AWWWW...the rainbows didn't get their unicorns.

I think it will blow up in their face again.

I think the strategy should be "Wait 20 years for the ignorant old people to die off and then try it again."

BillCo: Hopefully, the homos will have bred themselves out of existence by then.

You do realize that straight couples have gay children I hope.

BillCo: Hopefully, the homos will have bred themselves out of existence by then.

No, thanks to advances in medical science people are living and voting their antiquated, bigoted opinions longer than ever!

Maybe if they attack those who voted against them *more* it will change everybody's minds.

That strategy always works on Fark, right?

DarthBrooks: Maybe if they attack those who voted against them *more* it will change everybody's minds.

Actually, I think they should just abandon their attempts at destroying marriage and unite with all God-fearing Americans who want to defend the ultimate union between man and wife. Gay people should drop their petty grievances and work together to codify into law rules that will help protect heterosexual couples from having their marriages ruined. They should push for constitutional amendments outlawing divorce in any circumstance and making any sort of adultery a crime equivalent to murder. Abortion should be made completely illegal. Children who become pregnant out of wedlock should have a choice: get married, or go to jail. Pre-nuptial arrangements should be banned, since they imply that a marriage can be ended. We need to make marriage safer, and it's time for gay people, who've been so traditionally self-centered, egotistical, and flippant in their refusal to accept the sacrosanct importance of marriage in our society, to start doing some legwork in rebuilding what they came so close to tearing down.

While the Maine defeat may seem like a barrier, I feel they need to reach around it to vigorously grasp the future.

ZAZ: I think it will blow up in their face again.

What a sad money shot. :-(

A million dollars, say, to anyone who can come up with a reason why gay marriage shouldn't be allowed.

I'm still waiting for a reason why it should be. So far it's "we're jealous" and I don't find that convincing.

ZAZ:
I'm still waiting for a reason why it should be. So far it's "we're jealous" and I don't find that convincing.

So you support civil unions instead?

Prank Call of Cthulhu

Of course I get it. Everybody who doesn't support the gay agenda is a racist. I think I have to support genocide too, since there is no difference between "denying" the "right" to marriage and wanting to kill somebody. A few years ago the selectmen in Truro barely prevented a man from burning all the gays in town to death. This guy volunteered to be on a fire advisory board. Just in time a selectman checked the registry and found he was listed as holding the wrong position on gay marriage. Obviously nobody on the wrong side could have any motive other than murder.

shivashakti

What's a "civil union"? If it's renamed marriage, no. If you want a short form for a contract that only affects the parties involved, fine. I don't think anybody is advocating for that. That would mean, for example, government benefits and taxes are blind to the existence of the contract, third parties are not affected by spousal immunity, and so on.

ZAZ: What's a "civil union"? If it's renamed marriage, no. If you want a short form for a contract that only affects the parties involved, fine. I don't think anybody is advocating for that. That would mean, for example, government benefits and taxes are blind to the existence of the contract, third parties are not affected by spousal immunity, and so on.


The term "civil union" would mean having the same rights as marriage but with a different name because some people seem to think that the term 'marriage' should only be between a male and a female.

Pocket Ninja: DarthBrooks: Maybe if they attack those who voted against them *more* it will change everybody's minds.

Actually, I think they should just abandon their attempts at destroying marriage and unite with all God-fearing Americans who want to defend the ultimate union between man and wife. Gay people should drop their petty grievances and work together to codify into law rules that will help protect heterosexual couples from having their marriages ruined. They should push for constitutional amendments outlawing divorce in any circumstance and making any sort of adultery a crime equivalent to murder. Abortion should be made completely illegal. Children who become pregnant out of wedlock should have a choice: get married, or go to jail. Pre-nuptial arrangements should be banned, since they imply that a marriage can be ended. We need to make marriage safer, and it's time for gay people, who've been so traditionally self-centered, egotistical, and flippant in their refusal to accept the sacrosanct importance of marriage in our society, to start doing some legwork in rebuilding what they came so close to tearing down.

ZAZ: Of course I get it. Everybody who doesn't support the gay agenda is a racist. I think I have to support genocide too, since there is no difference between "denying" the "right" to marriage and wanting to kill somebody.

You homophobic assholes just can't catch a break, can you? Where is your parade?

I think we can all agree that ZAZ is the real victim here.

Tom_Slick: Until the Maine based Gay and Lesbian groups can mount a charge without the help of groups "From Away" this has no prayer of passing.

Unlike the Catholic church and NOM which are both based in Maine.

Prank Call of Cthulhu: Folks are putting in an awful lot of time and effort and money and resources in trying to prevent gay marriage, and I'd really, really love to hear an actual argument against it other than, "But it makes me feel icky."

Good luck.

BillCo: The Icelander: BillCo: Hopefully, the homos will have bred themselves out of existence by then.

You do realize that straight couples have gay children I hope.

How is that possible if homosexuality is genetic?

Prank Call of Cthulhu: I'd like to see someone set up a challenge similar to James Randi's challenge for proof of the paranormal: A million dollars, say, to anyone who can come up with a reason why gay marriage shouldn't be allowed. Show me just one negative consequence. Because so far all the anti-gay forces have is, "Derrr, the dictionary defines it as between one man and one woman," which I guess implies we'd have to buy new dictionaries. At least, those of who need to look up "marriage" in the dictionary would have to buy new ones. Not really seeing the problem here.

The traditional definition of marriage is more than just a dictionary definition. It is our custom and heritage to define marriage as the union of one man and one woman. There is no tradition for same sex "marriage."

A majority of the people do not want to abandon the traditional definition of marriage to pretend that a same sex couple is married under the traditional understanding of that term.

I've said this before but how many straight men and even some straight women don't love this....



So, as horrifying as the concept of dudes getting it on might be, it's hypocritical for most of us to condemn homosexuality in general.

Let the pillow biters and rug munchers marry. It has no effect on you whatsoever.

SkinnyHead: A majority of the people do not want to abandon the traditional definition of marriage to pretend that a same sex couple is married under the traditional understanding of that term.

Why? Explain to me how this would affect you in any way.

/I seem to be defending gay marriage more than most gay guys. I guess it just pisses me off too much

Prank Call of Cthulhu: Folks are putting in an awful lot of time and effort and money and resources in trying to prevent gay marriage, and I'd really, really love to hear an actual argument against it other than, "But it makes me feel icky."

OK, smart guy. Here's a little scenario I like to call "the end of human existence." See, gay people can't have kids. Right? I mean, they can adopt them, sure, but they can't actually have them. So, what happens if you start letting gay people get married, and it catches on, and more and more people start becoming gay? Huh? What happens when our entire country decides to become gay and get married, and there's no more kids? Sometime in the future, a few generations down the road, we won't be able to replenish our society. We'll have to start artifically inseminating gay people with frozen sperm, and we've already been down that road with Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito and I don't think we need to go there again.

Remember when you were a kid, and you liked to throw rocks into the pond, and your mom told you not to do that, and you asked why, and she asked you what would happen if everyone came along and threw rocks into the pond? And you thought about it but couldn't figure out what the problem would be. I mean, who freakin' cares if you throw rocks in a pond? And then your mom smacked the back of your head and called you a dumbass and said that if everybody threw rocks in the pond, there wouldn't be a pond anymore. And you asked her, well, if everybody threw enough rocks in the pond to fill up the pond, wouldn't there be a new pond in the hole that existed where they got all the rocks? And she just smacked the back of your head again and told you to stop be stupid.

It's like that. Gay people are the rocks that are filling up our pond. Or, hold on. They're the people who are throwing the rocks who are filling up our pond. No, wait. They're the pond, and they're being filled up by our rocks. Or are they the hole? Goddamnit, you know what I mean. I hope this makes it clear.

Tom_Slick: Barbigazi: Unlike the Catholic church and NOM which are both based in Maine.

The perception is the catholic church is local. NOM is okay because they were brought in to combat the people "From Away." All I am saying is the effort has to be perceived as a local grassroots effort to pass by referendum or it has to be seen by the people as necessary to avoid appearing backwards. The mindset of a Mainer is very isolationist, and bigoted towards anybody from Boston, NYC or any other big city.

Families in Maine convinced the legislature and governor of Maine to pass a law allowing gay marriage. NOM and the AFA joined with the Catholic Church, the Mormon Church and the same California add agencies that were responsible for Prop 8 came in to bolster a small anti-gay group that already existed. Outside money paid for that petition. Outside money paid for the same adds that ran in California to run in Maine.

Outside agitators created and sold this to you poor isolationists, and you didn't even notice.

Prank Call of Cthulhu: How is "but it's always been this way" a legitimate argument??? Things are allowed to change, you know. See the interracial marriage argument above.

Because people value tradition and want to hold on to their traditions. If gay rights activists have no regard for tradition, why do they want to partake in the tradition of marriage?