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(Newsweek)   In today's Daily Double, this once popular punishment for children is now being sought out by powerful adult women. [bzzzt] What is spanking, Alex?   (thedailybeast.com) divider line 187
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Skr
2012-04-16 10:30:46 AM  
imos-journal.net
 
2012-04-16 10:33:59 AM  
t2.gstatic.com
 
2012-04-16 10:35:15 AM  
All women liked to be spanked during sex. It's a fact.
 
2012-04-16 10:35:16 AM  
I met a girl at the Rainbow bar She asked me if I'd beat her. she took me back to the Hyatt house.

I don't wanna talk about it
 
2012-04-16 10:38:58 AM  

HotWingConspiracy: All women liked to be spanked during sex. It's a fact.


No, some of us like to do the spanking.
 
2012-04-16 10:39:20 AM  
a good beating can be incredibly erotic for the right women...

but it has to be consensual
 
2012-04-16 10:39:31 AM  
This is news?

When there already exists entrenched psychological explanations for a phenomenon, it's probably not new.
 
2012-04-16 10:40:58 AM  
www.robbinstabletennis.com duh and or hello
 
2012-04-16 10:41:50 AM  
I have it on good authority that if you're writing spanking porn to sell on Kindle, Germany will be your biggest market.
 
2012-04-16 10:42:10 AM  
My safe word is "more"
 
2012-04-16 10:42:37 AM  

Kazan: a good beating can be incredibly erotic for the right women...

but it has to be consensual


^^ THIS ^^. And don't assume consent for one beating (or even type of play) is consent for another.
 
2012-04-16 10:42:46 AM  

probesport: I met a girl at the Rainbow bar She asked me if I'd beat her. she took me back to the Hyatt house.

I don't wanna talk about it


Sort of like a Waring blender?
 
2012-04-16 10:43:23 AM  
Rick Romero reporting?
 
2012-04-16 10:47:20 AM  
In article the author wonders if "this is what they(feminism activist) went to the barricades for?". In a word, yes. Female masochism, in fact, masochism in general, is about a willful exchange of power. The slave(submissive) has ALL the power when the relationship starts. In giving that power over to the master (dominant) the submissive is exercising their free will, the free will that the feminist movement worked so hard to gain. People who do not understand the dynamic of BDSM, should really not write about it, no matter how many sources that they quote.
 
2012-04-16 10:48:43 AM  

Directorscut: . People who do not understand the dynamic of BDSM, should really not write about it, no matter how many sources that they quote.


QFT
 
2012-04-16 10:50:41 AM  

This text is now purple: This is news?

When there already exists entrenched psychological explanations for a phenomenon, it's probably not new.


I don't think that this is "news" so much as it is "mainstream news". News publications almost seem to publish this type of article as a social engineering effort. Usually found as a means to get people to wear expensive but terrible hats or boots or have men go to a nail salon - or as in last when week we were told to wax our testicles.
In this case, I'mOKwithThis.jpg.
I will wait for 2-3 more major publications to tell us about this, then I will go to a bar and seek out the 21-30 year old gaggle of girls who will want you to take them home and try out some spanking and other sex games. They're easy to find - they're usually wearing some expensive but terrible hats or boots.

/but only because the serious sado chicks take a lot of effort and are kind of scary
 
2012-04-16 10:51:44 AM  
2.bp.blogspot.com

You talkin to me?
 
2012-04-16 10:51:50 AM  

Directorscut: In article the author wonders if "this is what they(feminism activist) went to the barricades for?". In a word, yes. Female masochism, in fact, masochism in general, is about a willful exchange of power. The slave(submissive) has ALL the power when the relationship starts. In giving that power over to the master (dominant) the submissive is exercising their free will, the free will that the feminist movement worked so hard to gain. People who do not understand the dynamic of BDSM, should really not write about it, no matter how many sources that they quote.


This is very, very true.

I was at a seminar recently (yes they do seminars for this stuff!), and the presenter was talking about how it's the sadists that get the short end of the stick. Here they are, getting into the groove, having fun... and then their partner suddenly stops everything by using their safeword. The submissive/masochist gets what they want, but the sadist just gets worked up. The one on the bottom may not call every shot, but they're still the one in charge.
 
2012-04-16 10:52:24 AM  
uh, doesn't the daily double not require the use of the buzzer, since there's only one person answering?
 
2012-04-16 10:59:08 AM  

Exception Collection: HotWingConspiracy: All women liked to be spanked during sex. It's a fact.

No, some of us like to do the spanking.


How YOU doin'?
 
2012-04-16 11:00:30 AM  
Every woman I've ever met, even if she appeared totally bland, was into all sorts of domination stuff like this.

Humans are farked up and it always comes out in the bedroom.
 
2012-04-16 11:02:52 AM  

HotWingConspiracy: All women liked to be spanked during sex. It's a fact.


A guy I know, he seems to like biting at "the" moment. What's the pop psychology on that, I wonder?
 
2012-04-16 11:05:20 AM  
yafh.com
 
2012-04-16 11:05:20 AM  

Exception Collection: Directorscut: In article the author wonders if "this is what they(feminism activist) went to the barricades for?". In a word, yes. Female masochism, in fact, masochism in general, is about a willful exchange of power. The slave(submissive) has ALL the power when the relationship starts. In giving that power over to the master (dominant) the submissive is exercising their free will, the free will that the feminist movement worked so hard to gain. People who do not understand the dynamic of BDSM, should really not write about it, no matter how many sources that they quote.

This is very, very true.

I was at a seminar recently (yes they do seminars for this stuff!), and the presenter was talking about how it's the sadists that get the short end of the stick. Here they are, getting into the groove, having fun... and then their partner suddenly stops everything by using their safeword. The submissive/masochist gets what they want, but the sadist just gets worked up. The one on the bottom may not call every shot, but they're still the one in charge.


This, and this.

CSB: My very first BSDM Master/Slave relationship was with the chairwoman of our College's Young Republicans. She would write derpy anti-choice, pro-traditional Christian Values editorials for the college paper during the week, all the while I was hand cuffing her to a modified weight bench and beating her ass red (among other things) on the weekends. Irony? Maybe.
 
2012-04-16 11:05:26 AM  

Raging Thespian: Exception Collection: HotWingConspiracy: All women liked to be spanked during sex. It's a fact.

No, some of us like to do the spanking.

How YOU doin'?


Beat me to it.

/insert joke about "you had me at 'beat me', LOL"
 
2012-04-16 11:05:41 AM  
Honestly, i am under the impression that This is, at least part of the reason why spanking children has become so taboo. People see adults getting off on this, and think "oh my god, it must be bad for children! The people spanking thier children must be sadits!"
 
2012-04-16 11:09:15 AM  

vwarb: Every woman I've ever met, even if she appeared totally bland, was into all sorts of domination stuff like this.

Humans are farked up and it always comes out in the bedroom.


I wonder if it's an evolutionary thing - females gravitate to the most masculine of males. Maybe the strong traits are desired as the less dominant ones seem like a weakness?

I know I'm less inclined to be attracted to a man that my own personality and sexuality overpowers.
 
2012-04-16 11:09:44 AM  

vwarb: Every woman I've ever met, even if she appeared totally bland, was into all sorts of domination stuff like this.

Humans are farked up and it always comes out in the bedroom.


I'll take it step further and say every woman has a rape fantasy. (I said 'fantasy', in no way do I endorse rape).

/only said rape twice so...oh shiat.
 
2012-04-16 11:13:14 AM  
my partners *safe* word is "STOP, DON'T STOP"
 
2012-04-16 11:17:51 AM  
There's some nerves that connect the buttocks and genitals. Spanking stimulates these nerves in a way that, in some folks, can be arousing. And in a few lucky folks, it can be orgasmic.
 
2012-04-16 11:24:57 AM  
In other news, BDSM boots are acceptable fashion for soccer mommies & office girls.
/whar obvious tag whar
 
2012-04-16 11:27:41 AM  

bluehubcap: vwarb: Every woman I've ever met, even if she appeared totally bland, was into all sorts of domination stuff like this.

Humans are farked up and it always comes out in the bedroom.

I wonder if it's an evolutionary thing - females gravitate to the most masculine of males. Maybe the strong traits are desired as the less dominant ones seem like a weakness?

I know I'm less inclined to be attracted to a man that my own personality and sexuality overpowers.


We still have a wolf pack mentality as a species. It's why we are so taken with con-artists and assholes. Which is also why societies collapse and need to be rebuilt so regularly.

Women don't know what a suitable mate is because, biologically, they have never had to before now, the strongest males just took them. This will probably accelerate the 'rot' of society.

I suppose if all cultures became equally weak, we might turn into some kind of race of asshole peacocks. Primping prissy males chased after by plain females. Either way I should be mercifully dead by then.
 
2012-04-16 11:28:35 AM  
From the article:
She comes back from seeing him with bruises .

YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG!
 
2012-04-16 11:31:33 AM  

Oafmeel: In other news, BDSM boots are acceptable fashion for soccer mommies & office girls.
/whar obvious tag whar


Just boots? I was appalled when I saw a 14 year old girl in over $300 worth of steel bondage gear, cuffs, collar, halter, etc... until I saw her mother had a matching set then I was disgusted.

Not sure WTF was up with that, but it sure was not appropriate for wearing to a farking Hardees.
 
2012-04-16 11:32:17 AM  

hitlersbrain: This will probably accelerate the 'rot' of society.

I suppose if all cultures became equally weak, we might turn into some kind of race of asshole peacocks. Primping prissy males chased after by plain females. Either way I should be mercifully dead by then


Aren't you just a little ray of sunshine?

There can't be dominant, intelligent and physically attractive men who are good? There must be one out there somewhere.

/that's my dream and I'm clinging to it, dammit
 
2012-04-16 11:37:59 AM  

bluehubcap: I know I'm less inclined to be attracted to a man that my own personality and sexuality overpowers.


To each their own. Not everyone likes the same thing.

Slaves2Darkness: YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG!


Not if that's what she wanted.
 
2012-04-16 11:40:00 AM  

bluehubcap: vwarb: Every woman I've ever met, even if she appeared totally bland, was into all sorts of domination stuff like this.

Humans are farked up and it always comes out in the bedroom.

I wonder if it's an evolutionary thing - females gravitate to the most masculine of males. Maybe the strong traits are desired as the less dominant ones seem like a weakness?

I know I'm less inclined to be attracted to a man that my own personality and sexuality overpowers.



The truth is, you are deluded. What you think is your 'sexual power', is just you getting off that a man wants to fark you. Wow. What power!

You and the other 2 Billion women out there. :)


(Interdasting!!!) (- .. -)
 
2012-04-16 11:40:37 AM  

bluehubcap: hitlersbrain: This will probably accelerate the 'rot' of society.

I suppose if all cultures became equally weak, we might turn into some kind of race of asshole peacocks. Primping prissy males chased after by plain females. Either way I should be mercifully dead by then

Aren't you just a little ray of sunshine?

There can't be dominant, intelligent and physically attractive men who are good? There must be one out there somewhere.

/that's my dream and I'm clinging to it, dammit


There are, unfortunately you'd never know it because being dominant is frowned upon and often regarded with outright xenophobia, so we have to act vanilla until we're absolutely certain the woman(or women) we're with aren't going to flip their shiat.

Little hints go a long way though, try wearing a little lock somewhere to denote you're submissive, they'll come to you ;)
 
2012-04-16 11:41:38 AM  
I can take a severe beating for an extended period of time, so I'm getting a kick out of some of these replies...

/makes 'call me' gesture to Exception Collection
 
2012-04-16 11:42:44 AM  
We all know what comes after the spanking.
 
2012-04-16 11:42:45 AM  

Exception Collection: Directorscut: In article the author wonders if "this is what they(feminism activist) went to the barricades for?". In a word, yes. Female masochism, in fact, masochism in general, is about a willful exchange of power. The slave(submissive) has ALL the power when the relationship starts. In giving that power over to the master (dominant) the submissive is exercising their free will, the free will that the feminist movement worked so hard to gain. People who do not understand the dynamic of BDSM, should really not write about it, no matter how many sources that they quote.

This is very, very true.

I was at a seminar recently (yes they do seminars for this stuff!), and the presenter was talking about how it's the sadists that get the short end of the stick. Here they are, getting into the groove, having fun... and then their partner suddenly stops everything by using their safeword. The submissive/masochist gets what they want, but the sadist just gets worked up. The one on the bottom may not call every shot, but they're still the one in charge.


That's why I laughed the first time I heard someone use the term "topping from the bottom" as if it were an unusual thing.
 
2012-04-16 11:44:29 AM  
For our one month anniversary, I went to a leather shop and commisioned wrist and ankle straps for my girlfriend. She absolutely loved them, showed them off at work telling people how thoughtful I was.
Coming up on a year now, and for the one year anniversary, going to have a collar made
Adult choices, adult fun..
 
2012-04-16 11:47:58 AM  

This text is now purple: This is news?

When there already exists entrenched psychological explanations for a phenomenon, it's probably not new.


blah blah blah. psychoanalysis aside, (and to be sure there often is a pyschological dimension to this) the basic reason for women's attraction to this is very simple: It causes massive enorphin flows, stimulation of erogenous zones (directly and and indirectly), and gives shy/repressed women permission to feel "sexy" because she's the passive recipient of the kinkyness not its intiator
 
2012-04-16 11:53:02 AM  

The Beatings Will Continue Until Morale Improves: We all know what comes after the spanking.


I'm not clear on wether or not its Ironic for you to comment in this thread with a handle like that.

But it amuses me.


/No shots of Maggie Gyllenhal?
//Self Flagellation is an interesting twist on self domination.
 
2012-04-16 11:53:48 AM  

Exception Collection: Directorscut: In article the author wonders if "this is what they(feminism activist) went to the barricades for?". In a word, yes. Female masochism, in fact, masochism in general, is about a willful exchange of power. The slave(submissive) has ALL the power when the relationship starts. In giving that power over to the master (dominant) the submissive is exercising their free will, the free will that the feminist movement worked so hard to gain. People who do not understand the dynamic of BDSM, should really not write about it, no matter how many sources that they quote.

This is very, very true.I was at a seminar recently (yes they do seminars for this stuff!), and the presenter was talking about how it's the sadists that get the short end of the stick. Here they are, getting into the groove, having fun... and then their partner suddenly stops everything by using their safeword. The submissive/masochist gets what they want, but the sadist just gets worked up. The one on the bottom may not call every shot, but they're still the one in charge.


If you have skill as a top and at least a passing familiarity with your partner, you should never hear a safeword. It's your job to bring them to the edge of it sometimes but never over it, The top's job is to know your sub's head better than they do and act accordingly
 
2012-04-16 11:54:14 AM  

Nancy Grace's Billowing Face Vents: bluehubcap: vwarb: Every woman I've ever met, even if she appeared totally bland, was into all sorts of domination stuff like this.

Humans are farked up and it always comes out in the bedroom.

I wonder if it's an evolutionary thing - females gravitate to the most masculine of males. Maybe the strong traits are desired as the less dominant ones seem like a weakness?

I know I'm less inclined to be attracted to a man that my own personality and sexuality overpowers.


The truth is, you are deluded. What you think is your 'sexual power', is just you getting off that a man wants to fark you. Wow. What power!

You and the other 2 Billion women out there. :)


(Interdasting!!!) (- .. -)


You're an idiot.
 
2012-04-16 11:54:55 AM  
i42.tinypic.com

"People in positions of power often seek dominating sexual partners as a way to relieve the stress which comes with such authority."
 
2012-04-16 11:55:19 AM  

Nancy Grace's Billowing Face Vents: bluehubcap: vwarb: Every woman I've ever met, even if she appeared totally bland, was into all sorts of domination stuff like this.

Humans are farked up and it always comes out in the bedroom.

I wonder if it's an evolutionary thing - females gravitate to the most masculine of males. Maybe the strong traits are desired as the less dominant ones seem like a weakness?

I know I'm less inclined to be attracted to a man that my own personality and sexuality overpowers.


The truth is, you are deluded. What you think is your 'sexual power', is just you getting off that a man wants to fark you. Wow. What power!

You and the other 2 Billion women out there. :)


(Interdasting!!!) (- .. -)


You say all that in kind of a sarcastic tone...like it isn't really true. Wars have been started, people killed, empires literally gained and lost because men have wanted to fark certain women.

You can snark all ya want, but that statement demonstrates a stunning lack of knowledge about the human condition, and you may want to reevaluate it.
 
2012-04-16 11:55:23 AM  

Slaves2Darkness: Oafmeel: In other news, BDSM boots are acceptable fashion for soccer mommies & office girls.
/whar obvious tag whar

Just boots? I was appalled when I saw a 14 year old girl in over $300 worth of steel bondage gear, cuffs, collar, halter, etc... until I saw her mother had a matching set then I was disgusted.

Not sure WTF was up with that, but it sure was not appropriate for wearing to a farking Hardees.


Slaves2Darkness: Oafmeel: In other news, BDSM boots are acceptable fashion for soccer mommies & office girls.
/whar obvious tag whar

Just boots? I was appalled when I saw a 14 year old girl in over $300 worth of steel bondage gear, cuffs, collar, halter, etc... until I saw her mother had a matching set then I was disgusted.

Not sure WTF was up with that, but it sure was not appropriate for wearing to a farking Hardees.


Depends on which Hardee's, I would imagine.
 
2012-04-16 12:05:11 PM  

iq_in_binary: Little hints go a long way though, try wearing a little lock somewhere to denote you're submissive, they'll come to you ;)


Thank you for the tip, I'm familiari with how it works, and I'm not currently seeking a Dom (and I know where and how to look if I were). :)

I was going on hitlersbrain's theory following mine that the female species is attracted to the dominant (not the BDSM kind of dominant, necessarily) version of the male. He extended his theory to include that's why women are attacted to the jerk version of mankind, rather than the nice guys. I think (and hope) that there can be nice guys who have strong personalities and can be dominant in bed.

Or am I wrong in that hope? I mean, can't a nice guy be highly intelligent, have focus, vision and drive in his life and also be sexually aggressive (in a non BDSM way)?

/please say it's possible, please say it's possible, please, please, please
 
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