If you can read this, either the style sheet didn't load or you have an older browser that doesn't support style sheets. Try clearing your browser cache and refreshing the page.

(Washington Post)   Boys sexually assaulted by women often overlooked, high-fived   (washingtonpost.com) divider line 128
    More: Obvious, Boys sexually, d.c. superior court, child welfare, child sex abuse, sex crimes  
•       •       •

15243 clicks; posted to Main » on 03 Sep 2012 at 3:48 PM (1 year ago)   |  Favorite    |   share:  Share on Twitter share via Email Share on Facebook   more»



128 Comments   (+0 »)
   
View Voting Results: Smartest and Funniest

Archived thread

First | « | 1 | 2 | 3 | » | Last | Show all
 
2012-09-03 02:53:09 PM
" he had seen police and prosecutors "high-five" teenage boys who had been sexually assaulted by women, saying that the boys were "lucky.""

Boys, don't fall for this investigative technique; they're just trying to get you to brag about what happened.
 
2012-09-03 03:43:11 PM
cdn3.hark.com
 
2012-09-03 03:52:42 PM
In that incident, Gamble took advantage of her friend's son, in her friend's apartment, according to court records. When Gamble went to the boy, the teenager reached for a condom and then was sexually assaulted in his own bed.

"Hell yeah, I'm about to get sexually assaulted by this biatch", he thought to himself, smirking
 
2012-09-03 03:53:00 PM
While it does sure sound awesome, most of the time there is psychological damage done to the kids. Obviously most guys would happily take any future "suffering" for being able to brag about banging a cougar.
 
2012-09-03 03:53:35 PM
I'm willing to test this theory out.. A few hundred times

/for scientific purposes
 
2012-09-03 03:53:47 PM
A friend -- yes, really, a friend, not me -- was 3 to 5 years old when his 60-something-year-old babysitter made him shower with her and forced his head into frightening places. Certain, um, smells still skeeve him out.

I don't think that shiat's funny or high-five worthy.
 
2012-09-03 03:54:36 PM
*the elderly babysitter did that repeatedly, not just once. I should have clarified.
 
2012-09-03 03:54:55 PM
Teenage boys rarely report such attacks to police or to close family members, authorities said.

Hmmm? And why would they?
 
2012-09-03 03:55:20 PM

Hankie Fest: A friend -- yes, really, a friend, not me -- was 3 to 5 years old when his 60-something-year-old babysitter made him shower with her and forced his head into frightening places. Certain, um, smells still skeeve him out.

I don't think that shiat's funny or high-five worthy.


Ok.. That just turned my stomach..
 
2012-09-03 03:56:06 PM

Hankie Fest: A friend -- yes, really, a friend, not me -- was 3 to 5 years old when his 60-something-year-old babysitter made him shower with her and forced his head into frightening places. Certain, um, smells still skeeve him out.

I don't think that shiat's funny or high-five worthy.


When it's that age? Most definitely. Here the woman should've been prosecuted.

When it's a teenager? I don't wanna touch the subject.

/However, mental abuse is a real issue also
 
2012-09-03 03:57:31 PM

Hankie Fest: *the elderly babysitter did that repeatedly, not just once. I should have clarified.


I'm guessing therapy had to happen.

/It's sad, really
 
2012-09-03 03:57:33 PM
"Quite a phenomenon. This is Ric Romero,reporting live. Back to you,Stan."
 
2012-09-03 03:59:36 PM
The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.
 
2012-09-03 04:01:10 PM

BizarreMan: The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.


This.
 
2012-09-03 04:01:27 PM

Hankie Fest: A friend -- yes, really, a friend, not me -- was 3 to 5 years old when his 60-something-year-old babysitter made him shower with her and forced his head into frightening places. Certain, um, smells still skeeve him out.

I don't think that shiat's funny or high-five worthy.

 
2012-09-03 04:02:06 PM

BizarreMan: The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.


In a recent thread, a Farker who clearly had some kind of trauma was arguing there's no difference between an 18-year-old doing it with 16-year-old Bristol Palin and an 18-year old doing it with the baby she had. Blew my mind.
 
2012-09-03 04:03:51 PM

BizarreMan: The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.


Like 13 year old girl ass out is another story?

Or the Catholic priest talking about how boys will be sexually aggressive towards adults, and he got blasted for it from the 'eww homo!' crowd?

It doesn't matter if nature says you can screw them and common law for the majority of human history said you can screw them. Our culture says you can't. If a 13 year old is reaching for the condoms, it's up to the adult to maybe applaud them for being safe, but NOT to indulge them sexually.
 
2012-09-03 04:04:38 PM

gimmegimme: BizarreMan: The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.

In a recent thread, a Farker who clearly had some kind of trauma was arguing there's no difference between an 18-year-old doing it with 16-year-old Bristol Palin and an 18-year old doing it with the baby she had. Blew my mind.


Four bucks says your understanding of their argument is garbled. Do you have a link, though?
 
2012-09-03 04:10:44 PM
Which felt worse, the sex with the older woman, or being told later how it was a horrible thing?
 
2012-09-03 04:11:42 PM

styckx: I'm willing to test this theory out.. A few hundred times

/for scientific purposes


Becareful what you wish for...

dybiz.com
 
2012-09-03 04:12:25 PM

ExperianScaresCthulhu: gimmegimme: BizarreMan: The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.

In a recent thread, a Farker who clearly had some kind of trauma was arguing there's no difference between an 18-year-old doing it with 16-year-old Bristol Palin and an 18-year old doing it with the baby she had. Blew my mind.

Four bucks says your understanding of their argument is garbled. Do you have a link, though?


Check starting around page 7. 

//Thank you for your faith in me, by the way...
 
2012-09-03 04:14:16 PM

kidsizedcoffin: Which felt worse, the sex with the older woman, or being told later how it was a horrible thing?


Would you ask that same question if it were a 13 year old girl and an older man? Seriously wondering.
 
2012-09-03 04:15:23 PM
TFA: The woman gave the teenager a glass of fruit juice mixed with vodka, according to court records. Later that evening, according to court records and testimony from a D.C. detective, Gaskins pulled the teenager into her bedroom and sexually assaulted him. Gaskins's children [ages 13, 9 and 4] banged on her bedroom door, crying for their mother to "let him go," according to court records. When Gaskins fell asleep, the teen fled her bedroom.

This story is either laughably false or horrifyingly true. I find it hard to imagine that the kids had any idea what was going on, or that Mrs. Gaskins could maintain the mood with that going on. Well, I can imagine, but I rather not confess to that facet of my imagination.
 
2012-09-03 04:16:00 PM
When I was in Highschool I babysat for a neighbor who sexually assulted me... No, I never did report this crime. Yes, I did keep going back for more, even after her husband almost caught us.
 
2012-09-03 04:16:06 PM
If it is a legitimate strap-on rape, does the boy's body have means to heal the anal tearing?
 
2012-09-03 04:16:08 PM

Brick-House: styckx: I'm willing to test this theory out.. A few hundred times

/for scientific purposes

Becareful what you wish for...

[dybiz.com image 338x321]


DAFUQ?

Lucky I carry this around with me... You need to warn a brotha!

i695.photobucket.com
 
2012-09-03 04:24:03 PM

gimmegimme: ExperianScaresCthulhu: gimmegimme: BizarreMan: The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.

In a recent thread, a Farker who clearly had some kind of trauma was arguing there's no difference between an 18-year-old doing it with 16-year-old Bristol Palin and an 18-year old doing it with the baby she had. Blew my mind.

Four bucks says your understanding of their argument is garbled. Do you have a link, though?

Check starting around page 7. 

//Thank you for your faith in me, by the way...


Damn, that's five pages. Aight, thanks man.
 
2012-09-03 04:25:07 PM
My mother was a dancer and model during the late 1940s throughout the 1950s. After she married and had my brothers and I, some of her old female friends would come along once in awhile. Whenever mom turned her back, her friends went from being sweet old gals to apex predators in a heartbeat.

My one brother has never been able to sustain any kind of lasting intimate relationship. My other brother used to be a satyr until he got help. And me? Out of an hundred women, I'll always unerringly pick the one that was raped by her grandfather, forced into threesomes by her mother, or was gangraped repeatedly by bikers.

Just leave the bloody kids alone, please.
 
2012-09-03 04:26:00 PM
That's because people with lilac walls tent to be women

and women can get laid anytime they want.
 
2012-09-03 04:28:26 PM
Solution, lower the age of consent for men while keeping the age of consent for women the same.

That'll solve quite a few issues, right?
 
2012-09-03 04:28:46 PM
Niceee.
 
2012-09-03 04:28:48 PM
"It's rape because the law says it is rape,"

He said rape, twice.

/rape rape
 
2012-09-03 04:30:13 PM
"We were meant to be, I know it! How else could sex be that incredible?"
images2.wikia.nocookie.net
"...Ike madea nano!"
 
2012-09-03 04:30:26 PM
It's just strange that the practical standard here for whether it was "wrong" is solely physical attractiveness. If she's pretty and under a certain weight, it's all "....nice!" and nobody even wants to take the concept of prosecution seriously.
Otherwise, it falls back to "burn the witch", and the consequences will be 100x worse.

Of course the law doesn't SAY that. But this has gone down this way so many times it's more or less predictable.

Speaking with "reaching" logic, when you've got people doing "the same thing" and only jail the unattractive ones, in a sense they're in jail because they're ugly.
 
2012-09-03 04:30:27 PM

Coelacanth: My mother was a dancer and model during the late 1940s throughout the 1950s. After she married and had my brothers and I, some of her old female friends would come along once in awhile. Whenever mom turned her back, her friends went from being sweet old gals to apex predators in a heartbeat.

My one brother has never been able to sustain any kind of lasting intimate relationship. My other brother used to be a satyr until he got help. And me? Out of an hundred women, I'll always unerringly pick the one that was raped by her grandfather, forced into threesomes by her mother, or was gangraped repeatedly by bikers.

Just leave the bloody kids alone, please.


Your brother was Torgo?
 
2012-09-03 04:32:20 PM

T-Servo: kidsizedcoffin: Which felt worse, the sex with the older woman, or being told later how it was a horrible thing?

Would you ask that same question if it were a 13 year old girl and an older man? Seriously wondering.


Honestly, I think it all depends on how it went down. Still shouldn't be happening, but I really have to wonder which side the mental trauma is coming from, the sexual encounter, or the later condemnation of the act by others if there was consent by both parties, even if the consent isn't recognized by law.
 
2012-09-03 04:32:36 PM

Oznog: It's just strange that the practical standard here for whether it was "wrong" is solely physical attractiveness. If she's pretty and under a certain weight, it's all "....nice!" and nobody even wants to take the concept of prosecution seriously.
Otherwise, it falls back to "burn the witch", and the consequences will be 100x worse.

Of course the law doesn't SAY that. But this has gone down this way so many times it's more or less predictable.

Speaking with "reaching" logic, when you've got people doing "the same thing" and only jail the unattractive ones, in a sense they're in jail because they're ugly.


Physical apparence could make the difference between having consent and liking it and the "opposite".

Such is life.
 
2012-09-03 04:32:42 PM
lifeinbkln.com
 
2012-09-03 04:33:00 PM

intelligent comment below: While it does sure sound awesome, most of the time there is psychological damage done to the kids. Obviously most guys would happily take any future "suffering" for being able to brag about banging a cougar.


I suspect that much of the psychological damage is a result of parents (usually mother) and law enforcement telling him that the consensual act he participated in was not voluntary and that he was assaulted. Additionally, that he is going to be forced to testify against his sex partner and be embarrassed.
 
2012-09-03 04:38:01 PM

Oznog: It's just strange that the practical standard here for whether it was "wrong" is solely physical attractiveness.


I must have missed the part where someone argued this seriously.
 
2012-09-03 04:38:32 PM

CygnusDarius: BizarreMan: The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.

This.


2nded, 3rded, whatever it is by the time you read this.
 
2012-09-03 04:38:51 PM

bhcompy: Coelacanth: My mother was a dancer and model during the late 1940s throughout the 1950s. After she married and had my brothers and I, some of her old female friends would come along once in awhile. Whenever mom turned her back, her friends went from being sweet old gals to apex predators in a heartbeat.

My one brother has never been able to sustain any kind of lasting intimate relationship. My other brother used to be a satyr until he got help. And me? Out of an hundred women, I'll always unerringly pick the one that was raped by her grandfather, forced into threesomes by her mother, or was gangraped repeatedly by bikers.

Just leave the bloody kids alone, please.

Your brother was Torgo?


The master would not approve.
 
2012-09-03 04:39:34 PM
The primary case described in this article confuses me. It seems as though the only real case was the 14-year old telling people about it. How did they prosecute that? Pressure the woman until she confessed?

I just don't understand how these no-witness/no-evidence cases go anywhere.
 
2012-09-03 04:40:57 PM

hstein3: The primary case described in this article confuses me. It seems as though the only real case was the 14-year old telling people about it. How did they prosecute that? Pressure the woman until she confessed?

I just don't understand how these no-witness/no-evidence cases go anywhere.


Because of career-minded prosecutors, that's how.
 
2012-09-03 04:43:13 PM
Gaskins, 32, pleaded guilty to one count of first-degree child sexual abuse, entering an Alford plea, meaning she admitted there was enough evidence to convict her but not conceding that she committed the crime. She is scheduled for sentencing in November and could face about 7½ years in prison.

Huh. I didn't know it was possible to say "I didn't do it, but go ahead and convict me anyway" in court.
 
2012-09-03 04:43:55 PM
When I think back to all of the teachers I wanted to fark the dog shiat out of, I'm amazed at how low my standards were back then.
 
2012-09-03 04:44:26 PM

reillan: bhcompy: Coelacanth: My mother was a dancer and model during the late 1940s throughout the 1950s. After she married and had my brothers and I, some of her old female friends would come along once in awhile. Whenever mom turned her back, her friends went from being sweet old gals to apex predators in a heartbeat.

My one brother has never been able to sustain any kind of lasting intimate relationship. My other brother used to be a satyr until he got help. And me? Out of an hundred women, I'll always unerringly pick the one that was raped by her grandfather, forced into threesomes by her mother, or was gangraped repeatedly by bikers.

Just leave the bloody kids alone, please.

Your brother was Torgo?

The master would not approve.


His wife didn't approve. My brother tried to bed all the women playing Rio Rita at the Rio in Las Vegas and guess who got cleaned out after the divorce hearing?
 
2012-09-03 04:45:57 PM

rubi_con_man: That's because people with lilac walls tent to be women

and women can get laid anytime they want.


Wrong thread buddy, try to keep up.
 
2012-09-03 04:46:27 PM

kidsizedcoffin: Honestly, I think it all depends on how it went down. Still shouldn't be happening, but I really have to wonder which side the mental trauma is coming from, the sexual encounter, or the later condemnation of the act by others if there was consent by both parties, even if the consent isn't recognized by law.


The reason I ask is because those same relativistic arguments are always used by pedophiles- especially the incestuous ones. ("I love my daughter, and anally raping her is how I express that to her.") For teenagers we throw on cultural layers, which very mistakenly assumes that a 13-year old boy is more mature and self-possessed than a 13 year old girl. Which is a load of BS. If we assume a 13-year old girl can't consent, neither can a boy.
 
2012-09-03 04:48:45 PM
BizarreMan

The babysitter with the 3-5 year old is incredibly wrong. The 13 year old boy who reaches for the condoms is another story.

Would you say that if it was a thirteen year old girl? Sex with young teenagers is wrong, no matter what the genders are.

Leave. The Kids. Alone.

/feminist
 
Displayed 50 of 128 comments

First | « | 1 | 2 | 3 | » | Last | Show all

View Voting Results: Smartest and Funniest


This thread is archived, and closed to new comments.

Continue Farking
Submit a Link »






Report