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robotninja		2003-05-19 09:39:47 PM

"Is oral sex adultery? YES! That's the end of the f*ckin' argument!!"

doccm9		2003-05-19 09:39:53 PM

Whaaaaaaaaaa,
Think of the children! God knows none of their parents never partook in such debauchery in high school. (PS: not sure if partook is really a word or if I just made it up)

femme_fatale		2003-05-19 09:40:05 PM

just GIS "herpes" to see how it devours your penis. Mmmmmmm.

Sorry... I'm all for oral sex, just not casual oral sex. While the idea of receiving casual oral sex may be a turn on for both sexes...the giver has got to have some issues to want to stick their face in a strangers crotch and giver.

paintballdude_13		2003-05-19 09:41:38 PM

I dont really think oral sex is sex, I mean if your going out with someone for awhile and they give ya a bj or you go muff divin what the f**k is wrong with that? I mean hell its like a really good feeling kiss lol

Isa		2003-05-19 09:41:38 PM

CruJones: I appreciate your viewpoint that it isn't enjoyable, but i believe that the kids should be made aware of the potential harm they could be doing to their bodies by believing that engaging what they see as a harmless non-sexual act. If they then choose to participate, then spiffy for them, but I would like to know that they are at least making informed decisions.

havkhones		2003-05-19 09:41:38 PM

Sex to me is like a race to orgasam, and I am currently undefeated!

Epsilon		2003-05-19 09:44:54 PM

In my city there have been widespread reports of 12 year olds having oral, "just for fun". Damn. When I was in school it was tough as all hell to get a BJ.

I don't have kids, so I guess I don't care much. But a good friend of mine has a rebellious daughter who turns 12 in September and he's petrified at the thought of what's going to happen. I don't bring the subject up around him, but inside I'm LMAO.

Nanookanano		2003-05-19 09:46:22 PM

Look, a mate who goes down on his or her partner is an angel of mercy from God. My body is a Temple, and I deserve a mate who will kneel and pray at my alter. But, in every other circumstance, going downtown is always slutastic.

BradRFS		2003-05-19 09:46:34 PM

great HEAD-line

Nanookanano		2003-05-19 09:51:23 PM

Honey-honey, hey
Baby, don't-cha wanna
Man like me?

Honey-honey, hey
Baby, don't-cha wanna
Baby, don't-cha wanna
Baby, don't-cha wanna
Maaan!?

Philistine		2003-05-19 09:52:12 PM

Dear Penthouse Forum...

Sphyy		2003-05-19 09:52:20 PM

You people are morons. Oral SEX is SEX.
Notice the matching words...)

doccm9		2003-05-19 09:52:36 PM

Nanoo, take that bible, and god shiat and go stick it. I really hope you're just trolling.

avixxen2		2003-05-19 09:53:50 PM

LOL! in the same vein as some of these comments, if i insert my dildo is that sex??????

wait... so a bj can't be a prelude to sex, either? what happens if its a case i get so turned on i gotta have it???

heres a question as far as oral sex, i think i taste rather bland, is that a bad thing?

i think i'm with Jabber, why must we draw lines around everything.

/maybe i should have put a Dear Fark at the beginning.

MasterSheik		2003-05-19 09:54:33 PM

Is a bear Catholic?

doccm9		2003-05-19 09:55:12 PM

Avixxen, no it's not. It's better than tasting like Sourcream and Onion potato chips.

DOOM		2003-05-19 10:04:19 PM

Is anyone else getting turned on when Femme_fatale starts talking about someone sticking their face in someone else's crotch?

phareous		2003-05-19 10:04:20 PM

According to a survey by the Henry J. Kaiser Foundation, 20 percent of 12- to 17-year-olds believed that oral sex is safe sex. Even more -- 36 percent -- of 15- to 17-year-olds thought so.

Dang....they are this stupid about a simple biological act and how diseases are transmitted...just think how much they are excelling in history and math.

Kurohone		2003-05-19 10:04:40 PM

My first two girlfriends both told me that they thought that a blowjob was 'less personal' than vaginal intercourse...which always sorta stumped me. I mean, yes, there is a VERY high degree of intimacy, letting down of guards and boundaries and such with 'regular' (poor choice of words) sex...but that's kinda how it's DESIGNED to go...Tab A in Slot B. Putting your FACE down there, considering what other functions those highly entertaining and practical organs perform...well, how can that be any less personal?

Not that I complained, mind you, they both gave spectacular head...

sincityrugby		2003-05-19 10:05:42 PM

Who cares as long as you blow your wad or her wad, it's all good.

The_Big_O		2003-05-19 10:07:31 PM

I think that people give oral because they don't want the complication of actual intercourse. It's easier to say goodbye to a "one-night-stand" from a party if you don't go all the way.

avixxen2		2003-05-19 10:09:16 PM

LOL! Doccm9, are you telling me you had a woman where going down on her tasted like sour cream and onion potato chips??? because if you are you're making it sound like she ate some sour cream and onion potato chips........ :P

doccm9		2003-05-19 10:11:03 PM

No, it was just sweaty and stinky and salty (from the sweat). I felt no need to continue.

SuperSix-Two		2003-05-19 10:11:33 PM

Robotninja

Rock on! That was right on target.

xxxjoel		2003-05-19 10:12:08 PM

It's okay, high schoolers-- chow down on anything & everything you want:

sincityrugby		2003-05-19 10:14:40 PM

Yeah if a girl aint properly groomed or cleaned or trimmed or smells like the dumpster behind a deli- the deal's off.

RandyJohnson		2003-05-19 10:14:44 PM

She gives you a blowjob. She licks every portion of your body. She takes my manjuice in her mouth. Then the next morning, my toothbrush can't be used?

Nanookanano		2003-05-19 10:15:50 PM

Doccm9
Have you told all your ancestors to take their best advice and "stick it"? Did you actually say such a thing to your father?! Or, does good advice have a shelf life, in your view? Do you really think you've figured everything out on your own, without help from earlier people? I'm not trolling, I'm actually interested. It seems unfortunate to me that you discount the most influential book in the English language. But, everybody is ignorant in some way. I apologise for pissing you off. That's not my goal, it is just a side effect of my goal. I admit, I rub everybody the wrong way, eventually.

sincityrugby		2003-05-19 10:20:16 PM

And the cleanliness applies to the backdoor as well.

Jws755		2003-05-19 10:24:44 PM

I would offer that if we are doing something sexual that I would not want my mom/child/neighbor to walk in on, its sex.. maybe not the ultimate on the spectrum, but still sex..

If my wife walked in on some babe between my legs on her knees, and I tried to say it wasnt sex, I would still be just as dead..

Same goes if some dude was doing that to my wife. He gonna have problems before he gets to the front door. However IF it was her hottie girlfriend doing the deed, I would wanna watch the whole thing... but thats another thread...

avixxen2		2003-05-19 10:25:20 PM

ahhh now i understand, Doccm9 .

sincityrugby		2003-05-19 10:25:52 PM

Jws755

Werd.

llarken		2003-05-19 10:26:13 PM

Wow...I'm with femme on this one. In high school. oral sex was usually the next level AFTER sex. As in, you finially gave it up, so now after a few months you start getting into the 'freaky' stuff like oral, anal, ect.

Oh well, I shouldn't be that surprised. At the rate people are physically maturing and the pressure media and peers are applying for teens to USE those newly found physical attributes, I can understand how something like this might manifest.

AcornMan		2003-05-19 10:27:04 PM

The article quoted from a 1991 Kinsey Institute report in which 59 percent of college students surveyed said that they don't consider oral sex to constitute having 'had sex.'

Oops, so much for blaming Bill Clinton. Sorry folks.

w00t_!		2003-05-19 10:33:30 PM

If it smells like fish, it's a dish.
If it smells like cologne, LEAVE IT ALONE!

Rosalea		2003-05-19 10:38:09 PM

oral sex is sex...note the sex in the phrase oral sex
I've always thought it was more intimate then intercourse.

avixxen2		2003-05-19 10:47:36 PM

oral sex is very intimate..... not to mention you have to have a lot of trust, trust that the other person isn't going to use their teeth in an extremely painful manner!

Jeho		2003-05-19 10:57:32 PM

Tell you what.

Y'all debate it.

I'll just continue enjoying it.

Infarct		2003-05-19 10:58:30 PM

I find these statistics very frightening, personally. I went to an all-male high school, and if oral sex EVER....*shudders*

/off to bathroom to puke

Lipo		2003-05-19 10:58:52 PM

Just a thought, but what happens between gay couples? If it isn't sex unless penetration occurs, what is it? Are you telling me that lesbians don't have sex? What about gay men who don't like anal sex? Are they doomed to a life without sex? That's gotta suck.

ScottMpls		2003-05-19 10:59:12 PM

Is oral sex "really" sex? Depends on whether I have to call after getting blown, or going down on some chickie.

/Pig

SuperSix-Two		2003-05-19 10:59:52 PM

Oral sex was kinda the precursor, with someone you know. If you don't know them, why take the risk? So I follow Femme and Llarken too.

Incidentially, there ought to be a class for teaching people to do it correctly. I've found women who just don't. On the other hand I'm sure there are women who wish men would do it right too.

DaCricket		2003-05-19 11:59:47 PM

On the other hand I'm sure there are women who wish men would do it right too.

AMEN!!!

You know the one thing I've never understood and been totaly annoyed by is the man who expects to receive, but has absolutly no interest in giving...what's up with that?!?!

Garrettt		2003-05-20 12:02:11 AM

Man... maybe I'm not a virgin... that's comforting...

ZzeusS		2003-05-20 12:02:51 AM

05-19-03 11:59:47 PM DaCricket
You know the one thing I've never understood and been totaly annoyed by is the man who expects to receive, but has absolutly no interest in giving...what's up with that?!?!

I dunno. I would never expect a BJ if I didn't go down on her as well, if not first. I mean shiat, fair's fair.

TheShaz		2003-05-20 12:03:07 AM

This is Clinton's Legacy.

I bet he is proud and if he's not I bet he's "satisfied"

Griff		2003-05-20 12:04:21 AM

That sucks Da Cricket, but I'm willing to bet it happens the other way around a lot more.

Jeho		2003-05-20 12:10:03 AM

Well, I am pretty picky in that regards. If oral sex is going to be giving to me begrudingly I would prefer not to have it at all.

GGracie		2003-05-20 12:16:17 AM

Oral sex is sex - if it's done right that is!!!

For the women - SWALLOW! It's easy, just like taking down a shot of tequila. Also, make sure you are free from "PUTRID POONTANG" before expecting a guy to head south of the border on you. Remember, his mouth is going to come back up and he will want to kiss you with it. Talk about getting a taste of your own medicine! If you gag, learn to breathe fast through your nose and tilt your head back. Tilting your head back suspends your gag reflex. If you're worried about the taste, shove it to the back of your mouth and press your tongue against it to the roof of your mouth hard, then swallow before it reaches your taste buds. If you do get a bad taste, keep pushing your tongue to the roof of your mouth afterwards and move it around. This will cause you to salivate so you can swallow down the nasty taste. With practice you won't taste a thing.

For the men - Learn it, Live it, Do it. The clit is your friend. Make it happy and you'll make her happy and then she will make you happy. And if you do it right, you can make her happy 7 or 8 times in a row! Be gentle but persistent. Get a rhythm going and stick with it. If her legs shake too much you're probably being too rough. And a woman is just as sensitive as a man right after orgasm. But it hurts us women, where men just get a case of the ticklish torture.

For both... The Tao of Sexology - excellent book to learn from! I give it two nipples up. Enjoy!