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2006-12-17 12:16:16 AM
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Jeez. I bet that hurt. Really really really bad.
 
2006-12-17 12:29:11 AM
That's because when I sleep, my man be out.
 
2006-12-17 12:48:38 AM
Hey, she was fat and I thought she would kill herself if I said "Um, no, I'm going home and going to bed...lefty beats the hell out of you."

Was that rape, or just me not being mean enough? I did say "um, no."
 
2006-12-17 01:08:07 AM
Wait, raped by men or women?
 
2006-12-17 01:08:17 AM
As a man, I demand the right to be sexually abused!
 
2006-12-17 01:10:14 AM
When I was in high school, the statistic that 78 percent of rapes go unreported was being tossed around. I wanted to know, how the hell could they know that?
 
2006-12-17 01:11:19 AM
Wait, raped by men or women?

Is it even possible for a man to be raped by a woman? And even if it is possible, who's going to listen to him if he complains?
 
2006-12-17 01:11:46 AM
I've never raped anyone.
 
2006-12-17 01:13:40 AM
www.starstore.com

Crack is a hell of a drug.
 
2006-12-17 01:13:41 AM
www.coattails.net
 
2006-12-17 01:24:55 AM
gradatim:
Is it even possible for a man to be raped by a woman?

With strap-ons, anything is possible!
 
2006-12-17 01:28:19 AM
gradatim And even if it is possible, who's going to listen to him if he complains?

And hence the underreported.
 
2006-12-17 01:29:16 AM
gradatim

Is it even possible for a man to be raped by a woman? And even if it is possible, who's going to listen to him if he complains?




If you use the same standards applied to female cases, every drunken last-call-at-the-bar-fark was rape. The man was intoxicated and therefore unable to consent. Therefore, the fugly chick he woke up with the next morning raped him.

That would make for an interesting intro at the next AAA Meeting, eh?

"Hello. My name is Lamune, and I'm a rape victim."
 
2006-12-17 01:29:37 AM
2006-12-17 01:11:19 AM gradatim
Is it even possible for a man to be raped by a woman? And even if it is possible, who's going to listen to him if he complains?


A male friend of mine was drugged and raped by a (female) nurse when he was in the hospital. This happened when he was 17.

He was a virgin and that was important to him. He's still pretty farked up about the incident. I was the first person he told (10 years after the fact).
 
2006-12-17 01:37:35 AM
Hey young tight boys to be raped by this guy in the future.

/ Duct tape you Wii controller to your fudge extractor so his evil plan will be thorted.
 
2006-12-17 01:37:36 AM
This freak is probably spreading HIV like wild fire.
 
2006-12-17 01:39:05 AM
geekybroad: A male friend of mine was drugged and raped by a (female) nurse when he was in the hospital. This happened when he was 17.

He was a virgin and that was important to him. He's still pretty farked up about the incident. I was the first person he told (10 years after the fact).



How exactly did that work? Wouldn't he have to be pretty aware of what was going on to get it up?
 
2006-12-17 01:42:14 AM
Churchill2004
Wouldn't he have to be pretty aware of what was going on to get it up?

Tell that to yer fella when you wake up in the morning and have to pee real bad.

Erections can just happen absent of sexual stimulation. They can also happen with sexual stimulation when you are unconscious.
 
2006-12-17 01:42:46 AM
Churchill2004
How exactly did that work? Wouldn't he have to be pretty aware of what was going on to get it up?

Hey, I'm a chick, and even I know about morning wood.

And a boner is no more saying "yes" to intercourse than a chick who "gets wet" during a sexual assault means she consents.
 
2006-12-17 01:43:47 AM
dammit mojptele!
 
2006-12-17 01:44:24 AM
"How exactly did that work? Wouldn't he have to be pretty aware of what was going on to get it up?"

And therein lies the problem. A woman can be penetrated with or without being sexually excited, yet a man is supposibly unable to be raped (vaginally) unless he's excited and therefore he "must want it." Have you ever been excited without wanting to be though? (Read: Business meetings) It is still possible for a man to be sexually taken advantage by a woman. Techincally he doesn't even have to get hard!
 
2006-12-17 01:46:22 AM
dammit wrong spelling of username!

bah.

Anyway, I think society's expectations about what it means to be a "man" need to drastically change before male rape victims will ever be taken seriously enough.

But I'm just a ball-breaking feminist, or something.
 
2006-12-17 01:46:25 AM
Lamune_Baba: If you use the same standards applied to female cases...

Double standards? Never!

/you're right though
 
2006-12-17 01:47:46 AM
gradatim: Is it even possible for a man to be raped by a woman? And even if it is possible, who's going to listen to him if he complains?

images.google.com

She broke my beeper...
 
2006-12-17 01:50:55 AM
Polyhazard
But I'm just a ball-breaking feminist, or something.

I'm sorry I beat you to the morning wood comment!

/fears the strap-on
 
2006-12-17 01:58:42 AM
She had my balls in a vice, but she left the dick
I guess its still hooked on, but now it shoots too quick

Oh God I am the american dream
But now I smell like vaseline
An Im a miserable sonofabiatch
Am I a boy or a lady...i dont know which
 
2006-12-17 02:05:04 AM
Lamune_Baba

AAA Meeting

OPERATOR: Hello, this is Triple A. What seems to be the problem?

CLIENT: I'm at 42842 27th street. Some fatty wouldn't let me say no last night, and now I want to kill myself. Could you talk me out of it?
 
2006-12-17 02:06:31 AM
2006-12-17 01:39:05 AM Churchill2004
How exactly did that work? Wouldn't he have to be pretty aware of what was going on to get it up?


(Other people have already has made good points about the cause and effect of getting hard.)

The awful thing about the situation is that she kept him drugged enough that he was too out of it to fight back... but didn't give him enough drugs such that he was, um, unservicable or enough drugs that he didn't remember the event. Before he really realized what she was doing, she strapped him into a chair in the shower room and then had her way with him. So yeah, he was unable to fight back and he remembers it all.

I imagine it might even be worse for a guy. On top of the psychological trauma, your own body "betrays" you. That must be difficult to deal with.
 
2006-12-17 02:08:56 AM
The article is about a male rapist who is raping other males. And yes, I can imagine that sort of thing might be underreported.
 
2006-12-17 02:11:20 AM
www.weine.se
 
2006-12-17 02:17:30 AM
What's the Over/Under on how many posters actually RTFA? I'd set it around 3.



/Take the under
 
2006-12-17 02:18:33 AM
Okay, so that should have been AA. Not AAA. Too many A's, not enough drinking.

Though that would have been an interesting way to start a meeting with your auto club, too..
 
2006-12-17 02:21:00 AM
Your Fairy Hockey Player
read it, and it looks like you and sabrina50 did too, so that's 3 right there.
 
2006-12-17 02:25:37 AM
Your Fairy Hockey Player
What's the Over/Under on how many posters actually RTFA? I'd set it around 3.

I'm sure people read it, it's just an opportunity for some guys to sit here and complain about how they've been relegated to second-class citizens by some evil girls and their lawyers and the ACLU.

You know the drill.
 
2006-12-17 02:26:34 AM
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2006-12-17 02:27:06 AM
I dunno, I imagine that unless it was a really ugly/nasty/fat/etc. chick doing it it's better to have your thing put in her stuff against your consent than someone's thing in your stuff against your consent. If that made any sense. A man raping a man is very bad though, yes.
 
2006-12-17 02:38:35 AM
Guess the perp should have bought his victims a drink first.
 
2006-12-17 02:52:38 AM
I know of a guy that was raped by a male coworker. This is 20 years ago, but the guy in question was a skinny white kid about 15 that worked at a movie theater with a large black man named Oz. Oz invited our little friend over to his place for some beers, which turned out to be several. When this guy was puking his guts out in the toilet, Oz raped him. Did not report it or seek vengeance.
 
2006-12-17 03:10:54 AM
Victim: A woman raped me.
Cops: Was she hot?
 
2006-12-17 03:15:30 AM
this is a shockingly morose thread.

I've had a few encounters while drunk where a girl wants to go and I'm not really feeling it but I go anyways. I guess I felt taken advantage of afterwards, but as much by my own body as by the girl. That's not exactly rape. More like a low-intensity university residence sexual assault.

I'm a male slut, I know.

And TFA is about male on male rape. Which is no laughing matter, unless you're raping a clown.
 
2006-12-17 03:23:02 AM
sorhed: And TFA is about male on male rape. Which is no laughing matter, unless you're raping a clown.

That sounds like it would be a Dave Attell joke.
 
2006-12-17 03:27:44 AM
i've heard of some BIG GIRLS that basically demand sex from their scared-shiatless boyfriends. that seems about like rape to me.
 
zjz
2006-12-17 03:36:27 AM
A friend of mine woke up in the middle of a girl having intercourse with him. He tried to stop her, but he was too intoxicated to do anything about it. She ended up getting pregnant from it. I consider that rape. Agree?
 
2006-12-17 03:57:08 AM
Does anyone else notice the deafening silence from the usual Fark crowd posters ? Almost no postings about the actual article, ie: male-on-male rape.

You can almost hear the throat-clearings and uncomfortable seat-shiftings.
 
2006-12-17 04:06:10 AM
zjz: A friend of mine woke up in the middle of a girl having intercourse with him. He tried to stop her, but he was too intoxicated to do anything about it. She ended up getting pregnant from it. I consider that rape. Agree?

Aye...problrm is, the rape is completely separate from the child support. So even if he wins, he looses.

Take the door off you microwave, turn it on for 20, and hump the mofo while it's spinning.

If anything comes out of that, they better abort the twisted 93 chromosone mutant.
 
2006-12-17 04:12:34 AM
anyone whos ever been to prison has been anal raped(unless hey are a fag and consented)
 
2006-12-17 04:23:55 AM
Polyhazard: I'm sure people read it, it's just an opportunity for some guys to sit here and complain about how they've been relegated to second-class citizens by some evil girls and their lawyers and the ACLU.

You know the drill.



Indeed. I do find it rather ironic that these days, in the battle of the sexes (or rather "the gender war") it is the women shouting down men as whiny wimps whereas in the 50s-70s it was men railing against women fighting for equality in work/laws etc. calling them whiny biatches.
 
2006-12-17 04:24:11 AM
I woke up one time with a chick I met at a bar riding around on top of me like she was trying out for the local rodeo.

Was that rape? Probably since I don't seem to recall leaving the bar, going home, or taking off my pants. I certainly didn't recall any intent to have sex with the woman, especially considering at the time I was 100% faithful to my girlfriend of 5 years.

Thankfully I suppose, I am a guy, so I was able to physically push the skanky ass ho off of me and kick her out of my apartment. I didn't call the police, but in retrospect I should have because she probably could have made a claim to them that I had raped her - lets admit it, our system is horribly biased. I did end up having a battery of tests done on me to make sure I didn't catch any STD's from her and I did the "right thing" and told my girlfriend about it since I didn't know at the time if I was say, carrying around a case of HIV or something less deadly but equally as nasty.

My girlfriend of five years of course said she believed me at first, but then about two weeks later it comes out during an argument that she really didn't feel that way and we ended up breaking up over it because she was convinced that I had cheated on her. It seems she was under the impression (that a lot of people evidently are too) that there was no way I could "get it up" without wanting to have sex with the skeezer. I only wish that was true, because it probably would have saved me a huge pain in my life.

So, not only did this biatch take advantage of me while I was out cold, she made me live with the fear of having some nasty disease for a few weeks until I got all the tests back and she ruined a 5 year long relationship. Am I a little bitter? Maybe...

Um... so there you have it. Women definately do rape men and yes, men don't tend to report it - I wish i had in retrospect, if not for any other reason than for months afterwards I was wondering if she was going to charge me. I ended up not reporting it because I felt like if I didn't rock the boat then maybe I wouldn't be in the position of being a defendant instead of a plaintiff because in my mind there was no way the police would believe my version of the events.

Oh well... I guess I should just be glad I've never been butt farked.
 
2006-12-17 04:40:26 AM
lol never throw a woman off you no matter what... at least you could have got a piece of ars out of ruining your life ;P
 
2006-12-17 04:42:37 AM
Dad?
 
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