MorePeasPlease: "It was empowering, to have that kind of control," she recalls. "Guys were texting and calling me all the time, and I was turning them down. I really enjoyed it! I had these options to hook up if I wanted them, and no one would judge me for it."
AverageAmericanGuy: If feminist progress is predicated on women rejecting romance and real relationships, then it is an ethos that is useless and dangerous to its adherents.
Mugato: Lsherm: //never saw that woman again, but I was so drunk I couldn't remember what she looked like the next dayAnd if she was drunk too, you could have been brought up on rape charges./maybe not republican rape but rape nonetheless//said rape twice
AaronSynn: I love the so-called feminists who feel enpowered by emulating the worst traits of the frat boys they complain about.
BarkingUnicorn: I think the hookup culture makes sense. One should always start with the simple things, then move up to the complex ones. Sex is simple. Relationships are complex.Sexual relationships are quantum.
MayoSlather: An increase in promiscuous activity by women is an outlet for the cognitive dissonce. It's letting the man be the man in spurts without sacrificing their independence. This mentality is flawed and a detriment to the end game of finding a partner to share a meaningful relationship.
hundreddollarman: That was a thoughtful, well-written and informative post. What the hell are you doing on Fark?/Seriously, that was a really good post.
Ishkur: I blame internet porn. No, hear me out.It's time to address the growing influence that legions of misogynistic videos are having on the newer generations.It's not just the sheer availability and volume of porn nowadays, it's the intensity. Sure, we all had Playboys stashed under our beds, but developing a sexual appetite through softcore magazine spreads is not equivalent to today's teenagers being sexually weaned on Brazilian bukakke beastiality.Online porn has effectively desensitized teenagers from understanding what true intimacy really is. It has made teenage girls more experimentative at a time when they probably shouldn't be and it has made boys a lot more misogynistic and demanding.There has been a noted rise in teenage girls seeking their first sexual gratification from their friends (the so-called lesbian phase) because all the boys in their schools are absolute monsters. Virgin teen girls are nervous and apprehensive and vulnerable when they become sexually active. They want their first experience to be with someone they trust, and teenage boys seem to be not that interested in intimacy or anything meaningful. They want to get off and move on, in the most demeaning way possible, just like the videos they watch every night.By the time they get to college, the girls are basically competing with Redtube and Bangbus. They must put out or the guys don't care. And they must be lascivious, nasty, filthy little cum dumpsters willing to deepthroat a full load or no guy will pay any interest in them. It's all very cruel and atavistic, and probably would not be so extreme without such easy access to hardcore porn.
taurusowner: This is why men "have to" by women drinks at the bar, pay for the first few dates, etc. The control has flowed to the female. They know it and love it.
Oh_Enough_Already: Curiously, at the same time, so much as saying "Lovely day today isn't it?" so a woman who doesn't find you attractive can be sufficient to merit a sexual harassment suit, the loss of your job, etc.
PonceAlyosha: This is true. Even my unattractive female friends juggle two or three boys at a time. It seems to me that it may be men who are the naturally monogamous ones.
taurusowner: MorePeasPlease: "It was empowering, to have that kind of control," she recalls. "Guys were texting and calling me all the time, and I was turning them down. I really enjoyed it! I had these options to hook up if I wanted them, and no one would judge me for it."THAT is the heart of the issue. They enjoy the attention, the feeling of being better than the men because they know they are on the pedestal and call the shots. That's all this really comes down to. It's not even really about the sex, or relationships or lack of. College girls figured out that they way they can obtain the most attention and control is by acting like this.
Old Smokie: I wonder if the college guys these gals are farking feel as if they are empowering the women?
Mugato: And if she was drunk too, you could have been brought up on rape charges
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