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2010-05-07 06:37:44 PM
hailin: most women prefer a circumcised penis.

False.

Try, you know, maybe leaving the US at some point in your life. Or at least try to pretend like the world extends beyond the experiences of you and your few girlfriends.
 
2010-05-07 06:41:28 PM
hailin: Naman: Solution: stop dating men with bad hygiene.

He showered everyday, sometimes twice because he went to the gym all the time. Sorry, but with the extra skin there it sweats and gets smelly after a few hours no matter what you do.

But please, try and convince me otherwise because you are insecure knowing that most women prefer a circumcised penis. It amuses me greatly.


I am circumcised, but thanks for playing.
 
2010-05-07 06:41:43 PM
Why don't the parents just do this at home themselves?

/Just run the fish hook under a tap for 2 minutes if it has been used recently.
 
2010-05-07 06:59:38 PM
And I thought waxing was bad enough.
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2010-05-07 07:02:06 PM
hailin: Naman: Solution: stop dating men with bad hygiene.

He showered everyday, sometimes twice because he went to the gym all the time. Sorry, but with the extra skin there it sweats and gets smelly after a few hours no matter what you do.

But please, try and convince me otherwise because you are insecure knowing that most women prefer a circumcised penis. It amuses me greatly.


But did he clean his penis? Showering every day doesn't necessarily mean cleaning the entire body.
 
2010-05-07 07:08:53 PM
Folks, let's face it: men are going to rape. So, let's make it legal for them to put the tip in without consent, so they won't go all the way.
 
2010-05-07 07:29:31 PM
To me, all the question of "benefit" and "risk" is rather irrelevant. It's an issue of bodily autonomy.

You see, if I circ my newborn boy and then he decides as an adult that he'd really rather I NOT circumcise him, oops. Nothing he can do.

But if I choose NOT to circ my newborn boy and then he decides as an adult that he wants to be circ'ed, he can have that done! And they can even do it under anesthesia. (It's very, VERY hard to anesthetize a newborn because their penis is so small and it's hard to get the needle in there.)

Why do we always seem think that male circumcision MUST be performed on newborns? Even if it DOES reduce HIV transmission (which the studies have yet to prove), why would I be worried about my 6-month-old getting HIV? Even if it DOES make the penis more appealing to girls, why am I worried about my 9-month-old's sexual success? Why can't we all just wait for a little bit until circumcision can be done under anesthesia and with informed consent of the person whose genitalia it affects?
 
2010-05-07 07:31:59 PM
fluffy2097: /quit with your feminist bullshiat.

People like you make it 100 percent clear how little respect for women you actually have. Did you even read the wiki entry? Where it discusses removal of sometimes almost all of the outside female sexual organs? About how this is also an issue of control over a woman's entire sexual life and for the most part, male circumcision, while wrong, is not.

This is much more serious for a woman but you can't seem to grasp that or you just refuse to for reasons I'm not quite clear on. It's not feminist bullshiat to say that taking away and decreasing a woman's ability to find pleasure in sex is equal to removing a small part of a man's penis that does not have that much effect overall on their enjoyment of the sex act. A woman stating that an issue is more serious for her gender does not automatically mean she's being a mouthy biatch. Shouldn't you be taking out the trash and mowing the lawn?

If you don't have a foreskin and you want it back, I understand there are methods to try to get one back.
 
2010-05-07 07:36:20 PM
United States, has had the unintended consequence of driving some families to take their daughters to other countries to undergo mutilation.

It's simply too logical (and racist) to just not allow these families back in if they go overseas and come back with their girl's genitals mutilated.
 
2010-05-07 07:41:34 PM
fluffy2097: Voiceofreason01:
Regardless of your ethical concerns the reality is that male and femal circumcision are:

NOT
THE
SAME
THING
Link (new window)

/wiki because I don't want to go find pictures

Cutting the clitoral hood is EXACTLY the same as cutting off the foreskin. When you were still in your mothers womb, before you HAD a gender, IT WAS THE EXACT SAME MASS OF CELLS.

It is the SAME.
It is unacceptable EITHER WAY.

/quit with your feminist bullshiat.


Except that a lot of female circumcision around the world includes more than the removal of the clitoral hood, like incision and infibulation. Sorry, but the bullshiat is entirely yours.
 
2010-05-07 07:41:38 PM
I Said: prefer

Uh... I've been told mine is like natural ribbing for her pleasure.
/uncut
//TMYK
 
2010-05-07 07:51:28 PM
Can I be one of those whom is glad that he has been circumcised.

I love the look and feeling of my own clean looking penis. I would honestly hate having to deal with extra unneeded skin "just because I was born" with it.

And I can get off in 30 seconds, or 30 minutes, it all depends on what I think about. Not how much "sensitivity" my penis may or may not have.
 
2010-05-07 07:54:27 PM
Anyways.. a FGM "nick" would be about as much as removing the foreskin of the penis.

What most are forgetting that most perform FGM in "male terms" would be the removal of most of the penis - just not the foreskin.
 
2010-05-07 07:55:26 PM
hailin: Personally, I like cut men more than uncut men. They last longer and nothing gets as smelly down there than with an uncut man. In fact, I only dated one uncut guy for about two weeks before I couldn't stand it anymore.

date guys that shower

bluewall: So: what if an adult woman wants to undergo female circumcision? Would this be permitted her as a choice? At what point are things like clitoral piercings viewed as crossing the line?

as an adult, on her own body? it's her own body.
 
2010-05-07 08:01:44 PM
hailin: Personally, I like cut men more than uncut men. They last longer and nothing gets as smelly down there than with an uncut man. In fact, I only dated one uncut guy for about two weeks before I couldn't stand it anymore.

So you dated one uncut guy and assume everyone else is just like him?

hailin: Sorry, but with the extra skin there it sweats and gets smelly after a few hours no matter what you do.

Uh no, it doesn't "sweat" under the foreskin.
 
2010-05-07 08:05:34 PM
Braindeath: About how this is also an issue of control over a woman's entire sexual life and for the most part, male circumcision, while wrong, is not.

wrong. the reason it was resumed widely in the english speaking world WAS about that.

stop pretending that we're downplaying FGM when we say that it is morally reprehensible for the same reason MGM (not the movie company) is.

you're degrading BOTH genders when you try to claim that shiat.

Braindeath: This is much more serious for a woman but you can't seem to grasp that or you just refuse to for reasons I'm not quite clear on.

as someone who knows a woman who was the victim of FGM and detests it i can tell you: she would chew you a new asshole from now till next thursday for your "BUT BUT BUT! YOU HATE WOMEN! because you think both male and female genital mutilation are a crime, and that you say they're morally equivalent crimes!"

she's as "sexually functional" as a circumcised man - she can still have orgasms despite having her clitoral hood, clitoris and labia minora removed.

so between you, and an actual victim of FGM, i'm goin to go with her opinion

/she's in her 60s, white, christian and was born in Kansas to fundamentalist christian parents
//the same people who got circumcision restarted outside of the jewish community in the west also encouraged female genital mutilation

Braindeath: If you don't have a foreskin and you want it back, I understand there are methods to try to get one back.

they're only a partial restoration, and all the non-surgical ones take years. they can never restore the lost erogenous nerves.

ciocia: Except that a lot of female circumcision around the world includes more than the removal of the clitoral hood, like incision and infibulation. Sorry, but the bullshiat is entirely yours.

no, the bullshiat is yours.

You: FGM is wrong, and you're wrong for saying that genital mutilation of children of either gender is wrong

US: Genital mutilation of any child, no matter the gender, is morally reprehensible - and should be illegal.


the details of the actual mutilation are a different subject

And yes, many forms of female circumcision are more severe.

That doesn't make male circumcision any less reprehensible.
 
2010-05-07 08:07:13 PM
Penman: hailin: Personally, I like cut men more than uncut men. They last longer and nothing gets as smelly down there than with an uncut man. In fact, I only dated one uncut guy for about two weeks before I couldn't stand it anymore.

So you dated one uncut guy and assume everyone else is just like him?

hailin: Sorry, but with the extra skin there it sweats and gets smelly after a few hours no matter what you do.

Uh no, it doesn't "sweat" under the foreskin.


that and i'm sure she isn't about to chop off her labia because they're occasionally smelly, can sometimes trap particles of dirt/sand/lint/whatever.


/labia are beautiful - save the labia!
 
2010-05-07 08:08:20 PM
As someone who was genitally mutilated as an infant, I'm getting a kick out of these replies.

To know that one's sexuality is instantly destroyed because someone cut too deep is beyond horrible. And the fact it can never be repaired is decimating.

I wish I could enjoy sex and have an orgasm, but I guess that will have to wait until the next life. I doubt that foreskin restoration will help. By the time I regrow it I'll be 40 and probably never be able to make up for all the experiences I've lost out on since I was a teen.

/The cartoon of the man with no penis says everything.
//I envy all of you who can feel normal stimulating pleasure, I really do.
 
2010-05-07 08:09:48 PM
What do they do with the off-cuts of female genital mutilation once the procedure is done? And why does my hot-dog taste of mackerel?
 
2010-05-07 08:09:57 PM
xenomorpheus

i'm really sorry to hear that man. what happened? slip and remove the glans along with the foreskin?
 
2010-05-07 08:13:15 PM
I Said: WHAT THE fark? So "be a bit of an asshole to prevent them from going overseas and seeing total assholes"?

Asa Phelps: And male genital mutilation is still ok?

NOT. REMOTELY. THE. SAME.

/if you're trolling, you got me.


Actually, it is. The after-effects of both forms is reduced sex drive, and reduced enjoyment of intercourse (The tip of the penis is a bundle of nerves too). The "downsides" can regularly be treated with medicine versus lopping off an 1/8 of the penis.

/watch Penn & Teller's show on circumcision sometime.
 
2010-05-07 08:16:34 PM
coco ebert: This "ritual nick" sounds less invasive than male circumcision, actually. FGM is certainly worse than male circumsicion but this sounds like a way of preventing people from taking their daughters out of the country for far more harmful procedures.

It would be better to just get rid of all circumsicion. Totally unnecessary, except perhaps male circumsicion in countries with high rates of HIV.


Why? Doesn't reduce the chances of you GETTING HIV, or spreading it.
 
2010-05-07 08:17:08 PM
People_are_Idiots: he "downsides" can regularly be treated with medicine versus lopping off an 1/8 of the penis.

or usually... just taking a shower and pulling back the foreskin and washing*


caveat: the foreskin is NOT meant to be retractable before sexual maturity - it becomes retractable between 11 and 19 years of age depending on the individual. forced retraction before it is ready damages it and usually will cause the need for corrective procedures.
 
2010-05-07 08:18:44 PM
coco ebert: This "ritual nick" sounds less invasive than male circumcision, actually. FGM is certainly worse than male circumsicion but this sounds like a way of preventing people from taking their daughters out of the country for far more harmful procedures.

It would be better to just get rid of all circumsicion. Totally unnecessary, except perhaps male circumsicion in countries with high rates of HIV.


it doesn't actually reduce transmissiblity of HIV. that was a flawed study as I've already explained why two or three times in this thread. Even if it wasn't flawed it's a difference between 0.2% vs 0.6% transmissiblity.

wear a freaking jimmy hat
 
2010-05-07 08:19:45 PM
What exactly happens to a woman's sexual pleasure if her clit has been nicked? Does it simply make it less sensitive or what?
 
2010-05-07 08:19:48 PM
Kazan: wear a freaking jimmy hat

But the Pope won't let me.
 
2010-05-07 08:26:23 PM
People_are_Idiots:
/watch Penn & Teller's show on circumcision sometime.


Penn and Teller's: Bullshiat is not a valid primary source. As much as I love them they are quite biased, and are not above using editing tricks to make their opponents sound stupid or ignorant.

Penn and Teller admit upfront that they are slight of hand artists. I recommend keeping that in mind when watching anything they do.
 
2010-05-07 08:28:28 PM
Kazan: xenomorpheus

i'm really sorry to hear that man. what happened? slip and remove the glans along with the foreskin?


Thank you for your concern. I appreciate that.

They cut too much on the underside and cut into most of the nerves I'm guessing. Most likely got infected at that time also. I don't remember anything until I was 5 and I have yet to ask my parents if the doc told them of any circumcision complications. Experienced women tell me that it really looks chewed up on the underside.

I tried the vibrator test many times at different frequencies on the glans and nothing happened at all. A few years ago I seared the top of my glans on the bottom of a cast iron frying pan (yes I cooked breakfast naked at that time, not anymore) - I barely felt anything when it happened, I didn't think I was holding the pan too low. It eventually healed up just fine though.

I have heard the horror stories of the guys who get the whole tip cut-off. I don't think there is any amount of money in the world that could give them their dignity back.

Frak cancer research, they should work on delicate nerve replacement - I'd rather be riddled with cancer and die sexually fulfilled than to have this one frakkin itch I can never scratch
 
2010-05-07 08:31:50 PM
Kazan:
ciocia: Except that a lot of female circumcision around the world includes more than the removal of the clitoral hood, like incision and infibulation. Sorry, but the bullshiat is entirely yours.

no, the bullshiat is yours.

You: FGM is wrong, and you're wrong for saying that genital mutilation of children of either gender is wrong

US: Genital mutilation of any child, no matter the gender, is morally reprehensible - and should be illegal.


the details of the actual mutilation are a different subject

And yes, many forms of female circumcision are more severe.

That doesn't make male circumcision any less reprehensible.


Do not ignorantly put words in my mouth. The person I was responding to said that FGM and male circumcicision were "exactly the same." I said they weren't, and in many instances I am correct. Sorry, but losing your entire clitoris and labia are not the same as losing your foreskin. I did not comment on whether one was equally evil as the other; that was the product of your own fervid imagination.
 
2010-05-07 08:32:51 PM
xenomorpheus: Kazan: xenomorpheus

i'm really sorry to hear that man. what happened? slip and remove the glans along with the foreskin?

Thank you for your concern. I appreciate that.

They cut too much on the underside and cut into most of the nerves I'm guessing. Most likely got infected at that time also. I don't remember anything until I was 5 and I have yet to ask my parents if the doc told them of any circumcision complications. Experienced women tell me that it really looks chewed up on the underside.

I tried the vibrator test many times at different frequencies on the glans and nothing happened at all. A few years ago I seared the top of my glans on the bottom of a cast iron frying pan (yes I cooked breakfast naked at that time, not anymore) - I barely felt anything when it happened, I didn't think I was holding the pan too low. It eventually healed up just fine though.

I have heard the horror stories of the guys who get the whole tip cut-off. I don't think there is any amount of money in the world that could give them their dignity back.

Frak cancer research, they should work on delicate nerve replacement - I'd rather be riddled with cancer and die sexually fulfilled than to have this one frakkin itch I can never scratch


This man has the only real argument against circumcision in this entire thread.
 
2010-05-07 09:06:39 PM
kotton: Can I be one of those whom is glad that he has been circumcised.

I love the look and feeling of my own clean looking penis. I would honestly hate having to deal with extra unneeded skin "just because I was born" with it.

And I can get off in 30 seconds, or 30 minutes, it all depends on what I think about. Not how much "sensitivity" my penis may or may not have.


a) you don't know what you've lost so you are speaking from ignorance

b) if you want it done you can choose to have done when you are an adult (which is fine ... mutilate yourself all you want).
 
2010-05-07 09:19:53 PM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meatal_stenosis

I had this wonderful condition. Took surgery to correct things. Basically only effects circed boys. I think I have a fine excuse for calling this barbaric ritual exactly what it is. You can look up other fine horror stories if you are so inclined.

Don't mutilate your kids because a bunch of desert dwellers did. I know it can be hard to question rituals. At least in my country the rate has fallen to an all time low, and will continue to fall as we get more educated. This forum 10 years ago would have looked pretty different. Now it's more like 70% of people are against it.

I just can't get how anyone can rationally think that bringing a knife to their kids junk makes any sense at all, and pretend it isn't just bullshiat conditioning.
 
2010-05-07 09:22:50 PM
Neither of my sons are circumcised. Had to argue quite a bit with the ex over the first boy. Current wife has more sense. If they want it whacked off, they can do it themselves.

/wrong thread?
 
2010-05-07 09:24:59 PM
I have a scar on my penis.

That's farked up.
 
2010-05-07 09:26:22 PM
sweetmelissa31: benlonghair: Ya, because male circumcision does nothing to the sensitivity of the male organ.

Cutting off the clit would be equivalent to cutting off the entire penis.


Just curious if you read the article.
 
2010-05-07 09:41:46 PM
WOW let's all whack off a portion of our children's genitals, a risky, invasive, totally unnecessary surgery, with NO ANESTHETIC!

/sounds like a plan.
 
2010-05-07 09:46:28 PM
Impudent Domain: WOW let's all whack off a portion of our children's genitals, a risky, invasive, totally unnecessary surgery, with NO ANESTHETIC!

/sounds like a plan.


But it looks cool!

/gonna cover my baby in bad-ass tattoos
 
2010-05-07 10:17:52 PM
Just had this fark-inspired discussion with a friend. Her husband as well as mine are both circ'd and I asked her what she thought of uncut guys and she brought up a guy that her husband knows who isn't cut. Apparently he's had quite a few girls make fun of him for having a penis that looks like a tube of lipstick.
I think that's a bit harsh for a woman to say to a guy, but if you're a guy living in the US who is uncut, you're a bit of a minority in that respect and I would also imagine that you would be teased a bit in the locker room while you're in high school.
 
2010-05-07 10:36:35 PM
borg7of9: Just had this fark-inspired discussion with a friend. Her husband as well as mine are both circ'd and I asked her what she thought of uncut guys and she brought up a guy that her husband knows who isn't cut. Apparently he's had quite a few girls make fun of him for having a penis that looks like a tube of lipstick.
I think that's a bit harsh for a woman to say to a guy, but if you're a guy living in the US who is uncut, you're a bit of a minority in that respect and I would also imagine that you would be teased a bit in the locker room while you're in high school.



Wow, how farked up in the head is this sad shiat.
 
2010-05-07 10:49:31 PM
borg7of9: Just had this fark-inspired discussion with a friend. Her husband as well as mine are both circ'd and I asked her what she thought of uncut guys and she brought up a guy that her husband knows who isn't cut. Apparently he's had quite a few girls make fun of him for having a penis that looks like a tube of lipstick.
I think that's a bit harsh for a woman to say to a guy, but if you're a guy living in the US who is uncut, you're a bit of a minority in that respect and I would also imagine that you would be teased a bit in the locker room while you're in high school.


Counterattack: call those people with circumcised penises Jews. Works really well in strongly Christian areas of the country, particularly in the South. A real good Christian southerner hates being called that.
 
2010-05-07 10:49:31 PM
MorePeasPlease, I didn't say I agreed with what was said. I think it's rather mean to make fun of a guy for being uncut.
I've never been with an uncut guy, but if I were, I would never tease or make fun of him for it.
 
2010-05-07 10:54:20 PM
I wonder if that happens with chicks in countries with FGM?
"Ew, a clit! That is some weird looking shiat right there. It's like a little cock or something!"

How farked up is it to make fun of the way something NATURALLY looks?
 
2010-05-07 10:54:42 PM
borg7of9: Just had this fark-inspired discussion with a friend. Her husband as well as mine are both circ'd and I asked her what she thought of uncut guys and she brought up a guy that her husband knows who isn't cut. Apparently he's had quite a few girls make fun of him for having a penis that looks like a tube of lipstick.
I think that's a bit harsh for a woman to say to a guy, but if you're a guy living in the US who is uncut, you're a bit of a minority in that respect and I would also imagine that you would be teased a bit in the locker room while you're in high school.


Caped Crusader?
 
2010-05-08 12:19:31 AM
wittybanter: I wonder if that happens with chicks in countries with FGM?
"Ew, a clit! That is some weird looking shiat right there. It's like a little cock or something!"

How farked up is it to make fun of the way something NATURALLY looks?
 
2010-05-08 01:22:57 AM
borg7of9: I didn't say I agreed with what was said. I think it's rather mean to make fun of a guy for being uncut.
I've never been with an uncut guy, but if I were, I would never tease or make fun of him for it.



Not you, I was meaning what you described.
 
2010-05-08 03:10:37 AM
Just wanted to say I clicked on this thread expecting to see a post early on derailing it and starting a flame war by comparing it to male circumcision. Didn't expect that post to be the first - I'm almost impressed by such eagerness to start biatching at each other.

This flame war is so hot, I could use it to roast a few hot dogs.
 
2010-05-08 03:28:04 AM
Kazan: coco

I posted way at the beginning of the thread, homeslice, before seeing your precious comments. Calm the fark down.
 
2010-05-08 03:48:25 AM
Kazan Jumpin' Jebus, you've probably written and copy/pasted like 20 pages of anti-circumcision wargharble all by yourself. Calm the fark down man, seriously. Also, way to threadjack the topic away from the actual substance of the article, you know, the whole FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION thing! I have a bit of news for you; No one gives two farking elephants about your junk. I don't. No one else does either.

Even if you and your position are right (and judging by the copious 'notes' you provided, I think you're not), and male circumcision is wrong, its wrongness has absolutely nothing to do with the wrongness of a similar, but completely separate procedure. FGM is wrong regardless of whether 'MGM' is wrong; stop trying to get us all to think about your dong. Go to sleep, or go to work, or go to your wife, anything, but for the love of whatever Sky Wizard you may hold dear, shut the fark up.

/end rant
 
2010-05-08 03:48:54 AM
xenomorpheus: They cut too much on the underside and cut into most of the nerves I'm guessing. Most likely got infected at that time also. I don't remember anything until I was 5 and I have yet to ask my parents if the doc told them of any circumcision complications. Experienced women tell me that it really looks chewed up on the underside.

Damn, that sucks. Have you asked a urologist if anything can be done?

You mentioned foreskin restoration in an earlier post. Even if you have doubts, it might not hurt to see if doing it would give you back at least some sensation.
 
2010-05-08 08:14:12 AM
I Said:
I'll add some gas:

Male and female circumcisions are nothing alike. If you think they are then go do some reading. If you still do: get your head checked out.

/cut
//every woman I know prefers it and b*tches when their bf's aren't
///nanny nanny poo poo

Funny, that's exactly the rationale that men in countries where FGM is practiced use.

"She's unclean if she's not circumcised."
"She isn't a woman if she's not circumcised."
"She'll whore around if she's not circumcised."
"She'll damage the baby if she has an orgasm."

Etc...

/Anthropology intern in college
//worked in an area where FGM was practiced
///Almost inadvertently invited to female circumcision
 
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