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(Oregon Live)   Signs that your boyfriend you met online isn't Mr. Right: On your first date he takes you to Wendy's. And then later forces you to have sex with strangers in a motel room for money   (oregonlive.com) divider line 21
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2012-06-27 08:46:36 PM
3 votes:
Um...the cop who found her took her to Wendy's

Major fail headline, subby.

/signs that your reading comprehension may need improvement...
2012-06-27 08:24:42 PM
3 votes:
subby fails at reading comprehension
2012-06-27 08:52:16 PM
2 votes:
Signs that subby didn't RFTA: the cop took her to Wendy's.


/kids these days
2012-06-27 08:15:48 PM
2 votes:
A Sandy woman?

...

Any other story, I'd make a joke about that. This one...I just can't.

/turns in Fark card
2012-06-27 08:11:30 PM
2 votes:
Actually the cop took her to Wendys, presumably because that redhaired girl told him to.
2012-06-28 01:02:46 AM
1 votes:

dickfreckle: RealAmericanHero: freewill: I realize you're almost certainly trolling, but just in case, the problem here is that you just told her you are: a guy who hangs out in shiatholes.

Not trolling at all. I'm sorry you're stuck back in the 50s where doing it one way was the only option and everyone had to put on an act to get people to like them.

I'm not questioning your first date policies. It's your life. I'm just wondering why your posts in this thread are so...vehement. They kinda sound like the muted rants of a guy who's not had much luck with women.

Perhaps that's not the case. But it's definitely how it sounds.




Didn't sound like that to me,.. Sounded like someone who has little patience for money-grubbing chicks who act like a first date ought to to be $50 a plate. Sure, Wendy's is an extreme, but I've heard girls get all "omg! Can you believe...?!?!" because some guy took them out to a casual $10-15 a plate place. And I agree with him... sorting those girls out of the mix right off the bat is one of the best favors you can do for yourself.

Had a debate about this with a buddy recently, because I also said that after "a date" turns into "dating" a chick ought to start kicking a few bucks and picking up a few checks now and then... or at least offering.

He got all "I believe it's a man's place to blah, blah, blah," and it was pretty hard not to say "yeah, and look how well it worked out for you." (his ex-wife picked him clean in just under five years and when the finances got rocky, she ditched him and bolted for her well-to-do boss' bed so fast she left skid-marks.)

I like women who see a relationship as a partnership, not me putting them on a pedestal and throwing rose petals at their feet. I'll do that as an personal expression of love and affection... but not as an obligation to fulfill an unreasonable sense of entitlement.
2012-06-27 09:43:55 PM
1 votes:

HighlanderRPI: In other news, the new Wendy's commercial chick is hot

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I like how they replaced the real Wendy (Who is so very fat) with a younger, slimmer, more attractive redhead. That's just good marketing.
2012-06-27 09:17:19 PM
1 votes:
That, or there is much more to the story than meets the eye. I mean, if someone beats you and forces you to have sex against your will with a couple of guys you never met (and maybe had also a rapey vibe, to be into this thing) and then proceeds to tell you to leave the room you are paying for and only come back if you prostituted yourself to earn X amount of dollars, when you find yourself out in the street all by yourself you simply don't go prostituting yourself to give that man the money. You either get a gun, or call someone who has a gun, which includes calling the cops on him.

So, I don't buy this story. Alice in wonderland has a more real vibe than this.
2012-06-27 09:14:31 PM
1 votes:
Fuh.... The dude's a scumbag. Total POS who deserves to eat salad in prison for ever and ever. However, the woman is clearly an idiot. I'm not "blaming the victim" because he never should have put her in this situation in the first place, but she's a grown-ass woman, not some confused 18 yo retard with poor self esteem and braces who got rolled by some older manipulator. This is totally ridiculous. I have to wonder if she didn't go into this life somewhat voluntarily (maybe "hesitatingly" or something) and then realized "Oh shiat, I'm not making as much money as I thought, and being treated like trash by strangers isn't as okay as I thought it would be"...

Who knows. I'm sure this will get me all flamed for being "misogynist", but geez-luiz, what's wrong with these women...
2012-06-27 09:11:06 PM
1 votes:

Fano: What if he got busy in the Burger King bathroom?


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2012-06-27 09:06:06 PM
1 votes:
RealAmericanHero
SmartestFunniest 2012-06-27 08:55:06 PM
That still comes from the 50s mentality. It doesn't have to be the man's obligation to choose a place and it doesn't have to be the woman's obligation to go there. There are actually things like discussing it with each other and coming to a mutual decision, and that's the approach I support. To me it doesn't matter if it's Wendy's or whatever, because that's really not the point of the exercise.


I don't really disagree. However, when I was single and actively dating, that was in the Bay Area. Supposed to be a lot of feminist, left in politics, liberated gals, right? But, in my limited experience, gals told me they wanted a guy to be decisive with decisions. They want the guy to pick up the check (although they may act like they will pay for the meal or the first coffee or drinks) or the entire tab for the evening. To be the stereotypical gentleman. Etc. etc. It wasn't just persons I dated, but my female friends said the same thing.

For the most part, they weren't in a rush to get married, and they were in their mid-late 20's and have professional careers (for the most part). But, they still had what you call a "50's mentality". Is this guy I am going out with, responsible, have a decent living and can pay the bills? The only point about Wendys is that it is a subtle turnoff. We could meet at Starbucks or some other coffee shop and I walk away paying for her coffee only which is far less than a meal at Wendys, but there you have it. Perception.

But that's just my experience. Of course, yours may be very different.
2012-06-27 08:52:23 PM
1 votes:
freewill SmartestFunniest 2012-06-27 08:29:24 PM
I realize you're almost certainly trolling, but just in case, the problem here is that you just told her you are: a guy who hangs out in shiatholes.

Taking someone out for dinner on a first date is a poor choice anyway, because the odds are high that you won't click and you'll just have to sit there until you awkwardly turn down dessert and breath a heavy sigh of relief that it's over. Coffee or drinks. You can go somewhere decent without wasting a bunch of time and money, you have a polite exit if it obviously doesn't work, and you can easily turn it into a longer date if it does.


This. Also, movies are a bad idea for a 1st date, unless you already know that person well (friends, coworkers, etc).

IMHO, the point of a first date is to talk and see if you can stand each other. Action would be cool too, but its not the primary point. If you click, you can wait till the next date. Actually from my experience, gals kind of like the fact that you aren't trying to get into their knickers on the 1st date and they'll be down for something by the 2nd date (often).

As for Wendys or any fast food. No. For me, that's like when you're already dating and she's already pretty much cool with anything you do. I'm sorry, but on the first few dates, that makes you look like you have zero taste, cheap and/or poor.
2012-06-27 08:46:28 PM
1 votes:
She told police that while dating, Lauka had told her he had just gotten out of prison and was kicked out of a halfway house. She took him into her Sandy apartment.

goddammitsomuch! Girls, if you hear, from the guy you're dating himself, that he was recently convicted of, set out of prison, is on probation, etc. because of a charge of ASSAULT, especially if it involved his ex-girlfriend, run the fark away!

What the fark is wrong with you? He's not changed. You are NOT going to change or help him. He WILL beat you too, eventually...

FFS!
/the ex keeps getting girls with his sad story of I'm bi-polar, poor me; it's not my fault, even while he had a gps ankle monitor strapped on
//there was no spoken, much less legal history when I had started dating him... would have run if I had known
///I do not understand most girls
2012-06-27 08:44:38 PM
1 votes:
Fricken slime ball. He needs to die.
2012-06-27 08:31:38 PM
1 votes:
How women believe on-line dating goes....

1) Meet perfect man on-line.

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3) Marriage.

Yep. That's pretty much it.
2012-06-27 08:30:44 PM
1 votes:

Wolf892: This is just an example of the deadbeats getting all pissy at the job creators. This guy finds a girl on the net, and helps empower her to become a self earner and all he wants is what's rightfully his, a cut. What's his crime? Motivation? How does that work with the police?

"Help! This man is trying to motivate me into earning thousands of dollars a day! Help!"

People need to sack up and be a little more bootstrappy and appreciate the job creators a little bit more.


Mitt Romney approves.....
2012-06-27 08:29:24 PM
1 votes:

RealAmericanHero: First dates are about getting to know someone, and if someone is going to be upset that the first date was just some random shiat instead of a five-star restaurant regardless of who I am, well that's all I need to know about you, goodbye.


I realize you're almost certainly trolling, but just in case, the problem here is that you just told her you are: a guy who hangs out in shiatholes.

Taking someone out for dinner on a first date is a poor choice anyway, because the odds are high that you won't click and you'll just have to sit there until you awkwardly turn down dessert and breath a heavy sigh of relief that it's over. Coffee or drinks. You can go somewhere decent without wasting a bunch of time and money, you have a polite exit if it obviously doesn't work, and you can easily turn it into a longer date if it does.
2012-06-27 08:26:59 PM
1 votes:

RealAmericanHero: I don't get the criticism about Wendy's. First dates are about getting to know someone, and if someone is going to be upset that the first date was just some random shiat instead of a five-star restaurant regardless of who I am, well that's all I need to know about you, goodbye. If we're so incompatible that the only thing that can get us on the same page is a fantastic soufflé or roast duck then it wasn't going to work anyway. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against shelling out for the good stuff, but if ya think getting fast food in a casual environment is grounds for immediate dismissal when going into it I don't even know who you are, fark ya.


I hate to be the one to break it to you but the wimmins can often be quite shallow. Fat wallet or a fat...you get the idea. But if you can get away with some chilli-cheese fries and a coke, more power to ya.
2012-06-27 08:23:25 PM
1 votes:
This is just an example of the deadbeats getting all pissy at the job creators. This guy finds a girl on the net, and helps empower her to become a self earner and all he wants is what's rightfully his, a cut. What's his crime? Motivation? How does that work with the police?

"Help! This man is trying to motivate me into earning thousands of dollars a day! Help!"

People need to sack up and be a little more bootstrappy and appreciate the job creators a little bit more.
2012-06-27 08:20:47 PM
1 votes:
I don't get the criticism about Wendy's. First dates are about getting to know someone, and if someone is going to be upset that the first date was just some random shiat instead of a five-star restaurant regardless of who I am, well that's all I need to know about you, goodbye. If we're so incompatible that the only thing that can get us on the same page is a fantastic soufflé or roast duck then it wasn't going to work anyway. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against shelling out for the good stuff, but if ya think getting fast food in a casual environment is grounds for immediate dismissal when going into it I don't even know who you are, fark ya.
2012-06-27 08:09:21 PM
1 votes:
Dad???
 
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