I_C_Weener: Nice. These all could be signs that she has gotten too fat to wash herself without the use of a rag on a stick.

1. Your partner is not as social as he used to be.
2. Your partner lacks interest in sex or is sexually unresponsive.
....
"WANT HO-HOs NOW!!!"

Bingo.

They're all a sign she's decided to use sex as a bargaining chip instead of something fun and #1 is a sign she shrewed away all your friends.

without lies and exaggerations, what is the most times you've fapped in a day?

/just curious

8 i think.

i was like 15 maybe?

funsized

FWIW, my wife and I love kink dot com!! that is the only pron that she'll watch with me. And then the fun begins...

Whitecoat: without lies and exaggerations, what is the most times you've fapped in a day?

/just curious

Five or Six.

It was a bachelor weekend with just me, porn, and videogames.

Whitecoat: without lies and exaggerations, what is the most times you've fapped in a day?

/just curious

12. And I had to go commando for a few days after, because it hurt just to touch it.

CastorPimp: 8 i think. i was like 15 maybe?

Oh crap, if we're going to count that far back... um... well... I don't think they've come up with a number large enough.

Whitecoat: without lies and exaggerations, what is the most times you've fapped in a day?

/just curious

5

/teenager
/nowadays 3

MonkeyBoy666: CastorPimp: 8 i think. i was like 15 maybe?

Oh crap, if we're going to count that far back... um... well... I don't think they've come up with a number large enough.

the last few i was literally shooting blanks

.... sooo.... you'll put up with some chest/stomach hair for a big penor??

/not a cute guy (lord giveth lord taketh away)
//not fat either
///very happy with my penor ;)

If every porn film started out with the woman being treated to a day spa followed by a $5,000 shopping spree to Bloomingdales or any other staple high-end Sex And The City fashion bazaar, there would be no issue, because in a nutshell it at least would mimic real life. I'm not calling all wives/gfs/so's prostitutes, but there is a definite reward system going on that you do not understand until you are entrenched in it.

When my wife and I dated, she looked forward to my 'mix tapes' of various scenes that I thought she'd like. I made tapes for a buddy of mine and his wife, and learned very quickly that every woman sees porn differently. Eventually when a woman is in a marriage or established relationship, porn becomes something you hopefully look to for titillation, but taking it to the point where it's a staple of your sex life can be a source of problems, I will at least grant that.

Yes, I would say the #1 turn off for women are the violent, degrading, openly misogynistic scenes, most of which I see in everything made from about 2000-after, what I call the Max Hardcore era. I would say in any decent poll that about 95% of women do not enjoy facial cumshots, and you see that in most if not all porn aimed at 'hetero couples,' hence it's something uniquely crafted for men hidden in the guise of couple's erotica. The fact that we have only in the past couple years shifted to scenes where the man actually ejaculates inside the woman says something about how all the extremes have been used up and we're now getting back to things the way Thomas Aquinas intended.

#2 turnoff are the gross guys involved in porn, but that is no longer an issue. Viagra and Cialis have leveled the playing field, and although the 'gorgeous guys' still do predominantly gay porn, there are decent looking (per my wife's standards) men with nice endowments in the films today. The only problem is that 90% of them are doing a woman doggy while stepping on her face and turning her butt into a manhole cover. Not hot for the ladies, but again, it's the fact you can't please all the people, all the time.

As for the list, let me put in the context of someone (in my experience) who loves fashion and home improvement shows:

1. Your partner is not as social as (s)he used to be, because she worries their houses are nicer than ours.
2. Your partner lacks interest in sex or is sexually unresponsive because she has to catch "How Do I Look" or "Design on a Dime" during the lovemaking hours of 9:30-9:45pm.
3. Your partner is being uncharacteristically demanding or rough during sex, mainly because every position hurts their back, they won't get on top or per #2, they want to see how their show ended.
4. Your partner does not seem "present," mainly because they are watching Paige Davis encourage another family to 'trade spaces!'
5. Your partner has started to nit-pick your appearance, which is ironic because their bedside table is full of candy, snacks and other goodies. Since you don't look like Ty from Trading Spaces, there's also an issue, because although you make close to a six figure income, you can't redress a kitchen in a weekend.
6. You feel like you're no longer getting straight answers from your lover, because they seem to enjoy nothing except watching shows about people they can't really stand, living in houses and communities with expenses you can't hope to match, having fun, adventurous lives without two small children in tow.
7. Your partner is practically wed to eBay, trying to buy shoes or other inexpensive fashions.
8. You've noticed a change in your partner's demeanor because she eventually hates everything that doesn't involve trying to tell you how much she wants to change the house or her life.

That door definitely swings both ways, friends. "Porn" is simpy a frame of reference for an obsessive desire of something you can't afford or aren't capable of having in real life, or that someone would mark you as superficial for wanting.

I can say with confidence that the fapometer never hit triple digits in any 24-hour period.

CastorPimp: MonkeyBoy666: CastorPimp: 8 i think. i was like 15 maybe?

Oh crap, if we're going to count that far back... um... well... I don't think they've come up with a number large enough.

the last few i was literally shooting blanks

if you wack it for a hour and still nothing.. its time to stop and take a break

/i hate shooting blanks

overlord_mike: Whitecoat: without lies and exaggerations, what is the most times you've fapped in a day?

/just curious

5

/teenager
/nowadays 3

Back in my teenaged days, three was a normal evening. Now in hindsight, I'm disappointed that I never went for a record. Might have gotten to seven once or twice, but I can't really say for certain since I wasn't counting.

So wait a minute...most of you here are portraying women as tea-sipping, romance-novel-reading ice queens JUST BECAUSE some don't agree with porn??? Bullshiat.

I find it even more offensive knowing most of the posts imply that men are utterly dependent on porn and that anything otherwise is UNIMAGINABLE. "Oh, you mean you don't look at porn?! You must be secretly gay! Or a Jesus Freak! A SECRETLY GAY JESUS FREAK!!!! DEAR LORD HOW CAN YOU HAVE A COCK AND NOT LIKE TEH PRONZ?!!!"
Yeah, another stereotype. More bullshiat.

And don't you dare try to paint me in a corner over this. I'm not a feminazi, a religious fanatic, or sexually frigid (Avid BDSM lover and proponent--kink.com is already on my favorites list, as I feel it is how the industry really should be in terms of responsibility and genuine enjoyment). I do, however, acknowledge that, like drugs or booze, porn CAN be addictive/dangerous depending on who uses it, why, and how often.
I also don't understand such black/white views on the subject that people have. If there are some aspects of porn that you're against, even remotely, something MUST be wrong with you sexually. Can anyone not have doubts without being ridiculed for it?
Unless your partner is completely frigid (In which case you shouldn't even be together to begin with) or can't have sex, what is the point of looking at it? I don't think its cheating, I just think its pointless. Why turn to a computer screen when you have a woman right there, legs spread? No one should have to compete with stereotypes or someone that doesn't even exist.

overlord_mike: CastorPimp: MonkeyBoy666: CastorPimp: 8 i think. i was like 15 maybe?

Oh crap, if we're going to count that far back... um... well... I don't think they've come up with a number large enough.

the last few i was literally shooting blanks

if you wack it for a hour and still nothing.. its time to stop and take a break

/i hate shooting blanks

i was having orgasms... just without ejaculating.

If I am not mistaken, it appears that GrungeGod is in the lead concerning the fap - a - thon stats.

get it on with yo bad self

I'll be in my bunk.

nitratesandwich: Why turn to a computer screen when you have a woman right there, legs spread?

ok, but we'd have to do it doggy so I can rest the laptop on her back

nitratesandwich: So wait a minute...most of you here are portraying women as tea-sipping, romance-novel-reading ice queens JUST BECAUSE some don't agree with porn??? Bullshiat.

I find it even more offensive knowing most of the posts imply that men are utterly dependent on porn and that anything otherwise is UNIMAGINABLE. "Oh, you mean you don't look at porn?! You must be secretly gay! Or a Jesus Freak! A SECRETLY GAY JESUS FREAK!!!! DEAR LORD HOW CAN YOU HAVE A COCK AND NOT LIKE TEH PRONZ?!!!"
Yeah, another stereotype. More bullshiat.

And don't you dare try to paint me in a corner over this. I'm not a feminazi, a religious fanatic, or sexually frigid (Avid BDSM lover and proponent--kink.com is already on my favorites list, as I feel it is how the industry really should be in terms of responsibility and genuine enjoyment). I do, however, acknowledge that, like drugs or booze, porn CAN be addictive/dangerous depending on who uses it, why, and how often.
I also don't understand such black/white views on the subject that people have. If there are some aspects of porn that you're against, even remotely, something MUST be wrong with you sexually. Can anyone not have doubts without being ridiculed for it?
Unless your partner is completely frigid (In which case you shouldn't even be together to begin with) or can't have sex, what is the point of looking at it? I don't think its cheating, I just think its pointless. Why turn to a computer screen when you have a woman right there, legs spread? No one should have to compete with stereotypes or someone that doesn't even exist.

I think we all agree that people who would RATHER fap to porn than to fark their wife/gf has a problem.

The issue being discussed is having porn as a SUPPLEMENT to a normal sex life, and women having a problem with that.

Med: Touche! :)

DWitchiewoman: If I am not mistaken

you would be mistaken, but I didn't keep a proper accounting

whammer: If you're having problem in your sex life, I recommend "caveman style" when you are both at home. She wears a short skirt and goes commando, and whenever he is up for it, he goes to her for a little dooky-dooky, wherever she is.

Dunno how well this works if you're using rubbers. Or if you have small children around the house.

Whitecoat: without lies and exaggerations, what is the most times you've fapped in a day?

/just curious

About 8. I was 14 and it was the week after my very first fap.

I actually had blisters.

Castor: Oh, alright. Agreed.

labomba: Lesbian spank inferno is not porn!

Its erotica. Its a film about a lesbian film collective...

/great show & series

DWitchiewoman

I so wish I wasn't!! That's what a two year seperation from your SO does to you, when you're overseas and won't cheat. Both roomies on leave and I have a room to myself for two weeks? Fap fap fap fap fap fap fap fap fap fap fap fap. OUCH!!!

medius: nitratesandwich: Why turn to a computer screen when you have a woman right there, legs spread?

ok, but we'd have to do it doggy so I can rest the laptop on her back

I LOL'ed and it reminded me of a strip club sighting once. Was out for a going away party and there was a table with four guys, three of whom were staring intently at a laptop...for hours. WTF?

/I preferred looking at the strippers

GrungeGod:

Hey, at least you know your limits

; )

nitratesandwich: So wait a minute...most of you here are portraying women as tea-sipping, romance-novel-reading ice queens JUST BECAUSE some don't agree with porn??? Bullshiat.

Are you reading the same thread I am?

I see nothing but people sharing their direct experience with the porn-hating (fearing rather) wench, who more often than not also have those other things you described.

The guys who's gals who like porn, and the gals who like porn are posting too, and nobody's directing anything at them. Maybe, the self-serving can't see beyond own nose wench is the personality type that makes porn haters... so yah, they are going to go together.

The sad thing, the most vicious haters of porn are often the more liberal ones. The "boys will be boys" thing only happens if you are not a Dworkin-ite. (Christians excepted, they are their own brand of crazy-irrationality.)

someone told me 35 times in one day, I found it hard to believe, so I figured if Farkers don't get that high, then that number is false

Whitecoat: someone told me 35 times in one day

yeah, even I don't think I've hit more than half that

but it's probably not impossible

/at some point masturbation is really just self-abuse

Whitecoat: someone told me 35 times in one day, I found it hard to believe, so I figured if Farkers don't get that high, then that number is false

I get about 6 hours of sleep a night. 35 times in one day would be twice an hour...I don't think I could keep up that pace - nor would I want to...I'd get too sore to touch sooner or later.

Whitecoat: someone told me 35 times in one day, I found it hard to believe, so I figured if Farkers don't get that high, then that number is false

I think it's doable. It'd have to be deliberate - an active attempt to see how many times you can do it in a day, rather than just waiting until the spirit moves you, and you'd work your way up to it. But doable, yeah.

/hotlinked

nhcfark: I'm a big fan of fish oil(omega-3 fatty acid). This isn't simply because I'm Icelandic. I take two tablets every morning because there are so many health benefits. So I was delighted when I learned that animal and human studies show that fish oil raises dopamine levels in the brain.

Why should you care about dopamine?

This hormone not only is good for one's cardio health and in combating depression - factors that can affect one's sexual gusto - but this neurotransmitter triggers lust.


http://www.sexualitysource.com/

If you're into girls...a big HOW YOU DOIN!

jaf: Still, just because people here had those experiences doesn't mean they're ALL like that. Perhaps their perception of these "porn-haters" are derivative of their own opinions. If someone is gung-ho about porn and finds that someone doesn't like it, what else are they going to assume? That its simply not their thing, or that they're prudes?

Everyone has their reasons to like or dislike porn (Like I said, I like porn once in awhile, but I understand why people dislike it and even agree with them in some ways), but there shouldn't be such black/white opinions on it. Describing them as "wenches" is an example of that. As is the Dworkin reference (For the record, I HATE that biatch).

medius: Thats beautiful.

nitratesandwich: Unless your partner is completely frigid (In which case you shouldn't even be together to begin with) or can't have sex, what is the point of looking at it?

How about when she's tired or goes to work or whatever early or on the weekend, or goes out of town without you (trip with the kids, visits the parents, a "girls-only" outing, etc.)

GrungeGod
spyderqueen:
Alternately, lesbian porn made for lesbians (as in not just girl-on-girl) has some really nice lookking chicks.

I thought that was the #1 indicator that you were watching lesbian pron.

No, there's really a difference between the two. A lot of the Girl-on-Girl is just the same chicks from Het porn doing the same fake-assed shiat, but to each other instead, and usually it has no bearing on actual lesbian sex (like I've seen LONG FINGERNAILS on some of those girls, I cross my legs thinking about it). Some get it right, but not that often.

I dont care if my guy looks at porn. Last time I used his computer I accidently saw his porn-stash, I simply laughed and teased him about it.



/back to lurking

Bell, I think thats totally fine/understandable. See, I'm talking more about looking at it when your partner is around, horny, etc. For me, that constitutes a problem.

spyderqueen: No, there's really a difference between the two. A lot of the Girl-on-Girl is just the same chicks from Het porn doing the same fake-assed shiat, but to each other instead, and usually it has no bearing on actual lesbian sex (like I've seen LONG FINGERNAILS on some of those girls, I cross my legs thinking about it). Some get it right, but not that often.

This. I'm a dude, and I cringe when I see those fingernails. And yes, they're so hopelessly unconvincing that I prefer normal hardcore simply because the women are at least better looking like they're into it. I love the idea of girl-on-girl, but most of it is so appallingly bad that it's unwatchable.

nitratesandwich: Bell, I think thats totally fine/understandable. See, I'm talking more about looking at it when your partner is around, horny, etc. For me, that constitutes a problem.

I don't think most of the so-called "porn addicts" have that problem unless their wife is a 500 lb land-whale.

This: I love the idea of girl-on-girl, but most of it is so appallingly bad that it's unwatchable.

Euro porn has the best girl on girl scenes. They look like they are enjoying it, and you can see the girls cum during shoots.

Belltower: How about when she's tired or goes to work or whatever early or on the weekend, or goes out of town without you (trip with the kids, visits the parents, a "girls-only" outing, etc.)

Or when she works third shift (and odd schedules) and you work first. :(