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42499 clicks; posted to Main » on 25 Feb 2003 at 2:57 PM (14 years ago)   |   Favorite    |   share:  Share on Twitter share via Email Share on Facebook   more»

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2003-02-25 10:45:27 AM  
I like MILF, they like FILF.
2003-02-25 10:53:09 AM  
"According to a study conducted by the University of Louisville"

That would be Louisville KENTUCKY.

Sad thing is though... men will almost always go for it.
2003-02-25 10:57:59 AM  
Or is it "DILF"?
2003-02-25 11:02:46 AM  
...he penetrated me with quick thrusts during lunchtime

Careful. That's just how Nichol Brown Simpson got her start.
2003-02-25 11:06:49 AM  
It's true. Sex with a married man is awesome, when you are married to that man. /my philosophy

But she is right about this:

When I'm out with male friends, whether it be at a club or restaurant, the instant women think I'm with them, they begin flirting with said gentlemen like piranhas. Maybe it's because they assume that if a good-looking woman is with such a man, they need to prove that they're just as hot as her.

According to my husband, more women hit on him in my company than when he is alone.
2003-02-25 11:15:02 AM  
2003-02-25 11:24:57 AM  
Meshman summed it up well.
2003-02-25 11:36:35 AM  
admins i did put a NSFW tag on this
2003-02-25 11:40:46 AM  
Not a bad idea, I should get married so I can start getting more 'tang. Only thing is, should I quit sleeping with married women if I do?
2003-02-25 11:41:20 AM  
Best line from the whole article:

"But she soon realized that even if her vagina had a little blue cape with an "S" attached to it, she could never win this race."

Words to live by.
2003-02-25 11:41:29 AM  
Yeah Whores! :)

Yes women who do this may be whores but I wouldn't say that it's a bad thing.
2003-02-25 11:42:15 AM  
"It started out by accident. The man I was dating forgot to mention that he was married. I found out four months later by accident because he forgot to remove his wedding band one day."

You don't forget being married.
2003-02-25 11:46:38 AM  
They like it because they know you aren't going to brag all over town about how easy she is. Also, they don't need to worry about a little fling because the guy isn't going to hang around and make a nuisance of himself`
2003-02-25 12:17:26 PM  
Only fark around with someone who has as much or more to lose.
2003-02-25 12:32:57 PM  
Women are completely insane (not that i'm complaining!).

I'm either single, or dating 5 girls at once. there is no in-between, because women just seem incapable of deciding whether they want to be with someone without the pressure of losing them to another.
2003-02-25 12:33:59 PM  
They like it cause they can try before they buy. They can get the secure feeling of a man who can commit (in theory) while feeling secure in terms of control of the relationship. She can dump him, blackmail him, whatever she wants. It's like borrowing someone elses car to see if you want one.

One thing if for sure - they're NOT doing it just for the sex... No woman does anything just for the sex Sex is a means to an end. Here endith the lesson.
2003-02-25 12:44:24 PM  
Sad, just sad.

BTW, I very taken and love the taste of duck.

Just kidding. I actually wouldn't give these tramps the time of day. I'm as loyal as they come. Really, I am. No 'tang is worth the damage it could cause, and there's no such thing as never getting caught.
2003-02-25 12:52:57 PM  
Amphibian, I don't think most single women who have affairs with married men are looking for a fling. I think they secretly hope that they will leave their wives. They say that they aren't looking for a relationship and are in it only for the sex to justify their actions. Trust me when I say that most women are not sexually motivated but are in search of a lifetime partner and provider. Married men are generally mature and financially secure and, therefore, sometimes more attractive than their single counterparts. (Basically, I'm reiterating everything Bump just said.)

The problem is that if/when married men do abandon their wives for their mistresses, it doesn't usually work. How can you trust a cheating man (or woman for that matter)?
2003-02-25 01:01:17 PM  
I've been married twice now. Both ceremonies were preceded by evil women lining up trying to convince me to be with them instead. WTF? Luckily, I'm way too loyal to screw up. This seems to egg some women on more though.
2003-02-25 01:03:17 PM  
My wife would put a hit on me if I strayed to the 'tang. Seriously. I haven't had women hit on me since getting married, but then that might be because I don't bother to notice if they do. Besides I agree heartily with Alton on the getting caught thing.
2003-02-25 01:42:03 PM  
No woman does anything just for the sex.

, I understand your general philosophy on women and for the most part I agree with it. However (and this may come as a shock to you) sometimes, yes sometimes, we like to have sex just to have sex. Yes, we women occasionally desire to be kissed, fondled, caressed and loved by a man (or a women, if that is your thing).

And yes, to put it quite bluntly, sometimes we like to be farked.

So it's time to put your notions about women aside and humbly admit that you will never, ever completely understand what motivates us female creatures. *winks*
2003-02-25 01:57:24 PM  
To keep matters in perspective, we need to remember the source of the article in question.

Like Sudie says, women get horny. But a married man is not the most likely candidate to fulfill those desires.

I think this article was written as fantasy-fuel for the unhappily married.
2003-02-25 02:04:40 PM  
There is nothing new under the sun. People have been cheating on each other as long as there have been marriages.
I don't think that you can generalize about any large group of people and say "She goes out with married men because blah, blah , blah...." There are probably as many reasons as there are women. The only thing I know about women is that they are all different. They are not robots.
And it's the same with men. Different men. Different situations. Different reasons.
I don't agree with all that women = Venus - men = Mars BS. Men and women are much more similar than different when it comes to motivations. Being of the same species and all.
2003-02-25 02:05:49 PM  
One of my g/fs is having an affair with a married man right now. She is miserable and really not enjoying life and I've begged her to get rid of this guy, but he is spending lots of cash on her and she doesn't want to give that up. The whole thing is turning my stomach and I may tell her to just call me after they break up, and until then have a nice life.
2003-02-25 02:27:13 PM  
we need to remember the source of the article in question.

Shhhh! You wanna ruin our fun? It's about like the Penthouse letters:

"I never thought it would happen to me. When I got married I figured my days of 'playing the field' were over. Now, though, chicks dig me more than ever! It must be because my dick has grown longer and more robust since getting married, and now I have six pack abs and beautiful hair that no woman (mortal, at least) could resist!

I'm having to turn down three or four offers for quickie sex in the supply room, and that's just before lunchtime! Last night, three young, nubile co-ed fitness instructors tied me up and had their way with me all night long. Do you have any idea why this keeps happening? Is it simply the ring on my finger?"
2003-02-25 02:42:52 PM  
Numberz - Geez - why'd ya stop? It was just getting good. More naughty nubile fitness instructors!
2003-02-25 02:53:32 PM  
Sudie I know. You're right, I'm just obviously carrying personal experiences into the discussion. But when it comes to dating - women who "want" (ie: initiate) sex are not simply monochromatic in their mentality about it.

We are not thinking about the future, relationship, love, etc at times like this. We''re thinking, "man I hope she can relax her throat muscles and giggles with joyous glee when I drop gob, then hands me the remote while she goes to make me a grilled cheese sandwich."

I never said men were mental giants or that one gender is better than the other. Oh, and I hereby humbly admit that I will never, ever completely understand what motivates you female creatures.
2003-02-25 03:00:48 PM  
Married men just appreciate it more.
2003-02-25 03:04:06 PM  
Shiat, this is all common knowledge.
2003-02-25 03:04:51 PM  
becuase women are all dirty, dirty whores. except my mom. and my fiance. and her sister and her mother and most of her aunts.
2003-02-25 03:05:11 PM  
AskMen obviously is going for the "closeted gay" market.

It's pitifully gay.
2003-02-25 03:05:29 PM  
it seems like it's the opposite with men. married women are 'used'.
2003-02-25 03:06:12 PM  
They may whine, "all the good men are taken", but what they really believe is that all the taken men are good. They will cross the street in traffic to get to an attached man, or to get away from a single man without a girlfriend. An unattached man must have something wrong with him.
2003-02-25 03:06:53 PM  
I'm getting married so, by some unknown coincidence, I'm gonna get lucky more often!

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2003-02-25 03:07:21 PM  
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You have to wonder what Lucille Althoff's story was. You think this was a sign she erected for her husband?
2003-02-25 03:07:32 PM  
We are not thinking about the future, relationship, love, etc at times like this. We're thinking, "man I hope she can relax her throat muscles and giggles with joyous glee when I drop gob, then hands me the remote while she goes to make me a grilled cheese sandwich."

My quote of the day. Thanks, Bump.
2003-02-25 03:08:47 PM  
"Nevertheless, John was clearly addicted to the sex that Anna bestowed on him, what with her willingness to take it in any orifice and pleasure him in any way he requested."

Whew...did it just get hot in here or is it just me?
2003-02-25 03:08:47 PM  
Who's down with OPP?
2003-02-25 03:09:13 PM  
And yes, to put it quite bluntly, sometimes we like to be farked

What do you mean by sometimes?
2003-02-25 03:09:26 PM  
Read Graham Greene's the end of the affair.

After he gets the married woman he realizes that he can't be with her, because the very existence of their relationship is proof positive of the fact that she is capable of leaving him for something else.
2003-02-25 03:09:59 PM  
Yet another example of the duplicitous nature of too many women. *sigh*
2003-02-25 03:10:00 PM  
I used to get hit on all the time when I was with my GF.
2003-02-25 03:10:58 PM  
"Nevertheless, John was clearly addicted to the sex that Anna bestowed on him, what with her willingness to take it in any orifice and pleasure him in any way he requested."

what with = because of
2003-02-25 03:11:58 PM  
Damn it Shyster! I was going to say that.
2003-02-25 03:12:25 PM  
This is true, but.
I have noticed their is a sharp drop in the number of women hitting on me. I am sure it is not my Strongbad like body, or my Homer Simpson face.
I blame on the sign my wife makes me wear.
"If you want him, take him. But you have to keep him".
2003-02-25 03:12:26 PM  
Because they're whores. Next question.
2003-02-25 03:12:29 PM  
Someone else said it up above, men and women tend to view sex differently. For women, sex is a means to another end (cuddling, snuggling, physical intimacy, a new present like a ring or some jewelry), while men see sex as the end. Women will tolerate the intercourse so they can enjoy the secondary beneficial effects - for example, ever notice how women want to talk and stuff after love making? Whereas men - want to fall asleep (or put my clothes on and get the hell out of there).
2003-02-25 03:13:27 PM  
02-25-03 03:10:00 PM Biggbossman
I used to get hit on all the time when I was with my GF.

I read that as...
I used to get hit all the time when I was with my GF. Probably a good reason for it being in the past.
2003-02-25 03:14:09 PM  
Why would a single (or even attached) woman chase after a married man when she knows that he is attached to another woman?

Because women get just as horny as men do and it's easier to to get some then leave with no strings attached.


Women are more open to sexual experimentation with a married man that they might never see again, thus making it less embarassing to realise the fantasy of having Condition Circle William set on her body.

(Navy vets know what I'm talking about)
2003-02-25 03:14:13 PM  
A woman told me once 'we can smell desperation a mile away.'
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