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(My Fox NY)   Mother goes to school board meeting to complain about boys pulling down her 13-year-old daughter's pants. Superintendent: Was she wearing a thong? Fark: Mom gets arrested for normal parent's reaction to the question   (myfoxny.com) divider line 366
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2010-01-13 04:46:30 PM
I_Am_Weasel: Quick! Pick out the non-parents in this thread!

The people making logical, realistic, and moderate comments rather than purely emotional and reactionary ones?
 
2010-01-13 04:46:34 PM
lendog: WTF? Thirteen year old's wearing thongs? Gross and perverted.

It happens. I was extremely pissed off when I found out my wife had bought her daughter (my stepdaughter) a thong from Victoria Secrets when she was 12 years old. It simply wasn't appropriate, especially when the teen fashion was to make sure EVERYBODY could see you were wearing a thong.
 
2010-01-13 04:46:50 PM
WhyteRaven74: jekxrb: Did anyone notice that it was the superintendent who asked the question but the principal she cursed out? Later?

The principal should've sent the superintendent through the roof for the comment he made. That he didn't just let the issue roll on.


And lose his job for being insubordinate? I kind of doubt it.

(You are aware that school principals take their orders from the superintendent and the school board, right?)

jekxrb: We have no idea what the principal said or what his role was in that meeting. The article doesn't give us any information as to what happened after the question was asked, except that the mother accosted the principal later in the hall. Which she doesn't have the right to do, no matter how outraged she is. Nor is arresting her an appropriate response to cursing, although there is obviously a lot more to the story.

Uh, yeah, she does have the right to accost the principal, so long as she doesn't become physically threatening. Now, as far as arresting someone for cursing goes, it all depends on what she said, and who else was in a position to hear it. Since we're talking about a mom from Bergen County, I'm willing to bet that many f-bombs were deployed.

That said, I'm glad we had divided-gender gym classes when I was growing up.
 
2010-01-13 04:47:26 PM
editorial_distractions: tuna fingers: Good job, FARK nation.
We farked a Fox site.

Care to clue us in on the tab to the RIGHT of your internet browser? I hope that was either just for the lulz or is a humorously truncated headline of some sort.


It looks like it says "how to attract old chicks"
 
2010-01-13 04:47:33 PM
PC LOAD LETTER: If she just put out, this would never have happened.

Here here.

or is it, Hear hear?
 
2010-01-13 04:47:53 PM
Crusader: Look, if you are charged with overseeing my child for 8 hours of the day, then you damn well better believe that I will express my concerns whenever you fail to take appropriate action in a situation. I'm not waiting for the bi-annual district educational conference meeting, where I will be given 30 seconds to express me concerns, and my concerns must be approved in writing no less than 60 days before the meeting. Fark that. I will come to your office and tell like I see it right then.

Call the school and set up an appointment to meet the principle in private. I'm sure you'll be able to see him within a few days.
 
2010-01-13 04:48:32 PM
I_C_Weener: vernonFL: Was she or was she not wearing a thong???

My guess is she was commando.


I used to love going commando in school. Used to get depantsed all the time until I started doing that. If I remember correctly my first HS girlfriend asked me out only a few days after my first commando depantsing. I found out later she was the one who put the guy up to it.

/
 
2010-01-13 04:49:05 PM
editorial_distractions: tuna fingers: Good job, FARK nation.
We farked a Fox site.

Care to clue us in on the tab to the RIGHT of your internet browser? I hope that was either just for the lulz or is a humorously truncated headline of some sort.


Holy crap that is hilarious. Forget the news story... "how to attract old chicks" on an inactive tab when taking a screenshot... that is priceless.

At least it is not "how to seduce she-males"
 
2010-01-13 04:49:15 PM
Being Famous Sucks: The boy was disciplined. He was suspended for a day, ordered to serve three days in Saturday detention, barred from attending a year-end class trip, and required to attend sensitivity sessions, Luongo wrote in a letter to Schwalb after the incident, a copy of which was obtained by The Record (link to a much better article)

answered my own question. thanks me.



Geez... Just for pantsing someone?
 
2010-01-13 04:49:25 PM
I_C_Weener: commando

My 13-yr old "pantsed" a girl in his 7th grade gym class, and behold she was goin' commando...

No, I wasn't proud of him. He ended up getting a 2-day suspension and some detention time. He did seem genuinely sorry. He saw the girls horrified reaction (in addition to other things) and it wasn't as "funny" as he (one supposes) had imagined.

I told him the idea is to get them to do that voluntarily. But wait until college.
 
2010-01-13 04:50:06 PM
Huh, if it had been my daughter I think it would be ass whoopin time. Good luck finding a jury to convict me.

Pussy principal would probably never ask a father that stupid question.
 
2010-01-13 04:51:04 PM
theknuckler_33: I'm sure it has been mentioned that it wasn't a school board meeting submittard, but a seminar. You know, a place to learn things, not complain. Make an appointment with the principle and meet him in private... which is what a normal parent would do.

Douche: take a look at a thesaurus and make note of the synonyms for seminar. Calling someone retarded while making such a retarded mistake is high pwnage.

/Submitter
 
2010-01-13 04:51:12 PM
atlfarkette: I got pantsed in the hallway of my school in 10th grade by a guy friend of mine. I was embarrassed but it was funny. Well, at the time I went to a strict Christian school and boy did it become a big issue. Parents got called in and people were praying for our souls. I never found out which one of the holy roller kids in the hall that day ratted us out to principal.

/cool story sis
/was not wearing a thong



Commando? Really?
 
2010-01-13 04:51:21 PM
I'm wearing a thong right now, kick, etc.
Sorry, no pics
 
2010-01-13 04:51:29 PM
HunterNIU

I used to love going commando in school. Used to get depantsed all the time until I started doing that. If I remember correctly my first HS girlfriend asked me out only a few days after my first commando depantsing. I found out later she was the one who put the guy up to it.


HEY! I'M IMPLYING THAT MY PENIS IS LARGE! AND GIRLS LUST AFTER ME!! You do remember correctly, you just made it up.

/way to keep us rivited
 
2010-01-13 04:51:50 PM
MuckSP: There's only two types of people that wear sweatpants to school: whores and tards.

Maybe it happened at gym class. Maybe they were those stupid sweatpants that say "juicy" on the arse. The article needs more detail.
 
2010-01-13 04:52:11 PM
RminusQ: First off, if that comment in The Bergen Record who said "kid should have been charged with criminal sexual contact on a juvenile complaint and suspended from school, and sent for mandatory psychiatric counseling" wasn't joking, he's a farkwit who needs to understand that we should stop destroying the lives of young teenagers for minor misconduct.

It actually IS criminal sexual behavior:

http://www.judiciary.state.nj.us/criminal/charges/sexual015.pdf

If it was my daughter I would have been pushing for expulsion and juvenile detention.

Well, and you would have read about a 14 year old kid getting his ass beat by a 35 year old guy. But that's besides the point.

/yea yea ITG I know
//Think I could take a 14 year old
 
2010-01-13 04:53:39 PM
playdate: I'm wearing a thong right now, kick, etc.
Sorry, no pics


But! But! Your profile says you give BIE!
 
2010-01-13 04:53:48 PM
How does having a police officer on the board not scream conflict of interest?
drjekel_mrhyde: editorial_distractions: tuna fingers: Good job, FARK nation.
We farked a Fox site.

Care to clue us in on the tab to the RIGHT of your internet browser? I hope that was either just for the lulz or is a humorously truncated headline of some sort.

It looks like it says "how to attract old chicks"


This thread just took a turn for the Freudian.
 
2010-01-13 04:54:00 PM
MuckSP: Tresser: MuckSP: Cindy Schwalb says a boy pulled down her 13-year-old daughter's sweatpants in front of other students at Hasbrouck Heights Middle School.

Sweatpants?! There's only two types of people that wear sweatpants to school: whores and tards. Either way it's justifiable on the boy's part.

the video clip on the page said it happened during gym class, hence the sweatpants.

Bah! I've got no time to watch video clips when there are generalizations to be made!


LOL! Awesome


I got pants'd at school once.

once...

While I don't condone the action, I think addressing the situation appropriately would have been in everyone's best interests.

I'd have said "Sir? if I may? I don't feel it's appropriate to discuss my child's undergarments, and so I'll state for the record that they met all school regulations, and wouldn't not have been exposed without the boy's intervention.

If there are further questions regarding her undergarments, I would prefer to address them privately with legal counsel as my daughter has already been embarrassed enough.. hence the reason this issue is being addressed in the first place.

Regardless of "how much was revealed" there remains the possibility of any number of embarrassing situations upon revealing personal clothing that was not selected for viewing by my daughter, who would not have the age of consent to elect to permit it to be viewed.

The boy has clearly intended to expose her private areas, and might have even intended to remove the underwear as well, there is no way to know this for sure.

This was attempted exhibition of an underage female's sexual anatomy, and should be treated very seriously. I do not wish to have this boy put on a sex offenders list for the rest of his life, but if you fail to reasonable correct him, I will have no choice but to do so, and to suggest you facilitated such a move by your negligence, and actually aided and abetted this crime through your support of it in this very anti-feminist responce to the situation. Hopefully your subsequent arrest, incarceration, and lifelong addition to the sex ofenders list of this great state will teach others to consider sexual harrassment a serious problem for young women.

Naw.. just kiddin.. no, she likes to go commando, she says it helps with her popularity somehow, and also that her three peircings itch a bit, and the underwear just serves to block access to her clitorous for her heroin injections.. sheesh.. kids today! ha! well... what do ya' do.. gotta' find a vein SOMEWHERE.."
 
2010-01-13 04:54:03 PM
Of course some Pig is on the school board, and had his feelings hurt by the swearing.farking pigs, she should have spit in his face or slapped the shiat out of him.
 
2010-01-13 04:54:14 PM
tweek46420: schattenteufel: tweek46420: //sweatpants + girl = fatty

Not necessarily...

thats what they want you to think....in reality its more like this


/i keed i keed



You'd need a 6 foot crowbar and a come-along to get those suckers down...
 
2010-01-13 04:54:22 PM
E5K1M0: Well.....was she?

Came here to say... this
 
2010-01-13 04:54:24 PM
Step 1 - Bullying in school involving minor exposure.
Step 2 - Schoolboard member asks question considered harassment in any corporate environment.
Step 3 - Get any halfway decent lawyer to highlight "pervasive, tolerated sexual harassment of women from between students all the way to the superintendent".
Step 4 - Huge payday.

This is why your property taxes are so high. Stupid employees. They say what they want, you pay.

/Taxed guy wharrgarbl
//Wharrgarbl!
 
2010-01-13 04:55:11 PM
Being Famous Sucks: The boy was disciplined. He was suspended for a day, ordered to serve three days in Saturday detention, barred from attending a year-end class trip, and required to attend sensitivity sessions, Luongo wrote in a letter to Schwalb after the incident, a copy of which was obtained by The Record (link to a much better article)

answered my own question. thanks me.


That seems reasonable, depending if there's any history with the kid.

I still don't blame her reacting to "Was she wearing a thong?" though. Were it me, I'd have to be held back.
 
2010-01-13 04:55:37 PM
[itg mode]

I wouldn't have gotten arrested for disrupting the meeting.

I might have been arrested for what I would have done to the superintendent's car later. But only if I wasn't careful.

And some group of teen girls at that school would have won themselves some walking-around-money for finding the time to curbstomp the pants-er somewhere off school grounds.

[/itg]
 
2010-01-13 04:56:24 PM
Methinks the modmins are watching this thread like a flock of hawks. No way no one has even attempted to post a thong pic in this thread.

Probably for the best, I guess.
 
2010-01-13 04:57:01 PM
drjekel_mrhyde: editorial_distractions: tuna fingers: Good job, FARK nation.
We farked a Fox site.

Care to clue us in on the tab to the RIGHT of your internet browser? I hope that was either just for the lulz or is a humorously truncated headline of some sort.

It looks like it says "how to attract old chicks"


Whew..thank goodness. I thought it said "how to attack old chicks"
 
2010-01-13 04:58:12 PM
archanoid: playdate: I'm wearing a thong right now, kick, etc.
Sorry, no pics

But! But! Your profile says you give BIE!


Wow...in about 3 minutes you'll be able to light a cigar off of her profile counter it'll be spinning so fast.

oh and EIP :)
 
2010-01-13 04:58:49 PM
asscorethethird: Of course some Pig is on the school board, and had his feelings hurt by the swearing.farking pigs, she should have spit in his face or slapped the shiat out of him.

This is pretty extreme, but I agree that he has no business being there. Cops are not into ceding authority, even if it isn't in their position as a police officer. They are often not capable of exercising restraint in other facets of their life when it comes to exerting that authority.

/Romero
 
2010-01-13 04:58:52 PM
HunterNIU: I_C_Weener: vernonFL: Was she or was she not wearing a thong???

My guess is she was commando.

I used to love going commando in school. Used to get depantsed all the time until I started doing that. If I remember correctly my first HS girlfriend asked me out only a few days after my first commando depantsing. I found out later she was the one who put the guy up to it.

/


Well, that's a cool story, bro, if I ever heard one.
 
2010-01-13 04:59:02 PM
Still no pictures of what a 13 year old wearing a thong might look like?

Pity...
 
2010-01-13 04:59:17 PM
wait ..no.. In all seriousness: Punishment for a rule violation shouldn't be dependent on factors that could not have been known prior to the violation. Thong or no thong, her pants were pulled down in front of peers and that's bad. If it's part of a larger problem of bullying then the punishment should be increased. And somebody needs to clean the bully's clock real good. I like fire.
 
2010-01-13 04:59:55 PM
Inibrius: It actually IS criminal sexual behavior:

http://www.judiciary.state.nj.us/criminal/charges/sexual015.pdf

If it was my daughter I would have been pushing for expulsion and juvenile detention.

Well, and you would have read about a 14 year old kid getting his ass beat by a 35 year old guy. But that's besides the point.

/yea yea ITG I know
//Think I could take a 14 year old


Expulsion and juvenile detention for pantsing? You are out of your mind.

Everyone gets pants'd. Learn to tie up your sweat pants and move on to the next problem.
 
2010-01-13 05:00:20 PM
Dirtybird971: HunterNIU

I used to love going commando in school. Used to get depantsed all the time until I started doing that. If I remember correctly my first HS girlfriend asked me out only a few days after my first commando depantsing. I found out later she was the one who put the guy up to it.

HEY! I'M IMPLYING THAT MY PENIS IS LARGE! AND GIRLS LUST AFTER ME!! You do remember correctly, you just made it up.

/way to keep us rivited


No one was talking to you. Besides it was mostly dudes that did the depantsing. I got one girl out of it who obviously already had interest since she put someone up to it. The part I'm not sure about was if it was my first GF in HS or not.

Also I remember (yes as nerdy as it was) having tear away jeans with snaps down the side. The Dean made me stop wearing them after the third or fourth incident.

I was most certainly not popular nor am claiming to be.
 
2010-01-13 05:01:11 PM
headstone: atlfarkette: I got pantsed in the hallway of my school in 10th grade by a guy friend of mine. I was embarrassed but it was funny. Well, at the time I went to a strict Christian school and boy did it become a big issue. Parents got called in and people were praying for our souls. I never found out which one of the holy roller kids in the hall that day ratted us out to principal.

/cool story sis
/was not wearing a thong


Commando? Really?


No, more like average cotton panties.
 
2010-01-13 05:01:41 PM
Doctor Funkenstein: MuckSP: There's only two types of people that wear sweatpants to school: whores and tards.

Heh - that made me laugh my ass off. And it's so true.


me too. it is indeed true. did the sweatpants say "juicy" on the back just below the trampstamp?
 
2010-01-13 05:01:47 PM
wow.....talk about an over-reaction. This was typically behavior growing up in school.....just like 'ball tapping'.

This generation is getting even more pussified than the last; didn't think that was possible.

Probably asked about the 'thong' to shut the mother up. If they were 'regular*' panties then they probably cover more than the bikini she wears in the summer.

/*do not know what 'regular panties for 13 yr olds look like.
//if not wearing panties....different story especially if the boy knew
///were they 'Granny' "monthly" panties?
////The boy was just a douche
 
2010-01-13 05:02:21 PM
School officials said the [school board seminar about bullying] wasn't the place for Schwalb to express her concerns [about her child being bullied.]

Come again?

Also, she apparently "calmed down and apologized and left the building without further incident" yet they sent someone to arrest her after the fact? For using bad words? What the hell, did they come to her house?

Even as bad as the nancy-ass crap like this is that we hear about, I really expected violence to be involved. They actually arrested and charged her for being upset.
 
2010-01-13 05:02:27 PM
A can think of a brazillian questions he could've asked besides that.
 
2010-01-13 05:02:32 PM
So....thong? No thong? Can someone just clear this up already?
 
2010-01-13 05:03:12 PM
Speaker2Animals: Well, you don't really have to wait that long; don't they have thongs for 6-year-olds?


As a former lifeguard I'm aware that they make really skimpy bikini's (borderline G-string) for kids about that age.

Why? Who the fark knows.

I'm virtually certain the kids aren't buying them... or washing them, or even picking them out... so pretty sure the parents are just brain dead since they must be buying them... and helping the kid get dressed... and taking them out in public.

At 14... yea, kid can go to the mall with friends and buy behind the parents back. I get that... but not less than 10.
 
2010-01-13 05:03:34 PM
culebra: How does having a police officer on the board not scream conflict of interest?
drjekel_mrhyde: editorial_distractions: tuna fingers: Good job, FARK nation.
We farked a Fox site.

Care to clue us in on the tab to the RIGHT of your internet browser? I hope that was either just for the lulz or is a humorously truncated headline of some sort.

It looks like it says "how to attract old chicks"

This thread just took a turn for the Freudian.


Yeah, he hasn't responded yet. If it were me, I'd argue that I was reading the article about Carnival rejecting the "cougar cruisers", and so I googled "cougars and cubs" and one of the links was "how to pick up old chicks" and I was fascinated and repelled but I just had to click, like it was a Gorgor link or something.

I don't EVER post screencaps for this reason. I really don't want people to see my OCD desktop, with my porn arranged neatly in rows of folders, by kink beginning at the top (hair fetish), and going to the bottom (dirty feet fetish), and within folders, subfolders arranging them by type (pic, movie, anigif) and by estimated age of the model, then by hair color and number of visible tattoos.

I very much hope I didn't type that out loud.
 
2010-01-13 05:04:29 PM
Why do most people call it pantsed? Everyone I grew up with called it depantsed, since you know, the pants were coming down/off...

Is it a generational thing? Most people I hear say it are younger, but you don't exactly hear it often enough to know. Anyone know this?
 
2010-01-13 05:05:09 PM
OldScotch: Being Famous Sucks: The boy was disciplined. He was suspended for a day, ordered to serve three days in Saturday detention, barred from attending a year-end class trip, and required to attend sensitivity sessions, Luongo wrote in a letter to Schwalb after the incident, a copy of which was obtained by The Record (link to a much better article)

answered my own question. thanks me.

That seems reasonable, depending if there's any history with the kid.

I still don't blame her reacting to "Was she wearing a thong?" though. Were it me, I'd have to be held back.


That just means you are a bigger idiot than she is.
 
2010-01-13 05:05:24 PM
E5K1M0: Well.....was she?

Doctor Funkenstein: We never got an answer to that thong question, either.

vernonFL: Was she or was she not wearing a thong???

AirForceVet: /Anyone found out if she was wearing a thong yet?

And that's just the first 30 comments!
 
2010-01-13 05:05:34 PM
Jesus christ, the supporters of this parent in this thread suck the proverbial scrotum.

Here's what happened: An already unpopular girl got pants in gym class, and she happened to not be wearing underwear. The student who pants her was strongly punished.

The girl's triple embarrassment, however, is somewhat of an embarrassment to her mom as well. She storms into a school board meeting without announcing her intention to make this an issue (read: embarrass her daughter further). When she stands up to speak at the meeting, she's told her comment would best be dealt with privately, yet she starts to yell and carry on about her daughter being 'sexually violated.' The school board members get fed up and start entertaining her shouts for attention with relevant questions.

Step 2: Contact local Fox station

You know step 3.
 
2010-01-13 05:05:56 PM
dahmers love zombie: culebra: How does having a police officer on the board not scream conflict of interest?
drjekel_mrhyde: editorial_distractions: tuna fingers: Good job, FARK nation.
We farked a Fox site.

Care to clue us in on the tab to the RIGHT of your internet browser? I hope that was either just for the lulz or is a humorously truncated headline of some sort.

It looks like it says "how to attract old chicks"

This thread just took a turn for the Freudian.

Yeah, he hasn't responded yet. If it were me, I'd argue that I was reading the article about Carnival rejecting the "cougar cruisers", and so I googled "cougars and cubs" and one of the links was "how to pick up old chicks" and I was fascinated and repelled but I just had to click, like it was a Gorgor link or something.

I don't EVER post screencaps for this reason. I really don't want people to see my OCD desktop, with my porn arranged neatly in rows of folders, by kink beginning at the top (hair fetish), and going to the bottom (dirty feet fetish), and within folders, subfolders arranging them by type (pic, movie, anigif) and by estimated age of the model, then by hair color and number of visible tattoos.

I very much hope I didn't type that out loud.


I think that entire last paragraph applies to 80% of farkers.
 
2010-01-13 05:06:18 PM
hitlersbrain: Huh, if it had been my daughter I think it would be ass whoopin time. Good luck finding a jury to convict me.

Pussy principal would probably never ask a father that stupid question.


If I were on the jury, the only question I would have is if you beat him enough.
 
2010-01-13 05:06:30 PM
Sweatpants?

What was written on the butt?
 
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