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Ehh
2012-05-25 01:03:39 PM
We've got trouble right here in River City? And spending some money on something you're selling will put an end to it? Well shut up and take my money!

/malls with lots of shoes in them are ruining a generation of women
 
2012-05-25 01:04:25 PM
Gee, I remember in the 80's Molly Ringwald movies, Atari games, and my RATT tapes were going to destroy me. Oddly enough I'm still around
 
2012-05-25 01:04:28 PM
Submitted First With a Better Headline: Oh, no! Video games will destroy civilization! Just like rock music, women's suffrage, and the written language did before!

So much f*cking THIS. Whenever I hear this crap, I'm instantly reminded of how Socrates thought WRITING THINGS DOWN would lead to the fall of civilization. These ridiculous moral panics have been going on with every generation since before the Romans were a thing, and probably before the Greeks, too. Guess what: We're still f*cking here.

/gamer
/porn fan
/law student
 
2012-05-25 01:04:32 PM
We're mourning the demise of guys who used to watch stag reels in garages, go bowling, play poker... filling up their lives with diversions so they didn't have to be around their families?
 
2012-05-25 01:04:42 PM
imontheinternet: expanded present hedonistic time zone.

Has anyone else worked it in front of the computer for 4 hours.

I mean, it's been a long time since I've done it, but it's entirely possible.
 
2012-05-25 01:04:45 PM
Would you take psychological advice from these two?

i2.cdn.turner.com

I sure as hell wouldn't. I mean, just look at that moustache, if that's not an outward sign of deep seated psychological damage, I'm not sure what is.
*shudder*
 
2012-05-25 01:05:07 PM
Every decade there's a new "what's wrong with men" movement.
 
2012-05-25 01:06:02 PM
Gothnet: if that's not an outward sign of deep seated psychological damage, I'm not sure what is.

I think the fact that he colors it might be worse.
 
2012-05-25 01:06:04 PM
I can assure Dr. Zimbardo that cultural evolution is as natural as the tendency for washed-up scabs like himself to perceive it as devolution.
 
2012-05-25 01:06:12 PM
The Muthaship: Do not suggest that playing video games is anything other than time well spent in a truly noble pursuit around these parts, son.

What? I don't think anyone's even implying that it's a "Noble Pursuit", but I really doubt it's any worse, than, say, watching TV. At least with a video game, you are actively engaged, instead of passively watching TV.

It's not that people take issue with people saying "Video game playing is not worthy of a noble prize", they're taking issue with "VIDEO GAMES ARE DESTROYING THE FABRIC OF SOCIETY AND INHERENTLY BAD FOR YOU."
Are video games bad in excess? Yes. So is watching TV in Excess. Or, hell, becoming a shut-in and reading books in excess. Or eating in excess. Or dropping everything and following the Grateful Dead as a deadhead for two decades. But we probably don't need to ban eating or music.
 
2012-05-25 01:06:18 PM
If you are obsessed with anything to the point you shut out the rest of life, it's bad. Could be video games, or porn, or model trains.

If you can balance your hobbies with everything else, you'll probably be okay.
 
2012-05-25 01:06:31 PM
Degenerate Monkey: Video games: check.
Porn: check
Social life: check
Successful professional career: check
Happiness: check

Ok, where was that problem again?


Murphy Brown was right. We can have it all.

adding

Videogames: check
Wife: check
Kids: check
 
2012-05-25 01:07:01 PM
busy chillin': the main gripe I have with young guys watching porn is that growing up we had to steal playboys and watch scramble-vision to see a nipple for two seconds and then wait four minutes to see another half a boob for one second. Or sneak the VHS and hope you get away with it.

It ain't fair, man.


This. I must have watched the opening credits of The Naked Gun hundreds of times...just for a peek.
 
2012-05-25 01:07:23 PM
So what's the argument they're making? That all men would be titans of industry and wildly successful with women if they didn't watch porn and play video games?

Bullshiat. They'd still be unemployed losers, but they'd have much more time on their hands, and you might not like what they'd do with it.

blog.demodulated.com
 
2012-05-25 01:07:51 PM
i2.cdn.turner.com

Wait a minute, I've seen these two.

But it was in porn, which I suppose validates their study.
 
2012-05-25 01:07:53 PM
Mugato: Video Role-Playing games destroying society? Really? Is it 1993 1983 already?

Fixed for age. :)

Even though 'Video Arcades' were a big 'booga-booga' to small town municipal officials back then as well.
 
2012-05-25 01:08:00 PM
I blame Dungeons and Dragons + plus playing Ozzy backwards.
 
2012-05-25 01:08:34 PM
OK DOCTOR zimbardo..

Someone check his credentials... I feel like this guy just lives for shock and awe bullshiat, inflammatory, fluff pieces.

This is his --- http://www.lucifereffect.com/

and a quote from one of his "credentials" - HYPNOSIS: I was trained in hypnosis at New York's Morton Prince Clinic for Clinical and Experimental Hypnosis, and am reasonably good at self hypnosis.



What the fark
 
2012-05-25 01:08:38 PM
Tickle Mittens: We're mourning the demise of guys who used to watch stag reels in garages, go bowling, play poker... filling up their lives with diversions so they didn't have to be around their families?

Also get drunk and beat their wife/kids.
 
2012-05-25 01:09:08 PM
The whole thing reeks of butt hurt jealousy. My fiancee watches more porn and plays more video games than I do and we have a damn good relationship. Maybe the writers of the article are just bored with their shiatty lives and the fact that they are unable to choose to do what they'd really like to. Sucks to be those uptight douches, I'll keep my woman the way she is, porny and addicted to The Sims 3! :D
 
2012-05-25 01:09:46 PM
OK, DNRTFA, but what if they are right? What if modern entertainment is destroying a generation.

What I mean is, we all like to pursue pleasure. Our brains are probably hard wired to do so. 100 or more years ago this wasn't really a problem because life was harder, people had to work longer hours just to making a living and didn't always have as much leisure time. And the only entertainment that was available was somewhat more social and a some even required people to leave the house.

Now, on average, people have more leisure time and can entertain themselves from their own houses without having to go anywhere. I don't really think it's anyone's fault. I think we were always destined to get to this point. We want what brings us the most pleasure but that isn't always a good thing.

Didn't scientists do an experiment with rats where they pressed a button that gave them some sort of sexual stimulation and the rats basically stayed pressing the button for hours and hours. Foregoing anything else but pleasure. I know we aren't rats, but I guess perhaps most animals have that compulsion to seek pleasure more than anything else.

/I could be totally wrong of course.
 
2012-05-25 01:09:50 PM
I was reading an essay about how men struggle to find their roles within a family structure. Women are taught that they can do it all, they don't need a man, and that relying on a man makes you your mother.

Men were raised with clearly defined gender roles but most of those gender roles are being tossed on their heads.

That's why I let my husband man the grill.
 
2012-05-25 01:10:26 PM
s16.postimage.org
 
2012-05-25 01:10:51 PM
So, even CNN agrees... women need to put out more.
 
2012-05-25 01:11:10 PM
Matt The Milk Man: Degenerate Monkey: Video games: check.
Porn: check
Social life: check
Successful professional career: check
Happiness: check

Ok, where was that problem again?

I agree, no problems


I don't know, I do have that unrelenting fear of blocks falling out of the sky and crushing me, then disappearing and leaving no evidence.

/got nothin'
//played the shiat out of tetris when I was a kid.
 
2012-05-25 01:12:00 PM
liverpoolumd: OK DOCTOR zimbardo..

Someone check his credentials... I feel like this guy just lives for shock and awe bullshiat, inflammatory, fluff pieces.


So I think for the most part psychology is full of BS. It's not an actual science. This guy is a PhD kind of doctor, not the MD kind of doctor. A lot of psychology PhDs are farking stupid.

That said, the dude is professor emeritus at Stanford. Good luck attacking his credentials.
 
2012-05-25 01:12:17 PM
i2.cdn.turner.com

People are still playing N64 or did they stop making stock images of gamers after 1998?
 
2012-05-25 01:12:37 PM
Shaylen: //played the shiat out of tetris when I was a kid.

This taught me valuable skills in real life. Mostly, how to pack a car or bag with as much gear in as little space as possible.
 
2012-05-25 01:13:04 PM
Last Man on Earth: Submitted First With a Better Headline: Oh, no! Video games will destroy civilization! Just like rock music, women's suffrage, and the written language did before!

So much f*cking THIS. Whenever I hear this crap, I'm instantly reminded of how Socrates thought WRITING THINGS DOWN would lead to the fall of civilization. These ridiculous moral panics have been going on with every generation since before the Romans were a thing, and probably before the Greeks, too. Guess what: We're still f*cking here.

/gamer
/porn fan
/law student


Well, HIS civilization died, just not all civilization.
 
2012-05-25 01:13:33 PM
Last Man on Earth: Submitted First With a Better Headline: Oh, no! Video games will destroy civilization! Just like rock music, women's suffrage, and the written language did before!

So much f*cking THIS. Whenever I hear this crap, I'm instantly reminded of how Socrates thought WRITING THINGS DOWN would lead to the fall of civilization. These ridiculous moral panics have been going on with every generation since before the Romans were a thing, and probably before the Greeks, too. Guess what: We're still f*cking here.

/gamer
/porn fan
/law student


aworldofprogress.com

You no hear? Ugg draw on walls of cave. Kids stare at drawing. Drawing make kids bad.

DRAWING BAD! KILL UGG!
 
2012-05-25 01:14:06 PM
steelydaniel: [i2.cdn.turner.com image 640x360]

People are still playing N64 or did they stop making stock images of gamers after 1998?


Also, what game are they playing? Looks like a racing game, but they're using the control pads like a couple of morons.
 
2012-05-25 01:14:29 PM
Am I the only one who recalls, not so long ago, that The Demise of Guys was going to be because boys were all becoming so feminized and domesticated that their natural masculinity was being undermined?

And before that it was The Demise of Guys because the opening of societal opportunities to women combined with their superior social and communication skills was making boys obsolete.

As far as I can tell, Guys have been Demising ever since "who can heft the largest rock" ceased to be the primary determinant of tribal status.
 
2012-05-25 01:14:33 PM
It used to be TV that ruined people. Then we all got used to the fact that TV was around and the world did not end. Now it's video games and porn.
 
2012-05-25 01:15:35 PM
FTFA: "Guys are also totally out of sync in romantic relationships, which tend to build gradually and subtly, and require interaction, sharing, developing trust and suppression of lust at least until "the time is right.""

Damn. So that's why I don't have romantic relationships. All along I've been like, "What's with all these time sinks" and "Can't I skip this cheesy scene?" and "You are not making me play this damn mini-game to get to the next level!" I never realized that it was the abysmal pace that spoiled it. Damn shame -- the graphics and interface are kick-ass.

Anyone know if there's a Romantic Relationships 2 in development?
 
2012-05-25 01:15:42 PM
Ned Stark: The kids are alright.

or they would be if Townshend would back off
 
2012-05-25 01:15:55 PM
This is a repeat from 1900 when people predicted that motion pictures would bring an end to civilization, and 1950 when people predicted that TV would bring an end to civilization.
 
2012-05-25 01:16:09 PM
Those video games are ready to entertain whenever you want. Those porn gals will do whatever you want, whenever you want, and you don't have to deal with the emotional baggage. What's not to love?
 
2012-05-25 01:16:10 PM
Felgraf: indylaw: For fark's sake - the argument is that World of Warcraft helped hone Anders Breivik into a homicidal maniac?

That's like saying that playing chess drove Hitler to become a blood-thirsty tyrant.

"Russian front not a good ideeaaaa.
Hitler never played Risk when he was a kiiiid.
Cause, you know, playing Risk, you could never hold on to Asia. That Asian-Eastern European area, you could never hold it, could you? Seven extra men at the beginning of every go, but you couldn't farking hold it."

/Sorry, I lapse into Izzard quotes sometimes.


And yet Australia hasn't taken over the world yet. What are they waiting for?
 
2012-05-25 01:16:32 PM
DON'T DATE ROBOTS!
 
2012-05-25 01:18:54 PM
I see Dr. Mustache's and what appears to be the-spawn-of-Ann-Coulter-and-the-Tick's point and offer this counterpoint.

The world has made it mandatory for men to include women in everything (that woman want to be included in) otherwise they are labeled sexist. Not surprisingly men are flocking to activities (video games) that women generally don't want any part of.

Bottom line. If you don't let men be men they will just keep walking away until you leave them alone.


\That said girls who play video games get +2 to their hotness roll.
\\Men have always liked porn. This is not news.
\\\seriously, you could park a car on that chin.
 
2012-05-25 01:19:16 PM
Blues_X: Generation_D: Most kids these days have a crappy single mom


{citation needed}


Since when do opinions need citations... or is crappy now a scientific measurable?
 
2012-05-25 01:20:36 PM
Agression is being supressed as much as possible, everywhere. The RESULT is expression through video games/porn for the passives and whoreticulture/crime for the actives. The behaviours are pointed at as causes, because the real causes aren't PC - and we all know where the virtue of accountabilty dwells not.
 
2012-05-25 01:20:46 PM
The consequences could be dramatic: The excessive use of video games and online porn in pursuit of the next thing is creating a generation of risk-averse guys who are unable (and unwilling) to navigate the complexities and risks inherent to real-life relationships, school and employment.

They have it perfectly backwards. There are certainly people who spend all their time on porn and video games, but it's because they lack the life skills needed to go get anything rewarding out of the outside world. People are perfectly capable of enjoying both.

Take away the video games, and slackers aren't going to suddenly get off the couch in their mom's basement, buy a suit for a job interview, and put their life in order. They're just going to be bored. This guy is obviously trying to cash in on parents who are looking for someone to blame for the way their kid turned out.
 
2012-05-25 01:21:13 PM
The Demise of Guys': How video games and porn feminists are ruining a generation

ftfy
 
2012-05-25 01:21:40 PM
thornhill: This is a repeat from 1900 when people predicted that motion pictures would bring an end to civilization, and 1950 when people predicted that TV would bring an end to civilization.

One of these days, I want them to be right.
 
2012-05-25 01:21:45 PM
"The excessive use of video games and online porn in pursuit of the next thing is creating a generation of risk-averse guys who are unable (and unwilling) to navigate the complexities and risks inherent to real-life relationships, school and employment."

And, is there any negative effects?
 
2012-05-25 01:22:39 PM
RedPhoenix122: Shaylen: //played the shiat out of tetris when I was a kid.

This taught me valuable skills in real life. Mostly, how to pack a car or bag with as much gear in as little space as possible.


Its always painful helping someone move who has no idea how to pack a car without this knowledge.
 
2012-05-25 01:23:24 PM
RedPhoenix122: steelydaniel: [i2.cdn.turner.com image 640x360]

People are still playing N64 or did they stop making stock images of gamers after 1998?

Also, what game are they playing? Looks like a racing game, but they're using the control pads like a couple of morons.


Using the D pad? It looks like they didn't get past the start menu before being shocked and awed into a life of loserdom.
 
2012-05-25 01:23:47 PM
Don't Troll Me Bro!: Those video games are ready to entertain whenever you want. Those porn gals will do whatever you want, whenever you want, and you don't have to deal with the emotional baggage. What's not to love?

The g/f and I are both connoisseurs of fine pornography. If it's desensititized us to anything, it's our inhibitions about having freaky sex constantly.

If that's a problem, I'm glad I have it.
 
2012-05-25 01:24:26 PM
Wendy's Chili: So what's the argument they're making? That all men would be titans of industry and wildly successful with women if they didn't watch porn and play video games?

Bullshiat. They'd still be unemployed losers, but they'd have much more time on their hands, and you might not like what they'd do with it.

[blog.demodulated.com image 390x268]


Came to say this, leaving satisfied.
 
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