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2012-12-20 05:08:37 PM
True of most sex columnists - especially ones in school newspapers.
 
2012-12-20 05:10:22 PM
Really? They are making a big deal about sex in the library?
 
ZAZ [TotalFark]
2012-12-20 05:11:46 PM
She's not a journalist

Did she act like she thought she was a journalist? I figured she knew she was basically blogger / columnist / attention whore.
 
2012-12-20 05:11:49 PM
I'd scour her card catalog any day of the week.
 
2012-12-20 05:12:22 PM
Is it wrong to think about dipping your quill in the ole ink jar ?
 
2012-12-20 05:13:08 PM
shiat, i never got to have sex in the stacks when i was at Cal in the 70s, what's wrong with me?
 
2012-12-20 05:14:09 PM
"A exhibitionist?" Really? I guess subby is not an journalist.
 
2012-12-20 05:14:35 PM
An exhibitionist.
 
2012-12-20 05:14:44 PM
Hmm...in the stacks is pretty bold, I generally stuck to the study rooms and supply closets. Day before Thanksgiving however I can confirm would be a perfect time to go for it in the stacks a large academic library (honestly you'd probably get a golf clap from the staff when you finished if you were caught...ok, I would have golf clapped, I worked in academic libraries for a number of years).

/yes, I would hit that
//actually, she reminds me of a gal I had a few trysts with...but not in the library, well once ok?
 
2012-12-20 05:15:18 PM
...vapid, sure.
 
2012-12-20 05:15:22 PM
I'd flip through her dewey decimal system.
 
2012-12-20 05:20:32 PM
they're not mutually exclusive...
 
2012-12-20 05:22:11 PM
I would dangle my participle that she could conjugate my prefixes, or perhaps just suckle my man-root.
 
2012-12-20 05:22:14 PM
There seems to be a period of 5 years or so where everyone thinks they are the edgiest people in history.
 
2012-12-20 05:22:59 PM
I would so disappoint her.
 
2012-12-20 05:23:37 PM
A) I miss the Daily CAl
B) She's hot... she makes me think dirty thoughts.
 
2012-12-20 05:24:44 PM
I'll give her this, She's definitely easier on the eyes than these 'sexperts'
img24.imageshack.us img38.imageshack.us
 
2012-12-20 05:28:42 PM
Nadia's had a major makeover since her first 5 minutes of fame. Her file photos were serious double bagger material.
 
2012-12-20 05:28:44 PM
TFA: "it isn't actually a column about sex; it's a column about Nadia Cho." ... "She is not a journalist, she's an exhibitionist." ... "Getting to work and thinking, 'There won't be people f- in the library today.' Now that is liberating."

So what you're telling me is the DailyCal has an audience of AARP members?

Because no-one under 60 is thinking these things. shiat, no-one under 60 can likely *remember* journalism before it embraced the self-aggrandizing subjective viewpoint. From which Cho's exhibitionism is all but expected. And that last complaint is just some crusty old fuddy-duddy who'd rather pretend no-one has any genitals and they certainly don't go about madly mashing them together everywhere and all the goddamned time.
 
2012-12-20 05:30:11 PM
I got a great idea for a new version of Clue! "Nadia was bonked in the library with the vibrator by Col. Mustard".
 
2012-12-20 05:31:01 PM
She can exhibit herself anytime with me.
 
2012-12-20 05:31:45 PM

ringersol: TFA: "it isn't actually a column about sex; it's a column about Nadia Cho." ... "She is not a journalist, she's an exhibitionist." ... "Getting to work and thinking, 'There won't be people f- in the library today.' Now that is liberating."

So what you're telling me is the DailyCal has an audience of AARP members?

Because no-one under 60 is thinking these things. shiat, no-one under 60 can likely *remember* journalism before it embraced the self-aggrandizing subjective viewpoint. From which Cho's exhibitionism is all but expected. And that last complaint is just some crusty old fuddy-duddy who'd rather pretend no-one has any genitals and they certainly don't go about madly mashing them together everywhere and all the goddamned time.


Maybe the people just don't want to watch ugly people fark.
 
2012-12-20 05:31:51 PM

ArtosRC: I would so disappoint her.


It's not whether or not you were her rock star, it's the fact that you even got to perform in the concert that is most important.
 
2012-12-20 05:34:14 PM
She's good looking so she isn't a sex offender for doing this, right?
 
2012-12-20 05:34:16 PM
Cho

static.tvguide.com
 
2012-12-20 05:35:40 PM

hdhale: ArtosRC: I would so disappoint her.

It's not whether or not you were her rock star, it's the fact that you even got to perform in the concert that is most important.


THIS!
 
2012-12-20 05:36:36 PM
FTFA: She sought to have loud sex in a variety of haunts, from the library's European Union section to the classrooms of Moffitt and Wurster - which "gives you an idea of how fantastic it would be if your hot (graduate student instructor) pounded you on the front desk every time you forgot to turn in a homework assignment."

How many weeks does she have for this project? I'm old, so sex once a week or so does me just fine.
 
2012-12-20 05:36:48 PM
mlkshk.com
 
2012-12-20 05:37:51 PM
I would organize her microfiche.
 
2012-12-20 05:41:00 PM
I would request her journal from another library in the UC system and patiently wait 10-14 days for it to be delivered.
 
2012-12-20 05:41:16 PM

ringersol: So what you're telling me is the DailyCal has an audience of AARP members?

Because no-one under 60 is thinking these things. shiat, no-one under 60 can likely *remember* journalism before it embraced the self-aggrandizing subjective viewpoint. From which Cho's exhibitionism is all but expected. And that last complaint is just some crusty old fuddy-duddy who'd rather pretend no-one has any genitals and they certainly don't go about madly mashing them together everywhere and all the goddamned time.


I applaud the sexually adventurous. I loathe attention whores.

And call me crazy, but a sex columnist should probably educate about sex rather than just putting her sexual history on display. There is plenty of time to do that at the bar.
 
2012-12-20 05:46:10 PM

dustygrimp: ringersol: So what you're telling me is the DailyCal has an audience of AARP members?

Because no-one under 60 is thinking these things. shiat, no-one under 60 can likely *remember* journalism before it embraced the self-aggrandizing subjective viewpoint. From which Cho's exhibitionism is all but expected. And that last complaint is just some crusty old fuddy-duddy who'd rather pretend no-one has any genitals and they certainly don't go about madly mashing them together everywhere and all the goddamned time.

I applaud the sexually adventurous. I loathe attention whores.

And call me crazy, but a sex columnist should probably educate about sex rather than just putting her sexual history on display. There is plenty of time to do that at the bar.


I blame Sex & the City. It clearly gave rise to feminine, soft-core, literary porn ideals for sex column journalism. So long as the columnists look better than Sarah Jessica Parker, I also applaud Sex & the City for soft-core literary porn in general syndication. My, how times have changed.
 
2012-12-20 05:47:14 PM
In other news she is not returning any of your emails containing (what else) pictures of your genitals.
 
2012-12-20 05:47:28 PM
I'd hit that like there's no tomorrow.

Wait. Tomorrow.12/21/2012....?

oh noes.
 
2012-12-20 05:49:05 PM
Here is the link to our favorite Taiwanese "news" CGI animation relevant to this topic:

Link
 
2012-12-20 05:50:12 PM
At my campus we had the worst sex advice columnist ever. I am not sure what I was thinking when I took that job

I keed, I keed
 
2012-12-20 05:51:29 PM
I suggest UC remedy this by filling the library with cameras and livestreaming them to the web.
 
2012-12-20 05:53:41 PM
Ah, Cho.
 
2012-12-20 05:56:30 PM

machoprogrammer: At my campus we had the worst sex advice columnist ever. I am not sure what I was thinking when I took that job

I keed, I keed


Now I can't stop picturing the "stereotypical" Farker being a sex columnist:

12/14/12 - I fapped today. I had to put it on mute because mom was having a party upstairs. Bannedontherun is favorited.

End Column
 
2012-12-20 05:56:45 PM
Asian psychology major?

That is going to be some serious disconnect with sexual norms.

F*ck the sh*t out of her but do NOT expect that vajoo to stay on a leash.

Seriously I've dated both subsets (but not the two wrapped up in one) and they just don't care about sh*t like that.

/mmm... sweet, anecdotal generalizations
 
2012-12-20 05:57:09 PM
I think she's a one-trick pony.
 
2012-12-20 05:57:19 PM
Not to be all studman69 or anything, but I talk to her on a kind of frequent basis and she is most definitely not hot. Not bad looking, but not hot. She is just a normal hipster chick who happens to be open about her sexuality and is open to trying new things. I'm pretty sure she is not the only person that has done naughty things on the stacks, yet she is the one that talks about it and gets all the shiat. Breaking news: girls like sex too.

Also, it's pretty sad to see that 99% of the backlash from her column (which has been surprisingly overwhelming) has been from girls/women labeling her with the usual bs names. It's sad to see how women themselves are the ones enforcing certain social norms that they complain about all the time. Guys obviously wouldn't complain but they could respond negatively by harassing her or shiat like that, which luckily hasn't really happened.

/pardon the generalization with the use of term "women", it's just for the sake of argument.
 
2012-12-20 05:58:01 PM

Porous Horace: Ah, Cho.


Gesundheit
 
2012-12-20 05:58:18 PM
How did she keep from getting caught when she was making that rape noise all Asians make when they have sex?
 
2012-12-20 05:58:29 PM

Porous Horace: Ah, Cho.


Gesundhpecker.
 
2012-12-20 06:00:07 PM

Profedius: How did she keep from getting caught when she was making that rape noise all Asians make when they have sex?


'WAAAIIIIII!!! WAAAAIIIII!!!!"

okay... that was inappropriate.

I'm sorry.
 
2012-12-20 06:00:19 PM
Seriously, its Berkeley. I thought library sex was a graduation requirement.
 
2012-12-20 06:00:33 PM
Bless the Cho Asian ones
 
2012-12-20 06:00:37 PM
Ah human civilization, still afraid of sex I see.
 
2012-12-20 06:01:21 PM
Does she make that Asian squeaky copulatory noise? I can't work with that.
 
2012-12-20 06:04:32 PM

AngryJailhouseFistfark: Does she make that Asian squeaky copulatory noise? I can't work with that.


I've never heard those sounds in real life. Maybe my asian is broken.
 
2012-12-20 06:05:06 PM

IronHorse: Here is the link to our favorite Taiwanese "news" CGI animation relevant to this topic:

Link


The best part of that is the dig at the Daily Fail,
 
"The Daily Mail took time off from stalking Kim Kardashian and bashing minorities to report on a Berkely student..."
 
2012-12-20 06:07:31 PM
This thread is useless..... you know the rest.
 
2012-12-20 06:08:56 PM

hdhale: Hmm...in the stacks is pretty bold, I generally stuck to the study rooms and supply closets. Day before Thanksgiving however I can confirm would be a perfect time to go for it in the stacks a large academic library (honestly you'd probably get a golf clap from the staff when you finished if you were caught...ok, I would have golf clapped, I worked in academic libraries for a number of years).

/yes, I would hit that
//actually, she reminds me of a gal I had a few trysts with...but not in the library, well once ok?


What? I don't think I know anyone who made it through college who didn't have sex in the stacks. Late night, stressed from studying and writing...it just happens. Hell, I assumed they issue Library Science majors a jizz mop at their internship signup.
 
2012-12-20 06:10:15 PM
Doesn't seem that attractive to me. Her head is spherical.
 
2012-12-20 06:10:31 PM
she's an exhibitionist
 
ww2.hdnux.com
 
...go on
 
2012-12-20 06:10:34 PM

IronHorse: Here is the link to our favorite Taiwanese "news" CGI animation relevant to this topic:

Link


That was absolutely bananas. My favorite part was where they all went skiing afterward for some reason.

Thank you for finding that.
 
2012-12-20 06:11:15 PM

JorgiX: Not to be all studman69 or anything, but I talk to her on a kind of frequent basis and she is most definitely not hot. Not bad looking, but not hot. She is just a normal hipster chick who happens to be open about her sexuality and is open to trying new things. I'm pretty sure she is not the only person that has done naughty things on the stacks, yet she is the one that talks about it and gets all the shiat. Breaking news: girls like sex too.

Also, it's pretty sad to see that 99% of the backlash from her column (which has been surprisingly overwhelming) has been from girls/women labeling her with the usual bs names. It's sad to see how women themselves are the ones enforcing certain social norms that they complain about all the time. Guys obviously wouldn't complain but they could respond negatively by harassing her or shiat like that, which luckily hasn't really happened.

/pardon the generalization with the use of term "women", it's just for the sake of argument.


People find it frustrating and stressful to hear about her exploits. I mean those words in both ways, like how stress can bring you to better yourself or participate in something new, or make you uncomfortable and illogically driven to categorize, control, or dismiss.

I think the difference between exhibitionism and erotica is judgement. By exhibiting sex, you're saying "I'm doing this, I'm judging those who aren't because you should." With erotica, you create something that you might not have done fully or at all and presenting it objectively, for people to read what they want into it.
I believe that journalism should be driven by curiosity, not judgement. She's not a journalist.
 
2012-12-20 06:11:26 PM
Cho
3.bp.blogspot.com
 
2012-12-20 06:15:26 PM

tetsoushima: I'd scour her card catalog any day of the week.


I would put my Dewey in her decimal system any day of the week.

/I'd also fluff her Garfield, if you know what I mean
 
2012-12-20 06:16:59 PM
Who does High Expectations Asian Father have to say about all this?
 
2012-12-20 06:21:39 PM

zerkalo: Who does High Expectations Asian Father have to say about all this?

i0.kym-cdn.com
 
2012-12-20 06:24:03 PM
I'd bang her non-stop...
 
2012-12-20 06:25:31 PM
Anyone have a link to the Taiwanese animation?
 
2012-12-20 06:26:26 PM

zerkalo: Who does High Expectations Asian Father have to say about all this?


i.qkme.me
 
2012-12-20 06:28:00 PM
This is like reading about some awesome program that only runs on Linux. What am I going to do with a horizontal cooter?
 
2012-12-20 06:28:07 PM
First, who gives a damn really.  I think it's cool that she had sex in the school library and got away with it...I think that's something everyone has thought about but few have succeeded (like the Mile High Club).
 
Secondly, I think she's smoking hot...which means I'll be in my bunk.
 
2012-12-20 06:28:15 PM

UsikFark: JorgiX: Not to be all studman69 or anything, but I talk to her on a kind of frequent basis and she is most definitely not hot. Not bad looking, but not hot. She is just a normal hipster chick who happens to be open about her sexuality and is open to trying new things. I'm pretty sure she is not the only person that has done naughty things on the stacks, yet she is the one that talks about it and gets all the shiat. Breaking news: girls like sex too.

Also, it's pretty sad to see that 99% of the backlash from her column (which has been surprisingly overwhelming) has been from girls/women labeling her with the usual bs names. It's sad to see how women themselves are the ones enforcing certain social norms that they complain about all the time. Guys obviously wouldn't complain but they could respond negatively by harassing her or shiat like that, which luckily hasn't really happened.

/pardon the generalization with the use of term "women", it's just for the sake of argument.

People find it frustrating and stressful to hear about her exploits. I mean those words in both ways, like how stress can bring you to better yourself or participate in something new, or make you uncomfortable and illogically driven to categorize, control, or dismiss.

I think the difference between exhibitionism and erotica is judgement. By exhibiting sex, you're saying "I'm doing this, I'm judging those who aren't because you should." With erotica, you create something that you might not have done fully or at all and presenting it objectively, for people to read what they want into it.
I believe that journalism should be driven by curiosity, not judgement. She's not a journalist.


You're correct, she is not a journalist and I don't think anyone ever tried to pass her as one. She is a columnist/blogger. And I really fail to see how her column is judgmental. She gives advice on how to experience new phases in one's sexuality but nothing aside from that. I do see how some people can grow stressed with her column though.
 
2012-12-20 06:28:17 PM

Cybernetic: Anyone have a link to the Taiwanese animation?


Try scrolling up about twenty posts, champ.

/And by champ, I mean chump
//Just kidding
///Really I mean dipshiat
////I have anger issues
 
2012-12-20 06:36:36 PM
She got two threads on Fark and a scolding from Natalie Bowles...who?...so she got some pub. Her only problem is that she is overqualified as a journalist to work on Fox News.
If the squirrel is hungry, let him eat his own nuts.
 
2012-12-20 06:39:28 PM
When asked about how their relationship started, her boyfriend said "I cho-cho-chose her."
 
2012-12-20 06:40:11 PM
It became a big thing, I think, because of her takedown by a UC Librarian basically telling her how rude and shallow and not unique it is to fark in the library.
 
The other comments, many left by UC students at Berkeley to her, make the case her column is mostly about herself.
 
i.imgur.com
 
2012-12-20 06:44:27 PM
If a guy wrote a column in the Daily Cal about wanking in the stacks, I doubt he would get the approval of many of the you go grrl types.
 
If a guy wrote a column in the Daily Cal about taking girls into the stacks to screw, I doubt he would get the approval of many of the you go grrl types.

If a guy wrote a column in the Daily Cal about heterosexual sex advice, I doubt he would get the approval of many of the you go grrl types, and probably not even get a column in the Daily Cal.
 
But if you're a young attractive woman, well then you go grrl. It's all about empowerment and sticking it to the patriarchy, and not about our own voyeurism, and anything you do or write about is feminitastic.
 
2012-12-20 06:50:04 PM

IronHorse: Here is the link to our favorite Taiwanese "news" CGI animation relevant to this topic:

Link


The bear was the best part
 
2012-12-20 06:51:42 PM

RoyBatty:

[i.imgur.com image 649x304]


Go on....

Wait. Let me go sit next to my bookcase. There.

Go on....
 
2012-12-20 06:58:00 PM

ZAZ: She's not a journalist

Did she act like she thought she was a journalist? I figured she knew she was basically blogger / columnist / attention whore.


Over in 3. Capitalizing on late 20th century mainstream feminism and early 21st century sinophilia.and claiming to be "of color" = AW.
 
2012-12-20 07:04:31 PM

mitchcumstein1: she's an exhibitionist


My favorite kind of exhibitionist is the kind that does crazy contortions, too.

You know, an extortionist.
 
2012-12-20 07:09:18 PM

Day_Old_Dutchie: I'll give her this, She's definitely easier on the eyes than these 'sexperts'
[img24.imageshack.us image 200x243] [img38.imageshack.us image 176x276]


20 year old girls know almost nothing about sex. I will take the advice over a 40 year old divorcee over hers any day of the week.
 
2012-12-20 07:18:09 PM
NSS?
 
2012-12-20 07:19:21 PM
And she's Asian? Of course she is.

/ they're all like that on the Inside
 
2012-12-20 07:20:44 PM

RoyBatty: It became a big thing, I think, because of her takedown by a UC Librarian basically telling her how rude and shallow and not unique it is to fark in the library.

The other comments, many left by UC students at Berkeley to her, make the case her column is mostly about herself.

[i.imgur.com image 649x304]


Fair enough.

But I'm still a horrible person for thinking she's hot and wishing there were security cam photos of said tryst.
 
2012-12-20 07:24:37 PM
I dunno that I'd say she's hot, but she's got a cuteness to her, and what looks to be a decent body. I'd jizz in her hair in the stacks.
 
2012-12-20 07:28:50 PM

Treygreen13: AngryJailhouseFistfark: Does she make that Asian squeaky copulatory noise? I can't work with that.

I've never heard those sounds in real life. Maybe my asian is broken.


He tried to turn sidewaya during sex, based on rumors he'd heard.
 
2012-12-20 07:41:28 PM

Porous Horace: When asked about how their relationship started, her boyfriend said "I cho-cho-chose her."


static.tvfanatic.com
 
2012-12-20 07:47:21 PM
From the headline: "She's not a journalist, she's an exhibitionist"

You say that as if it were a bad thing...

Assertion: The world would only be improved if it had more smoking hot Asian female exhibitionists.
 
2012-12-20 08:16:15 PM
slayer199

2012-12-20 06:28:07 PM

First, who gives a damn really. I think it's cool that she had sex in the school library and got away with it...I think that's something everyone has thought about but few have succeeded (like the Mile High Club).

Secondly, I think she's smoking hot...


Well, you're right on one point. That other one, not so much.
 
2012-12-20 08:32:13 PM

JorgiX: Not to be all studman69 or anything, but I talk to her on a kind of frequent basis and she is most definitely not hot. Not bad looking, but not hot. She is just a normal hipster chick who happens to be open about her sexuality and is open to trying new things. I'm pretty sure she is not the only person that has done naughty things on the stacks, yet she is the one that talks about it and gets all the shiat. Breaking news: girls like sex too.

Also, it's pretty sad to see that 99% of the backlash from her column (which has been surprisingly overwhelming) has been from girls/women labeling her with the usual bs names. It's sad to see how women themselves are the ones enforcing certain social norms that they complain about all the time. Guys obviously wouldn't complain but they could respond negatively by harassing her or shiat like that, which luckily hasn't really happened.

/pardon the generalization with the use of term "women", it's just for the sake of argument.


I imagine that most of it is because most of the audience that isn't lonely repressed weirdos are wondering what the big deal is. We've all had sex, often a lot of it, and Berkeley in particular is overflowing with raunchy sex of all sorts. BFD. She's like a guy who got his first blowjob and thinks the whole world wants to know how awesome it was for a few weeks. Is she 13? No? Then what's the deal, the world is full of sex stories, sex confessions, and porn galore, it doesn't need another trite attention whore.

If she wrote like Hunter S Thompson or Leonard Cohen, that would be one thing, but her column reads like a downvoted literotica entry when it isn't outright moralizing.

/I only care because I spent too long in the archives looking for something interesting.
 
2012-12-20 08:47:38 PM
"That's not writing. That's typing."
--------------Truman Capote on Ken Kesey
 
2012-12-20 09:27:29 PM
If you want kooky female sex commentators, this one is way crazier

i.ytimg.com
 
2012-12-20 11:22:02 PM
img296.imageshack.us

Approve.
 
2012-12-21 01:28:19 AM
I'd do her... Gangnam Style!
 
2012-12-21 01:59:08 AM

hdhale: Hmm...in the stacks is pretty bold, I generally stuck to the study rooms and supply closets. Day before Thanksgiving however I can confirm would be a perfect time to go for it in the stacks a large academic library (honestly you'd probably get a golf clap from the staff when you finished if you were caught...ok, I would have golf clapped, I worked in academic libraries for a number of years).

/yes, I would hit that
//actually, she reminds me of a gal I had a few trysts with...but not in the library, well once ok?


On the lawn in front of the library. Yes, did it there, during finals week.
 
2012-12-21 03:15:26 AM
In university, "sex positive" usually meant "has the clap".

I say "usually" because sometimes it meant "has HIV".
 
2012-12-21 08:24:22 AM
She's an F-ing Hero.
 
2012-12-21 11:49:41 AM

ModernLuddite: In university, "sex positive" usually meant "has the clap".

I say "usually" because sometimes it meant "has HIV".



Why can't it mean both?
 
2012-12-21 01:25:56 PM

dv-ous: True of most sex columnists - especially ones in school newspapers.


Journalism 204: Epater Les Bourgeouses: How to use opinion columns and feature articles to shock the middle class. Special emphasis will be placed on graphic depictions of sex, casual and frequent use of obscenities, and an inane, solipsistic voice.
 
2012-12-21 02:48:25 PM

AngryJailhouseFistfark: Does she make that Asian squeaky copulatory noise? I can't work with that.


I guess someone has to. It's nails on a damn chalkboard to me. If I wanted to listen to the sounds of mice being stomped on, I'd stomp on mice.
 
2012-12-21 10:56:40 PM

SkunkWerks: If I wanted to listen to the sounds of mice being stomped on, I'd stomp on mice.


Oblig
 
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