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(The New York Times)   The science behind why you are likely to think you're going to evolve, and become a charming, witty saint, but in reality will just turn out to be another boring asshole drinking beer at a Fark party   (nytimes.com) divider line 16
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2013-01-03 06:32:50 PM
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Where's the science behind people submitting articles they completely misunderstand?
2013-01-03 07:34:41 PM
1 votes:
FTA: "Believing that we just reached the peak of our personal evolution makes us feel good," Dr. Quoidbach said.

Who thinks they have reached the peak of their "personal evolution"? Don't we set into motion, everyday, personal and/or material improvements? Did I die and go to a universe where cultures and department stores don't exist (I wish). I would be horribly depressed if I thought I would EVER reach the peak of my personal evolution.
2013-01-03 07:30:50 PM
1 votes:
This is true but I don't think there is any other time that people are more stupid and annoying than in their early 20's. They're past the teenager "I know everything" stage and think they're hot-shiat because they think they now know how to be humble (a paradox).
2013-01-03 07:19:30 PM
1 votes:
I don't go to parties or BBQs with the intent of being some AW or world changer. I just like being invited by the hosts back to the next one.
2013-01-03 07:05:02 PM
1 votes:

XplodedSynapses: i think i like the smaller version of myself. 34 inch waist, minimal pain issues. Strong heart, strong body. Adventurous in many aspects of my life (which is most likely what lead to the ruination of my body). Overall, a cheerful young man with lofty dreams.

i guess i evolved. Devolved? Bleah. i don't like who i am anymore.

/Yea, yea. No one else does, either.
//Get off my lawn!



I think the way to handle aging is to adjust your internal role as a person to take advantage of your strengths. For example, in my early 20s I wanted to go out and explore. So I did. Places, people, love, etc. I could fit all my belongings in one car load because I felt "well I might decide to leave tomorrow". I had a great time. But, this is not conducive to long term bonding or stable income.

Today I'm in a long term relationship and will probably have a kid in a couple of years. I'm ok with this now. My changing mind, body and emotional maturity are suited to this task in ways that a few years ago they were not.

I plan to carry out this continual re-evaluation as the years go by. I believe some older people become embittered because they hold on to unrealistic ideas for too long and invest too much into them. If they adjusted their internal role of self every once in awhile, they would see that there is always value wherever they are in life.
2013-01-03 06:58:37 PM
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grinding_journalist: Every 5 years, if you aren't looking back at your past and wondering "How could I have been so stupid then?" you aren't trying very hard.


This. And:

You don't really change the small things. Sure, you can quit smoking, or practice driving so you don't get into fender benders as much. But, say you have memories of saying somethign aweful or strange, and remember how people looked at you oddly. Things like that will repeat throughout your life, because it is much more difficult to change your thought process concerning your decision making abilities than it is to change habit and reflex, which are hard in and of themselves.

Sure, odds are you don't necessarily make the exact same stupid mistake, but enough similar ones in different area's to amount to the same thing.

It's more wishful thinking than anything. Every 5 years you see those faults in your 5 year old memories, the stupidity is a pretty consistent thing.

You want to believe that you're better now, but shiat in one hand and believe into the other, see which fills up first.
2013-01-03 06:51:27 PM
1 votes:

theMagni:
I'm going to be 36 in a week. I'm at my physical, mental, and spiritual peak.

I expect to continue growing in those areas so that I can give you the same answer next year.


The pic of the zombie chick in your profile with the cat puts my penis at its physical peak
2013-01-03 06:49:41 PM
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TheDirtyNacho: Ah but the thing is the different aspects of yourself change at different rates in different ways.

At 31, I can say that my physical peak was likely around 28. If I skip exercising for a time now I'll put on a few pounds and my legs and back will ache more from routine tasks. Back then and before, exercise quickly built muscle rather than be a diminishing-results maintenance regime.

Mental flexibility peak? Jury's still out on this one. I think the science says its in the 20s, which is probably right.

Wisdom peak? I think I have a few decades to go on that one.



I'm going to be 36 in a week. I'm at my physical, mental, and spiritual peak.

I expect to continue growing in those areas so that I can give you the same answer next year.
2013-01-03 06:47:37 PM
1 votes:

ultraholland: in ten years I hope to become a teenage girl


Why not do it now? The power is yours!

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2013-01-03 06:46:04 PM
1 votes:
i think i like the smaller version of myself. 34 inch waist, minimal pain issues. Strong heart, strong body. Adventurous in many aspects of my life (which is most likely what lead to the ruination of my body). Overall, a cheerful young man with lofty dreams.

i guess i evolved. Devolved? Bleah. i don't like who i am anymore.

/Yea, yea. No one else does, either.
//Get off my lawn!
2013-01-03 06:37:30 PM
1 votes:
TheDirtyNacho: Thank you. At least you're not one of these delusional middle-aged fruitcakes going on and on about how much better they are than in their 20s, while their lactating mammaries and beer guts hang over their belts. Life is awfully short, and most of life seems to be "booting up" (childhood), followed by a decade or two of good operation (20s-30s), followed by long decades of decay and decrepitude, combined with massive denial and delusion.

And people wonder why I'm for life extension and anti-aging? Can you imagine the money society could save by not having to treat all the old people (40+) for all the things that start to fall apart?

Why, I imagine we could build TWO asteroid lasers AND a space elevator in a few decades.

But no, life extension is unnatural and not even possible. Too complicated, too hard. We don't choose to do the hard things anymore. We've got videogames that need programming.
2013-01-03 06:34:31 PM
1 votes:
A related but more interesting question is which "you" would you choose to be, if you could pick a "you" from any point in your life and make yourself that version of you?

In some ways I think the 2003-ciberido is better than the 2013 version, for example, and in some ways I like the 2013-me better.  If I had to chose to be one or the other, which would I choose?  Which is the "better" person?
2013-01-03 06:31:49 PM
1 votes:
Ah but the thing is the different aspects of yourself change at different rates in different ways.

At 31, I can say that my physical peak was likely around 28. If I skip exercising for a time now I'll put on a few pounds and my legs and back will ache more from routine tasks. Back then and before, exercise quickly built muscle rather than be a diminishing-results maintenance regime.

Mental flexibility peak? Jury's still out on this one. I think the science says its in the 20s, which is probably right.

Wisdom peak? I think I have a few decades to go on that one.
2013-01-03 06:28:45 PM
1 votes:
This article describes a way of thought completely contrary to the way I see the world.  I'm assuming I'm not the only one.  When I look back at my life, when I see the world through my eyes now and remember how it appeared to me five, ten, twenty years ago, I am amazed at how much things can change.  And as soon as I have that thought, it is followed by the question of how much different the world will seem in five, ten or twenty years than it does to me now and by trying desperately, futilely, to look forward and see through those eyes.
2013-01-03 06:26:03 PM
1 votes:
Adulthood: when you realize boring is sometimes best.
2013-01-03 06:25:49 PM
1 votes:
I have always thought I was an asshole....

yup nothing changed.

At least I'm consistent.
 
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