Waldo Pepper: I mean shouldn't the butch looking chick go after the fem gay dude.

New key board and all that.

Well-played and thanks for the much needed laugh.

T.rex: Abe Vigoda's Ghost: T.rex: If she's attracted to a gal that looks like a dude, i don't get why she just doesn't date a dude who looks like a dude?

It could be that whole 'penis vs a vagina' thing. I'm not an expert, but that would be my best guess.

Please.... they are using a strap-on, because without it, they would just be scissoring. Then NEED a penis, (fake or otherwise), so why not the real thing?

Because some lesbians really really like vaginas, and attracted to vaginas.

I hope they're happy. That said, If I was a lesbian, I'd want to be with a woman who looked female....someone like Kate Beckinsale, maybe. If I wanted to be with a human that looked like a man, I'd be with a man. I have a lot of gay male friends, and I've never seen one of them with a guy who looked like a woman.

phaseolus: you are a puppet: Is it a rule that, outside of porn, at least one chick in every lesbian relationship has to be an unattractive dude?

Ever see a hetero couple where the woman's nice looking but the man looks like a troll?

bmfderek:
I've never gotten that. If the whole idea of being a lesbian is being attracted to women, why aren't they attracted to women that look like... you know? Women?

I'd imagine they'd respond... well, they'd probably tell you to go fark yourself, but they might add that if someone is a woman, they by definition "look like a woman", and anything else is a patriarchally-imposed beauty standard.

They look like twins or siblings of some sort, but one is femmy, and the other more tom boy like.

you are a puppet: Is it a rule that, outside of porn, at least one chick in every lesbian relationship has to be an unattractive dude?

I've never gotten that. If the whole idea of being a lesbian is being attracted to women, why aren't they attracted to women that look like... you know? Women?

Dutch Pilsner: gingerjet: Dutch Pilsner: Ah...Ms. "Homosexuality is a choice" gets hitched.

Which she never said. But I can understand if you can't deal with 'context' and all that ...

I get the point, that 'for her' it's a choice, but perhaps not for others. So...point taken.

"For me, it is a choice," Nixon told the Times. "I understand that for many people it's not, but for me it's a choice, and you don't get to define my gayness for me."

Link

I think that means she can swing both ways. Also there is some neuroscience dude that did a study that shows that women can be born gay and choose. I don't remember his name, but he was who wants to be a millionaire. He also said men are born gay. He did this entire neuroscience study on sexual orientation and preferences. Very interesting stuff. There is a google video out there somewhere on how he explains it.

Dutch Pilsner: Ah...Ms. "Homosexuality is a choice" gets hitched.

Which she never said. But I can understand if you can't deal with 'context' and all that ...

Is it a rule that, outside of porn, at least one chick in every lesbian relationship has to be an unattractive dude?