But I believe the common denominator, the proximate cause of the irrational behavior, is arrogance; the belief by some powerful men that they can get away with it. That the world is still their unchallenged domain, as it was years ago, when few people knew about a president bringing women to the White House to have sex, as John F. Kennedy did, or pressuring his secretary to yield to sexual advances, as was common. It is willful ignorance that the world has changed.

........ and another woman is wrong yet again trying to analyze men with over complicated strings of psychoanalysis and their own emotional interpretation to judge men.

If "arrogance; the belief by some powerful men that they can get away with it" is the primary driver of what drove these men to cheating etc then men of humbler means would never cheat or have drastically reduce rate of infidelity and yet this is not the case. There is absolutely no statistical difference with infidelity based on the socioeconomic levels of men!!!!

who are more stupid? the men or the women who try to analyze men and then totally gets it wrong?

StaleCoffee: lennavan: SuperChuck: kiwimoogle84: All she has to do is blow him more. Really. Women, try this out. Next time your man seems distant, undo his pants. Truly. Men aren't necessarily stupid, just simple.

Can I nominate this for Best Post on the Internet Forever?

Seconded.

Yeah, it's her fault if he cheats. Just like she should do that sammich right if she doesn't want him smacking her around.

How on earth did you get that from this post? I'm sorry some dude broke your heart in high school or something but keep your drama away from me. In my experience, there are times a girlfriend of mine has done something amazingly stupid, and I didn't feel like dealing with the BS so I'd rather be distant and ignore her and she does exactly what kiwimoogle84 just described and suddenly the world is a much happier place and I'm all set to chat.

Had nothing to do with cheating and everything to do with conflict resolution. At least that's how I read it.

NotARocketScientist: lennavan: I heard Marie Curie and Galileo were good friends growing up in the same era together.

And this is relevant how? Here let me help you......its NOT......Whats it called when you ignore the argument at hand and bring up an unrelated argument? Anyone?

It was a joke. Marie Curie did not live at the same time as Galileo.

You can't let him in on the joke, I was making fun of him without him knowing it. It was supposed to be funny for the rest of us.

Are women hypocritical?

/would love to see the feminazi response to an article titled 'are women stupid?'

lennavan: StaleCoffee: lennavan: SuperChuck: kiwimoogle84: All she has to do is blow him more. Really. Women, try this out. Next time your man seems distant, undo his pants. Truly. Men aren't necessarily stupid, just simple.

Can I nominate this for Best Post on the Internet Forever?

Seconded.

Yeah, it's her fault if he cheats. Just like she should do that sammich right if she doesn't want him smacking her around.

How on earth did you get that from this post? I'm sorry some dude broke your heart in high school or something but keep your drama away from me. In my experience, there are times a girlfriend of mine has done something amazingly stupid, and I didn't feel like dealing with the BS so I'd rather be distant and ignore her and she does exactly what kiwimoogle84 just described and suddenly the world is a much happier place and I'm all set to chat.

Had nothing to do with cheating and everything to do with conflict resolution. At least that's how I read it.

Given the article and discussion is about cheating, I was in that head space.

I'm sorry if it's too dramatic for you. I'll dress down my posts some.

StaleCoffee: CasperImproved: StaleCoffee: lennavan: SuperChuck: kiwimoogle84: All she has to do is blow him more. Really. Women, try this out. Next time your man seems distant, undo his pants. Truly. Men aren't necessarily stupid, just simple.

Can I nominate this for Best Post on the Internet Forever?

Seconded.

Yeah, it's her fault if he cheats. Just like she should do that sammich right if she doesn't want him smacking her around.

I don't think you are catching this wave.

Cheaters will always be cheaters, but if you are taking care of business? The business will take care of itself.

Back on post... women are and always have been every bit as smart as their male counterparts. It's only in the last century or two that we are giving them the props they have already earned.

Only, that's not how it actually works, since plenty of people cheat despite getting business taken care of at home.

And you have knowledge of this how? If The business had been taken care of in my home, I wouldn't be single again. But I do admit to being at least half at fault for the breakdown. And I would never had cheated. It's not in me to cheat. It's also why I don't really know how to relate to someone that would.

People are stupid.

That is all.

kiwimoogle84

You want women to be take seriously? Eliminate legal double standards...Here is a short list

1. Force women to register for the draft as well
2. 50% of all Recipients of child-support need to be men
3. Men need a legal right to end parenthood just like women have
4. Women need to work half of all overtime not just the current 10%
5. Women need to account for half of all workplace injuries and fatalities not just the current 5%
6. Women need to account for half of all combatant fatalities not just the current statistically insignificant %

Boy the other side of the equality equation sucks balls does it not?

Q: Does article author need some cobwebs knocked loose?
A: Yes

Maybe. But we still make more money than women. So, there's that.

This article is stupid. These are not your average men risking everything for some strange. These are men in power. People in power do morally questionable/illegal things all the time (infidelity, drugs, dog fighting, etc.). It is because since they are in power they think they can get away with anything. Women in the same position do the same sorts of things, especially infidelity.

Slaves2Darkness: No men are not stupid, but faithful, moral, honest guys, AKA the Nice Guy, do not get the pussy.

I like HBI's take on "The Nice Guy".

acad1228: Maybe. But we still make more money than women. So, there's that.

MYTH BUSTED~!

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505125_162-28246928/the-gender-pay-gap-is - a-complete-myth/

And, of course, we have to acknowledge that, unless it is a gay affair, all these "stupid" men are having sex with women. He gets his career ruined, she gets a book deal and a ghost writer. Sometimes. Most times he goes on with his life and gets a little marital counseling; she gets discarded like a used condom. Now who's stupid?

Where is Monica Lewinsky today? And where is Bill (Stupid Man) Clinton?

JackieRabbit: onica Lewinsky today? And where is Bill (Stupid Man) Clinton?

YES !

Slaves2Darkness: No men are not stupid, but faithful, moral, honest guys, AKA the Nice Guy, do not get the pussy.

OH! Just Ring the Bell, the truth has been spoken!

/All Hail

Virtue: kiwimoogle84

You want women to be take seriously? Eliminate legal double standards...Here is a short list

1. Force women to register for the draft as well
2. I think women make as much as men in the work force.
3. Men are regularly forced to have unprotected sex with women.
4. Overtime should be mandated and not optional.
5. All professions should be 50% women and 50% men. This includes teachers, and nurses getting more men and firefighters and policemen getting more men.
6. The all volunteer military should be 50/50 men/women. We will do this by either mandating more women join, or shrinking the size of the army so that there is one man per woman.

Boy the other side of the equality equation sucks balls does it not?

I translated this post for those of you that didn't understand it.

kiwimoogle84: StaleCoffee: CasperImproved: StaleCoffee: lennavan: SuperChuck: kiwimoogle84: All she has to do is blow him more. Really. Women, try this out. Next time your man seems distant, undo his pants. Truly. Men aren't necessarily stupid, just simple.

Can I nominate this for Best Post on the Internet Forever?

Seconded.

Yeah, it's her fault if he cheats. Just like she should do that sammich right if she doesn't want him smacking her around.

I don't think you are catching this wave.

Cheaters will always be cheaters, but if you are taking care of business? The business will take care of itself.

Back on post... women are and always have been every bit as smart as their male counterparts. It's only in the last century or two that we are giving them the props they have already earned.

Only, that's not how it actually works, since plenty of people cheat despite getting business taken care of at home.

Like I said, it's not a foolproof policy. Some men are just dogs. You encounter one, leave him behind. There are plenty of good men who deserve your affections.

I am a dude. My wife and I have a good sex life, so no complaints there right now, too.

Given clarification, I more or less agree. Like your friend mentioned earlier, I'd throw down the divorce and be out dating if I was in a similar situation. It's not that I think a man or woman should suffer eternally after his or her spouse rides the gravy train to flab town with an extended stay in apathy towers, I think other people behaving like shiatheads doesn't absolve someone of their own behavior. So flabbing out? shiatty. Cheating for it? Still shiatty.

Virtue Smartest
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2012-04-23 01:34:21 PM


acad1228: Maybe. But we still make more money than women. So, there's that.

MYTH BUSTED~!

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505125_162-28246928/the-gender-pay-gap-is - a-complete-myth/



Hilarious that we got all those broads to believe that!

utardsRock: Subby sounds like a fat girl. Subby smells like a fat girl.

Subby must be a fat girl.



or ogra

lennavan: Virtue: kiwimoogle84

You want women to be take seriously? Eliminate legal double standards...Here is a short list

1. Force women to register for the draft as well
2. I think women make as much as men in the work force.
3. Men are regularly forced to have unprotected sex with women.
4. Overtime should be mandated and not optional.
5. All professions should be 50% women and 50% men. This includes teachers, and nurses getting more men and firefighters and policemen getting more men.
6. The all volunteer military should be 50/50 men/women. We will do this by either mandating more women join, or shrinking the size of the army so that there is one man per woman.

Boy the other side of the equality equation sucks balls does it not?

I translated this post for those of you that didn't understand it.


Your post, with out meaning to....destroys every feminist argument in existence.

Virtue: You want women to be take seriously? Eliminate legal double standards...Here is a short list

1. Force women to register for the draft as well
2. 50% of all Recipients of child-support need to be men
3. Men need a legal right to end parenthood just like women have
4. Women need to work half of all overtime not just the current 10%
5. Women need to account for half of all workplace injuries and fatalities not just the current 5%
6. Women need to account for half of all combatant fatalities not just the current statistically insignificant %

I don't see why number 2 must necessarily be true. Numbers 4, 5, and 6 are not legal double standards, but they are impressively stupid. I guess they've got that going for them.

kiwimoogle84: StaleCoffee: lennavan: StaleCoffee: lennavan: SuperChuck: kiwimoogle84: All she has to do is blow him more. Really. Women, try this out. Next time your man seems distant, undo his pants. Truly. Men aren't necessarily stupid, just simple.

Can I nominate this for Best Post on the Internet Forever?

Seconded.

Yeah, it's her fault if he cheats. Just like she should do that sammich right if she doesn't want him smacking her around.

How on earth did you get that from this post? I'm sorry some dude broke your heart in high school or something but keep your drama away from me. In my experience, there are times a girlfriend of mine has done something amazingly stupid, and I didn't feel like dealing with the BS so I'd rather be distant and ignore her and she does exactly what kiwimoogle84 just described and suddenly the world is a much happier place and I'm all set to chat.

Had nothing to do with cheating and everything to do with conflict resolution. At least that's how I read it.

Given the article and discussion is about cheating, I was in that head space.

I'm sorry if it's too dramatic for you. I'll dress down my posts some.

Oh, no see I knew where you were going with that and I'm not offended. I'm more talking about if you have a good man and your relationship gets strained. Sometimes it IS as simple as a sammich in a ziploc bag with a love note written on it packed into his lunch. But if a man has violent tendencies, if you're perceptive, you see those early and move on. I get your reasoning.

Well then hell, sorry. I bring my wife flowers and godiva for no reason now and then. I assumed the keep him happy or he will cheat theme was going on. Not be thoughtful and considerate to each other or misery will occur. On board there.

I hate to criticise such an enlightening article, but the reason they think they can get away with it is that 98% of the time, they do.

/Feminist have such a stupid view of the world.

JackieRabbit: Is Frida Ghitis stupid?

Yes

"How else can we explain the endless parade of otherwise successful individuals, who by all appearances seem intelligent and competent, and yet risk destroying their careers and their personal lives over the chance to have a sexual escapade?"

Answer: to men, putting the penis in a vagina and moving it about until is makes a mess is called sex. It's no big deal. But women make it a very big deal and they only want their man's penis in their vagina. Women think that men actually give a flying fark if a politician gets a little on the side. We don't. We don't care even if we would never screw around on our wives. Men only pretend care for political reasons.

"THERE IS A TURD IN THE PUNCHBOWL.. I REPEAT THERE IS A TURD IN THE PUNCHBOWL"

kiwimoogle84: 1. I agree, if they are unmarried.
2. Child support goes to the parent with the children. Most men are happy to be rid of the children so most of the time the mother gets custody. That's not something I can change.
3. Ending parenthood I think he should have a say in, but they can't cart a pregnant woman off and have it aborted against her will. Women carry the children. Not something i can change. They want a say in parenthood? Get snipped. There, take charge, men.
4. I do my part. I worked 176 hours of overtime last year, as mandated by my job.
5. Do you take into account carpal tunnel? More women do secretarial jobs than men. Men do heavy lifting, back injuries. Women type, wrist issues.
6. Combatant injuries? I'm not sure what you mean by that. I assume you mean war. And again, more men sign up than women. They shouldn't be forced to. In order to account for half, women would have to be forced to enlist. That's a fascist country if people were forced to enlist.

Happy?

2. Child support goes to the parent with the children. Most men are happy to be rid of the children so most of the time the mother gets custody. That's not something I can change.
I think you mean to say that custody gets givin to the mother most of the time because states get one federal dollar for every dollar of court ordered child support.

3. Ending parenthood I think he should have a say in, but they can't cart a pregnant woman off and have it aborted against her will. Women carry the children. Not something i can change. They want a say in parenthood? Get snipped. There, take charge, men.

So what about a paper abortion? And you can get your tubes tied

5. Do you take into account carpal tunnel? More women do secretarial jobs than men. Men do heavy lifting, back injuries. Women type, wrist issues

Those figures include Carpal Tunnel

6. Combatant injuries? I'm not sure what you mean by that. I assume you mean war. And again, more men sign up than women. They shouldn't be forced to. In order to account for half, women would have to be forced to enlist. That's a fascist country if people were forced to enlist.

You mean like the draft we have here in the US?

Let's see here... woman posts one link about men being stupid, gets point across, men respond with five pages of chauvinism asserting that they must be intellectually superior.

I think the winner is clear.

Stupidity is in everyone. and as Ron White said, "You can't fix stupid"

StaleCoffee: kiwimoogle84: StaleCoffee: lennavan: StaleCoffee: lennavan: SuperChuck: kiwimoogle84: All she has to do is blow him more. Really. Women, try this out. Next time your man seems distant, undo his pants. Truly. Men aren't necessarily stupid, just simple.

Can I nominate this for Best Post on the Internet Forever?

Seconded.

Yeah, it's her fault if he cheats. Just like she should do that sammich right if she doesn't want him smacking her around.

How on earth did you get that from this post? I'm sorry some dude broke your heart in high school or something but keep your drama away from me. In my experience, there are times a girlfriend of mine has done something amazingly stupid, and I didn't feel like dealing with the BS so I'd rather be distant and ignore her and she does exactly what kiwimoogle84 just described and suddenly the world is a much happier place and I'm all set to chat.

Had nothing to do with cheating and everything to do with conflict resolution. At least that's how I read it.

Given the article and discussion is about cheating, I was in that head space.

I'm sorry if it's too dramatic for you. I'll dress down my posts some.

Oh, no see I knew where you were going with that and I'm not offended. I'm more talking about if you have a good man and your relationship gets strained. Sometimes it IS as simple as a sammich in a ziploc bag with a love note written on it packed into his lunch. But if a man has violent tendencies, if you're perceptive, you see those early and move on. I get your reasoning.

Well then hell, sorry. I bring my wife flowers and godiva for no reason now and then. I assumed the keep him happy or he will cheat theme was going on. Not be thoughtful and considerate to each other or misery will occur. On board there.

Sounds as though you are lacking... I can relate. But the answer is to not act as though the giving of flowers and candy are something "special". I am using hindsight here. But in truth? If you have the spirit of what Kiwi hints at, the flowers and candy wouldn't be special, just unexpected. And the fact that "she" put a love note in your pocket, or in the lunch she made for you would be forever special. That is how love works. Little special moments that mean so much to you, and no other.

Find that? And you will be a happy "man". Screw the sexual differences.

MaliFinn

Let's see here... woman posts one link about men being stupid, gets point across, men respond with five pages of chauvinism asserting that they must be intellectually superior.

I think the winner is clear.

Rational arguments called chauvinism....This must be a man hating feminist. But don't let me stop your misandry!

I saw a comparison between eastenders (a tv soap in the UK) and reality. There were many things but only one really sticks in my mind. In eastenders you are 10 times more likely than reality to be murdered. In the tv square in london they have had a good few people killed off and reality is not that scary. They have had more people having affairs and yet in reality you are 10 times more likely to have a partner cheat on you than in a soap....

thebigfarker: I hate to criticise such an enlightening article, but the reason they think they can get away with it is that 98% of the time, they do.

/Feminist have such a stupid view of the world.

So do pig headed males..... just saying.

StaleCoffee: The problem isn't unrealistic social structures and taboos, it's people who want to fark around not being up front about it.

Nah, that's not what it is. I never wanted to cheat until my wife turned into an fat, asexual shrew. I wanted to stay married to the 130 lb big-boobed, gotta-have-it-thrice-a-week gal I was dating. Then we moved to another city, she refused to get friends, and decided it was her job to meddle in everything I did when I was doing things, and boss me around when I wasn't doing anything. She only wanted to do it when she was outrageously drunk, which was the only time she wasn't shiatting on me.

/also : once you're married, your wife thinks that pr0n is you cheating on her.

CasperImproved

thebigfarker: I hate to criticise such an enlightening article, but the reason they think they can get away with it is that 98% of the time, they do.

/Feminist have such a stupid view of the world.

So do pig headed males..... just saying.

And Feminists have a well funded political organization that gets sexist laws passed.

Beerguy: If you want us to stop making stupid decisions, just legalize prostitution.

Poor point to make. Sex is only as good as the effort you are personally willing to invest in it. If you need to pay for it? It will never be good. Money doesn't really matter with the right person in your life.

This is what a feminist looks like.

http://www.womynkind.org/scum.htm

Quote from the link.

"The male is completely egocentric, trapped inside himself, incapable of empathizing or identifying with others, or love, friendship, affection of tenderness. He is a completely isolated unit, incapable of rapport with anyone. His responses are entirely visceral, not cerebral; his intelligence is a mere tool in the services of his drives and needs; he is incapable of mental passion, mental interaction; he can't relate to anything other than his own physical sensations. He is a half-dead, unresponsive lump, incapable of giving or receiving pleasure or happiness; consequently, he is at best an utter bore, an inoffensive blob, since only those capable of absorption in others can be charming. He is trapped in a twilight zone halfway between humans and apes, and is far worse off than the apes because, unlike the apes, he is capable of a large array of negative feelings -- hate, jealousy, contempt, disgust, guilt, shame, doubt -- and moreover, he is aware of what he is and what he isn't."

Virtue: CasperImproved

thebigfarker: I hate to criticise such an enlightening article, but the reason they think they can get away with it is that 98% of the time, they do.

/Feminist have such a stupid view of the world.

So do pig headed males..... just saying.

And Feminists have a well funded political organization that gets sexist laws passed.

And men don't? Have you looked at the GOP lately?

MaliFinn: Let's see here... woman posts one link about men being stupid, gets point across, men respond with five pages of chauvinism asserting that they must be intellectually superior.

I think the winner is clear.

Men.

CasperImproved: Sounds as though you are lacking... I can relate. But the answer is to not act as though the giving of flowers and candy are something "special". I am using hindsight here. But in truth? If you have the spirit of what Kiwi hints at, the flowers and candy wouldn't be special, just unexpected. And the fact that "she" put a love note in your pocket, or in the lunch she made for you would be forever special. That is how love works. Little special moments that mean so much to you, and no other.Find that? And you will be a happy "man". Screw the sexual differences.

I'm doing fine, thanks

.kiwimoogle84: Why apologize? You brought up a reasonable argument. This banter on Fark brightens my day provided its done in a rational manner. And you're a good man. Mine likes to surprise me with lingerie. I feel special with a gift, he gets to enjoy the view. Boom, we're both happy.

I like to apologize when I'm arguing in error. Thanks for saying so, it's nice to hear, even from strangers.

I quit buying her lingerie since she isn't much into it. She does like to dress up and I love it when she does but she just seems to prefer buying that stuff herself. Our team efforts in that venue are more along the lines of browsing goodvibes together and such.

Anyway, I think that's enough from me. Enjoy your day.