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2012-07-27 02:00:09 AM

ShawnDoc: What they don't mention is many (most) of these women were prostitutes in Thailand to start with. The number of men that fall in love with "bar girls" is amazing. Not to mention those that go there specifically looking to recruit prostitutes for their shady massage parlors back home.


The thread should have just stopped at your post, man.

/Dude: insecure, strikes out with the chicks back home because he's a loser who thinks chicks are stuck up for not worshipping the ground he walks on
//Golddigger: Smells a sucker/is in such a broke-down situation that a First World Loser is a Third World Adonis
///Dude + Golddigger: mutually satisfying business arrangement 'love'
 
2012-07-27 02:25:35 AM
www.queerty.com

/I know, Filipina, but still...
 
2012-07-27 02:26:50 AM

0Icky0: Going to pass this to my Thai wife. We could use the extra income.


who says romance is dead.
 
2012-07-27 02:41:29 AM
i.qkme.me

/My Thai girlfriend says that a small penis shouldn't matter in a loving relationship.
//I know she's right.
///But I still wish that she didn't have one.
////Burma Shave.
 
2012-07-27 02:43:44 AM

Crudbucket: Thailand had a lot more cynical attitude towards tourists and their tourist money. If anyone is interested in going to Cambodia, try to go in the next 5 years or so, before they get jaded.


Chiang Mai is still nice in Thailand. And pretty much any place that's off the tourist path is good too.

Avoid Phuket (especially Patong), Pattaya, Samui, and Bangkok. Too many scams, too much corruption, and too much organized crime.
 
2012-07-27 02:46:55 AM
When I was stationed at Ft. Hood, a lot of the Korean wives walked the streets for cash.

In Korea, the white girls made the dough.

Exotic sells...
 
2012-07-27 02:54:33 AM
www.kingsofthailand.com
 
2012-07-27 03:29:23 AM
ExperianScaresCthulhu:/Dude: insecure, strikes out with the chicks back home because he's a loser who thinks chicks are stuck up for not worshipping the ground he walks on

I haven't seen that yet, for sure. I have run into a handful of fellow punters who seemed to have farked up attitudes that would be deal-breakers for the girls back home (I'm thinking of the manager of the hotel I stayed at last week. He's a wiry, pub-brawling Liverpudlian who invited me to drink with him on the porch when I was coming back from the beach. Dude was already shiat-faced at 11pm and had two joints laid out at the ready by his glass and proudly told me that he preferred living in SE Asia "where women know their place". Right in front of my girl, who didn't understand him, but still.) Most of the guys seem to be normal middle-aged bachelors who are whoring because they want to shag beautiful young women. If anything they are more mild-mannered than your average American bar-crawler, but that goes with being middle-aged.

//Golddigger: Smells a sucker/is in such a broke-down situation that a First World Loser is a Third World Adonis

Every whore has a central problem in her life which is the ultimate reason for whoring. In SE Asia 9 times out of 10 it's a baby. What she mostly is striving for is not riches nor even to move to a wealthy country but (in the short term) to feed the damn baby and (in the long term) to get a husband so she can quit whoring, be respectable in the eyes of society, and get out from under the thumb of her family and all the other people in her life who are squeezing her for cash. (Want to renew your scorn for humanity? Pay a whore an extra-generous tip and watch her run right out and buy a case of beer with it and ship it off to her dad.)

That's not to say their priorities don't shift once they do marry a customer. And there is a minority (the very beautiful ones) who may be thinking down the road in classic gold-digger fashion.

///Dude + Golddigger: mutually satisfying business arrangement 'love'

Another obnoxious Englishman who was homesteading in SE Asia told me that in colloquial Thai there is no difference between "loving" someone and "taking care of" her (which in the case of bar girls means giving them money). In their minds, according to his theory, "giving money"=="love".
 
2012-07-27 03:36:05 AM
www.loveofasiavietnam.com
 
2012-07-27 03:36:42 AM
Won't be so funny if the US economy gets so bad we're pimping our ladies out to Chinese sex tourists. Thanks a lot Bush.
 
2012-07-27 03:37:11 AM
www.sarakadee.net
 
2012-07-27 03:37:59 AM
www.sweetsingles.com
 
2012-07-27 03:38:41 AM
thailandwomen.org
 
2012-07-27 03:39:32 AM
4.bp.blogspot.com
 
2012-07-27 03:40:43 AM
www.prettythaigirls.com
 
2012-07-27 03:41:37 AM
farm3.static.flickr.com
 
2012-07-27 03:44:19 AM
www.penthousehotel.com
 
2012-07-27 03:46:17 AM

krackpipe: Won't be so funny if the US economy gets so bad we're pimping our ladies out to Chinese sex tourists.


People willing to pay to fark a white girl can go to at least a dozen countries where it's easier to find a good-looking one. The Chinese (and the Arabs and the Japanese) have been doing that since the Fall of the Wall.

That said, if you're young I'd bet a large sum that you'll see it in your lifetime.
 
2012-07-27 03:47:46 AM
us.acidcow.com
 
2012-07-27 03:49:50 AM
Funny story:

My family is 1st generation Thai-American. So my sister married a Scotch Canadian guy, and they went to Thailand one year for vacation. Well, they're in some hotel lobby, and some pub there and some English guy is going off about all the tail he gets from the local women, and asks my sister's husband if she was his for the evening. Her husband responds "We're married" and the English guy starts spouting how you're not supposed to marry "them."

Ha.
 
2012-07-27 03:58:24 AM

ShannonKW: krackpipe: Won't be so funny if the US economy gets so bad we're pimping our ladies out to Chinese sex tourists.

People willing to pay to fark a white girl can go to at least a dozen countries where it's easier to find a good-looking one. The Chinese (and the Arabs and the Japanese) have been doing that since the Fall of the Wall.

That said, if you're young I'd bet a large sum that you'll see it in your lifetime.


What do you mean "I'll see it?" I lived in Las Vegas for a year. I've already seen Asian tourists coming over to funk white girls.
 
2012-07-27 04:01:14 AM

relaxitsjustme: [farm3.static.flickr.com image 333x500]


Race queens don't count as they don't have ladybits. It's just smooth, perfect skin where nipples and scooch should be, just like the mannequins from which, incidentally, they are genetically descended. They don't poop either, and if you watch their videos closely you'll notice that they only take tiny sips of fluids. This is because when they fill up with organic material they have to be "recycled", a process which, I'm told, is horrifying to observe. This, in turn, is why visitors are barred from the back lots of polyethylene plants in the wee hours of the morning.

Their screams sound like little toy whistles heard remote.

The horror.
 
2012-07-27 04:04:03 AM

highwayrun: That said, if you're young I'd bet a large sum that you'll see it in your lifetime.

What do you mean "I'll see it?" I lived in Las Vegas for a year. I've already seen Asian tourists coming over to funk white girls.


There ya go, then. Ma money plz.
 
2012-07-27 04:12:54 AM

ReapTheChaos: [www.kingsofthailand.com image 350x467]


That they're Japanese?

/ can't trust clip art or pr0n sites
// (fooling myself I can I.D. asians)
 
2012-07-27 04:29:33 AM

Aamelrons: stiletto_the_wise: Came for the many hot Thai pix, leaving... unsatisfied.

what a Thai prostitute may look like

[2.bp.blogspot.com image 443x632]


What a Thai prostitute may actually look like
preapism.com
 
2012-07-27 04:31:00 AM

relaxitsjustme: [www.penthousehotel.com image 300x500]


That one's a dude for sure.
 
2012-07-27 04:31:13 AM

Gawdzila: Aamelrons: stiletto_the_wise: Came for the many hot Thai pix, leaving... unsatisfied.

what a Thai prostitute may look like

[2.bp.blogspot.com image 443x632]

What a Thai prostitute may actually look like
[preapism.com image 399x600]


That dude is due for some highlight maintenence.
 
2012-07-27 04:38:10 AM

Apos: If they were Muay Thai wives,such a fate would be easily avoided.....


FTFY
 
2012-07-27 05:14:22 AM
Can't open link- when I was I Thailand was told 2000 women for every man- and some of the "family" shows would be banned here- women and animals- sad
I did luv Thailand- selfish men need to ne nice to the ladies! (I've heard horror stories I can't post here of selfish bastards taking advantage of honest Thai women)
 
2012-07-27 06:25:01 AM

xl5150: If they didn't want to be prostitutes, they should have worked hard in school and actually made something of themselves.


0/10
Time to get a new schtick.
 
2012-07-27 06:57:06 AM

ShawnDoc: What they don't mention is many (most) of these women were prostitutes in Thailand to start with. The number of men that fall in love with "bar girls" is amazing. Not to mention those that go there specifically looking to recruit prostitutes for their shady massage parlors back home.


I live in Thailand and I came here to make both those points but you beat me to it.
 
2012-07-27 07:20:05 AM
Instead of whoring they can always use their MMA skills and be Thai Fighters....
 
2012-07-27 08:00:19 AM

JaCiNto: Thai Fighters....


img198.imageshack.us
 
2012-07-27 08:30:23 AM
JaCiNto:

Instead of whoring they can always use their MMA skills and be Thai Fighters....

Was that the first time you told a Thai pun, or is it your regular Thai shtick?


/ going to Thailand in october, so kick, replies
// has no intention of coming back with a wife or a STD
 
2012-07-27 08:36:29 AM

svenge: Apos: If they were Muy Thai wives,such a fate would be easily avoided.....

How much more Thai do they have to be?


The answer is none. None more Thai.

/Not sure that really worked.
//Posting anyway.
 
2012-07-27 09:17:21 AM
pics.mobygames.com

Someone has been playing too much fallout 2

[from box]
Sex and Romance after the bomb:
Fall in love, get married, and pimp your spouse for a little extra chump-change.
Hey, it's a dark and dangerous world.

/when I did a porno my charisma wasn't good enough to be a star. I had to get a job as a fluffer.
//fluffing someone causes you to become 'poisoned'
///What the hell is in that cooch? Must be worse than Wasteland Herpes.
////Does anyone remember when the back of the box was dedicated to telling you all about the game instead of just one screenshot of a CG sequence, a blurb like 'fight lots of monsters' and 3/4ths of the back dedicated to legal crap?
 
2012-07-27 09:45:52 AM
I never understood the attraction to Thai hookers. Give me an eastern European woman anyday.
 
2012-07-27 09:47:09 AM
In the US, quite a few of the early settler's wives wound up as prostitutes when their husbands died on the trek westward.

i.imgur.com
 
2012-07-27 09:49:53 AM
cook me some Thai food biatches!
 
2012-07-27 10:13:50 AM

xl5150: I never understood the attraction to Thai hookers. Give me an eastern European woman anyday.


Sweet disposition and sense of humor with absolutely no sexual hang-ups. A Thai sees your horniness as no more sinful than the fact that you want dinner. The idea of sex==sin has no traction among them, so they are light-hearted and casual about the whole thing and there's a lot of joking and laughing and fun with them, whereas your Euro whore tends to be depressive and burdened with the idea that it's all "wrong" and she's a wicked slutty slut and you are an evil satanic horndog for hiring her.

East Asians tend to have a nice butt too due to their wide hips. White girls often have man-butt.
 
2012-07-27 10:52:19 AM

xl5150: I never understood the attraction to Thai hookers. Give me an eastern European woman anyday.


To each their own, but they are smaller, and thus easier to cage.
 
2012-07-27 10:53:05 AM
Oh, and what ShannonKW said.
 
2012-07-27 10:58:11 AM
Some guys like eating pad thai everyday.
 
2012-07-27 11:18:20 AM

ShannonKW: ...proudly told me that he preferred living in SE Asia "where women know their place". Right in front of my girl, who didn't understand him, but still ...

...Englishman who was homesteading in SE Asia told me that in colloquial Thai there is no difference between "loving" someone and "taking care of" her (which in the case of bar girls means giving them money). In their minds, according to his theory...


Shannon, thank you for explaining more about what's happening over there, but your post just underscores what's disturbing about all this. Yeah, the first dude is an asshole, but .. did you explain to 'your girl' what he said? What was her opinion? Did she tell the dude she agreed with him? Did she tell the dude she did not agree with him? Or was she expected to just .. be 'dumb' (as in mute)?

What was her opinion afterwards, if she didn't say anything, when you talked about it?

As for the second example, why would you take the word of an English dude? It's not his country. He will never be Thai. It's not his language. You live there. If the English dude said that, then I dont know, I'd like to hear the followupof what Thais believe, of what Thais say about their own language. You can't really trust the word of a sex tourist. He's there to be an intentional mark, and his experience is going to be colored through the prism of being that mark.

He's not just like, he *is* the dude whose only experiences with women are with strippers. His only point of reference for how relationships with women would be filtered through the business contract that is stripper-dom, and that can never be avoided. But a stripper-client relationship is not a real relationship. Dudes who only date strippers are fked in the head, just like the strippers usually have 'issues'.

So, you live there. What is your experience from what Thai people say about themselves? especially without the sex tourism aspect. What is real Thai minus sex tourism like?
 
2012-07-27 11:32:02 AM

ShannonKW: xl5150: I never understood the attraction to Thai hookers. Give me an eastern European woman anyday.

Sweet disposition and sense of humor with absolutely no sexual hang-ups. A Thai sees your horniness as no more sinful than the fact that you want dinner. The idea of sex==sin has no traction among them, so they are light-hearted and casual about the whole thing and there's a lot of joking and laughing and fun with them, whereas your Euro whore tends to be depressive and burdened with the idea that it's all "wrong" and she's a wicked slutty slut and you are an evil satanic horndog for hiring her.

East Asians tend to have a nice butt too due to their wide hips. White girls often have man-butt.


They said that same shiat about quadroons, octoroons and captives just off the boat. Anyway, does the European whore know that there is something better out there, which she could be doing and using her education for? Does she speak her clients language, verbal and body-wise, better than the non-European whose clientele is mostly European?

What is the difference, education wise, between the European woman and the Asian woman who finds herself turning tricks?

If the European woman acts like she's being punished, is it possible that it's because the European man acts like he's punishing her? Light-heartedness is a two way street. Keeping people ignorant of true intentions also plays a part. The dude in Dadoody's story above said 'you're not supposed to marry them'.... do the prostitutes he solicit know that? When there's competition for someone seen as 'rich', the competitors are going to do everything in their power to appeal to what they believe the 'rich' person wants... they'll do stuff they wouldn't let their own mates of their own ethnicity get away with.

Is the goal of the Thai whore really just to have fun and fk and get paid? or is it the deadly serious business of finding a permanent provider? You said it yourself, above: "What she mostly is striving for is not riches nor even to move to a wealthy country but (in the short term) to feed the damn baby and (in the long term) to get a husband so she can quit whoring, be respectable in the eyes of society, and get out from under the thumb of her family and all the other people in her life who are squeezing her for cash. (Want to renew your scorn for humanity? Pay a whore an extra-generous tip and watch her run right out and buy a case of beer with it and ship it off to her dad.)"

Guess what, homie: that's a gold-digger. Eyes on the prize, and the prize is to get paid. If she had any value beyond being a life-support system for a vagina, she'd be out there getting that value. But she is not valued primarily for those 'other things'. There is everything natural in such a relationship -- and nothing at all. It's just primal chimpanzee-ancestor shiat.

I'm being rhetorical with all this, of course. My mind is made up. The fundamental nature of man and woman can not be changed. Just some relationships are more blatant about it.
 
2012-07-27 02:23:38 PM

ExperianScaresCthulhu: Yeah, the first dude is an asshole, but .. did you explain to 'your girl' what he said? What was her opinion? Did she tell the dude she agreed with him? Did she tell the dude she did not agree with him? Or was she expected to just .. be 'dumb' (as in mute)?

What was her opinion afterwards, if she didn't say anything, when you talked about it?


Why would I explain? For one thing she speaks about 20 words of English, and two of them are "boom-boom". Even if I could explain that the man was an asshole, I'm sure she worked that out the moment she saw him. It didn't occur to me that she might have wanted to know precisely what species of asshole she was looking at, and it still doesn't.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: As for the second example, why would you take the word of an English dude?


Dude was an expat living in Thailand long enough to be fluent in the language. Oftentimes outsiders have keener insights on a country than the natives. There are things about the US that I never noticed until I started living abroad and things about Arabia that my native friends tell me hadn't occurred to them until I pointed them out.

I don't live in Thailand, BTW. I am just visiting Cambodia for the Summer.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: But a stripper-client relationship is not a real relationship.


This statement only makes sense if one guesses what you regard a "real relationship". Depending on what it means it says something about your ideals and not much else.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: What is the difference, education wise, between the European woman and the Asian woman who finds herself turning tricks?


I haven't noticed any.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: Anyway, does the European whore know that there is something better out there, which she could be doing and using her education for? Does she speak her clients language, verbal and body-wise, better than the non-European whose clientele is mostly European?


Being a whore doesn't make you ignorant. It's not like they're waiting for someone to tell them that they could be doing data entry instead. As to communication, the Asians do far better building a quick rapport with customers, whereas the Euros I've seen seem to want to build an emotional wall and keep it mechanical.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: If the European woman acts like she's being punished, is it possible that it's because the European man acts like he's punishing her?


I wouldn't know. I doubt it. I think it's because all society punishes her. She's a criminal and a sinner and she needs to be sent to jail and she needs people who are wiser than her to educate her about career opportunities in data entry. East Asia doesn't look at its whores quite that way.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: Is the goal of the Thai whore really just to have fun and fk and get paid? or is it the deadly serious business of finding a permanent provider? You said it yourself, above


There's a lot of variability. My experience in SE Asia is that most of the girls I see have a baby somewhere. These girls generally want out of the hotseat real bad. Very beautiful girls, however, often appear to be into it for money and high living, and very young ones are pressed into it by family.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: The dude in Dadoody's story above said 'you're not supposed to marry them'.... do the prostitutes he solicit know that?


Dude, some of them may be stupid, but they ain't retarded.

ExperianScaresCthulhu: When there's competition for someone seen as 'rich', the competitors are going to do everything in their power to appeal to what they believe the 'rich' person wants... they'll do stuff they wouldn't let their own mates of their own ethnicity get away with.


I haven't seen evidence of this, though it seems sensible in principle. Initially girls who are interested in the same customer will compete on the level of flirting and charm, but once he settles on the one he likes the others bugger off peaceably. What acts they are willing to perform seems to depend on what they're comfortable with, not your wealth.
 
2012-07-27 03:43:34 PM

gerbilpox: ReapTheChaos: [www.kingsofthailand.com image 350x467]

That they're Japanese?

/ can't trust clip art or pr0n sites
// (fooling myself I can I.D. asians)


I thought it was kind of odd it had a Japanese girl on the cover too. That's an actual book BTW, probably not very good if they couldn't even get an actual Thai girl to put on the cover.
 
2012-07-27 05:48:44 PM

Gawdzila: Aamelrons: stiletto_the_wise: Came for the many hot Thai pix, leaving... unsatisfied.

what a Thai prostitute may look like

[2.bp.blogspot.com image 443x632]

What a Thai prostitute may actually look like


So was mine
 
2012-07-27 08:44:57 PM
I happens here, too, folks. I work at an immigration law firm, and the stuff I see makes me shudder. Not just Thailand - the Philippines are also a huge source of similar situations, and in one case, frakking Kenya. The guy decided he'd go over, get a woman from a persecuted ethnic minority whose options were him or living in a refugee camp the rest of her life, brings her back, and literally treats her like a slave - gets a dog he sics on her, and basically recreates the worst bits of prebellum South (including having a white woman he treats like a wife).

Lots of guys go over and bring back women, and then treat them like shiat. I do my best to help these women pick up the pieces.

\IANAL - just an assistant
\\ But the guys who do this should be shot. Especially when they mess with the women's immigration status and then threaten to get them deported if the women disobey.
 
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