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lohphat
2012-01-21 01:14:49 PM
And neither is your sense of free country.
krafty420
2012-01-21 01:17:49 PM
Ignorance alert: gays can now get married
hubiestubert
2012-01-21 03:07:46 PM
Um...good luck with that. There is that pesky reciprocity thing between states.
FirstNationalBastard
2012-01-21 05:39:05 PM
So, do they let the 22-year-old trophy wife married to the 80-year-old millionaire get a membership?
Toshiro Mifune's Letter Opener
2012-01-21 05:46:58 PM
But they'd accept Kim Kardashian and [INSERT CURRENT HUSBAND'S NAME HERE] with open arms, right?
Theaetetus
2012-01-21 06:24:14 PM
hubiestubert
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Um...good luck with that. There is that pesky reciprocity thing between states.
Ohio doesn't have to recognize D.C. marriages, thanks to DoMA's second clause. And before you go all "bu-bu-but full faith & credit," DoMA's second clause explicitly addresses the FF&C clause, and is arguably constitutional on that ground.
/third clause is clearly unconstitutional
//second clause is a tougher argument, because Congress explicitly has the power to define the effect of the FF&C clause.
2wolves
2012-01-21 06:24:30 PM
Because civil rights are derived by her reading of a book about the travails of a semi-nomadic middle eastern tribe.
I'm not ok with that.
Daddy's Big Pink Man-Squirrel
2012-01-21 06:37:12 PM
Fine, you don't like gay guys. I just don't see why you would act like an asshole when dealing with them.
I mean, considering what gay guys DO to assholes...
Ed Finnerty
2012-01-21 06:41:36 PM
Is watching you consummate your fake marriage
hubiestubert
2012-01-21 06:45:20 PM
Daddy's Big Pink Man-Squirrel
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Fine, you don't like gay guys. I just don't see why you would act like an asshole when dealing with them.
I mean, considering what gay guys DO to assholes...
To be fair, you run a gym, you'd think that you'd want a few hard bodied guys around who had no interest in the gals. Some eye candy for the ladies, without any chance of competition. It's sort of win-win.
xl5150
2012-01-21 06:47:38 PM
Am I really the only one getting tired of veterans trying to use their past "service" for special treatment all the time? I agree that the gym seems to be in the wrong here, but the fact that one of these guys is a veteran doesn't mean that it is somehow more wrong to do it to him than to someone else.
Eddie Adams from Torrance
2012-01-21 07:07:25 PM
xl5150
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Am I really the only one getting tired of veterans trying to use their past "service" for special treatment all the time?
I get your point, but asking not to be discriminated against because of your gender is hardly asking for special treatment.
xl5150
2012-01-21 07:14:15 PM
Eddie Adams from Torrance
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I get your point, but asking not to be discriminated against because of your gender is hardly asking for special treatment.
That wasn't what I was saying though. I agreed that the gym is in the wrong. It would also be wrong if they were doing it to someone who has never served in the military. Insinuating that it is somehow worse to infringe on the rights of a veteran than someone who is not a veteran is what I have a problem with; it has nothing to do with the specific argument in this story.
shivashakti
2012-01-21 07:35:36 PM
This is f*cking repulsive.
thismomentinblackhistory
2012-01-21 07:36:45 PM
xl5150
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Eddie Adams from Torrance: I get your point, but asking not to be discriminated against because of your gender is hardly asking for special treatment.
That wasn't what I was saying though. I agreed that the gym is in the wrong. It would also be wrong if they were doing it to someone who has never served in the military. Insinuating that it is somehow worse to infringe on the rights of a veteran than someone who is not a veteran is what I have a problem with; it has nothing to do with the specific argument in this story.
The reason why veteran status is always brought up in situations such as these is because of the hero-worship for troops in this country for "protecting our rights." That's relevant to a lot of people. What I appreciate about it's presence in this article and situation is that it paints the homophobes into a slightly smaller corner, makes their discrimination look more ridiculous than it normally would, and causes X number of people to take two steps back from that sort of position.
taurusowner
2012-01-21 07:38:06 PM
hubiestubert
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Daddy's Big Pink Man-Squirrel: Fine, you don't like gay guys. I just don't see why you would act like an asshole when dealing with them.
I mean, considering what gay guys DO to assholes...
To be fair, you run a gym, you'd think that you'd want a few hard bodied guys around who had no interest in the gals. Some eye candy for the ladies, without any chance of competition. It's sort of win-win.
Best response so far.
Warlordtrooper
2012-01-21 07:38:14 PM
Theaetetus
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hubiestubert: Um...good luck with that. There is that pesky reciprocity thing between states.
Ohio doesn't have to recognize D.C. marriages, thanks to DoMA's second clause. And before you go all "bu-bu-but full faith & credit," DoMA's second clause explicitly addresses the FF&C clause, and is arguably constitutional on that ground.
/third clause is clearly unconstitutional
//second clause is a tougher argument, because Congress explicitly has the power to define the effect of the FF&C clause.
Yes they do have the power to define the effect of the FF&C clause...... It's called a Constitutional Amendment. What they cannot do is change parts of the constitution in regular laws. They have to Amend the Constitution in order to do so, which is spelled out In the Constitution.
Thisbymaster
2012-01-21 07:38:38 PM
Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
Zoomaster
2012-01-21 07:39:20 PM
This will cure the gay
/just kidding, needed a reason to post the pic
itsfullofstars
2012-01-21 07:40:40 PM
This is Ohio, if you dont have a brewski in your hand, you might as well be wearing a dress.
kiwimoogle84
2012-01-21 07:41:17 PM
Zoomaster
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This will cure the gay
/just kidding, needed a reason to post the pic
Actually, I think you created another gay.
/and she faps
//let's see if I can ruin another thread
I_Am_Weasel
2012-01-21 07:41:33 PM
They're not getting my business!
404 page not found
2012-01-21 07:41:49 PM
xl5150
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Am I really the only one getting tired of veterans trying to use their past "service" for special treatment all the time? I agree that the gym seems to be in the wrong here, but the fact that one of these guys is a veteran doesn't mean that it is somehow more wrong to do it to him than to someone else.
PonceAlyosha
2012-01-21 07:42:11 PM
Theaetetus
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Ohio doesn't have to recognize D.C. marriages, thanks to DoMA's second clause. And before you go all "bu-bu-but full faith & credit," DoMA's second clause explicitly addresses the FF&C clause, and is arguably constitutional on that ground.
No it doesn't, because federal law does not trump the constitution, even if if claims to.
thismomentinblackhistory
2012-01-21 07:42:14 PM
Thisbymaster
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Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
The policy states that it recognizes marriage "according to the state of Ohio." But what's in it for the gym? Saving a few hundred bucks from two guys who have been member for years? I'm surprised a rival gym hasn't stepped forward to invite them in with a family membership.
Norv Turner
2012-01-21 07:43:10 PM
xl5150
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Am I really the only one getting tired of veterans trying to use their past "service" for special treatment all the time? I agree that the gym seems to be in the wrong here, but the fact that one of these guys is a veteran doesn't mean that it is somehow more wrong to do it to him than to someone else.
Well to be fair, he's dealt with a lot more than you have.
"Omg, I didn't get cell phone service for a minute today. My life is so hard"
Try having you lose oil pressure while going 500mph
TheShavingofOccam123
2012-01-21 07:43:52 PM
Ohio is just two assholes sayin hey.
Teen Wolf Blitzer
2012-01-21 07:43:56 PM
The natatorium's spousal policy adheres to Ohio state law, which defines marriage as between a man and a woman.
Crappy situation, but don't blame the gym because you live in a bigoted shiathole.
dustman81
2012-01-21 07:44:02 PM
Thisbymaster
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Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
The Cuyahoga Falls Natatorium is publicly funded and taxpayer owned.
ongbok
2012-01-21 07:44:44 PM
Why do veterans always bring up veteran status when they are discriminated against, especially in places like Ohio? I understand that they would be really pissed that after serving their country, fighting for democracy in other countries, that they are denied it here. But they also got to understand that unless they walk lock in step with the Right Wing ideology and conform to the Right's morality that their veteran status doesn't mean shiat to those people. The only veterans they support are the ones that agree with them and all others can die. I wouldn't be surprised if some Right Wingers start commenting on this guys veteran status by saying something like the only reason why he joined the military was for the "free money for school".
ComicBookGuy
2012-01-21 07:45:02 PM
Cuyahoga Falls Mayor Don Robart says he thinks the natatorium has a fair policy. He says until the Ohio state law changes the definition of marriage, the natatorium will not either.
Lemme guess: Don Robart is a social conservative shiatbag?
Teen Wolf Blitzer
2012-01-21 07:45:13 PM
Thisbymaster
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Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
The Civil Rights Acts disagrees.
J. Frank Parnell
2012-01-21 07:45:24 PM
Why would they even want to continue going there after being treated like that?
Find a place with nice, non-prejudiced people.
Flragnararch
2012-01-21 07:45:28 PM
Why would you want to segregate against possibly the largest group of your clientele?
shinji3i
2012-01-21 07:45:35 PM
Thisbymaster
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Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
And they are not saying that the government should come in to shut them down. They are however attempting to enlighten the community about the discrimination so folks who live nearby might say, drop their memberships and move to another business that does not do crap like this? If I was going to that gym I would at least. Write it down on that little comment card they give you and the like.
Weird how business works you know?
TheShavingofOccam123
2012-01-21 07:46:43 PM
dustman81
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Thisbymaster: Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
The Cuyahoga Falls Natatorium is publicly funded and taxpayer owned.
Uh oh. I feel a well-deserved class-action lawsuit coming on.
CitizensUnited
2012-01-21 07:46:48 PM
liverleef
2012-01-21 07:46:54 PM
Hate to sound like im stereotyping here because I'm firmly against sterotyping but a gym discriminating against gays? Thats bad business. I mean all those gay dudes do is work out. Thats like refusing to sell liquor to Irishmen or refusing to sell confederate flags to rednecks. I'd go so far as to say its like not allowing blacks into your rims/grillz/fried chicken store.
dustman81
2012-01-21 07:47:31 PM
thismomentinblackhistory
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Thisbymaster: Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
The policy states that it recognizes marriage "according to the state of Ohio." But what's in it for the gym? Saving a few hundred bucks from two guys who have been member for years? I'm surprised a rival gym hasn't stepped forward to invite them in with a family membership.
They can join the Akron YMCA with a family membership. That's right, the Young Men's Christian Association allows same-sex couples to join with a family membership.
404 page not found
2012-01-21 07:48:08 PM
ongbok
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Why do veterans always bring up veteran status when they are discriminated against
, especially in places like Ohio? I understand that they would be really pissed that after serving their country, fighting for democracy in other countries, that they are denied it here. But
they also got to understand that unless they walk lock in step with the Right Wing ideology and conform to the Right's morality that their veteran status doesn't mean shiat to those people
. The only veterans they support are the ones that agree with them and all others can die. I wouldn't be surprised if some Right Wingers start commenting on this guys veteran status by saying something like the only reason why he joined the military was for the "free money for school".
Are you saying that veterans who don't walk lock-step with the Right Wing ideology and corform to the Right's morality should just keep quiet when they are discriminated against?
Is that what you're saying?
bravian
2012-01-21 07:48:12 PM
Thisbymaster
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Their business their rules, they don't take government money so no problem.
While the business in this state doesn't have recognize their marriage - that can't discriminate on basis of religion, sex etc. So - "their business their rules" is completely wrong. They have to follow rules.
/oh - btw - you and this business are complete assholes
//just thought I share
StreetlightInTheGhetto
2012-01-21 07:48:24 PM
Gay folks, especially older ones who have had to deal with this nonsense for awhile..
Just remember: it will get better. Because my generation generally doesn't care if you get married or not.
Hopefully that stays the same, but yep. I personally just can't get the anti gay marriage vitriol. At all. Since I'm pretty sure it's an irrational fear anyway, I'm okay with that, but still frustrated when friends move to states or countries where their union is recognized.
In due time.
kukukupo
2012-01-21 07:50:10 PM
shinji3i
2012-01-21 07:53:47 PM
TheMadChaosopher
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Why would you even want to be at a gym, or anywhere else, that makes it clear they dont want you there? Why not just go join a gay gym?
O thats right. Cuz whining and playing the victim is the new american way.
I'll bite monsieur troll.
Why did Rosa Parks sit at the front?
Mija
2012-01-21 07:56:10 PM
A private business can refuse service if it wants to. Get over it. Open your own abominations only gym.
2wolves
2012-01-21 07:56:21 PM
xl5150
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Am I really the only one getting tired of veterans trying to use their past "service" for special treatment all the time? I agree that the gym seems to be in the wrong here, but the fact that one of these guys is a veteran doesn't mean that it is somehow more wrong to do it to him than to someone else.
Define "special treatment."
I'll wait.
Trocadero
2012-01-21 07:56:31 PM
Wait, if you kick out all the gay men, how will your gym stay open? There'd be nobody there to work out!
Teen Wolf Blitzer
2012-01-21 07:57:20 PM
TheMadChaosopher
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Why would you even want to be at a gym, or anywhere else, that makes it clear they dont want you there?
Why not just go join a gay gym?
They tried, but all the Crossfit gyms in their area weren't accepting new clients.
firefly212
2012-01-21 07:57:56 PM
Theaetetus
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hubiestubert: Um...good luck with that. There is that pesky reciprocity thing between states.
Ohio doesn't have to recognize D.C. marriages, thanks to DoMA's second clause. And before you go all "bu-bu-but full faith & credit," DoMA's second clause explicitly addresses the FF&C clause, and is arguably constitutional on that ground.
/third clause is clearly unconstitutional
//second clause is a tougher argument, because Congress explicitly has the power to define the effect of the FF&C clause.
FF&C maybe, equal protection notsomuch... you wanna make second class citizens, you've gotta get an amendment to do it.
ciderczar
2012-01-21 07:58:34 PM
J. Frank Parnell
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Why would they even want to continue going there after being treated like that?
Find a place with nice, non-prejudiced people.
Like the wops, they're famously tolerant.
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