This year for Thanksgiving, I found out that my in-laws are totally hijacking my Christmas and forcing me to stay in town as they visit for a week. This means I don't get to see my parents for Christmas, don't get to go to Christmas Eve service with my folks, see my friends that always comes home for the holidays, and have to somehow find a way to take in four more adults, a kid, and three smelly, unbathed, not remotely tamed dogs. I'm beyond pissed.

Fiberglassgem: My sister is a narcissist who, for some reason and completely out of the blue (trust me, I asked her what I had done to deserve it?) decided last summer that she didn't like me and has made every family gathering awkward and uncomfortable since. Oh and my parents are in denial that she is in serious need of help. Is it normal for a 20 year old woman to lack interest in anyone else unless it serves her in some way, or to show inappropriate anger when people fail to worship the ground she walks on? She has a special nastiness for me, but she basically has the social skills of a biatchy 13 year old towards anyone else. Anyone else dealing with a narcissist?

Every bloody woman in my family is a blue ribbon narcissist. It's like a never ending Dynasty LARP.