iheartscotch: udhq: iheartscotch: Someone who isn't a historical foot note in a textbook from the 60's actually made a classy decision?/ unpossibleYes, airing out your ex-husband's sexual inadequacy to the news media is certainly "classy".....Was referring to the husband's refusal to do something, that I asume, felt demeaned his wife.
farkingismybusiness: [i.imgur.com image 480x640]She even went through the effort to color code it.
KatjaMouse: Maybe Santa should bring you a bunny flogger. It's good for newbies who are intimidated by leather and the idea of pain.
WeenerGord: What happened to the recent thread with the photographs? The first one was of a scrawny unkrainian whore with aids and karposis lesions all over? Was that taken down? Anyway, using your logic, maybe we vanillas should all envy her? She looks like she has so much wonderful lovely pain, and she has had so much love.
KatjaMouse: iheartscotch: udhq: iheartscotch: Someone who isn't a historical foot note in a textbook from the 60's actually made a classy decision?/ unpossibleYes, airing out your ex-husband's sexual inadequacy to the news media is certainly "classy".....Was referring to the husband's refusal to do something, that I asume, felt demeaned his wife.I was assuming it was because she opted for divorce instead of cheating.
Headso: I'm personally not into bondage or any of that stuff but it's just a fetish like any other odd thing people might be into that gets them off. Does some guy jerking off to feet mean something beyond him jerking off to feet? If some chick likes to get spanked why does it have to mean something outside of just her liking to get spanked.
KatjaMouse: h. Wait... I think I get it...
KatjaMouse: Does everyone in this room like getting oral sex?
WeenerGord: KatjaMouse: h. Wait... I think I get it...Haha, the old "If they don't want me they must be gay" defense, lol.How dare you suggest that ukrainian whore was trafficked? How do you know she wasn't fully in control of her consensual, NSA relationships? Just like you know the banker wife in TFA wasn't cheating?
Smackledorfer: KatjaMouse: Does everyone in this room like getting oral sex?Probably.
The One True TheDavid: Metraxis:The truly sad thing is that this guy doesn't realize his own sexism. He has clearly abandoned the radical notion that women are people, and instead hews to an orthodoxy which holds that a human with a vagina is a victim by nature, and must be carefully protected from making politically wrong choices about her own body.Um. NO.I view women as people who for thousands of years have been victimized and encouraged to accept or even like it. Obviously it's still a rare woman who's stroing enough to resist that pressure -- which increases with every technological advance in "the Media" -- and I salute them.Nor do I give a shiat what any adult does with their own body: if people insist on harming themselves or encouraging others to harm them they should be free to. Besides being basically socially libertarian, it gives me a bit of unfortunately pleasant schadenfreude to see people who are more farked in the head than I am; similarly, after feeling sad because it's proving hard to lose 30 extra pounds I can't help grinning at the sight of some guy who weighs 700 pounds being standed because his mobility scooter ran out of juice and his legs won't hold his weight.In fact, if I gave freer reign to my "bad attitude" it would be easy to encourage these farked up people to get even worse off: it's so such easier to laugh at other people than to discipline myself. (That said, the only person who's allowed to "discipline" me is me: anybody else better be better armed.) You may regard my comments here as a slightly twisted kind of noblesse oblige, but one that would rather eliminate my sad noblesse. (In my egomaniacal moods I compare myself to Count Tolstoy the anarchist theoretician.)But then I'm really not talking to you or die-hard devotees of "BDSM." The audience I hope to reach by this is people who are "on the fence," who feel drawn to that "lifestyle" but suspect they might deserve better, or who are looking for a way out of their degrading "personal life ...
The Larch: The One True TheDavid:Ugly fat chicks with no self respect will let you do all kinds of mean shiat to them just to get any attention at all. They'll even encourage it if you don't make them pay every time you order pizza.They make you pay pay for your own pizza? You must have a very tiny penis.
DrunkenBob: Two submissives should never get married. Especially power bottoms. They'll be happier apart.
hasty ambush: The Evil That Lies In The Hearts Of Men:Some people care way too much about what other folks do in their spare time.and yet some people seem hell bent on making sure others know what they do in their spare time.
The One True TheDavid: Headso:If some chick likes to get spanked why does it have to mean something outside of just her liking to get spanked."Why does she like to get spanked?" is the question. The next one is "What can be done to raise her self-esteem?"
Headso: The One True TheDavid: Headso:If some chick likes to get spanked why does it have to mean something outside of just her liking to get spanked."Why does she like to get spanked?" is the question. The next one is "What can be done to raise her self-esteem?"Ass-uming a chick has low self esteem because she has a different fetish than you is pretty egotistical.
The One True TheDavid: foxyshadis: The One True TheDavid:I'm very very serious.Why do you believe that being a bisexual twink-chasing former transgender suddenly makes you an expert on all things alternative and kink? Your absurd pronouncements pulled from your ass and threadshiatting aren't creating any kind of discussion, so why bother?Tell that to KatjaMouse, who showed us she can use the IMG tag.I'm not a "former transgender" nor do I "chase twinks." You should read closer. And as far as "absurd pronouncements pulled from [my] ass" goes, I'm gratified that a few people out there dare to voice similar opinions; it gives me a wee bit of hope for our species' future.So anyway. Why don't you click "Ignore this user" if you're so offended by my comments? Do you flatter yourself that I'd miss you?
BAMFinator: Hell I can't even get my wife to do it with the lights on.
The One True TheDavid: SquiggsIN:Yes, there are people abused that don't want or deserve it. You're in the wrong damned thread if you think that has anything to do with healthy BDSM.As I said earlier, '[m]any children who've been abused and/or molested grow up to think such behavior is normal and even sexy, and many children who didn't even get that kind of attention envy the ones who got Uncle Ernie's "love."'Some fall in the first category, some in the second."Healthy BDSM?" Perhaps you're missing my point: there is no such thing.
SquiggsIN: You don't have to believe me but, there are thousands if not millions of people who disagree with you. *If it weren't a thing it wouldn't exist, right.
KatjaMouse: Oh god... this thread...[crayfisher.files.wordpress.com image 400x300]
Mija: Marriage is not about sex. It can be a wonderful part of it but if your marriage depends on sex you aren't in love and you both would be better off parting. It would be a biatch to be married for twenty years only to face a health problem that ends your sex life and have your spouse dump you because all you are to them is a moist hole or a hard ride. Damn people. If for better or worse or in sickness and health means nothing to you don't get married.
foxyshadis: At early 40's, if they have any kids at all they're grown up.
Metraxis: I'm going to guess that this guy is himself a victim of sorts,
SquiggsIN: Like with many other subjects, you're an ignorant judgmental idiot. One that I'll no longer be reading.
KatjaMouse: Nothing quite like having the blood flow being brought up to the surface. Makes one more sensitive to slight touch.
fozziewazzi: I would love to have read a story from a male perspective..."Your honor, I tried to re-ignite my sex life with my wife, but when I asked her to join me in recreating a scene from "Straight to the Ass Vol. 4", she refused. I believe this is unreasonable behavior and grounds for a divorce".How do you think that would have gone over?
SquiggsIN: This goes right back to where most arguments go.People who don't understand something are criticizing it and telling people that they are wrong for engaging in it. BDSM isn't for every one but, for some people it is an extremely rewarding outlet for meeting their needs. You can't put everyone into the same box because as with everything there are varying extremes even within what most outsiders would desire to lump together as one.There are sadists, there are masochists, there are people who absolutely need to be on one end or the other and it doesn't have much at all to do with the self-esteem they hold outside of their sexual lives.My advice to most of you is this : If you aren't involved and don't want to be, shut up and stop criticizing. If you are involved and love it, don't expect the close-minded to accept it. If you're anywhere else, then you might have a problem. I don't endorse relationships where there are activities that aren't consensual.
WeenerGord: KatjaMouse: Nothing quite like having the blood flow being brought up to the surface. Makes one more sensitive to slight touch.This made me think of cutters who cut their skin with razor blades just to be able to feel something, anything..People who cut because something is wrong or something has happened to them and they don't know how else to handle how they feel. Many of them have been abused, sexually, physically, or mentally. Some do it because they feel numb and want to feel the pain or just feel something. Others do it to punish themselves for something that they've done. The cuts range from little scratches that barely bleed to life threatening cuts or burns. Overall, its a way for someone who doesn't know what to do to express themselves.but the second definition is hilariousNone of these other entries of emo cutters are real they all were probably made by no-lifed steroetypes who don't understand anything about emos or cutters.LOL! Just like this thread!/ A hot bath would get blood to the surface without the humiliation of submitting to a flogging, of course. Why not just proudly proclaim that you get off on the humiliation of being abused?
jfivealive: You're just begging to get spanked!
WeenerGord: jfivealive: You're just begging to get spanked!Oh, some people in this thread are begging for that, but not me. It's Katyamouse, Squiggy, Odd Ball and a few other freaks in this thread that you should be exchanging phone numbers with, nttawwt, Well, there is, but apparantly that's just my opinion, and I'm a big bad troll for suggesting that abuse is bad, mmkay.
Mega Steve: fozziewazzi: I would love to have read a story from a male perspective..."Your honor, I tried to re-ignite my sex life with my wife, but when I asked her to join me in recreating a scene from "Straight to the Ass Vol. 4", she refused. I believe this is unreasonable behavior and grounds for a divorce".How do you think that would have gone over?He would have been crucified by the media. Anyone who watches porn is a dirty pervert and deserves to be institutionalized.
Saruman_W: So, someone doesn't like beating others or being beaten for sexual gratification and this automatically deems them "close minded".. ? Well ok then.
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