same place.. or better yet... ask him to come sit in the room with you.


So you are saying that your wife's excitement and arousal excites and arrouses you? I don't have a problem with that.
 
2013-01-08 03:37:17 PM
Here's the problem I have. This selfish biatch ruins the lives of her husband and biological son and gets a pass. She doesn't have to face the consequences of her decision because her husband appears to be a stand up guy. An idiot but a stand up guy.

My brother went through a similar scenario with his ex-biatch but the same race but these two kids look markedly different. She got knocked up by a neighbor and he kicked the biatch and the kid out. They are split. He has one kid, she has the other...hers with the neighbor. The neighbor didn't want anything to do with her and the new found kid because, shocker, he has a brood of his own. The court, in the Peoples Republic of New Jersey no less, upheld that the neighbor has to support both my brother's ex wife AND their biological kid. My brother has to pay half of her alimony and her health care but does not have to support the kid in any way shape or form.

Sometimes justice is done. I would have ditched the biatch long ago. We all knew she was cheating on him after about 3 months after they were married. We told him but he wouldn't listen.
 
2013-01-08 03:37:21 PM
This thread has more instances of the word "cuckold" than the Complete Works of William Shakespeare.
 
2013-01-08 03:37:55 PM

lennavan: ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

That's a different issue. What I was bringing up is establishing paternity in the first place. If you are married, you are by default assumed to be the legal father. You can contest it as a married father and get a DNA test, or if the wife signs the form you both can voluntarily agree you are not the father. Sounds like your friend already accepted being the father and wanted that changed.

Paternity is an amazingly simple thing to establish. It's a simple cheek swab and you're done and they do it essentially high-throughput down at the courthouse downtown. Your friend made the right choice long term financially but if someone is strapped for cash, the forms are all online. He could have filed it himself. Here's the pro se page. Link


Yeah he could have filled the paper work himself, but he also had to make a lot of court appearances, which if you are not a lawyer you should have one representing you. It just wasn't a simple fill out this form, show me the DNA test and you are off the hook. Plus there is also a time limit in which you have to protest.

Plus this seems to be the same. The guy I know signed the birth certificate. And from what you are saying if you are married and a child is born, then you are automatically presumed to be the father. In both cases the father has been established in the eyes of the law, so I would assume you would have to go through the same legal procedures to get yourself excluded as the father once you have been legally established to be the father. And once that has happened it isn't just a simple fill out paper work and show a DNA test.
 
2013-01-08 03:38:59 PM
i123.photobucket.com
 
2013-01-08 03:39:06 PM
Ya know, cheating like this isn't always sexually motivated. Perhaps our heroine has low social functioning and needs hubby to tell her what to say to people. Then, perhaps, she resents the constraints her primary relationship places upon her. The implication of her dysfunctionality. So the cheating is demonstrative or liberating or a chance to demonstrate her resentment of her situation. In this case she is a nutbag and since nutbag runs in families, the kids will need close attention as they mature.
 
2013-01-08 03:39:39 PM

Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.


Yeah I don't miss it...
 
2013-01-08 03:40:07 PM

signaljammer: Ya know, cheating like this isn't always sexually motivated. Perhaps our heroine has low social functioning and needs hubby to tell her what to say to people. Then, perhaps, she resents the constraints her primary relationship places upon her. The implication of her dysfunctionality. So the cheating is demonstrative or liberating or a chance to demonstrate her resentment of her situation. In this case she is a nutbag and since nutbag runs in families, the kids will need close attention as they mature.


I wish I had that kind of free time.
 
2013-01-08 03:40:18 PM
My wife would be out of my house like a heard of turds...
 
2013-01-08 03:40:30 PM

vudukungfu: He's gonna figure it out. And when he does, hopefully you will have taken him on enough slut-walks that he won't be too judgmental. And hopefully he will be gay. And promiscuous as hell. And flamboyant. And a Born again holy roller. And dating a bisexual, pre-op Haitian blood donor.


Looks like she tried for a Haitian Divorce.

Time for the dude to get a real one.
 
2013-01-08 03:41:30 PM
Just say you left the kid in the oven a little too long
 
2013-01-08 03:42:06 PM

Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.
/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.


Oh, you poor dea...
Nope.
Can't get that out.

/For the record, I tried.
//For the record, I also hope that the overwhelming majority of your clients are just decent people down on their luck.
 
2013-01-08 03:43:04 PM
Step 1. Give kid handful of these...
www.oldtimecandy.com
Step 2. Ask kid, "Do you like these?"
Step 3. When kid gives affirmative reply say (while smiling largely) , "So does Mommy!"

/Repeat until kid gets the idea.
 
2013-01-08 03:43:19 PM

Koalaesq: Another recent-ish NJ case had this fantastic turn of events: A father was getting a divorce from the mother. In NJ, you have to pay for child support through college. Mom applied for child support, and dad brought that up that he knew the kid wasn't even his, and refused to pay child support. Dad tried to get a DNA test to prove it, but since he had basically sat on his rights for 18 years and it would not benefit the kid, the court refused to let him off the hook and said he had to pay for the kid's college and continue to be the putative father.



Seems just a NJ twist (the college bit instead of 18 years old) on a common theme. I've seen other cases similar, where essentially a father who acts as a father for a long time later finds out he is not, still has to continue paying support. It sucks, I'm not entirely sure how I feel about it but honestly, I think I agree with it. When you sign the birth certificate and agree you're the father, that's that. It's not the kid's fault the mother is a lying ho-bag.
 
2013-01-08 03:43:27 PM

bikerific: PowerSlacker: Better yet, how does that slut explain to her children how "Dad" is such a spineless weasel?


Seems like sticking around in this situation takes a lot more spine than just bailing out.

People make mistakes. They get over it.


That's more than a mistake. That's the ultimate backstabbing move from the wife. She should have at least had the courage to get an abortion,
 
2013-01-08 03:45:19 PM
Jungle fever is a hard thing to get over.
 
2013-01-08 03:45:36 PM

Koalaesq: bemis23: Worthless cheating sluts are worthless. Dad should divorce her lying ass post-haste and sue for custody of his child.

/Divorcing my own worthless cheating slut now
//55 days left to go then her ass gone forever
///thank FSM, we have no kids

Divorce sucks (never did it myself, but assisted in quite a few), just remember to not give in just to "get it over with". People who say they just want to "get it over with" always regret the concessions they've made afterwards.

/also, be nice to your lawyer.


There's no real concessions being given. The stuff I want she doesn't care about and vice versa. The only thing worth arguing over is the dogs and since I'm taking a travel job and won't be able to care for them properly she can have them. I don't want the house. My car is legally separate property. The rest of the stuff...is just stuff that can be easily replaced. My goal is to get this toxic succubus out of my life permanently.

My lawyer rocks. Also, the associate attorney on my suit is hot.
 
2013-01-08 03:45:40 PM

Crewmannumber6: miscreant: Maybe the husband actually gets off on that. Isn't there a whole porn genre based on this?

I can't watch porn with black dudes in it


BWHAHAHAHAHA!! Its not our fault.

In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases. The guy decided to stick it out and keep his family intact. Is it the decision that I would have made? Hell no. But, how much of a hypocrite do you have to be to pontificate about absentee fathers in other threads and then to come in here and complain that this guy didn't run crying into the woods when he found out his wife was a cheater. The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows. Sure, I see how you could twist that to be something weak, I just don't understand why you would.
 
2013-01-08 03:45:54 PM

Cer10Death: Jungle fever is a hard thing to get over.


So is yellow fever...so I have heard.
 
2013-01-08 03:46:53 PM

demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.
/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

Oh, you poor dea...
Nope.
Can't get that out.

/For the record, I tried.
//For the record, I also hope that the overwhelming majority of your clients are just decent people down on their luck.


My clients are all severely mentally ill and developmentally delayed, so yeah, life hasn't been too nice to them already. Most of them are decent people; a few are just pricks.
 
2013-01-08 03:47:26 PM
It's hard to get child support when the boyfriend is a ward of the state.

s3.vidimg.popscreen.com
(killed and cooked his white girlfriend)
 
2013-01-08 03:47:32 PM

ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.


It cost him a lot of money because he was a farking moron. You ask for the paternity test before you sign shiat. This means every time you have a kid too.

Only suckers convince themselves that they can trust their women in such a situation. You can't. And you women who flip out over us asking for a paternity test: fark you.
 
2013-01-08 03:47:56 PM

Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.


except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'
 
2013-01-08 03:48:07 PM

Buttknuckle: ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."

Man, I'm glad someone said it. There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?


No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.

I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.
 
2013-01-08 03:49:13 PM
Her getting pregnant would be too much for me. After they man up and explain that the wife cheated, good luck trying to teach your kids the value of monogomy. And I bet the dad in this family gets ALOT of free passes on things.

I lasted through marriage infidelity once, and that was enough.
 
2013-01-08 03:49:29 PM

The Muthaship: I wish I had that kind of free time.

Yup, its time I finish the coffee and find something to do. . .
jzheesh!

//funemployed
// since 1979
 
2013-01-08 03:50:04 PM
That's a farked situation. I'd be the fark out of there.
 
2013-01-08 03:51:00 PM

Nurglitch: ordinarysteve: Nurglitch: I know, through my own ex, a woman that has children by three different fathers. Encountering the family, I had thought that the eldest (in this case) was adopted, and was somewhat surprised to learn that her father had in fact been deported back to Jamaica. I had also thought that the father was merely annoyed by the older daughters wanting his attention while he was trying to relax. Ugh, I hate the Annapolis Valley.

I'm just glad your story didn't involve Golars running wild

Huh. I just learned something. And all this time I was taking those valley cornholes at their word that the real issue was with folks on the North Mountain (read: low ridge forming the northern edge of the Annapolis Valley).


Well they may be weird on North Mt. too but you definitely don't want to be around South Mt. when the banjo music starts.
/The valley is beautiful, but it's like our West Virginia though
 
2013-01-08 03:51:25 PM

inner ted: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'


Aw, someone is jealous of my law degree. Cute.

/aaaand "ignore".
 
2013-01-08 03:53:35 PM

ongbok: Yeah he could have filled the paper work himself, but he also had to make a lot of court appearances, which if you are not a lawyer you should have one representing you. It just wasn't a simple fill out this form, show me the DNA test and you are off the hook. Plus there is also a time limit in which you have to protest.


Right well your friend's case was more than simple paternity.

ongbok: the father has been established in the eyes of the law, so I would assume you would have to go through the same legal procedures to get yourself excluded as the father


Yeah see this is where it gets really sticky. This is where you want a lawyer. Problem is getting yourself excluded, once you were already established as the father, is a bit harder than proving the kid is not biologically yours.
 
2013-01-08 03:54:48 PM

Koalaesq: inner ted: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'

Aw, someone is jealous of my law degree. Cute.

/aaaand "ignore".


With several hundred thousand lawyers, many who can't find jobs, I'm not sure jealous is the word I'd use.
 
2013-01-08 03:54:53 PM
It is vitally important to know who both parents are (if you can) for your medical history and genetic predispositions. It's bad enough this whore is making her poor husband live wit this. It will be worse if she denies her child knowing the father and having the medical benefits of knowing him.
 
2013-01-08 03:56:20 PM

SpectroBoy: It is vitally important to know who both parents are (if you can) for your medical history and genetic predispositions. It's bad enough this whore is making her poor husband live wit this. It will be worse if she denies her child knowing the father and having the medical benefits of knowing him.


The Sickle Cell?
 
2013-01-08 03:56:37 PM
/ once you go black... we really dont want you back biatch!!
// single moms r hos.
/// just say 'no' ho, no!
 
2013-01-08 03:57:32 PM
I worry about my ex fiance from a few years ago doing something like this. Coming over one night hooking up then she is magically pregnant after a few weeks and claims it's mine. She married the main guy she was cheating on me with about 7 months after we broke up and got pregnant, maybe by him, maybe not. I just avoid her like the plague now.
 
2013-01-08 03:58:25 PM

Koalaesq: inner ted: Koalaesq: demaL-demaL-yeH: Koalaesq: We were attempting to get her to keep custody of her 5th child. It was hard because she had had sex with another man while the 4 year old was in the room.

Why would you do that?
I mean, other than for the money.


/You're a public defender, aren't you?

Legal aid. Close enough.

except one is an attorney and the other is a secretary ... ahem.. i mean 'legal aid'

Aw, someone is jealous of my law degree. Cute.

/aaaand "ignore".


awww

someone thinks putting someone on 'ignore' means anything
lulz

and double lulz if you have a law degree and are just a freaking legal assistant

also: enjoy paying off those loans on a public defender legal assistant budget

/not jealous in the LEAST
 
2013-01-08 04:00:10 PM

another cultural observer: Lord Dimwit: another cultural observer: ongbok: lennavan: Koalaesq: any child born to a married man and woman automatically means the husband is considered the dad, even if the mom suspects or knows the child was born of cuckoldry. So depending on the state, yes, the husband may be deemed the actual father of the child.

We have that here in IL. If the mom knows he is not the father, like in this article, the father has two possible ways to protest. One is for him and the mother to both sign a denial of paternity form where they voluntarily agree he is not the father, the other is to get a DNA test.

Isn't there a lot of legal paperwork and money involved in this? I'm from IL also, and I know a guy that went through this. It is a long story that would have sent most men over the edge, and almost did it to him, but short version is he wasn't married to the woman, they were engaged and he had signed the birth certificate, then almost 2 years later he found out he wasn't the father. He was able to do it, but like I said it was a long process and cost him a lot of money in legal fees.

child support: 500 x 12 x 18 + 1/3 college.
legal fees: 4,000.

Your friend made the mathematically sound choice.

While it's mathematically sound if I found out that my 18-month-old wasn't mine, I don't know what I would do. I'd be furious at my wife, sure, but...he's my son. I've been with him since the moment he was born, and I'm the only dad he knows, y'know? So...I would want to make sure he was supported. I suppose I would see what my chances were of getting decent custody after the divorce.

I see you're burdened with a human soul.


always a crutch
 
2013-01-08 04:00:13 PM
Khloe Kardashian is in the news again!? lol

/ ho
// gold diggin' baby snatcher
/// fat
//// Lamar got PLAYED by that fat biatch
 
2013-01-08 04:00:32 PM

Vectron:
(killed and cooked his white girlfriend)


So... he's single?
 
2013-01-08 04:01:43 PM

jackieeeee: Buttknuckle: ChadM89: accelerus: I'd love to know if the REAL father of the black baby pays child support, or does anything even remotely needed to help pay for the kid.

It's obvious the woman is a lying cheating whore, she just had to go out and get some big black cack and was stupid enough to get knocked up.


The sad thing is the biggest dumb ass in the whole equation is the hubby for staying with her. I'd have taken my real daughter and told the whore and tyrone to live happily ever after in their crack shack.

Holy shiat. For all the information we have, this lady could have gone out to a nice establishment and picked up an attractive, successful black man and had a one-night stand with him. She may have never spoken to him again, he may not even know she had a child by him. We know nothing about him except the fact that this lady had sex with him at least once and that he's a black male.

And based on "black male", you deliver a rant in which he's a deatbeat father named Tyrone who smokes crack and lives in squalor. Frankly I'm just surprised you didn't start off your post with, "Im not a racist, but..."

Man, I'm glad someone said it. There is a lot of racism coming out in this thread. WTF guys?

No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.

I don't remember who said it but 'mulatto'? Damn, I live in Alabama and do not hear people use that term.


i.qkme.me
 
2013-01-08 04:01:55 PM

lennavan: ongbok: Yeah he could have filled the paper work himself, but he also had to make a lot of court appearances, which if you are not a lawyer you should have one representing you. It just wasn't a simple fill out this form, show me the DNA test and you are off the hook. Plus there is also a time limit in which you have to protest.

Right well your friend's case was more than simple paternity.

ongbok: the father has been established in the eyes of the law, so I would assume you would have to go through the same legal procedures to get yourself excluded as the father

Yeah see this is where it gets really sticky. This is where you want a lawyer. Problem is getting yourself excluded, once you were already established as the father, is a bit harder than proving the kid is not biologically yours.


Yep and that is the point. In these situations not being the biological father is just one component in not being the father in the eyes of the law. I guess he had to prove that he didn't know that he wasn't the biological father and hadn't agreed to to say he was, and a whole lot of other bs. Also because their is a time limit that you have to bring this up he had to go to court to verify that he was within that time limit.

Like I said before it is a long expensive process to do this in IL, but at least IL has a procedure for it. Some states don't.
 
2013-01-08 04:04:37 PM

jackieeeee: No kidding! A few posters sound more offended that the white woman dared to have sex and a child with a black guy as opposed to cheating on her husband.


Well, it is a little worse for her to have had an affair and child with a black guy than a white guy. If the baby daddy had been white, then the hubby could have just sucked it up and said 'we're never going to discuss this again. Not the two of us, not your biatch of a mother, not the kids, not the neighbors - nobody.' He could have just buried it and gone on hating postmen and plumbers for the rest of his life with no one the wiser.

In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him. He's going to have people laughing behind his back and making him the butt of jokes until they're all dead and buried.
 
2013-01-08 04:06:34 PM

DROxINxTHExWIND: In other news, I'm starting to see what folks are saying about Farkers and their female bashing. Maybe I just never paid it much attention before, but you all sound like a bunch of scorned females. The anger directed at this woman seems to be coming from a very personal place in some cases.


Why, it's almost like a large percentage of Farkers are bitter 40-ish male divorcees.

DROxINxTHExWIND: The EASIEST thing that he could do is run away and vilify her to family, friends, and the child. He's doing the HARDEST thing that anyone could do in this situation. He's being a man and trying to keep his vows


More likely he doesn't want his kid to grow up without a dad. Which I respect, but think it's probably the wrong move in the long term - kids with single parents tend to be better adjusted than kids with parents who stayed together but who hated each other.

/the racism in this thread is actually more troubling than the sexism.
//seriously, why does the race of the other guy make it worse?
 
2013-01-08 04:08:54 PM

Karac: I certainly hope the white guy looked into the laws in his state, and didn't sign his name to the birth certificate. Otherwise it's gonna suck when he finally gets his balls back, divorces her, but then finds out he's still on the hook for the other guy's child support.


In some states he will be anyway.
 
2013-01-08 04:09:12 PM
Look, a five-year-old isn't going to be familiar with the principles of Mendelian genetics. Just say that people come in all different colors and sometimes children look different than their parents.
 
2013-01-08 04:09:27 PM

Cer10Death: Here's the problem I have. This selfish biatch ruins the lives of her husband and biological son and gets a pass. She doesn't have to face the consequences of her decision because her husband appears to be a stand up guy. An idiot but a stand up guy.

My brother went through a similar scenario with his ex-biatch but the same race but these two kids look markedly different. She got knocked up by a neighbor and he kicked the biatch and the kid out. They are split. He has one kid, she has the other...hers with the neighbor. The neighbor didn't want anything to do with her and the new found kid because, shocker, he has a brood of his own. The court, in the Peoples Republic of New Jersey no less, upheld that the neighbor has to support both my brother's ex wife AND their biological kid. My brother has to pay half of her alimony and her health care but does not have to support the kid in any way shape or form.

Sometimes justice is done. I would have ditched the biatch long ago. We all knew she was cheating on him after about 3 months after they were married. We told him but he wouldn't listen.


Your story warms the cockles of my cold, black heart.
 
2013-01-08 04:09:47 PM

Karac: In this case though, ever single person who ever sees his family for the rest of his life is going to see the older white son, the younger black daughter, do the math and know that she cheated on him.


And they'll know that (1) the son is his biological son and (2) that the daughter wasn't adopted how?

Obviously people who know him somewhat well would be able to deduce it, but "every single person who sees his family"? I'm gonna go with "no". They might guess it, but there are multiple other explanations without that information above.
 
2013-01-08 04:10:44 PM

hermitage_deux: / once you go black... we really dont want you back biatch!!
// single moms r hos.
/// just say 'no' ho, no!


You know, I don't have a high tolerance for bigots, but I have less tolerance for people who don't read thr article. She's not single, you ass bucket. She's MARRIED. That's kinda the point of the letter. If she were single, she'd still be hooking up with the black guy. Sorry that you've lost so many women to black guys that you had to come up with a rule of thumb for how to deal with it. Its not our fault that your penis can contract into your body like a baby turtle head. You should have drank more milk as a kid.
 
2013-01-08 04:11:27 PM

kokomo61: Haitian Divorce.


Wasn't that like a Steely Dan song or something?
 
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