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(SFGate)   Ric Romero now doing research at UCSF, reports that teenage girls feel guilty and used after sex. Submitter feels guilty after using this article   (sfgate.com) divider line 77
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2007-02-16 03:36:38 AM  
I'd report, when I was a teenage girl, that I felt sultry and enthused after sex.
 
2007-02-16 05:21:20 AM  
That's because we were just using them!
 
2007-02-16 05:51:28 AM  
submitter: teenage girls feel guilty and used after sex.

In my experience, they're still usually thoroughly sedated at that point.
 
2007-02-16 06:09:41 AM  
I loves you baby

boink boink boink

Ha ha , I was lying biatch

/ Who's next
 
2007-02-16 06:11:38 AM  
The good ol' gentleman's gel always washes the guilt away sweetheart.
 
2007-02-16 06:12:00 AM  
kidkeno FTW
 
2007-02-16 06:13:10 AM  
teens have sex? when did this start?
 
2007-02-16 06:16:32 AM  
Well, when the only way you do it is to be hide behind being 'manipulated' into doing it what do you expect?
 
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2007-02-16 06:16:38 AM  
So how did they do this survey? Did the researchers have sex with the kids and then ask them if they felt dirty and used?
 
2007-02-16 06:19:23 AM  
Duke sucks.
 
2007-02-16 06:21:26 AM  
Shenanigans, no Ric to be found.

stating that "obvious" reports are by Ric Romero is not funny anymore
 
2007-02-16 06:22:49 AM  
Actually, this is why I am so glad to be 30. No telling them you love them every 30 seconds.
 
2007-02-16 06:27:51 AM  
"Girls were twice as likely as boys to report feeling bad about themselves, and nearly three times as likely to feel used . ."

' . . after every scenario event tested.'

Traditionally women ALWAYS feel victomized. The the bad-old social convention of woman as submissive inferior, perfect property, and Virgin Mary Martyr. Clearly, our youth is still getting fed this poison from society's teat.

Hi Ant. Clearly you have no problem with this. Nice to know some girls these days aren't raised on that crap.

I'm a radical conservative and a conservative radical, by turns as needed: If it works right, don't mess with it. If it's old 'n' busted, fix it now or throw it away.
 
2007-02-16 06:28:26 AM  
I'm twenty years old..and I can say UCSF pussy is good pussy
 
2007-02-16 06:29:16 AM  
... Submitter feels guilty after using this article

Depends what you used it for.

Just rinse, wipe your hands on your pants and your nose on your sleeve and repeat.
 
2007-02-16 06:31:01 AM  
Nanookanano

Hi Ant. Clearly you have no problem with this. Nice to know some girls these days aren't raised on that crap.

I'm a radical conservative and a conservative radical, by turns as needed: If it works right, don't mess with it. If it's old 'n' busted, fix it now or throw it away.


Even Terry Venables doesn't know what this means.
 
2007-02-16 06:32:47 AM  
Next up: Legislation purposed to make growing up illegal. Followed by: Study finds feelings of being used and guilt after sex completely disappear after teenage years. YA RLY!
 
2007-02-16 06:37:32 AM  
That's okay: I don't know who Terry Venables is.

Conservative radical: Change what needs changing, but very humbly and very carefully.

Radical conservative: Raise your voice, and be ready to fight, to protect the good stuff.

Which is to say, "Do your housekeeping daily" AND "don't throw the baby out with the bathwater."
 
2007-02-16 06:38:18 AM  
Thanks to a Christian upbringing, I had a rough time with sex at first. Going to hell and all that lot can really put the fear in you. Now that I know that all that shiat is make believe, I don't have problems with that anymore. Now I only get an overwhelming sense of dread that I've gotten her pregnent, or I've caught a disease (even though I use a condom every time) One irrational fear replaced by another.
 
2007-02-16 06:40:52 AM  
Whatsleft:

They served something
Tasty and nutritious
In a high-school cafeteria

Someone proved conclusively
The single bullet theory

. . . . Was wrong
 
2007-02-16 06:42:50 AM  
Nanookanano

That's okay: I don't know who Terry Venables is.

Conservative radical: Change what needs changing, but very humbly and very carefully.

Radical conservative: Raise your voice, and be ready to fight, to protect the good stuff.

Which is to say, "Do your housekeeping daily" AND "don't throw the baby out with the bathwater."


It makes even less sense now.

Avocet

I thought you said "Thanks to my Christian upbringing I had rough sex at first"

I wish you had said it really.
 
2007-02-16 06:43:32 AM  
Luadzers, who has raised five teenagers and lives in South Carolina, said the downsides of teen sex hit home when one of her sons was in middle school and reported that several girls in his class offered him oral sex if he'd become their boyfriend.


Downside?
 
2007-02-16 06:43:52 AM  
You mean emotionally-stunted children representing arguably the most farked-up, worthless generation of American children thus far feel empty and used after having meaningless sex with people who don't care about them? SHOCK!

But seriously, like this sentiment is exclusive to teenagers? Lots of trampy people feel empty and used after meaningless sex. Because - hey! - the sex was meaningless, they're empty, and they were used.
 
2007-02-16 06:56:03 AM  
Avocet: Thanks to a Christian upbringing, I had a rough time with sex at first. Going to hell and all that lot can really put the fear in you. Now that I know that all that shiat is make believe, I don't have problems with that anymore. Now I only get an overwhelming sense of dread that I've gotten her pregnent, or I've caught a disease (even though I use a condom every time) One irrational fear replaced by another.

And the question is, did the irrational fear keep you from doing something which your youthful, irrational mind might have done leading to one of those RATIONAL fear items?

Youths are irrational. Expecting rationality to protect them from themselve defies logic.
 
2007-02-16 06:56:14 AM  
Word, Jagerhunde

but don't worry, their ipods and grossly inflated sense of entitlement will bail them out, well, and also MTV. Right?


/hee hee
 
2007-02-16 07:10:09 AM  
Jagerhunde

Admit it, you're just pissed because you're stuck in a suburb of Poughkeepsie and the closest thing to college tail is a dyke bar in Rensselaer.
 
2007-02-16 07:19:47 AM  
Thank you "sex is bad and evil and so are you because you were born" crowd!
 
2007-02-16 07:21:17 AM  
rocket lawn chair:

Vapid, shallow morlocks are an unending source of amusement. Or they would be, if they didn't outnumber me about a goddamn million to one.

equusdc:

Don't knock dykes, man. It's not like that presents much of a disadvantage. As we all know, lesbian + alcohol = bisexual, anyway.

Actually, my girlfriend is adorable and six months from jailbait, but thanks, I'm good. Not bitter; just a prick. "I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."
 
2007-02-16 07:36:33 AM  
Jagerhunde:
You mean emotionally-stunted children representing arguably the most farked-up, worthless generation of American children thus far

Blah blah, you can bet somebody was saying that ten years ago, and 20 years ago, and 50 years ago. I'm on your lawn gramps, come on shake your cane at me.
 
2007-02-16 07:37:03 AM  
It's only the idiot girls who get tricked into sex who feel used and abused. There was a girl in my high school who fell for all the typical lies guys told her:

1. "Nobody will ever do it with me..."
2. "I love you more than I could ever love any other woman."
3. "You should practice sex a lot before you get married."
4. "If we do it, I'll marry you."

If you wait until you actually have a strong emotional commitment with someone, you won't feel used and abused.
 
2007-02-16 07:42:10 AM  
No Such Agency:
...you can bet somebody was saying that ten years ago, and 20 years ago, and 50 years ago.

You're probably right on that. I don't see any contradiction there; they were right. So am I. All you've done is add further credence to the idea that people get progressively more worthless with each generation. I agree.

I'm on your lawn gramps, come on shake your cane at me.

Dude. I'm younger than you.
 
2007-02-16 07:46:42 AM  
"All you've done is add further credence to the idea that people get progressively more worthless with each generation."

That doesn't make any sense.
 
2007-02-16 07:49:31 AM  
HotWingConspiracy

Neither did what he said. The relative worth of human beings by generation isn't something you can really accurately gauge, of course. I was just making a sweeping, hyperbolic jibe about changing social mores and how sexuality, if not more common, is certainly a more open topic amongs American youth. Also, I'm being satirical.

/should've been obvious
 
2007-02-16 07:58:39 AM  
Here are some things that helped me avoid these feelings when I was a teenager:

1. Self confidence.
2. Not being a stupid tramp and being very picky about who I got involved with.
3. Being raised by parents that didn't make me feel like having sexual feelings was "bad".

I made it through high school relatively unscathed and very well-adjusted. No regrets and no feelings of guilt.
 
2007-02-16 08:02:29 AM  
fap fap fap...

/obligat-OH-OH-OH-ry
 
2007-02-16 08:02:44 AM  
Antialias, let's be pals, k?
 
2007-02-16 08:05:38 AM  
Jaegerhunde
people get progressively more worthless with each generation.

Further Proof
 
2007-02-16 08:06:01 AM  
Oh I get it, I'm a dumbass too.

/satire?
 
2007-02-16 08:08:18 AM  
Poor poor girls, none of whom have ever used a man for sex.

/calls bullshiat
//not that any of you care
 
2007-02-16 08:10:55 AM  
RockIsDead: Well, when the only way you do it is to be hide behind being 'manipulated' into doing it what do you expect?

QFT, by the way
 
2007-02-16 08:24:22 AM  
meekychuppet

It makes even less sense now.


You're quite a fascinating subject. You're literate enough to type coherent replies, yet lack the reading comprehension required to process words into meaningful concepts for yourself.
 
2007-02-16 08:31:03 AM  
antialias: I'd report, when I was a teenage girl, that I felt sultry and enthused after sex.

I think I'd enjoy watching you feel sultry and enthused after sex.
 
2007-02-16 08:34:33 AM  
So is putting "Ric Romero" in your headline just an easy way
to get a crappy article that no one cares about greenlighted?
Yeah, thought so.
 
2007-02-16 08:43:17 AM  
I heard sex, I heard teenage girls, I see no pictures...

//disappointed
///early-morning jailbait slashies!
 
2007-02-16 08:45:46 AM  
Avocet: Thanks to a Christian upbringing, I had a rough time with sex at first. Going to hell and all that lot can really put the fear in you. Now that I know that all that shiat is make believe, I don't have problems with that anymore. Now I only get an overwhelming sense of dread that I've gotten her pregnent, or I've caught a disease (even though I use a condom every time) One irrational fear replaced by another.

Sounds like your problem is with responsibility or with God, not with sex, sweetcheeks.
 
2007-02-16 08:48:26 AM  
Adman12: Luadzers, who has raised five teenagers and lives in South Carolina, said the downsides of teen sex hit home when one of her sons was in middle school and reported that several girls in his class offered him oral sex if he'd become their boyfriend.

Downside?


"What the fark you waitin' for biatch start suckin'!"

homepage.ntlworld.com


"BBOOOONNNNNNGGGG...."
 
2007-02-16 08:52:34 AM  
Such is life when the good girls go after guys who are total jerks and the nice guys get left out.

They should feel dirty and used. Serves the skanks right.

/A girl drove me to fark
//never leavin
 
2007-02-16 09:14:31 AM  
"Luadzers, who has raised five teenagers and lives in South Carolina, said the downsides of teen sex hit home when one of her sons was in middle school and reported that several girls in his class offered him oral sex if he'd become their boyfriend."
---

Don't worry. You son's probably already caught teh ghey if he told you that.

/Sure I'll call ... see ya ...
 
2007-02-16 09:16:21 AM  
oregoncat: teens have sex? when did this start?


After you stopped being a teen.
 
2007-02-16 09:38:59 AM  
fastbow: Such is life when the good girls go after guys who are total jerks and the nice guys get left out.

QFT.
 
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